I’ve said this tons of times. There’s no point to it, and you’re willingly signing up to be a second option. Did it twice, there won’t be a third time. You don’t want to end up paying for another man’s responsibility, whether that be with your time or money. Their kids come first, as they should, but I’d rather date someone who’s going to make me a priority and have energy for me. Also assuming her kid’s father is in the picture, who wants to knowingly have their time possibly jeopardized by a j…
1.) you’re never gonna be a priority to them. At best you’re third behind the kid (who should be first), her ex husband or kids father (assuming he’s still in the picture), and herself. And you’re getting her at like 50% at best after she’s wiped out from work and dealing with the kid and such. 2. Men aren’t biologically wired to raise another man’s kid. 3. Dating a SM kills all sexual spontaneity.
Do NOT date single moms, you might need to expand your social circle and or get your travel on. I’ve dated two single moms and it didn’t go well with both. There’s no point, it’s absolutely a zero sum game.
They actually do and they end up resenting them for not being responsible enough. Seen this too many times in real life. The problem is that "alpha males" or whatever we want to call them dont really want a woman who is going to out-alpha them. After a long day at work, you just want to relax.
Because they’re willingly walking into a situation where the odds are stacked against them. It’s a lame situation to be in having done it twice, so I can speak from experience. If you can find a woman who offers the same stuff with no kids and no mess, why wouldn’t you chose her over a single mom who you wouldn’t be a first priority to?
Exactly. I’ve always had this in mind when talking to women for better or for worse. I hated when they insulted my intelligence and acted like this wasn’t the case.
New York Times article about OF and how it’s not all it’s cracked up to be. On top of whatever paltry funds these girls make, OF takes a 20% cut. Wish I thought of it.
In my personal experience, women absolutely cannot admit that other women have character flaws. It’s like they turn into lawyers trying to defend them and always circle it back to something that a man did, instead of just admitting that women can be shitty people too.
The fact that this is even being questioned lets you know that there needs to be a reset for men in society. No way shape or form should this be acceptable.
IMO you should always assume that’s the case. It’s not anyone’s fault - women typically have more options than we do. And there’s always a dude from their past or someone that they have history with in their ear more often than not. It’s all a numbers game so just keep talking to women as much as you’re comfortable with during this time of co-vid.
Dude you’ve never lied. I went on a date with this girl, some nurse/female empowerment coach. Whatever that means. Date went well, we scheduled a second one. She double booked and said she’d get back to me. She didn’t, so I texted her just to make sure I covered my bases. No response. I unfollowed her because my gut told me she just wanted me to follow her profile. Like just get a life.
Agreed. My approach is that looks fade so she better have a personality or hobbies or something. It sounds harsh but it’s very true. On top of that, a lot of beautiful women have that one insecurity or hang up that they can’t get over. Or maybe they know their looks will go one day and fear it and losing their desirability. Besides, if you’re date one pretty girl, you can ALWAYS get another one.
