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I'd say mostly out of fear. Also mostly to get back at their ex in some sick way. To show their ex they're happy. I've met these men and some of them regret having been remarried. There is a certain kind of bliss if you can go through the pain.
/r/Divorce_Men27/07/26 01:12 AM
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You can always call cps .
/r/Divorce_Men26/07/26 01:12 PM
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You're reading too much into my comments. I never said dont avoid women. I'm saying avoid single moms who claim their ex is abusive and who are looking at you as a paycheck. I can't write a paragraph explaining what I mean, its meant to spur curiosity so they go researching. New Testament is full of hope for people going through divorce. Divorce is worse than a family member dying. How do you suggest they get over it? I dont see you contributing in any meaningful way. Not everyone has money for …
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/26 12:57 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/26 12:38 PM
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Next time you use chatgpt, look at the sources it scans for, and you'll see reddit pop-up occasionally. LLM routinely use reddit for their research. Reddit is a wealth of data, if you're smart enough to use, which sounds like you're not.
/r/Divorce_Men25/07/26 01:28 AM
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Spend enough time on this forum and you'll see. I've been on these forums for 7 years
/r/Divorce_Men24/07/26 01:40 AM
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Yes I paste it from some place I copied it
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 11:46 PM
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This isn't an automated response. This is the collective wisdom I've collected over 3 years of litigation in both family and criminal courts, which covers 95% of questions on this forum to help. I literally paste this myself when I see someone asking for support.
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 10:38 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 10:03 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 02:43 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/07/26 11:09 AM
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Record everything, get proof, documents, talk to lawyer.
/r/Divorce_Men18/07/26 12:43 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 10:23 PM
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Here is an idea: If you're planning the divorce, you can get yourself fired and not work for 3 years. Then you don't owe her anything. Go on sick leave. Another idea is take everything and run away to another country. Other than that, that's the cost of divorce. I myself lost 15 years of life savings when my ex decided to get me criminally charged "silver bullet" divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 08:05 PM
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Make sure you start recording all interactions (dont tell her). You need to protect yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 11:57 AM
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Yes its way better if you file. Some women file first and then make abuse allegations to justify their divorce. Do it before your life gets more complicated.
/r/Divorce_Men16/07/26 11:56 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 10:42 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/07/26 07:46 PM
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Been there done that. Fought for custody for 3 years. Eventually got every other weekend for 3 years until my 12 year old was alienated. Now only seeing the younger kid. What else can I do when the whole system treats us fathers as disposable? The mother can literally bring any predator inside the house while a biological father has to go through supervised visit and earn the right to see his own kids. The ex made me pay for baby sitters to watch the kids when she wasn't home rather than send th…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 08:20 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 04:51 PM
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Cut them off and tell them you can choose me or her. Thats it
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 03:58 PM
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Mentally prepare yourself for a divorce and continue to better yourself by going to the gym, hanging out with your friends, finding hobbies. Let go of wanting the relationship to work. Oddly enough, when you've emotionally and mentally let go of your desire to be with her, is when she will be attracted to you. Source: Been there. Ultimately ended up divorced because I tried too hard to make it work, which ended up building more resentment on her part.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 01:17 PM
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Why do us men get ourselves into this mess? Just get divorced and get 50 50 and be happy. Do not marry again and get a vasectomy.
/r/Divorce_Men13/07/26 03:04 AM
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Brother - if that's all you got from my message, you are CHOOSING to wallow in your misery. Either way, my door is open for you if you need to hit me up. Best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 06:50 PM
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As someone whose been accused of r*pe and had a 3 year family and criminal court, lost of my life savings, and 1 kid due to alienation, I'm going to say the solution starts with you. The moment you say "I hate my life", the world answers you in the same way. Change starts with your words and mind. Next time, say "Thank you lord for the roof over my head, food in my fridge, and dry feet". Say that every day multiple times a day. Then walk everyday for 1 hour. Get up to running if you can. Listen …
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 04:56 PM
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Amen. This is the way.
/r/Divorce_Men10/07/26 01:57 AM
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3 years including criminal and family courts
/r/Divorce_Men08/07/26 08:07 PM
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I think you're in the wrong divorce sub, bud.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 05:43 PM
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Been done, done that. Agreed some cases you show no mercy, but as long as you're thinking logically and level-headed. The lawyers love taking your money and creating conflict. Just watch-out on that. You will have a hard time getting all that money back.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 01:19 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 09:24 AM
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Sounds like it's finally time for you to start being happy. It'll be a long process but you will be happier.
/r/Divorce_Men07/07/26 09:19 AM
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I went through false allegations as well and had to go to both criminal court and family court over a span of 3 years. I spent my life savings. Here is what I would suggest, having made it on the other side and quite happy now. Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housin…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 08:01 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men06/07/26 12:15 PM
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I was accused of rape and had to go to trial, so if I did it so can most.
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 02:36 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men05/07/26 01:01 PM
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I didn't know you can go on disability for this. How long were you approved for and for what?
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 06:24 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 06:23 PM
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You're going to be more than OK. My only advice is to try and focus on your career and hobbies as much as you can before dating. Dating will eat into a lot of your free time that you can be using to actually enjoy your life and making bank.
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 03:09 PM
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So your current young wife is ok not having kids? Any chance she'll get baby fever in her 30s?
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 02:13 AM
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Will you be having more kids with her?
/r/Divorce_Men04/07/26 01:55 AM
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Bro, just let them kids walk to the house. Park far away from the moms house. I have a restraining order and that's what I have to do.
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 06:57 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women: • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men02/07/26 12:36 PM
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My court case was 3 years long and involved 4 Lawyers. Involved both family court and criminal court. Average lawyer rate is $500/ hour. Don't take my word it. Just read these forums. Been here for 7 years. Anyways, good luck to you and your life. You seem happy
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 03:26 AM
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What about men that fight and end up living in their cars or homeless? Or men that fight to only end up with the bare minimum access? I was one of them. I spent $500k (life savings). I'm just saying it's not as black as white as you're making it out to be. I had another guy that hated my comments. I dug into his comment history to find out he was a lawyer. Sounds like you may be the same.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 01:58 AM
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So you're an outlier. The reality is most men lose their shirt fighting for their kids including myself. Why did the lawyers make it so difficult to get 50/50 by default? They're the ones actively lobbying against 50/50. It's so they stay in business. The advice to settle is only 1 of 10 advices. Each situation is unique but that list covers 90% of situations that can help men. Most of my comments get 10+ upvotes in each post.
/r/Divorce_Men30/06/26 01:04 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men28/06/26 05:16 PM
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Running saved my life in a way (and Jesus). I run 4x a week for 3KM (about 25 minutes). Agreed it's the best medicine.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 12:27 PM
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You don't sound legitimate. I've been on this forum for 6 years and men just don't talk like this. You can be an outlier which doesnt count for anything. Anyway good for you.
/r/Divorce_Men26/06/26 01:24 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/26 10:50 PM
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Sounds like you have Stockholm syndrom
/r/Divorce_Men25/06/26 10:09 PM
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As you pointed out, one has to pick between their livelihood (careers, savings) or fighting for their children. The risk most men face is even after giving up your career and fighting for the kids you still end up losing. Hence why I always suggest: Settle your case ASAP. • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. Find a hobby. Focus on your career/start a side hus…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 11:41 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men23/06/26 01:27 PM
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Just be careful because there is such a thing as "historical allegations " which means she can claim something happened years ago and you can still get charged. Thats how my ex got me out of the house without a shred of evidence.
/r/Divorce_Men21/06/26 12:10 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 07:37 PM
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Horrible advice. Once a woman is cheating, even if you work it out it will be temporary.
/r/Divorce_Men20/06/26 06:54 PM
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You're looking for the divorce subreddit pal. Go there for free upvotes
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 05:13 PM
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Go google "post divorce success stories " and see how many men became successful post divorce. I saved all those stories and read them regularly for motivation. Lots of men doubled their income or got 50% raises. You can become better off. But you have to want it and beg for it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/06/26 05:12 PM
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Thats a choice. I know a couple who did that. I did that to myself once, but not going to do it again even though haven't seen my oldest in a year. I respect you for it
/r/Divorce_Men18/06/26 03:19 PM
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Well put
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 11:57 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men17/06/26 03:39 AM
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you're looking for the divorce_women subreddit I think.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 09:19 PM
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mine married her lawyer
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 04:50 PM
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No I want to know why a parasite cant go to work like everyone else? If the parasite cant afford it, the custody should be given to one who can.
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 02:56 PM
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Why should a parasite get anything at all?
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 12:21 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men16/06/26 02:26 AM
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This belongs in divorce_men subreddit. Lots of good advice there
/r/askMRP15/06/26 07:44 PM
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No one hates women. Men love women and sacrifice themselves for their women and families. But everyone here hates the system and how it enables a person to completely destroy the family unit via false allegations and get away with it. Get it?
/r/Divorce_Men14/06/26 12:55 AM
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Agreed. Forgiveness has nothing to do with the other person. It has to do with you moving on
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 07:56 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men10/06/26 11:52 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men09/06/26 02:44 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. What to do now? Settle your case ASAP. • The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system…
/r/Divorce_Men06/06/26 04:46 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men04/06/26 01:50 AM
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Hard disagree. Karma will get you. Stay away from someone else's relationship
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 03:18 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men03/06/26 01:35 AM
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I went through hell to just get access to my kids. My ex made so many false allegations and put my me on supervised access. Before the divorce, friends used to call me superdad. I can understand why some do what they do.
/r/Divorce_Men31/05/26 12:56 PM
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People can't handle the truth
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 06:06 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 03:50 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men29/05/26 03:38 PM
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Stop responding to her. Or ask chatgpt how to respond
/r/Divorce_Men28/05/26 07:00 PM
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it doesn't need to say anything. You say you're looking to understand if child support calculations are appropriate and you need her tax returns to make a determination. If you go to court, the court will force her to provide it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 09:26 PM
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This is easy. Say if he shows up you'll call the cops for harassment and will seek a restraining order if he comes without your permission. Say you're afraid of him.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 09:22 PM
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Use airbnb.com You can rent out ur room or a living room. Maybe rent out a basement.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 08:49 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women: • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 08:35 PM
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Can you rent out a few rooms in your house? That's what I've done to afford the mortgage payments.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 08:35 PM
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First ask her to send you her tax returns. She is obligated to do so
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 08:31 PM
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I can also confirm life gets better, but you need to be disciplined and focused on your goals.
/r/Divorce_Men27/05/26 03:03 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women: • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 04:03 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women: • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 01:07 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men25/05/26 12:29 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 12:50 PM
1

At the end of the day, islamic marriage is what they call a side-chick. Once you look at it that way, what this man did is what most people do.
/r/Divorce_Men24/05/26 12:50 PM
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worried the ex will try and seek something more. She gets to see mine because family courts are biased
/r/Divorce_Men23/05/26 05:41 PM
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I did. The mom took the kid to the doc and told coached my kid to tell the doctor not to share any medical information with me. The doctor is now refusing to engage
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 06:32 PM
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agreed. I've told my ex to get her therapy but she refuses. that's why it's also a legal issue because I need to go to court to force a judge to force reunification therapy. Just looked him up - thank you.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 05:56 PM
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Same here! There is a subreddit called parentalalienation. I haven't seen my 12-year old in a year. I've decided to let things be right now as I can't afford to go back to court or get therapists. I am in my 40s and need to start planning my life after having had lost my life savings in the divorce.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 05:48 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 04:54 PM
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Mine accused me of grape. Yup.
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 01:27 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 01:26 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages en d in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands…
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 10:20 AM
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Her bf will break up with her and she will be miserable. You will get through this stronger and happier. This is the trend
/r/Divorce_Men22/05/26 10:18 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men21/05/26 10:41 PM
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What to do now? 1 2. Find a hobby. 3. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money. 4. Hit the gym daily. 5. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. 6. Travel once a year. 7. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy 8. Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTube. • Learn to forgi…
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 02:02 PM
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"She has to have things her way" You will be in trouble if you have kids. So decide now.
/r/Divorce_Men14/05/26 12:22 PM
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Good idea Unfortunately my ex made historical allegations where there were no cameras
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 04:01 PM
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Listen to me bro. I was accused of r*pe against my ex-wife during the divorce. I was kicked out of the house and lose access to my young kids for 8 months. I was completely blind-sided. But listen, everyone knows these are false allegations but they have no choice but to do their jobs. You're main responsibility is to take care of yourself. My false allegations took almost 2 years to resolve. I had to hire a criminal and family lawyer. I nearly went bankrupt. here is what I did to keep my sanity…
/r/Divorce_Men11/05/26 02:30 PM
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How successful do you expect to be in life when you're entire focus is chasing tail? Context is important. He was asking life questions and not questions on upping his game
/r/askMRP09/05/26 03:42 PM
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Sounds like you're a wise young man. In regards to travel, go anywhere you can afford by yourself. Go see a temple, or go for a hike at a famous trail and explore a new city. Somewhere where it's somewhat outside your comfort zone and you have to sleep the night by yourself.
/r/askMRP08/05/26 08:40 PM
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You're young and a lot of your understanding will only come to you in your early 30s. That's how it works for men. For you, here is what i recommended: Workout daily. I run 3km a day. This helps your emotions and mental well being. Read the New Testament daily. Listen to Charles Stanley on YouTube. This gives you hope and understanding of our world. Stay away from women. This is your time to build yourself and your career. Solo travel once a year. Your eyes will be opened how the world operates …
/r/askMRP08/05/26 02:50 PM
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Keep forcing yourself to go to gym and surf. Read the New Testament like John, Matthew, Luke. You will be OK. You will thrive.
/r/Divorce_Men03/05/26 01:35 PM
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I've been through this. Therapy wont help. Here is what you do. Do these every day and report back in 3 months Find a hobby. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money. Hit the gym daily. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. Travel once a year. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy Open up the New Testament and star…
/r/Divorce_Men01/05/26 09:44 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men30/04/26 12:15 PM
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My ex pulled something similar. Turns out she was recording stuff for divorce and False allegations. Stay vigilant
/r/askMRP22/04/26 11:27 AM
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You can absolutely get a second job. Make sure the job doesnt report income. So make it cash. Or find remote contract roles. Check out mercor.ai
/r/Divorce_Men21/04/26 11:29 PM
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She only cares because you care so much. Stop caring and she won't allow him to discipline. But also, if you had step kids at ur house, wouldnt you want the kids to show you respect? Let it go.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 09:21 PM
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Congrats for dealing with it. Unfortunately, for many of us, the decision was made for us. Most of us even forgave our cheating ex wives for sake of our children, but that wasn't enough. The ex wife just wanted out so they can get the child support money and live with their AP.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 03:46 PM
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A woman who has a divided attention is a ticking time bomb. She doesn't respect you. If you're asking us for advice, it means you're weak and will not leave her.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 02:09 PM
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Having kids may only make things harder. You have to decide if youre willing to continue feeling this way for the rest of your life or walk away now. Having said that, living with someone does have some growing pains until you guys learn to live with each other.
/r/Divorce_Men18/04/26 12:07 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 11:31 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men14/04/26 02:03 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men09/04/26 12:02 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men08/04/26 11:36 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men07/04/26 02:19 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men06/04/26 09:09 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 04:39 PM
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Right and my comment tells him what to do: Forgive, workout, focus on careers, and gym
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 02:15 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men04/04/26 01:42 AM
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Thanks! Went through divorce hell and made every mistake in the book. Finally realized a collection of wisdom i put together
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 04:13 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men31/03/26 01:02 AM
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I fought to get every other weekend when kid was 8. As soon as she turned 12, she was alienated and doesnt want to see me. I decided to let it be and not go back to court for reunification therapy or enforcement. I cant afford the money or stress. I need to build my life.
/r/Divorce_Men29/03/26 01:58 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men28/03/26 01:25 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men27/03/26 12:06 PM
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Mostly happier and better, but it took a lot of self work, prayer, and maturing to get here. I see my kids every other weekend, pay CS, and my ex routinely denies visitation. But I'm keeping it together and focusing on rebuilding my life. 5 - years post divorce
/r/Divorce_Men21/03/26 12:50 AM
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There is always an outlier. I'm glad it worked out for you. Most men (and some women) have to change lawyers 3-5 times (like I did).
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 09:42 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 07:44 PM
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Source? I mean if that was true why cant they ask for Google searches for discovery?
/r/Divorce_Men18/03/26 12:58 PM
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how did you build your passive income?
/r/Divorce_Men10/03/26 12:35 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men07/03/26 03:36 AM
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Mine became a hooker right before
/r/Divorce_Men01/03/26 03:26 PM
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nothing like daily running and walks. I used to walk for 1 hour in evening and run 5km/day (still do). Even though I lost everytyhing I managed to sleep well.
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 02:37 PM
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They say stress is the silent killer. Here is what worked for me: Settle your case ASAP. The leeches (Judges, Lawyers, Therapists, Legal system will want to bleed you dry by leveraging your kids against you) The system gets paid by you fighting for you children. Find a hobby. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money. Hit the gym daily. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the …
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 02:26 AM
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I highly doubt you're an attorney. Or if you are, you completely misunderstood my point. I'm not speaking about JOINT CUSTODY, I'm speaking about 50/50 Parenting time. A mom/father can have joint custody without the father seeing his kids more than every other weekend. Actually, now that you have identified yourself as a leech (lawyer), it all makes sense why you take issue with my points. Because if people started taking my advice (settling ASAP), that's less money for your firm/business. Haha!…
/r/Divorce_Men28/02/26 02:25 AM
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It doesn't need to be tailored because ALL our situations are the same: Divorced. Hence there is a high likelihood he needs to do one of the things from the list. I'm just trying to be helpful for a lot of these guysl.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 06:32 PM
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I'm not sure where you're getting your facts from, but the default is absolutely NOT 50/50. Only Florida/Arizona have default 50/50 and maybe a couple of other red states.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 06:30 PM
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The list isn't meant to apply to 100% of divorced men, but I bet you it applies to more than 80% of them. Instead of arguing with me, you should spread positivity to our men. Lots of people love the advice I give.
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 04:08 PM
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Because it's true and it applies in all our scenarios
/r/Divorce_Men27/02/26 11:46 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men26/02/26 07:10 PM
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I got falsely accused of r*pe by wife Had to hire criminal lawyer, got kicked out of matrimonial house, had to hire family lawyer, absolute hell. That one false allegation was enough for her to destroy me financially so I cant fight on family court side. 5 years later, I'm doing well. Have every other weekend and choosing to move on
/r/Divorce_Men25/02/26 02:00 AM
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Very motivational. That's my dream one day. How much were you investing and into what ETFs? What % did you invest in stocks vs paying down the mortgage? Congrats on being a millionaire!
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 07:25 PM
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Yes that is exactly correct. I'm in Canada, and its also based on income (vs Expenses). But I'm just trying to make sure I don't get dinged somehow. I rent out my basement so I get some income (which the ex knows about and is included already in the Child Support calculations)
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 06:46 PM
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What was your motivation for paying down the mortgage instead of investing in the market or buying a second property? She may be able to take me back - family court is nonsense.
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 06:43 PM
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Yes, their primary objective is to bleed you dry. They do not care about your outcome. They care about how much they can take from you.I've had five different lawyers.And that's been my experience
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 05:25 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 11:36 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men24/02/26 01:05 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 03:50 PM
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I used to write in a journal (for myself) but written to the ex saying goodbye and pouring my heart out. It helped me get the closure I needed.
/r/Divorce_Men19/02/26 01:10 AM
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"I will never forgive her because of the ongoing bs she directs at the kids to try and destroy their lives." This right here. No one can help you if you don't want to be helped. It really IS a choice. Wishing you the best of luck.
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/26 02:31 PM
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With your attitude, you will never move on. My ex filed false r*pe charges against me. I spent 2 years in criminal court defending myself. Then another 1 year trying to get my children back. I was put on supervised visitation, child support, and went bankrupt in the process. Now, after 4-years post-divorce, my older kid (12) is no longer talking to me because her mom alienated her. Haven't seen her in almost a year. It was hell. BUT, I am choosing to move on, and things are getting better. How? …
/r/Divorce_Men16/02/26 01:46 PM
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I've looked into this subject and it appears that men's groups are routinely targeted by feminists and shut down as they brand it as a hate group or far right group.
/r/Divorce_Men14/02/26 02:55 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men12/02/26 02:01 AM
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50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now? Settle your case ASAP. T…
/r/Divorce_Men10/02/26 02:13 PM
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Same exact reason I got a vasectomy. Never again going to be held hostage because of the kids
/r/Divorce_Men30/01/26 05:56 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 02:29 PM
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Forgiveness isn't about other people, it's about you. If anyone can do it without forgiveness, respect to them, but I couldn't find other ways to move on after what she had done to me with false allegations.
/r/Divorce_Men28/01/26 02:36 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men27/01/26 09:47 PM
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Just google the "silver bullet" and you will understand. Also google cases where the dad was accused of SA by his own kids, only for his kids to recant when they got older. Actually, false r*pe allegations by wives/girlfriends are A LOT more common than you think.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 04:10 PM
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You missed the point pal. Go to the main divorce subreddit if you want to play dense.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 01:18 PM
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Yup. I was charged with 11 historical offenses (all false). The most egregious being I had r*ped her. Yes, r*ped my own wife. Fortunately, it all worked out, but not without having been traumatized and spending money on lawyers.
/r/Divorce_Men26/01/26 01:51 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men16/01/26 06:39 PM
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Your wife is a saint actually for being honest and upfront. Mine filed false DV allegations and didnt let me see my kids for 8 months after I caught her having an affair. Went bankrupt and now slowly recovering 7 years later. Settle your case ASAP and move on. You're lucky
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 06:46 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men15/01/26 12:31 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men13/01/26 03:31 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men12/01/26 02:36 AM
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Your state is the exception. In most jurisdictions, 50/50 is not the default. Most men I know in other areas as well have every other weekend.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 02:04 PM
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Regret involves a degree of taking accountability. Women are usually incapable of taking accountability. So, no, women will never have regrets because it's always men's fault they had to divorce us.
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 02:03 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:26 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 12:31 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men08/01/26 01:41 AM
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Sounds like children of divorce will have a hard time adjusting in life
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 12:07 PM
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Have faith, brother. Your life will get better, but you have to want it. Cheers
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 01:59 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men07/01/26 12:20 AM
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Ok so I'm not the ONLY one going through this with my daughter? My parents blamed me I mistreated her (by giving her a time out when she was misbehaving). But I'm her dad- i'm supposed to show her right from wrong, no? Haven't heard from her nearly 8 months.
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 08:59 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men06/01/26 12:58 PM
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I'm in same boat as you. I have decided it's cheaper for me to pay the higher child support for now than the stress and lawyer costs. I just figure I'll work more and make more money where I can.
/r/Divorce_Men05/01/26 07:13 PM
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MY EX claimed to the cops I had r*ped her 6 months ago when I had no camera on me. This was very smart on her as there was no way for me to prove otherwise unless go trial. The system is very corrupt and designed to punish males.
/r/Divorce_Men04/01/26 03:13 PM
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Go to the gym Find a side hustle to make.more money Meditate 🧘‍♂️ Attend your local father's groups and share your experience
/r/Divorce_Men03/01/26 01:26 AM
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I was in your shoes. I will only tell you that nothing will turn out good for you. End it ASAP.
/r/Divorce_Men02/01/26 03:27 PM
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No kid? Bro you need to be celebrating on your new lease on life. Lots of guys here are envious of you not having kids with a bitter ex wife. You have no idea how lucky you are brother.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/25 10:44 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/25 10:27 PM
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My ex ended up marrying her lawyer. So you never know. You're in a bad situation. You need to settle ASAP. Don't lose your shirt fighting.
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/25 08:41 PM
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Forgiveness in the modern sense you can choose. But real Forgiveness is through Jesus and realizing it's a commandment that you must do, in order for your sins to be forgiven
/r/Divorce_Men31/12/25 03:05 AM
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Same. I think its a mix of both trauma but also maturity.
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 06:09 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 03:14 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 02:45 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men28/12/25 02:19 PM
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Don't bother counseling. It's a waste of money and she'll just blame you
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 08:53 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men26/12/25 07:02 PM
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He tried and didnt work. He should have actively worked throughout the year to find a support group. I've done that. Why hasn't he? Its not too late. I'm being harsh because someone needs to gove tough love here
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 11:16 PM
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Ok bro, why sit around and mope? There's so much to do if you want. Don't rely on others to make you happy because you'll be disappointed. Some ideas: Go to church or volunteer at your church. Start training for a 5k or 10k Work on a side hustle to make more money Travel, even for a few days and explore a new city by yourself Join meetup (app) and go to events There is literally dozens of things you can do. But you have to want it. Don't expect others to do it for you. Yes it's tough. But it wil…
/r/Divorce_Men25/12/25 11:05 PM
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Don't buy her tears. Its mostly for show. She's grieved you and your marriage 2 years before she told you its over.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 09:13 PM
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Let's say your mom is right about your dad and he did all the bad things your mom claims. Does your dad love you and want to be a part of your life? Why are you angry on your mom's behalf? These are symptoms of parental alienation. Most men don't abuse their spouses 'just because'. Some women intentionally trigger their partner to 'abuse' them to build evidence for courts. Nevertheless, what I hear from your post is just your mom's anger towards your dad. You should be angry at your mom for maki…
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 07:20 PM
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Or the divorce sub. Most of us, including myself, was banned from there for daring to voice my opinion. Downvote this post yall.
/r/Divorce_Men23/12/25 03:13 PM
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You need to quit 1 job immediately otherwise the Alimony will kill you. She will divorce you just a matter of time
/r/Divorce_Men19/12/25 11:49 AM
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Read The Manipulated Man. Free pdf online
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 01:28 PM
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You need Jesus and learn to forgive from the heart. No amount of therapy or drugs or alcohol will help you unless you get on your knees and forgive your evil ex from the heart just like your heavenly father has forgiven you.
/r/Divorce_Men16/12/25 01:33 AM
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They say you don't break bad habits, you just replace them. For me, I go for 1-hour walks every night, regardless how cold the weather is. I also run every day, be it snow or rain outside or too hot. I also listen to Charles Stanley on YouTube and meditate. If you start doing this, you will replace your drinking habit.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 06:51 PM
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They ALL maintain they didn't cheat. They will NEVER admit it. The only time they will is if you literally have a video of them doing the deed.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 06:49 PM
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You need a voice recorder/camera if possible. It will save you hundreds of thousands of dollars in legal fees if you have things on record, especially her threats.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 04:11 PM
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Don't be scared. My own wife filed false r*pe allegations against me to get a leg up in family court. They all do it. Its so sad what a joke of a system it has come to. Now I hardly believe anyone saying that stuff. You will get through it. Find a local men's support divorce group and 9 out of 10 of them will have something similar happened to them.
/r/Divorce_Men15/12/25 12:00 AM
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Pull your kids out of private school. If you get divorced you will have to pay child support and private school tuition and possibly Alimony.
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 10:40 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men13/12/25 03:07 AM
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Nothing in family court makes sense. Your best bet is to settle ASAP and move on with your life. You may pay a lot more upfront, but it will be cheaper in the long run by settling..
/r/Divorce_Men11/12/25 01:35 PM
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Watch out. She may be looking to divorce you but wants a bigger house to live in that you'll have to pay
/r/askMRP10/12/25 05:53 PM
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Agreed She'll even lose more respect when she sees youre trying to keep the family together after discovering her sexting.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:38 AM
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Yes it does. She has lost respect for you. Once respect is lost, its permanent. Any reconciliation will be temporary. You've been warned. And speaking from experience.
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 02:05 AM
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I'm going through this right now as well. My suggestion is to focus on your younger kids to salvage the relationship. The teenager has already been corrupted and there isn't much you can do at this point.So focus on the younger ones
/r/Divorce_Men08/12/25 12:26 AM
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I do not have a bot setup. I manually copy and paste this for those I feel need to hear it. I get these men want empathy and sympathy, which others will provide. But I am providing them practical solutions to help them get over the hump. Maybe I can tone it down a bit
/r/Divorce_Men07/12/25 12:13 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 11:54 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men06/12/25 11:54 PM
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Start with Charles Stanley on YouTube. Listen to it daily. Then download YouVersion Bible app. Start there.
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 03:50 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men04/12/25 02:15 PM
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Don't sweat it. If it wasn't the photos, it would be some other excuse she would have used. She probably was thinking of leaving you anyway, and the photos provided her the perfect excuse.
/r/Divorce_Men02/12/25 03:08 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 05:24 PM
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Happiness is a choice. Stop feeling sorry for yourself and Find a hobby. Focus on your career/start a side hustle/Make more money. Hit the gym daily. Stay away from SINGLE moms at ALL costs and anyone who claims their ex was abusive. Do NOT raise another man’s child. You may end up being on the hook financially (Child support) for their kid if you leave. Travel once a year. Read books like No More Mr. nice guy Open up the New Testament and start reading daily + listen to Charles Stanely on YouTu…
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 03:32 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 03:29 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 02:56 PM
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Sounds like you need to focus on yourself, finding internal happiness first through meditation, going gym, before seeking it in a partner
/r/Divorce_Men01/12/25 02:55 PM
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It's possible.He sees your requests as irrelevant to the court case
/r/Divorce_Men30/11/25 01:17 PM
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She says she likes mommy's house more because they "bother me less", meaning they allow her to he on YouTube all day and on her phone. Whereas I set boundaries. Her grades started slipping
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 05:43 PM
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Yup - you got it - it's a female. How? The mother told her some of the false allegations she herself had brought to court years ago to reduce my custody/access. The 13 year old has cut herself off from all part of my family. What else could it be if it's not alienation? We had a good relationship and all the sudden she chose to stop coming over.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 03:05 PM
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Brother - at one point, you just have to be thankful your son has a roof over his head and a hot meal to eat. You cannot lose YOUR life - which is what your ex is trying to do - for your son. I am speaking from experience. At one point, you have to play the LONG game instead of winning the short game. That means waiting for your son to be older to make his own decisions, which can be as soon as 12-14. You need to focus on making sure you're OK.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 02:07 PM
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100% agreed. How old are your kids? Mine are young. The 13-year old has been alienated by the mom so has stopped coming to see me. The 7 year old is way too young to make any decisions and is easily manipulated.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 02:05 PM
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Wow. That sounds exactly like my ex-wife. Always in her room on her phone. Brother - your marriage is over. She does not respect nor love you. It was hard in the beginning post-divorce, but life is slowly getting better. We deserve better as men.
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 02:02 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men29/11/25 12:50 PM
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Life will get better if you believe it.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 05:32 PM
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Your outlet should be going to the gym, meditation, work, and long walks. You will end up in a situation you don't want and add lots of unnecessary stress to your life.
/r/Divorce_Men27/11/25 02:15 AM
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File first. Carry a voice recorder at all times. Document everything.
/r/Divorce_Men25/11/25 07:57 PM
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No mental illness. Also ability to cook
/r/Divorce_Men23/11/25 12:42 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 01:55 PM
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Do NOT GIVE your share of the house. I've had others do this thinking they'll make their share back only to get let go shortly after.
/r/Divorce_Men22/11/25 02:02 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 10:49 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 01:37 AM
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This is your problem right here. You ain't living right to begin with. You're doomed unless you correct your ways.
/r/Divorce_Men21/11/25 12:06 AM
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She needs her own independence? Even though shes married? She's a problem waiting to happen. Not to mention the Alimony you would owe her. You need someone that doesn't see marriage as a chore but WANTS to cook and clean and please you.
/r/Divorce_Men20/11/25 09:30 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 11:13 PM
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How would you feel if shoes were reversed and someone was dating your wife? This relationship will not work. End it.
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 05:55 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men19/11/25 12:33 PM
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She clearly played you in order to file first. Typical move. The sooner you realize your marriage is over the sooner your new life begins.
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 09:51 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:16 PM
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3 out of 4 s**iceds are men...thats 75%...
/r/Divorce_Men18/11/25 04:14 PM
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Why are you here? Literally the entire reddit is moderated around women's views and anyone who goes against the grain on those subs are banned. I myself was banned from the main divorce subreddit. Go there and you will get your answers
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 04:34 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:20 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men17/11/25 03:17 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 05:57 PM
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Bro I almost went bankrupt fighting my ex for 3 years. I realized what you realized, that its a losing game. The only way to win is not to play. Now I stay away from the ex, even though she now has even alienated my 12 year old and I haven't seen her in 6 months. But I refuse to go back to court. I need to look after myself and my future
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 05:56 PM
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Child support too
/r/Divorce_Men16/11/25 01:29 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 01:28 PM
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You can do it when you accept it is a commandment and not a request from God. Once you surrender and do what youre told it becomes easier.
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 01:40 AM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men15/11/25 12:11 AM
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Stop meeting with your ex. Stay away
/r/Divorce_Men14/11/25 10:14 PM
1

My 12 - year daughter stopped seeing me this year. No reason given. However, I found out that the mom was spewing lies to her about me, which makes sense. I haven't heard from her in 6 months.
/r/Divorce_Men13/11/25 02:22 PM
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I waited. It went good because I closed a lot of the issues post divorce and was able to focus on myself and heal.
/r/Divorce_Men11/11/25 05:26 PM
1

Don't dwell on these topics as there is no "real" answer. Accept your situation. And begin enjoying your life: Travel, Work-out, Charity, Save money, and spend time with loving friends.
/r/MensRights10/11/25 07:37 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men10/11/25 04:48 PM
2

Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 10:00 PM
1

Go travel solo for a month. You will get the answers
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 09:44 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men09/11/25 07:48 PM
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Keep in mind most divorced moms alienate the dad. Its happened to me and countless others
/r/Divorce_Men08/11/25 07:00 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do …
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 11:03 PM
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Nope. And any successful campaigns are quickly targeted by feminist groups and shut down. Focus on rebuilding your life and finding a side hustle/business. And being happy.
/r/Divorce_Men07/11/25 08:18 PM
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50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate.
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 08:47 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 1. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 2. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. • Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 3. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. 4. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. • You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands.…
/r/Divorce_Men06/11/25 04:29 PM
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Well bud, join the club. 50% of all marriages end in divorce. 2nd marriages have 60% divorce rate and 3rd marriages 70% divorce rate. 90% of all divorces initiated by the women. Child support, Alimony, your pension + retirement savings, government support + housing incentivizes them leaving you. 90% of custody awarded to mothers. False allegations of abuse are prevalent in family courts. You will be called abusive in order to stress you out so you give in to their unjust demands. What to do now?…
/r/Divorce_Men05/11/25 06:50 PM
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Move on with your life. 95 percent of men are in same shoes. Accept it and work on yourself.
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 06:38 PM
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You're entitled to alimony and child support. You're lucky!!
/r/Divorce_Men04/11/25 03:09 AM
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The sooner you realize your marriage is over, the sooner you will recover. Settle with your wife ASAP before the "silver bullet" options that her lawyer will tell her to pull. It will be cheaper for you. You have been warned.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 02:39 PM
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Thanks
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 11:53 AM
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My ex filed false r"pe accusation in middle of divorce to get a leg up in family court. I was criminally charged. How to let go of resentment? Only 1 way: Forgiveness through Jesus. Also working out daily. Nothing else will help.
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 03:24 AM
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How?
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 03:22 AM
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Can you share your investment strategies
/r/Divorce_Men03/11/25 02:55 AM
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Make sure you document the abuse with dates in a journal and the events happened. This will be very helpful for you if/when you get divorced and she files false a*use allegations. False allegations are called the "silver bullet" in divorce. Doesn't hurt to be prepared.
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