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Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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7	Women are sum else Happens to all of us. I would just not respond to her. She wasted your time and couldn't even bother cancelling day of. Even if you get a date do you really want to be with someone like this?	/r/seduction	13/07/26 03:32 PM
-1	Another day, another fumble Girls will make the time and day for ppl they like. Play it off casually then let her know to propose another time when she's free. Then leave her on the back burner and move on as she's just wasting your time.	/r/seduction	04/07/26 03:55 PM
1	What do you guys talk about with women? Find out about the person. Ask about things you see on them that are interesting e.g. Their hair, earrings, etc.	/r/seduction	28/06/26 12:22 AM
1	How To Ask A Woman Out On A Second Date? I usually just text her a day later, ask how her weeks been with a light joke, then ask if she's free again. Women always say things they don't mean, so I would take with a grain of salt what she says about a next date, while on the first date. If I feel really good chemistry during the date, I tell her to text me that she's home.	/r/seduction	24/06/26 12:40 PM
24	Game is key You sure he ain't 5.34/10?	/r/seduction	23/06/26 09:06 PM
12	If a girl texts you "sometimes later for sure" when trying to get her number, what does it mean? If it's not a yes, it's always a no.	/r/seduction	28/03/26 12:18 PM
2	Girl from my Climbing gym Just go up and strike a convo. Ask her technique on a boulder then find out more about her and get her digits to climb together sometime. If she says no move on, stop over thinking it.	/r/seduction	04/11/25 12:41 AM
0	Do women expect you to try to kiss them on the first date? No they don't but if you don't someone else will. A no at that moment doesn't mean no next time, better to risk. Just work on Kino to get them comfortable.	/r/seduction	03/11/25 11:36 PM
1	Follow-Up for the 2nd Date? No one knows. Stop questioning and just ask for another date.	/r/seduction	04/10/25 11:46 AM
-1	New Flame Canceled Our Birthday Dinner for a Spontaneous Friend Get-Together. How to Respond? She changed her mind and put you on the back burner. Tell her to hf and msg her a few days but I wouldn't put too much effort.	/r/seduction	24/09/25 02:14 AM
1	Weird ghosting situation and unsure if I should pursue or not, etc. Unfortunately it happens. Current dating culture is just toxic for this reason. She most likely wasn't into you and didn't have the balls to tell you. Take some time and find another. Never gets easy but you'll get use to it.	/r/seduction	14/09/25 01:57 AM
6	Went on a date but girl didn't show up. (Need mental guidance) No one forgets a date unless you planned it a month in advance. Block her and move on. Respect your own time and abundance is key.	/r/seduction	25/08/25 11:04 PM
4	What does it mean "I like you a lot but I can't sleep with you" It's worth it to ask why. I'd do that before taking any of the advice here.	/r/seduction	20/02/25 01:14 AM
2	32 m, Never Been on a Date, Feeling Lost, i am a loser?- Need Some Advice Talking about it is the first step to improving, everyone goes at their own pace. It seems like you have confidence issues, I'd focus on getting life to where you are happy before looking at dating. Whether it's through hobbies, new friends, better job. When you are happy you naturally become more confident and that attracts women. From there you start learning how to date.	/r/seduction	15/02/25 12:43 AM
1	Great first dates…not leading to seconds I'm in this phase and late 30s. Few things I've learned that could be happening You may not be similar to your photos irl, lose attraction. The date builds no chemistry, it's boring so you don't stand out. Your dating profile is showing you as one type of person, where when they meet you and you guys talk they realize you are different. You just haven't met the right person, it does become a numbers game unfortunately. In person approaches are always better. Stay positive, take breaks, and conti…	/r/seduction	16/01/25 12:47 PM
1	Opportunities that initiate physical touch? I like to grab her hand when crossing the street, kinda like to guide her. I let go when we've made it. The next time we cross a street again, I don't let go.	/r/seduction	26/12/24 07:37 PM
3	I’m a dumbass and somehow fell for this girl on the first date Don't do this. You already said your piece, move on. Girls don't make rash decisions like men. But if you must guess you'll use this a learning.	/r/seduction	25/12/24 01:35 PM
2	Need my boys to hype me up You got this. Small steps at a time	/r/seduction	19/10/24 07:38 PM
3	3 dates then ghosted Ask for another date or move on. She was being nice by picking up.	/r/seduction	06/08/24 09:22 PM
1	The worst part about rejection It's natural to be curious but the advice others are giving is solid. I'll just add all women have different wants, over analyzing what that want is is a waste of time. Reflect on yourself briefly after and if you could have done somethings better, but that doesn't change you, and then employ that in for the next female. Stay true to who you are as there's plenty of women out there.	/r/seduction	24/07/24 07:11 PM
5	Got her number, no date Tell her to msg you when she's available for a date. Then move onto other women.	/r/seduction	22/07/24 05:25 PM
7	Do you think women need emotional conflict? There's a podcast called psychacks, it's by a psychologist and he talks about the female emotions as a subject of dating. He confirms it is a real thing and when a female doesn't get any emotions from their partner, for periods of time, they will stir up incidents to see your reaction to confirm whether you are still invested in the relationship or not.	/r/seduction	14/06/24 10:32 PM
7	I'm so close to throwing in the towel and giving up Take a break, dating should not occupy your life fully. There are 3 main things in a man's life 1. Health i.e. Working out 2. Career 3. Dating Think of these in a triangle. When you spend too much time in one area you take away from another. A balanced approach is best in life, yes there are times where you can spend more in one area but that should eventually revert back to a balance.	/r/seduction	29/04/24 08:08 PM
2	Time wasting women I'm still learning but have absorbed alot from this forum, here's 2 things I've learned. Text only for dates, anything else makes yourself less mysterious and the potential date dull. Most girls want the guy to lead and initiate, it's primal instant so say what you will. If you are asking for a date and she isn't saying yes, then it's always a no and you should move on. Know your worth and don't think any woman's time is worth more than yours.	/r/seduction	21/04/24 02:41 AM
1	Need some real, ACTUAL pointers for getting more Second Dates. Aside from other comments. You may want to review the type of women you're matching and if they are for you.	/r/seduction	12/04/24 09:00 PM
3	Flirting You could look at practicing, like for an exam, jot down scenarios and how'd you approach them, then apply irl. Until you apply it, all the studying will only be semi valuable. YouTube prob has some good examples to practice.	/r/seduction	03/04/24 03:25 AM