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PARENTINGknot_today_bich/r/RedPillWomen18/04/20 07:39 PM
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I second this book. Another one to look into is Lara Briden Period Repair manual or search her blog on PCOS. Great information on women’s health.
/r/RedPillWomen23/03/22 04:02 AM
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Have you figured out his "love language?" My husband sounds a bit like yours, once I figured out what he really liked, I felt like more secure in the relationship.
/r/RedPillWomen24/05/20 07:46 PM
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Yes- that too!
/r/RedPillWomen23/05/20 06:53 PM
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I'm a psych nurse and have cared for many people with BPD and had my own challenges. You are still young enough and have enough insight and motivation to stay on top of it. Find a good DBT group therapy or start out on a DBT work book. It seems that you have a lot of knowledge but give this time and maybe get a second opinion before you identify as "a person with BPD" - don't fall into the trap of making that apart of who you are and letting a diagnosis write your book.
/r/RedPillWomen22/05/20 01:18 PM
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I think the biggest things positive things I observed from my husband was 1. consistency in doing what he said he would do A) called and texted back B) showed up on time C) pays his bills on time D) did not call into work unless he was legit sick 2. considerate type behaviors A) picked up after himself and organized B) thoughtful, would look for ways to help me or make me smile C) would listen to my thoughts and feelings, we had conversations and not just him talking D) helped others when he cou…
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/20 07:32 PM
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Also- less laundry to fold and put away!
/r/RedPillWomen04/05/20 02:41 AM
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Thanks for clarifying
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 11:27 PM
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I wish you hadnt removed your post. This was a very valid question and I think important for TRP to address.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/20 09:56 PM
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Solid advice given here but I just wanted to add that I wouldn't wait until it comes up again. If you wait, I think it takes away from the seriousness of it and you end up runinating. If you need conversation starters, "The other day you mentioned that I was riding the cock carousel. (Then add your thoughts and feelings here) this is also info gathering, what did his comment really mean, is he really degrading you, immature, thoughtless, is he humble and apologizes, is he willing to listen or do…
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 05:08 AM
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Regarding the lack of sex.... what helped me in this department was understanding that sexual attention is a way that men experience validation and love. I have also noticed that if my husband hasn't received attention he is more irritable, easily angered and frustrated in general. He also sleeps better and doesn't get sick as often. I would even argue that it is as essential to a man as eating healthy and exercising. Some women, myself included, only feel the biological need to have sex around …
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/20 01:32 AM
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I am down with teaching emotional identification and regulation. I am concerned about emotions becoming an all important focus above behaving appropriately and respectfully which I see more of these days.
/r/RedPillWomen23/04/20 07:50 PM
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This right here. Insta models are still porn. This is detrimental to relationships and families. Its a huge red flag and if he doesnt see it as a problem now I doubt he will ever see it as a problem. Honestly it should be a pre-req to dating type question. The social acceptance is too high to hope to overcome.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 09:12 PM
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This perspective definitely takes the pressure off, thank you
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/20 01:57 AM
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I work in psych currently, though I've worked medical in the past. Thankfully, we do not have any COVID cases yet. Hope you and yours are safe as well.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/20 10:24 PM
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I wouldn't let it bother you, I am a nurse myself and nursing culture can be very crude. We see others personal lives so much that some of us forget personal boundaries.
/r/RedPillWomen15/04/20 12:47 PM
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You scare guys that are afraid of commitment.
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 04:23 AM
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That's wonderful. Online dating is a great way to cut through the malarkey. I've been married to my husband for 7 years now, we have a great life and wonderful kids. I wish you the same.
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 01:26 PM
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I had this issue too. I used a dating site, and when in the intial first contact stages I would ask what they were looking for, explicitly asking, "are you looking for a serious relationship leading to marriage or just casual dating"
/r/RedPillWomen04/04/20 09:08 AM
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Solid advice here.
/r/RedPillWomen28/03/20 05:49 AM
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