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What was making men's life worse under the democrats or how was it bad? Edit: unsurprisingly downvoted but no answer
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 09:36 AM
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Genuine question, what does Trump offer to men? What male specific issues is he gonna help with?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/24 06:27 AM
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This post is so sad, no wonder you struggle getting a relationship. Huge cope
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 07:35 AM
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I'll never understand how someone can be so entitled as to decide someone's standards are unreasonable, especially considering that people with delusional standards are like 1 in a few hundred. Also this "women have delusional standards", just like most shit on this sub, is just a huge cope. Most people, including average and even "less desirable" people are not struggling with dating
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:19 AM
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personally i just think it's hilarious when a 4 wants a guy who's a 9 and blames men and the dating market, hookup culture and whatever else for being unable to attain that guy. I hate to break it to you but blaming the dating market and hookup culture is a cope used by far more men than women
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/24 03:14 AM
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Anyone famous enough will have people lusting over them even if they're not the hottest beings on earth
/r/PurplePillDebate06/10/24 09:10 PM
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I mean, attempting to turn a friendship into a relationship is something you learn with practice, while taking into account who you're talking to and the dynamic you have. "Talk to women" is always good advice, because dating is a numbers game, so if you play long enough, eventually you should find someone who will like you for who you are. Physical attraction isn't really negotiable but you'd be surprised how much confidence boosts attractiveness
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 02:53 PM
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The phrase doesn't actually mean there is a soulmate that faith will give you, it means there is at lest 1 person in the whole wide world that would like you exactly as you are. Finding that person is another story though, and while some simply don't have the luck to find a person like that, a lot like to complain about being lonely while not doing anything to find them
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:57 PM
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There isn’t a designated someone out there that you have to find. I mean I agree but I always figured this phrase doesn't mean that, it mens that there is at least 1 person out there who would like you just as you are
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:53 PM
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I assume this phrase isn't to be taken literally, as in faith has someone just for you. I always figured it actually means there is definitely someone out there who would like you just as you are, finding that someone is a whole other story
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:52 PM
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No, for every person, good or bad, which is why this phrase is often used when they see some weirdo/nutjob/serial killer/whatever having somebody
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 11:50 PM
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That's a damn convincing sample size if you ask me. You having casual sex doesn't necessarily mean you seek it, sometimes it happens because, you know, real life
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 05:20 PM
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Spot on! Guys will treat human interactions as some sort of social transactions and will think they need to tick some boxes to get s relationship and then bitterly blame anyone but themselves when they aren't liked
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/24 05:40 PM
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no serious number of people believe that a study speaks of ALL people no serious number of people believe that you can't find a partner just because you are poor no serious number of people believe that poor people cannot find a partner Well, it sure seems that way on this sub...
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 04:37 PM
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That's just too many words for "can't get laid, not my fault, pissed about it"
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/24 03:04 PM
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I'm not denying that a minority of women mostly care about those, but usually guys who say stuff like that are coping with their failures
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:47 PM
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Man some people will resort to literal fiction just to rationalize the fact that they can't get laid
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:28 PM
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He just does, ok? Now fuck off with your logic, we're on PPD if you haven't noticed
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/24 05:26 PM
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I'm willing to bet most women would appreciate flowers on a first date, but some people will act like their life depends on getting laid and then say "it must have been the flowers"
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/24 07:05 AM
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And your point is? Even less than 20% means millions of women. But this logic is a huge cope. I can't get laid because everyone else sucks.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/24 10:46 AM
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They definitely do, but my point is that just being at school/work/whatever doesn't do the job
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/24 06:58 AM
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Respectfully disagree, and not because I have nothing better to do, but because I've seen plenty examples
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 02:38 PM
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I agree being attractive and having money is an advantage, for sure, but personally I think there are plenty fish in the sea. I never had a hard time and I'm by no means rich or above average looking. I'm also not that social either
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:56 PM
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And what exactly do you want from me, pictures of my friends who are like this? You're being disingenuous so I'm not gonna debate you and I couldn't care less if you believe me or not
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:53 PM
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I'm not gonna debate you if you're disingenuous, have a nice day
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:52 PM
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In real life dude. I don't care if you don't believe me, keep making excuses and complaining for all I care
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:50 PM
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Where exactly? Man I work outside and I see cases every day, not to mention the ones I know personally. You can deny it all you want, if you give up and don't even try, that's your call
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:49 PM
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I've counted them all dude I just need to find the paper I wrote it down on lmao come on dude
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:48 PM
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Like I said, just because someone isn't necessarily conventionally attractive doesn't mean no one is attracted to them. Your ugly may be someone else's gorgeous. And some people are less superficial and don't care about looks as much as one may think. I've seen and known plenty people dating conventionally unattractive people with no money. The truth is you always have a chance if you put yourself out there, but you don't if you make excuses and don't even try
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:47 PM
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No mate they're outside socializing
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:42 PM
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I'm not shocked, I've seen it plenty times with my own eyes. People can be attracted to different things, some including things besides looks
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:18 PM
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Source: just go outside ffs
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:17 PM
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I mean fit women dating fat men
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:17 PM
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Yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 01:16 PM
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Or maybe not everything is about looks or money? I'm not denying some people don't do like you said but I doubt it's a majority
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:27 AM
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People all have different standards and desires, I've seen plenty examples of so-called "bottom of the barrel" dating people way "above their league". I'm not saying being fit or having a good career doesn't help, but they are definitely not requirements and there are plenty people who like you for who you are and not what you have. I never hit the gym and my career is far from decent but I never had any problems. Being social is sort of a requirement, because you can't date someone without talk…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:11 AM
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No I don't, no bad intentions towards anyone, especially not just because we disagree
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 11:07 AM
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Ah yes, that's why women never complain about being pumped and dumped. They do get pumped and dumped usually because people lie about wanting something serious, which is disingenuous Once again this just a load of vague and unhelpful blue pilled crap with no practical value. I just detailed the meaning of this "blue pilled crap", so if it's still vague to you, it seems like a you problem. Just because you have a hard time it doesn't mean other also do
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:58 AM
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Is someone having a hard time with women?:)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:55 AM
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That's not what I meant, by "normally" I mean being yourself as in being genuine and authentic, opposed to being disingenuous, as in saying or doing things you don't actually believe or that don't represent you just to get in someone's pants
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:46 AM
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The chances are never 0 unless you stop trying. Sometimes they could be misinterpreting the advice like a lot of people in this thread that's how I realise that talking to her like a normal person was leading me nowhere, as opposed as flirting early and giving her some hints about how i feel attracted to her Like I said, talking to her like a normal person doesn't mean not flirting or giving hints, it means not being desperate
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:42 AM
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They also do in real life, the catch is that you actually have to go outside...
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:38 AM
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Tell that to the tons of people dating "above their league"
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 10:14 AM
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PSA: just because something didn't work in your case doesn't mean it never/rarely does
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:43 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:40 AM
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Looks do matter somewhat, more to some and less to others, but generally personality is enough, hence all the ugly/overweight people dating "above their league", so to say
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:39 AM
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You've taken these too literally IMO. "Being yourself" doesn't mean stop improving, it means don't be disingenuous or fake. For example, people can usually tell when you agree with them on everything just to get in their pants. "Talking to her like a normal person" doesn't mean small talk, it means don't be desperate or weird. Be casual and don't overdo the flirty comments
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:35 AM
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Physically being outside isn't "putting yourself out there", actively interacting with people and showing your intentions is
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:30 AM
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A lot of people act in a desirable way instead of acting like they normally would when dating
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:28 AM
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Yes there is, but it's a numbers game. Keep playing and you might find them, or give up and you definitely won't
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:25 AM
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And actively interacting with them
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/24 09:23 AM
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Ok but usually being chill doesn't mean you wouldn't react in this scenario while reacting in this scenario doesn't necessarily mean you have a temper. I get what you mean but like I said, being protective and having a temper are two different traits, not different manifestations of the same trait IMO
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 02:46 PM
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What do you mean?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 01:17 PM
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I don't know dude, maybe go out more?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 10:45 AM
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Are they though? More success means less users
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:55 AM
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I get it but my point is that they are entirely different things and it's not an "opposite sides of the same coin" situation. You are not "protective" if you have a temper and go off on anything. You are just "bad" masquerading as "good" in certain contexts. There is the "good", and there is the "bad". I'm not saying there is no in-between, but if you are protective in the true sense of the word, you should be protective without having a temper.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 09:54 AM
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Seems highly unpopular on this sub: the simply wrong assumptions on subs such as this one or the extreme examples do not represent people in real life. Some people spend too much time on the internet and have formed this distorted view of an actual human being
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:54 AM
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“Want a man that makes me feel protected”…but “don’t want him to have a temper or be combative”. Being protective doesn't mean having a temper “Want a man whose ambitious and self supporting”…but “don’t want him too opinionated or selfish” Being ambitious doesn't mean being selfish or stubborn
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:45 AM
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Being smart, being a nerd, and being educted are all different things that people here seem to confuse
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:43 AM
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I gave up on typing a response as to why all this is bullshit. Get better soon!
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:42 AM
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If neither socialize, how will they meet?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:37 AM
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Apparently it's unpopular in this sub, but men care more about looks than women, and I say that as a man. I see 10/10 women with guys way below average every day, but rarely the opposite
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 08:31 AM
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Like it doesn't go both ways smh
/r/PurplePillDebate06/03/24 07:11 AM
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I don't know why most people on this sub assume every guy has issues dating. Coping maybe?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/24 08:03 AM
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Personal and subjective experiences aside, the men struggling to date are a minority, and you're coping if you believe at least half of all men can't get a date. Also, online dating is not an accurate portrayal of the overall dating experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 04:33 PM
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I'm not sure what OLD is but I really don't think the average man has issues dating. The men I know in real life don't, only the ones I see on subs like this but I imagine the ones who aren't struggling don't complain here
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:46 PM
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I'm not saying women don't have it easier, but the average man doesn't have problems when it comes to dating. Only some do, and they're a minority
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 03:27 PM
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I'm sorry but this is a huge cope. Dating doesn't suck for men, it sucks for a minority of men. And finding what you truly value in life can be done while dating
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:53 PM
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Cope
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/24 02:48 PM
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Women like men just as much as men like women, so forget the copium
/r/PurplePillDebate19/02/24 10:57 AM
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It's actually good advice, as vague and simplistic as it may sound, but some people don't get it and are acting really insecure or defensive about it. The advice is to not put women on a pedestal, just act normal and natural around them, like you would with a peer, not some celebrity or your boss that you're trying to suck up to. Don't act like they are some superior creatures that have to be conquered or impressed, women can easily tell if you're not genuine or if you're trying too hard
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:29 AM
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Seems like an insecure way of seeing things
/r/PurplePillDebate17/02/24 03:20 AM
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This.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 05:09 AM
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I'm sorry for the people who are so deep in this pill shit that they think the reality is gaslighting
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 09:35 PM
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I doubt he was based on the things he says
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:32 AM
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All of the data on number of sexual partners is more than likely low because people self report with extreme bias. I'd argue people were less willing to be honest back then due to the taboo nature of sex. "Hookup" culture is bullshit, it's casual sex and it has existed since sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:29 AM
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Exactly, some people act like this generation invented casual sex. If anything, people were having more sex back then
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/24 11:27 AM
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Lmao ok dude
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/24 08:27 AM
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Not only famous ones, I had the chance to speak to all kinds of criminals including murderers that even got married while in prison. The point is, some people are drawn to people like this, and it's not gender specific. And if we go by this logic, we can argue OP is also using a select few for the whole thing...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 08:32 AM
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They really do, famous criminals are notorious for having lots of stans willing to date them
/r/PurplePillDebate31/01/24 07:54 AM
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You seem oblivious to the fact that some people, even some people who are not fat, ugly, stupid, poor, or criminals can be and are left out of social situations by others, on purpose, when they hadn't necessarily done anything to deserve it. I never said this isn't a thing, and sometimes you can be surrounded by shitty people, but sometimes it's possible that you act bad or weird without realizing and being confident does make you more liked. Confidence can be gained. Yes, you can be an outcast …
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:57 PM
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This doesn't make sense. To you you're suggesting the person who's asking how to fix it must be a poisonous slug, the likes of which humanity has rarely seen, less valuable or interesting than hardcore raping and butchering criminals, life-destroying large-scale thieves, serial violent abusers, people who weigh 700lb, people for whom being capable of things is considered an offensively insulting waste of time, and those who think watching Netflix counts as a sparkling, engaging hobby. No, I'm su…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 03:00 PM
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A more toxic guy being more successful than a less toxic guy moreso indicates an "issue" with the people tolerating toxicity Then why do these people still chose toxic people and not the ones complaining? There are traits unfavorable in general society that can improve your lot in dating specifically. I'm not saying there aren't some traits that are more or less favorable, the point is that blaming your unfavorable traits is just scapegoating, having a disadvantage doesn't mean you can't win
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 02:56 PM
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However, bluepilled guys here seem to think that its GUARANTEED to work and if it doesn't, you are just a lazy slob. Well maybe it's not laziness but the issue is definitely on your end if you can't find a partner. There is always someone more fat/ugly/toxic etc. than you who has no issues getting a partner
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/24 01:50 PM
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I'm not saying they don't and obviously some care more about others than them, but it's not a necessity like some people here claim, you can be attractive without either
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 03:44 PM
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The thing is some people aren't ready or don't want to accept that the problem is on their end. Yes, you can get laid even if you aren't a 7 foot top model billionaire, even if it may come as a surprise
/r/PurplePillDebate08/01/24 06:39 PM
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That's cause you guys go after the same exact type of woman every time whether you realize it or not I doubt OP actually talked for at least an hour with more than 5 women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:03 PM
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This, their idea of a woman sounds like a stereotypical instagram teenager or something. Definitely doesn't sound like someone who actually met women
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 12:01 PM
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You do know most people still get together without dating apps, right? And you do know that despite being attractive enough to get a right swipe, you still have to "grow on" someone to actually date, right?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:11 PM
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I agree that this so-called hookup culture is just a scapegoat. Those who can't get laid are blaming those who do for their failure. Make that make sense. However, I don't like the term hookup culture, it's just casual sex, which existed since sex itself
/r/PurplePillDebate11/12/23 10:57 AM
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If you mean dating apps, there probably is a disparity caused by the overwhelming amount of men compared to women, but generally, especially in real life, no one says stuff like "top 20%". Not saying some women don't have unreasonable standards, but that's a small minority
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 01:06 PM
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they won't settle for any less than the top 20% How do people come up with this shit?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/12/23 12:17 PM
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Proving OP's point. Dating apps are not real life
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:51 PM
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have no idea how the real world works. This is the root of the problem
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 08:49 PM
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Pointing out that your struggles aren't universal is not invalidating your experiences.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/23 05:40 PM
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Uh, no.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/11/23 11:44 PM
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Thinking and overthinking are two different concepts bro
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:33 PM
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But most young adults aren't struggling when it comes to dating Also literally no economist, or any expert in history applies blame to "It's just because people don't work hard enough". Well the same principle doesn't always apply in the same way to every case, and I'm not trying to dismiss those who have genuine disadvantages when it comes to dating, but most of the time struggling to date is a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 10:31 PM
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Nah, more like "why is a financially unstable person explaining the economy to an economist and telling them they're wrong?"
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:06 PM
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The man who doesn't is drowning in frustration, fear, and existential panic as he gets left further and further behind the pack, feeling it ever less likely that he's going to be able to catch up, or be loved/respected/shown intimacy And that's exactly the problem. Don't overthink it
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:03 PM
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These are just reason you use to convince yourself that it's not your fault, when in reality plenty of short, bald, weird-voiced people don't have problems dating
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 09:01 PM
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Same. And it also applies to workplaces, hobby classes, and pretty much everything OP mentioned
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 12:41 AM
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Ok but where are the actual dating issues? Because nothing OP said in his post is true. Let's talk actual issues then, not pretend that meeting people in college is weird
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:54 PM
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It didn't work for me therefore it doesn't work for anyone. Sound logic if you ask me. If your points were true, basically everyone would be single lol
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:50 PM
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I'd argue cold approaching gives off confidence vibes and not desperation vibes. It takes confidence to approach and chat up random strangers. Obviously, different strokes for different folks, but it worked for me a few times, and I've seen it work with others. I do agree with your other points though. Like, how can someone seriously say it's hard or inappropiate to meet people in college?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:46 PM
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This. Even this post is ridiculous, how can you seriously say that college, bars, hobby classes etc. are inappropriate places to approach people? Most people on this sub just make excuses instead of approaching people.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:37 PM
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Basically nothing you said is true. If that was the case, how would anyone get a relationship? Most places you mentioned as inappropriate for pursuing women are actually the places were most people meet. You really sound like you're just making excuses for your inability to approach anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 11:33 PM
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Well I'm not saying some women aren't nasty when they get approached but generally you aren't seen as a creep for cold approaching, usually the negative scenario is getting a polite rejection
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/23 03:12 PM
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No one is causing any problems in the dating scene, but some people would blame anyone but themselves. I know it's a hard pill to swallow but having trouble dating is not the norm, average people don't have issues, and if you do, odds are you are doing something wrong
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 11:58 AM
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I mean it's their problem for staying with someone so irresponsible as to blow away shared life savings. It's not black and white, obviously, but there are limits, and if you think shoving or hitting your partner is normal, well, I guess you had some really successful relationships. "Having emotions" is not an excuse to hit anyone, especially someone you are supposed to love and protect. I have emotions, I never even thought of hitting or shoving any partner I had though
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:26 AM
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Shame you think the love of your life would dare to lay a hand on you
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 09:16 AM
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Nah, the moment the person that supposedly loves me lays a finger on me, I'm out
/r/PurplePillDebate17/10/23 08:33 AM
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Thing is, all those things you listed are obviously advantages but not requirements and people, regardless of their gender, care about all, some, or none of those. My point is that you can be ugly, overweight, poor, whatever, you can still date if you try enough. I get that some have it easier, but that shouldn't stop you. Obviously looks are an important factor but there are ways you can make up for it and you must remember looks are subjective, while some people don't even care about looks. Pe…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 11:05 AM
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Well I certainly don't see many people understanding the reality of dating around here and while obviously not everyone here is struggling, I doubt that most of the red pilled guys are too successful
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:57 AM
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At they have personal relationships to begin with
/r/PurplePillDebate09/10/23 09:25 AM
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Well I did agree with what you said on that part but no one is accountable for anything IMO, sure there are both women and men that are shallow or something but if you socialize and talk to women, you should eventually be able to get a date assuming you are somewhat confident and have a good hygiene. I just agreed while pointing out the norm on this sub and how your point applies in this case. I get that it's harder for some, but it's a numbers game, you should keep trying untill it works and ta…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 09:59 PM
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Nah dude, there are plenty ugly, overweight, stupid assholes dating women. I'm definitely no stud myself and I never had any issues. It's just a red pill talking point, trust me. And, for what it's worth, yo do you, but I don't think that's a very healthy mindset, there is a chance you will regret missing out or already do but convinced yourself otherwise to cope
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:56 PM
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Believe it or not, if you treat women like human beings and have at least some social skills, you shouldn't have a problem dating. No need to kiss ass. And if someone blows you off, you probably never had a chance to begin with or ruined it along the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:49 PM
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For the most part, I’d say that no matter where everyone is on the pill spectrum, most aren’t here to have discourse with a willingness to have views changed. Well, that we can definitely agree on. Most people will believe what they want to be true, and in this case, some people want women to be the problem and not themselves. Men don’t have friends they feel comfortable venting their frustrations ab their dating woes to in the way that women do, which probably contributes to what you feel is th…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:36 PM
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On the other hand, I’m fucking at least three that would make you embarassed to show your face in public Cool story grandpa Wait, I thought you wee unsuccessful, now you're suddenly a stud, huh? Also, what is "at least 3"? Are you so good you can't count how many women you're sleeping with? Well, please teach me master
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:27 PM
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I'm not gonna continue this dude, no offence but you have no clue what you are talking about. You sound like you have never spoken to an actual woman in your life. Like I said, some people would blame anyone but themselves. You do you bro, keep blaming women all you want, see how that works out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:17 PM
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Oh, I see. Well, I wouldn't know, maybe not, but I do think it's mostly red pill guys mainly because this sub is called purple pill debate yet 90% of the things I see here are red pill talking points. Like, guys will legit complain about their constant failures then insult and argue with women giving them advice.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:14 PM
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It’s objectively wrong Just lmao I’ve never had so much success in my dating life No offence but I wouldn't expect otherwise from someone saying women don't know anything about how they should be treated themselves. it’s all been from forgetting the incorrect and misleading “help” that women volunteered. Just goes to prove how some would blame anyone but themselves Women want a man who knows he is a man and who acts like a man. Women are not one entity, believe it or not, they have their own pre…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:07 PM
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Nah, this "women calling men creeps left and right" is just a trope, a red pill talking point. Unless you are really shady, no one is gonna call you a creep, men usually get polite rejections unless they are actually being creeps
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 07:02 PM
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Well, we all think about sex, but this sub makes you see that some people are actually obsessed with it, and it's probably because said people are not having any. Like some say, the more sex you have, the less important it is.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:57 PM
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interesting in a "who thinks like this" kind of way Nailed it.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:52 PM
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I'm not sure what you mean
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:49 PM
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Sure buddy, let's go sleep now
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 06:49 PM
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That red pilled guys come here to have their own views confirmed instead of actually debating or learning from other's perspectives. Like, imagine saying women's dating advice is irrelevant while being unable to get a date. I used to think the term "incel" was overused untill I joined a few subs like this. Will probably get downvoted, but oh well. I know it's a hard pill to swallow. Some people just won't accept that they are the ones in the wrong and will complain forever instead of actually do…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/10/23 05:41 PM
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Way to put words in his mouth. All he's saying, which is true, like it or not, if you are a virgin over 40, it's a you problem
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:24 PM
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Slut shaming is at least as, if not more prevalent than virgin shaming. The only people I've ever seen make fun of virgin guys were guys as well. There is nothing wrong with being promiscuous or a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/10/23 12:21 PM
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This
/r/PurplePillDebate25/09/23 05:40 PM
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The sad part is that it isn't true. Some genuinely don't know, while some use it as an excuse instead of taking responsibility
/r/MensRights15/09/23 03:45 PM
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You can be the most attractive man on the planet but there can still people that are gonna get turned off or creeped by your personality/behaviour. Also, being attractive does take work, because it also means dressing nicely, taking care of yourself, getting haircuts, being clean etc. However, you don't need to be particularly attractive to get dates if you put in the work (taking care of yourself, socializing, meeting new people, learning to be confident and charismatic, learning to be good at …
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 07:10 AM
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If you don’t have a popping social media or not rich just focus on yourself Brodie Are you implying these are necessary to get girls? Because no Just think about it, is it really even worth it dealing with a girl if you aren’t even her first option or she has 40 guys thirsting over her? Pretty much every girl has other options and other guys hitting on her, not only on dating apps. So you shouldn't take it personally if you're not her first pick, because we all have preferences, but it shouldn't…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/23 06:59 AM
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100%, the sad thing is that some people have a hard time taking responsibility and use their distorted views as excuses instead. Like you said, they often dismiss genuine advice or other's perspectives because they don't want it, they want to hear what they want to be true. Hell, some even say they know what women want better than women themselves. But they're involuntarily single, paradoxically. May be a hard pill to swallow for some, and I truly don't mean to offend anyone, but mysogynistic vi…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 07:50 PM
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Is this purple pill or red pill? Dude, women are nothing like you're describing them, so I'm not surprised you'd have a hard time. I truly don't mean to offend but you act like dating is the hardest thing ever for men and it's normal for them to not have dated at 25 or above. Like it or not, misogynistic views and sitting at home all day won't get anyone a date. This whole "women only like top men" thing is just a lame excuse people tell themselves instead of taking responsibility for a lack of …
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/23 03:33 AM
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Care to elaborate?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 09:01 PM
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No cap then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:53 PM
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May I enquire about your gender?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:45 PM
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Nah my brother, wether you will believe me or not, it's not true. Not saying some don't have extremely high standards (some men do just as well), but generally women are less picky than men, in my experience. I'm far from a top man, but that never stopped me or many others from dating. I've been with girls who could have or already had way better men than me. I've seen 10/10 women date all kinds of men, ugly, overweight, poor, bad personality etc. I see very beautiful girls with conventionally u…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:44 PM
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How come?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:30 PM
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Woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:28 PM
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No cap, then
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 08:27 PM
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Woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 07:34 PM
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I believe personality actually matters more to women than looks. They care about looks less than men. Ladies, feel free to correct me if I'm wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/09/23 05:14 PM
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That's the thing, there is no end game. They will blame anyone but themselves
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 04:08 PM
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