kobenhavn Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
17	Any interest in a Sydney Lair?		kobenhavn	/r/seduction	01/07/12 10:02 AM
5	For every guy asking for advice. This is the answer you need...		kobenhavn	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:00 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
7	Whenever I'm around guys that seem more "alpha" than me, I turn beta as shit. Beta's are value seekers in certain situations. So the beta's seek value from the Alpha's so they can be perceived as being connected to the leader of the group. Just start giving everyone value, by saying things like: "you're cool man" "that's awesome bro" etc... hopefully you get the idea. GIVE VALUE - say statements that makes other people feel good and you may start to feel like the alpha again.	/r/seduction	21/10/12 07:09 AM
1	19 years old, weird problem with my game. ja	/r/seduction	28/07/12 03:41 AM
1	Men of Reddit, Is Being Called a Dork a Good Thing? Let me ask you a question. Are you well spoken? If this wasn't a problem then you wouldn't be asking, since she's calling you a dork not a player then I would almost guess you gotta sort this out. I never get called a dork, I could be talking about the dorkiest thing in the world and most chicks think it's cool because i think it's cool. They NEVER say i am a dork. What do you think the 'dork' term is derived from? The stories you tell or the way you speak?	/r/seduction	27/07/12 05:37 PM
1	Best way to utilise pay rise / promotion Yeah you can use it. It's just a conversation DHV thread. It won't get you laid, but if you tell a girl enthusiastically and not like your bragging, it then becomes a cool story.	/r/seduction	27/07/12 04:21 PM
1	19 years old, weird problem with my game. Honesty just google Tyler Durden from RSD. He's the guy you need to check out. I'm not pluggin him but he can talk non-stop and doesnt give a flying fuck. He's one cool fucking dude.	/r/seduction	27/07/12 04:17 PM
4	Feeling weird and guilty about sex Don't... Just fucking don't. Honestly, we are all people and we all make decisions. You made yours and the females in this world make theirs. Be a person who allows other people to make their own decisions. By being guilty you accept responsibility for others. You should never do that. Only ever accept 100% responsibility for yourself, no exceptions.	/r/seduction	27/07/12 04:14 PM
3	Any Speed Seducers on Seddit? The best thing to learn from all that SS stuff is the way they place certain focus on words, tone and body language. Essentially you are going in and out of trances everyday( it's normal life). Patterns are a normal part of life, but what SS teaches is how to finely tune these normal patterns we go into for the specific purpose of picking up girls. You still need to go out and be social, but his patterns give you a leg up to that connection building and seduction part. BUT as I've found, after a…	/r/seduction	27/07/12 05:52 AM
1	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. Yeah, I've just gone a little bit off from approaching them. But, this week i'm gunna take your advice and spend a bit of extra attention in that area of my approach. Thanks dude.	/r/seduction	22/07/12 05:22 PM
1	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. I think you took the DLV comment out of context, mainly because you followed up with your response talking about how imseanpatrick should find a way to relate. Which sums up what i said. To clarify we know that DLV means 'Demonstration of Lower Value'. Any guy who is really centered can DLV himself and not be concerned what others think. My point was that if the girls think they are out of his league, then drop down to a relate able level, then raise them up with him. But I do agree with your co…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 05:20 PM
1	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. Yeah, I've just been trying to work on my approach and staying out of my head (you know when you try to think of what to say you've pretty much done). The approach I've been using to which it has open 99% of sets is "Hi, My name is kobenhavn" *throws hand out to shake. But I've been approaching only 2-3 sets. no mixed sets. Any tips on approaching mixed sets?	/r/seduction	22/07/12 04:39 PM
1	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. Thanks dude. Fair enough, you seem like you know what you want. I get what you mean why letting it simmer, but just recently because I'm in a state of urgency I've been striking while the iron is hot. Haha, you know what dude, when it comes to goals they can be whatever the fuck you want. If they are weird goals, just don't tell anybody, haha it might even make it more exciting.	/r/seduction	22/07/12 04:04 PM
2	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. Well few months back I wasn't really working on my game. I met a chick and it was electric, and i was definitely keen. Also, the reason why i wasn't working on my game was that i had been focusing on launching a company and I was lazy about going out. I'm in my mid twenty if you're curious. Anyway long story short, because of my lack of game I lost the chick. It actually got me down for about 1 week before I had a spoonful of cement to harden the fuck up and start going out again like I was poss…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 03:50 PM
2	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. Yeah exactly. It's like imagine if you were a movie star. But you moved to Russia. No one would really know who you are(just go with it), but you have this awesome core confidence about yourself that you won't ever lose. If people found out straight away they would shy away from you. Now you know at some point people are going to find out your a movie star, so what you do, when you are meeting all these cool people you look for opportunity to let them DHV themselves, until at some point you can …	/r/seduction	22/07/12 03:28 PM
6	Guys, I've hit rock bottom. I don't think I can get any lower than this. I officially have NO social life. Help. Cool dude. You've made it to rock bottom. Nothing can be worse. You're here. The only place is up. Now you can realise you got nothing else to fear. While you're in 'Computer mode' start memorizing some cool story's from here. When i say memorize i mean say it out loud at least 100 times, that way you'll be confident to say it when you see people. Then try to find random ways you can tell people your cool story's, even if it's weird at first, guys or girls it wont matter. That way you'll start t…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 02:54 PM
5	[Discussion]. I've been working on my game since I was about 15. I changed my life, lost loads of weight, my career is awesome, i am awesome, etc. I'm nearly 26 now. But a new problem has arisen... Intimidation.. I've got a friend who had this problem and seemed to have solved it. You gotta DLV yourself. The girls may feel that they can't relate to you, so if you are showing too much status then you need to just need to drop it down a notch. Maybe at this point, since you seem to have your shit together, you should start trying to do things that you're not super confident in. But what's you're game? are you trying to date these girls or bang em? EDIT: When i say DLV yourself, I mean after these girls rea…	/r/seduction	22/07/12 02:42 PM
0	What's the best response to "you look familiar..."? Sure, of course. If you're not cool with saying it, then it'll probably sound dumb. But, if you come across as you don't really care and are just playful in nature, then the girls will follow suit. "CK Model" can be used with just about anything, it's all playful and interchangeable.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 06:37 PM
1	Any advice on how to look more masculine (photo)? Why don't you start doing something you consider masculine. Most guys are going to suggest going to the gym because after a workout, you really do feel stronger and more dominant. If you want start rockclimbing( or whatever), if you're the type, then that's all you need. If feel out of your element in a gym go do some sport you've always wanted to do that makes you FEEL masculine. Also, I don't mean to beat you down, but that pose you have in that photo is the opposite of masculine. I suggest yo…	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:28 AM
12	I hesitated and now there's another guy. What's my next move? I'll give this one a shot. Guys on here are going to tell you to move on, ditch one-itis, blah blah..... THEY ARE ALL CORRECT. I say if you've gotta ditch her anyway do it in the coolest way possibly. Just go for gold, don't ask her on a date. Just be cool, invite her to a bar have a few drinks then bust a move. After a couple drinks you'll know if she's into you or not. But, if you want some 'action plan' maybe you could do this. Go out around 8pm, and get a few drinks. Talk about cool shit you…	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:14 AM
0	What's the best response to "you look familiar..."? Just laugh.... and say that you once did a bit of modelling for CK. *Adds intrigue and if they ask more, then you've hooked them. Don't bother trying to help them work it out, change topics and move on.	/r/seduction	07/07/12 11:04 AM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Just pumped to get amongst it. I figure if anyone is keen they'll contact me, they know i'm running game mon-fri. Glad to get on board.	/r/seduction	02/07/12 08:28 AM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? PM me.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 04:27 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Yah, let's make it happen.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 04:25 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? I'm running night game Mon- Fri. So let's make it happen.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 04:25 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Let's get it done then.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 02:38 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Do it.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 01:57 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Not too sure mate...	/r/seduction	01/07/12 01:57 PM
1	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Your Welcome.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 01:55 PM
2	Any interest in a Sydney Lair? Sounds good. I'll check it out now.	/r/seduction	01/07/12 01:55 PM
1	Going to Neil Strauss' party tonight. Ask him about his internet marketing partnership he had with Frank Kern. Or if you want, talk to him about his surf buddy Tim Ferris who wrote the 4 hour work week. I bet those two topics will get his juices flowing.	/r/seduction	25/09/11 10:46 AM
1	[FR] House party fail Well if that was the case, then maybe you failed to isolate her, chicks dig being chased and they see guys who go after girls, get rejected and not care as alpha guys as well. I suspect, that you might need to be a little bit more cocky/persistent. With regards to your mate, i think it was probably a dog move, because you need to rely your wing when you start gaming and not worry about fending him off as well.	/r/seduction	12/09/11 03:22 AM
1	[FR] House party fail Just out of curiousity, where you comfortable with all the Kino going on? Also what did your mate do in regards to his target, and why do you think he lost it?	/r/seduction	11/09/11 09:13 AM
1	How do you act post sex when you don't want a relationship? Push new ground buddy, don't talk about it. Let it be said with your actions and interactions. Your attempt to talk to her about relationships(lack of) will be viewed by her as you saying "whinge whinge fucking whinge....on relationships" then your chance of hooking up drop dramatically. Just escalate, be cool and make new ground.	/r/seduction	02/08/11 01:46 AM