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50/50 does equal child support unfortunately. They use the income difference and the custody time to factor the child support.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 02:14 PM
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Fight for 50% custody. Always. Will get rid of majority of child support.
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/26 02:38 PM
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Learn from your mistakes. Don’t get married. There is zero incentive and allot to lose
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 01:59 PM
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right ones are also very very rare
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 12:57 PM
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before it was music, books, sports or insert literally anything that men like to do. Addiction in general is a problem, it has nothing to do with video games. You could be out golfing and your significant other will find that to be a "unhealthy obsession". Women who do this have no hobbies of their own. People need to learn to communicate better and respect each others hobbies.
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 12:56 PM
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Women are always looking for partners that earn allot more than them. That is a fact.
/r/Divorce_Men15/05/26 12:45 PM
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System rewards women to get a divorce. Remove the reward. Problem solved.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 02:20 PM
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Please ask the prostitutes in Amsterdam this question. You will find that overwhelming majority of them like this work. It is of course temporary and pays well. Men don’t have that option.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 05:11 PM
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Prostitution is the oldest occupation in the world for a reason. It can be exploited if it’s illegal. That’s why I believe it should be legal and should be exercised in a safe manner. Men in general have physical needs. Shaming it is the reason why most men today are frustrated. You can of course control yourself and work on yourself to keep yourself busy but you cannot truly disable this feature inside you. We are not alive for long. Live a little.
/r/Divorce_Men10/05/26 04:06 PM
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Child support.. not Alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men07/05/26 10:11 PM
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Terrible advice to use kids as an excuse to keep the marriage together.. keep the marriage together for sake of each other, only then something will change.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 01:28 PM
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Constant disrespect, felt like i was walking on egg shells everyday. Trying to keep the peace, but somehow always end up being a punching bag. I was relieved when she asked for a divorce. Still have to deal with her to maintain a co parenting schedule but having to come to peace is worth it. She on the other hand has absolutely lost it. Always angry and miserable.
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 01:31 AM
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Fuck off with this postpartum depression excuse. This woman is clearly taking advantage of OP. Nothing will change if we keep excusing their awful behavior.. She needs to be held accountable for her actions regardless of having PPD or not.
/r/Divorce_Men27/04/26 01:55 PM
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Get some therapy and move on. This is not worth it.
/r/Divorce_Men24/04/26 01:53 PM
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Keep saying this over and over: “This feeling is temporary, it will pass”.
/r/Divorce_Men23/04/26 01:48 PM
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Your post makes it seem like you were the problem dude.
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 05:36 PM
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Yo, fuck the Amicus Attorneys. It doesn’t matter what your wife did. Your wife can still spin this around and make you the cause. I have seen it happen and some judges are stupid enough to believe it too. Get off reddit and GET A LAWYER THAT REPRESENTS YOU AND ONLY YOU. Spend $300-400 on an hour consultation not some free jackoff who just want you out of the office. Get a younger but experienced female lawyer. Every man fighting for their rights needs a female lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men02/04/26 02:51 PM
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Brother I hear you.. but you gotta stop. Your mind is racing, constantly. You can’t work, think, do your normal things like you used to. Stop contacting her, her fuel right now is you reaching out. Once you stop, she might feel something. If she doesn’t then that’s not a human worth pursuing.
/r/Divorce_Men01/04/26 10:40 AM
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None of these existed before the marriage. She was very good at her career, had a goal and we were very supportive of each other. She started spending awful amounts of time doom scrolling on her phone. Most of it seemed to be about lavish lifestyle financed by a rich husband.
/r/Divorce_Men30/03/26 06:21 PM
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Makes sense if they were your kids but THEY ARE NOT. The fuck.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 03:42 PM
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Having some difficulty getting any matches. Perhaps you might be able to help me with my profile?
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 03:04 PM
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Why in christ name would you take up two more kids? Your own children always come first before anyone else. That therapist needs to retire.
/r/Divorce_Men26/03/26 02:58 PM
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I disagree with the leeches. My attorney helped me get my daughter from every other weekend to joint legal 50/50 custody. $400 a month in child support and no alimony. Well worth $12,000 it cost me in legal fees. Should be zero but nothing in life is free.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 07:59 PM
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Nothing red pill about that. My mom tried her best but not having a father has a lasting impact. He unfortunately passed away when i was a kid.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 06:51 PM
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I have read the book. It is right about some things and wrong about allot. The book seems to emphasize that nice guys tend to have unspoken contract of “If, I do more, then i will receive more”. For me it was I love my family and I will do what needs to be done, without ever complaining. Sure I wanted intimacy, someone to care for me. But that’s just being human.. not greedy.
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 06:26 PM
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Dude.. run
/r/Divorce_Men17/03/26 12:53 PM
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A very big problem.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 05:09 AM
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It’s been 6 months. It doesn’t go away, but i think i can manage for now.
/r/Divorce_Men12/03/26 05:05 AM
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Have been holding out for about 6 months so far and divorce won’t be finalized until November. We don’t live together anymore tho.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 06:34 PM
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Yeahhh…
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:28 PM
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You’re absolutely correct on your observation. I have been reading no more mr nice guy and it’s really eye opening. I grew up without a father (passed away when i was 7). I only grew up around women. Therapy helps allot but it doesn’t change who you are fundamentally. I really have to make major changes in my life. Thank you for your input.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:22 PM
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That’s true. As long as it’s consensual and I don’t catch feelings, its perfectly ok.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:16 PM
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That’s a bit harsh. I get it’s not your thing and I respect that. But insulting someone’s religion isn’t the way.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:13 PM
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No work travel. I have a very stable job and a schedule which helps allot with co parenting.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:10 PM
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Uff, yeah that’s a no for me.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:09 PM
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I did used have a moral and ethic issue with it.. I just don’t care anymore after my divorce. I was used my entire marriage both emotionally and financially and that feels more demeaning than anything i could ever do.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:05 PM
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Maybe i will at-least attempt to go out and talk to people. Thankyou
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 02:01 PM
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That’s an understatement.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 01:58 PM
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Didn’t understand this comment. Are you referring to std needing antibiotics?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 01:57 PM
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I don’t know what to say other than it sucks man. You are a good man and you deserve a good partner.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 01:52 PM
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It’s a no fault state. However, it can impact child custody in a negative way. My stbxw and I have an agreement for 50/50 custody but hasn’t been solidified yet.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 12:02 PM
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My best friend suggested exactly that. Might take him up on it.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:57 AM
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How love some tips from you. “Being myself” hasn’t really worked out for me thus far.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:55 AM
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But my back hurts
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:53 AM
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I used to masturbate allot. I developed erectile dysfunction.. had to get some therapy to finally get rid of it. Took me at-least a year to get arousal without using viagra.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:52 AM
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I just want to be focused on getting better and feeling less sorry for myself.. I also want to be a great father to my daughter. Wish i could just turn off the lust part of my brain for a year.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:49 AM
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Haven’t thought of it this way.. life is short.. i see myself in the mirror getting older, been slaving away at work, life, fulfilling my wife’s needs before mine. I am 31 years old. Spent my entire 20s with this girl. I don’t know man. My head is filled with intrusive thoughts.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 04:01 AM
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Yes, i do feel much better after jerking off.. though the feeling comes right back.. been trying to avoid porn but i feel that right now its the safest bet.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:56 AM
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Been out of the dating pool for way too long. I don’t even know how to talk to a Woman outside of a professional setting. Plus, i have a habit of avoiding Woman.. which i am working on fixing.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:54 AM
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I have that on my bucket list once i can finalize my divorce and get 50/50 custody of my daughter. I don’t want to go and come back with her taking my daughter and claiming that I abandoned her.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:52 AM
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That’s what I am worried about. I am trying really really hard not to break my routine and go back to porn addiction. But what is worse? Being addicted to porn or sleeping around?
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:50 AM
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YES! The guilt won’t go away.
/r/Divorce_Men11/03/26 03:46 AM
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Just read the first three chapters and holy shit. It’s literally talking about me.
/r/Divorce_Men09/03/26 11:01 PM
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> If your wife is as terrible as all that I hope you find out how you fell for such a terrible person and seek to fix that. Don't want to be making the same mistake again if you choose to get married again. That's the thing.. She didn't use to be this way. She was smart, confident, and goal oriented. She slowly spiraled into this toxic person who goes ballistic at the smallest sight of discomfort. she started getting more and more toxic as her friends got married and had this fake Instagram opti…
/r/Divorce_Men06/03/26 08:48 PM
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Honestly, compare to allot of other divorces.. this is the best way to go about it.. As long as no children are involved and both are financially independent. There are too many, false-accusation / life time alimony and child support stories that completely destroy men.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 04:47 PM
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YOU NEED A LAWYER! LIKE NOW. The longer you wait the worse it will get for you. borrow money from family.. work extra hours.. get a 2nd job.. do something. Not doing anything will cost you more. Do NOT stop making child support payments or reduce them.. If its ordered by the court. Pay that amount. You NEED to fight for 50/50 custody like your life depends on it.. otherwise you will be stuck paying ever increasing child support for the next 18 years.
/r/Divorce_Men04/03/26 01:37 AM
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Uff, dude you are putting yourself in a rough situation. Take control of your life. You’re lucky, that you are going no contact.. allot of people have to see their ex often due to having children. You have a fresh start. Take advantage of that. Not sure why you quit your job.. but it’s in the past now. Be the best version of yourself, the only person that will look after you is YOU!
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 08:18 PM
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All good, checked with Attorney. It’s legal to record as long as one party consents (me).
/r/Divorce_Men03/03/26 04:05 PM
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Reason #1 - Money. Reason #2 - Money. Reason #3 - Children. Lawyers are expensive. Say you have $100,000 to split. Instead of even 50/50, lawyers will likely take at the minimum $10,000 from each side. Even more if it’s a contested divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men02/03/26 05:39 AM
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Divorce is a vicious action that can destroy a person. Religion often helps cope with that feeling. “God is more forgiving”.
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 03:18 PM
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From what you’ve laid out. This is no longer a civil matter but a criminal one. Breaking in and attacking you is enough to put her behind bars.. put that bitch in jail then focus on getting full custody. Brother.. talk to a lawyer now!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 09:04 PM
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Saving this. This will help allot!
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 03:33 PM
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yep.. just trying to sell the house at the moment.. leaving no loose ends.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:37 PM
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Yep, I have a Attorney ready. She is a very good lawyer and good track record in my county. She said she can hire whenever I am ready but when I do.. She is legally required to inform her. So I have to lay low.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:36 PM
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time will tell, but currently another relationship is out of the question. I just want to breath.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:33 PM
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Get them a Job from the very start.. not just before thinking about divorce.. If you were the primary breadwinner for 10 years and then she is only been working for a year... She still gets alimony. Also, make them PAY the bills.. a job is simply not enough. You need to show she is contributing financially. Courts do not give a flying fuck if you were working 70 hours a week to provide, but they do give a fuck if the other person is financially dependant on you.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:30 PM
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If I could, I would move out today. I can't.. The whole abandoning the marital home plays a Huge role in custody situations.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:23 PM
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She is not lazy, she just spends her energy on other things. She is very good at her career, always has been.. Part of the reason why I fell in love with her.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:20 PM
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I was thinking about that.. but it's a motivational post. If it helps just one more person, its a success.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:18 PM
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Just waiting for her to move out. Divorce process can get messy when living in the same household. there is a big emphases on "Marital home" when it comes to child custody.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 08:38 PM
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It's no longer IF, It's WHEN you will get divorced.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 08:32 PM
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yeah, just waiting for her to move out. If I file now, she may not move out and make this difficult and costly.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 08:09 PM
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8 years ago, I used to visit these subreddits and make fun of the people here. I believed you all were losers.. turns out I was the biggest loser. I am sure there are people reading this and saying, this would never happen to them. Oh brother.. I really hope you don't go through it but protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 08:08 PM
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I can take care of my daughter, but a House keeper would be nice. I don't want to add extra cost now but definitely something I will explore in the future. "You deserve someone who appreciates and loves you." I stopped believing this fantasy. I just hope I can be a good father to my daughter and lead her to the right direction. I appreciate the kind words!
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 08:03 PM
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Yeah, we both discussed how much it will cost if we involve lawyers. We both agreed to 50/50 custody and splitting assets 50/50. Big loss for me but it is what it is. My daughter is what matters for me.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 05:31 PM
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Even if you could afford it alone. Don’t ever let a woman stay at home. Also, make her pay the bills! Always. If you don’t, even if you both have the same income, Courts will rule in her favor to “maintain her lifestyle”. Fucking bullshit.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 05:16 PM
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You have to stop this before it gets worse for your daughter.. This ego comes from Fathers who don't hold their daughters accountable early on and just do what they say, because "she is my princess". This needs to end!
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 09:39 PM
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then they wonder why Men suicide rate is so high.
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 09:34 PM
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