knoekie Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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2	What are some things that make you feel confident before you go out? I love to feel good.. So it helps if I'm wearing new clothes and/or shoes.. and music helps too. For me it's 90s music, because this always makes me happy :)	/r/seduction	03/09/13 12:44 PM
1	Do I have to change my personality (Normally very shy) to get girls? I don't think you should change your personality.. so don't ignore the things you like. But you could maybe become less shy. I wouldn't do this by pretending you like stuff you don't, but adjusting it a bit. I hope you understand what I'm trying to say, because it depends on the changing part interpretation. I do think you will change, but I wouldn't call it that. I think it's a bit the same advise as the other people who are saying you should change your personality, just a different approach :…	/r/seduction	03/09/13 12:43 PM
1	How would you approach a girl in a situation where the music is so loud you probably wouldn't hear each other even if you were shouting in each other's ears? You're right.. My own comment made me think of the naked man but that's offcourse something totally different. I think dancing and kissing (with little talking) is still pretty hard to do. Not because it's impossible, but because you have to be good at 'the game'.. It's not only important to be confident but also to read other people.. I think that if this works for you, you must be doing good with girls in general :)	/r/seduction	26/06/13 06:10 AM
0	A simple but incredibly effective tip Theres a lot of difference smiles.. But the flirtious one is the best :) wink	/r/seduction	25/06/13 09:50 PM
1	How would you approach a girl in a situation where the music is so loud you probably wouldn't hear each other even if you were shouting in each other's ears? So you would first kiss and then talk?! Boy, maybe it's just me.. But I would slap you hard across the face! But hey, if it works 2 out of 3 times like 'the naked man'.. Just go for it ;)	/r/seduction	25/06/13 05:30 PM
1	How do you tell someone you're divorced? Okay, I think you should just be honest with her. Like I said, it's the same as having had a previous relationship, in your case some papers were signed, so what. Maybe not bring it up out of the blue, but I think this is something you van talk about honestly with your girlfriend (or date)	/r/seduction	25/06/13 05:28 PM
1	How do you tell someone you're divorced? Do you also have kids? And whats the reason you got divorced (don't need details just basic 'growing apart' or 'cheating' or 'marriage was a mistake')? I think the reason you would marry young and get divorced soon is maybe important in this story. If it's just a we were married but grew apart story I guess it's no problem to tell.. It's the same as a relationship that just didn't work out..	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:29 PM
1	How do you meet women after college? I would suggest to go do something you love. Maybe you can try a sport? I play volleybal and there are lots of girls and guys playing it..You don't have to be good at it, just be present! But you could also go to a bookclub or whatever other stuff you like. The bonus point is that you will have something in common and you have something to talk about :)	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:27 PM
1	How to stop letting older women use my young age as an excuse to reject me reading the comments I would suggest to brush it off with a joke.. When people ask me I try to give the most crazy answer like 15 of 50 or something like that :P	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:25 PM
1	How would you approach a girl in a situation where the music is so loud you probably wouldn't hear each other even if you were shouting in each other's ears? I think the makeout part is really hard to do so fast.. Maybe you can start to dance and suggest to go somewhere else (maybe outside) to talk there? Or try to get her phonenumber first?	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:23 PM
1	This is what happened today (thanks, Seddit) Congrats.. And remember, the worst thing that can happen is she won't give you her phonenumber, which you also wouldn't get if you don't approach her :)	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:22 PM
1	A simple but incredibly effective tip You're right offcourse.. However, I can still be happy in the street and smile without knowing someone could see this as flirting. But maybe I'm just weird.. I had friends laughing at me because lots of people have misinterpreted my smiles as flirting (even a girl once). ;)	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:20 PM
3	A simple but incredibly effective tip I think you're right.. I have a friend who has been dieting. But the funny thing is that she actually looks better not because she's thinner, but because she's more confident. She used to think her clothes didn't fit or make her look fat, and now she just enjoys wearing skirts and dressed and this makes her look more happy and more attractive :) So, keep on smiling and enjoy the girls that are coming to you!!	/r/seduction	25/06/13 02:19 PM
5	A simple but incredibly effective tip As a girl I just have to add that a smile doesn't have to mean that a girl is flirting with you. Whenever I go clubbing I'm always in a good mood (because otherwise I would've stayed at homer), and I'm always smiling and dancing and smiling. And a lot of time it happened that I guy came to me saying "we flirted a bit, do you want a drink", or "I saw you smiling, can I have your number", and that I had totally no clue that I even smiled at him. That being said, I think it's amazing how you're doi…	/r/seduction	25/06/13 10:17 AM
1	Paying for drinks/dinner/stuff- can someone talk about these logistics? I think it's cultural too. I'm from the Netherlands and I wouldn't mind paying for half, but I believe the expression 'going Dutch' (where everybody splits the bill) is maybe responsible for this. However, as a girl I would like the guy to suggest to pay, and then I would pay half anyway. It's the suggestion that's most important for me. But I must say I know there are lots of differences how girls react. I've seen lots of girls just accepting drinks from guys they don't like, just to get free d…	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:15 PM
1	Do I take it? I think you could decline, but accepting is always better. However, the more important thing is to say something and start a conversation. So if a girl offers you a cherry you could accept and compliment her on how generous she is, or how sweet the cherry is. Of if you'd decline you could explain that you're allergic to cherries and tell a story that you could eat one but that it would make you as red as the cherry itself (haha), or whatever :)	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:10 PM
1	Need Help at bars/partys/clubs I would still advise you to start talking. Try to avoid the "do you come here often" cliches, but it's always nice to start with a compliment. I think the best compliments are the ones that are specific because they sound more genuine. So don't just tell a girl she's pretty, but tell her that her dress makes her look stunning, or that her top is a perfect match with her beautiful eyes. This will give you a hint of her interest and if you'd think she likes it, try to dance a bit with her. If she …	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:05 PM
0	The pattern I always see I think girls flock to guys at the first moment just because they find someone attractive.. What you should do (if you're not one of those guys) is make yourself interesting. Give the girl a compliment, say something funny, or just show some interest in her.. This will make the girl shift her interest.	/r/seduction	18/06/13 01:01 PM
10	Do not try and weasel your way into her life. As a girl I have to add I hope you still give respect to the girls if they do have a boyfriend. I've been in the samen relationship for a while so sometimes it happens to me that a guy asks me if I have someone.. The thing I hate most is something that happened to me not once, but multiple times already. After the first question, the (possible) next question is "oh, so are you happy in your relationship?".. This is really not a nice question to ask. I'd get offended immediately. The other side i…	/r/seduction	18/06/13 12:58 PM