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| 3 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowIt means you're willing to exert the effort necessary, no matter WHAT, to shape and guide and assist them in the way you know best so that they can find success and lead a social life independently from you when you're gone. That includes being an example as well as explaining your ways. A good wife helps with that, too. It's your purpose. If they're disabled, you seek professional help, etc. | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/18 03:46 PM |
| 1 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to Know:) | /r/TheRedPill | 11/03/18 03:45 PM |
| 28 | LTR: The Bare Minimum You Need to KnowIt's not about pedestal or not. It's about the responsibility you claim over them. A wife can cross a line of no return. A child cannot. | /r/TheRedPill | 10/03/18 07:39 PM |
| 1 | InfectionI love you | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 05:14 AM |
| 1 | HB9 tells me "I used to get up to no good"Go for it | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 02:31 AM |
| 1 | Trying to enter monk mode.... having trouble with discplineRead meditations by Marcus Aurelius, just getting through the dense material is discipline demanding | /r/askTRP | 13/01/18 01:35 AM |
| 13 | Date has plans for after date.I'm hard just reading this | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 02:28 AM |
| 1 | Quickest way to get over heartbreak?Heartbreak is the same thing as getting mad when you drop a Rolex and it breaks. You had an expectation that didn't line up with reality. We can only attract | /r/askTRP | 11/01/18 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Translate this to plain EnglishIf you aren't the type of guy who presents himself (hopefully from the point of realistic belief) as being able to get what he wants including girls and as being able to say no to what you don't want (which she is wired to be sensitive to you being able to do as this makes you a more suitable mate) then she will know you're not this type of guy. A move like what I explained is what a type of guy like this would do and is the frame that you maintain as one of these guys. Break it, and you're seen… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 05:24 PM |
| 2 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?Think of why and what it means. Constantly ask what does this mean and why to the voice in your head. You feel less than adequate about something? Okay, what is that feeling? It's a judgement. You judge yourself as less than suitable for something. Okay, why? Are You? Why? Are you not? Then why are you feeling this? Is this feeling a method for your mind to be lazy and not do the thing? Is it using false fear if you are in fact not rationally less than adequate for something? Let's correct it an… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 04:57 AM |
| 5 | Translate this to plain EnglishBe mindful of your general frame though, or shell call yours, especially if you break it soon after successfully calling her bluff | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Building upper chest?If incline only feels like shoulders, reverse grip bench/ low angle flyes, like 2-3 times a week for 4 sets of 15 | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:54 AM |
| 8 | Translate this to plain EnglishI dated a girl who started that way. In the bedroom, when we finally got to that she wanted to control it and only make out and feel. I found that out on the bed, as I m9ved to remove things. Rolled over and said okay and pulled a Mystery and turned on the lights to put my shoes on. She begged for me after | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:52 AM |
| 1 | Having trouble understanding how to be a good father without being a little bitchYou be an example and set boundaries. You be an example by being the things a good man is, and that's a good listener and observer. You notice the child's strengths and weaknesses, you let them experiment and grow within boundaries, and you reward positive traits while letting harming ones die away. You teach with reason, providing understanding in a context your child can thrive processing when confronting harmful behavior in replacement of punishment. You raise them with manners and the traits… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:36 AM |
| 2 | Lifters of /asktrp, what is your diet? I need some easy to cook, staple-type meals with recipes / instructions.It's not the type of food, it's the amount. Then it's the macro breakdown. Are you redpill? Let me know and ill teach you to calculate a calorie count and macro distribution as well as teach you how to measure it daily for yourself. I'll also teach you how to pick foods that match your macro needs based on your budget. Not redpill? Okay take the easy route that doesn't involve this work required for the fastest path to body goals Alternatives are "diets" (not calibrated to your height, weight, a… | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:33 AM |
| 2 | My last big issue: EXTREME negative-self talk. Any resource to deal with it?Negative visualization, and extracting core beliefs out of the self talk. Thought pattern = habit/emotion. Stems from a belief statement. Force think your way to the bottom of the core belief statement that's unrealistic and adjust it. Then focus on monitoring your thoughts. When you notice the pattern emerge, re-state the modified realistic belief. Soon your thought patterns will adjust with it. That's when you don't stop. You don't ever stop. | /r/askTRP | 09/01/18 02:30 AM |
| 2 | How much time do you invest in working out?5 days a week lifting for 1.25hrs and 4 days a week with 2 hour lacrosse practice | /r/askTRP | 08/01/18 05:13 PM |
| 1 | I'm partly to blame for having been gone a year, but are girls really this fucked in the head?Not messed up in the head, you are until you accept it You owned nothing and never will. You attract, not possess | /r/askTRP | 07/01/18 04:40 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYou wouldn't understand Hitler if you hate him, just like you don't know yourself if you hate yourself, rather you know an expectation | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 06:49 PM |
| 3 | Sometimes I prefer gaming new girls than having sex. Am I the only one?This means nothing. It's the male drive to spread sperm to as many mates as possible and increase genetic fitness in doing so | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 03:12 AM |
| 4 | Is it feminine or "beta" for a male to carry around mace (tear gas defense spray) ?Have you? | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 03:11 AM |
| 1 | Bulking/cutting advice11% then leanbulk | /r/askTRP | 05/01/18 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaBeen suggesting that to my own mom for about 10 years now. Her brother's been doing the same for about 30.... Best of luck | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:51 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaI'm saying hate comes from rejecting something. If you understand all sides of it you don't reject it because it's understood | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaThe hate would come from a lack of understanding of evolutionary biology | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYeah, there's a lot of people here I think that only read and haven't practiced much so look at things in a more "academic" (lol) way. She might have a neurochemical imbalance leading to her behavioral issues. Not everything stems from sexual competition. Go see a psychiatrist with her if possible. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:08 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaWhat makes you hate them for it | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 07:07 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYou can't understand and hate | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaIt's also mine, it's acceptance and understanding A why is a rejection founded in fear | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:39 AM |
| 1 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaDefine love | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:29 AM |
| 2 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaOh, yeah if her beliefs are leading to an inability to function at a healthy level in society, professional psychological or psychiatric help is the way to go | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 09:29 AM |
| 11 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYou want to control her not help her. Accept her and love her and you'll help her. Love means understand and accept, not use and expect | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:34 AM |
| 5 | Mothers will do all they can took keep you betaYou're the sick one, lost in a dream. Accept people for who they are and love them. | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 06:33 AM |
| 2 | I still have a hard time accepting she is not mine it's just my turnShe will still preference someone with higher smv over him, and if she's hot enough she won't be left alone much | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 02:09 AM |
| 1 | How to find a redpilled shrink?CBT | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 01:16 AM |
| 9 | How to find a redpilled shrink?Redpill is cognitive behavioral therapy self done | /r/askTRP | 04/01/18 12:33 AM |
| 11 | What would you do if someone catcalls your gf?You too | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 10:25 PM |
| -1 | Why do women go back to men who beat them?Really? | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Struggling with Anger"By how shitty and true" Not shitty AND true, just true. What is shitty? It's an adjective to describe something. It's an expression of an opinion, based on a judgement, based on a reaction, based on an expectation. An expectation that the world should be a certain way and it's not. A failure to accept that and a reaction of anger founded in immaturity. You never swallowed the pill, you looked for a reason to get mad because you want to play god and tell the world how it should be. You don't kno… | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 06:31 AM |
| 5 | Did my wife cheat on me? If so where to go from hereIt's a joke, your comment is funny though | /r/askTRP | 03/01/18 12:56 AM |
| 1 | Affordable weight-gaining diet?Yeah, so go for complex carbs throughout the day before a workout. Simple carbs right before and after a workout then more protein stuff after a workout. Mix protein with all your meals. I have like 7 feedings a day, usually oatmeal/brown rice with eggs or some meat, then before a workout toast with honey and a whey shake and after a workout frozen fruit, honey, and whey in a shake. Those two before and after the workout digest super quickly as fast carbs/whey. The others are long lasting energy… | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:53 PM |
| 1 | How does a RP man think through out his day?It's essentially this. Idk reread the post it's the opposite of the red pill almost entirely | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:50 PM |
| 1 | Did my wife cheat on me? If so where to go from hereThe downvotes lmfao. Really belongs in am insecure men's group lol | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 11:49 PM |
| 1 | How does a RP man think through out his day?The ultimate bitch question | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Attractive girl is backLel | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Affordable weight-gaining diet?What're your lifts | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:29 PM |
| 6 | Affordable weight-gaining diet?Carbs: oats, rice sack from asian grocery store, potatoes, frozen fruit bags, protein loaded cheerios Fat primaries: Whole milk, coconut oil, eggs, almonds, parmesan cheese Proteins: black beans, garbanzo beans, any beans, tuna cans, chicken thighs | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 06:29 PM |
| 1 | Did my wife cheat on me? If so where to go from hereIt's a marriage just scare her a little, trap her in the basement for a year or two to show her you're red pilling and not fucking around. I'd next her but she's your property already so teach her a lesson instead.... | /r/askTRP | 02/01/18 05:41 PM |
| 6 | Anyone here done a complete 180 since finding TRP, women-wise?Dude don't lift for girls | /r/askTRP | 30/12/17 01:03 PM |
| 1 | New to Tinder, could someone help me out?I usually call them a scrub and stuff | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 06:33 AM |
| 1 | I need more basic help than TRP. Where can I learn about basic human social interaction?Read in this order: how to win friends and influence people, way of the superior man, Meditations by marcus aurelius, Siddhartha by Herman Hesse That'll give you a layout of some basics of interaction, of reasonable attraction, of decision making, then of how not to take it so seriously | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:39 AM |
| 3 | I need more basic help than TRP. Where can I learn about basic human social interaction?He still needs some reassurance to build confidence. Confidence comes from repetitive successful attempts. He thinks critically a lot and can gain some superficial confidence that'll springboard him forward by our approval of his assessment cause that's how he's spent a lot of his time learning (AND BEING A PUSSY!). Op I think you were more than right and should continue to trust your instincts but not try to increase the intensity of them. Keep using common sense and do what feels right. People… | /r/askTRP | 29/12/17 03:27 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?Ammo | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 04:14 AM |
| 1 | How do I stop my friend from fucking up his life?But you can murder the horse and eat it and use its skin for clothes and bones for tools and fat for fuel and blood for war paint | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 03:16 AM |
| 12 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?Expensive | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 02:47 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give to someone who is looking for hobbies but can't seem to get interested in anything?Powerlifting | /r/askTRP | 28/12/17 02:47 AM |
| 2 | Girlfriend texting another guyIs that what happened? | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 05:24 PM |
| 1 | Beginner starting to lift, best place to beginJoin me at r/nSuns Pm me for questions and programming suggestions/ help Starting Strength will teach you basic movements and nothing more for what an untrained body can actually handle and benefit from, SL5x5 will make you look like a trex. Feel free to ask about diet advice as well. For reference I play college lacrosse and do powerlifting | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 01:00 AM |
| 1 | How do you guys cope with plugged in people?If it's hard you've just replugged yourself with a memory | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 12:58 AM |
| 5 | Girlfriend texting another guyReally aggressive text but agree with the logic | /r/askTRP | 26/12/17 12:55 AM |
| 1 | Brutal TRP wisdom from Arthur SchopenhauerLet's not get white trash on this now | /r/TheRedPill | 25/12/17 11:19 PM |
| 1 | What is trps view on giving gifts ?You give gifts because you care about others. If you want to be egotistical and analytical about it, it subconsciously demonstrates having a lot and giving because you take care of others. Aka benevolent king type thing. But just be natural. It comes natural if you aren't overthinking everything. It's the right thing to do in a social animal sense | /r/askTRP | 25/12/17 07:29 PM |
| 2 | She said she didn't want to be the girl i used for sex.Every time you do something right you buy a small bit of a chance to get things wrong once, but it all gets spent easily so learn fast | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:45 PM |
| 1 | I created a community for pessimistic people to become positive.I want to be a part please, I'm surrounded by negative people in my family and it's rotting me | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:26 PM |
| 2 | Brutal Honesty: is it worth trying to get girls if you are extremely skinny?Lel | /r/askTRP | 24/12/17 11:25 PM |
| 1 | TRP made my life more successful, but I'm depressed as everIt's about the most useless way of saying the right thing | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 05:35 AM |
| 1 | TRP made my life more successful, but I'm depressed as everYou never swallowed the red pill, you're still trying to prove something that doesn't exist, you're egotistical, and you're angry about something because you expect it to be something it's not because you want to control it And the delusion that this is the red pill, or reality and the acceptance of it, is clashing with what you know to be right and are denying. We are social creatures, some of us are born cheaters, and you are not. Be you, be useful, and be happy. You're not useful at all right… | /r/askTRP | 23/12/17 05:30 AM |
| 8 | Tips on Growing Thick SkinRead "Meditations" by Marcus Aurelius. You'll realize the truth of reality, how to accept it, and how to be stern with yourself while being understanding (not delusional) with others. | /r/askTRP | 22/12/17 12:59 AM |
| 0 | Quick question on eye contactThis is a fucking joke. Get out of your head, you're staring at someone hard. That's uncomfortable. You have 0 empathy | /r/askTRP | 21/12/17 02:40 AM |
| 3 | She invited me for coffee on her lunch break(engaged woman). How should i proceed?Really appreciate accurate bodybuilding on this sub | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 02:06 AM |
| 2 | She invited me for coffee on her lunch break(engaged woman). How should i proceed?No such thing | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 02:05 AM |
| 1 | What would you do if you were the "beta" in a group of longtime friends?Little by little | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 02:00 AM |
| 2 | Finally broke up with LTR but we still live together — what to do next?You give her a 2 week kick out period. This world is your experience, not your prison. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/17 01:58 AM |
| 2 | Lack of disciplineSo do everything in your power to become as proficient and involved in what you're studying as possible, and find ways to relate the things that you enjoy to it so that as you peak in your life these things are culminated and related and encompass who you are. Honestly, the vision should be more of an ethereal essence than a tangible one because you should shape the world surrounding you by putting everything into what you both enjoy and are good at. I'm not sure what your PhD is going to be in,… | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Lack of disciplineWhat are you good at? | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 07:11 PM |
| 2 | Roadblock on tinderI'd send a "Oh yeah." Then I'd send another one that just says "Snap" asking for snapchat That nervousness is stopping you from being you. She's into it. So get her. The nervousness is fear of losing that connection, which manifests itself in lack of initiative. It's a self fulfilling prophecy of believing you by default aren't under the possession of many women and attractions. Switch it around and you'll find yourself asking for what you want. It's the idea of she's not mine and I want her to … | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 06:37 PM |
| 2 | Lack of disciplineThere is no sense of urgency that comes to you. It's called purpose, and you need to find one. You look to what you're good at that makes you the most useful human you can be. Then you do that thing dutifully, feel fulfilled in it, attract women, and automatically seek ways to preserve this through fitness etc (Aka sense of urgency) as you traverse the stages of life in attempt to remain useful | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 06:36 PM |
| -2 | Feel no purpose, Feel let down by people. Imposter syndrome. What do i do?Lel women can learn and apply objective research, they're human | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Should I ignore illness (eating disorder) in a LTR?One day, she won't be hot. But she will habe the root misbeliefs that will only become reinforced. And she won't look to herself to change. She'll displace it, onto the easiest thing available, which isn't vomiting anymore. It's likely you, and it will ruin your relationship | /r/askTRP | 19/12/17 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late to plate?You could try waiting some time so you don't seem needy, or work off something she found attractive/ emotionally high | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 10:49 PM |
| 1 | Is it too late to plate?You need to give her a reason to prioritize you among the others she's clearly way more into | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 07:27 PM |
| 2 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?By they you mean women right? Also I agree | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Looking for professional/hobby advice from older genWork for later | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:32 PM |
| 3 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Thats the goal stated, but all of the efforts here are interdependent | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:27 PM |
| 2 | Why make plating the goal? Isn't LTR with kids the endgame?Yep lol | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 06:02 PM |
| 2 | What particular social and psychological skills do men surpass females in?You coexist in the dance of surrender | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 08:12 AM |
| 1 | In a Financial Hole and need helpYou have to keep your priorities clear, and you have to understand the reason for their order from a rational lens | /r/askTRP | 14/12/17 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Get iois but dont know hot to proceedTake a basic animal behavior course and you'll learn that males are the prize for women, but women are the limiting sex. They have a fraction of the eggs we do sperm. The dynamic this creates is one of competition for males where females limit it by choice. By whatever means whether awareness is present or not, it's our mating style. Is this delusion that you have to repress yourself not a way sift out the less fit? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 04:34 PM |
| 2 | My girlfriend texts her "best guy friend" multiple times a weekThanks papi | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 04:31 PM |
| 1 | My girlfriend texts her "best guy friend" multiple times a weekWow, you sound really pro | /r/askTRP | 13/12/17 02:46 AM |
| 1 | How do you know when you're good enough for a chick?You're intrinsically good enough for a chick. Those external things about you say nothing about why you've adorned them. You will have chicks once all of those things you do are the fruition of the realization that you alone are good enough for a chick. So you do them not to get a girl, but because you're just representing how you see yourself. See the difference? The external is cool and will get her to notice you, but as soon as she sees that you're dressing and self aware of your qualities fo… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 10:11 PM |
| 2 | When I see any hints that Im a plan B for a girl I fucking bounce. Everytime.Well, my suggestion for your initial post is to do what you find to me most rational given that you aren't trying to protect anything in your choice to "next" at a hint of interest elsewhere. It's a vague description and could be healthy or not depending on the circumstances. Otherwise, be careful that this post, your replies, and the behavior they have in subject aren't defensive | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 12:12 PM |
| 2 | One of the hottest girls I've ever seen wants to fuck but I have an ltr not sure what to doYou need to ask yourself why you want to stick with ltr and then why you want the hb. Look carefully at ltr. Don't be a pussy :) | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 10:51 AM |
| 1 | When I see any hints that Im a plan B for a girl I fucking bounce. Everytime.You don't need to please everyone, this is a form of procrastination, fear, running, whatever you want to call it. Your focus is external with the guise of it being internal | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 10:49 AM |
| 4 | LTR texting exThe concept of wanting to salvage whatever it is you're imagining could or does exist from a gesture of disrespect just demonstrates that you see yourself as needy and permises her to continue. You have by this very dynamic invited and permitted her disrespectful behavior upon yourself and are now forced to next her if you want to red pill or continue your dream by blue pilling. One mistake isn't a mistake, it's a choice to live a dream, and with it the consequences. She will reflect your choice… | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 10:39 AM |
| 1 | How do you know when you're good enough for a chick?This is the kind of post a girl makes to look good for a guy | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 09:57 AM |
| 1 | Met up with a chick who's in an open marriageAs are they his | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 09:56 AM |
| 1 | Drinking habits and missing out.Look up phenibut if you want to keep crutching for your weakness while still making aesthetic goals progress. Otherwise, practice day game much more and organize your life a bit more with controlled diet and exercise. Steer the ship. | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:59 AM |
| 2 | What the hell do I do while grinding?Kiss neck, hold hips, turn her around, look into eyes for half second, make out | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:58 AM |
| 1 | I had swallowed the red pill a few years ago but then fell back into the trap again. Where to begin?Get meds, re-read rp books, go through meditations by Aurelius, set up a schedule and declutter your goals/plans, structure your workouts to suit your goals, and discipline through the rest with a clearer head and a long term mindset | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:57 AM |
| 2 | Need to drink to feel as outgoing and charismatic as I used to be, how can I lower inhibitions without turning to the bottle?Only asking because I powerlift and get no relief from anxious stress, but when I'm on season for lacrosse all the cardio makes it go away for the most part | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:52 AM |
| 1 | LTRd celebrity girl, how to not slip into old habbitsThere we go | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:34 AM |
| 1 | Need to drink to feel as outgoing and charismatic as I used to be, how can I lower inhibitions without turning to the bottle?Cardio? Or weights? | /r/askTRP | 12/12/17 08:28 AM |
| 1 | TRP’ers who have experience with escorts - how was it?It's because it's antisocial | /r/askTRP | 07/12/17 03:20 AM |
| 2 | "What are we gonna do"Be absurd and funny, but mostly Netflix and chill wink | /r/askTRP | 07/02/17 03:26 PM |
| 1 | Does holding frame around an immature, loud, but funny and popular, friend make me look too serious?I'm smarter than you | /r/askTRP | 13/01/17 07:30 AM |
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