koukies Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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1	Who else believes that "Approach Anxiety" is merely a label that we have created so that those of us, myself included, can say that we "have" something that is preventing us from getting what we want - thus, creating an excuse and a reason for our inexperience? you're thinking about it too much. just take it easy and start slow. first smile at people who pass you by while walking. then start saying hi to people (cashiers, people in line with you, waitresses, etc.). then start asking how are you doing? then try having conversations with everyone (men and women). try to be genuinely interested in what people have to say and ask a lot of questions based on what they say.	/r/seduction	06/10/12 08:39 AM
-1	Can't get over my race I'm asian and I also respectfully disagree. A person shouldn't force themselves to integrate into a specific culture. If OP wants to assimilate into American society (assuming he is in America), then we should help him with that. When the going gets tough, the tough don't get going and flock back to their own kind. He just needs to toughen up his inner game, because it all really is mental. Likewise your story of the small penis question showed that you're really insecure and had to prove yourse…	/r/seduction	03/08/12 05:56 PM
14	University/college opening. Easy low risk low reward opener: Ask a cute girl next to you "did you go to whicheverhighscoolyouwentto high school?" Most likely she's going to say no and then say oh sorry you looked really familiar and then introduce yourself and start chatting! This has worked on me and for me.	/r/seduction	01/08/12 08:45 PM
10	I'm living in Korea. The game here is totally different from what I know. Enlighten PUA's in East Asia. I definitely agree. It is known and documented that Koreans are a very xenophobic group. It's very important for Koreans to be with other Koreans, and interracial relationships/marriages are heavily looked down upon (just look up the story of Hines Ward and his mother). Americanized Koreans maybe less inclined to do so, but Korean citizens tend to stick with their own.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 07:53 PM
2	How important is a nice car for social proof? This. If a girl is going to judge your attractiveness based on what kind of car you drive, you're probably better off without her. Just make sure whatever car you have you keep in great shape outside and inside.	/r/seduction	26/07/12 05:55 AM
1	How easy is it to get laid? How about just start off greeting random people on the street? First, make eye contact and smile. Then try making eye contact, smiling, and saying "hi." Pretty easy way to start opening yourself up to strangers. Seddit promotes improving yourself in all aspects. There really isn't a sure fire way of getting you laid, but vastly improving yourself increases those chances a ton. Imagine a buffer, well-dressed, hygenic, confident, well-traveled, intelligent, skilled, and passionate version of yours…	/r/seduction	21/07/12 09:28 AM
3	Girls don't care whether you "have your shit together" Having your shit together can only help you. Having your shit together will boost the confidence of a majority of guys out there. If you've got an amazing, well-paying, enjoyable career, a ripped body, a great sense of style/hygiene, a range of hobbies, skills, and passions, a great group of friends, and are well-traveled, you're most likely going to be much more confident than how you are right now. And that shows. Not to mention it gives you so much more to talk about and share with. Improving…	/r/seduction	17/07/12 08:59 PM
1	My opinion on why society thinks nice guys finish last It's not nice vs douchebag/asshole: it's unconfident vs confident. You can still treat women with respect and kindness and still win her heart if you're confident as fuck and have all your shit together (confidence, career, physique, style - all things YOU have control of). The typical 'nice guys' just often happen to be unconfident in themselves, and no woman wants a man who is unsure of himself. I was like that myself. But I also know genuinely nice and great guys who have girls fall for them …	/r/seduction	16/07/12 03:27 AM
3	I'm meeting a girl next week for biking. How can I minimize the possibility of her flaking? on the contrary, leisurely biking is a great way to exercise and talk, since you'll be side by side most of the time and (hopefully) not out of breath, especially if you know of a scenic trail. you can also take breaks in a park and chat or get a meal after since you'll both be tired. kino-ing may be a little difficult.	/r/seduction	11/07/12 03:47 AM
1	Was just flaked on (practically stood up) by a girl for our first date. Confidence is shocked. What to do/say back to her? one thing you should learn is that girls will flake. it may be because of you and it may not be. doesn't matter. for all you know she really did have to babysit. or maybe she woke up with a huge ass zit on her face and was too embarrassed to see you. could be anything, really. just try to reschedule.	/r/seduction	30/06/12 08:57 AM
2	What is your best response to "friend zone"? a female friend will wing for you and also has female friends = wing woman + networking/DHV source	/r/seduction	29/06/12 10:50 PM
3	So exactly, how willing are most women to having sex the same night? two words: outcome independence. also, don't be so gullible, especially when it comes to facts and %. this guy has posted no source or method.	/r/seduction	29/06/12 06:27 PM
2	Is it even worth trying if I don't have a job, live with my parents, and am on probation? Try picking up new skills/hobbies. Get out of your comfort zone. A great bonus to picking up a new trade or skill is that you get to meet new people, which includes females who will share a similar interest. For example, salsa/ballroom dancing, horseback riding, a sport, etc. Not to mention it gives you one more thing you can talk about or show off that makes you more interesting.	/r/seduction	27/06/12 07:05 AM
36	How I un-friend zoned myself [FR] You were more than just a friend the whole time. You were a romantic interest she'd been purposely denying herself for personal reasons. You just finally gave her a reason to give in with your tactics. A true friend zone is a guy friend who she absolutely has no romantic interest in from the get go and never saw him as a potential significant other. In fact, a truly friend zoned guy's female interest would've winged for him as you hit on other girls. That's when you know you are truly in the 'fr…	/r/seduction	20/06/12 08:02 PM
3	Richard la Ruina's "How have you been?" approach - it works pretty damn well yup what pattwell said. the most important part is forcing the IOI. if you make eye contact, do a smile or wave or toast or whatever at her and see how she responds. positive response, go for it, negative response move onto the next girl. you basically set yourself up for success.	/r/seduction	03/06/12 10:26 PM
2	Key Pointers for Coffee Meet Up Speak confidently, maintain eye contact, good but relaxed posture. Try leading in the conversation. Look up "conversational threading." Also try to tell a few funny or interesting stories to show you're confident, interesting, and DHV. Don't just focus on her. Try to genuinely have a good time hanging out with the group. Outcome independence! Smile and remember you're AWESOME.	/r/seduction	30/05/12 08:48 PM
2	Quick Tip for your Face if the wipes have the tea tree oil in them, what's the loofah for?	/r/seduction	30/05/12 07:06 AM
6	Nice guys don't finish last, boring guys do. The big mistake guys have with this nice vs asshole problem is that it's not about nice vs asshole. It's unconfident vs confident. Assholes speak their mind because they're confident in who they are and what they believe in. They do not tread lightly. Nice guys are often unconfident. However, you can be nice AND confident in who you are. That makes the difference.	/r/seduction	23/05/12 05:53 AM
11	Girlfriend gets me jealous. I don't know how to handle it/respond. Fattydunno should definitely end the relationship but with class and maturity. Don't make a bad situation even worse. Last thing you want is your ex-gf shit talking you to all her female friends about how you're a no good cheating scumbag. Pretty much blacklists you.	/r/seduction	21/05/12 06:56 PM
3	Dear Guys In Clubs (Mini Rant) This is how you properly night game.	/r/seduction	18/05/12 10:00 PM
2	Seddit, I'm a short guy who just cannot seem to attract women. What is the single most important trait or technique to cultivate in order to get attraction? Proof? A fat 160 lb 5'4 guy gives off a vastly different feel from a 5'10 muscular 160 lb guy. Weight is a very misleading statistic, since it does not account for height nor body composition.	/r/seduction	14/05/12 09:00 PM