kostasbras Archive

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3	How to get your conversation more flirty/sexual to be able to make a move? Of course man. Send me a dm and I ll be glad to give you some tips that worked with me later, when I get some free time.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 12:52 PM
1	Looking for some guidance I've been through this man. You need to accept that you have hit the bottom, no matter that you may had some successes in the past. There isn't any magic pill that will lead you to get unlimited women and I would recommend you to focus on becoming natural and not a pua who needs specific lines and tricks in order to get a woman's attention. So, firstly you need to build consistency. Reframe yourself to consider every woman you manage to open as a win situation. When that will seem like a normal …	/r/seduction	26/11/19 11:51 AM
1	Why do I doubt myself when I try to approach someone? What if you stay in your comfort zone for the rest of your life? How would that make you feel when you will be at your deathbed and you will consider all the chances you had but you prefered a mediocre life? Accept that you will fail and you will probably be rejected at first. But it's a part of the process. That's how you learn and the next time you try with a different, improved approach. You can't avoid the process, you can only speed it up by finding a mentor.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 11:40 AM
2	How do I stop being so awkward and more of my true self around women? You just afraid to fail and be rejected. But guess what, you can't develop extreme social skills if you just stay at home and read about them. It needs practice. Failing is part of the process. Set smaller goals at first, reframe yourself and consider it as a win situation when you walk up to a woman and say hi. When that start to seems like a normal routine to you set a higher goal, like being able to maintain a conversation for like 5 mins. Then being able to convey your identity and your sexu…	/r/seduction	26/11/19 11:33 AM
1	Q for introverts: How do you balance your Introverted/Extroverted needs? You just try to fullfill an emptiness inside while you try all these. Take some time off and consider what you really want from life, where you want to be in 5 years and who would be the best company? Once you get the questions to all these you will have find your purpose and it should be clear where to invest your time. Keep in mind that in order to feel good with others firstly you need to feel good on your ownself.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 11:23 AM
1	How to increase value with no accomplishments? Tell them the truth man. You had all these struggles but you 've maganed to overcome them. Be proud of yourself first and then you will able to convey that to women.	/r/seduction	26/11/19 11:17 AM
8	How to overcome the fear of coming off as a creep? Cold approaching is actually something creepy as it's opposed to sociaty's beliefs and there is only a very small amount of people who do that (1%). But you really wanna live a mediocre life that it is applauded by the public opinion and abandon your dreams? Take a moment and think why you wanna do this, how will that make you feel and imagine yourself in some months and even years. You should see two cases, one that you succeed and you are able to talk and share some beautiful moments with ever…	/r/seduction	25/11/19 10:18 PM
19	How to get your conversation more flirty/sexual to be able to make a move? Escalate more. Bring some sexual topics and be cool while you talk about them. Women are not like us. We wanna just the end of the movie (sex), while they need to watch all of the 2 hours length in order to get at the final scene. She needs to be able to imagine and feel how it would look like to be with you. Reframe your mindset. You should understand that you are the one who decides if the woman is worthy and deserves to be with you. Not the opposite.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 03:50 PM
13	I'm scared of 9s and 10s so I always go after 7s and 8s as a safety net. Any Tips? Yeah, accept that you will fail. You can't avoid it. It's the only way to improve. Staying at your comfort zone(7s n 8s) does not have a real impact on your way to develop a better version of yourself. So, start failing little by little everyday, learn from your mistakes , try a different approach. Repeat. That's the process that will lead you to success. Keep executing. GG.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 03:40 PM
1	Help with an approach schedule If you mean for how long Im staying out and keep approaching, the answer is that it depends. Until I run out of time and have an obligation. If I don't have anything important scheduled I don't leave until I have so much fun that I would describe the night as awesome. If you mean for how long I go out for at least 4/7,the answer is until I have enough options to cover my weekly program and I really don't have time for other women. (because there is studying, gym, business, dates, books). But the…	/r/seduction	25/11/19 08:14 AM
2	Help with an approach schedule Approaching women from the university or your social circle in general, shows lack of choices. I assume that you are probably at the beginning of your journey so, the more approaches you do, the more failures you ll have and that ll lead you to get better faster. Try going out at least 4/7. For instance, dedicate 2 days for day game at crowded streets in the center of town and 2 days for night game at bars /clubs.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 02:01 AM
4	30 days, 100 approaches. Great job man, keep going until it seems like a completely normal process to you. Later, start analyze your interactions with focusing on 3 positives and 3 negatives of them every day.Write them down when you return home. In this way you ll know exactly where to focus next time.	/r/seduction	25/11/19 01:52 AM
1	In need of your help It's a great sign that you are able to regognize your situation. You have to create a strong why, which will keep you constitent and motivated to do a little step towards your goal every day. Take a moment and think about why do you wanna change, how that will make you feel and what exactly you wanna achieve in 1, 5 and 12 months. In order to succeed you have to fail, a lot. At first go out and talk to random people until it becomes a daily process for you. You don't need a perfect opening line.…	/r/seduction	25/11/19 01:43 AM
1	Is it an IOI? You ve handled it well dude.That's how you should react with a funny vibe. It's IOI but she is still your classmate. Try to meet more girls outside your social circle.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 08:29 AM
5	Trying to be social in a boring town help It's really nice that you are trying to develop yourself dude. Visit the closer city that contains clubs. When you aren't able to do this, stick to your town and just go to these few places or to the streets. The most important thing is to talk to strangers wherever you are until it becomes common for you, a daily routine.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 08:26 AM
1	Does a confirmation text make me look needy? If i arrive earlier of course I do that. I meet them in crowded places, in order to make them feel some safety at first. Usually we take a walk for a while, mb sit at a Cafe for like 1 hour and then keep walking or hanging out on some cool place. You should change 3-4 places in your first date, it helps you build a bond with the woman easier. When you are waiting you approach normally, like every time man. With confidence and aiming at sharing value and having sincere fun. If she comes while you…	/r/seduction	24/11/19 05:24 AM
2	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. It depends on his goal. If he wants to get better at interacting with people in general you are right. If he is focusing on how to meet beautiful women, share some value and have a nice time together, it's useless. If he 's got so much free time, it would be much more productive if he spent it in transforming his body, reading some books, building his business or studying for his classes.	/r/seduction	24/11/19 04:59 AM
1	I thought I was hitting it off with a coworker, but today I saw her kissing another coworker that she barely even talks to. Atm yes, he is the one that is friendzoned. But the roles can be inverted if he stops giving her attention,meets more girls outside of his social circle and gets abundance. Abundance is what describes alpha's best and women chase alpha 's as they are less than 1% of the men.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:52 PM
5	I have a huge crush and I don't want to fuck it up If you don't have other choices you can't claim that you have a crush on the first girl that you interact with and she is responsive. Go out, approach more and create abundance. Then if you still like her that much, it will feel natural to ask her out. Plus you will have more possibilities as you ll be far less needy.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:43 PM
5	I thought I was hitting it off with a coworker, but today I saw her kissing another coworker that she barely even talks to. It's creepy to hit your coworkers. Especially if you don't have any other choices, which makes you needy and women smell the neediness. Go out and approach girls that you don't know . Create abundance. Friendzone your coworker. If you do these right she will be the one that chases you.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:38 PM
-5	Does a confirmation text make me look needy? If you have set the date you don't anything more. Of course it makes you look needy. Go to the place where you ll meet 5 mins earlier and approach some girls. It ll have a massive impact if she sees you having fun with other girls, without her. Preselection is powerful.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:33 PM
2	I finally fuckin approached Congrats for your honesty and your courage. At first don't mind finding the perfect opening line. Focus on creating consistency by setting goals. For instance, dont leave the club until you make at least 5 approaches. That's how you will start to consider approach as something completely normal. Remember, "the moment I say hi, I've already win" Keep going and GG.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:44 PM
1	Cold Approach in an Asian country Same as everywhere. Go out, take action and learn from your mistakes. Find a mentor to help you speed up the process and get real results 10x times faster than you'd need alone.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:40 PM
2	Do you drink when you go out? If you drink everytime you go out you will end up having a destroyed bowel at your 40's. Game is about having sincere fun while being totally sober.Reframe your mindset.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:31 PM
1	She doesn't text me back for a day, and idk what to do. You did one good thing and you are destroying it with your neediness. The solution is simple. Go out and meet more women. Create abundance. When you ll have 10 more hot girls hitting your dm's, reconsider if you care that much for this one. And if you end up that she is so special, you can try send her a short funny statement, after a week.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:24 PM
2	Approaching girls without eye contact? Most of the times this is just a shit-test and you have to keep your eye contact while overcoming the test with a funny or teasing line.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:19 PM
3	Approaching girls without eye contact? 80-85% of the interaction is based on the non-verbal communication. Non verbal is eye contact, body language and vocal projection. Lack of eye contact shows that you are really unconfident. Which is one of the most important things for women. So as long as you don't wanna to sabotage yourself keep using laser eye contact.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:15 PM
3	You should be talking to as many women as possible, even if you dont like them or have intentions with them. Wtf man, that only works if you have social anxiety and you are trying to overcome it. Otherwise you are wasting your time if you speak to women that you don't find attractive. The development takes place when you have that feeling in the chest when you look at a beautiful woman in front of you and no matter how many excuses you come up with, you end up taking action and approaching her.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:09 PM
3	How can I (23M) improve how I talk to girls outside a club? So you consider it normal to ask them the same questions as a reporter would ask and pretend to be curious? It's not about what you say, but the way you say it. (85% of the interaction is based on non-verbal communication) If you want to improve at something, that should be your eye contact, the body language and the vocal projection. You can really discuss everything with women, as long as you convey it with a funny and confident way.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 07:05 PM
2	Expert seducers i have a question for you! It's like asking the fish how to fish. They will lie bro even unconsciously, no matter if she is a total stranger or your best best friend. When you ask them they will face your questions with logic and their answers will contain the society's opinion, because that's considered acceptable and that's how she will avoid being judged by others. But most of the time they don't really know what they really want. Women are controlled by their emotions, so they facing with completely different ways som…	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:57 PM
5	Guys that go to bars alone, have you ever had success? You think it will cause you frustration because it's far away from your comfort zone, but that's the way to achieve real growth. If you learn to go out alone and talk to women, any other case will seem extremely easy to you. You need to reframe your mindset asap. Why do you "need" to meet someone? Women can smell neediness miles away, no matter how hard you try to hide it, and guess what, it disgusts them. In order to have real results you must be comfortable with yourself first.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 06:45 PM
2	Fuck. I seriously need help with the approach Stop overthinking, it ll get you stucked in your head. You have to consider this as win /win situation. Your moto should be "the moment I say hi, I ve already won". What happens next are just extras. Set a goal of approaching eg 10 women when you go out until it seems like a normal daily process. Only when you manage to be consistent, take the next step.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:55 AM
18	First night out 0 approaches Recognizing and accepting the situation is the first step. You are better than the average, congrats. But now you have to destroy your ego. Keep consistency, and remember "the moment I say hi, I ve already won" GG	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:29 AM
2	Asking for an opinion about a private community that shares free premium courses Really appreciate that dude but I don't want free content.	/r/seduction	23/11/19 08:27 AM
1	Haven’t been on a date/flirted in 7 years. Need some major tips on how to pick girls up at the bar. Man I know how you feel. I had a relationship for like 4 years and when i broke up i had hit the bottom. The best places to pick up is at the bar and at the crowded streets in the town center. Its really important to realize that failure is part of the process.Thats the way you learn. So the best you can do is to take action. Just go and approach girls until you consider this as something normal. Then come back and ask your new questions. I ll be glad to help you,so feel free to dm me.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 08:27 PM
1	Finding a Mentor The fact that you realize and admit that you need help is very important. I struggled with the same issue too for a long time. Send me a message and I will be glad to help you mate.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 08:13 PM
1	while in the search of a gf, i need some advice Find out where the people in your age hanging out in your village. Go to the nearest city and start approaching. If you really wanna get results you need to be willing to change. What do I mean by that? Be the person who hangs out at a bar or a club. If you don't get out of your comfort zone there will be no change in your life.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:44 PM
1	Weird Tinder response If it wouldn't matter you wouldn't have dedicate a single second of your life to write this post. Wanna stay like this for ever and hope to have an interaction with women only if you match with some 5's or 6's through tinder, or wanna take personal responsibility of your life and go and get you some real results with women in real life? If you choose the second, go out and start approaching.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:40 PM
1	Closing the deal on the first date (more details inside)? You have to escalate (use physical contact) from the beginning. Whenever you share a good moment, like a laugher, go ahead and touch her. Women need to feel comfortable in order to have sex. Don't be afraid of your sexuality,but also care not to be too logical and straight. Tease her, tell some cool stories from your past, make funny statements and convey your identity. At the end of the date, find an excuse and invite her to your room. Something like I have a very cool collection of photographs…	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:27 PM
2	cold approach help Haha cool bro, if you need some extra help feel free to dm me	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:13 PM
1	Thinking about cold approaching to gain more confidence The only source of confidence should be yourself. When you understand and embrace this go out and have fun while approaching. Don't overthink, don't wait for the perfect moment. It 'll never come. Go either to the streets on the center of your town or to a club /bar and start taking action.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:11 PM
1	I need to stop seeking validation from women but holy fuck is it difficult For God 's sake approach more women. Other men would be really glad if they had free time and you re struggling to take advantage of this opportunity? Put on your favourite jacket and go out to take action. It's the only way to get rid of the neediness you feel.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 07:04 PM
2	cold approach help It's good sign that you understand you need help. The solution is simple. You can't get rid of that feeling. The only thing you can do is to accept your nervousness and go execute anyway. I've done thousands of approaches and still, everytime I see a cute girl that I wanna talk, there is this feeling which hits me. But you have to consider it like a win/win situation. I mean, assume it like this : "the moment I say hi, I ve already won". Be careful, If you gather too much info you will stuck in …	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:58 PM
2	Asking for an opinion about a private community that shares free premium courses Dude the problem with this situation is that you don't emphasize enough to the content of all these programs or courses. You either consciously or unconsciously can't consider them so valuable as they may are, because you found them completely for free. I ve watched 4 extremely long high content programs but, guess what. After a while a just skipped the videos, didn't pay so much attention and at some point I got too many information which burned me out and I stopped approach for weeks. Fortunat…	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:48 PM
1	Quick question guys, a girl a I got angry, I didnt reach out for 3 days, when I did, she replied, but only twice, and now she doesnt reply. Any tips? You simply accept that you can't handle everything 100% eveyritme. It's totally normal. But because if you don't fail you wont learn, send her again at some point. Try not to seem too needy with questions, just make a funny statement which will make you laugh when you think about it. The key is to send her something which will be low investment.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 06:39 PM
2	Quick question guys, a girl a I got angry, I didnt reach out for 3 days, when I did, she replied, but only twice, and now she doesnt reply. Any tips? Yeah, go out and approach more women. If you don't have options this case is already lost.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 04:38 PM
1	Still gaming after getting a girlfriend? Dude you re able to date this beautiful woman because you were alpha when you approached her. That means you had other choices too, but you prefered to spend more time with her.She sees that and she appreciates it. This situation doesn't change when you get into the relationship. If you stop approaching, you will not have any other options and she will take advantage of that. You will become more needy and guess what? Women are disgusted by neediness. Afterwards see ll probably make out with the…	/r/seduction	22/11/19 04:26 PM
2	I just keep getting hurt Dude wake up, you keep doing the same things while you see that they don't have any results. I have been there, I broke up with my 2,5 years relationship and I was really desperate. But guess, if you don't hit the bottom you can't realize that you need to change, you need to improve. Consider, where does self - pity leads? Would it be better if I start taking action and go out, to the real world, to claim my life? If you need more help just hit my dm, i ll be glad to answer your questions.	/r/seduction	22/11/19 04:16 PM