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| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date? | Conversation | kpay10 | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 04:21 PM |
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| 6 | Anyone here from Korean? How you guys are so good at approaching girls… I want to learnI'm Korean and I hear guys saying they never get matches on online dating apps. And I seem to get matches daily and several times a week. IDK if being Korean has to do with it but the girls I match with all has in their profile that they love kpop, BTS and k dramas. There seems to be a Korean fever going around because of the popularity of kpop | /r/seduction | 11/07/26 07:06 PM |
| 1 | Don't try to get a girl to like you, try to get a girl to feel somethingCan you give an example on how to tease a girl and how to sexually flirt with a girl? | /r/seduction | 19/08/25 06:55 AM |
| 11 | Are We Dating the Same Guy FB GroupsWhat's that? I'm scared to open it since I'm at work thinking it might be porn | /r/seduction | 09/08/25 03:30 PM |
| 1 | Never Run Out Of Things To Say Ever Again - All Verbal Techniques Listed And ExplainedI saw your comment on my post on "what the hell do you talk about in the first date" and it made me realize I have no idea how to socialize with people. Not just girls, but with everyone. I'm never the one to initiate a conversation with a girl. It's going to be hard to apply and remember all that. I always freeze up because before the first date, I would research topics to talk about so I don't end up with awkward silence but I always freeze up. Similar to when you are about to do speak in fron… | /r/seduction | 07/04/25 02:22 PM |
| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?You have way better social skills than me. I would have never thought of that kind of response | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 08:01 PM |
| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?I did that before because that's what someone suggested. I went to the arcades, it just ended up being a silent action oriented dates due to my shyness. At most I would talk was let's play that game, then me and my date would spend around 2 minutes in silence as we play the arcade game | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 07:58 PM |
| 3 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?I feel dating is so foreign to me. I can never figure it out me I feel like a student trying to solve a math calculus problem but have never been taught how to do it. Or if someone told me to build a rocket, I have no idea where to start, I'm not a engineer or a rocket scientist. I'm not qualified. That's how I feel about dating and getting into a relationship | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 06:07 PM |
| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?If I'm not suppose to ask those interview questions, what an I suppose to talk about? | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 06:03 PM |
| 2 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?I feel like I'm always the one asking questions and the girl never asks me questions back. What are some other good replies besides "oh cool", " oh ok", "interesting.." etc? And when I'm asking questions, they always give minimal response so it's really hard to keep the conversation going | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 05:53 PM |
| 3 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?Reading other comments, it's just so mind boggling to me that you can have conversation without asking questions. Like how???! I never been the social type nor one to engage in a conversation. How do you connect with the other person and focus on having fun without asking questions? For example if a girl says "I like camping, one time when I was 9, me and my family went camping at abc and XYZ happened ..." I would reply "oh cool", and I have no idea what else to say to that. I'm curious what wou… | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 05:50 PM |
| 1 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?So how exactly do you build a connection if you're not suppose to ask interview type questions? | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 05:41 PM |
| 0 | What the hell do you talk about on the first date?I always get this feeling of insecureness where I'm scared to say the wrong things, or say something she doesn't agree with or might say something that'll offend her so I would come up with a white lie or not say anything at all. The reason I feel this way is because I don't want to lose this opportunity with a girl who I can potentially have a relationship with. Any tips on how I can get past that mindset? | /r/seduction | 06/04/25 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Do yall think you can date 10'sWhat do you mean by putting her in a pedestal? | /r/seduction | 03/04/25 05:59 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]Thanks! You too! | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:19 PM |
| 4 | [deleted by user]Everyone has their preferences. With my current girlfriend, when I first met her, I thought my boring personality would bore her and make her uninterested, but that never happened. I feel so lucky to have her, never thought I would ever be in love like this. One minute I'm fine, the next minute I'm thinking how the hell did I ever lived without her | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 09:05 PM |
| 2 | [deleted by user]This is a unpopular opinion but some guys like me aren't able to show a wide range of emotions. I have a really shy, introvert and quiet personality. I can't become a outgoing extrovert personality overnight. I can't ever imagine myself having a "bad boy" personality such as Gordon Ramsay as a quiet and shy guy. I wish I could though | /r/seduction | 05/11/21 07:49 PM |
| 8 | NOT ALL DATING ADVICE FROM ONLINE IS HELPFUL (including from me)In the movie Hitch, will smith said "any guy can sweep any girls off her feet, he just needs the right broom" | /r/seduction | 12/03/21 08:33 PM |
| 3 | A word to those who have problems with girls- if you've ever come on too strong, gotten friendzoned, etc.This post reminds me of the movie starring Will Smith where he plays a dating coach and he quotes "any guy can sweep any girl off her feet, he just needs the right broom". | /r/seduction | 24/02/21 04:14 PM |
| 0 | Cold approach from a girl's perspectiveIs it ok to approach a girl you see at work but never talked to her? Even if i do approach her and say How are you, I have no idea what to say after that because of my shyness | /r/seduction | 26/06/20 07:05 AM |
| -3 | The best way to kill your chances with a girl is becoming overly excited about it too quickly. Learn to tame your excitement and stay level-headed. Never psyche yourself out too much too early on.Being overly excited is better than being not excited at all. Imagine you bought someone a free ticket to Disneyland to a kid for Xmas. It was look better if the kid was excited that being just neutral about it. | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 02:28 AM |
| -5 | The best way to kill your chances with a girl is becoming overly excited about it too quickly. Learn to tame your excitement and stay level-headed. Never psyche yourself out too much too early on.Not true. If you do that, the girl will think you have a dull personality and think you are boring | /r/seduction | 11/09/19 01:53 AM |
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