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1	Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones). Yes, but empathy isn't an on-off switch. Its a continuous value.	/r/PurplePillDebate	18/11/24 10:23 AM
1	Made a post about how modern feminism has in part , played into why many young men fail to reach the standards of the young women. Think I'll make a different claim, but in the same ball park. Women are more solipsistic in dating( especially younger ones). This is like saying "If you're truly empathetic, you should let a homeless person live with you".	/r/PurplePillDebate	15/11/24 05:11 PM
2	There is no excuse to let yourself go in a relationship. Putting on a bit of weight as you get older is normal, healthy, and actually makes people look better, especially for women. Scrawniness doesn't look good with age, makes you look older once you get past 50 or so, and also makes your skin look bad and saggy. I'm not talking about becoming fat or obese, just putting on a few pounds.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 10:18 AM
1	CMV: it is ok to virgin shame males There are tonnes of things to legitimately shame Nick Fuentes about, why focus on virginity? Plus, he's almost certainly not a virgin or an incel, given that its pretty widely known that he's gay. With incels in general, the biggest factor is generally that they have no social life, rather than the fact they've never had sex.	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 10:04 AM
1	Nature lovers dating city people? (Inevitable Issues) I think in general the decision on where to live long-term is a pretty common stumbling block for couples. Generally it only works if either both people have similar ideas of where they'd like to live, or one person has an idea and the other is very easy going and will happily live anywhere. You brought this up as if its connected with hobbies, but I don't think it is, and its much deeper thing than that. As for your example, maybe the woman was feigning interest in outdoors stuff just to spend …	/r/PurplePillDebate	14/11/24 09:57 AM
1	Men higher in beta traits are preferred by most women You do realise the whole Sigma Male thing is literally a meme making fun of red pill terminology?	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 07:51 PM
0	Men higher in beta traits are preferred by most women The issue with this is that it goes against the actual origin of Alpha and Beta, which was a hypothetical dichotomy based on the role one was given to in social situations: Alphas are men who are natural leaders, who women naturally defer to, who are principled, who set boundaries and communicate their needs in a firm way, who are looked to for guidance. Betas are men who are natural followers, who women see as companions, who are pragmatic, who don't rock the boat, and who are looked to for sup…	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 07:48 PM
2	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? Of course	/r/PurplePillDebate	13/11/24 07:17 PM
5	There are rational reasons for working class men to dislike female empowerment; Women irrespective of their living conditions or ideology will always be hypergamous. There is no egalitarian utopia at the end of the female empowerment rainbow, just more male disposability Class is a big divider in England, outside of there, not really. Race is a far bigger divider in the USA than just about anywhere in the world, minus maybe South Africa and Israel. I'd say the reason the "gender war" hasn't taken as much of a hold in Europe is because: The "woke" movement (which seems to be a major factor of the "gender war") hasn't been bought into wholesale in most European countries. Gender roles weren't as strictly delineated in many European countries. The US is unique in t…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:34 PM
10	There are rational reasons for working class men to dislike female empowerment; Women irrespective of their living conditions or ideology will always be hypergamous. There is no egalitarian utopia at the end of the female empowerment rainbow, just more male disposability Trumps policies around tariffs are realistically going to make life far more painful for working class people, men included, due to the cost of living skyrocketing. Autarky doesn't really work if you allow freedom of movement. The only modern countries pursuing it are North Korea and Cuba, both of which have among the poorest populations in the world. The natural human instinct to your ruler saying "You must buy locally produced products, or I will make life very difficult for you", is to say "O…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 07:13 PM
1	Losing weight is easy and women should not complain if their husbands leave them for being overweight. "Eggs for protein, thats it" sounds like you are saying there are no other good options...	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 02:42 PM
1	Losing weight is easy and women should not complain if their husbands leave them for being overweight. Chicken isn't the only meat in existence. Fish, red meat, pork, seafood and dairy are all great protein sources. If all you eat is eggs, you're just gonna stink.	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 02:25 PM
1	Losing weight is easy and women should not complain if their husbands leave them for being overweight. Meat is a way better source of protein than eggs though	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 01:54 PM
3	Do you think it aligns with liberal progressive beliefs to view men as inherently more dangerous or predatory? This is pretty much it. Its like the hypothetical question of "If someone lays out one hundred glasses of wine and tells you there is poison in one of them, would you drink one?".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:42 AM
5	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. ISIS and the Taliban both emerged as insurgent groups fighting against governments that were oppressing their beliefs. Something like that won't emerge for anti-feminist men under a Trump presidency given that these men aren't the ones being oppressed by him. Now, a Taliban-like organisation for left-leaning women could happen. Something more slightly more likely, but still nearly impossible, to occur could be something like the Red Guard in Mao's China: Like a network of groups of conservative,…	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:36 AM
10	Women should be more nice to men or else men will democratically vote away their rights. How does she handles the conversation after the date, where she has to explain she isn't interested in seeing him long-term? From what I've seen, for both genders, the longer this is deferred the more upset the person being rejected will be. It reads to me like you're saying "Rather than letting him down lightly, instead feign interest, gaslight him into thinking he has a chance then let him down hard?".	/r/PurplePillDebate	12/11/24 10:22 AM
17	Do you expect to date a person with your political beliefs? I wouldn't ever date someone who was pro-life, anti-LGBT rights (don't really care about opinions on stuff like trans people in sports or bathrooms, it has zero bearing on my life), or practicing religious. Mostly because this stuff could tangibly affect the relationship: Abortion is self explanatory. I have LGBT friends so if they hated them it wouldn't be a runner. And my family is not religious, and I would refuse to get married in a church, baptise my children, or have my children make sacra…	/r/PurplePillDebate	11/11/24 03:24 PM
2	Is female-dominant/male-submissive romantic prevalence underrated in online discussion? (Or, why "dominant women don't exist" might be misleading) I think a lot of women want a man who is leaderly, rather than dominant. They want a man who is competent, able to come up with a plan, knows where he is going and is willing to let her tag along, copes well with catastrophe. They don't necessarily want a guy who makes rules for her, bosses her around, forces or coerces her to adopt his ways, etc. In my experience, there is nothing more repulsive to a woman than a man who is dominant but not leaderly.	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 08:16 PM
1	Women can't complain that men voted for Trump, men are just sticking up for themselves I agree tbh. Personally I'm pro-choice. But I've always had good women in my life. I have a girlfriend who I love, and to be short about it I would never vote for anything or anyone that would force her to do something against her will. But I can see that if a man doesn't actually have any good relationships with women, there may not be that motivating factor. I'm Irish, and I voted for abortion rights when we had a referendum on it, and a lot of that was influenced by knowing women who had had …	/r/PurplePillDebate	07/11/24 03:17 PM
1	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Isn't preventing the passage of people from state-to-state illegal (possibly unconstitutional) in the US? Either way, if the red states spend money on chasing abortion on every front, they're going to collapse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:28 PM
3	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Wait a second. In another comment you said you live in Ireland. As an Irish person, everyone here has electricity.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:23 PM
4	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Iran also has a fetility crisis. Its almost like taking womens rights away doesn't fix anything, and may even make it worse.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:20 PM
3	Boycotting sex with men won't work.. Seriously. One half of population votes a reality TV star who is a sex offender for president. The women of the other half decide the way to fix this by stopping having sex with their husbands, who likely didn't vote for the president in question anyway.	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 10:18 PM
–	Feminist hate and lies helped Trump to win I would have said the reason is because the Democrats haven't ran a likeable candidate since Obama (look, if I was American I would have voted KH, but very much in a "less smelly of two turds" way), and they've lost touch with the issues their voter base cares about. They had opportunities for change. They could have run Bernie Sanders in 2016, they could have run Andrew Yang in 2020, but they instead went with the corruption queen and a creepy old man. Meanwhile, the Republicans took a gamble o…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 04:33 PM
1	Would you rather have a partner who cheats on you or who hits you (but never hard enough to require hospitalization or to leave permanent damage)? Most people view cheating as awful, traumatising and damaging, but also something that if you walk away from it, it won't impact your safety. Most people view domestic violence as awful, traumatising and damaging, and something that you may well not be able to safely leave. Domestic violence often escalates. It might start with slapping someone, but then escalate to using a fist, and then to using weapons. So the idea of a domestic violence situation where the violence is permanently such as not…	/r/PurplePillDebate	06/11/24 11:32 AM
1	Its not that women give bad advice. Its that men arent honest about what they really want. Meh, there are some vulnerabilities best kept to yourself. Anything to do with her fidelity, the genuinity of her love for you or your general worth as a human being you should probably be careful of. A lot of men tend to see a woman saying "Why would a man like you love a woman like me?", "I just don't understand what you see in me" etc to be cute, and to reflect positively on his ability to get women and his desirability. However, women to see these questions to reflect negatively on her abili…	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 06:10 PM
2	Feminists, what do you think about the reaction to Margot Robbie having a son? There are countries where pre-birth gender confirmation is illegal, because if a couple finds out they're having a girl they will abort. India I believe is like this. Not taking away from how fucked up those twitter posts are, but just confirming your suspicion.	/r/PurplePillDebate	05/11/24 02:20 PM
3	Women can't have it all.. So essentially women are betting on a relative abundance of men who are in their league, career wise, finance wise, and social status wise. They are also betting on the fact that those men would want them instead of a woman younger than them. Thats assuming that the women who intend on starting families at some point are putting off dating until they are ready to start a family. Most of them aren't doing that though. They're dating and building long-term relationships throughout their twenties w…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 07:25 PM
1	CMV: It's ok to end a marriage/family for your own happiness I think if you are no longer happy in your marriage, you are doing your partner and your kids a disservice long term by staying married. Kids will be more fucked up by having parents who are together but hate each other or are constantly adversarial, than being raised by divorced parents who they get to see both of regularly. Abandoning your kids is an awful thing to do though. Get divorced, but fight for custody.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:52 AM
–	How do you show appreciation to your partner and how would you want your partner to show you appreciation? No Nut November is just a meme/online joke that people heard and took seriously.	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:48 AM
3	Do you generally heed the advice that your father (assuming he has your best interests at heart) gives when it comes to interacting with men? Why or why not? This advice gets given a lot, and its okayish, but fails to account for two things: Some mothers are narcissistic or emotionally abusive, and men can and do decide to stop associating with them for their own good, and the good of their future wives and kids. (Have a look at r/JustNoMIL, most of the worst stories involve the husband's mother). The stereotype is that a man's mother in law might be a bit of a nag at times, while the woman's mother in law might be an all out tyrant. Many horrible me…	/r/PurplePillDebate	04/11/24 10:27 AM
6	The shy girl-next door will often come out on top in the dating game If its both of you then you're well matched. Point is, thats not me. I like quiet times and lively times, I wouldn't be content to just do quiet all the time.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:11 PM
11	The shy girl-next door will often come out on top in the dating game For me, the idea of a dating a shy, homebody woman who just likes reading, crocheting, drinking tea and looking out at the rain sighing sounds really boring. I doubt this kind of woman is going to like going hiking in the mountains, going on holiday to niche paradise islands, climbing up on rooftops, or many of the things you fantacise about doing with your "girl next door" either. Plus, you'll probably be her everything, and she won't have much of a social life. That clinginess is gonna get old…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 11:03 PM
34	Abruptly learning about female standards can lead to mental disarray We also need to normalise "latchkey" childhoods again. IMO helicopter parenting and rigourously structured and supervised leisure and social time for kids has played as mucb of a role in the red pill/incel rise as the internet. Its like realeasong an animal raised in captivity into the wild. Kids build confidence, figure out social dynamics, learn how relationships of all kinds works, by playing and hanging out together with other kids without parents being present. Taking this away for them cri…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 10:09 PM
3	Q4M: Younger boss babe? Or older trad wife? Nah, your comment is the reddit take in that it tries to come across smart by conflating two different contextual meanings of a word. Peak r/iamverysmart stuff. Asexual when applied to people literally means exactly what you are describing: Either someone whose libido is so low as to be negligible, or the rare case of someone (nearly always on the autism spectrum) who doesn't crave or enjoy sex. But yes, you are not asexual by that definition either.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 10:02 PM
1	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? Obviously its relative to my specific situation, but so was the comment you made. Only really in the USA are bars considered places you only go to hook up, and even then it seems far from universal. In Ireland if your partner doesn't like you going to bars with friends or family without them in tow, your family start worrying for you.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 09:57 PM
1	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? I'm a man in a relationship and I go out with my male friends all the time. So do most men in general. No one here can afford a place big enough to have friends over lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:24 PM
1	Do you assume or think groups of women having fun together must be “degenerate” or sexually motivated? Personally, I think women having fun together is really wholesome and pure. The way girls goof off with dancing and singing and stuff is really cute. All the videos linked are just girls having fun IMO: Completely normal. Same applies to men having fun together, and to be honest I think men not wanting to girlfriends/wives at every social occasion is out of the interest of preserving the vibe that occurs when its only men present, rather than anything sinisster. You look at the videos of Orthodo…	/r/PurplePillDebate	03/11/24 08:19 PM
4	Shoe0nHead comments on the recent political divide between Men and Women and how the two American political parties are reacting to this People often say that one of the biggest reasons incels can have such bizarre ideas about women, is because they simply don't know any women besides their family. Likewise, I think a lot of "breadtube" types, simply don't know many men who identify fully as straight, cisgender men. Hence, they can confidently say masculinity causes this, men cause that, etc. They just haven't got any "classically male" men in their lives. I have good friends who are squatters, I've visited communes, and know peo…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/24 09:57 AM
2	Shoe0nHead comments on the recent political divide between Men and Women and how the two American political parties are reacting to this Intersectionality is causing school shootings and causing us to edge towards WW3? You cannot make such a dramatic statement and not provide some insight as to how this is so in your view. If you won't provide more reasoning, I'm afraid I can't help but dismiss your argument as classic histrionics. School shootings are very much an American phenomenon, firstly, not a global one. Honestly, you guys could sort it out by just regulating your gun market a bit better, but you've made it quite clear as…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	02/11/24 09:29 AM
3	Shoe0nHead comments on the recent political divide between Men and Women and how the two American political parties are reacting to this I don't know how you make the jump from gender and race studies to intersectionality. Gender studies and race studies are, broadly speaking, any study of history, anthropology and sociology as it pertains to gender or race. A lot of the talking points and theories discussed on this very subreddit are within the realm of gender and race studies, so be careful with too zealously supporting ending the discussion of these things in education. Now if we're going to shift the lens and talk about inter…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/24 05:04 PM
8	Shoe0nHead comments on the recent political divide between Men and Women and how the two American political parties are reacting to this I mean, Trump already tried putting a stop to gender and race studies, which are the main vector by which the cult is spread It boggles the mind how the Republicans, ostensibly the party of liberty, freedom and a government with limited responsibility, can seriously talk about restricting what can and can't be taught in universities as a solution to anything. When you start going after the universities, you're going full Mao. Similarly, Ron DeSantis trying to get the maths curriculum altered for…	/r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates	01/11/24 02:21 PM
3	Why do straight men seem to hate Sex and the City so much? IDK I hear more young people nowadays saying they like Friends than Sex and the City. Sex and the City is mostly popular with middle-aged women lol.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:48 AM
1	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? Yeah, women online say it and then other women in that same space claim to have husbands and bfs. Firstly, the women saying these things often aren't the same ones with partners. Secondly, how likely is it that their bfs or husbands, if they exist, know that they post this stuff online or hold these thoughts? Thirdly, how happy and healthy do you think their relationships are? Go over to AskMen, and you'll see tonnes of men talking about how men are inherently worthless, and tonnes of men talkin…	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:38 AM
1	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? A boy being raised by a father who believes men are inherently worthless is more likely to hate himself.	/r/PurplePillDebate	01/11/24 10:33 AM
1	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? Exactly, and its totally valid to not want to be in a relationship who holds either of these insecurities, as they are both insecurities that can really affect your ability to be a good partner, and to cope with the reality of being in a long-term relationship. There are tonnes of men who are capable of trust, and who believe they as men have inherent value. That is the silent majority of men. Its not so much "Eww men can't have insecurities, thats gross" and moreso "Its hard for me to stay attr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 07:01 PM
4	The Guy Tiers in The 80/20 Rule of Single Women Chasing Men TIL I'm in the top 80% lol	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:32 PM
3	Q4M: what is an “all men are like that” type of generalization that you’re tired of OTHER MEN saying? I notice that when men talk about vulnerabilities causing women to pull away from them, its nearly always one of two vulnerabilities: A belief that they are unlovable, and with a specific focus that their partner does not truly love them and will leave them/cheat on them at the first opportunity. Which, on first hearing, sounds much the same as "I don't trust you". A lot of women, from experience and those of their friends, come to associate an expression of this vulnerability as a prelude to pr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:28 PM
1	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? If they're talking about correlations, I would guess they lifted the line verbatim from a study.	/r/PurplePillDebate	31/10/24 03:17 PM
1	People who hate feminism don't have a viable alternative As someone from Ireland, I agree. Abortion is something which has been happening for as long as humans have been getting pregnant. Banning it is like banning masturbation. And introducing exceptions like "only in cases of rape" or "only if mothers life is in danger" is a minefield, as rape is notoriously hard to prove and in most cases where the mother's life is in danger time is of the essence and wasting time on deep assessment as to whether abortion is justifiable is often lethal. However, fr…	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 12:24 PM
0	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? Antisocial behaviour doesn't mean avoiding socialising. It means acting in a way which is harmful to society. So crime, violence, theft, drug use, etc. You have a point, but it might not be the point you think you have: Some of the most intelligent people in the world are to be found doing damage to society: From drug kingpins, to organised crime bosses, to media manipulators.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 11:56 AM
1	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? IQ in its purest form is a measure of how well someone can reason and process information. In short, it measures a person's ability to learn. Ergo, a person with a high IQ should have an easier time attaining competency in just about any field. Athletics may be an exception, although IQ would still play a role to a degree. (i.e. someone with higher IQ will train methodically, research how to train, take measurements etc, while someone with lower IQ will just do the same thing over and over).	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 11:53 AM
1	What role does IQ play in a man's attractiveness? I get the impression a lot of people, you included, are conflating the descriptors of "High IQ" and "Nerdy/Stereotypically Smart". IQ is in its purest form a measure of a person's reasoning ability, that is to say their ability to recognise patterns and process information with the goal of making a prediction. Anecdotally, pretty much all of the people I know who have taken IQ tests and scored highly, have very broad interests and are socially competent.	/r/PurplePillDebate	29/10/24 11:46 AM