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CULTURAL MISOGYNYkreutzwortraetzel/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:51 AM
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64

I know that type.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:27 AM
131

Haha, thanks for telling me - ten years too late. 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 09:25 AM
1

How horrifying. Our spiders are the size of a chickpea at most. And those are already giant to me. Sounds like you live somewhere warm, where others go to have a holiday.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/07/21 05:23 AM
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I just ignore spiders. They want to live, I want to live. We both want the same thing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 02:05 PM
5

She doesn't want a man. She wants children, a house, live with a female friend and be left alone by a man at least half the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:48 AM
180

That's really funny because it's true. I watched my dad handle his chainsaw barefoot in shorts. At 70. In red pill lingo he's such a Chad. When a guest complains about a spider my father just grabs it whole and throws it out of the window. It looks fun, being so carefree and competent. It's like an 80ies action movie come alive but with shorter hair.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/07/21 09:39 AM
31

Isn't that a good thing you got to vet them so quickly? It sounds efficient.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 12:35 PM
6

I caught a scrote with this comment 😄 He wanted to pretend he didn't know which comment he reacted to. Told me I was harsh ! GOOD! ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:55 AM
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wOMEn cAN't taKE a comPLIment
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:52 AM
47

I'm not going to ruin my day by looking that up. Not today, Satan.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 11:51 AM
18

nOt aLL mEn have limp dick - some ejaculate early. 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/07/21 05:41 AM
6

Sinister!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/07/21 08:53 AM
1

Thank you. I put it in the list.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 08:21 PM
26

I want to read up about that topic. Are there studies out there about that?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:37 AM
156

He became a father at 4 then. TIL scrotes can reproduce at any age.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/07/21 11:35 AM
92

Shiny house, shiny education, shiny dog? I don't think so 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/06/21 12:55 PM
8

I wasn't one of the pretty ones from the start. I'm still not settling for a scrote.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/06/21 04:08 AM
13

"Karma" is about to visit you. While holding a gun to protect his children. What did he do to children?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/06/21 03:03 PM
67

And they are the entitled ones. It fits.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 12:06 PM
210

Men, pretending to be women in the internet, think they are so smart and sneaky. They stick out like a sore thumb because they don't know the first thing about women. If they did they wouldn't even begin to behave like that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/06/21 11:34 AM
63

Reddit hates women who say size matters.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/06/21 04:27 PM
3

Same.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:59 AM
1

I'm not sure anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/06/21 04:58 AM
52

Is this one of these outrage posts were not supposed to post anymore? This post let's me lose all hope in men and I'm married .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/06/21 02:39 PM
6

I've got many aquaintences. I love that word, too. It's truly the difference between feeling save and loved or lonely and helpless.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 03:52 PM
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Thing is, his hypocrisy isn't going to stop there. Next!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:45 PM
8

If I throw out everyone I can't count on, I have three friends left. Then there's some family.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 12:03 PM
4

Examples, pleeeeeeease.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:59 AM
16

if I invite a friend somewhere and he or she doesn’t answer, or answers late, I delete the number completely I said it louder for the people in the back 👏
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:56 AM
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I will let it go if it has adequately been addressed. They are making sure it never happens again by actions, not words. Before that... No.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/06/21 11:54 AM
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FERDILLITEHY 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy14/06/21 12:29 PM
2

And she might be part of the higher/middle class and have rich family. I get that from her attitude and the fact that she goes to university. I could be wrong, but I'm sure her parents are at least comfortable. It's the vibe.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:21 AM
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Yes, she's young and native. I would advise her differently. I just wanted to clear up that she's not going to be homeless. Also, everything get husband earns is half hers by right. Everything that's earned during the marriage has to be split 50/50. She has to stop working 6 weeks before to 8 weeks after birth. She isn't allowed to work then because of "Mutterschutz". After she can take paid maternity leave for 12 months. Full or part time. When her husband takes paternal leave, they get 2 month…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 10:19 AM
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This reminds me of my father, always repairing my bike, picking me up, giving me that 20€ note I needed, getting up to get a chair or a blanket and sharing his meal, even if it's not a big portion. (While having LVM qualities in other areas of life)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:47 AM
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When both partners are observant and ready to help in small ways it's the best.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/06/21 05:45 AM
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She's not going to be homeless. We have flats for unemployed/poor people here. You get food, shelter, basic health care. It's very little, but you don't have to live on the street.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:09 PM
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Just get a demanding job, have a child, gain 20kg, and cut your hair short. Your friends will be there. All the LVM who kept you around as a sexual backup or narcissistic supply will be truly gone. They might text you to congratulate you on the baby and that's when you leave their story. Ask me how I know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:20 PM
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Return of investment 😂 I'm going to keep that in mind!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:17 PM
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Basically if they both-sides on any feminist/female issue at all.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:07 PM
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It's funny how all three cases have one red thread, one belief, connecting them: Men are toddlers. Case: They are impulsive and will hit, bite and curse when angry. Case: Women have to take care of their desires and needs. If we "neglect" them, they need somebody else to take care of them. Case: You have to patiently nurse and educate your man-toddler, so he can grow up into a man-man and fulfill his potential. Pickmes be comediennes sometimes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:54 AM
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In a (...) world where people simulate relationships through social media and texting, you are not alone if you are feeling disconnected or struggling with loneliness. I needed to hear that. I recently let go of friendships that haven't been friendships for years but still hurt because I hadn't let go. Thank you for this reminder to let the past be in the past.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:19 AM
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This is confusing. Does she like games or no? Why is it then a gift "for him"? Isn't she just getting a game they both can play? I smell fake "gamer girl" aka cool girl. Why does a grown man need merch? Having the odd piece is okay. But if my man would start wearing merch on the regular, I wouldn't like it. Does he even want the merch or does she want his gratitude? Third, having a custom made controller because of a ONE YEAR relationship is so overkill. I think she needs to assure herself of th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 07:12 AM
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Having female friends your whole life sounds awesome. Friendships with men be like: Most will see you as sexual backup. When they have a SO you get tossed to the side. When they have more to do (job, kids, relationship) you're the first friend to go. They keep their male friends. They have internalized sexism and it gets worse with age. They don't question their sexist believes and don't want to. Their SOs might be threatened by you. Doesn't matter if you're not interested sexually/romantically.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 06:46 AM
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I have a friend who basically thought like this. She just stopped eating after 2pm. While breastfeeding. Now she's very slim. He was "a great father" because he got to do the fun bits. Playing with lots of energy. And she blamed herself that she couldn't be as fun for the kids as him. While being the care taker and disciplinarian every day. She resented her kids for taking the time she used to be alone with him. She wanted his attention, but he was spent, too. Somehow, she always wanted his vali…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/06/21 04:16 AM
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That really sucks for her. Those are the situations we can't do much against short of a law suit. I hope she finds solutions for these problems.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 07:07 PM
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Idk where you live. I live in Germany. We have a female chancellor. We have free health care & jobless people get free little flats. Violence against women is frowned upon and seen as anti-social. It's still happening, but only to people who aren't leaving for emotional reasons. Society tells them to leave. They also have the financial means. I know that we expect levels of abuse. I do too. I know from experience that men and women are horribly sexist. I was hit by classmates a few times in my s…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/06/21 03:16 PM
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The reason he posts these stories is to humblebrag to other men. I'm oLd uGLy pOor and an alCOHolIC but young women aRe ALL OVER ME. I dONt knOW wHy?? HELP 🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 12:06 PM
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Had my first lurker today. They asked me about a post and generally acted normal. I thought he was a FDS user first. Profile/other comments show that he's probably the well-meaning but clueless type. One who thinks that they're part of the solution and not part of the problem. But still like cOMeDy. Did you have lurkers? Do you immediately ban & report?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 11:59 AM
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Get better, OP.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/06/21 09:06 AM
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A woman's choice is between invisibility and fuckability. And that's why I don't have male friends anymore. They have girlfriends now so I faded into invisibility. They pretended well, I would have sworn there was more to it. 🤡🤡🤡
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:27 PM
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I'm cringing so hard. calling her young girl as if she was 5 pretending he wouldn't if he could, while he would totally smash pretending to be interested in her well-being without ulterior motive pretending it's dangerous for him when it's never dangerous for men ever pretending he would have put effort into helping her, at all, or without expecting her "gratitude" sex making this situation about his personal growth as if she was his real life manic pixie dream girl Maybe he watched too much Zac…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:20 PM
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I assume that she works 16 hours a day, at least.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 09:00 PM
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I'm that daughter. He taught me to mistrust men and get that coin for myself. Why? Because he's over a decade older than my mother and she was under 18 when they met. 🤮
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:54 PM
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HA HA HA HA HAHAHA He's too sexy for his shirt
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 08:45 PM
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I get you. I didn't like men the moment I grew into a woman. They were disrespectful, creepy and gross. But I also couldn't be friends with women, because I didn't understand their complex social behavior and didn't fit the gender identity very well. So, to hang with guys, I got with a nice guy who took good care of me, was funny and attentive, reliable and respectful. We had fun years, but his friend weren't truly my friends and I didn't really love him. At some point, I felt lonely and alienat…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/06/21 01:05 AM
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🏅 I'm happy you rid of the sperm donor and got a good man. The bit where you hired a manny sent me. It's such a good idea. I like the intentionally reading of books about women. I'll copy that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/06/21 10:22 AM
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We didn't learn about porn and expectations either. But the internet was new back then and school changes slowly. Think centuries rather than decades.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 10:35 PM
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Never give anything back. Since I don't own jewelry (sensory issues) or anything valuable (it's dead weight) I opened up a deposit account. It's good to be the financial manager of the family. I pay rent, own the car, organize our taxes. He sends me what money he didn't spent and I invest it. We're both frugal, so it checks out. In case of a divorce I could easily change passwords. I'm fair, I will give him 50% in case of a break up. He can even keep the cat. I'll have the child/children. It's g…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 05:45 PM
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he needs to see that man treat you with the utmost respect That's right. We really have to be cognizant about being respectful without fail to each other - preferably always - but especially around our baby boy. Don’t let him learn about sex from porn He'll learn about the basics in elementary school at age 8. They learn about the names for genitals and where babies come from. But I will definitely talk to him as it comes up in life. because things changed a lot during my high school years. Yes,…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:51 PM
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This sounds realistic to me. Thank you.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/06/21 03:56 AM
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I don't know how long I'll be able to stay strong until I cave in about the phone. It's so normal to have the internet nowadays. But he doesn't need it unsupervised in his room.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:55 PM
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Thanks for the answer. I'll talk about these issues with him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:53 PM
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They don't know you and judge you based on their perception of young women who aren't at university at your age. Tell them you'll immediately go to university if they pay half your tuition. No problem. Tell them, you can still get pregnant at university and they get to be great-grandparents. 😘
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:26 AM
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Yes, because they hate all women equally. It's nearly not sexist anymore 😅 so much equality /s
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 10:21 AM
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😂 That's so true. They level up with our time & energy. And they think they've done it all themselves! That's hilarious. We can just stop and level up ourselves. That's probably better.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:39 AM
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his looks and seemingly good-natured, charismatic personality did the work for him. The triple digit guy actually treated me like a real friend and human being, Oh, you have met my brother! 😅 He brought many women home. I told them he brings home a woman every three months. I wanted them to know they shouldn't have long-term expectations. They stayed and I was confused. I did right by them by telling them about his high "body count" and expected them to leave him or at least expect less. They ne…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:24 AM
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Excuse me? There's a #3. 3: Women who humped and dumped him because he's emotionally unavailable, even though a really good lay. My brother whored around in his 20ies because he was in search of a motherly bangmaid who didn't care that he doesn't bring a lot to the table. He was successful and has a forever girlfriend now, who cooks, cleans, has a job and doesn't ask for much. I mean, she is a great cook! I love eating her food so I win, too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/06/21 05:03 AM
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Disgusting. Those guys are basically my parents. Except: She had parents, wierd ones. They are still together and actually love each other. But it's still wrong and disgusting. There was a lot wrong with their combined actions. I have a sibling who can't adult now. And I suspect that they just never got over being raised by scrote + pickme. I don't know why I made it through and was even immunized against scrotes because of my upbringing.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:05 PM
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My father also wanted a girl. I have to ask him why. He taught me that men are trash and I needed to rely on myself. It takes one to know one, I guess.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 09:12 PM
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Even better! Except he was a Dane. The Danish are the happiest people on earth.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:54 PM
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Haha, as long as your MIL doesn't expect you to bake and clean and fuss. If she's camping, it's probably alright.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:17 PM
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I hope they allsubtly judge him every time they pass him on the hall. In a way that he can't say anything. And each time he gets a coffee at work, he's just slightly uncomfortable. FOR THE REST OF HIS LIFE.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 06:14 PM
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See? It's genetic and your children have it. I once read being autistic is like being bisexual. You just know when you are like that. When one partner has ASD the other has a 11* higher chance of also having it. For me, neither my husband nor I are diagnosed... but we're pretty sure we're both ASD. Now I'm waiting for my baby to grow up and show signs 😅 I think it's fine if you get a lot of help when you're young.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:39 PM
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Ok, I would never do that! How exhausting! Only my child will get Christmas presents and my god-child (He gets what his mum tells me to get. I'm not puzzling over that!) We don't have and won't get nieces & nephews so that's easy. And grown people don't need presents. They can open the Amazon app themselves, thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:34 PM
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Is he autistic? Not being into relationships to family being smart and interested in machines working hard on a hobby that other people would want to be paid for and keeping up routines even after being retired sounds autistic (male version) to me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:31 PM
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Wow. HE left YOU after coercing you to have an abortion. I'm not surprised but I'm disappointed. There's somehow no limit to my ability to be disappointed in men. How horrible. Good thing you're rid of him! I understand that you don't want a relationship if that's what happened. There are so many things out there for us. Friends, family, pets, hobbies. We aren't defined by what we are to a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:25 PM
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That's not what I meant. Of course, they don't clean. But why don't they want to talk to their families? It's not annoying maintenance like chores around the house. (Provided they have nice, functional families)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 04:15 PM
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We divorced because he covertly coerced me to have a termination I'm sorry you had to go through that. Since I was pregnant, these things make me sad. I already had a connection to the baby during pregnancy. Good thing you left him.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:14 AM
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I could do that. Maybe I will at some point. Right now, his family is nice enough. They are good people. They are respectful. I mostly make sure they can visit their grandson with scheduling their visits. I want them to be grandparents to my child. I don't call or take calls either. That's too much work.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 10:12 AM
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(not delegate this to his significant other). Why is this a thing? I don't have any problems with writing in my family group, sending pictures and memes, calling & visiting my family. Why do men not do this? Mine has a calendar reminder now that tells him to call his mother. I don't know if it helps. I have seen him not take group calls from his family and from his brother. He says he loves his family and also that he doesn't feel the need to talk to them. Confused Pikachu face And yes, I answer…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:53 AM
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This is hilarious. Thank you, mods. You're doing great. We're being diFFIcuLt, dOMinANt and unrEASonaBLe. They can't help but put us back in our places. 😅 But oh no men can't post here! HoW uFAir!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:42 AM
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He deserves to be inside the prison for sexually assaulting an intimate partner and should be forced to register so that other women can avoid him ^ Imagine a world in which crime would lead to consequences like that. Would be awesome, tbh. when they do support you financially, they feel entitled to abuse you Yes, that's probably it. He's working so he's done soooo much aLReaDy. He deserves to hAVe a fAMilY.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/06/21 05:26 AM
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It's obvious that guy is trash. But why wasn't her first reaction to pack her bags and go? She thought this guy was save and on her side. She found out he wasn't save and was actively harming her physically and mentally. He proved that he wasn't interested in her plans, opinions and human rights. Why isn't the emotional response shock, anger and then determination to put out the trash? Complete and utter loss of love towards the guy? Because that's my reaction every single time a man disrespects…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:53 PM
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Sadly, yes. I'm from a relationship like that. My father was a scrote in that aspect. Huge age gap, reproduction coersion and no interest to parent more that just the fun parts. My mother, a very young pickme who didn't want kids, also didn't want to parent. So nobody did. Call me Pippi Longstocking because I made the best of it and not only survived, but thrived, and have a beautiful baby with a decent guy now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 07:39 PM
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You're just Herr or Frau and that's it 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 10:01 AM
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I find men know quickly if it's love for them. Three days are plenty. Romeo saw that Juliet was beautiful. Then she reacted positively to him and listened to him talk about birds. Done. It's love.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:24 AM
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That's when my relationship started to form 10 years ago. He laughed at my jokes and built on them. He got all of them and I had never experienced that before. I normally joke just for myself because nobody gets it anyway. 😅 It's still the same after a decade. There's no need to explain so much.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 04:12 AM
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He thinks his mother is: intelligent accomplished interesting good with people a talented cook hard-working and has good taste. When she split up with his dad, he respected her decision immediately. When she visits us, he makes pleasant conversation with her and he has only positive things to say about her. But he has a reminder on his phone to call her 6 times a year. Because he hadn't called for years before that. Make it make sense, muh dude. If my son grows up to ignore me like that he's goi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:55 AM
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I don't want a man to put effort in because that means being with me is exhausting. I want him to be energized by my presence. Talking to me is fun and enlightening. He can't see that, then NEXT.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:44 AM
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We hardly have male doctors anymore in my area. And good riddance to them. Female doctors tend to believe me more and talk down to me less.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:21 AM
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🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:19 AM
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Meanwhile, in Germany, there are no pet names for anyone.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:19 AM
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He would have taken it as an invitation for s*x.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 03:17 AM
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tHe jOKes wRITe themSelvEs indeed
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/06/21 02:45 AM
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Thank you. I slept well!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 08:52 AM
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effort = bl*wjob
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:06 AM
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Many people do this but it's mostly men. They are comfortable in a relationship and stay, until they find a fresh bangmaid who is more keen to please, younger or more beautiful. Women have more to gain being single. They drop household chores to do, s*xual favors to give, and justifying his misogynistic behavior to themselves.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 05:04 AM
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Good call on your part. She does something he doesn't like and he'll spew misogynistic bllshi to demean and control her. And he'll feel justified doing it. Nobody needs that in their lives.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:57 AM
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I swiped to find the second picture on which I expected a dishwasher to be found. All while I wondered why that woman laid there on the floor.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 04:46 AM
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The friend thing is difficult, I find. A man has to be near perfect to be in my life. But I only need to find one. Finding friends is somehow more difficult for me. If they have internalized misogyny, I often let it slide, because it's so difficult to find women who are truly pro-woman. Additionally they should be smart, funny, available, have to like me back, live reasonably close and have self-esteem.They have to want a balanced relationship in which there's a give and take. Something has got …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 01:05 AM
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I definitely see the value in this space for its raw truth and solidarity. It put words to my feelings and experiences I couldn't quite express before. On the other hand I need to take a break with reading here. I have only ever been in two adult relationships and both were good. Decent guys. I had said no to many men and I'm not even pretty. I just didn't care about men who would make my life worse. Until there was somebody who improved my life. That's basically FDS philosophy. I want all women…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/06/21 12:59 AM
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That's so true. I must say that this subreddit is great. But the more I read the more depressing it becomes. Most women in my life do not live like that. Most men I know are scrotes some of the time but nothing like this guy or the other guy who laughed about his wife's birth trauma. Once I close this app the worst men in my life don't help with cleaning at home or think that their expensive hobby is more important than their wife's. There is a certain burn-out that I feel reading these dire sit…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 11:27 PM
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This is so dumb. I hope for my child not to have that disease that we have in my family. I'm waiting for science to make it possible for this disease to be eradicated by genetic selection. I didn't need to be born with that. A healthy sibling could have been born instead. There's nothing wrong with that. She wants other women to suffer needlessly. Eugenicists were bad because they wanted to kill people who were already alive. And they unfertilized unwilling and unknowing people who then couldn't…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 09:05 PM
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This just makes me sad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 08:47 PM
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I wouldn't mind the being bisexual. But there's nothing to "request" in a sexual relationship. If he requests anything, I'm out. I don't think he has the energy or the time to sleep with another man or woman. Grown people with jobs, kids and friendships don't really have time to sleep around so much. Something has got to give.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:20 PM
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You sound awesome. I'm glad you didn't leave a helpless baby with a manchild. The change is so drastic and immediate for us mothers. We shape up after birth or the baby suffers. The dads have more leeway and have to be intrinsically motivated or they won't make it. I sat him down a few times and explained to him what exactly I did to keep our baby alive and well. And that it's more than just uncomfortable but existentially draining. That I don't have a choice but be the default parent who picks …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 07:15 PM
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That sounds like a probable scenario for many men.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 06:51 PM
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You want tall men, go north.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 03:31 PM
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What about if he wants a MMF threesome? It's that not cheating while in a relationship?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:40 PM
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The audacity of him to look tired and complain when he's had five hours of solid sleep one night and gets 7-8 hours on a regular basis! Ha! Oh no! Are you missing 3 hours of sleep? Try worrying about a sick baby for two weeks and not sleeping a wink - then we can talk.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:34 PM
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That's so true! My baby is 6 months old and I nearly left his ass twice. He has just stepped up and improved. But man, would I love to be the dad instead of the mum. They have it easy. I could have three babies if I could just be the dad.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:30 PM
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OMG they're selling hopium ! 😂 Did you think of that yourself. That's hilarious.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:25 PM
6

I especially love the "toxic ex" one. He's probably the reason she was "toxic", as in justifiably angry. And his suitcase for the ex is as big as the woman's whole suitcase set, including childhood trauma. Girl, run! Don't be the next "toxic" ex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:16 PM
19

When you're raised in the knowledge your looks don't matter and you can do what you want • but you still live in the extremely sexist 90ies • the discrimination and gaslighting are real .
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 02:09 PM
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Thank you, mods!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:56 AM
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Scrotes be like: She doesn't look like she lives to please men like me. Rescue mission MUH DICK! "yOu aRe uGlY!!" And it's worse the more naturally beautiful the woman is because the insult of her not living for his dick hurts him worse.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:55 AM
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I always thought it was "okay for other people". I always knew I didn't want to be a sex worker, online or offline. I didn't want to try BDSM. I would never open up a relationship if I knew he would sleep around like crazy or he would judge me for using the agreement. I thought porn doesn't hurt anyone. It worked fine for me. I didn't like something, I didn't do it. I didn't care if scrotes were mad. My right to choose, I chose decent men. But I thought these things were modern and benefiting th…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 05:14 AM
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What I want from a man consuming media: He must listen to a woman the same way he would to a man if he's interested in the topic at hand. No difference in critical thinking or respect in any way. Disagreeing with a woman results in discourse, not in sexist insults. He listens to female perspectives on life from time to time, even if he doesn't understand it or isn't interested in the topic. He won't talk negatively of every female coded interest like make-up or romance franchises. He respects wo…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/06/21 04:57 AM
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Yes. They do it even if they aren't or shouldn't be sexually into you. I always wondered why boomer men were so unfriendly when I was a teen and tween. They constantly put me down directly and indirectly and smiled like they had made a joke. But I was supposed to be the butt of the joke. And then they were confused when I reacted with aggression towards them? And the jokes were so dumb to. Often the joke was that I didn't meet their expectation as to what I could do with my body, time or energy.…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/05/21 05:40 AM
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I will raise the child. But get the scrote out of my sight!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 06:05 PM
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It's not worth breaking down because it's pointless to debate propaganda. We know healthy normal men and women don't buy into it. 🏅
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/05/21 11:30 AM
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My grandmother died "alone" among nice nurses and doctors because she lived in a home after having had a fractured hip. She was 97 and had her children over every day. Her husband had died a decade before her since he was older. Being married doesn't protect you from dying without a husband by your side. Dying without a husband isn't necessarily "alone". There are many people who'll help you die in peace. Having a husband for a short time is enough to have some children who might be with you whe…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 08:49 AM
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“Omg manipulation and abuse didn’t provide fulfilling relationships like I thought it would ☠️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:58 AM
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I have already had every possible discussion with incel & mgtow men online that you can possibly have. They ignore reality and built their own. It's useless. Those guys are lost for the case of a better world for everyone. They want male superiority, nothing less, and we're supposed to agree. Fuck that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/05/21 02:50 AM
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Also, when everyone tells you "you're not like other girls", why wouldn't you eventually believe them?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 04:37 PM
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I understood what you meant. I also like the idea to normalize single life. I believe my marriage is basically good for both him and me. I clean more. I talk to his mother. On the other hand, he earns a lot and it's half mine now. That's nice. But also my body is never going to be the same after pregnancy. We're good friends, too. But my best friend is female. TLDR: I would marry again but totally understand if people don't want to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:57 AM
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I'm naturally curious and want to know him in this way. There's nothing wrong with that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:26 AM
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I needed 2 years to know.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/05/21 09:23 AM
10

I met a guy like that at 18 when I didn't know anything. So I was surprised and annoyed when he negged me and told me to smile and told me how I felt. I told him he was a guy only a mother could love . He looked hurt and I gleamed with satisfaction for the rest of the car ride to wherever.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 12:24 PM
21

laughs in asexual
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/05/21 08:06 AM
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This was what I felt immediately when I saw porn for the first time in my life. I didn't find the right words to express that. But each time I tried to voice that opinion people thought I was a prude or a feminist [and that's somehow a bad word]. This text makes it more clear to me what that feeling was.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:56 AM
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This is important.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/05/21 04:35 AM
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I have a six month old and breastfed him. Now he gets some food, too. It's true that my husband took longer to learn how to soothe him and how to read his ques. But he learned and is quite good at it now. He's got a week off right now and baby sleeps with him. He brings him over at 4pm when he needs to drink. I can sleep for 6 consecutive hours. He also does most of the diaper changes, feeds the baby the food I prepared and watches him about 3-4 hours after work. It's not easy going 50:50 but we…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:18 AM
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Yes, I second that. I don't look as good as any of these people and why should I? Why is looking good more important than being an integer person? I want to be happy and not work on looking good like it's my job.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 11:00 AM
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My husband read this sub first and told me about it. He thinks he's so HV. ☠️ By the standards I read here, he's HV in some areas and LV in other areas. But you know how men always think they are better than they really are. At 65% they feel 100%. They have self-esteem for weeks. I have been here for a few weeks and haven't left his ass. He is so lucky 😄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:55 AM
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I first joined years ago. My username was female. They RAN ME OFF the site. I didn't know what had hit me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/05/21 04:49 AM
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This is really sweet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 08:26 AM
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Loss of power and control
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 04:28 AM
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We're here, wondering how HV he really is.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/05/21 03:15 AM
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There's sadly a lot of sexism in child-rearing. Girl are taught to be self-sufficient. Boys get pampered until they are 21 or longer. Girl are criticized A LOT while boys fragile egos are protected. Girls know the world is hard for them and they see the women in their lives work hard and get shit done. Boys see male role models go to work and then slack off. In the work environment a woman's work is seen as less than. We know we can't slack as much as the guys can. So we work harder to get and k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy18/05/21 04:58 PM
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They feel like they are dogs - deserving of love and loyalty And we are pigs - okay to make sausage out of Even though we're both mammals with the same potential when you test our abilities. Dogs and pigs are very similar. Men and women, too. And also, they want us to agree that we're pigs deserving of being slaughtered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 09:31 PM
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It's not Misandry when I hate men for the shit they actually do! They want my time and energy and emotional labour. If they don't get that, they flip their shit. Losing privilege feels like oppression They are mad they can't use physical and social force anymore to extract free labour from us!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 05:18 PM
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My mother said that all the time.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/05/21 07:15 AM
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