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A male Officer at a prison I formerly worked at is presently on leave for sexually assaulting 2 inmates. Only 2 have come forward. Allegedly forced oral at gunpoint...the inmates receiving... True story hasn't come out fully but likely consensual encounter gone sour....
/r/MensRights15/10/25 11:00 PM
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Government.
/r/MensRights12/10/25 06:55 PM
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I've only gotten astonished gasps of joy. Same for every other guy I know lol. Never heard of what you're talking about happening irl. It's just you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 10:13 PM
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Size matters. Everyone knows that. Girls say it doesn't matter publicly so they don't sound like cock-mongers. They like it to sound like they care about other things, other than getting absolutely demolished by a hog. But....they don't. If they can find a guy with a hammer....they keep him. That's why 'bad boys' get away with shitty behavior lol. And that's why girls like them. No micropeens in the bad boy ranks. My gf likes to playfully say "why you hurt me" after I finish rearranging her guts…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/25 06:19 PM
1

Not true. My gf wants sex.... and she'd like it every day lol. She sometimes has to remind me that her pussy needs attention.
/r/MensRights05/10/25 02:51 PM
-1

Gold diggers are exclusively feminist. The reason they are able to objectify men to that degree is because of radical feminist ideation which states that men aren't worth anything other than their wallets.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/25 12:42 PM
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Its worked for me. My gf is a kept woman... washes my clothes, packs my lunch and makes me dinner every day. She was a "strong-independant" woman before she met me. Now? Maid, lol. She won't even go out for groceries without me if she can avoid it. Truth is... this is how she's always wanted it...at home, keeping house for a strong man.... she just had never met the right man. Her words, not mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:07 AM
1

Yes
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/25 02:01 AM
7

Mine is... and now that I've found a funny partner, I could never be with a non-funny one again. We laugh....so....so much. We absolutely crack each other up...I thought I was gonna die the other night cuz I couldn't breathe. Highly. Recommend. PS: I've done club comedy off and on for over 20 years. And...I provide. She doesn't work.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/25 04:13 PM
1

More...more creepy....women are more creepy than men and they just get away with it. There....I fixed it for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/09/25 09:13 PM
5

This is the way
/r/MensRights26/07/25 01:43 PM
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Why do men do this to themselves. One more time for fellas in the back: DO NOT COMMENT ON WOMEN'S CLOTHING IN THE WORKPLACE!! PERIOD. EVER. FOR FUCK'S SAKE YOU GUYS!! Her claim will likely be tossed out, but wtf dude? It didn't occur to you that mentioning anything about a woman's bra (read: intimate under garment) would be construed as creepy!?!?!?! REALLY!!!! Some of you guys deserve what you get. This is not new knowledge.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 01:53 PM
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I'm a man. Why tf would I care about what women say/do in their own spaces? Hens cluck.....also: water is wet. Nothing to see here.
/r/MensRights25/07/25 04:28 AM
-8

Great place to meet chicks that are dtf....
/r/MensRights24/06/25 11:20 PM
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Yeah right lol. Beat it lady, we were here first.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 04:31 PM
8

You never assume exclusivity. Any girl that you find attractive enough to approach is fucking other guys when you meet her. What? Do you think she was sitting around being unfucked until you showed up? Come on boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 04:26 PM
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TX has child support caps too.
/r/MensRights24/06/25 10:29 AM
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It's a fine premise.... but I don't think beta bucking will ever stop. I didn't even realize how insidious it was until I started discovering that there are guys who send women hundreds of thousands of dollars and never even fucking get to meet them. We are the problem. Its not the fault of women... its us; we essentially encourage them to use us and disrespect us. And it's far worse than you think and these guys ruin it for everyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/25 09:49 AM
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I am genuinely sorry for your traumatic history. But I assure you... you've read a bit too much into my comment. I don't abuse anyone. I just enforce my boundaries and refuse to be treated with anything less than appreciation and respect. I am kind to a fault. And for decades I allowed people to step all over me, because I didn't think I deserved better treatment. Having finally learned better, I jealously guard my boundaries and I do not apologize for doing so. I think everyone should be convic…
/r/MensRights24/06/25 03:47 AM
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Its really not hard to find the women we prefer. They tend to be conservative and not on reddit and often not on dating apps lol. They're mostly in churches. That's where you find them if you're looking. There's scores of horny church girls ready to stay home and give you babies.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/06/25 11:39 AM
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Yes. Canada got thousands of them. Now they all "model" and sell clothes on Facebook marketplace.
/r/MensRights01/06/25 06:08 PM
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I mean modern western style marriage... for property and land acquisition.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 04:31 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/25 12:02 AM
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Well.... obviously. Marriage was invented in the dark ages lol. It is entirely irrelevant and unnecessary AND financially irresponsible in a modern era where your happiness is directly tied to your bank account. There is no reason for young western educated men with a good path to wealth to marry. I have 4 sons. I've almost gotten thru to all of them. The oldest one is in love.... I'm still working on him.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 11:04 PM
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Men don't cheat more lol. The stats are dead even. Women just don't get caught as often because they're usually smarter about it. A buddy of mine had six or seven married women (wealthy professionals) who would pop-in for dick about once a week each. They text, he opens the garage door, they drive their car in, get fucked right in the garage leaning over the car, they go back to work. He's not the only guy providing such services.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/25 05:01 PM
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Social media. All social media is feminist because women are the primary consumers of it. Technically.... these are their spaces. We're the guests.
/r/MensRights05/05/25 10:30 PM
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Because it does lol. Go sit in on some family court and watch the bias play out. Men are primarily for doing heavy labor, giving assets to non-working women and dying in war in western gynocentric democracies. Those are the lanes they get respect. If they stray out of their lanes they get beaten like dogs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/25 04:35 PM
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High functioning autistic (HFA).... is it really surprising guys like that don't get laid, but gangsters with tattoos and gold teeth do? Since when have HFA dudes gotten pussy? Like..... what era of history were people with autism slaying lol? Its not a thing... never has been, never will be. Those dudes become Shakespeare or Nietzsche or Einstein. Historically not great at getting pussy lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/25 10:38 AM
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This didn't happen. This is misandrist-bait-porn lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/25 01:48 PM
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They're are plenty of places where it is. Just go there.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/25 10:22 PM
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Lol. No thanks. Game on men! This world (in many respects) hates us. Assholes like this loser can fuck off and get prostate cancer.
/r/MensRights13/04/25 06:24 PM
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My gf asked if she could stop working when she moved in. She was just....tired. 20 years grinding in the bay area.... she just didn't want to do that anymore. I said sure, what do I care? I don't need you to have a job to love you! She's happier than she's ever been in her life now. Putters around... watches her shows.... and prepares great meals! I think part of the modern problem is most people are living in the future, instead of living in the moment. Everyone is thinking about what they want…
/r/MensRights10/04/25 12:20 PM
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Written by someone who is single and has never been in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/25 01:34 PM
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Sun is hot. Ocean, it turns out....salty.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/25 10:28 PM
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Nope. The fact that it isn't tells you everything you need to know about the role of men in modern society. Just shut up and pay. That's the reality for men. Shut up and pay.
/r/MensRights19/03/25 02:35 PM
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If they do, I've not seen it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 02:56 PM
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Some women have self-esteem issues, a poor man won't leave them they think.... others want a man they can easily control (often bc undiagnosed anxiety disorder). Those are the reasons that I've seen for those time when a woman is dating a man poorer than herself.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/25 01:21 PM
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Its just dumb. Feel free to ignore them.
/r/MensRights09/03/25 01:27 PM
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No....no I don't think anyone who wants to have a happy life would get involved with someone like that.
/r/MensRights02/03/25 01:16 PM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/25 04:04 PM
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I would disagree with the use of the 'most' modifier. Some.....perhaps. But most? No. I know dozens..hundreds of traditional men with traditional wives (and lots of kids) and not one of the men thinks he doesn't need to be a traditional husband. Not one. They all very proudly wear their role as traditional husband and provider. As do I. You can't say 'most'.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 02:47 AM
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I'm almost 50. Still hassle my SAHGF for pussy everyday. Some of us really like fucking.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/02/25 01:38 AM
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It's just reading illuminated pixels under glass, mostly generated by AI for views. Why would it have any impact on my actual life? I workout...eat...fuck...laugh...and get paid. What the fuck do I care about online nonsense lol. I only read this shit for entertainment. It has zero bearing on my actual life.
/r/MensRights17/02/25 03:23 PM
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A healthy relationship to me, is like the one I have, where there's lots of mutually satisfying sex...playing with each other's kinks....if that's what is meant by healthy....then I simply don't understand how anyone who themselves is mentally healthy, could get bored of that. What I actually think most people mean by "healthy" is sexless. I say this because most relationships (around 90%) are functionally sexless, by clinical standards, and most people don't even realize it. Relationships fall …
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/25 02:38 PM
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You prove it when both parties had agreed to abort in the event of accidental pregnancy and then, when you get them to the abortion clinic, they refuse, saying they wanna keep it and how great of a dad you'll make. An agreement was made, then broken by the baby trapper.
/r/MensRights09/02/25 05:40 AM
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Who cares? Chickens be cluckin'.....anyways.
/r/MensRights07/02/25 07:05 PM
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Is this a troll? Or serious lol. Men don't shoot their shot because women have called us creepy for doing so for about a decade now. You wanted us to leave you alone at the gym.... you got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/25 02:20 PM
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Yup. I initiated my divorces. But I'm a monster because I wouldn't stick it out with abusive narcissists 'for the kids sake'. Get fucked lol. The days of the husband as whipping boy are over. Men have grown much wiser in the last 25 years and there simply will not be marriage in another 20 if women continue to act like they are the prize. Men can give babies to anyone they want and walk away. Women are stuck with the kids. Learning how to keep a man is the prize, because then you get his help an…
/r/MensRights31/01/25 02:32 PM
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Sorry won't happen again.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/01/25 12:48 AM
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Been saying this for almost 20 years lol. Nice to see someone else gets it.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:21 PM
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You have to be smart enough to ask specifically. Then decide if you want to continue the relationship after discovering that she literally doesn't have a single male friend that she hasn't fucked. Which is fine. Not telling anyone how to live their lives. But men need to stop blaming women for their own ineffectiveness. If it matters to you....ask up front. If you really want the relationship....best not to ask.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/25 07:18 PM
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I get my dick sucked almost every day? Get to travel and live and laugh with my best friend. Get the privilege of actually liking my life. I tried it the other way. Its just non-stop arguments, conflict and compromise. This way I just have a happy woman that enjoys serving her man and appreciates getting dicked down on the reg. If you genuinely don't understand what's desirable about that arrangement....well, I mean you need to get another 10-15 years older. Then you will.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 06:39 PM
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But those ones often end up delusional AND alone. My mom and my sisters epitomize this type. The loudest and smartest in the room....also totally insufferable and egotistical lol. No one wants to be around them. My ex- wives have also joined the club lol. I've moved on gotten into a healthy relationship....they're broke and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/25 12:03 PM
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Lol.... remember when I had one that would do that 😄..... then I replaced her. The new one doesn't do that.
/r/MensRights25/01/25 11:46 AM
1

Yeah but.... women don't care, statistically. Most single-moms...wanted to be single-moms. Both my ex-wives thought they would be happier/more girl-bossy/mom-preneurial/hotter.... whatever the fuck, as single-moms. Turns out they're just broke and lonely but.... can't tell women shit these days lol. Ah well....I tried for the kids sake. Feminism won. Good luck kids!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/01/25 04:47 PM
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Talking about it.... is helping to fix it. Men fix it by understanding that laws and governments are anti-single independent men. Laws and governments want financially jeopardized, baby-trapped men. Yes...getting laws changed is somewhat beneficial. But the true victories come when men bow the fuck out of a system that hates them. Then....over time....the laws will slowly become more pro-man as leaders scream for new workers to feed the machine. As they make more laws benefitting men....we will …
/r/MensRights08/01/25 04:25 PM
1

Women love being objectified; they are the ones doing the objectifying! What I’ve learned is: they are allowed to objectify themselves AND other women.... we are not. So... we shouldn't. It's their club.... they're allowed to make the rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/25 03:33 PM
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The point is to give them permission. That's what most dudes get strange about.
/r/MensRights03/01/25 10:56 PM
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Men.... listen up: If you are with a woman that has issues with things on your phone.... you are with the wrong woman. My gf can open my phone with her face and vice versa. I often leave my phones (I have 2) at home....all day....on purpose and encourage her to go through them to her hearts content. In the beginning of our relationship, I told her "you can go through my phones whenever you want. If you find things on them that you don't like, I don't want to hear about it." No phone issues.
/r/MensRights03/01/25 06:31 PM
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Crazy but true. She got herself knocked up before we had even divorced. Had 3 more with 3 randos since then.... It's a mental illness... there's a name for it, I just don't recall. Women who only want baby after baby after baby.... don't really like them beyond age 5 or so? Anyways....apparently it's a thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 10:07 PM
1

I divorced my second wife for this exactly; I told her that what she needs is a doormat, not a husband (first wife cheated after I wouldn't give her yet *another * child - we had 8...I was the sole breadwinner). Finally found a sane human female with the new gf. Hopefully she doesn't move the goalposts after we get married lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/24 05:19 AM
1

She is 41.... and yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/12/24 06:54 PM
1

They can be filed unlawfully by a vengeful woman. They just have to say "he threatened me!" and they get it.
/r/MensRights20/12/24 11:59 AM
4

I had to go to court.
/r/MensRights19/12/24 11:31 PM
10

Lots of these dating coaches/red pill/manosphere guys are Islamic. Their religious beliefs inform their rhetoric.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/24 12:29 PM
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Just shows the cynicism of the rule makers. To them it's like, "if they can't pass, make it easier for them; anything to shut them up!"
/r/MensRights12/12/24 01:09 PM
1

Your partners must love your normal sex.....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/24 01:57 AM
0

We're all damaged friend. And normal doesn't exist.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/24 01:25 AM
0

Sure. But you were asking for a field that hadn't been totally dismantled yet by feminism.... you also mentioned running out of savings and having a family to support. In law enforcement you can be back up to 120k with only 6 months of training.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 01:59 PM
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Agreed. But some places pay and many men are barely getting by on the margins of society.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 01:45 PM
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Are you willing to shoot people? If so....law enforcement.
/r/MensRights08/12/24 01:43 PM
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Yeah. I got lucky. Found a great gal early forties, never married, no kids... and actually just wants to be happy. Best relationship of my life.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 06:53 AM
2

Funny how that happens!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/12/24 02:26 AM
2

My gf was 17 when I was 19? Her dad was an Ontario superior court judge and her mom was a university prof. We asked them before we started having sex and they bought us birth control. Born catholic... walked away from it years ago.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 09:46 PM
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Thanks
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:25 PM
2

2 years now
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:23 PM
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I mean....my gf reads all this shit....I could ask her to chime in, but you probably wouldn't believe that it was her. So...do you want more details lol?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:19 PM
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No. My actual life.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 09:12 PM
2

Ummmmm.....women cannibalize each other. You think women support women's rights issues???? Did you see the results of the US election? I'm glad men don't treat each other the way women treat other women.
/r/MensRights07/12/24 01:17 PM
1

I got one. She's from the bay area tho, not Sweden. Was a six figure professional for 18 years.... hated working... said if she moved in she didn't want to work anymore...I said that's fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:54 PM
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Welllpp.... being blue-pilled got me divorced twice. Took the red pill and now I've got the most beautiful, loyal, intelligent woman ever...but yeah cnc is our jam and I choke, slap, tie-up, degrade and essentially fuck her entirely opposite to how I thought we were supposed to treat women lol. And this woman.... is the one who finally puts out my clothes for me, has dinner waiting for me, is down to fuck any/every hour of the day (I come home for lunch and she says 'wanna fuck?'), ties my shoes…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:20 PM
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I'm old and knowing how easy it is to replace somebody these days definitely made it easier to leave my abusive wife. So I think the observation applies to olds as well. Not a bad thing though.... since I'm actually happy now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/12/24 12:03 PM
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Any redpill/manosphere talking heads that mock women who don't marry or have children.... are just misogynists, period. The redpill is about peeling back the veil, for men, helping them to see the institutional misandry and sociopolitical structures that conspire against their happiness. It actually doesn't need to speak on women's modern (read: feminist) marriage habits, at all. It doesn't matter, for the purposes of the application of redpill concepts.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/12/24 01:56 AM
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💯
/r/MensRights25/11/24 12:33 PM
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Yes. Accountability is not a part of fifth wave feminism. They literally teach women to reject the entire concept. Nothing is the fault of a woman who's feelings/ego have been bruised in 2024.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/24 03:47 AM
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This is nonsense. What you are describing happens when two people choose to stick it out after realizing that they don't really like each other that much. While I agree that practice has become common, it certainly is not an experience shared by every couple. Some people laugh together for decades; i.e. the "honeymoon phase" never ends. It is sad to me that you don't know anyone living a coupled life without a honeymoon phase. Sad for everyone, really. We have gotten to the place now where most …
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/24 09:27 AM
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I don't think it will stop.... most kids are accidents these days already and I think that will continue. But intentional folks? Who discuss things and plan? And aren't new arrivals from a foreign country stuck under some religion or caste system or governed by their parents/family/community (those folks will keep having kids for another 20 yrs or so)...intentional, free people I think are done with kids.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:43 PM
1

Obviously.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/11/24 12:36 PM
17

Clown fucking shoes lol
/r/MensRights12/11/24 12:11 PM
7

Praise. The. Lord. I know it will only last a week or so.... but still gives one hope that none of them will contribute their dna to future generations.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 10:50 PM
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This is the correct response to all 4B nonsense. Men....take notes.
/r/MensRights08/11/24 12:39 PM
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Really strange that any man would care about these tantrums. Trust me: the women that are actually going to stick this out...for the long haul...nobody was fucking anyways. The women who won't fuck you, because of this nonsense were never going to fuck you anyway. In between those two extremes there are plenty of normal women who still want normal sex with normal dudes.
/r/MensRights07/11/24 11:11 PM
14

Please write a book expounding on all this with surveys/interviews/statistics etc. More men need to understand this.
/r/MensRights01/11/24 01:14 PM
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Its a zero sum game for men and they're wising up. Most women want children...not marriage to a man (no young woman actually wants a man around 24/7...for the next 35 years lol). They endure marriage, to get children. Then, more often than not, they take their children and leave. With half of the mans material assets as well as his children. So....why would any man sign up for that?
/r/MensRights01/11/24 11:34 AM
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Its women who don't want to commit. Commit to a healthy relationship, that is. Commit to being a control freak who "boss bitches" the fun of of every moment in life? Oh, they're down for that, but men are wising up. It's a zero sum game for men and they're starting to see it.
/r/MensRights30/10/24 12:34 PM
1

Yes. Waayyy better than when I did 50/50.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:36 AM
17

I found my gf when she was 39 never married, no kids. She's a catch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/10/24 03:31 AM
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Childfree. The women I know with children became mothers to give themselves an identity. I'd rather backpack through Asia.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/24 11:56 PM
2

Most people pursue it because they don't know what else to do and/or they experience an accidental pregnancy and then try to make the best of it. I don't think the majority of them are 'living their best lives' so to speak. They're making the best of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/24 09:50 PM
12

Obviously fucking not lol. That argument is from a 20 year old version of feminism. Modern ones don't try to persuade with that nonsense anymore. Enough men have been able to stay home over the last 20 years to say, " its actually pretty gravy" which is why so many feminists now are arguing to get back into the housewife career.
/r/MensRights27/10/24 02:33 PM
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They clearly don't want a lifestyle submissive like a 50s tradwife or a sexual submissive. You are mistaken. That is precisely what they want and, what those who have it, are very grateful for.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/24 12:36 AM
1

Do you think women with advanced degrees or are working in a field they're passionate about is the norm? Like....really? Do you know who works retail... and service jobs...daycare...hair salons...grocery stores....? Mostly regular women. It's nice that you have the privilege of advanced education and rewarding work... but that is not the reality for most women. I think you know that too....
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:40 AM
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Yeah. And that's great for them....I wish them all the best. I don't know many happy/fulfilled working women...and I work with dozens. The majority....seriously unhappy. The balance....wishing they didn't have to and thrilled at the prospect of finding a man who would let them stay home. I've literally (other than you) never met a woman who was thrilled to be working outside of the home. And I'm old....and I've known dozens of families over the years...worked in different countries...in industri…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 02:14 AM
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Sweeping generalizations serve a purpose. I don't begrudge anybody their own. Often the individual is worse off for abandoning them. Every woman who lives by sweeping generalizations about men has good reasons and I'd never try to take those away from her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/24 12:42 AM
1

Sounds great. Happy for you guys!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 05:54 PM
1

A small sample size doesn't invalidate results...it just demands more study for a thorough understanding. The studies maybe even exist? I haven't checked but I wouldn't be surprised to find statistical data that lines up with my observations. And about nobody wanting to work.... that's absolutely not true. That one I know has been studied and men report increases in happiness when allowed to work... women not so much. Which is not a negative thing. They want to do things that they perceive have …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:29 PM
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Let's pretend this type of feminism exists for a moment.... I have 5 daughters and that sounds great. That said... I have observed that women tend to be happier, more optimistic, more playful in relationship.... when they are not required to work outside of the home for financial necessity of the family. Also.... I've made a point of asking every single 21 to 28 year old woman who has started at my workplace in the last 7 or so years... and literally none of them want to be working. Without exce…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:16 PM
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It's like every 3 months someone trots this nonsense out.... Look....the men who are getting pussy....really like promiscuous women, regardless of what they say. Likewise, the men who aren't getting laid really like promiscuous women, because it means there's hope that they might get some pussy. Both type of men - depending on the audience - will make it sound like they don't like promiscuous women for 2 reasons: 1) good old fashion slut shaming - its been a thing since biblical times ffs and 2)…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/24 01:09 AM
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She sees everything I put on here.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 12:41 PM
22

Those are just shitty partners. Get a better one. They're not all like that. As soon as a girl tries that with me.... she's single. This gf I got right now knows what's up and doesn't say shit. Women are (slowly) re-learning when to keep their mouths shut.
/r/MensRights22/10/24 12:38 PM
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Nope. Had a wife for 17 years that eventually did it.....so she's a single mom now lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/24 11:27 AM
1

Right. But guys with money who want a 25 y.o. don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/24 11:17 PM
5

Young men usually don't have money. Women want a man with money. It's not rocket science.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/24 02:58 PM
2

Sorry to hear this. In future remember God calls us to be wise as serpents...not just harmless like doves. Too many believers forget this. Snakes move silently and know when to strike. She fulfilled this particular scriptural ordinance perfectly.
/r/MensRights20/09/24 11:49 PM
3

Only if you're a man. Women get immediate, free responses and take downs without verification.
/r/MensRights09/09/24 01:36 PM
4

Luck doesn't play a larger role.....luck is THE role. Without luck.... nothing else you do matters.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/09/24 12:55 PM
385

They're not stupid.... they would never take that deal lol. They know exactly why men are important.... they're just cruel and abusive and there's no punishment for them acting that way.
/r/MensRights01/09/24 02:13 PM
3

No. Why would I? Staying with someone who isn't sexually attracted to you is simp shit.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/24 11:22 PM
0

He can.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 11:02 PM
7

I mean...98% of police and soldiers are men.... so I wouldn't worry about some angry women on tiktok. We still have all the guns and we are much more comfortable with violence.
/r/MensRights24/08/24 01:00 PM
1

Really... the age of making new humans as life purpose is nigh at an end. Will the species die off? No, because there will always be some stubborn holdouts. But the population would go down over 200 years or so of radically reduced birth rates. People used to have kids cuz there was nothing to do. We are buried in things to do nowadays and its really unfair to the kids to force them to witness the madness that is their parents trying to cope with this crazy modern life and then get eaten by the …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:53 AM
3

3 weeks lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:12 AM
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Well...I simply don't have that data...I don't even know if the studies exist. Anecdotally...my current gf is my best friend. I've been married twice before and we weren't even friends; it was purely transactional. The only way me and this gf would ever break up, would be if one of us suddenly decided to become exceedingly selfish and cruel and cheat on the other; we are simply too fucking happy and its too easy to be together and get along. So if this one example can be used....best friends wou…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 02:04 AM
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In my experience...spouses that are actually friends (and lovers and partners) seem to be happier and have relationships that last.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:51 PM
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Yes. But you'll end up divorced.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 11:59 AM
0

Nothing would change as most men have medium to low libidos already.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 03:26 AM
4

She is wrong. If a woman can hold down the household expenses solo (not being sexist but for myriad reasons..rare) and not become a controlling narc and emotional manipulator (fucking unicorn level rare) AND the man is totally fulfilled being in the home, is a good cook and provides excellent childcare.... then it's totally fair. That being said.... I'm old and I've known thousands of couples in a dozen countries.... never seen it work. I know many who have tried.... the woman always ends up res…
/r/MensRights20/08/24 12:53 PM
1

Move out?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/08/24 08:20 PM
9

This. I've been divorced twice. Given away 2 half million dollar homes. Travel more than ever, hot gf, money in the bank, greatest shape of my life... both ex's are broke, despite the support I send. Neither of them can hold $5 and not spend it and the reason they married was because they knew that about themselves.
/r/MensRights15/08/24 01:43 AM
3

Women like that are discovering the joys of single motherhood and cat ownership in record numbers these days lol. Less men than ever down with being henpecked anymore. Many have realized 'happy wife happy life' means a permanently bitchy woman, complaining about everything, demanding more and giving nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 03:54 PM
0

Its called 'settling' and its when you take what you've got because you're more afraid of ending up with nothing. Its terrible and no one should do it, but everyone does.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 12:48 AM
5

Started? You haven't been paying attention.....
/r/MensRights12/08/24 11:02 PM
1

Bro....I've got 2. They're all like that 😄
/r/MensRights12/08/24 10:53 PM
1

Money lol. Obvs.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/08/24 10:18 PM
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Do you have children? I'm gonna guess no. While I agree that they could have them by themselves....its a lot of work. The sleepless nights alone....by yourself...I mean, one of the two might not make it.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/24 02:57 AM
1

It's not cheap anywhere. Not cheap how OP was hypothesizing.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:39 PM
0

Not really. Most men would like sex a couple times a day and at 2-300 bucks a visit... plus the threat of jail time.... not the less expensive option.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:27 PM
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Not really. But good talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:25 PM
1

Why on earth does that make men weirdo pieces of shit? That's the misandrist take my dear.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 03:12 PM
-1

🤷🏽‍♂️ just dudes
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:37 PM
-1

Nowadays, there’s no minimum price for prostitutes especially since it’s illegal (making today’s situation “worse”) yet marriage and relationships still exist. Right. Since it's illegal and expensive, men have to resort to marriage to get regular sex. If it was legal and cheap... they would not marry anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:35 PM
-2

You clearly don't understand men. If that law was passed, that would be the end of marriage and relationships lol. Are you kidding? If it became legally appropriate for men to get sex from whores for 10-20 bucks!?!? We would be OUT of this whole marriage con. Passing a law that men no longer have to be slaves to a woman and her children to maaaaybe get sex 2 or 3 times a year (some even less)....I mean that law would single-handedly launch the MRA into the stratosphere.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 02:20 PM
2

💯
/r/MensRights08/08/24 06:22 PM
368

PSA to all women reading this: None of us want to be the guy you would rather marry than fuck. None of us. Just think - you would drive an hour to meet a guy you've only talked to and fuck him ons. But you wouldn't do that for us? You'd marry us. Gee....thanks. You see us as the guy you'd tell to take the garbage out and bitch at for going golfing with the guys. Wow. What a privilege.
/r/MensRights08/08/24 11:23 AM
1

I mean...he's entitled to his beliefs. Its not a bargain that many western educated women would go for (read: none) but he's entitled to try and get you onboard. That's more a passport bro type deal for a wife from a 3rd world country. You don't have to take the deal if you don't like the terms? Simple as that.
/r/MensRights06/08/24 08:30 PM
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Here is wisdom. Listen when she speaks.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:42 AM
11

Ok but.....that is toxic as fuck. And (I know its from a make-believe show) but if an individual woman actually did this.... as some sort of test... that woman is not mentally well.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 05:14 AM
0

My gf and mom....and one of my two sisters totally get it and support me 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/24 10:29 PM
1

But those are people lying to themselves. Everyone knows the truth, some are just uncomfortable with it. So they make up lies to protect their fragile egos. There isn't a single woman alive that isn't interested in the money that comes with the love. Likewise there isn't a single man that would refuse the regular sex that comes in exchange for the money he pays. No one is doing "relationships" as charity work. Everyone expects some kind of payment.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:44 PM
1

So then why is transactional love false love if that's the only love that exists? If there's no other kind of love.... why is what we have been able to come up with false? It sounds like what you're calling 'true' is more just some sort of imaginary ideal, rather than a real thing that exists.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 01:12 PM
2

Not true = fraud (fake)
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 11:48 AM
3

But your thesis presumes that transactional love is not true love. Why are the two mutually exclusive in your mind? If there's no proof that non-transactional love exists...then what is fraudulent about it?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/07/24 12:49 AM
2

Not always. They could just be closet hoes who use their guy "friends" as a pool of familiar, disease free dick? I've known a few gals like that over the years. It's a lifestyle choice for women like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 10:15 PM
7

The wage gap theories have mostly been disproven in recent years as studies finally took personal choice into consideration. There are virtually no women doing dangerous high paying jobs like oil rigging or industrial welding for example. Why not? Because they can't? No...because they don't want to. You could conduct a wage gap study between men only who are willing to take high risk, high reward trade jobs versus those who are not and guess what....there would be a wage gap which (I presume) wo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/07/24 07:06 PM
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Gonna go out on a limb here buuut.....pretty sure every dude who ever got murked by his wife was CONVINCED that she was not a murderer lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:02 PM
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Dear god...with the autistic code monkeys....jesus....just BLAM! both barrels point blank 😄 Love it!
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 11:01 PM
9

Dating multiple people has only been around for about a decade Pardon? Are you fucking kidding? I'm almost 50 and it was around when I was in my 20s. Not to mention...the 60s ....or the 70s.... Or the Bohemian movement from the goddamn 1800s.... Then of course there's ancient Greeks and Romans.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 04:32 AM
12

The pornography ban would go nowhere. As long as the first amendment stands, porn will remain as American as apple pie. Many different groups have tried to get porn banned over the last 50 years. All have failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/07/24 03:25 AM
36

Someone brought this up on another sub awhile back and an actual Korean commented that it's not really big or gaining any traction? Mostly angry "leftover women". Anyone ìn korea able to comment?
/r/MensRights22/07/24 03:16 AM
6

Bwahahaha! I think you win the internets for today.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:18 PM
5

I think its a guy getting no pussy....hanging around in the usually non-existent hope that he will eventually get some.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:17 PM
4

You shouldn't feel bad for them...being orbiters is the closest to pussy most of them are ever gonna get. They are happy for the attention and they know where they stand.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 11:15 PM
1

Is this a thing? I can cum at will in 30 seconds. I just wait for her to get as many as she wants and when she's finally spent I finish. Isn't that what everybody does?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/24 04:13 AM
2

You're missing the point. If there were a program for young women to get a baby and a $4k/mo stipend for their needs/supplies AND they could return to work at their leisure bc an au pair was available - as needed - to do whatever domestic chores needed doing....most women would jump at that program and completely skip on the "maintaining a relationship with a man" part. However most young men... if you offered them the same program.... hard pass lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 08:48 PM
2

Lots? A few, maybe lol.
/r/MensRights20/07/24 02:52 PM
7

After the 50s and feminism
/r/MensRights20/07/24 02:50 PM
1

Indeed. Now if women would start using them primarily instead of men, we might start making some progress.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/07/24 02:36 PM
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Women love babies, not men. No woman in her prime is striving for full-time, permanent male companionship lol. Women endure men to get what they really want...children. I thought by now all men understood this.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/07/24 05:39 PM
8

Too bad there wasn't a bear around to help her?
/r/MensRights18/07/24 12:42 AM
8

💯
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:47 PM
48

Sorry bro but.....obviously. Most girls (most) aren't secretly rubbing one out for their male friends. To them...they're just friends. There's a reason why their pussy is as dry as the desert around that guy....and also why its dripping wet for a rando they just met who they're def gonna fuck later. I've never understood these guys who become "friends" with a girl hoping....eventually...she'll let them smash. Like...I know it happens sometimes....but if you want to fuck, that's how you approach.…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 12:17 PM
1

If you want dating to go back in time 200 years...I mean..... There's a reason we got away from that. It sucked. The only way to get laid is to enter a courtship and get married? Nobody wants those days back lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:54 PM
0

This is reddit. People come here to talk shit. Why would you be so surprised that you can find diametrically opposed views on the same subject here? Reddit....for....consensus? Wrong platform mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 10:33 PM
13

Something, something a fool and his money something, something.....
/r/MensRights12/07/24 10:31 PM
4

You cannot be both interested in dating women and be advocating for mens rights lol. Like...wow. Have you ever talked to any women? Mentioning anything that even suggests 50/50 is pussy repellent. If you don't like paying...just leave women alone fr.
/r/MensRights12/07/24 09:22 PM
2

It's trying to help younger, possibly uninformed men from letting their feelings overrule their intellect. I have sons and I tell them the same things. My dad told me. And...it often doesn't work anyways cuz single moms usually freaks and will make you a plate of food to keep you.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 12:53 PM
25

This. Aaaaannd I did it twice...... Fml
/r/MensRights10/07/24 11:17 AM
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Amen. I did it. I encourage all men who got married and subsequently discovered their wife really only wanted them as sperm donor, as opposed to lover/partner/friend. And for the record..... that's basically every married guy I know.
/r/MensRights10/07/24 02:58 AM
5

Because women are easier to motivate politically. You want votes? Pander to women and they will reward you.
/r/MensRights06/07/24 02:34 AM
2

If you've been paying attention.....modern western civilization is about due for a collapse. Bring it on, I say!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 03:21 AM
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Oh whatever....any opportunity to take a man down a notch. Most women are totally unmanageable these days. I've been married twice...divorced twice...paying child support. You expect men to stay with these modern western feminist narcissists? You really believe unless a man...in 2024...what...has only ever been in one serious relationship? Only married once? Do you know any married people lol!? The guys who have never been divorced yet and are 7-12 years into their marriages are fucking miserabl…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 11:10 PM
0

Men always pay for sex. The difference is that some women are honest about the fact that they just want money from men. The rest of them pretend that they want a relationship in order to extort resources over a longer period of time.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/24 02:05 AM
4

Ummm.... that's what you do, you literally ask how many people have you been with? How many 3somes... how many ONS...his many fwb situations...etc. If you're not mature enough to ask.... you shouldn't be looking for someone to fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 04:11 AM
1

What man would be okay with a woman fantasizing over male celebrities all day? I've never met one.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/24 02:20 PM
3

I dont care. I don't know anyone who does. Even 10k comments is a drop in the bucket of the entire male experience. Those negative comments come from sad losers who can't get laid. Straight talk.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/24 04:47 AM
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💯
/r/MensRights14/06/24 04:56 PM
1

Ummmm..... first, yes, I realize the problem was me (picking sociopaths but I really didn't think anyone could be that selfish... nor did I think it could happen twice) but.....that's precisely what my first two wives did to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/24 04:22 AM
1

I dunno...I've had a wife who did not work a job outside the home and then one that did. Now...I keep a SAHGF who is unemployed and...its just better for me. I'd never be involved with a woman with a job ever again (maybe a little part-time just to get out of the house...sure). Women who have to hold down jobs outside the home essentially become men. Their whole personality changes. They become stressed out, critical, judgmental, bitter....its terrible. When they can sleep in til noon while I'm …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/06/24 05:11 AM
2

My woman is often the one chasing me around to get dicked. Naturally...I oblige. Sometimes, I am the one looking for some action. She likewise obliges. It's about 50/50. Sone women aren't really interested in sex. Society has been telling them about being sexy their whole lives but..... they don't really care (for a variety of reasons). I think if a man were to end up with such a wife, then yeah....getting laid is gonna be a grind.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/06/24 09:49 AM
2

Not necessarily, but often. You achieve a platonic friendship by not having sex. They often "morph" as you say, because people get horny and wanna fuck. Just don't fuck. But... the friendship will eventually change when one of you finds someone to fuck, if you don't start fucking each other. No. Unless there's great chemistry after the first hour and you both wanna fuck.... then probably that will be first. Great relationships can come from both approaches. Some people fucked first....happier th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/24 02:08 PM
10

The same reason why poor people cheer/vote for fiscal policy that consolidates the wealth of the already wealthy and disenfranchises the poor even further...they imagine themselves becoming rich one day and being able to take advantage of the same policy that is crippling them. Most men want pussy but are somewhat frustrated. Speaking up for mens rights....even though it would benefit them in the long run...would (they believe) further alienate them from women and, by extension....the sacred pus…
/r/MensRights28/05/24 12:43 AM
2

Watching tv...movies...building lego....playing video games...hiking...eating at specialty food spots...traveling...working out...fucking....
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/24 02:10 AM
1

All young men should get vasectomies imho. The fertility clinic can keep your sperm frozen for up to 50 years and it only costs $100/a per batch. Get your semen frozen....pay the cheap annual maintenance fees to avoid major problems. Then...when/if you ever want kids...they can thaw your boys out and inseminate your wife. I have friends who've done this (25 years ago in some cases) and some who are just getting into it. I'm counseling my sons to do it. Its just the smart move these days.
/r/MensRights26/05/24 05:21 PM
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Men need to stop being concerned with feminist double standards. Like....the misandrist agenda will never consider fairness as it pertains to men. Never. Your wife gained weight and you don't want to be married anymore? Grow a fucking pair and file. People will talk shit. Who. Cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 04:23 PM
1

In what country? You don't need a "valid reason" in most western countries anymore. Irreconcilable differences is the catch all divorce when you just realize that you made a mistake and want out.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/24 12:48 PM
2

Do you think there's are an abundance of "women like pearl" sitting around out there waiting to be dated? Do you sincerely believe there are gangs of redpill men.... lonely... wondering where to find "women like pearl"... whilst scores of "women like pearl" equally flounder... wondering where they can find their kings? Grow up. People meet organically. Given the opportunity to date... and possibly settle down with an agreeable submissive woman... they would take it. I did after two and a half de…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 05:23 PM
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Sure. If you think being emasculated and treated worse than the family dog is a life worth living.... just so you can die "surrounded by grandkids"... then yeh, beta bucking is the way to go! Smdh......
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 01:18 PM
10

Swallowed the pill. Changed my fucking life. Never been happier/stronger/healthier/had better sex. Literally made me a new man. No more simping. Sad that I wasted decades trying to please women...not realizing that if I just focused on myself...in short order I'd have so much attention from women that it would actually become tiresome.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/24 05:30 AM
12

Wow. You gotta warn the bros before you go dropping truth bombs like that.
/r/MensRights14/05/24 05:19 AM
2

Ehhhh... its not that bad. The dog thing is probably the worst of it. Single moms easy enough to avoid. Alcoholism definitely a thing too. But! There are sober, no kids, never married, no dog, non-narcissist, open-minded 39+ y.o. gals out there. On dating apps? No.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 04:51 PM
5

Honestly I would wait another 10 years and start dating older gals that won't want kids. Dating girls between 18-38 is basically guaranteed that they will want kids from you. 39+..... not very likely. Point being: no girls under 39 are dating just to find somebody cool to hang out/ travel/ fuck with. They all want babies. Once they've outgrown that maternal urge, you can actually find someone that might like you as a person, as opposed to you as provider.
/r/MensRights13/05/24 07:25 AM
2

I mean....no one would? Are you really asking? Or just posting your post nut clarity thoughts on reddit?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 04:06 PM
165

You will soon discover why it is fruitless to bother with such discussions. Good luck.......
/r/MensRights11/05/24 04:27 PM
1

I don't know any man that has raped a passed out drunk girl at a party. However, every woman that has gone on a girls trip that I know of has cheated on her S/O while down there. I'm sure my experience is not unique.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 05:56 PM
2

This.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/24 04:15 AM
2

All of the debt was in my name during my first marriage...when I filed for divorce after discovering her cheating I thought "marriage is 50/50".....boy was I wrong. Although legally responsible for half of the debt, the creditors will never call her to collect her "half" because its only your name on file. Not exactly how I thought "partnership" worked lol.
/r/MensRights06/05/24 04:15 PM
1

Right. Doesn't objectify men at all........ eye roll
/r/MensRights06/05/24 03:30 PM
4

I feel like now more than ever men are seen as objects to serve women's needs and emotions. When exactly do you think that hasn't been the case? Husband means 'keeper' as in "you are responsible for this person...their health...their happiness...their dreams...don't fuck it up....if she's unhappy its your fault" That word was coined a thousand years ago soooo......
/r/MensRights05/05/24 09:50 PM
0

Its the big question of why for most people these days. Why have kids? Why bring more people into this world that did not ask to be here? Why create more tax slaves to generate revenue for narcissistic governments and become fodder in the debt machine? Like, honestly why do that to them? They never asked for that...
/r/MensRights05/05/24 01:35 PM
1

The mescaline speaks.....
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/24 02:05 PM
1

You are mistaken. I've put on about 30 lbs of muscle in the last 4 years and being able to squat more, bench more and run faster/ longer has increased my confidence tremendously.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/24 04:04 PM
16

Lmao.... feminists would never agree to that. They would accuse the patriarchy of trying to force them to live according to their own ideals and refuse to go!
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:22 PM
19

Get divorced. Now.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 09:19 PM
2

Stop asking the family doctor and just go to the clinic and get it done. Use google.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 05:44 PM
5

Really? Have you seen what those jobs are like these days? Crazy hours...thankless work...teachers getting it from students/parents/admin....nurses are hugely overworked.... not super appealing for young men when (if they want to be slaved out for cash) they can get into oil and gas or mining (for example) and make quadruple what those professions pay.
/r/MensRights01/05/24 05:43 PM
2

I'm really shocked that anyone gives two flying fucks about this bear in the woods nonsense. Imagine if we started a "would you rather be with a feminist or a Nazi?" Everyone would pick Nazi and people would be losing their jobs lol. Rubbish.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 05:32 PM
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There are women who don't keep male friends. I pick one of those. I don't try to force a woman to abandon her male friends. Never have, Never would. I don't see how liking someone with mutually shared values is controlling or abusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/24 11:36 AM
2

No male friends. To any women reading this...have all the male friends that you want. Just saying personally for my relationships, I don't entertain women that keep male friends. No compromises on that standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/24 10:27 AM
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😄 fair
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 11:09 PM
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No sex man mad at man sexing
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/24 04:11 PM
1

🤣
/r/MensRights29/04/24 03:52 PM
6

The only thing women really want is attention. Men don't really care. So you bet your ass if women see that they can garner attention by co-opting someone else's shit, they're gonna be about that. Not just men's things.... anything that they think will make people pay attention to them (having babies is the biggest go to).
/r/MensRights29/04/24 03:42 PM
7

I want to agree with you. I do. And sure...not all women. But I've been married twice and they were botht the same. The wives of the married men that I know (dozens) likewise the same. The married women in my workplace, exactly the same with their husbands...its an overpowering reality. The fact is, the feminist agenda breeds narcissistic behaviors and it is a very rare woman who can overcome that mindfuck.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 09:58 PM
4

I haven't told my kids that their mom went out and got pregnant from a random Facebook hookup after I told her that we had to stop having children because I couldn't afford to feed anymore (I had given her 7... she wanted more). Then she tried to lie to me and convince me it was mine (I'm not that dumb). How could I tell them that? My eldest is 27 now....I think she might know? My second son, fourth child, is 17 and still lives with his mom. If I told him, honestly I'm afraid he would stab her. …
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:34 PM
6

The doormat first...then the dog....then the deadbeat.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:27 PM
1

Men should not intervene. It's only going to get them in trouble. Keep in mind...this hypothetical woman would (likely) walk right by if the roles were reversed.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 02:25 PM
12

Generally....yes. There aren't many examples of families around anymore where this is not the case.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:22 PM
21

What do you mean how? You just explained it? Do you mean how.... morally? If that's what you're asking... it's because their desire for children is stronger than their desire for a joyful partnership with a man. They don't really want permanent male companionship...they want babies to dress up and show off. Men are just the necessary evil they have to endure to get what they actually want.
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:19 PM
1

Is this post from the 50s? Or from India? Who tf is saying men who don't commit to women are immoral? What kind of puritanical, pearl-clutching nonsense is that? We shame men for sleeping around?? Is this a time capsule post? People...men and women.... are allowed to fuck. That's what humans do... we fuck. No one (except old spinster aunties who haven't ever had sex) is out there judging people for fucking!!! What the fuck is OP on about?
/r/MensRights28/04/24 02:10 PM
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Just choke them and get on with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:31 PM
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Just choke them and get on with it lol
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/24 01:31 PM
2

Isn't it tho? I would challenge another redpiller who would rather their daughter was married, making babies... and miserable. If that's what you want for your daughters, you're a failure as a father.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 08:15 PM
1

The western liberal movement takes it marching orders from France.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:28 PM
11

This.
/r/MensRights27/04/24 12:17 PM
5

I want my daughters (I have 5) to enjoy their lives and be happy. If that means that they are single and (hopefully) childless - if they're not in a healthy relationship - at 32? Well amen. They're doing something right. Their parents were married, broke and miserable at 32 sooo... I don't really see the problem. Too many women (most?) just marry because they're afraid of "the wall". I've raised wiser daughters than that. Happiness is more important than being married or shitting out more humans…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/24 12:11 PM
5

Wrong sub?
/r/MensRights27/04/24 12:00 PM
2

Thanks
/r/MensRights26/04/24 10:54 AM
8

If they lack the sense required to critically question any dogma handed to them by unhappy people... they're beyond helping. And it's not all of them, I am aware.
/r/MensRights26/04/24 10:50 AM
6

Wow. And this happened....in Africa. You don't say..... Amazing how this shit never happens in countries where witch doctors aren't considered legitimate medical professionals.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/24 10:50 AM
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So, let’s discuss: does a woman being agreeable and submissive matter more than her being pretty? Not more than imho. But as much as, at least. My gf is model knockout beautiful....she's also submissive/agreeable. If she was just beautiful but bossy/assertive....smash snd pass. If she was just agreeable/submissive but a 4/10....also smash and pass ngl 😆. I wouldn't keep a woman if she didn't have both in roughly equal amounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/24 06:34 AM
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He's a millionaire.... she's a billionaire... with a 'b'. I'm thinking that's where the "he's lucky" is coming from. A woman's body count doesn't really matter when she sends a private jet to pick you up to meet her in France for the weekend.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 09:53 AM
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Do these women think that wiping their ass and doing their laundry is also unpaid labor? Yes. Yes they do. Or do you think children should raise themselves and you’re owed money for keeping the home you live in from collapsing? Also yes. Women don't like working... in general... whether it be for an employer or in their own homes looking after their own children. Everything is a hardship for them, in general, and they need lots of external validation for whatever they do.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/24 02:11 AM
1

Ha...haaaa....HAAAR HAR HAR!! Who's gonna tell him?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:31 AM
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Western society....filled with multiple women sharing one husband as the norm... will absolutely never happen. Ever. It's nonsense to even suggest that. Women want it all..for themselves. They do not want to share...anything...nevermind their dick. Women are constantly judging each other to create/manage each others social status and the calibre of husband is possibly the largest metric they've got rn. They could never survive the shame of being the woman who has to share a man because she can't…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 10:28 AM
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Good luck bro. I had the same arrangement with my first wife. We were together for 5 years, I thought everything was fine...had 2 kids and a dog....then bam: out of nowhere she had to be married. I fought it....I lost. Went downtown and got married by the JP.....divorced 12 years later lol.
/r/MensRights16/04/24 06:31 AM
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Yes. I haven't met any yet who don't. Most are (or at least act) embarrassed about it? Not sure why.... Also...its not that they're out there....determined to have ons after ons after hook-up after situationship....its just that...at the end of the day....they're horny and they'll take what they can get. A hook-up is better than another lonely night sometimes....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 09:30 PM
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Not only do I have contempt for women who have hookups/One Night Stands, but I myself do not have any interest in this way of life. I find it seedy, unfulfilling and disgusting. Thats all women dude. Just bail on all the colored pills and stay single. You did it. You're out of the trap. You don't have to worry about any of this shit anymore. You WILL NOT FIND a human female that doesn't fuck her male friends and then lie about it to cover it up after the fact. They all do it. So...just take your…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/24 02:33 PM
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I would be appalled if my young adult children (in their 20s) were trying to settle down. I've raised them to be wiser than that. Exactly zero humans who "settle down" in their 20s are happy with that decision 20 years later. It's too early and produces a lot of remorse for the life you don't get to live.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 02:17 PM
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Yeah.... came here to say this. Why would being married mean that I am now obligated to pay for this person's vacations? They're still poor. If they couldn't travel before.... they still can't.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/24 01:57 PM
2

Women run churches. Have for a good 20-30 years now... if not longer?
/r/MensRights13/04/24 04:40 AM
8

Neither. Both sound terrible.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/24 11:33 AM
1

Nothing because it doesn't exist. Toxic masculinity was just a concept invented by radical feminist misandrists to make boys and men hate themselves.
/r/MensRights03/04/24 01:33 PM
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India is worse. There are no supports for men over there. Its where we're headed in another 20 years. For example: if a man promises marriage...then the two have sex...and the offer of marriage is subsequently withdrawn (she gets ghosted) ...the man will go to jail! Just imagine a world where you could be facing jail time for casual sex with a consenting partner. That's where india is at.
/r/MensRights02/04/24 10:55 PM
6

This.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 03:21 PM
1

It exists but its probably illegal where you live. It's available over the counter in Canada.
/r/MensRights01/04/24 03:45 AM
2

Hate 'em.
/r/MensRights31/03/24 12:41 AM
1

This
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:41 PM
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No....not really. The logic used is literally "women and children need to be supported... men can fuck off." It actually perfectly represents the logical paradigm that it was created with.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:41 PM
2

He will get nothing but a big bill.
/r/MensRights28/03/24 02:38 PM
1

I'm a dumper. Can confirm...a mostly healthy childhood (parents fought a bit would be the worst I saw). Parents... not happily married tho. Dad....not really an alpha....my mom did whatever the fuck she wanted and then they would fight about it lol. So....you gotta work people like me into your theory.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/24 02:38 AM
1

Yes. 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 11:27 AM
1

It will never take root here... even if some fringers promote it. Women here want the dream: big houses...big suvs..2 or 3 kids...crazy kids activities schedule...and a beaten dog of a man paying the bills. Korea is very different. No suburban McMansions....no giant suvs... no bragging rights for being house poor and exhausted from your family life...etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/24 10:54 AM
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You're not married. You don't have to admit shit. What's she gonna do? Breakup with you? No. She isn't. Wait it out. It won't be two days before she wants an explanation why you're avoiding her lol. Yes....you have to pull teeth with women (almost every time) to get them to apologize. But if you're not in the wrong.....don't apologize for shit.
/r/MensRights24/03/24 04:00 AM
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I'm going to Mexico in a couple years. Probably already have enough in savings to last 25 years+ down there... but we're getting a new contract next year which means a big payout. After that windfall....sayonara!
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:31 PM
1

There are beautiful, smart, educated women in their mid 30s... never been married... no kids. Not ran through... never had a hoe phase.... my current gf is one such person and she's 10 years younger than me.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 03:03 AM
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No one said that. Where I live, if a man is in shape and has money... he can pull 25-29 year olds all day long. You want younger than that? If you do... you shouldn't.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:30 AM
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Well friend... take this time to enjoy your singlehood. Travel...see the world...stop making 'finding a partner' such a big priority and have some fun. Women have the wall to contend with...we dont. Ive known men single into their 40s....then find someone they click with. Honestly....relationships are highly overrated. They're mostly stress inducing and expensive as fuck (if you don't have money...another reason to drop it for now). I've got as close to a perfect relationship as humanly possible…
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:21 AM
1

Fair.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:10 AM
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Why are you trying to make female friends so badly? I've had one (other than current gf) in my entire life. And that one was just because I got friendzoned as she was faithful to her bf.
/r/MensRights23/03/24 02:06 AM
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Not allowed? You're a man. You do what you fucking please or you should turn in your gonads. Sorry...just tired of all these men blaming women for their hurt feelings. I'm a mra...I've been treated horribly by women over the years (lied on...falsely accused...swatted multiple times...jailed...lost access to my children, etc) but things only started getting better when I remembered that I was born with balls and started using them. You wanna cry? Cry wherever the fuck you want to, as loud as you …
/r/MensRights22/03/24 02:08 PM
8

Well thank God someone said it.....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 02:00 PM
1

Truly sad. All the best to you in finding your smart guy to co- build life with!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:43 PM
2

The inference would be: in a healthy relationship one party doesn't always get their way, to the psychological and emotional detriment of the other party.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 09:09 PM
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In my experience (25 years of blue pill dating/marriages before tilting red) women in blue pill relationships need to be right/be in control/call the shots/have thier ideas win the day practically always. And....I'm not really sure why that's the ruling paradigm because it essentially ensures the man/husband will eventually harbor resentment and hate his life....but that's how it goes in the majority of blue pilled relationships. All of the "happily" married blue pill men that I know...are actua…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/24 08:59 PM
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Sour grapes. That's all it is. I realized that a few years ago myself. I actually heard a guy say (when discussing mgtow) "if I had to, he should have to, too!"
/r/MensRights18/03/24 10:39 AM
1

Because they will give them babies without much second thought.
/r/MensRights15/03/24 11:21 AM
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The divorce rate nowadays is over 50%. Of course, I understand that maybe they might have gotten along initially, but I do really think that most people would rather rush into a relationship with someone they aren't really fully compatible with than even consider being alone. Bingo. People love misery; suffering gives life meaning. Sitting alone... with nothing to complain about (other than being alone) for most humans is a fate worse than death. We would rather have company that we hate... "To …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 08:12 PM
5

Yes. I've heard that's usually how it goes. When you're young/poor...left. After you accumulate some wealth/ get older... right.
/r/MensRights14/03/24 05:37 PM
5

Clearly someone who has never been married....
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/24 01:34 PM
1

Non-exclusivity became the default when casual sex became the norm (the 60s). Non-ownership of our lovers bodies became big back then...free love as it were.... and we have never looked back. I'm old and I've never known a world where a person assumes exclusivity when they start seeing someone. The social norm that I have always known is 'they're single...looking for a bf/gf.... of course they're talking to/seeing/fucking other people. That's what you do when you're single.'
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 01:37 PM
7

Came here to say this
/r/MensRights11/03/24 01:03 PM
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Every single man that is married to a woman like that should absolutely seek a divorce lol.... you're better off being celibate than keeping around an entitled harpy like that.
/r/MensRights11/03/24 11:12 AM
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No woman would go for that lol
/r/MensRights09/03/24 02:21 PM
1

I believe it
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:40 PM
2

Very true
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 11:39 PM
5

Yes. Most do in my experience as well. They're just ticking the ticky box because - based on feedback I've gotten when I've asked - they really don't know what else to do with their lives. We have been conditioned to believe that an unmarried life, without children is, somehow, inferior. Depite the fact that everyone can readily understand that marrying and having a family creates an impossible debt hole that most never get out of...it costs all your time....your sanity...your happiness in most …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 07:49 PM
1

Just be honest lol. Imagine if women were honest? 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/24 11:52 AM
1

Yes. Exactly!
/r/MensRights26/02/24 02:43 PM
6

Eureka! We have the unicorn 😊
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 08:15 PM
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Yes....of course. Just like it would bother a woman to discover that her bf had sent dozens of dick pics out to randos. Most women would consider such a guy 'undatable' if they knew before it got serious.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 07:19 PM
1

I dunno....
/r/MensRights25/02/24 06:24 PM
8

Main reason I've never watched Game of Thrones. Too much sex and glorification of the feminine sexual expression. Not entertaining for me. Women seem to love it tho....lol (same was true for OITNB)
/r/MensRights25/02/24 06:10 PM
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Because their friends are poor...or unemployed...or underemployed....or smoke too much weed...or don't like/want kids...or don't care for travel...or are gay....there's myriad reasons why they don't pick their friends for serious intimate relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 06:06 PM
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The age of the relationship is drawing to a close. They aren't of any meaningful value anymore. They're strictly transactional and we have arrived at a time in history where people are openly stating the fact that they're just looking for someone to use....until their usefulness runs out. I mean.....why anyone would even be interested in one today baffles the mind...but I believe that by 2050 it will be completely over. In my country right now it's mostly new immigrants keeping the old standard …
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/24 03:15 PM
2

They would just be happy if all of the working men in this world - from trash collector to CEO - were fired tomorrow, and replaced with women...any women... regardless of qualifications or experience... and the resulting economic apocalypse to be embraced as "progress".
/r/MensRights25/02/24 02:59 PM
1

Where are men blamed for beauty standards? Women invent new beauty standards faster than any man can keep track. They contantly judge each other... it has nothing to do with us. We just react and try to keep the peace "oh...1" wide fat black eyebrows are in now? Ohhh...yeah they look great 'gulp' so natural...not at all reminiscent of having marker drawn on your forehead after falling asleep at a party...nope...nuh-uh....greeaatt look 👍🏽"
/r/MensRights24/02/24 02:55 AM
1

Wellllppp....clearly you've misunderstood me. I've been saying that setting is bad. Scroll up.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 04:20 PM
1

It is realistic and its beautiful to behold. And that's the sad part. People don't even know what a healthy relationship looks like because we have been settling for so many decades now. Sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 03:14 PM
1

Sure. But I'm seeing people who are fighting 3 to 5 times a week....sometimes every day....saying they love this person lol. That's not what love looks like. When you get a chance to see a couple who actually love each other....who fight maaaaybe 1 or 2 times per year (some never)....then you understand the epidemic situation of settling that we are going through.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 02:10 PM
1

I don't disagree in theory. In practice however these "hard seasons" are just heavy cope.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:59 PM
1

It is the standard practice. Most people will argue that they didn't settle...that they married the love of their life....but they know the truth and it comes out in how they talk to their partner... how little sex they have...the resentment they feel toward their partner at times. It's all because they never genuinely "loved" the person they married. That person was a means to an end...that end usually being getting a baby for women. And for men it's usually when the woman has a house or other …
/r/PurplePillDebate22/02/24 01:30 PM
7

If they can find someone willing to hand over wads of cash weekly, so they can stay home and still enjoy hair/nails/pussy wax/mimosas with the girls etc....where's the harm? Same goes for men...its just most men don't want that. There are plenty of divorced, older ladies with their ex-husbands money willing to keep a young man with a hard dick for them. When I was 19 I had a 38 y.o. Dentists ex-wife paying my way. I outgrew the arrangement in time. But if you can find her...and you want that...w…
/r/MensRights22/02/24 03:35 AM
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They will start approaching men, but their attitudes are the issue. Until their attitudes change we will continue to watch the rate of marriage applications and live births plummet. Which is great imho. Married/family/house/dog/kids activities is a long con that men get literally nothing out of. We only pay. We pay for it all and are left with nothing for our efforts in the end. Smash and dash boys....relationships are an ancient relic of a bygone age of mens slavery. Modern men are wiser and le…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 11:56 PM
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Ummm.....because you have to join a conservative religion lol? No booze...no porn....no sex toys....no kink....no parties....no fun, that isn't approved by the pastor/preacher/imam or you're going to hell. Not to many lining up for that journey.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 07:30 PM
1

Worth it? It depends what metrics we're using to make our value judgements. Financially? No...never has been. Socially? Yes...everyone will cheer for you! Emotionally? Likely no....but your emotional state was probably not great beforehand anyways or you wouldn't have asked the question. Psychologically? Likely yes because you'll get some validation from 'being a man' and 'being a provider' and 'being a father' etc. Cognitively....again likely yes because you will think that you're living out yo…
/r/MensRights20/02/24 12:37 PM
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That is a thing. Some trans persons use an inflatable penis to engage in intercourse.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:08 AM
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He is undateable. Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 01:56 AM
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She still does hookups. Just not as frequently and with fewer dudes.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 01:27 PM
13

Came here to say this.... thank you
/r/MensRights17/02/24 12:02 AM
2

Indeed
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 09:27 PM
1

So for discussion purposes, let's say government financial incentives for young families are up for a vote, meaning financial support for women who have children before 30. Additional financial support? Beyond the existing baby bonuses and other tax breaks? I would not support it mainly because it would further incentivize women to shack up quick/young to get their family....whether they are particularly interested in a man/relationship at all. Which means more men getting their children taken a…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:31 PM
1

For white male reproductive success maybe. Us poc's makin babies like the rents due.....
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:49 PM
1

If you see it as a game with winners and losers, then your objective is just sex.. not love. Which is fine. But men need to be able to make this differentiation. If you're objective is just sex... by all means lie, manipulate, extort for freebies....go wild and have fun. The problem is most men..really just want sex.... but then pretend like they want a relationship. Dating the same person for weeks...months...years.... then wondering where the "love" has gone (really just the sex has gone as th…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 02:46 PM
2

Yes. This is correct.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:35 PM
10

Because everyone in our society believes and/or agrees with the notion that women are delicate flowers to be protected. If they act out in their cute little rage by destroying a man's property...awww, harmless aren't they? So fragile and needing of protection that all they could do is key his car or punch him repeatedly with their feeble little arms.....awww....sweet things
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:30 PM
5

Its reddit. This is their safe place.
/r/MensRights13/02/24 02:27 PM
4

Men get what they allow. If you're with a woman who doesn't get you anything for valentines day... that's because you never said you wanted something. If your woman is a demanding boor on valentines day, that's because you allow it. Men will never improve their station in life if they sit around waiting for women to change. Don't like how your woman treated you this valentines day... let her go and find a better one.
/r/MensRights12/02/24 03:01 AM
3

Block, delete, disappear.
/r/MensRights06/02/24 12:19 PM
3

The plumber I referred to is Bay Area CA. Imho...in those high rent districts...trades is the way to go. When they need a framer or a plumber or an electrician...they are ready to pay!! In a place where its cheaper to live....no one can pay my $38,000 bill for fixing their floor lol. In the Bay area....they fuckin pay!!
/r/MensRights04/02/24 05:37 PM
2

Not where I live. One of the wealthiest men I know is a plumber..a friend from hs runs his own construction company and puts an avg of 500k/a in his pocket. Where do you live that people don't know the truth about trades? I went to university and I'm actively encouraging my sons to learn trades so they can become financially free, instead of being wage slaves like the overwhelming majority of the college educated.....
/r/MensRights04/02/24 05:22 PM
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The sooner men realize this, the better of they will be. Most women want their "princess day".... the groom is just a necessary evil to many of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 01:56 PM
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Have you ever had sex? I think not. If you had... you would understand the point of casual sex. Go have some....then you'll get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 03:12 AM
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Some of us just fuck women. Just pick the horny ones...they don't care about anything but dick. Single moms are easy....gals 35+ too...chubby girls....they all just need dick. Only the 24/25 yr old model types need game and....if you choose to play their game....that's on you.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 12:37 AM
1

Aporophobia.... hatred/fear of the poor.... not specifically men tho.
/r/MensRights02/02/24 11:52 AM
19

I'm quite certain everyone who can "enjoy the decline" is enjoying it tremendously. They always have. Was the point of your post just to boast? Lord your delicious accomplishments over the heads of the less fortunate? Is that what you're doing? Say it ain't so fam....
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 11:50 AM
1

That is the oldest lie going. I've never met a woman who didn't become a completely belligerent asshole before having a nerve cooking meltdown when they are forced to do more than one task at a time. If women are multi-taskers means "I will verbally abuse everyone within 30 ft of me and seriously regret every decision I've ever made" then yes.... women are great multi-taskers lol
/r/MensRights29/01/24 09:06 PM
13

Agreed. But if the thirst could be squashed... and men could collectively stop rewarding women monetarily for "look cute, jiggly bits"; stop financially rewarding them for their narcissism and squishy bumps... perhaps they (females) could start to evolve into healthier more compassionate beings and begin to look rationally at how men are treated; pushing for more fairness in marriage/ divorce law (for example) and look at protecting school aged boys, instead of demonizing them for being born wit…
/r/MensRights29/01/24 06:06 AM
14

Block. Delete. Done. You can have kids whenever you want. That's the power of manhood.
/r/MensRights23/01/24 02:10 PM
5

If anything its the other way around....
/r/MensRights21/01/24 06:39 PM
3

You're not alone. Have a gf tho... she's not the western standard female i.e. doesn't argue much and understands that when I say "thats enough" I'm expressing a boundary, not interested in more riveting academic discourse about how her idea is the better one 😉. Otherwise tho...I was full monk mode before we met and I was already comfortable with the idea of staying single forever. I was actually happy... for the first time in 25 years of adulthood/ relationships with women.
/r/MensRights19/01/24 11:16 PM
6

Not get married. It is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 06:37 PM
0

This is what has been the case in my part of the world for 30+ years already. Where are you writing from that this is new? Genuinely curious...... Any girl I've dated... it was always with the understanding that she's fucking other people. I was....why wouldn't she be as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/01/24 02:46 PM
7

God let's hope so. In the developed world anyways... but in poor countries, having a wife/ family still seen as the highest possible achievement for a young man. Sad.
/r/MensRights17/01/24 02:43 PM
2

I don't think my baby mamas were lying tho...I just think all their 'pro choice' evaporates when that hormone gulash gets served in their brains. All they can think about is booties and onesies....an abortion becomes the farthest thing from their minds.
/r/MensRights15/01/24 04:19 AM
1

You should break up if you don't want to be a dad. She will 100% keep it. Every woman I've ever put a baby in said they would get an abortion if they accidentally got pregnant. Drove them to the abortion clinic... mental breakdown à la "I can't kill my baby" (like.. bro it's 128 cells right now... it's not a baby... but anyway). They never abort when the father is a good dude. And.... I've got a lot of kids now 😄
/r/MensRights15/01/24 03:54 AM
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Nah mate. All genders are expected to live up to stereotypical ideals. Many women want to be mothers... some don't... the ones that don't, still have to endure the judgment and criticism from family and friends, which is ever present. Same for men that don't want families... not one of their mothers is like "oh yay! No grandkids" quite the opposite in fact. It's fucked... but that's humans.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 11:24 PM
6

I have 4 sons...with my guidance and a little luck....none of them will marry. If they have some children here and there....whatever.
/r/MensRights14/01/24 03:34 AM
1

If only all such men had such a platform, so the upcoming generation could see clearly that bluepill/feminism is nothing but lies designed to separate foolish men from their money.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 03:31 AM
1

Fun. It's fun. Sometimes people do things for fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/24 04:20 AM
3

Do you remember covid? People wearing masks into restaurants... then removing them to eat, chew and cough on each other? This world done been a joke for a minute....
/r/MensRights12/01/24 07:35 PM
1

Men....would never....show up to protest....their lack of access to whores.... Men don't even protest when their money is being taken away by the government. Whores are easy enough... and safe enough to get...just about everywhere in the west. If not in your local area...Vegas is a relatively cheap weekend getaway. If you can't afford a weekend of whoring in Vegas...then you can't afford a woman anyways....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:30 PM
-2

They have been brainwashed by 40 years of garbage feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/24 07:17 PM
1

Why would you believe that people don't understand that? Is there an argument stating that money and status make you fake sexually attractive? That hardly makes any sense. Girls want to fuck men they see as successful. Period. 97% of them will also steal as much of that wealth as you let them. Also a fact. I think you're making the wrong point. A better point is "just because a woman finds you genuinely sexually attractive... don't imagine for a minute that her eye isn't on stealing your wealth"
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:46 PM
11

Very true
/r/MensRights08/01/24 03:41 AM
79

We are a threat to the social order. If men ever realize that they are the sacrificial lambs and thankless revenue generators for future generations (read: their primary role is to make new humans..shut up..and die).... if they ever realize that no one cares about their feelings, hopes, dreams....if they ever say "fuck this, you will NOT use my humanity just to produce future taxpayers and line your pockets; I am a whole human deserving of respect and until I get it, I'm just gonna do me" if men…
/r/MensRights08/01/24 01:48 AM
3

Ummm...I don't know if that's true? There wouldn't be women making $500k/mo on onlyFans.. selling panties.. selling bath water etc... were it not for legions of men paying them (combined) millions of dollars per month.... just for the most transactional, superficial form of female attention ever invented....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 07:07 PM
1

Basically every day. It's the first order of business in most conversations. Specifically at- work/ Co- workers.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:43 PM
-1

Yes. If she's not getting love/respect/attention/affection from her bf. Yes 100% yes (I know because I have chatted with non-ho3s...who shouldn't have been chatting with me...but they were because their bfs were being cruel to them). Ho3s don't need mistreatment to do it. They just can't resist the attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:35 PM
1

It's not hard for non-ho3s.... just hard for ho3s.....
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 05:23 PM
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Haha.... that's the myth lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 08:51 PM
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Maybe the 30 or 40 who comment on here don't...the other 4 billion definitely do lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/01/24 11:05 AM
22

I quit dating 2 years ago... went monk. Greatest thing I ever did. Then one of my female friends (who isn't a ho3, low bodycount, introverted nerd gamer like myself, funny, attractive but was also on nun mode) suggested that we try each other out... maybe we were exactly what we needed. Ngl....purrrty fuckin happy now lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 01:04 PM
3

I too have spread my seed. Many are adults now... doing well. I've always supported them.. paid for everything. Fuck this living with a miserable woman shit too frfr. As soon as they get too much attitude they're single moms! Fuck em. Men deserve to be happy too. Not gonna be disrespected in my own fucking house lol......
/r/PurplePillDebate05/01/24 12:53 PM
0

How the fuck is any of this real? Who marries a jobless mental patient of either gender... and then wants a fucking family.... with said jobless mental patient? Or an overweight nurse...or a fat, ugly, old, short... what the fuck... who wants to have kids with these people!!! Why did you marry them?
/r/MensRights03/01/24 03:35 PM
2

Yes and no. If you're an illiterate and/or totally ignorant of anything going on in the world...a more intelligent person will likely struggle to find you attractive...even if you've got money and status. Likewise....if you're a MENSA alum... but you're broke and live in a ghetto....no non-ghetto peeps are gonna pay you any attention.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/12/23 09:44 PM
2

All big companies are. They don't advertise it (obvs) but they definitely prefer people drinking the popular socio-political kool-aid (e.g. gotten married...feeding children...embracing the suck, if you would)
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 09:42 PM
2

I was married with a pile of kids when i started there.... they rolled out the red carpet for me lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:36 PM
1

We're talking about wealthy educated people here. Multi-millionaires. Do you think they don't understand subtlety? Or nuance? Or the value of unspoken rules in business? Do you think they conduct themselves like the average woke plebicite who needs to verbally telegraph their every thought or motive?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:27 PM
1

They all use "oh I totally want to keep it casual" as a method of trying to lock down a keeper. I guess it works sometimes/most times? Every guy I know that started casual ended up there... myself included.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 02:07 PM
3

Every organization is people....and people can be prejudiced. I know wealthy businessesmen who employ dozens of people...who have flatly told me "that guy wanted a raise...but he doesn't have any kids yet. What does he want more money for?" Or "she's not married" or "why isn't he married yet" etc. If you think there isn't social pressure to conform coming from your place of employment...you are mistaken.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:49 PM
1

Likely social pressure from family, peers, employer.... everyone wants to see everyone else struggling too. If you're the one who's genuinely happy and single... there will be a target on your back.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 01:04 PM
5

All of the perceived advantages of 'growing up' have been exposed as heavy cope by the previous generations. Adulthood actually sucks... and it has always sucked. It's just that when each generation gets there... they have to come up with reasons that it doesn't suck... or else they would all unalive themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 12:59 PM
27

People don't divorce lol....but they fucking scream at each other every day...get drunk on the regular...cheat when they're 'working out of town'...abandon children to be raised by grandparents...hate their partners....hate their life ffs....I know all about those 'Christian' third world countries bro. Dont act like its better than dating. At least when there's dating you can have some fun.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/12/23 11:11 AM
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I have 4 sons. I don't want any of them to go through what I did. If that means not taking a chance on a relationship with a woman... they'll be better for it. I've told the older ones... dating.. hooking up...fine. But moving her in and putting up with all manner of disrespect... just to have convenient access to a sex partner... not worth it in the long run.
/r/MensRights30/12/23 09:57 AM
1

If you have no money....why would you want a woman? Literally all they do is spend 20 hours a day looking for things to spend money on. It seems like there's lots of young men that don't get this. Between the ages of 14 and 33....female humans define themselves by what they have...what they want...and how they're going to get it. You will never meet a woman in that age bracket who is simply....content. This is not a dig. They are designed to be that way for the purposes of creating the most hosp…
/r/MensRights29/12/23 08:13 PM
-2

I have one so I can tell you: 'Not prone to argue' That's it. A submissive woman can let her man win sometimes. Normal women cannot and will not abandon a point until a full blown argument has occured. When I say we're done....we're done. No more arguing...and NO hard feelings.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:42 AM
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No he absolutely does not. Any relationship that requires simping in order to maintain it, is not a relationship worth having. Read that again.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/12/23 01:18 AM
3

Ever eaten at a buffet? It's moderately more enjoyable than a single plate.....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/12/23 08:08 PM
13

There's the truth speaking.... every guy I know who got married matches this description.
/r/MensRights17/12/23 01:55 AM
12

I see that as a reason a lot. But... where does this "continue my bloodline" come from? Who cares about bloodlines? Like...most men accomplish very little in the 70-80 years that they're here. Are we really that egocentric to imagine that our incredibly mediocre bloodline matters for anything?
/r/MensRights17/12/23 01:54 AM
23

Big femcel energy
/r/MensRights15/12/23 11:58 AM
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Its just casual sex man. Its really not that big a deal. People inject meaning into things a lot of times when there isn't any.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:57 PM
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If we just fuck...yes. You're no different than a rando I'd bring home on a Tuesday night. You're just moderately more convenient lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:48 PM
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I feel like that's not the same advice we would give a woman in his spot, which makes it a little suspect to me. I wouldn't advise one of my daughters to invite her fuckbuddy who she just dumped (and he's calling her an asshole) to sleep on her sofa. I mean...no. You gotta leave. I feel like if the genders were reversed...what this guy did would get rounds of cheers. Which means it should generate the same enthusiasm for a man doing it.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:46 PM
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Really? Have you met humans? I agree he could've been nicer...but he's just a guy tryna smash. Girls turn guys down for sex 20 times a night when they're out sometimes. They don't have any obligation to be kind about it. Likewise...if you're my fuckbuddy...prepare for heartbreak when you ask for a more committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:36 PM
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Really? Have you met humans? I agree he could've been nicer...but he's just a guy tryna smash. Girls turn guys down for sex 20 times a night when they're out sometimes. They don't have any obligation to be kind about it. Likewise...if you're my fuckbuddy...prepare for heartbreak when you ask for a more committed relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:35 PM
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What is he supposed to do in your mind? Let his bootycall sleep over? I'm sure she had a car/access to transportation. It's not like he left her on the street. She's not broke and/or asking for financial assistance. Her feelings were hurt but that's inevitable when these sort of arrangements come to an end....one of the two parties is gonna be hurt.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/12/23 03:31 PM
1

Here here!
/r/MensRights13/12/23 08:15 AM
2

Nah. You don't need to be married to have kids. People will never stop fucking, marriage or not. ETA: if that's the price of men building a less predatory marriage/ divorce paradigm, then so be it.
/r/MensRights13/12/23 08:14 AM
45

Lowest number of marriage applications ever this past year. It'd call that a big win?
/r/MensRights12/12/23 02:22 AM
-1

Why would you bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/12/23 07:06 PM
2

Broooo.....she kicks you!?!? If this is true you must leave. If you're not leaving because "you don't want the drama" then sorry, you're getting the results which that mindset demands. Men should always "want the drama" that comes from demanding respect. What happens if a guy grabs your womans ass...you let him? Because you don't want the drama? No. If someone disrespects you...you bring the drama.
/r/MensRights07/12/23 05:40 PM
1

Washing is not daily. Cooking is usually shared (most couples that I know) if the woman cooks at all. Tidying up the house is usually shared (or just done by the men when both work because the woman is "tired" from working). If men have more free time its because they don't need two hours a day to scroll social media and buy things on amazon lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 06:41 AM
1

Have you met women lol? They have a laundry list of things they perpetually need done by their man. Starting with: remaining employed at a good job with high pay and health benefits, taking out the trash, shoveling snow, cutting grass (bagging and taking to the dump), hanging shelving, building furniture, repairing the: doors/windows/roof/toilets/plumbing, changing light bulbs and....the list goes on. Seems like a fair trade to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 01:13 AM
2

Except it does. If underwear is sexy...the noun/object (underwear) possesses the attribute/adjective of 'sexy'. Its no different if the noun is a car...a city...or a person. It's a grammatical modification of an object. Women wanting to be seen as 'sexy' are literally seeking objectification, by definition.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/12/23 03:53 AM
5

Women....don't? Seriously? They deliberately objectify themselves. I would find it hard to believe that they're not enjoying it. No one has a gun to their head saying "post semi-nude pictures and call yourself sexy". Everything women buy needs to be "sexy". Sexy literally means 'designed to promote sexual thoughts'. They want to be seen as sexy...we don't ask them to be and don't care if they are (in fact....most men would prefer that the entire universe not look at their woman and think "I wond…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 10:30 PM
3

I think you know the answer to this. Girls dont get turned on by tampons...they don't wanna fuck their tampons lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/11/23 05:43 PM
10

Women have been traveling to get fucked by black guys for ever. It's just that more of them can afford it now than ever before.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 02:49 PM
27

No means no doesn't apply to men and - for reasons I can't quite understand - everyone is ok with this. One of my friends has a gf who will not accept when he says no to sex. She pulls his pants down and tries to get him hard. Its sexual assault. But he would get laughed at if he told anyone other than me. Do that to a woman... jail time. Fuck this world.
/r/MensRights30/11/23 02:45 PM
1

Not if they fell in love with you and believed there would be a future...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/11/23 07:23 PM
1

Are you kidding? It's gotta be one of the easiest things to accomplish in life (provided you can pull anything at all). Assess their emotional needs...then tell them the things they need to hear. Done. Now...its a horrible, monstrous thing to do and she will be a complete wreck when you finally give up the ruse (after you're bored) and I would sincerely say never do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 11:32 PM
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Block, delete, move on. Act like it never happened.
/r/MensRights26/11/23 12:01 PM
1

Sometimes? Lol. God bless them for their efforts but, that is the female creature - desirous of burdens: men...children...working and raising children...keeping the (extended) family together...following artificial beauty standards...worrying about their weight/skin/hair/etc...they literally don't have to burden themselves with any of those things... but they like to. They're bored otherwise.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/11/23 02:25 AM
3

Indeed. But I just got myself there after 25 years of simping and getting walked all over in two different failed marriages. It's possible. There are women out there who've been dreaming of a life where they get to take care of their man. My gf now is one such woman. Spent 20 yrs with lazy dudes who didn't like working, made her wear the pants and pay for almost everything. Then she met me. I'm happy to pay for everything as long as I'm being taken care of. And....good food and good sex are at t…
/r/MensRights23/11/23 04:31 PM
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Not them. You definitely go fuck them. They're waiting....
/r/PurplePillDebate22/11/23 11:33 PM
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I dunno. As you get older you will come to appreciate a woman that tries to keep you satisfied in the food and sex department. Most don't even do that. Most can't cook and the starfish is the only sex move they know. If you get one that's cooking for you everyday...and randomly pulling your cock out to swallow your kids before work, just to make sure you're taken care of....I mean....you could do worse.....
/r/MensRights22/11/23 10:19 PM
5

I think you know what's up. We have been sold this myth of "longterm relationships" to enable women to have children. Outside of trying to help a woman become a mother....there's literally no need. Meet people...make friends...fuck occasionally...none of that requires a relationship or anyone living in your house.
/r/MensRights19/11/23 11:43 AM
2

This
/r/MensRights15/11/23 01:11 PM
34

Unfortunately they have been conditioned to believe that -simply by virtue of their cervix- they deserve $150k/a to pour coffee at Starbucks.
/r/MensRights14/11/23 08:53 PM
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No man with any money or wealth (family) or high income employment/ business revenue... should ever get married. Ever. Marriage was not ever for men like that. Now if you're broke or under-earning... sure, get someone to help you, but know that she will be calling the shots (because she knows that you need her help financially).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/11/23 03:02 PM
1

I lived that chapter of my life lol. Your turn!
/r/MensRights11/11/23 02:46 PM
13

Tra-vull bro.... You go backpacking thru Thailand with some bros....drink some tiger dick whiskey (or cobra whiskey).... sitting in the jungle looking up at the stars pulling on the opium pipe.... you will travel to new dimensions. Then head over to Japan... spend your days getting pampered in bath houses.... Life is awesome bro....and so much bigger than finding a woman to nag you for the next 30-40 years.....
/r/MensRights10/11/23 01:18 AM
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Bro....she for the streets. Men sacrifice dignity for pussy far too often. Be better please.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:43 PM
2

Its mostly luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/11/23 12:35 PM
1

The only single 30+ year olds that I ever hear/see crying about missing out on marriage and kids are women. The single guys in that group travel and golf and are perfectly content (I don't know any incel types - single and frustrated). That's what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/11/23 03:36 AM
1

Rent for a really nice house in the Philippines is $120/mo
/r/MensRights08/11/23 03:32 AM
1

No
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 06:55 PM
1

Don't. Its the best advice imho. They most likely will anyways....so I just straight up tell my sons that they shouldn't in the hopes that I can delay the inevitable. They know their mom cheated on me and ruined our life so...that helps too lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 07:02 AM
11

You're only here for a finite time....why spend it with someone who likes to fight and argue, always needs to get their way and wouldn't say sorry if you paid them $100 every time they should? Western women aren't wrong....ever. They've been conditioned to believe that men should cater to their wishes...its crazy so many guys do marry them tbh. But...the men in the west have been likewise conditioned to simp. Some don't want to simp anymore. Women everywhere else still appreciate the value of a …
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 04:04 AM
3

Someone make it make sense.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 12:42 PM
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100%
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 03:29 AM
1

No more gendered bathrooms. The federal government made it illegal. Granted...not everywhere has adopted the practice and - to my knowledge - businesses that still maintain gendered toilets are not being fined...yet.
/r/MensRights23/10/23 03:27 AM
10

Where the fuck does this "guarantee every man getting a female partner" thing come from? Its obviously not western... what country(ies) espouse a philosophy like this? Is this an India thing? China? Russia? Africa?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 02:27 AM
0

Man here. My gf didn't like my explore page and she just quietly cleaned it up herself. Is that an option?
/r/RedPillWomen23/10/23 02:24 AM
2

The problem is perpetual complainers would rather complain than actually do anything to get ahead. Indeed. But that position is a part of every civil rights movement. There will always be those who sit on the sidelines and talk...and that's about it. Still valuable. Every army employs soldiers who are totally fucking useless in combat. They do other jobs; no one expects them to ever point a gun at anyone. Work in the warehouse... work in the kitchen... serve coffee at Tim Hortons on the base. Wh…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:29 AM
3

Bro.... there's no rush. Don't like your options here... travel. The point of travel should be to see the world, first. You're too bored to see the world? Really? Everywhere you go, you will bed a dozen women if you want. Once you've done that in 6 different countries, then come back and tell us how bored you are with your options. Family is conservative... show them your options here and ask which winner they think you should shack up with. People don't really understand what's up today so they…
/r/MensRights20/10/23 10:29 PM
9

The perpetual complainers serve a purpose. The goal of the group is advocacy. The complainers do the service of reminding those who have done the work, who have managed some success, who have changed their lives for the better.... they remind us that misandry is real and it hurts people. Just because some make it out doesn't mean the work is done.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 10:19 PM
2

Clearly this picture is not in Canada lol
/r/MensRights20/10/23 08:42 PM
2

I know we don't use emojis on reddit buuutt....😂😂😂😂
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 05:17 PM
5

Men will fuck a stranger they just met an hour ago in the planet fitness showers. Man on man...no condom...no further contact ever. Women are not that horny. No woman would ever fuck a stranger in a dirty public shower that has likely been shit and pissed in. But men do that shit every day.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 02:00 PM
2

Nah. Most women that I've met are looking for sex... then try and manufacture a friendship bond after the fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 01:55 PM
3

Your friend needs help. Professional....help.....
/r/RedPillWomen16/10/23 09:30 PM
1

Its a thing bro. There are women who will pay you for companionship. Just daily texting...being charming...and occasionally traveling to visit/hang. You don't even have to fuck if you don't want to. They have subs on here....jus sayin........
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 10:02 PM
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Where are you located, if I may? I am in rural Canada (read: which is everywhere except the 3 big cities) and it's just not a thing here. Any unmarried women that I know (through work, social, friend circles, etc) want to be. At my job we get about 50 new people a year..about half women. I've been here 10 years. Yet to meet a single young woman (21-30) who did not want to be married (and have minimum 2 kids....some 3...very few/none more). Is this an urban phenomenon?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 09:53 PM
13

Its not unreasonable. The right guy would be down.
/r/RedPillWomen15/10/23 06:56 PM
2

The best bet of a man these days is to marry a hard working, independent woman. Less of a chance to get fcked over during divorce. Are you serious? A hard working, independent woman will take you to the cleaners just as hard as any other...if not harder lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/10/23 05:17 PM
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Never heard of this? Any woman that I've ever known who moved in with a man...that owned his own house...or was even renting... wanted to get married. Is this a geographical phenomenon, perhaps? In rural Canada (read...everything except the 3 big cities) girls want to be married.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/10/23 06:10 PM
3

Wishful thinking imo.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/10/23 03:12 PM
2

How are modern women still into this patronizing 'expensive sparkly rock' trend??? Like....its so dehumanizing...so insulting....so basic.... Oh! You want to be loved?? Here's an expensive rock. That's your love. Show your friends. Now fuck off and stop bothering me.... I'm...just totally fucking shocked that they're still being duped by this horseshit that was literally invented as a marketing stunt, designed to pander to the 'stupidity and insecurity' of women. Feminism has accomplished nothin…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/10/23 10:43 PM
-2

Welllppp....if you want to continue to have zero female friends, just continue saying things like that out loud lol. We know it....but there's literally no value in saying it. No one who hears it will thank you for your wisdom.
/r/MensRights07/10/23 10:20 PM
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That sounds like absolute nightmare fuel. Honestly....if you are a sexless male....you are better off eating cheetos in bed by yourself playing ps5 than being trapped in a house with an unhappy woman. And I guarantee you that the women in this hypothetical scenario would not be very happy. And also wouldn't give you any sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 05:03 AM
1

You think everyone in my orbit is my age lol? There's guys in their mid-twenties...early thirties....early forties....early fifties. The youngest is 23...5'4"... has (by his own admission) a small dick and still has been single maybe a month in the 3 years I've known him. And that period was by choice in between partners.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/23 12:59 AM
1

37 Canada
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:05 PM
3

Fair
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:28 AM
6

I sincerely do not think that is the case. We are all fit-ish, that's true. But very socially outgoing....definitely not. Mostly introverts. I met my current gf on a discord server ffs.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 10:18 AM
2

I only know average men. None of them are going without sex. One could be labelled an incel...but its not involuntary? He's just not really that into sex and dates very rarely. He's definitely not out there complaining that he can't get laid...he really doesn't seem to care. So...I dunno? Where are these sexless average dudes? The single guys have their choice (if anything trying not to let the crazy ones get their claws in too deep is the biggest challenge). And the married guys with kids get t…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/10/23 08:28 AM
1

If you ever see a man 50 plus in an age gap relationship...the girl is always a dime. Women rarely can pull fit young men (for relationships, not just sex) when single over 50.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/10/23 12:05 AM
3

Won't happen.
/r/MensRights02/10/23 11:36 AM
0

I know....they weren't hearing that at the time tho. Some of them know better now..
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 08:45 PM
3

Feminism. The birth control pill heralded the sexual liberation that women believed (at the time) was the final thing stopping them from taking over the world. So women could finally fuck like the men did. Whoever...whenever....no strings attached. No more fear of being trapped with an unwanted pregnancy. That worldview persisted for quite some time, but it doesn't exactly line up with the most current iteration of feminism.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 05:17 PM
6

You don't need to ask permission to use any means of deception that you think is appropriate to get laid. You're an adult...we all do whatever tf we please. Being dishonest about your wealth is a fine way to get more attention from women (rent a lambo...get valet'd at the club...get bottle service...prolly cost you 2k for the night) but if that's how you want to get laid....why not just hire a whore for $350? Other concern is if you do meet someone that you think is great... and fall for her....…
/r/MensRights01/10/23 01:02 AM
2

Came here to say this. Much obliged.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 11:50 PM
2

Social acceptance? Join hobby groups. That's what I did and it was life changing. Personality doesn't change after 30? Bollocks. I wish I was the man I am now when I was 21. After 30 is when I finally hit my stride. Eat clean, lift heavy.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 01:21 PM
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It's certainly a step in the right direction. When I realized how predatory most women are to men, I stopped all of it. No holding doors... no giving up seats... no offering to carry heavy things.... done.
/r/MensRights30/09/23 04:24 AM
2

"So-many"???? Where? India? Lol. Not in the west.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/09/23 01:43 PM
1

Pretty standard in my part of the world
/r/PurplePillDebate26/09/23 05:50 PM
2

We would make new ones
/r/PurplePillDebate22/09/23 12:18 PM
2

Never heard this before? Just me?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 11:37 PM
459

Intact male here. Never been an issue. Just pick smarter girls lol.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:59 PM
2

Importing 4 million foreigners a year for the last 5 years and now no one can afford to buy a house (because the foreigners live 4 or 5 families to a house and don't care if a 3bdrm 1100sq.ft. bungalow is 2.8 million dollars lol)
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:56 PM
1

I don't entirely disagree. Yes...nations will import foreign breeders who still hold on to the "family" myth to backfill the taxpayers who have decided to bow out. That said....not a great solution as Canada is also now learning.
/r/MensRights21/09/23 04:53 PM
2

This
/r/PurplePillDebate21/09/23 02:12 AM
4

You just described dating. That's dating. Hanging out and fucking sometimes.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 11:07 PM
1

Not helpful at all. Will lead to men losing their jobs. Do. Not. Shit. Where. You. Eat.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/09/23 08:51 PM
15

Really? You don't know a single man....in 2023....who got divorced and lost $500k+ (or insert whatever amount of money seems outrageous to you). Like....none? My point is you will rarely if ever hear the same stories about women. The system is designed to keep men obedient plebs who will help raise children (tax revenue generating units). If men stop participating in the "family" myth....the system collapses.
/r/MensRights20/09/23 08:21 PM
1

It ebbs and flows. Enjoy your freedom for now...it will be back lol!
/r/MensRights20/09/23 11:11 AM
3

😄😄😄
/r/MensRights19/09/23 11:17 PM
7

Still very much exists in Canada. After 3 years of cohabitation you are as good as married and she can take half your stuff under the homesteading act.
/r/MensRights19/09/23 07:25 PM
-1

Similar. is your girlfriend or wife the kind of women RPers would consider good female partner material? Yes. Cooks. Cleans. Puts out my clothes in the morning. Protective of my money. High sex drive. What is her job situation? Doesn't work. What is her appearance like? Average build. Conventionally attractive. Is she timid and meek, strong and outspoken, does her personality suit their expectations of femininity? Shy and introverted. Doesn't need to be corrected more than once usually (and that…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 07:16 PM
1

You are correct. But that is by design. Men simply need to sow their seed to be successful from an evolutionary biology perspective. So... as many babies with as many females is winning genetically for us. We play the odds 'if i make 30 offspring...at least 10 will survive to adulthood statistically'. Women don't have the same privilege because the babies literally consume them. They are extremely vulnerable for almost a year long gestation and they need help with basic things by the end and the…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:45 PM
1

Right. Because humans never analyze trends and put contingencies in place to mitigate disasters. I'm sure the framers of the new deal had no idea the numbers of fatherless children would balloon to what we have today.....🙄
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 01:30 PM
1

Yes. In fact it is. As a species we have decided that we are ok with single moms and their fuckbois living off welfare that we (taxpayers) provide. We literally built our society precisely to protect that demographic. We recognized the natural order and built a system to protect it. Like... how else do you think it happened? It wasn't an accident lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 03:26 AM
2

Defy it...sure. But complaining about it...claiming there's an "epidemic"...that's just sour grapes from the non-breeders.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:15 AM
1

Thank you
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:13 AM
2

I don't get why you make it about reproduction? First, it is not natural selection, but sexual selection. That is natural selection. The most "fit" individuals - biologically speaking - get to pass on their dna to future generations. That's all natural selection means. If criminals and rapists are the ones being the most successful at getting their dna into future generations....then that is how the human species is evolving. Eventually we will likely return to barbarism and go back to eating ea…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/09/23 02:12 AM
9

I'm not sure if the "lonliness epidemic" is anything more than natural selection at work? Not all males get to mate. In all speices. Humans have just managed to double their population in the last 50 years, so arguably there's millions of men experiencing "lonliness" simultaneously....which hasn't maybe happened ever before? I dunno. Humans for some reason (the ability to use reflexive cognition, perhaps?) have gotten to the place where they think all males should get a partner. That literally h…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 11:16 PM
1

Money. It just means they want access to your money. Period.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 08:54 PM
46

Stop simping for pussy. That's literally the one thing men need to do that they seemingly cannot do. As long as we're out here ogling women and fantasizing about them, we will remain second class citizens. Men don't need marriage... men don't need children... women do.
/r/MensRights17/09/23 12:29 AM
2

I think it will just be random chance. I refuse to believe anything else. I think intuitively we all know that there isn't really any way to "find" our soulmate...and the fact that everyone settles with "Mr or Mrs good-enough" tells the tale. People reach a point where their desires for other things (security/children/status/whatever) eclipses their desire for true love. So they find "good-enough" and get the other things...and then grind it out with someone they don't really like for as long as…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 03:18 AM
3

Sure. In brief: After two failed marriages I had decided that what I didn't need, was any more romantic relationships. I wasn't looking for romance; I was over it. No dating apps...no flirting...no keeping my eyes open for who might be looking my way....none of it. So I decided to just make friends...just to have people to talk to/hang out with who wouldn't be pursuing my friendship hoping to get laid (that's kind of key). I realized that keeping an interest in sex dictated the company that was …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/09/23 12:36 AM
5

Its a real thing. A couple years ago I would've agreed with you...but I know its a thing now after having experienced it. The reason it seems like its a hoax - as you say - is because most people just settle. But now I understand...if you refuse to settle...and straight up dump every partner as soon as your guts tells you (we all know when it happens...we just decide to stay in unhappy relationships out of laziness) you could maybe find that person. But most people never give themselves the chan…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/23 10:22 PM
1

Where do you live that escorts and strip clubs aren't normalized? Totally normal where I'm from..
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:22 PM
1

Well....obviously. Brevity is an underused resource on here lol
/r/PurplePillDebate03/09/23 05:17 PM
1

Nah. You settle when you take a partner who isn't exactly what you want BUT you're afraid of being alone.... so you take what you can get. You compromise on your own standards. You're not happy... at all. But at least you're not alone. I only found a happy relationship after I decided I would never settle again. Same for her. We had both been - intentionally - single for a bit before we met because we both decided we were not entering another relationship unless the person was an absolutely 100%…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/09/23 10:26 AM
4

Girls can snub whomever they want for whatever reason they want. No one knows/ talks to any of their neighbors where I'm from and everyone quite likes it that way. Why would she be obligated to talk to you... because of a coincidence of geographical locations?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 10:06 PM
1

So....bleak when you put it like that! 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 08:11 PM
2

The number of divorced 10s walking around with kids from 3 different guys, living off alimony and child support has reached epidemic proportions. They're not single because they're unattractive...they're chronically alone (except for short term situation-ships) because they're toxic, soul draining narcissists. Nobody can endure them for long...but many will continue to try for a chance to lick that ran-through cooch.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:36 PM
1

Well it would appear that I did indeed miss the point lol
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 04:25 PM
0

Don't.... tell me... you believe that BS lol???. They just put that shit on their profiles so they don't get judged as ho3s. Every single girl with that shit on their profile has taken a dick within 2 hours of meeting some guy and/or fucks their 'guy friends' casually NSA. It's game bro. Girls have game too.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:26 PM
0

It is if you like having sex 2 or 3 times a day (or more). Otherwise... no point really. If you can go 2 to 3 weeks (avg. turnaround) in between each opportunity to spread cheeks and lay pipe in a pussy...then you don't really need one; you'll be content banging randos off the apps. Long-term... do you want a family? Which is really a coded way of asking "do you want to give all of your time and money and freedom to a woman and her children?" If so... then you kind of need to find one to keep...…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/23 01:14 PM
5

Yah we're different. I don't keep female friends that I'm not fucking lol. And I presume everyone else behaves in like fashion (they just keep it a secret).
/r/MensRights30/08/23 05:26 AM
1

They don't like to know that the man they are allowing to penetrate their vashine is also giving other women the same pleasure. Same reason men don't want a ho3.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/08/23 04:48 PM
10

Depends who you're listening to. Feminists? Sure. If I hear that I think "there's a guy that knows his worth!" There's nothing wrong with having boundaries. Mentally healthy people understand this. The only male friends my gf is allowed to communicate with are the gay dudes. And they have to be very gay lol 😆
/r/MensRights29/08/23 02:57 PM
2

And....when exactly do you think this changed? When were the very best humans the ones who were reproducing? 50 yrs ago? 100? 500? When did we go so wrong? During the expansion of the British empire with the transatlantic slave trade? The conquistadors who murdered millions of Indigenous? When the egyptians had millions of slaves? During the roman empire? The ottoman empire? Neanderthals? My point is humams have always been trash and always produced trash lol. Its just that now we're able to qua…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 10:09 PM
1

Because children are free to make and for a few months after they're born, they bring joy that you've never experienced into your life. Without money...or the freedom to get on a jet and see the world...children are the only joy there is for the poor.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/23 01:08 PM
2

I think its part of a healthy relationship. Helping your partner out even when you're not really in the mood. And in practice, you usually end up turned on and enjoying it with them anyway.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/23 03:21 PM
9

Lawyers. An expensive team of lawyers.
/r/MensRights27/08/23 02:06 PM
5

Because they like having someone to do manual labor for them and earn money for them to spend. They don't like working. Men don't care. We will work till we collapse and we're happy to..
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 11:11 PM
8

Men shouldn't marry. Period. They get nothing out of it. Logically...it makes no sense.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 11:08 PM
13

Where i live men prefer childfree women because then there's no risk of an accidental pregnancy or getting baby trapped.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/23 05:17 PM
1

Its fine. She wants to raise a handicapped child...he doesn't. There's no moral highgroind on this one. Its not any more "right" to keep the child than it is "wrong" to leave it.
/r/MensRights26/08/23 08:19 AM
1

So the childlessness epidemic is only happening to women with more than 2 brain cells who aren't helping to regenerate the population. Got it. Childlessness epidemic happening among people with more than 2 brain cells choosing not to help regenerate the population....😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:45 PM
-1

Must be a regional thing. Where I live its a 21-29 year old single mom epidemic. I think 14,000 children were apprehended last year in my city alone and almost all of the mothers were under 30
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/23 12:00 PM
1

Now? Its been called the market for 30 years...loooong before it was navigated mostly online. When you're cold approaching at a bar... what you are showing is still the primary tool used to determine interest. If your value is something that cannot be shown....its a tough sell. Imagine a shitty looking car...but it drives great and gets excellent fuel economy. Some will take a chance on it...but most people will pass because of how it looks. That's why fat people are funny. You have to have some…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:41 PM
2

Fake name...fake number....why is this so hard for these young fellas?
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:33 PM
-1

Because they want to have babies. And that's easier when you're 25 rather than 39.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/23 05:28 PM
1

Man here. Old. My gf quit her job to move in with me. She does the groceries (we often go together but ultimately she decides what goes in the cart) but I pay. I pay for the utilities and rent and dates as well. I try to remember to compliment/acknowledge/mention my gratefulness for all the work my gf does around the house...but sometimes she just asks "babe, you haven't said anything about all the work I did in the house!" - literally last night when I got home from work lol. In my defense....I…
/r/RedPillWomen17/08/23 03:36 PM
1

Wow. My story is bad.... yours is worse. Sorry friend.
/r/MensRights13/08/23 11:48 AM
2

Rookie mistake. You're supposed to make up a different account for different subs. Minimum 2 or 3.
/r/MensRights09/08/23 10:42 PM
1

They don't. In fact... they shouldn't. Who says they have to.?
/r/MensRights08/08/23 12:56 PM
1

Do you want to be in a relationship with a human female? Sometimes they want to fuck after someone else has turned them on. Not a big deal. Just fuck em.
/r/MensRights08/08/23 12:38 PM
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Are you being serious? Women love babies. LOVE. They don't care how shitty the father is... they love having little ones to chase around and make food for. Motherhood (for most women) gives their life meaning...purpose...value. All things that nothing else can give them.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/08/23 12:16 PM
2

If you like peace, comfort, joy... then yes.
/r/MensRights02/08/23 11:22 AM
1

It's just that their vastly different dating experience means they see the same question differently, and thus appear to be "dishonest" when compared with a male's experience. That is the most highly coded way of explaining lying that I've ever read. Bravo.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 02:33 PM
2

Yes. But also smelly. Dudes be out there smelling like a bag of cool ranch doritos talm bout "I can't get a woman". You stink gee. No pussy for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/23 12:43 PM
1

Sounds like you're into men. Just date a dude....prolly be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:06 AM
1

Sounds like you're into men. Just date a dude....prolly be happier
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/23 01:06 AM
6

Most guys not getting balls drained....just wallet
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:59 AM
18

Men need to become much more discerning. There is literally no reason for a working young man to marry. The only reason men from that demographic have provided me when I challenge them is "you need two incomes to buy a house". Fuck a house. How many incomes do you need to buy happiness? Freedom? Joy? This fucking house thing is a cancer that was developed by the ruling class to trap tax revenue generating units in wage-slave misery. Fuck a house. Rent forever and die with a smile on your face. Y…
/r/MensRights31/07/23 12:50 AM
2

My gf doesn't work and we have no kids together. She lives in my apartment and I give her an allowance. I've tried it the other ways... nothing but headaches.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/23 09:34 PM
32

Ummm...men/dads as buffoon was literally all we had for tv entertainment in the 90s lol. Married with children, simpsons, everybody loves raymond, home improvement....I could go on lol.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 03:50 PM
0

All we can do is keep speaking up to change the narrative going forward.
/r/MensRights24/07/23 11:52 AM
1

Ex-fatty also now yoked...can concur...found ex-fatty gf....never been happier (full disclosure: it's fun to occasionally pig out with someone who also loves food but doesn't want it to ever control them again). Don't despair friend. Also....most importantly...don't waste your life looking. If you're lucky enough to meet that person... great. But that's not what lifes about (I think you already know that).
/r/MensRights23/07/23 05:31 PM
19

Any man in a committed relationship who isn't taking "his time" is the fool. That's somewhat harsh to hear perhaps but really... who is telling him he can't have it? The woman? The children? If dad says he's going golfing... he's going. How would that not happen? Because my wife is going to throw a fit? Come on... let her have her tantrum, if she must. Doesn't affect my swing lol. Bigger point here is that the relationship is already trash if a man has to fear reprisal for trying to get some "me…
/r/MensRights23/07/23 03:48 PM
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This is the most uplifting thing I've ever read on this sub. I'm...so, so happy for you that you've developed the skill to spot mental illness and the courage to walk away. That's what I could never do (until my late 30s early forties) because I always felt guilty or felt bad for leaving the girl alone. Thank God that ship finally sailed.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/23 12:40 PM
2

No it is not. Men are expendable. We are the soldiers that they send out to die so they can keep buying cheap Chinese goods. We are the plumbers and framers and construction workers they use to build and maintain their nice quality of life. Why would they care if their tools are crying and lonely? They're just tools. Just close the lid of the tool box and you won't hear the sobs.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:32 PM
1

I have 4 sons. I'm raising all of them to avoid relationships at all costs. I know they won't (they're good looking boys and it will be virtually impossible for them to dodge females forever) but I hope my coaching at least helps them dodge the bullet long enough to get their money and life right. I've never told them what their mother did to me... but they know it's bad lol.
/r/MensRights16/07/23 12:14 PM
5

Oh jeezus....lol. Never. Gonna. Happen. Lonely men simp for ho3s....always have, always will. Appreciate your intentions but.... not possible.
/r/MensRights14/07/23 12:27 PM
1

Hold on.... are you dating a woman who is arguing that she should be allowed to go out... to bars.... alone....and topless? If so (in case no one has told you yet) DUMP HER. She's for the streets. I would say you can do better but fuuucccckk bro.... how'd you get stuck with that one in the first place!?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:21 PM
1

What inherent value is being lost if long term relationships go completely extinct? What data are there to support the belief that LTRs (with all the quarrels and fights and endless conflict) represent some "ideal" arrangement of human effort and energy? All that is really being lost... if the faith in LTRs disappears... is an old tradition. And sometimes old traditions need to die in order for better healthier ways of living to emerge. It used to be tradition in the west to send children to wor…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/23 05:17 AM
3

She had been cheating....with more than one dude....got pregnant.... and tried to trick me into thinking it was mine.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/07/23 04:44 AM
4

Get a vasectomy. Its free.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 02:12 PM
43

Ummmm....hell hath no fury like a woman scorned? Unfamiliar with that figure of speech? When I filed for divorce from my first wife she 1) burned my comic books 2) sold my dog 3) parted out my truck 4) moved across the country (illegally) with my children. And my story is not unique. It's women who can't handle rejection lol...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 02:10 PM
1

I did get makeup time but I didn't get it through the courts. We just hashed it out ourselves.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 03:04 AM
2

My experience is I've been in court for 4 years now...spent over 55k on lawyers...and nothing has changed. Not saying it's worse...but it's not any better. All I did was buy my lawyer a boat. It really seems like the family court system just throws their hands up and says "What do you want me to do? This person is shit. We can't fix shit people. But...by all means....let's talk about it again in a couple months. Oh....and that'll be $14,388.14" I do think you should take your lawyer's advice....…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:53 AM
21

people should stop trying to date people with lifestyles incompatible to theirs. So. Much. This. I've seen so many posts of men complaining about their woman and it's like "was that the case when you started dating her? If yes...shut your fucking mouth". You don't like a girl who posts semi-nude pics online??? Then don't date one!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/07/23 01:25 AM
2

Nothing happens. Unless you wanna start filing police reports every other week. If you have deep enough pockets for the ensuing legal battle....and have nothing better to do with your time...sure, go for it. Otherwise....the court expects us to figure it out and not be in front of a judge every month complaining about our ex being an asshole. The judge knows your ex is a selfish asshole....all ex's of all genders are. That's all the judge hears every day. Everyone behaves selfishly...everyone vi…
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:11 AM
13

Par for the course under the present zeitgeist. Personally I think its unfair to the fans to take an established character (who is known and loved by generations) and say "haha...he's a girl now!" But....I also don't own any of these trademarks or intellectual properties so my opinion matters for dogshit.
/r/MensRights09/07/23 01:05 AM
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Personally, I think women dont like sex too much. Welllppp....clearly you don't know any women lol. Women are just as horny as men...often more. Single girls are putting new batteries in their vibrators every 5 days (married girls almost as frequently!) ....they wear those fuckers out!! They're just quiet about it because they don't want to be perceived as slutty (which is unfortunate, but a reality they have to deal with nonetheless)
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:20 PM
5

When has it ever been "society's" job to tell people how to act? Society is literally just "people living together without killing each other very often". There is nothing about controlling the behavior of individuals inherent in "society"....unless you want a "draconian society" where our freedoms are restricted and our behaviors are dictated to us. If people want to watch porn...they're allowed to in civil society. If that porn watching corrupts their mentality in some way or other....they're …
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 10:16 PM
2

Never admit that you're wrong. Never say sorry. Never imagine that possibly you are the source of the problem. Not sure if those are in the original code, or if they're ammendments....but they're in there lol
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:57 PM
6

Because they have no choice.
/r/MensRights07/07/23 03:55 PM
1

Wow. This is....this....groundbreaking stuff right here..... Anybody know the Dean of a PhD genetics program we can recommend OP to?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:54 PM
15

Never lol. The only feeling I've every gotten from being vulnerable in front of any woman was "this was a mistake. I shouldn't have told her that". Women aren't good at receiving vulnerability from their men. They don't like it.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/07/23 03:50 PM
1

It seems like there's this fantasy in this sub of finding a girl and suddenly never being lonely again. She'll take care of all your emotional needs, provide all the sex, and all the companionship. When is she going to have time to live her own life? One person cannot fix your loneliness. You just can't expect anyone to be there for you at all times. Everyone has their own shit going on. I appreciate what you're saying....but it can be found. I found it. I was never looking for it because I used…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/23 01:49 PM
2

If you want a woman who is ok letting you dress her...then pick one that's ok with that. They're out there. People always put the cart before the horse: you want a say in how your woman dresses...but you got into a relationship with one who's not comfortable with that? That's on you bro. Why would you do that? Just to have someone to fight with every day? That's an easy second date question: if I was uncomfortable with how you were dressed to go out, would you be willing to change? Fully underst…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/23 09:29 AM
1

It's hard to get out....and once you're out you'll feel guilty about taking care of your mental health at the expense of your marriage.... but fuucckkk is it good not to have that evil b1tc5 screaming insults and abuse at you.....so yes, I agree....get out!
/r/MensRights02/07/23 09:22 AM
1

Do not feed it......
/r/RedPillWomen02/07/23 09:04 AM
1

🤷🏽‍♂️ maybe its a geographical thing. The women I know don't have much savings.... if any. They are content having a "cute" car (late model beemer for $685/mo for 86 months) nails $400 bi/weekly, hair $800/mo, cosmetics $200/mo, etc. Most are going in the hole $200-$300/mo.... that's why they're stressing getting wifed up so bad; they know the lifestyle they love/have is unsustainable on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/23 02:30 PM
1

: You are a catch you have so much to give, why are you single? Just sounds....so....predatory.....
/r/MensRights01/07/23 02:23 PM
42

Some are. Few. Most have a friend (or two...or three sometimes) who they can hang out with when they feel like getting laid. Most aren't just sitting at home being lonely and not getting sex when they really want.
/r/MensRights01/07/23 12:59 PM
42

This has gotta be a troll....
/r/RedPillWomen01/07/23 01:24 AM
1

There are some women who would go for what you are suggesting...but they're expensive to keep or they're not worth keeping. If she's a 10....and she agrees to let you fuck around and she will keep herself just for you....she's gonna cost 3k to 5k a month to keep around. You'll have to get her an apartment and pay for her lifestyle needs (And you better have some bomb ass dick or she will eventually cheat on you).. If she's anything short of a 10....well, you're not gonna bother having that talk …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/23 01:10 PM
65

Why would it be considered misogyny to remain a bachelor? A man has discovered that he's happiest staying single? How is that misogynistic? Why is a man's lifestyle choice being judged as a mechanism of hatred for women? What if it has nothing to do with females at all? And even if it does have something to do with women....after years of being in relationships a man decides that he's happier alone? How tf is that misogynistic? He's realized that he's happiest when his money and his time and his…
/r/MensRights30/06/23 12:59 PM
2

I think if you're using online dating as a means of finding someone for a LTR you should reconsider your tactic. Dating apps are for finding sex partners and they're pretty good at that.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:19 PM
8

Is this a joke? You get to keep your money, you can sleep-in as often and for as long as you want, you don't have to bicker with anyone over the tiny, meaningless things in life every day, you can eat what and where you want... whenever you want, you can travel anywhere and do anything whenever you want... its advantages are literally endless.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 08:16 PM
2

Mostly to the disadvantage of saving....which is the big difference. Men are happier to watch tens of thousands of dollars pile up in a bank account while they live well below their means. Women need to spend that money...it makes them crazy to know they could have something (they could afford it no problem) that they want and not get it. That's what I've seen.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/06/23 01:07 PM
1

No. I'm usually too busy pushing swings and playing the floor is lava to notice what other people might be doing or wondering what they're thinking. So.... not that I've ever noticed anyway
/r/MensRights27/06/23 04:10 AM
0

Keep in mind: all you get out of a LTR is someone constantly nagging and complaining. I get that all men want it....but be mindful of what you're wanting. A lifetime of complaints from an ungrateful partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 05:03 PM
4

Men will always want sex from women. First. Before everything else. Health, wellness, prosperity....everything. men sacrifice everything just to dip their cocks in pussy. Never gonna change.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 04:56 PM
1

Checking someone's references essentially
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/23 12:15 PM
2

Come on....do you really need to ask? We are possibly in the most gold-diggingest era of human history. Never had there been more lonely single men... with money.... available for the bilking. Guys literally sit in a basement and send money to women ALL DAY LONG these days. Sometimes, sure, they think they're in a relationship and are dreaming about having sex one day... but most times they know that they're just being used for money... and keep sending it anyway!!
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:59 AM
1

Votes
/r/MensRights26/06/23 11:24 AM
1

Women are more inclined to serial monogamy so that keeps the number of partners down.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/23 11:23 AM
3

Go to a park in a new subdivision. Look at the dads. Soft...weak...average to below average looks. I'm gonna go out on a limb and suggest they all have average social skills. 2 to 3 kids each. Why? They found girls that wanted to be moms. When a girl is ready to be a mom, she really doesn't care who puts seed in her...she just wants bambinos to squeeze and chase around. We're making guys think its all about them...when that's a very small part of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/23 04:16 PM
1

I thought you said you did? At least at one point you said you did
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/23 08:04 PM
1

Because it won't happen
/r/MensRights18/06/23 07:57 PM
-166

Well...if they're being abused....then becoming abusive would be an effort toward equality. On the other hand...if its a good guy minding his own business and getting abused...he has legs. He can walk away.
/r/MensRights16/06/23 03:27 PM
2

Not always. She can have a voice it just needs to remain respectful. That's where American women usually drop the ball. A rather high degree of casual misandry has worked its way into our western sensibilities via feminist messaging and most western women don't even see how casually and habitually disrespectful they are towards men. Some of us are just tired of it.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:59 PM
6

Not if you have any wealth or the realistic potential of generating it (read: if you're 35..no assets..make less than 80k/a...still deliver for amazon and doordash...you don't need a prenup).
/r/MensRights16/06/23 01:54 PM
5

Impossible to maintain tho. Girls get the feelz...then get clingy...then fall in love....then she's not as much fun to hang out with as she once was lol "where you been? Who was that? Why you don't reply for so long" etc, etc lol
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:05 PM
1

Don't try to manifest feelings where there aren't any. It's not worth it in the long term and it's terribly cruel to the girl in the short term.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 01:00 PM
0

Nah mate...you find a good girl and teach her how to be a whore. Then....wow.....
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:40 PM
1

Some guys like that shit
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:25 PM
0

I disagree. Settling is the root cause of 90% of marital discord as the true grievances (which were evident 2 months into the relationship) have never been remedied, thus exacerbating new conflicts and conflagrating them into major points of contention, when in reality they're usually small issues. The true grievances (the things you've never liked from day one but chose to ignore because settling) are what ultimately undo the relationship and are why most fail. Don't settle. You're better off s…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/23 12:21 PM
2

Again....gonna be different for everyone
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:25 PM
1

If its been 3 years mate....hate to be the one to tell you, but you already have. Which is okay. You're saying you don't want to let it go....but you did. And that's okay. There's lots to life other than women lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:20 PM
1

Answer gonna be different for every man. Sex....support....cooked food....money.....children.....company.....conversation.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:15 PM
0

Why do you need to reboot it? If its gone....doesn't that tell you something? You're over it. You used to find them attractive...time went on....you grew....they changed.....now you don't find them attractive anymore. That happens sometimes. Just let it happen and trust the process. Too often (out of fear) people stay in loveless relationships. Don't be one. If you've lost feelings....tell them...and you can both move on.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 04:13 PM
1

No. What the actual fuck lol.....😆 Society should pay you for your decision to...not....work!??!
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/23 01:37 PM
1

Should I keep insisting I go over and spend time but give them peace or should I go over there and force my way back and kick mother in law to the curb? Do you want to stay married to this person? If so, you have no choice but to do the above. It's your house...you took a breather....now get back in there champ!
/r/MensRights07/06/23 01:22 PM
-2

No... I get these guys lol....but I'm saying I don't think the issue is as widespread as this sub makes it out to be. The statistics that are thrown out...30% of guys single...not enough women....just trash. There's 150 kids under 4 at the new park in my area...all the dads are average to below average lol. Zero chads. Women just want someone to make money...complain to...and play with the kids. Not a high calling.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:48 AM
-4

I have never heard of guys complaining about not getting sex. Like...ever. Every man I've known....since I was 15....who wanted sex was able to find someone who also wanted sex within a week or so of looking. I get that its an internet meme thing...but irl? Haven't seen it. I even know guys with disfiguring facial birthmarks who are happily paired up with kids now. Its girls who struggle to find a good partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:35 AM
5

There are definitely women who would like a male romantic partner but get zero attention from guys. If you've never seen this first hand you must not have many female friends/co-workers or whathaveyou. There's plenty of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/23 11:30 AM
4

Sorry....my bad. 16 over there.
/r/MensRights22/05/23 12:54 AM
6

At 12 they're allowed to pick which parent they want to live with.
/r/MensRights21/05/23 11:23 PM
3

Well I think guys that pull easy don't try...probably their dads didn't either. But there are guys that seem to have a harder time getting girls and I think all the "dating strategy" self-improvement stuff is mostly for them. Some guys have been fit their entire lives. They were active kids...stayed in sports thru young adulthood...and by the time they're 25 they've probably got a few girls that have fallen in love with them and would like to marry. Other guys are 32 and just discovering now tha…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 07:54 PM
0

From what I've seen (in my own relationships and those I can observe i.e. friends, family, co-workers, etc) it seems like people genuinely believe that fighting (not throwing hands, per se, but bickering, nagging, complaining, etc) is "normal" behavior in relationships and, I believe this comes from the MWF (modern western feminism) belief that women aren't actually ever wrong. Therefore...no matter the topic....no matter the context...the women have been trained by MWF to fight and argue to the…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/23 03:57 PM
7

Dude she did you a favor. Imagine what kind of nutcases are on there....and the horseshit they call conversation that you would've had to endure?? You don't need pussy that bad. When you do, go to a local pub...pick up a townie.
/r/MensRights20/05/23 12:19 PM
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Zoomers have money and assets...they're past the point of settling down. People settle down in order to make a family and start collecting money and assets (power to buy/build/control life). Single zoomers are traveling and getting laid...not settling down lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/05/23 11:28 AM
0

I don't think most would say no. I think most youngs would say yes and then fuck it up by cheating or some other neglect/cruelty (because bored). I think most olds (45+) would say yes and then just enjoy their lives.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 10:56 AM
1

So do most people apply no critical thought to dating and relationships? Yes. Most people apply no critical thought to dating and relationships. Never have....never will. Boner get hard/pussy get wet = make a baby by accident. It's what's kept our species going for the last 50,000 years...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:53 AM
1

They would still perceive themselves as regular and wholesome, I reckon.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/23 07:40 AM
1

Girls be skeezie sometimes...you gotta ask
/r/RedPillWomen12/05/23 07:39 AM
1

How....exactly would this even come up in conversation? "Hey girl, I'm really feeling your vibe...I think we should hang out sometime... but... did you ever kiss randos at the club in your college days?" No one would ever ask lol. Did you ever do porn...run an onlyFans...have a train ran on you...fucked more than 1 person in a 3 hour window...let your "guy friends" nut on your face/tits/asshole... those are the questions we ask. Not kissing.
/r/RedPillWomen11/05/23 11:36 PM
1

Oh. I see....
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:24 PM
1

Agreed. And... for clarity sake... in my comment I was referring to regular wholesome girls who were down for casual sex...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/23 11:22 PM
12

Hookup culture is a type of feminism (there's more than one type). It's the type that takes the approach saying "women have been made to feel shame about their sexuality forever..that's wrong and we're not here for it. If girls wanna fuck, we fuck and there's nothing wrong with that" which, in principle, I totally agree with. I've had lots of fun woth those types of feminists over the years, they definitely changed the game. Prior to this wave of feminism, if men wanted casual, no strings sex, t…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 10:00 PM
1

Do you really have the energy for that? Like...I get that women do...they're women. They love that shit. But...do you? That's a lot of screenshotting to accomplish nothing....
/r/MensRights10/05/23 09:56 PM
12

Are you suggesting that there are men out there...who would want to wear some kind of apparatus to gestate a fetus in...just to avoid the headache of dealing with women? Or would this "womb" just be in a lab somewhere?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/23 09:54 PM
2

Is this real? Or a troll?
/r/MensRights10/05/23 06:54 PM
2

Dear god...too early for these truth bombs gee....
/r/MensRights10/05/23 01:28 PM
17

Men did. It's called theDirty and it was (initially) about dragging skeezie women. Since 2007.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/23 04:21 PM
1

People have been doing this on theDirty since 2007. About men and women. Posting their pictures...telling their secrets...with no legal recourse to get it taken down. I thought it was common knowledge that of you start talking to a girl (or guy) you type their full name into theDirty to see what type of shit they've been up to? I've done it (posted about women) and I've had it done about me. Who cares?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 04:07 PM
-1

Fuck do I care about hearsay? Hearsay whatever the fuck you want about me, honestly. If you're the type who believes internet rumors of all fucking things...lol...I mean...the aliens are coming for your butthole and godzilla lives in the SFO bay.... Point is I'm not bothered by the sensationalism of the weak minded. They're entitled to have their fun.
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:41 PM
1

Honestly....I don't get it. Put me on blast for dating 4 chicks....what the fuck do I care lol? This is beta shit 😆
/r/MensRights08/05/23 03:36 PM
0

How is this ruining mens lives? So I'm dating 5 or 6 women? So what? Exactly why is this bad....?
/r/MensRights08/05/23 01:30 PM
1

Do people not date multiple people anymore? When I was 'dating' it was understood that unless we've had the exclusivity talk, each person is likely seeing other people? At one point I was dating 11 women? Is this not done anymore? (Full disclosure: I am old)
/r/MensRights06/05/23 11:03 PM
6

Have you seen it? Is it verified? Either way... just tell her. Better to show her. How do you prove you didn't make it? Install the app... put in your email... select forgot password... and see if you can log in. If it's not yours... you shouldn't be able to.
/r/MensRights06/05/23 10:56 PM
23

If its been 5 months and she hasn't seen it... she might not? I assume you told her anyways? Does she know now?
/r/MensRights06/05/23 10:08 PM
1

Word gee. I gots mine! 😆
/r/MensRights06/05/23 10:01 PM
2

Ummmm.....they have no problem turning you down. Go try it...with this type of game its a guarantee. Just approach one...see what happens? I guarantee she won't go to the movies with you lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:56 PM
1

White savior.... black savior.... whatever lol. Really just means 'foreigner with resources who might rescue me from this hovel where my shower is a bucket that I share with rats'
/r/MensRights06/05/23 09:49 PM
3

I don't disagree... but I would maintain that if she finds a connection and very little or no entertainment... eventually she'll get bored and emotionally quit the relationship before she actually ends it (likely even a cheating scenario in the dying weeks). They don't all know it...but at the bottom that's what keeps them emotionally engaged in a partner. ETA: That's why in almost every cheating scenario where the girl has cheated on the guy she can say "I still really love you and I'm so sorry…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 09:42 PM
1

I've never thought of either situation as 'success'. I know plenty of married people who I would deem absolute fucking failures lol... Success is finding happiness with someone. Sometimes its after fucking 150 people over 25 years....sometimes it's the second or third (rarely the first lol). Success is not found in a title or marital status or after a prescribed amount of time has passed. Success is found with a very very special person...and there is no guarantee of finding that type of success…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:42 PM
-3

They're teenie. They can't reach high things or lift heavy things up onto the kitchen counter. Can you imagine how frustrating that must be...for a man? A woman...sure. no one expects you to reach high things or lift heavy things above the belt line. But as a man....
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:34 PM
1

Yes. One of the things women are looking for in a relationship is someone to entertain them. Not all the time...but when it matters. If the TV...or her friends...or her phone become her primary source of entertainment...what does she need a man for? She can have more fun without him.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/23 02:29 PM
10

Yeeeaahhh....I didn't get it either when I was new here. But...I get it now. They really hate men. That's all that's going on. They use artful language to create the appearance of legitimate grievances...but when pushed with logic...they always fall back on ad hominem attacks fueled by hate. Every...fucking...time..
/r/MensRights06/05/23 02:25 PM
1

There's no harm in taking a trip and working on your approach technique with foreign women. But....just because you're in Columbia (for example) won't automatically make you fuckable. Still totally worth it tho because 1) travel is fun and 2) you are likely more baseline attractive because of 'white savior' syndrome.
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:36 AM
0

Unless we're talking about Saudi Arabia or Pakistan or Egypt....who cares?
/r/MensRights05/05/23 10:29 AM
2

Who says its bad to use donated sperm?
/r/MensRights02/05/23 06:42 PM
4

Its comments on reddit gee. I'm literally doing what the platform was designed to do. You want a private conversation, don't have it in public, maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 02:16 PM
1

Sure why not. Can't be any worse than the blue pilled profiles? Also...even if girls say this shit....even if they want to be that way....they still argue, fight, complain, bitch, etc. You gotta love them for it tho....they can't help it. They're designed to nitpick and complain so that way we continue to provide the best possible living conditions for them and their offspring.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:58 PM
4

She just bitter cuz she wants to get her shit paid for by simps.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:53 PM
2

Ho-lee balls! Here's one that's figured it out. Take notes boys.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:53 PM
2

Wellpp....that'll be fine until you hear two fateful words: I'm pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:51 PM
2

This....is.....fantasy lol. There's 8 billion people on earth. The population has doubled in the last 50 years. Doubled. From 3.92 billion....to 7.88 billion. The population has increased over 400% in the last hundred years. I appreciate that you don't understand statistics (it's complicated) but even the most rudimentary understanding can help you see that it is clearly not a minority of men who are reproducing. Women have always preferred the top 20% of men....that doesn't stop them from havin…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/23 01:47 PM
5

Its just how it is these days. Women get suuuuper fucking angry being told its over and there is no loving enough Jesus in the universe to talk them out of pulling every stop to see their former lover and best friend totally destroyed. Men just have to be smarter. Or, accept reality as it is...and ride the dragon anyway.
/r/MensRights02/05/23 01:23 PM
1

Just get it covered in a prenup. Otherwise yes....she could take it.
/r/MensRights01/05/23 12:54 PM
1

Yes it is... if you find the right man lol.
/r/RedPillWomen01/05/23 12:49 PM
1

They're all average.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:48 PM
1

They know their orbiters wanna smash... they just play dumb so we don't judge them as ho3s.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/23 12:45 PM
2

I've been cheated on...I move on and get happy. That's usually enough to wipe the stupid smile off their faces lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 04:14 PM
6

The pressure is because our moms and aunties are harrassing us from age 15 to get a good job and get married. We spend our entire childhood watching our beaten-dog of a dad bust his ass to try and provide for his family (he's never good enough; everyone always needs more) only to graduate into the same hell lol. Hustle culture (if it's even a thing) comes from the matriarchs in our homes. They want grandkids.
/r/MensRights27/04/23 03:59 PM
0

It's gonna depend on the guy. I'd never wait 3 months...3 days maybe.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:41 AM
1

Similarity....hands down. Polarity creates conflict...and the truth is some people like conflict (they shouldn't...but they're broken and not doing the work to get better). So...opposites attract....if you're unhealthy and down for a toxic relationship lol
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 11:40 AM
2

Literally no one is calling an 18 y.o. emotionally intelligent lol. And... usually an older man pursuing a very young woman is (at least partially) trying to capitalize on the power differential...which exists because 18 y.o.s are dumb lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/23 10:30 AM
9

Make the shirts bru. For $250 of seed money, you can become the catalyst for changing the public discourse? Sample slogans: 1. Men run the world 2. Shower today? Thank a man. 3. Men feed the world. 4. Women talk...men do. If you need something done, ask a man. 5. Men illuminate life 6. Kids prefer their dads That should be enough to get you started!
/r/MensRights27/04/23 10:21 AM
4

We don't kink shame here.....
/r/MensRights26/04/23 03:07 PM
4

Its a risk dude. If you want kids...you take the chance. Maybe you two will last 40...50 years? Or...maybe....after 3 kids and a dozen years....you're both over it...and the divorce costs you $450k? It's just not smart, no matter how you slice it. Period. There's no way to frame getting married as a "smart" thing to do (for a man). But we all want it. I'm twice divorced...given away two million dollar houses....pay child support thru the nose....and still...I'd get married again lol. It's just l…
/r/MensRights26/04/23 03:00 PM
1

She has an excellent financial advisor. Who doesn't?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/04/23 04:39 AM
1

Agreed. ETA: I wouldn't have picked someone in this chapter of my life who didn't have their own financial security. I'm happy to pay for the food, rent and the drugs lol....but when I die I have a soccer team of kids getting my wealth...whatevers left by then 😉
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:38 AM
1

She's not concerned. We both have lots of money as individuals; neither of us are concerned about the other person's money. She labors in the home because it makes her happy. Likewise I gladly pay for everything for the same reason.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 09:23 AM
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I...too...don't understand why people accept that as the norm? It's wild...when you analyze it. Like...you chose this person...over all others to be your most intimate partner...and...you enjoy seeing them in distress? You choose conflict over peace...every...day!?!?!? My last wife 100% And when I would say "did you get married just to have someone to be mad at everyday" she...didn't even say NO! Just...a blank...fuckin....stare......
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:54 AM
0

Sorry I don't buy it lol. I'd like to hear what he says about that 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:44 AM
5

No guarantees in life friend!
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:29 AM
5

No she is not. She's a grown ass woman with her own money in the bank from the last 20 years of working as a medical professional. If we break up tomorrow she can buy herself a new house cash.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:29 AM
6

they just want a woman who doesn't want to fight about dumb shit and can admit when she's wrong. It's literally only subs who do this. Regular western feminism is 100% against any admissions of guilt or wrongdoing of any kind. And fighting? An absolute minimum for relationships with men. They believe that if they just keep talking we will eventually abandon the fight (which, we do, far too often) So....we do want submissive women lol
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 02:26 AM
71

Ummmm....he's literally telling you that he's gonna cheat on you. You can do better friend.
/r/RedPillWomen24/04/23 12:54 AM
6

I get what you're saying. But if you want family....you have to take the risk, no?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:41 AM
3

Well...if I may offer a bit of clarification: My first wife stepped out after 17 years. I had supported her for 17 years. She never worked (still hasn't). When I told her that we were done having children she went off the deep end...as she tells it her world essentially ended and she didn't care about the family anymore. Fucked for sure...but she wasn't just out to milk me. The second wife was not trad (I had a bit of a crisis after the divorce and thought I'd try out one of them working women) …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/04/23 12:08 AM
1

Thanks!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:33 PM
10

Yes. Twice divorced...supporting a half dozen kids from 2 marriages....BUT happily supporting my SAHGF in a nice lifestyle. She cooks, cleans, makes sure my uniform is pressed and ready for work every morning...I pay all the bills and keep her happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:04 PM
1

I dunno....I think a small amount of game playing is allowed in courtship. Both parties playing little games to gauge how interested the other party is. I think as long as the game playing resolves itself after the relationship becomes serious, it's fair ball.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:51 PM
1

I like you....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 09:44 PM
6

Over half the families on earth wouldn't exist if it weren't for alcohol and regrets. Hardly anyone thinks when it comes to babymaking lol. If everyone thought my way, the species would be ending in the next generation 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:28 AM
1

Have you seen their neighborhoods? The children they produce? Should they be making more desperate poor people (read: candidates for criminogenic behavior?) Really?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:25 AM
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The person who says what we're all thinking has entered the chat!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:15 AM
1

Pulling dates isn't hard really (consistently pulling dimes, sure. But I always used the 4 to 1 rule - four nerdy/fat/goth girls between every dime. If you do that then it's easy to always have horny female company). That said, you're doing it right.... it's just a total time waster worrying about dating. Girls will always be there and they'll always be horny and they get hornier the older they get! Just keep doing you.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 11:02 AM
2

I've never heard this.... plus why would anyone want to love someone "more"? It's either equal and mutual or it's not a thing at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:54 AM
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Haven't said more than a few words to a girl yet? Not including ur mum lol... I'm sure she's lovely.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/23 10:17 AM
1

My older son....when he broke up with his gf, I cheered lol. I was like, "Thank God!" And he says, "I knew you were gonna say that!" and we both proceeded to laugh our bags off. The younger one is a bit emo and stays in his feels a bit more....but we all work through our rage in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:59 PM
0

Welllppp.....the first time you suffer the humiliation of blowing your load in 18 seconds....and the girl basically laughing you off the bed, you'll wish you had practiced a bit with a professional lol
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:36 PM
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Doesn't that sound reasonable to you? I don't want to teach anyone to have sex either. Is having a reasonable preference "judging"? I think virgin guys are more self-conscious about it than they're being judged for it..... And really...go a few rounds with a hot whore. It's a lot of fun and they don't judge you. Then you'll get some experience on girls bits too.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 01:14 PM
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Some people are not nice. We learned this in kindergarten. It never changes. If a woman judges you....to your face....about a lack of sexual experience....that person is a monster. We disregard the opinions of monsters. If, rather, you're imagining that women are out there judging you for your virgin-status.... then you're slightly neurotic. Get help.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:30 PM
0

Sure. Like.... why bother if you're broke? Hoping to create an impoverished twosome? Maybe add some broke-ass kids to the party in a few years lol....no.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:01 PM
4

No savings. No emergency cash on hand. No assets for liquidation if necessary. Only purchasing power is credit based. Zero net worth, in essence (or, functionally zero). So...own a house (for example) but after mortgage P&I, property taxes, utilities, insurance and bills every month you're net -$400? Broke. Another way of phrasing it is 'the credit card is an essential piece of the budget strategy, never gets paid off, always carries over a balance generating interest penalties and the overall d…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:32 AM
1

If it hadn't been for the support of other men...I would still be in an abusive marriage. They supported me, counseled me and gave me somewhere to crash when I had to get out. One let me move in to his place for 4 months while I got back on my feet. The crazy part is... my ex believed (like...literally spoke the words) "What are you gonna do? Where are you gonna go? You can't afford to go anywhere?" as she was explaining why she felt so justified in treating me like dogshit. I don't understand s…
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:21 AM
1

Yes....yes you can. If you want to do it on a beach from about the age of 45 onward though, you're gonna have to work and save some money. I had kids along the way... which pushes it back to about 55... but you gotta put some money away or else you're just gonna be homeless and poor. Which is no fun... other than the tent city hobo sex clubs... but your junk is usually itchy after...
/r/MensRights22/04/23 11:13 AM
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Better. I was a ride-or-die simp before. Sad. So yeah, much better.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 11:03 AM
3

My two eldest sons (18 and 16) after one disappointing experience each, have taken their old mans advice and politely bowed tf out of the game. I told them to just focus on themselves for the next several years. We'll see how long they can dodge the bullet lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:57 AM
9

Broke persons (male or female) shouldn't be dating. Period. If you haven't figured out how to consistently feed yourself yet... it's not time to be practicing making dependents....imho
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 10:51 AM
3

I dunno. For those who allow the 'gamer lifestyle' to make them unhealthy and inactive....it would've been something else for them if video games didn't exist anyway. I was a hardcore gamer for years....still made it to the gym regularly and ate clean when I was cutting.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/23 12:13 AM
3

Bodycount is whatever. Truthfully...if you manage to find love, it doesn't matter. This whole 'low bodycount' thing is just a contemporary form of slutshaming. If...if it's true...big if....that "high value" men prefer a woman with a low bodycount....who cares? Do you know how many 6 fig plus, 6 foot plus, established stream of residual income men are looking to get married....??? Exactly fucking zero lol. If a man...made it to that place....where 95% of women would walk over hot coals for him..…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/23 04:28 PM
5

Open eggs rolls (spicy sausage meat with stir fried cabbage onions and carrots) are my go to easy, quick low carb one pot meal. If carb counting not an issue....linguine chicken tetrazzini - sounds complicated but its not (breasts or thighs, chopped pan fried set aside. Linguine cooked. Scratch alfredo or just use store bought alfredo if you don't want to whip it together. Combine. Top with parsley flakes and parm)
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/23 08:09 PM
1

I think it means that you could be dating (i.e. you get offers - irl or online) but you choose not to. So...instead of doing what the majority of folks do (just date even though you don't really like the option(s)) rather choosing to remain alone. Which - imho - is the correct way to adult. Dating is a nightmare lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 07:26 PM
2

You made the correct choice.
/r/MensRights20/04/23 07:17 PM
13

Women would've turned us into cattle by now.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/23 05:56 PM
6

How did you get out of it Moved out and went to stay with a mate were there any longlasting ramifications? Sure..plenty. It takes awhile to purge the self-hate that the abuser wedges into your psyche what are you doing now to help put it behind you. Being bloody happy every goddamn day! Knowing that person is still a miserable pile of steaming human trash helps too
/r/MensRights19/04/23 06:38 PM
-3

Find a job where productivity doesn't dictate compensation. I sleep for $115/hr lol
/r/MensRights18/04/23 10:15 PM
10

Why do we need to? If there’s less competition from other males.... doesn't it make my value go up?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 09:58 PM
1

There is no point in even debating these points with feminists lol. Their belief system isn't based on reason and logic... it's based on feelings. And they don't like you making them feel bad about being hoes lol. We don't care and they know it, which is why the dichotomy persists.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/23 03:13 PM
2

I dunno....jewelry is my go to gift? Girls like sparkly and it's hard to get wrong. Like....my girl doesn't care or demand it....but she's happy when I do? So what's the ish?
/r/MensRights18/04/23 02:42 PM
8

It's just making conversation while you're considering your options. Dude is probably chatting up a half dozen girls or so, running the same "wow, I'm so amazed..you impressed me" game on all of them, while he whittles down the herd to the 2 or 3 he really wants to pursue. We ghost because you have been culled and are no longer in the running.
/r/RedPillWomen13/04/23 03:27 PM
0

This
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:21 PM
4

Lmaoooo...right. legions of women out there fucking guys that theyre not sexually attracted to. Don't know many women, do you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:20 PM
7

I'm here for the lulz me self
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/23 03:18 PM
1

I said "asset" selection criteria...not "essential".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 10:19 AM
2

I think we are witnessing the dawning of a new age of sexlessness, harkening back to simpler times. Really... this sexually charged nonsense only started in the 50s/60s. Before that there was no "dating" and certainly there was no casual sex (unless it was a married person/people cheating). These are just the growing pains of the transition back. The only reason we're hearing about it, is because guys feel like they got punked. Because girls (who traditionally had to be chaste, meek, demure) hav…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:53 AM
0

There is no point for a single, self- sufficient man....zero (other than cheaper sex...it's never free). Married women with children could give two flying fucks about "who" owns the penis that fucks them when they want it. They picked a sucker to give them all his money and help them raise children, which is all they ever wanted from the jump. Most would reject this position, naturally, but their actions tell the tale.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:33 AM
7

If you want to get laid....all of the effort. If you're over it... zero.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:23 AM
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For $120 you can get great sex from a professional whenever you need it. If you "need" it more than a couple times a month then you're a 13 year old boy who has no money anyways and should just be comfortable jerking off to free porn....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:22 AM
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Mostly agree. However... there is also a somewhat more sinister intention than simply wanting someone to entertain them. I think these days the people who are dating are looking for someone that they can use as an accessory to their life...a pet, essentially. In my experience (het cis male) the women in the dating pool actually want an obedient lap dog that can also make money for them and give them 2-3 orgasms a day... they don't want an actual human male living with them 24/7. And when this in…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/23 09:16 AM
6

How does sending his daughter to college equate to wanting her to be a girlboss? In most of the world, college education is the minimum standard for employability. Sorting mail in the basement of a huge office tower or selling jewelry in the mall is not exactly "girlbossing" (but both are jobs that would list college education as asset selection criteria).
/r/PurplePillDebate11/04/23 10:57 AM
1

Have you ever seen reddit mods? Most of them are green haired shut-ins with zero social life outside of reddit (not these mods here of course)
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:35 PM
1

Why would a guy ask a woman for dating advice? Like....whaaaa....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:33 PM
1

That's not what I thought people meant by traditional.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/23 11:31 PM
29

I said at work yesterday "she took a shit on his bed!" and nobody believed me lol. Truthfully...I think feminists immediately dumped their RAM and forgot the whole thing happened.
/r/MensRights10/04/23 11:18 PM
13

There shouldn't be a stigma attached to asking. It should be normalized.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 10:18 PM
20

Babies are subjected to a battery of mandatory tests all administered within the first hour of being born. You've never experienced child birth, I see....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 04:00 PM
1

1) everytime 2) run 3) red flags are red, whether they happened 15 years ago or not 4) better to use wisdom and avoid them
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:49 PM
1

I am glad my sons are growing up hearing from someone who says "get in shape, get money and never chase women" as opposed to the messages that I heard growing up (i.e. simp over women), it's far healthier for them psychologically. Put time/energy into yourself not into stressing over making women happy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:43 PM
1

Bro code isn't for strangers??? It's for bros. You're not my bro, so, yeh, I'll take your girl.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:34 PM
11

Not a bad idea...but never gonna happen lol. It's mandatory to put the father's name on the birth certificate for child support purposes...may as well get it right
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:29 PM
1

Hell. To. The. No.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 03:03 PM
1

They don't say what they want because they know it sounds superficial, greedy and lazy. So they come up with a string of words that they think sounds reasonable to avoid judgment.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/23 02:49 PM
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Women don't want our work. They want a doctor's salary for answering phones and they will see a "wage gap" until they get it.
/r/MensRights03/04/23 01:07 PM
2

Breeders. Not every genome is predisposed to 1) efficient mate selection and 2) biological reproductive health AND last check there were 324 million variants of the human genome..... But there are breeders. Women who conceive/carry/deliver without any complications and men who can produce a dozen offspring (or more) in as many years
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/23 03:08 AM
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That's really telling that you think chubby girls have been alienated lol. These girls have 500k+ followers on social media and make over $25k/month on sponsorships. Not to mention they could catch 5 dicks a day if they wanted. Alienated! Ohh man....some people only see their preferences and then, when their preferences change...they think they've discovered something new...not realizing that it was common knowledge that they previously had blinders on for.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:44 PM
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as a man you HAVE to skillfully drive things in a sexual direction on the 2-4th date, or you just end up rejected no matter how much of a good match you objectively were. First date if you like her and there's chemistry dude. She didn't agree to go out with you to go home horny and alone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:34 PM
14

Facts
/r/PurplePillDebate27/03/23 10:30 PM
1

Agreed. In my experience even when abortion is free, safe, accessible.... they still choose to keep it...
/r/MensRights26/03/23 04:58 PM
1

If they're insecure... then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 04:32 PM
3

This happened to a male cadet when I was at the academy... got accused of sexual harassment/assault. When the investigation was over, senior brass agreed that sexual harassment had taken place... but they correctly identified the female as the offender... not the victim. Her uniform was taken and she was sent home. It was beautiful.
/r/MensRights26/03/23 11:13 AM
1

I don't think there is an equivalent for men? Women have some default likes, including (generally speaking): flowers, chocolates, jewelry, expensive bags, etc. The default like for men is sexual reciprocity. As in: we buy the "default likes" for them to demonstrate financial liquidity and a willingness to spend our resources on the female. Women like this. All we want in return is a willing sexual partner. Lots of animals do this... but mostly birds. Some fish. Males bring presents (sticks, ston…
/r/MensRights26/03/23 10:51 AM
1

Where do you live that older man/ younger woman is shamed? I've never seen or heard of this and from what I can see where I live.... no one cares when this happens...?
/r/PurplePillDebate26/03/23 10:40 AM
1

Welllppp.... after our divorce she has gone on to have 3 more children soooo.... I'd say yes
/r/MensRights26/03/23 10:15 AM
5

Lol....I have spent the last almost 20 years taking care of babies. My oldest is 18 and my youngest is 3...six kids total. Taking care of babies is not hard....like...at all But....what you said 😂
/r/MensRights25/03/23 02:13 AM
3

Learn how to do....what precisely? Sit in a rocking chair and hold a bottle? Exactly what do you think is difficult about taking care of babies?
/r/MensRights25/03/23 12:47 AM
1

😂 I'm good
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:29 PM
2

Written by someone who has never had sex lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/23 01:26 PM
5

Don't need a burner. Just use a phone dialer app. It will assign a random number to your device which you can change whenever you want.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 06:34 PM
0

It may not seem like much to you.... but women are expected to look pretty, smell good, dress nice and be somewhat knowledgeable on current events to participate in decent conversation. This is a burden for most of them because they would rather be in sweats with no bra on, free to fart when necessary. Again... it may not seem like much to you... but the burden of "being pretty and poised" is equally as exhausting to them. You think they roll out of bed looking sexy? It takes a pile of work. And…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 03:40 PM
1

Yah but if you're dating... who cares? You can kick them out at the end of the night after a shag, and then not see them for a week (more?) if you want? If you get married... fuck me, there they are with their stupid flaws every goddamn day lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/23 10:58 AM
12

Use fake name and number... delete/block after if she crazy.
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:52 AM
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They wouldn't care if they found the guy attractive......
/r/MensRights21/03/23 10:48 AM
39

Marrying for love is - historically speaking - rather new. Not many people outside of the last 70-80 years married for love. It was usually necessary for survival.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 09:51 PM
-1

Fair. It just puts you in the provider role which most men dont really want Unfortunately...that is the role most women want men in lol. There isn't much reason to spend time with us otherwise. She can find dick anywhere....but finding a provider....now that's the game for females.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 07:04 PM
1

Power....status....are code words for money. Increase your money (i.e. how much you can generate per unit time) and "power" and "status" follow in tow. Women are attracted to men who can "do" things. They (typically) have heads full of dreams, but they (usually) need help to make those dreams reality. If you are tall... you can help them reach things that they can't. If you are strong... you can help them lift/carry things that they can't. If you can hold down a job, you can help them enjoy stab…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/23 03:10 PM
5

Not all. I get what you're saying but I know women who just wanted kids and never really wanted permanent-live-in male company lol (maybe at one point they thought they did? )
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 10:30 AM
4

Women definitely become child focused after becoming moms, but not all of them lose all the romantic feelings. Some do... that's the game. Can't know how it'll go for you till you live it.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/23 09:59 AM
1

Excellent work!!!
/r/MensRights15/03/23 01:55 AM
2

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 11:53 PM
1

Have you done it? Sounds like no lol
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 05:26 PM
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Doesn't sound like you really care? Ya? Like....are you wanting to try dating? Basics: Don't 'act friendly/befriend' a woman you would potentially like to fuck. That's creepy shit. If you want a friend...be a friend. If you want your dick sucked....say so. Then she either gets to say yes or no. Lots will say no....some will say yes. That's dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:27 PM
0

Having someone who earns as much as you is just having another man in the house. If you haven't lived it...talk to some that have. Women who earn as much/more than their partners do not allow themselves to be told what to do and they do not compromise. The only good ideas are their ideas...the only good plans are theirs....if you want to be cucked and henpecked then bring one into the house that earns the same or more than you lol. Thanks for coming to my ted talk 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:23 PM
4

What the fuck is happening in this comment thread.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:19 PM
5

Out of curiosity....where would one look to purchase a condo in 'alphaville'....asking for a friend.....
/r/MensRights13/03/23 04:17 PM
1

Doesn't matter much. The only real problem is potentially "well, what has she been doing with her time if she has no education or career? Sucking cocks? If so....pass." It seems like its easier for us to handle a bit of promiscuity if it comes in an educated/bossed up package. If she's been a ho3 for the last 4 years but is pouring coffee for minimum wage with no plans to improve her station....not exactly partner material no matter how hot she is.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:15 PM
2

Huh? The reason we use 'fat' is because it is: 1. Hurtful and, 2. Objective We don't use 'fat' because it's "the best comparable analogy". Ugly is subjective...call her ugly and she can respond "to you maybe, but I'm beautiful!" Call her fat?....just about instant tears; no arguments possible. So the point is that women are being cruel and hurtful when they bodyshame shorter men. Thus....we tend to be cruel and hurtful back.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 04:08 PM
2

Its an online relationship. I'm guessing you've never even met? Block, delete, done. Next!! You can do better....
/r/RedPillWomen13/03/23 04:02 PM
5

Isn't brazil super dangerous tho? Pardon my ignorance...don't know much about it, hence the question. Like...aren't uber drivers robbed/murked 50 times a day down there?
/r/MensRights13/03/23 03:38 PM
4

There it is.....
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/23 03:34 PM
1

It sounds like that person was describing your typical "single-mom in housing gets short-term bf around tax time" situation. In those cases, I agree 100%. Most of the dudes cruise around and move from single-mom to single-mom, never sharing any of the expenses as they do. Again, speaking in platitudes, these dudes are usually felons or at least ex-cons who don't work and smoke weed/stay high 24/7. And yes.....there's a shitload of them living the single-mom/public housing/get her to use her welf…
/r/MensRights12/03/23 05:57 PM
8

That's because women have choice...men don't in the same way.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/23 05:51 PM
-2

Not for awhile now
/r/MensRights12/03/23 03:13 PM
1

This is not actually true.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/23 03:53 PM
1

I respect the grift. I look at it as a voluntary wealth tax - money redistributed from the first world to the second world. Not a big deal in the larger scheme of things. Agree 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 09:06 PM
0

Am I? Cuz that's the relationship my gramma...and your gramma....and every other gramma had in their time...... ETA: the sugar babies that I know charge their daddies $3000/mo for the "privilege" of access to their vaginas a maximum of 4 times a month...on a rotation...with all the other dudes. 4 nights per month, you get to go to her place after your work day is done and she will have a hot bath drawn for you...give you a massage...serve you a meal...and ride your dick all night. Not what I des…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:54 PM
1

I'm with you. John said the same thing when he wrote The Revelation nineteen-hundred and twenty seven years ago lol. God doesn't care about how stupid we are 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:38 PM
3

One of the women who I know that lives this lifestyle actually married one of these guys on one trip....then supported him and his other 3 baby-mamas and 9 kids for 3 years...and she couldn't understand why he was having such a hard time getting his visa processed? She eventually found out the guy never even tried to get it lol. She was one of a dozen white women he was "marrying"...just dragging it out for as long as possible until the ruse is discovered. It's literally their job....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:17 PM
4

I agree with your sentiments. However... Guys just want a new mom to take care of them and play with their weiner. And women want to live in luxury with no effort on their part. There's nothing inherently wrong with this scenario if both parties are on board, no? I'll take care of your material desires...you put my weiner in your mouth and feed me (with the food I bought) when I'm hungry. I would say people living out the above with sincerity and integrity are kind of winning at life and definit…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 08:13 PM
2

I believe this is true for many modern women...especially ones who earn 100k+ And...I get it to a point. In their defense...most who would fall into that category don't really know what else to do with their lives other than "settle down...make family" because that's all that's been rammed down their throats for 150 years. I discovered this in my last relationship. I finally put all the little microaggressions and dismissive treatment together and said "I don't think you like me?" We have a chil…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:55 PM
2

I know several of those women...single and loveless/sexless in the west...go to Jamaica 3 or 4 times a year to get their brains fucked out by dudes with no money and giant dicks lol. More power to them!
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:44 PM
12

I trust her. That's really all I can do. 100% I do sincerely hope she has a good time and your life doesn't blow up. Like....honestly. I have had my life blown up like that more than once. Would never wish it on anyone.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 07:04 PM
2

I’m not saying there’s not women like that out there but I’m saying no self respecting woman who cares about their reputation is going to put themselves in a situation where they’d be on a podcast with a bad reputation for bashing women like FreshFit Again...I do not disagree. But....these women know what the podcast is all about before they go on the show? They're online all goddamn day long. I believe that they would describe themselves as self-respecting (I even saw one that referred to herse…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 07:01 PM
19

Totally reasonable. And...if you ask around...every guy who gets cheated on said literally exactly the same thing you just did regarding their partner and infidelity before they discovered the truth. Not saying your partner would cheat...just saying the science on infidelity says you're about to be a prime candidate for it.....
/r/MensRights09/03/23 06:53 PM
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Still....what she says versus what she does are often wildly different. I still recommend it and your request is not unreasonable. For a different perspective: my gf would never plan a girls trip to Miami; nor would I plan a boys trip. Why? Because grown ass people in committed long-term relationships shouldn't need a weekend to "get wild" in Miami...which only exists for cocaine and reckless sex lol. Do I care if people do it? No. Have I seen every relationship between 2 formerly 'in love' part…
/r/MensRights09/03/23 06:46 PM
4

This
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:41 PM
2

They’ll only ever bring on women that fit the stereotype of being a “gold digger” and women that aren’t very articulate. I don't disagree...but these are the women whom agree to visit the show. Do you sincerely think they're turning away legions of articulate non-gold-digging women? The fact that they can readily find so many of the type that you've identified does unfortunately speak volumes about the femosphere....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/23 06:39 PM
45

Dude....plan a guys trip to Miami. Not even kidding. Get serious about it with your bros....see what kind of ground rules she would like you to observe. That will tell you everything that you need to know. Go for a weekend....2 nights....do an excursion 1 day on a yacht....not expensive. Start planning it right now and see how she responds.
/r/MensRights09/03/23 06:36 PM
3

women are able to flirt and even fuck for big commission checks Yes. I’m not afforded this luxury and have to claw my way to success. Correct. Welcome to planet earth. We have tacos!
/r/MensRights09/03/23 03:43 PM
0

As long as you take care of yourself, a guy could be banging the hot college babes well into his forties This is normal where I live. Not common....not typical maybe....but I've never known a fit 40-something man that can't pull a mid-twenties girl? It's not hard....they want to fuck. Show up with some hard dick and decent stamina and you just got a friend you can't get rid of lol
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/23 12:45 PM
3

This is why I love this sub
/r/RedPillWomen07/03/23 10:37 AM
1

I assume that she works outside of the home based on the question... that said: However you want. You can cover rent/utilities and she can cover food? Or you can have a separate account that you both contribute to for shared expenses?
/r/MensRights07/03/23 09:48 AM
2

Aaaaand removed lol
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/23 01:17 PM
18

Once I swore off of dating I finally met someone great...by accident...totally organically...best relationship I've ever had. And I was 100% committed to never dating again. Dating is terrible if you want peace in your life. The point is once I stopped simping and valued myself more...believed I was worth more....I was no longer interested in low quality females (i.e. emotionally unavailable and self-obsessed). It is my humble opinion now that all women who are dating (probably all the men too) …
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 11:08 AM
8

If an individual woman can't distinguish between the echo chamber effect of places like 4chan/8chan/2chan/bodybuilding subs etc and an actual human that they are interacting with.... then yes, that person shouldn't date
/r/PurplePillDebate01/03/23 10:48 AM
1

That's a very narrow read on the definition of meaning.... What you are suggesting implies that "meaning" in romantic pursuit can only be derived if the goal is marriage. This my young friend....is not true. The "meaning" can just be sex. After you tire of it with that person...get a new one. Or the "meaning" could just be companionship....or a great person to talk to/walk with/sip coffee/ sit on the beach....do you see my point? Why would "marriage" be the only reason that you date? Have you ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 11:47 PM
-1

If we're in the talking phase...meaning no explicit commitments for sexual exclusivity have been made....it should be assumed that both parties are potentially sexually active with other people. I don't know of a single person that I've talked with who doesn't both believe and practice the preceeding. How are people split lol. While I'm single and talking to a dozen different people...I'll just be celibate!?!?! I firmly believe that anyone who claims to live that way is a liar.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/23 06:28 PM
29

The same reason they don't pack the stadium for wnba games or paint their faces and scream for women's hockey or soccer (a few do...obviously)...they don't really care lol. At the end of the day...the overwhelming majority of the 5 billion women on this planet want family. They want a few little ones to chase around and bake sweet cakes and cookies for. And that is legit OG feminism lol. Women forcing men to go out, work and provide, so they can make their homes a peaceful retreat for themselves…
/r/MensRights26/02/23 01:31 PM
-1

He got the training. He's back on the air tomorrow.
/r/MensRights22/02/23 02:23 AM
5

My body my choice
/r/MensRights20/02/23 09:09 PM
1

I mean, that's cute, but it's wishful thinking. Long range missiles alone are useless. Just look at Ukraine right now. Right. Look at Ukraine. Fucking pulverized into powder. That's what you're calling "useless". Russia wanted the east...and the port. They succeeded. Literally walked in...and took them. Effectively zero resistance. But sure....totally fucking useless 😅.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 05:50 PM
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If there is another world war (there won't be...it would just be long range missiles) the footsoldiers will be armed drones. Western forces have no more need to send a boat.....to a beach....just to have men run out and get mowed down lol. Like....those days are gone. Neighbor nations will war but 'the Commies' aren't ever driving west to try and annex Europe ever again...western nations are their number 1 customers for cheap plastic goods, microprocessors and electronics.
/r/MensRights19/02/23 02:05 PM
14

I....disagree. Did Bosnia boom? Herzegovina? Chechnya? Syria? Like....it is utter fantasy to think there will be a 'rebuilding boom' in the Ukraine. When has there ever been a 'boom' in a failed ex-soviet state? Russia simply won't allow it.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 12:54 PM
15

.....returning.....single.....women.....??? In what universe do you see that happening? Ukraine is flattened. There's nothing to return to other than likely sexual slavery if you're a single woman lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/23 11:55 AM
1

Why...would you? Never chase. If women aren't approaching you, you're doing it wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:56 PM
2

Society is fucked....but it's doing just fine in its fucked-ness. Really...it's never not been fucked. Right now, the fucked is manifesting as 'men realizing that feminism has done been had it's boot on their ballsack for 30 years' and men are....shocked. So, they're pushing back...a little (5 or 6 popular pro-man youTubers is not a revolution). Government may change...as the young men now grow old and eventually become politically active....but that's another 30 years away. To suggest there's a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/23 12:53 PM
20

Do you sincerely think it's possible to find a partner...for marriage...who would actually be down for no sex....ever?
/r/RedPillWomen18/02/23 12:40 PM
2

Sorry friend.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 01:32 PM
11

Buuuutt....doesn't the color of the flag depend on who you're trying to flag down? My (now) green flags were red a couple years ago. I just found someone who was into that stuff.....
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 06:48 PM
2

Welllppp....we tend to choose people that remind us of our parents in relationships (as they intentionally or not) role-modeled relationship for us....and if your mom was a controlling narcissist who didn't give two shakes of a donkey's dick about your feelings...then - tragically - those are the people you tend to be attracted to (until you do the work and figure that all out). Sooo... not well for the first 30 years lol. I'm good now tho and I love my mom and she just breaks down in tears when…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 05:51 PM
7

That is standard where I come from. The examples I've experienced where people don't mind you walking through their house with outdoor shoes on are exceptionally rare. I don't think many people would object.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:49 PM
1

You have to know yourself. If you know that you are the kind of person who needs tiny details handled in an exacting way...then it behooves you to choose a partner that is on-board. This is easily something you can figure out during the courtship phase...well before marrying. If, however, you married anyways...knowing that your chosen partner doesn't manage your specific quirky needs the way you prefer....then you absolutely can decide to give them half your stuff and try again with a new one...…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 04:30 PM
6

Dude...grow a pair and tell her to fuck off. Fucking post them...who cares. An internet psycho post your intimate photos without your consent....the police would like to have a chat with her.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:28 PM
2

It's a debate sub. Debates are inherently pointless. Ever watched any? The purpose of debate is the academic exercise of argumentation. Testing your oratory skills against another. Pick a topic...pick a side...and try to persuade the audience with your logical wordsmithing. I've won debates defending a position I didn't care about (actually held personal beliefs that were opposite, but...I understood the assignment lol). Its litigation for sport. No 'debate club' in your highschool I see......
/r/PurplePillDebate12/02/23 04:50 AM
18

Further...woman: my body my choice..I don't wanna be a mom yet..aborts it despite the father wanting the child. Man: my body my choice..I don't wanna be a dad yet, so if you keep it, you're on your own....justice system: sorry hombre, but it doesn't work that way. Only females get the choice AND she gets to decide for you too.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:30 AM
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I wonder if men will ever have the "my body, my choice" privilege.
/r/MensRights12/02/23 03:26 AM
5

Aaannnd there it is. A dumb childish comeback in action 😂
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 11:44 PM
2

Who cares if they find it? Like....what am I not understanding? Are you a racist, misogynistic, homophobic, narcissistic twat who posts and comments accordingly? Or are you an emotionally mature and psychologically healthy human who can engage in discourse without being deliberately offensive and who knows how to apologize when they're wrong?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:57 PM
6

You really need this to be true, don't you?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 10:52 PM
11

Do you know anybody...who will sit there and take verbal abuse... without offering any back by way of response? Yes...their responses seem to reinforce the muscularity/masculinity prejudice...but maybe it's just an obvious comeback? Like "you're fat!" Well "you're fatter!!" Oh my gawwd the person I fat-shamed isn't supporting body positivity! No...in that moment...technically they were not. But they were also clapping-back at a body-shaming douchecanoe with mommy issues. Soooo.....
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 07:49 PM
2

Fair points. I'd still advise my own sons to pursue their financial stability first over relationships, as starting a family is a never ending sewer of expenses...for the first 10-12 years - which typically puts sooo much pressure on the relationship that it almost completely kills the romance/love that the couple previously felt (actually does kill it in some instances) - and if that takes til you're 37 you'll be happy with your 29 y.o. wife lol. But fair points nonetheless.
/r/MensRights10/02/23 07:21 PM
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Guess he needs a better job then lol
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:32 PM
1

Fair. Well...it is possible to build your own site (not hard) with video streaming enabled...? It would cost a little (not much) and you'd have to probably learn some new skills (not many) buuuutt...it could be done? Or...a little less work but a little more money....get a wearable camera...tether your phone to it...and it is constantly uploading to the cloud the whole time its on? So...like a cop...when a situation starts that might be trouble...turn it on. Then later (if you weren't unalived) …
/r/MensRights10/02/23 03:18 PM
1

Are you also anti Instagram?
/r/MensRights10/02/23 03:09 PM
4

Huh? Is...this a thing? Are women rejecting average guys out of fear of pregnancy? In what country? Go to an American college. Every single average dude on a college campus is getting laid, or can get laid if he wants. Go to a party, have a few drinks, chat up an average girl...go back to your/her place and have some fun, consensual, non-committal sex. Like...not hard. American college girls are the easiest girls on the planet because they're horny as fuck and not super picky lol (they get picky…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 03:02 PM
2

I write all this to question what has happened to that sense of purpose that boys and men have had before, and what makes it so difficult now for young men to get on a good path A lot...has happened lol. One of the things that has hijacked that sense of purpose is loss of identity as men. In the old days (right or wrong) men were raised to believe that finding a wife and becoming the protector/provider for a little family, was the job. Men don't believe that anymore (because the last 20 years th…
/r/MensRights10/02/23 02:50 PM
7

They'll....end up in prison? Wealthy men bedding scores of beautiful girls is nothing new and...as a prison Administrator...I can assure you that prison is not full of wealthy old white men lol. There's a few...but its mostly poor black and brown people. Tate is probably going to get exonerated (guilty or not) because that's how money and power works. The romanian authorities are not above being bought...plus...2 of the 3 girls that they had as "victims" fucking love the guy and will never testi…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/23 02:12 PM
5

Maybe your parents lol. My parents had ALL THE CONDITIONS to receive their love; it was strictly conditional.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 11:02 PM
5

Oh boy. Please...pursue things in life that you feel give you meaning/purpose and that make you happy. If the day comes when having a child fits that description...then do it. Please....don't see yourself as 'not worthy' to reproduce because you have 'ugly' genes. Please. The only prize at the end for all of us is a grave. Its cold and dark and lonely. Just try to be happy while you're here.
/r/RedPillWomen09/02/23 11:00 PM
6

Livestream it. Then it goes straight to the cloud.
/r/MensRights09/02/23 10:56 PM
2

It seems, from my perspective, that TRP advocates that young men need fathers, but also says to never date/marry single mothers and attack them as well. Sorry TRP, you can't have it both ways! Sooo...the only options for a young man in terms of mate selection is a single mother? Sorry...what? Why can't we have it both ways. Yes...don't date single moms...yes boys need fathers....the two are not mutually exclusive. It is not the responsibility of a single, successful young man, to try and fix the…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/23 10:39 PM
9

Fear of rejection maybe? You might subconsciously believe (correctly or not) that you have a better shot with low T betas who wear bronzer and can make a killer mochaccino? You might believe that the guys you like are "out of your league" so you settle? No shame in it....most people do. At some point it becomes a situation of diminishing returns: do I stay lonely, waiting for my 'type' of guy to stroll along and sweep me off my feet...or do I get some companionship and (maybe) good sex from this…
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 03:05 PM
0

Single men will NEVER want to be alone with a child lol in huge numbers, the odd man here and there...sure. In general, men tolerate children because it is (usually) the price of access to safe, consistent sex. Whereas women tolerate men because it's (usually) the price of a safe, stable environment for children. Men - on their own - aren't pining away for children...they want a woman. Likewise women - on their own - aren't pining away for men...they want babies.
/r/RedPillWomen08/02/23 02:10 PM
6

Man here. Father. Old. Retired pastor. I know this is not super helpful right now but it does get better. My husband has stepped up immensely around the house and helps a lot. He makes dinner occasionally, cleans, tries to take care of the baby. Sounds like he's trying. Putting in the work. I’m jealous and worn out, and I know that. How did you feel about his hobbies before baby? I'm guessing they didn't bother you as much because you had more freedom and were doing things that you love too? Mot…
/r/RedPillWomen29/01/23 04:18 PM
3

Is...keeping them interested....a thing!?!?!? Does everyone do this? Never heard the like til today...
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 09:12 PM
1

.....possibly an oversimplification....buuuuutt....yah.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 08:01 PM
1

A house, a boat, vacation property.....financial freedom basically. Its not just the money....it's the beautiful simplicity of not having to figure anything out...he already spent his life figuring it out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/01/23 04:08 PM
18

Are girls out here marrying bad boys lol? Methinks not. I've been to a dozen weddings in the last 20 years.....not a bad boy in the bunch. Anyone else been to/seen gurls rushing to marry bad boys? This is common sense....not esoteric "lean'in" knowledge
/r/MensRights25/01/23 03:59 PM
15

Agreed. 30 minutes walking every day...eat clean....you can do 30 lbs in 6 months easy.
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 02:48 AM
10

Been a nice guy. Did it for 30 years. Only ever got me fucked over. My sons will not be that guy lol. Capital D douchebags win in this life....unfortunately perhaps....still a fact.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:31 AM
6

Welllppp.....I guess you're about to find out how bad you want a bf....
/r/RedPillWomen23/01/23 02:23 AM
2

I kinda feel like more people than ever are working out tho? No? There's a mega-gym every other block with 5000 members...was not the case in any other point in history.....
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 02:19 AM
3

My....relationships didn't start....45 years ago....am I missing your point?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:04 AM
2

I....see.....not judging (rednecks are some of my best friends) but that would be a struggle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 01:03 AM
4

Where do you live? I know exactly zero men who fit this description. My dad did the bulk of the cooking growing up (and he was an engineer with his own company doing global scale projects) and I have been the better cook (until recently) of my female partners. Girls where I'm from can't cook, by and large, and they act like doing laundry is this huge fucking accomplishment lol (the machine does everything-not exactly hard). Is your geographic location possibly skewing your perspective?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/23 12:09 AM
0

....are we talking about the same ppl 🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:51 PM
0

Potato....only....detox.....not a history buff, this Pattinson kid?
/r/MensRights21/01/23 05:43 PM
3

This is what I have seen from friendless/romanceless ppl that I know
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:41 PM
3

Do you need lasting acquaintances tho? Aren't hobby group friends enough? I'm not tryna have 200 ppl at my funeral.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:40 PM
0

How hasn't everyone figgered this out yet....?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:39 PM
1

Ikr....
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 05:38 PM
1

If every horse has a tail....maybe horses are supposed to have tails? Do you get me? If every human has underlying issues.... Was not saying don't have standards. Don't date girls with high bodycounts. Absolutely. That's fine advice I'd give my sons (I have 4). But....don't tell yourself it's because there's something wrong with them. Like....there might be, sure. But not anything more wrong than a girl with a low body count who is socially awkward, as interesting as a potato skin and can't hold…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 02:20 PM
6

Yes. Can it (society..not feminism) be fixed?
/r/MensRights21/01/23 01:56 PM
1

Does this not indicate an underlying issue? Do you know anyone who doesn't have underlying issues? Sounds like there is something wrong with them? Maybe. You're the one considering them...what's wrong with you? So their filtering mechanism for LTR's are broken? Are we talking about a human or a robot? Honestly...you're single and that's ok. But people are fucked up. Every single one. Those that are sleeping around...those that aren't...and everything in between. If you're trying to figure out ho…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:54 PM
1

If your job doesn't give you the luxury of gaining confidence (say you install hinge 422B at the airplane overhead compartment door factory - yes there is one in my city and fuck me, do those dudes look miserable standing outside on their smoke breaks) you can find other pursuits to gain confidence from. Get out of your house. Take a course. Join a club. Learn a craft/skill. Start training your body to become physically strong. There's countless ways to find the confidence that you're looking fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:42 PM
1

Not really, no. Sometimes it's a lifestyle choice...Sometimes it's a coping mechanism....Sometimes it's because they can't keep anyone....Sometimes it's because they can find anyone worth keeping? There isn't one reason why ppl do it. Buuuutt I think it's safe to say its the norm in the dating world now. If you take a girl/guy out, probably best to assume that they're sexually active with other peeps before they just met you like 5 mins ago lol. They're not sitting at home being bored and unfuck…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/01/23 01:10 PM
8

Same is true for hot dudes with high body count. Girls will gladly be next in line. I mean....not really surprising behavior from either gender. A hot person looks great with their clothes off. Of course speculators would go for a chance to touch it. It's rare...and since we assign value by scarcity....inherently desirable.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/01/23 04:56 PM
7

Sluts are worshipped in the west...we love them. And....porn is bad?? Not here lol. It's the only universally legalized prostitution that is 100% bulletproof. Ask a girl to have sex for money...you're going to jail. Film it? You're a filmmaker providing employment to struggling college students lol...all good!
/r/MensRights20/01/23 08:33 AM
1

😄
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/23 10:08 PM
1

Lol...name calling? I didn't deserve that. Its a euphemism for marriage.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 01:36 AM
4

All many of us can do at this point is raise wiser sons...I have 4...my work is cut out for me lol. Marginal successes so far...2 teenagers that I've managed to convince to avoid girls for as long as possible. Just work on yourself...get your money right...get a gf when you're thinking about becoming a husband...get married when you're ready to be a father (which shouldn't be before you've got some money in the bank). All stuff that no one ever told me. Quite the opposite, in fact.
/r/MensRights19/01/23 12:09 AM
5

I would assume that only very naieve/immature girls would believe that playing games of any kind is a smart way to get 'Mr.Right' (by extension only an equally naieve/immature guy would subject himself to such nonsense). Now...if they're just players out here playing the game....then what's the harm? Dating isn't always about falling in love and maybe having a family with someone... sometimes it's just about having fun (finding someone to hang out with/laugh with/fuck). Men gotta be wiser. Assum…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 11:55 PM
1

Locking down...is not the same as 'lock them down'.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:22 PM
2

Agreed.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:14 PM
2

Did I say that? We're on the mensRights sub.... talking about issues and how they relate to men. Why would you assume that I don't believe that women can have piles of money and great sex without marriage? Because I didn't mention it? I also didn't mention that the sun is hot or the sea is salty...you think I don't believe those things either?
/r/MensRights18/01/23 11:12 PM
3

Not really
/r/RedPillWomen18/01/23 10:53 PM
12

Marriage is the most fundamental institution for a well-ordered and self-sustaining society. Is it tho......? Men can still have piles of money and great sex with dimes without getting married and - essentially - agree to give away half their shit when they lose interest.... I argue it is 100% non-essential and entirely unwise and unnecessary in modern times.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:31 AM
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Definitely more for women than men, nowadays. There's really no point for a man to get married..ever. I think the only reason we still do (when it's not a shotgun cuz we knocked her up) is because we find one that does that nasty thing for us in the bedroom...and its actually worth locking down.
/r/MensRights18/01/23 03:28 AM
6

Good at conversation and - generally - rather funny.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/23 03:25 AM
1

Yeeeaahhh...I've given away two houses now and pay two salaries ....and I recognize my character flaws that precipitated those situations. In short....raise better sons. My sons know whats up and (likely) won't make the same mistakes.
/r/MensRights17/01/23 01:58 PM
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Do you mean having the option of abortion where men do not? (i.e. she can choose to abort if she doesn't want to be a mom...he can't choose to get out of child support if she decides to keep it)
/r/MensRights16/01/23 11:17 PM
18

Lmaooo....funny that there might still be people out there who believe this 😄
/r/MensRights16/01/23 10:55 PM
1

My lived experience both personal and observed of others...no real difference. Don't have stats but assume they'd be easy enough to find. Divorce rates and declared religious position, etc. Been married twice...first one conservative Christian..cheated on me after 17 years of supporting her (never made her work a day in her life). Second one...liberal non-religious...cheated on me for the first 4 years of our relationship...I only found out in year 5...after a wedding and a baby...good times 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 07:59 PM
54

Why do people do this....he's gross...you don't like him....do we need to tell you how to conduct yourself? Really? You have "no idea" what to do??? None!?!?!
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 07:01 PM
1

Not really. I know a lot of rich dudes....they cycle thru women easy. Having money is the game changer. Book a solo trip to Santorini and try and keep the women off you when you stink of rich. Near. Impossible ;)
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 04:45 PM
1

Dude....unfortunately for you....girls will not be a problem. The problem will be keeping them out of your way while you get rich and jacked. I would counsel you the same as my own sons...avoid them as long as you can, because their desires (despite what they say or lead you to believe) are very different than your own. If you can keep it casual until you're 30-35 you'll be better off - this is near impossible cuz the first girl that swallows your cock you're going to believe that you're in love…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/23 03:32 PM
1

If you follow my analogy....they shouldn't be afraid of all men, but they absolutely should take measures to ensure that they don't need to be worried about the terrible things that some men are capable of. Are you sending your daughters out into this world unprepared for the ugliness its capable of? I'm not.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 03:24 PM
-9

Have you said: I'm getting annoyed with me just doing the foreplay and all the physical output during intercourse. to her yet? It's not fair if you haven't. Studies have shown that people who aren't getting what they want in the bedroom haven't asked for it most of the time.
/r/MensRights16/01/23 01:46 PM
3

This sounds kinda terrible :/
/r/RedPillWomen16/01/23 01:20 PM
6

I didn't downvote you dude....
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:41 AM
6

Google didn't work?
/r/MensRights16/01/23 04:27 AM
5

I'm confused....do you want one or don't you lol. They're not perfect..they don't love perfectly...they don't think perfectly....they're just flawed humans like all the rest of us. You take one as your own you're rolling the dice. Maybe she's using you for resources...maybe she's gonna cheat on you? Those are the risks inherent to manhood... so man up.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 10:47 PM
5

Its not though...that's the thing. Men get fucked in family court...everytime...and those who don't respect that fact do so to their own peril. I didn't put my children in swimming lessons because I'm afraid of water. I put them in swimming lessons because when they interact with water - which is wonderful, life giving, beautiful, healing stuff - I want them to enjoy it and not even think about the terrible things it can do.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:34 PM
5

I disagree. Obviously you've never seen what family court does to men.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 10:15 PM
3

Hiding? If my partner is triggered by certain elements of my daily activities...and I choose to refrain from sharing those elements out of respect for my partners sensitivities....that is not hiding anything, nor is it toxic. In my job I shoot people sometimes...then watch them die sometimes...I have learned that most people find those stories triggering. I don't share them. I'm not being toxic...I'm being considerate. It's actually obnoxious to insist that people endure your stories that you kn…
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 10:08 PM
1

It is used as a slur and a term of derision.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:52 PM
5

If your authentic self is an obnoxious boor....then yes, you must learn to be nice. Or...suffer the consequences of social ostracization as the rest of us avoid and marginalize you.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 08:51 PM
7

Who says it's fine for women? If you find yourself dating someone with jealousy issues...and you persist in the relationship after seeking a behavior change through discourse...then that's a you problem. You're staying with a shitty jealous person. You don't have to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/23 07:42 PM
1

Its $100 per year. Affordable.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:25 PM
3

How would he know you were spending time alone at work with a male coworker? You know his issues with jealousy...and you tell him shit like that? Are you looking for conflict?
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 07:20 PM
18

I join the chorus of those who don't understand why your income would matter? Unless you suddenly discovered that you like having money and it's changing your views on family and division of responsibilities? If you want to stay home and have your man provide....then your income prior to that move is irrelevant. He makes 50k....you made 250k....regardless, once you're at home raising littles....you're living off 50k. It can be done...but it doesn't come with a benz or a beach house lol.
/r/RedPillWomen15/01/23 07:16 PM
4

I think all men should get vasectomies as early as possible. Have your sperm frozen first (its good for 50 years) and then thaw some down the road when you're ready for a family. Its what I've counseled my sons to do and every young man that has asked my opinion. Too many women looking to trap men with babies to do otherwise imho.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 07:09 PM
2

It's gonna be a little different for everyone... but the nuts and bolts are thus: 1. become completely fulfilled as a single. You cannot attract an equally fulfilled person if you're thirsty/horny/desperate (you will only attract other thirsty/horny/desperate people). That means you love your life and fill it with meaningful activities. 2. Join groups where you can make platonic friends with zero expectation of a romantic/sexual connection happening (hint: this is where they happen. Women cheat …
/r/MensRights15/01/23 02:56 PM
-2

How r you guys out here playing the game...but complaining about the rules? You don't like dating? Don't do it. Girls lie. This is not news. Girls are materialistic and gold-digging...yah....and? They have been since we were cavemen. You cannot manufacture a soulmate connection. You cannot find it on tinder or hinge. Girls that are dating are literally shopping for a supporter for them and their future children. The trick is to find someone who isn't shopping... someone who is just happily livin…
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:57 AM
5

Almost always totally devastating. But still....I would say to the miserable men being controlled by narcissistic females....give her the house and the car. Give her everything if you have to. Just get out. Your sanity is worth more than the value of everything you've ever accumulated. When I divorced my second wife I was like I'd rather be broke, homeless and alone forever than spend another day being made to hate myself because of your poisonous words.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:47 AM
5

If you break up....you're financing them and the kids anyways lol.
/r/MensRights15/01/23 08:41 AM
3

I believe the majority of women settle as well. We're all out here settling because we don't have the patience/faith to believe that it's possible to find your perfect match. That is the entirety of human history and it won't ever change because the species must propagate...our desire for offspring will always supersede our patience to find the perfect partner. Good enough is good enough for a reason lol
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 08:53 PM
2

Yes of course it is. Where are you looking? On dating apps that stratify humans based on looks? If so....shocker....you won't find them there.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:31 PM
4

Ah...you've never had a bf I see. Lmao....tell that to your bf when he catches you textin hoes 🤣🤣 Edited.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:19 PM
36

Its a thing. Many men in developed countries seem to stay where they are. They don't seem to move. Yes. The ones that stay...don't seem to move. Correct.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:12 PM
6

Ex: You’re in a relationship but find out that your hot coworker is now single. Would it be wrong to go out with them as friends to see weather or not there’s something there? This is the definition of cheating.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:09 PM
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Why wouldn't they? We do. Just human nature. ETA: totally common. You just hadn't figured it out yet. Even the ones that say they don't do it...do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/23 05:05 PM
4

Perhaps if you are so anxious that a trigger warning is inducing panic and potentially driving you to suic1d3...perhaps it's time to check in to a facility...get your blood work done...get some excellent medical care...change your meds and unplug from the matrix for a few months? Yes?
/r/MensRights13/01/23 06:04 PM
1

Yes
/r/MensRights13/01/23 06:00 PM
2

No self-respecting man should participate in online dating. Travel... meet ppl organically.... enjoy life. To me...online dating is for desperate women trying to make a baby/get wifed before their clocks runout.
/r/MensRights13/01/23 03:55 PM
9

No. There will never be a bachelor tax lol. Western countries re-supply their tax base by freeing up immigration policies as required. When the economy is ok/good...strict policy. When the economy is stagnated/weak....lax policy. If the native citizens don't want to reproduce....the new immigrants who just arrived from their mud huts will be more than happy to for a couple generations, before their grandchildren wise-up. Rinse and repeat.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/01/23 12:44 AM
1

Thank you. Who fuckin cares if you have a woman in your life or not? And....if its really that big of a deal....fly to [enter third world country here] and you can have a hareem of them if you want. Jeezus....sitting in your peace...on a pile of money...playing video games and being unharrassed is THE DREAM for almost ALL married men. Almost all of them would trade you their wife for that kind of freedom 😄
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 11:24 PM
3

My point....was simply that women decided that they were ok raising children on their own (read: he's not proposing?...fuck it, I want a baby now!) Why? Because they discovered that they prefer the company/responsibility/joy of motherhood to the companionship of a male partner. That has been the shift. The day women decide they will no longer tolerate being single mothers is the day the rates of single-motherhood plummet.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:19 PM
2

But it makes sense to attribute the explosion in single-motherhood to a cessation in men's rate of marriage proposals!?!? Come on.....
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 02:06 PM
0

Not where I'm from. Most 'middle-class' married women - all, actually in my bougie suburb - are married to guys but have kids from a total of 3 in the house. So....they're single moms who made it, you could say. But those relationships are likely doomed, since they're with guys who they got to cheat on their wives, whom then married them to legitimize their affairs. Once the dude tires of feeding kids that aren't his (or gets caught cheating on her) its back to the streets for them lol
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:26 PM
3

Men stopped proposing because it ceased being a requirement to access sex on a daily basis (which was the only reason we used to propose in the first place 😄)
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:20 PM
0

🤣
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:12 PM
2

If I loved her and she made me happy (i.e. was actually not a narcissistic, manipulative sociopath who gets off on hurting the men she's in relationships with)....what would I care how much money she made? Preference is one that doesn't work at all (my current sit). Keep my house clean and have food ready for me when I get home...that's where its at.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:11 PM
1

I am attractive and I have (historically) gotten whomever I've wanted and am also rp. Soooo....the question seems odd. Are those things mutually exclusive to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:08 PM
-2

Sure. Was addressing "women like attractive men" statement. Women don't really care, was my point. They just want babies and will take them from whomever is sharing sperm.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 01:02 PM
1

I was gonna say success at everything else....buuuut truth is I enjoy sex with women a lot. So no....I'd rather fail at everything else lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:58 PM
3

Hmmm....the explosion of single moms in the last 25 years to dudes with no money/teeth/education/addresses would challenge this belief somewhat. Women like babies...they endure men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/01/23 12:46 PM
1

Some will. Some won't. C'est la vie?
/r/MensRights08/01/23 02:05 PM
4

Yeeeaahhh...not as much of a mood killer as getting 4 years for rape.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 02:04 PM
8

I hope at least you have a 'consent agreement' for any romantic flings? Bulletproof? Not really possible. The legal system is bent in their favor and if they want to fuck with you after you piss them off, they can. Everyday you wake up with that d1@k between your legs you're rolling the dice. We all are. You get used to it in time.
/r/MensRights08/01/23 01:48 PM
1

This has gotta be a joke lol 😆
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/23 11:43 AM
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