kolbin8r Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
27	The reason why men call for men's rights is malicious whereas the reason women fight for women's rights is to be able to be independent and have mutual emotionally fulfilling relationships. I have a male coworker who was sexually harassed by a previous boss. This is objectively bad. We should all stand with victims of sexual assault, abuse, and harassment. However, he would only EVER talk about his experience when something about women's workplace safety came up. I see this way too often w/ "men's rights" morons. If you want to be an activist against sexual violence, great! Men get assaulted, too. You deserve a voice and I'll support that. If you only want to use men's experiences …	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	09/11/21 02:34 PM
38	If it’s not a fuck yes, it’s a no! It's like this even when you're in an otherwise stable relationship. You want kids and he's iffy? It's a no. You're ready to take the next step and he's meh? It's a no. In many life decisions, anything other than an enthusiastic and unencumbered yes...is a no. Leave.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	08/11/21 04:12 PM
119	John Mulaney’s ex, Anna Marie Tendler, leveling up!! I highly recommend her tiktok. She's hilarious on it and clearly living her best life. And she kept Petunia. 👑	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 10:09 PM
73	Apologizing for or sympathizing with "cancelled" woman-abusers is big time Pick Me behaviour - From Vanity Fair: 'Dakota Johnson Calls Cancel Culture "Such a Downer" Justin makes me rage. He is absolutely a LVM but gets pass after pass. He absolutely played a role in how Britney was treated by the media. His apology now, almost 20 years later, was meaningless.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	07/11/21 04:18 PM
67	Chris Pratt continues to be the worst Yes. His son with Anna. Jack was born many weeks early and was in the NICU. He also had visual impairment but is otherwise thriving.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	05/11/21 11:34 AM
32	Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d… Georgina Chapman is another good example. She married Harvey Weinstein...	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 11:26 AM
52	Celebrity forever girlfriends & baby mama culture cont’d… Ronaldo and his gf are about to have their 2nd set of twins, bringing their total to 6. SIX. This forever girlfriend has had 6 of his kid and still no commitment. E: oh man...i was mistaken. He's got several baby mommas. See xroze's comment below.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/10/21 11:21 AM
183	Men tend to complain about women being fatter in person vs. their dating app pics... Well in my experience TOO 👏 MANY 👏 MEN 👏straight up LIE about their height Omg yes. I'm 5'11" and tell them that. So why say you're 6'1" when we're clearly the same height?! Like I'm gonna know. A girl who is 5 feet might not but it's glaringly obvious when I show up and they're my height or shorter.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/10/21 05:25 PM
15	Thank you FDS!! I honestly didn't realize how much I needed this space until I didn't have it anymore. Love our little corner of the internet here with all of you.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	15/10/21 01:06 AM
3	Finally left my fiance thanks to this sub Yes. We've talked and I am ready to take our relationship forward. We'd always talked about kids and a family. Earlier this year he told me he wasn't sure about kids and that I need to "be patient" waiting for a proposal. (we're both in our 30s and have been together 2.5 years...) We're just on borrowed time and I am sick of dragging him through life. He knows it but does nothing to fix the relationship.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 11:41 AM
14	Finally left my fiance thanks to this sub Seriously considering this with my bf who once seemed like a HVM but now I can see clearly he's a NVM. But we live together, so I need an exit strategy. He lives with me in the condo I own and I would have to sue to evict him if he doesnt leave voluntarily. I don't know where to start.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	14/10/21 01:20 AM
7	FDS is BACK! Best thing I've heard in a while!! Missed my daily time spent here.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	13/10/21 11:39 AM
296	oop 👀 I am really grateful I found this sub re: sex work. I used to believe that shit was empowering or women reclaiming...something? Y'all saved me from libfem fairy tales.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	12/08/21 02:05 PM
3	FDS has really opened my eyes TW: mentions rape, abuse Ugh. I've met so many men that talk about how men are silenced when it comes to their sexual assault. I guess that they're not wrong? But iT hApPeNs To Us ToO is just another way to invalidate women's experience and act like sexual assault is just a part of life. If you think it's an important issue for men, then why aren't you even more worked up about the scary high rate that it happens to women?!	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	29/04/21 02:01 PM
161	I'm a therapist and I can't do couples counseling anymore these men go to therapy to convince their girlfriends that they’re wrong THIS. EXACTLY THIS. In 2018 I was in an abusive AF relationship. I do have a documented history of mental illness, and he weaponized that against me. I did a lot of work and got off of Lexapro. But then we'd fight, and he'd say it was because I was off my meds. So I get back on my meds. Then that wasn't enough. So we need therapy. Insert our therapist. Who instantly saw that my NVM partner was the issue. My partner was diag…	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	28/04/21 09:11 PM
22	OnlyFans is an experiment in mass grooming teens into a Sex Work Pyramid Scheme, for which most of them will NEVER see more than $180 You can see their feed for free but then so see the "good stuff", you pay. So like I can see the post for free but then the actual pics are like $40 a pop. They'll often make more off of that model that on monthly subscriptions.	/r/FemaleDatingStrategy	23/04/21 11:33 PM