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koukol/r/askTRP06/12/13 03:47 PM
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Henry Rollins and me will politely nod to you and laugh when you're gone :D
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 11:05 PM
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Hell must have lost a demon because I see you're horny. Poking fun here, but I'm thinking I'll use it.
/r/askTRP04/02/14 04:38 PM
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If you want to stick to a category, you'd be sigma (or according to Chateau "Lesser Alpha"), as was stated by another commenter. This person fits into TRP category dead on. I personally agree with that, for different reasons. This whole alpha beta thing is oftentimes blown way out of proportion. It's a useful tool for describing the "sexual marketplace", but it can overshadow the main RP message which is that RP men work towards mastery over their own lives, and do not give up said mastery by en…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/14 03:21 PM
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But...here's the thing. If they were so far from desperate, why even create a movement called MGTOW? Why not just shrug, say, "Relationships are not for me," and move on with their life? One reason. Exposure. The feminist friendly mainstream needs to be sensitised that there are people who don't buy into its crap. There are many ways of doing that as shown by the different movements out there : MRAs seek to act the same way as old-wave feminist to carry their message. MGTOWs go John Galt (see At…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/14 10:12 AM
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I don't exactly relate as I have a pretty strong drive. I do sometimes get unmotivated when having sex though. That being said, there's another tenant of TRP that you should think about, and that's your mission. It's been said in the comments, but you can better handle your "instinct" by putting time in some activity that you love. I practice karate two times a week, heavy cardio one to two times a week. It gives me more balance. I'm not saying you should do martial arts, but you should find som…
/r/askTRP11/01/14 12:43 AM
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Same, a countless number of times, pre-game and post-game. But really, regardless of specific technics and name, it is a matter of self-respect and integrity.
/r/askTRP07/01/14 04:28 PM
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You should read up on nexting. Basically what it comes to is distancing yourself from her (after having built rapport and/or closed, and if she is acting in a way that you dislike), ie not responding to texts, etc. Which is something you did : look at the result ! She sought you out. Here is a post by BlackDragon on nexting that helped me loads. You should also read up on oneitis. From what you've written, you've got it bad when you're with her. You may not think she is the one, but you admit be…
/r/askTRP07/01/14 12:26 PM
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A girl i will refer to as link 1, today clearly proclaimed to me proclaimed to me while making full on eye contact." I just want someone to fuck around with. No emotional attachments just do sexual stuff with" Been in similar situations, those days I had my head up my butt. Even then I knew when a woman directly tells you that, she is telling you you have one shot. Now that I'm a little better game-wise, I play this kind of situation bluntly and a tad aggressively. Works well. Push a lot, pull b…
/r/TheRedPill18/12/13 05:04 PM
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Haha, kind of the opposite on my thing. But I see what you mean, and I've had sets turn out this way. It does work. All of a sudden the shit gets real and the tone changes. If you're not too sappy, the bond you create is indeed killer.
/r/askTRP09/12/13 03:40 PM
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Nothing explicitly illegal, I swear!
/r/TheRedPill04/12/13 02:29 PM
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I share the anger, though not the story. Most of my life I was a complete gamma. I did however have more than a few sigma moments that taught me not to be too taken with the bullshit of our times. It was not anger that lead me here, but fear (and obviously frustration). Fear of women, of other men, and maybe of myself, of what I could do if I allowed myself. That fear was crippling, and drove me to live a static and lonely life. This fear lead to frustration, the frustration to anger. I became s…
/r/TheRedPill03/12/13 06:38 PM
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Me love you short time.
/r/TheRedPill02/12/13 04:34 PM
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People who have something wrong with their lives, and want a single magic answer to cure everything I doubt promoting a more healthy lifestyle and taking charge for one's own life is a quick fix. The RP men (those I like reading anyway) who make and have made a lot of effort on bettering theirselves, who spend and have spent a large amount of time on being more socially savvy and physically fit will probably all tell you that they had to climb a steep slope, and have been met with numerous failu…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/12/13 11:21 AM
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I'm often more interested in their posts outside of the subreddit, because you can glean a lot about their lives. If you want to glean something out of a red piller's life, you should read this page (interestlingly, also linked in the "Not sure if Red Pill is for you?" section of the sub). It's a classic Red Pill tale, mirrored by many (if not all) of the pundits' own, at their own admittance. Of course becoming Red Pill is a response to having little to no social/sexual power. Being one is a si…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/11/13 03:02 PM
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From what I have gleaned : In the early 90s, what would later become the pua movement started to develop theories based on sociology, anthropology, psychology and ethology. One of the most prevalent considerations they based themselves on is primitive mankind. A commonly advocated theory was that women were hard wired to seek a partner that would ensure the safety of both her and her progeny. They would therefore seek to associate themselves with stronger males, or with leaders within their comm…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/11/13 04:46 PM
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Is the "moral high ground" I've seen in the comments more of a lingering fear of being a cuckold ? Or perhaps a bitter scar ? There is no moral highground, no pat on the back to be had in this type of situation. The boyfriend is powerless in his relationship. That's not on OP, that's on him, even if he doesn't realize it. The chick feels bad for cheating yet shows up at OP's doorstep. That's on her. Besides, one or the both of them would develop resentment towards the other at some point, should…
/r/TheRedPill25/11/13 01:18 PM
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Refreshing. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill22/11/13 12:28 AM
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unnerving but cute.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 10:47 PM
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Oh what the hell I'm in a good mood. A bar is a place of gathering, often used by members of either gender to find a little something something for their lower member. It involves heavy drinking, hot women serving drinks to a whole bucket load of guys who think if they tip them, they might get a good romp at closing time. Much like your pubs, except no darts are thrown at the wall.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 10:06 PM
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The bar is not a psychologist practice :p
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 06:21 PM
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It would be pointless to ask you if you're sure you really know what you want, because you'd tell me yes in an instant. When you say you know what you want (matter of fact every time i hear that) I'm picturing this. I just mentioned it in another post on this subreddit, but it bears repeating here: Men and women are naturally inclined to tell themselves stories, stories they mistake for reality. It affords them safety, reassurance, and confidence. The problem with this is, that's all they are, s…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 06:09 PM
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That would be absurd, the key word here being "acting". Then again, people can be swayed...
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 05:02 PM
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If I act upon the principle that women like a certain thing, and it shows consistent positive results, whatever pertaining uttering I profess about the other gender might have some value, no ?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 04:19 PM
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I usually find the real truth lies disappointingly between two extremes. I see truth in the comments made here. The visible portion of young women (the one put forward by western society : (post) feminist, middle to higher class) are likely to downplay their sex life. For whatever reasons, be it candor, be it "hamstering", etc. There is truth in what /u/ohquite says, too. You may not get satisfaction from my answer, as I frankly do not care about reasoning my head sore till I'm satisfied I found…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 02:57 PM
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Neither of us have survey or statistics to give you on the mating preferences of TRP members (which is ultimately fortunate, otherwise this would devolve to a sterile battle of numbers). As per your bet, fair enough. I'm not very concerned with that. TRP accepts gamers, and the people who look for more casual sex, but it has a broader scope. Is the AVERAGE member of TRP really chasing virgins ? Not the only "low partner count" profile, but, hey, I love the old vampire cliché too. I wasn't aware …
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 02:37 PM
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I think that TRP comes from a biased place, as the majority of them appear to be interested in one night stands For the record, this is inacurrate. Some prominent red pill bloggers are married (Vox from alpha game). The question of "red pill marriage" does regularly come up, even on /r/TheRedPill TRP in itself is a biased sample because the people there are striving for a high number of sexual partners Again, inacurrate. You seem to misunderstand how wide a population this movement attracts. You…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/11/13 01:16 PM
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how do I deal with how I had to go through this whole transformation and growth while they arguably didn't I'm only relatively new to game and the red pill theory, so I can only partially empathise, but it seems to me you would like to find a girl that has risen above her "condition" as much as you have. If so, this is an attitude I share, although it is one I wish to correct, because I have to ponder the benefits of thinking this way, in terms of finding a suitable LTR. Do I need empathy from a…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 05:27 PM
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If a man suffers from this, then maybe he's the type of man that prefers an LTR to joking up with strangers. Nothing wrong with that, but soothing the pain with fake company, paid-for company, is just fooling oneself. Agreed. This is not what I would resort to. But desperate people might, hence my mentioning this reason. edit: grammar
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:58 PM
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I agree with you when you say it depends. What does "bros before hoes" exactly entails ? Some friends would never make their move unless they got dibs or we discussed our fancies at length. Others would adopt the first-come-first-served mentality and discuss it when the deed hath already been done. To emphasize, for some people, seeing you follow this rule is an open invitation to walk all over you. Others appreciate your putting your long term friends over short term poon. I tend to act in resp…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 03:51 PM
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Look it up in the blogs mentioned in the Good Links section. I'm pretty sure you'll find, if not a definition, an explanation on why the 'frame' concept is so highly regarded as a game principle. Notwithstanding, they are a very good read.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 02:13 PM
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That fat, rich SOB that is tired of fucking escorts So he looks for the same thing, except it comes in a different packaging ? Help me out here, this ain't the first website I've seen that connects wealthy men with... 'eager' women, but I can't shake off the disgust. Not because I think it's degrading to women (after all, what's not to like for the chick) but because I think the man gets at best some sex/emotion, on, at worst, informally contracted terms. And that makes the relationship on too e…
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 01:53 PM
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Definitely no shame in that.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 01:10 PM
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Side bar.
/r/TheRedPill19/11/13 01:07 PM
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Hey thanks. I appreciate it. Let you know if it helps !
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:24 PM
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Your "it's all about looks" goes further than you seem to think. If you are ugly as fuck, but look killer, I'm willing to bet you'd get down quite a bit. This dude (Sartre) got laid with the hottest women in his generation, and quite a few we don't know about, his own students. Would you say he's good looking ? Hope not. Would you say he had the right appearance ? Fuck yeah.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:14 PM
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Just got the app today, man :p Anyway, there does seem to be some bitterness. I think that's a natural reaction when you register on a dating site and get no response to your advances, one i would have been (too quick to) have if not from what I learned here.
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 08:05 PM
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A lot of comments were made on OP's supposed good looks being what got him in with those chicks. This brought up a point I think is relevant to the redpill thing. In France, where I live, there's a rather popular dating site called "Adopte Un Mec" (Adopt a Guy). This is a dating website presented as a "supermarket for women". Women there register for free, guys pay for access during the main hours. Then, the women have a selection of profiles they can "Add to Cart". The guys, still don't. They c…
/r/TheRedPill13/11/13 05:00 PM
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I can only speak for France, but we got both Femen and Femen-bashing Antigones. Everything's not lost. I for one, would certainly not imagine going back to the US for more than a few months, and I grew up quite immersed in the culture.
/r/TheRedPill03/07/13 01:49 PM
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I was merely pointing the issue with making a logical leap such as this. Of course, we can argue that there is indeed a correlation with the two, ie a tendency uncovered by statistical study (and THAT's the kicker for me, as it means nothing to the individual).
/r/MensRights28/03/13 09:42 AM
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I'd like to point out that those two conceptions play with the meaning of the root "awe". To me the ambiguity of this term can indeed be explained by various cultural views on the etymological sense of awe, which seems to be fear (fear as the beginning of respect, or fear as the beginning of cowardice). That applies less to feminism, as the origin, femina, leaves less for interpretation. I get what you mean, though, and I agree to a degree. Feminism today very much advocates gender equality and …
/r/MensRights27/03/13 03:13 PM
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"A leads to B" is not the same thing as "B leads to A" unless proven so. If you want to show there is equivalency you need to prove that both "directions" are true, which is not the case here.
/r/MensRights27/03/13 01:59 PM
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Huh. Burn the witch so to speak.
/r/MensRights15/01/13 03:47 PM
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How so ? Way I see it, more people should be sensitized to that point of view !
/r/MensRights15/01/13 03:34 PM
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