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Nothing new here, the chances of finding someone for a long-term relationship on Tinder are basically non-existent. You have to meet women in real life.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/22 09:25 AM
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We find the vast majority of women attractive and we are attracted to many different women of different shapes, sizes, and looks. Sure dude, that's why all of the Instagram thots all look uniquely different....
/r/PurplePillDebate20/06/22 11:13 AM
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I didn’t want to go. I know myself too well, I’m too much of a socially inept freak to talk to anyone and I’m too fucking ugly And then he posts this question???
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 11:14 PM
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What drugs are you on and can I have some as well?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:03 PM
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Yeah, so I'm asking what activities you are doing...
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 05:02 PM
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During class? That's not how it works mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:44 AM
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And what will change then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:24 AM
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Men getting rejected 99% of the time Most men struggling to get laid or even relationships Most men’s extremely low standards and willingness to fuck anything with a pulse Stop including the majority of men together with yourself, just so you can feel better. It's not most men, it's you and your "bubble" that's struggling.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:19 AM
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And it’s like, I have a job, and friends and I’m a college student, I spend 10 hours a week in the gym So where/when do you meet women then?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/22 10:16 AM
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How dense you have to be to consider 3.5 billion women to ALL be the same..
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 10:00 AM
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More people will come to Reddit to post things like "Whamen have too much power in choosing their partner"
/r/PurplePillDebate17/06/22 07:50 AM
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"oh, well, all men desire slim blonde women". They don't lol. They do lol, look through the most popular thot insta accounts and 90% of the accounts will be basically identical. Obviously we all have some personal preferences one way or antoher, but if you average it out you can see that it's basically the same women that everyone desires.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/22 09:14 AM
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I don't think it's going to change anything, condoms are as available as ever, but some men still refuse to wear them and don't care about the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/22 09:10 AM
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You are irrelevant
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:41 PM
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Ultimately, she unilaterally decided to get pregnant You know that contraception is not 100% safe?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:30 AM
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Of course it is relevant, there is always a risk that you will get pregnant after sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 09:28 AM
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men to take responsibility for women's choice I mean... it's not like the woman got pregnant on her own...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/06/22 08:16 AM
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its not for some pussy, its for your wife to take care of your children well, and bring peace and nurturing energy to your household. Are you some emotionless rock that you also can't contribute to that? you clearly only view women as just a vagina to fuck You clearly lack reading comprehension because that's the view I'm arguing against - women should bring much more to the relationship than just "kindness" and "vagina". its a big deal for you because you're broke and cant afford a high-quality…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 09:06 AM
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its because you're broke No, it's because I can afford a certain lifestyle that I've worked for. I don't want to concede things just to have some pussy. Yeah, maybe if I was obnoxiously rich it wouldn't matter, but now I don't want to swap a couple of holidays per year with some nice hotel for one holiday with a shittier hotel just because I have to support another person. Finding a partner who is on the same level as you can be really beneficial for your finances and you can actually live a bet…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:55 AM
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Who are these "men" you talk about? I wouldn't even dream about dating my fiancée if she wasn't working or contributing to the family budget. The fact that some men are spinless and have low standards just to have access to some pussy doesn't mean that all of us are the same. Doesn't matter how sweet or kind someone is if there is no food on the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:40 AM
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Extrapolate from data - it's at least (1/3500000)*100% of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:36 AM
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I don't see any reason why would anyone COMPLETELY support anyone financially. Yeah, maybe for some finite amount of time, when your partner is between jobs or after childbirth, but not for an infinite amount of time. It's just not worth it, I don't think the other person can provide enough value for me to consider supporting them.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/22 08:29 AM
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Why the fuck is it always extremes? Obviously a lot of people are in double-income households and women and men contribute equally. But then you go on about household chores and reach the other extreme... Most couples I know share the household tasks, in a lot of cases, it's the men who cook more.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:04 PM
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Don't marry or date a girl who does.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:02 PM
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If women can provide themselves, then why don't they? Why do men still have to pay for everything and wome's salary only covers their personal needs? They do!? If you only meet women who don't, it probably says a lot about you and what kind of people you have around you.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:01 PM
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no sane person wants a child on their own.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 12:00 PM
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I'm definitely not attracted to more than 20% of women, probably even less, so not really surprising, isn't it? Haircut and clothes almost instantly improve MOST average dudes into potential mates, it's not hard to stand out when most men wear flip-flops with white socks and beige cargo pants while sporting a bowl cut.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/06/22 11:55 AM
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1., 2. There is no arbitrary number. I just need to like her, it's either you feel attracted to someone or not. Again, someone would think I'm good-looking, for some I could be a monster. I'm in a loving relationship
/r/PurplePillDebate25/05/22 09:42 AM
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I think we are living in some parallel worlds - everywhere on the internet besides some fringe feminist sites Heard is called out and the majority supports Depp.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/22 10:12 AM
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If sex is the only thing you need or get from your partner, then yes.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:52 PM
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That made me laugh, because most men want their woman to have a wild side with them when it comes to sex. Lol, have you seen the comments here? She would be judged instantly to be some kind of slut.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/05/22 04:05 PM
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No, you were making a false statement. The original comment said that you can't be roped to pay for a child that is not yours. Obviously, adopting this child will make you his parent.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/05/22 09:46 PM
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Thanks for nitpicking on the least important aspect of my reply
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:23 PM
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legally adopt you are now legally responsible for that child No fucking way!!!! Obviously, you have to take care of your OWN kid if you adopt it!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:19 PM
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Don't marry a waitress if you are the CEO of a company... Find someone on your level.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:17 PM
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If you make a kid, why would you think you have no responsibility to pay for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:15 PM
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​ don't want to marry because marriage will nota benefit them No one is forcing you to marry, but it does have some financial and admin benefits over just living together with your partner. they are afraid of losing half of everything they earned throughout their lives. Also, where do you live that marriage is so one-sided that only the men have assets and money? Marry someone who also brings money to the table such that together you have more financial power as a couple. Many men also don't wan…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 10:09 PM
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Spot on!
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 01:29 PM
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That's your own choice as to your career prospects. It's obvious that people most of the time search for someone compatible on multiple levels - education, money, looks, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:02 AM
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The lack of awareness. Exactly! The biggest problem of cold approaching for guys is lack of awareness, they can't read the situation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/05/22 08:00 AM
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it should ideally be a nice experience for her You have too high of valuation of an average horny man, who can't take no for an answer...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:50 PM
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Cold approaching doesn't work for regular guys Cold approaching doesn't work if you have zero social skills and no confidence. Or your opening is something incredibly sexist. Cold approaching lands you in jail If you can't read her that she is not interested and keep pushing or asking her questions making her uncomfortable or start fearing about her safety, then yeah. Best way is friends of friends or social circles. Yes, but we are not talking about the BEST way here...
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 02:47 PM
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Time to earn more money kiddo
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:12 AM
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Most women want it You must live in some ultra-conservative religious place, I don't know any of my friends or family who became or wanted to become SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:09 AM
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WHy isn't any money spent pushing men into Gender studies or whatever? Why should we? That degree is next to useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:06 AM
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Women are still in huuuge minority in STEM subjects, which often leads to better job prospects and earning potential. Sorry, but on average all those languages, history, and gender studies degrees rarely pan out as good as your typical STEM degrees.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 08:04 AM
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I never really tried to pull women as I have low libido, poor social skills and no close friends, but it seems it would be very hard to me if I tried. Maybe stop living in your head and stop reading incel subreddits and try it out on your own first?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/05/22 07:57 AM
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I didn't argue against that, I just provided a viewpoint that any hobby can be considered a waste of time/money or childish.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:48 PM
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Don't see any difference between playing video games or watching funny videos. Both "hobbies" don't provide any value except entertainment, which is fine, but in moderation. I just felt that some women have a bit of a double standard about playing video games vs being on social media and scrolling through mindlessly.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:39 PM
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Do you have the same views about spending the same amount of time on social media?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:26 PM
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Spending 5 hours using tangible skills to make a complex rocking chair and spending 5 hours trying to beat an elden ring level is just not the same level of mental maturity in my opinion. Playing devil's advocate - You could go and buy a chair in 10min in the nearest furniture shop AND probably it would cost less as it would be built from shittier materials :) So this hobby not only costs money but also your valuable time. One could also monetize his video gaming skills to earn money making it a…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:25 PM
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spending 3-4 hours on them each day Those are rookie numbers, you need to pump them up!
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/22 03:21 PM
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I completely agree that in specific cases a man should be able to refuse to become a father. Say if the woman has lied about being infertile or about being on contraception on casual hook-ups the man should have a right to waive all responsibilities and perks of being a father if he wants to.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 06:37 PM
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When a woman consents to having sex with a man she is not consenting to bear that man's child. I mean you said it here, so why the need to write something else? How do you establish consent to bearing that man's child? Do you have to sign a declaration that you will see the abortion through? What happens if there are "reasonable" health complications? Say, 1% chance that there will be problems, who determines some kind of threshold where it is acceptable to abort and when it isn't? Also, invokin…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 03:43 PM
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Happy single people tend to be happy also in relationships, while depressed people stay depressed even after getting together with someone... Yeah, no shit, you have to deal with your problems first and not just rely on others for happyness.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:11 PM
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No One Cares!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 12:08 PM
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no one cares meep lord
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 10:58 AM
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Great job on "allowing an open conversation" mate!
/r/PurplePillDebate17/05/22 09:32 AM
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Then what are you attracted to?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/22 01:12 PM
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​ Millionaire before 30 Pretty sweet if that's without any heritage or living on mommies money. STEM MS before 25 Nothing special I could go on and on. Please do.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:15 PM
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don't hang out with trash women mate
/r/PurplePillDebate15/05/22 09:11 PM
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We, men, do not value older women. Value as what? Sexual objects? Yeah, the sex appeal in MOST cases decreases with aging, but is that the only thing you value your partner on?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 03:37 PM
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LOL I don't have anything else to add here mate. Good luck in your life and hope you can calculate the exact number that you are "entitled" to and hope that woman is brain dead so that she even considers dating you.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:30 PM
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They are less valuable in men's eyes so you won't be so attached emotionally to her Lol, you establish your attachment on the basis of what OTHER people think? Time to grow a spine kid and experience the world on your own terms...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:28 PM
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If you are also 35+ then the benefits are having someone in a similar position/situation in their lives, with a more similar outlook to the life as you and probably more common interests.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 02:25 PM
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it's already normalized to call the trash, sluts, etc., let's not pretend.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:21 PM
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She doesn't have anything to offer to the "nice and hot" guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 12:17 PM
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Sure, there are conventionally attractive people, no one is arguing against that. But labeling people by numbers is just as objectively stupid as it is inaccurate. The whole point of the post is that if a 4 rejects a 5 she's a dumb bitch and doesn't deserve happiness. Maybe if you have a mental capacity of a five-year-old you think it is a reasonable statement, but anyone with a bit of brain understands that not only there is no objective way of determining someone's attractiveness with an arbit…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:29 AM
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So genuine issue or just another gendered double standard with a valid reason? get off twitter and it becomes a non-issue pretty fast
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 10:21 AM
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By objective attractiveness I guarantee that there will be always someone who doesn't find someone "objectively" attractive. Millions of people find Emma Watson attractive - to me she's as plain-looking as possible...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:59 AM
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Wait, so every women/men HAS to agree to go out with someone based on some arbitrary looks scale?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/22 09:56 AM
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We must live in different worlds then. Have you seen scientists at conferences? They are the most awkward bunch ever :) Of course, you can find social people as well, but A LOT of them are just weird. Maybe that's just physics.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:55 PM
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Exactly :)
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 03:53 PM
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exactly, large portion of them are not socially intelligent
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:42 PM
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Source: I'm working in academia and unfortunately more than 50% of my colleagues are socially very akward.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 01:41 PM
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moreover, intelligent people are also mosre socially intelligent Would you say that academics are highly intelligent people? Most of them are very socially inept.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:22 AM
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Then you are hanging out with the wrong crowd.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 11:20 AM
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All you can do is say "I know women who don't like them" but that also means nothing. Same as you saying that you know women who like them :) You seem to type some reasonable statements, but then completely fail to apply them to yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:22 AM
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No, I think people just have a warped preception of the term "dad bod". Initially, that was a fit guy gaining some weight, now it's just any slob not taking care of himself and using it as an excuse to not get fit. Same as with "curvy" figure for women - now every overweight girl calls herself curvy.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/05/22 08:20 AM
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Thats not what that means at all. Come off it. Like sexist men marry women every day, and often those women are sexist too lol. And they are sexist towards all of the women, even their wives. While I said i just care about the opinions of SOME women (same for the opinions of men). How is it sexist? It's just easy to label everyone sexist, racist, nazist or whateverist whenever someone doesn't agree with you. Bro, if millions of women want to fuck one dude based on their looks, they're hot Let's …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:16 PM
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Percent of adults aged 20 and over with overweight, including obesity: 73.6% (2017-2018) From https://www.cdc.gov/nchs/fastats/obesity-overweight.htm
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:11 PM
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Jesus, do you have any comprehension of the words you are spewing around? Sexist would be if I said that I don't listen to any women (or men)... I made a general statement about how millions of women would fuck srth Rogen and Adam Sandler No, you made a statement that they are SUPER hot. Millions of ugly people get laid that's not an indication that they are hot.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 04:08 PM
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Unfortunately, the majority of the western population is overweight and doesn't do any exercises... For them to achieve a dad bod, they would have to put in some effort not the other way around when a fit guy just relaxes with the training/diet.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:59 PM
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Lol, what the fuck is wrong with you? How is this sexist or indicates some kind of loneliness??? My partner despises both Adam Sandler and Seth Rogan they are not even slightly attractive. And literally no girl in my friend's list would consider them hot. What makes you a "real" woman and dismisses the "realness" of others?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:56 PM
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Not me personally, but like I said the average gym-goer doesn't have any plan. I see a number of people lifting the same exact weights for the same exact reps for months or even years. I think I know half of their programs by now because they never progress. And it's not the minority it's probably the majority of gym-goers.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:54 PM
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that's exactly what I said?!
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:52 PM
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No one said that, just clarifying that dad bod isn't your average basement-dweller, but rather still a fit(-ish) guy who gained some fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 03:48 PM
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Only to the ones that are relevant
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 12:39 PM
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Jesus christ, sex is not some kind of test where you need to read up online and study guides... Just talk to your partner mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 09:29 AM
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How many big huge overly buff guys do you meet day to day? Even in the gym they are like the 1% of physiques. That's just not the norm, nor it is realistically achievable for 99% of the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:28 AM
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I also think all healthy men should lift weights for health and baseline athleticism, like in 6-18 months you should strive for a 135lb overhead press, 225lb paused bench, 315lb squat and 315 to 405lb deadlift at 12 to 15 bodyfat in order to maintain health. I think that's unrealistic for most men as that would require DEDICATED training. Most men just go through the motions, don't have a plan, don't record their lifts, don't diet etc. As for the rest - you are spot on.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:27 AM
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Literally never heard anyone saying that Seth Rogen or Adam Sandler are hot...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:24 AM
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Posting shit like this on reddit is probably the reason why no one wants to date you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:20 AM
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The veiny bulgy thing is a guy thing. That's maybe, at best 1% of gym-goers, who are on gear. Your average man is no where near that physique.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:18 AM
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Dad bod is not attainable if you didn't have a good physique before. Dad bod is literally a fit guy gaining a bit of body fat due to the life commitments e.g. becoming a dad. Underneath the increased fat there is still a solid frame.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:17 AM
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as it means their values are vain, shallow and superficial, which yeah no bueno. As are yours - don't see anything profound and deep in staying on the couch and watching netflix.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:15 AM
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Should the average man lift weights? Well, I don't know. I guess it helps you in some facets of life. Office workers? Probably not but tradesmen more than likely. Office workers should be the first ones in line to go to the gym due to the sedentary lifestyle. The average man absolutely can not look like Jeff Seid or Noel Deyzel Yeah no shit, those are the 0.001% men with more drugs inside their bodies than your local pharmacy. At least Noel is transparent about using gear. And maintaining a sub …
/r/PurplePillDebate10/05/22 08:09 AM
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Literally the same list
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:41 PM
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Yeah, probably reasonable that something like 1/20 is attractive. Everyone just forgets that your Instagram feed is no reality and that an average person is AVERAGE looking...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 03:39 PM
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That just means you had low body fat percentage. Everyone has muscle it's just about how developed they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 02:01 PM
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touché
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 01:46 PM
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we're a bunch of fat out of shape basement dwellers. Aren't you???
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:05 AM
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So you weren't muscular....
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 09:04 AM
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Exactly, the grandmothers used to drink moonshine, the women of today are too soft with their fancy wines and stuff...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:21 AM
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Because the dad doesn't have to carry the kid for 9 months and can just dash after the woman gets pregnant.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/05/22 08:19 AM
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I don't consider anyone out of my league mate, I have lots to offer. The fact that someone is more conventionally attractive is just a part of the equation. Lose your high paying job tomorrow and see if that woman way out of your league looks wise is still interested…. Fortunately, none of us are just digging for gold. We have the same job so everyone brings in the same amount of money :) I know it's the agenda here to bash on the other gender and try to bring everyone down, but unfortunately fo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:15 PM
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You are not following anything mate. Who said that those women only have looks?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/22 08:03 PM
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Most men, even those with high levels of attractiveness and social/financial success, struggle to some degree and experience the same things discussed here. If that thought makes you feel better... Most of the men in my friends circle are in long-term relationships. Most men of all levels of attractiveness are forced to settle for below their level of attractiveness, so the majority those who they insist are succeeding romantically and “getting laid” do not count. The same guys (including me) ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 04:11 PM
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knee-jerk keyboard-warrioring. lol, good luck in life mate, hope you are good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:31 PM
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Having a group of friends to do activities with doesn't imply meeting other poeple. Sure as hell it does, your friends bring new friends. Usually, people don't have just one social circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:08 PM
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Ugly guys get rejected by men Jesus, where do you live dude. Why the fuck would a man care how another man looks like?? awkward, nerdy, shy, or smelly That's exactly what this post is talking about, you have to do some work and can't just expect to find friends and girlfriends by staying home.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/05/22 12:07 PM
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Yeah, you want what you can't get. Same with guys who want a slutty-IG-thot virgin just for themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 01:59 PM
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dark offensive humour You are just an asshole :)
/r/PurplePillDebate05/05/22 09:55 AM
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that.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 01:47 PM
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Do you realize that big tits is probably the most common "fetish", right?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:37 PM
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Crazy!!! Women expect different things from a potential long-term partner and a hookup :o
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:34 PM
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I work so hard at my job. All year I work day and night trying to help people who have nothing. When I come to the States for a holiday, all I want is to have fun and relax and enjoy a threesome with two beautiful, married women. Is that so much to ask, Kim? Is it? Lol, this is golden.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/05/22 12:03 PM
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This IS confidence. No, this IS being a cuck ha ha
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 08:18 AM
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There is a major difference between having sex with someone and having a relationship. If you just want to hook up all that matters is looks and attraction.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/05/22 07:49 AM
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It's your own fault if you want to be an ATM for your partner. Time to grow a spine and have some standards regardless if you are a man or a woman. I wouldn't date anyone who has a drastically different financial status or at least no future prospects on how to improve them. Also, plenty of stories, where there is a deadbeat man, who gets supported by a working woman, while he does fuck-all.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 04:54 PM
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it would be isolating to say she can’t go That's not the point of my comment. I didn't argue against that. As much as one can't regulate what their partner does, no one can regulate what someone believes in. If there is such incompatibility then they should just split up, but everyone has a right to expect whatever they want.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 10:54 AM
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Why so dramatic? No one said anything about isolating anyone. Can you feel the difference between being against your partner going out alone partying, but being fine with going out together with said friends?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/05/22 08:17 AM
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realise you shouldn’t expect your partner to forgo girls nights out because of your insecurities Why not? You are allowed to expect whatever the fuck you want. If that's something he doesn't want to deal with then he shouldn't be in a relationship with someone who doesn't agree with that.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:11 PM
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Don't date a person who has drastically different views on life so that you have to impose your views on them. If she wants to go out drinking with her friends and without you and doesn't seem to notice that you don't like that why would you be together with her? What's the point of "controlling" her choices?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/05/22 08:07 PM
1

Better than a Boyfriend her age studying arts and working in McDonalds Are all older men CEO's ? :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/04/22 10:08 AM
1

Not what the post is about, barking on the wrong tree honey
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:20 PM
2

Probably because most men are happy with the status quo, while women discovered that they don't have to settle for someone just for the sake of it anymore.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:03 PM
2

but they are rarely ever in positions of power and influence? What are these positions you are talking about then if not a career? Cowgirl in bed?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 05:01 PM
2

Clearly, improving your socioeconomic status is unheard of and no one should strive for it :) Sometimes it's exactly that kind of thinking, bad career choices and lack of financial control why someone is lower class.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 04:57 PM
1

Says a lot about the men who actually engage with these types of women...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:49 PM
1

As if no one ever became upper middle calls themselves???
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:47 PM
1

Trash people need trash advice...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:46 PM
3

Why would side of the medical field, they tend to be pretty worthless. Why would you leave a field that you invested so much in and get a very nice salary??????
/r/PurplePillDebate28/04/22 12:40 PM
0

Who says she didn't? Even if she didn't, people change, they get new perspectives and new values.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:40 PM
2

and am worried that men my age will find me less attractive and think I am "past my prime". Most of the guys can't tell if a girl is 14 or 28. Also, there is no universal indicator of someone's "prime", some girls can look like shit at 19, and some women look great in their 40s. Anyway, I doubt you want to date a guy who considers that a girl is "past her prime" at 25. is there anything I can do to improve my odds of success? Just like everyone else - take care of yourself.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/04/22 02:36 PM
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A lot of guys PEOPLE are dumb, like they have nothing going on in their brain. Just replace "girls" with "guys" in your text and you will get your average PPD post by some bitter dude.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 06:20 PM
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TL;DR: sex work is work; most women do it because they enjoy it; Sure, just the same as MOST people do their jobs because of the sheer enjoyment of the work /s
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 12:28 PM
1

Of course, if you want to drag yourself through a situation like that go ahead. I value my mood higher than 20$ or whatever the cost is to avoid the hassle.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/04/22 08:49 AM
3

What is "our current culture"? Is it your family or friends around you? Or is it twitter and reddit? Surround yourself with people who want to engage in conversations and stop reading bulshit online.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:30 PM
2

watch porn
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:28 PM
5

who sort of talk like men using words like “bruh” and “dude” and dance to trashy vulgar hip hop songs on TikTok. Tell me you are an incel without telling me you are an incel... Who forces you to date girls like this??? Don't force others to change just because you don't like something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 12:19 PM
1

"Why don't you get some rest?" (usually said by someone who knows nothing about fitness who thinks working out 4 times a week is "too much") If you are talking strictly about (natural) bodybuilding then 3-4x is probably the sweet spot and a lot of dudes hitting their arms 6x a week for 35 sets each day are definitely overtraining or at least super-duper inefficient.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 11:42 AM
2

You are clearly gunning for the wrong girls and then complain that they act the way they act.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:59 AM
2

Are you living in Philipines or Vatican city? Everywhere else divorce is an option and now one forces you to stay in a relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/22 09:40 AM
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Don't be upsetti! I'm in my late 20s and I also find first-year uni girls incredibly young/naive/with different interests than me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 02:20 PM
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I get the physical attraction, but I will never understand what ELSE you see in a person who's in her early 20s, while you are in their 40s+. I need more from my relationship than just hot steamy sex. Your average 18-22-year-old hasn't "experienced" the world yet and has a very narrow way of looking at things. Most of them are too naive - which is probably why older men go for them in a hope they can "shape" them in a way they want. ​ Sorry, but a 22-25 year old “college student” is significantl…
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:13 AM
1

And if she refuses to pay after you suggest splitting, you still arrive at the same result.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:05 AM
1

Good for them to date people who I don't want to :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:04 AM
1

For men, being <10¨% body fat will highlight your facial bone structure better, giving your jawline a more defined look and making you overall more attractive, also is good because your muscles will be more toned and you will look more ripped, blah blah blah, give me a number mate. I need to get those 0.31 points back. Presto!
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:03 AM
2

Exactly. Of course, ideally, it should be 0 cents, but we are almost there.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/04/22 09:01 AM
2

Not sure I would want to date a woman who fucks me before we start dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:03 PM
2

Wait, did you even read the article? He says to pay for the first date to weed out bitches from potential partners. Form the article: “So let’s say at the end of the date, you pull out your wallet, you offer to pay and your date just sits there, expecting you to pay, as if that is the obvious course of action. In that moment, what did you just learn?” he questions. “You just learned that the person in front of you is entitled and frankly has the audacity to expect a near-stranger to pay for them…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 03:00 PM
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can you share this statistic? I find it absurd, why then hire men at all if you can get women for less doing the SAME job.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:56 PM
1

Yes, this is the way.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 02:54 PM
1

not just this even men’s and his parents assets could be split up Don't marry someone who doesn't have their own assets.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 01:12 PM
1

Jesus, I just found out that me and my partner differ by 0.31. Is this the end of our relationship? Or, maybe, there could potentially be some other qualities besides looks? Not getting my hopes up though... Btw, how much body fat do you have to lose to go from a solid 5 to a soft 6?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:14 PM
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What you say and how people interpret it are two very different things. Indeed, there are no limits to the stupidity of people... If someone really thinks he's going to find their partner by staying inside and commenting on Reddit then there are bigger problems than interpreting random advice on the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:12 PM
1

"should have no problem landing a woman of equal attractiveness" What does that even mean? That a woman should be excited at the opportunity to land such a dude, who doesn't want to lift a finger in order to establish a relationship? Also, I laugh about the idea that there is such thing as "objective attractiveness"... Yeah, some people are more attractive than others, but you can always find someone who doesn't like them. If a man is told by the vast majority of women he is good looking then he…
/r/PurplePillDebate20/04/22 12:05 PM
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maybe on reddit
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 03:47 PM
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I think you misunderstood the advice. Obviously, you have to be proactive and approach them, have to go out and do stuff to meet people. But don't be desperate to ask out each and everyone of the women in your yoga class - that's desperate and will backfire 100%.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 12:15 PM
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anything other than missionary under the blankets in a dark room is a big no no
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:20 AM
2

What's the formula you are using to establish the rating mathematically??
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:03 AM
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Sorry, not sorry, but if you have serious trouble pursuing women you are not average.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 08:01 AM
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"fair" trades... lol Which agency can I report the "unfair" trades to?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/04/22 07:59 AM
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You can disagree all you want, but even your rhetoric has some underlying issues - talking about some imaginary "levels", somehow believing that you have a "right" to end up with someone if you follow some arbitrary rules, talking about fairness in dating world. How the hell can you even quantify something like that? Great that these kinds of echo-chambers helped you, but in most cases, they just drag the person deeper to misery by "confirming their negative experiences", while not saying a word…
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 07:32 PM
1

Sigh indeed, you present another baseless statement...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 01:30 PM
1

I recall also likening marriage to prostitution also. Because of the exchange of sex for ressources. Not to mention, marital rape isn't considered a crime in most countries, because it's your duty as a woman to have sex with your husband on command. Lol honey, it's time to surround you with better friends/family around you. That is not normal.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/22 08:27 AM
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Yes, I really underestimated how many people just hate the other gender for no reason other than spending the majority of their time in echo-chambers and reading isolated stories about someone doing something shitty.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/22 12:18 PM
0

Good luck mate, if you really think that your girlfriend is just a sex object...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:07 AM
1

Stuff such as “meet through hobbies” and crap doesn’t count Why not? IMHO it is the best way to meet them.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:04 AM
1

you again :) Who are these women who constantly complain about men? Where do you meet them? And why do you care so much?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 09:02 AM
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Where do you live where you can't?? Anywhere in the world. Saying "Men don't owe women attention" doesn't imply anything remotely sexist/whatever-ist and no one would bat an eye if someone said that. It's indicative of equality. If women are able to freely speak on their ideas on male entitlement men should be able to express their ideas as well without fearing job loss. Why can't women keep their statements to themselves and live their own lives?? ha ha, again I have to ask where do you live if…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/22 08:58 AM
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Lol, where do you live if you can lose your work over a statement like that?? Also, why do you need to say it out loud in some public setting and convince some random women? You can just keep to those statements and live your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 03:13 PM
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Yeah, so any speculation about percentages is useless.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:58 PM
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If guys were to say "Men don't owe you attention" or "Women aren't entitled to a man's wallet, energy or resources" many women would complain about how ridiculous this mentality is. But those statements are true. It's your own fault if you can't keep to these "rules" and give in on the first sight of pussy. I mean, it is not like you were forced to enter a relationship with someone who thinks like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:55 PM
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Talking to you, giving you their number or even going on a date doesn't mean anything and any party can pull out of the "relationship" at any point. There is no obligation for ANYONE to be in a relationship. You can't be mad if someone decides to just fuck around, date multiple people or NOT date anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:53 PM
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I don't know anyone who does this. Then again most of my friends are in the academic circles and this would probably be frowned upon if discovered.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:45 PM
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What a fucked up bubble you live in, mate. Try to get a better friend circle.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 02:43 PM
1

Hey guys I missed the last census so I don't know how I'm ranked and I also didn't receive the booklet with all the potential women ranked as well. What can I do to find my perfect looks-match to the closest decimal place?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/04/22 08:42 AM
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If I'm out and about, I don't want others bothering me, because that's not usually (or ever) the reason I go out to do anything. If I want to be social, I have friends for that, or can go to a social event of some kind. If I'm out getting coffee or groceries or even just a beer on my own, I probably don't want to talk to some random. Pretty sure I can count the number of worthwhile conversations I've had with random people on one hand, and like, half those times were on flights. Exactly! I want …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:58 PM
1

Of course, but it's just decent to tell them "hi" if you start to notice them in your hallway.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 04:56 PM
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Why paranoid? It's just my experience, 90% of the time it is a beggar asking for money. Also, don't blow it out of proportion - I didn't say that I'm afraid of my safety, most of the time there is no questioning of safety. Maybe except when some lunatic is shouting and screaming at people. Also, not everywhere in the world it's normal to strike up a conversation with a stranger. I know it's different in USA, but that's not the case everywhere.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:05 PM
2

Good luck on your degree in psychology. Hit me up when I can contact you for a consultation.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 02:02 PM
2

Maybe try reading the second paragraph as well ;) Go ahead and talk to as many people as you want, but leave me the fuck alone. It is exactly people like you who need the constant blabbering and interaction with others to feel better piss me off. I'm fine with interacting with people on my terms, when I want it, within my own friend circle or just staying home with my partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:49 PM
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I don't need to be robbed/stabbed/whatever to somehow justify that I don't want to be approached by strangers. But when I was younger I got approached couple of times by strangers asking some random questions and then proceeding to try to rob me. 90%of time someone has approached me, he's either begged for money, wanted to sell me something, or was just out of his mind/on drugs and just verbally abused me. I don't need that in my life so I ignore most of the random people who want to talk to me.…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:22 PM
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Real life women, "If I'm being honest, I almost never get approached in public and the very, very few times it happened, I was flattered and thought the guy had a lot of courage to make his move like he did". How many real-life women did you poll?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:05 PM
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Yes, there are definitely creeps out there, but shutting down and disengaging or treating everyone as a threat often does more damage to oneself than anyone else. Rather be overly cautious every time, than suffer the consequences of not being cautious enough once.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 12:03 PM
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Haven't you had moments you briefly engaged with a random person about something funny happening? Nop, mind your own business and don't bother me. ​ Say hi to your neighbours? Completely different situation - those are people you know in familiar surroundings so I have no problem interacting with them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:58 AM
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Who decides what is a normal response? I really can't remember a case where someone just approached me on the street and didn't want to sell me something, beg for money or try to rob me. Yeah, maybe one time out of ten it's someone asking for directions. It's not an unreasonable response based on my experience. I don't see a reason to interact with a completely random person - there is nothing to gain there.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:56 AM
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I'm a guy and if a random person approaches me and starts talking I assume he wants to mug me, scam me, or has some mental problems.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 11:13 AM
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If those are the men you attract, then probably you are hanging out with the wrong people or you yourself aren't a catch. No offense on your life choices, but working seasonal jobs also probably is an indicator on what kind of crowd you attract and it's going to be vastly different then say in some academic jobs or white-collar careers. It is also unreasonable to make assumptions that all men/women/dogs are like this or that based on two interactions. Then again, yes, young men are desperate for…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/22 07:12 AM
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Where I grew up I didn't know anyone who's a SAHM. Maybe in really well-off faimilies someone could afford to do that. I wouldn't want to be together with someone who wants to be just a SAHM.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 09:12 PM
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If she doesn't stop seeing all other men after going on a date with you, then she's not into you. Or at least, she's certainly not into you enough that she deserves your commitment. You know that these things can change, right? Maybe after the second date she falls in love with you, maybe after the third, maybe there is never the next date... You do you, but giving up after a first date just because someone isn't completely in love with you is a bit weak.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:40 PM
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Nop, don't care for her reasons. If she wants to wait and he doesn't want to wait, then there is no point to the relationship and they should just split up regardless if she's a virgin or a nympho. They are just not compatible. You should stop measuring up yourself to others dude, it's going to be easier to live. Also, people change, something that they did in the past does not always mean they will do now. It's a learning experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:34 PM
1

Yeah, they can be compatible in different areas, but they are not FULLY compatible like you are saying. Sex is an important part of your relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:33 PM
1

If you choose to stay with her and then cheat then we can't talk about respecting anything there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 07:32 PM
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So you're saying they're not fully compatible simply because he can't get his willy get immediately like he wants. It's exactly what it means. If one person doesn't want to wait a year and the other one does, it means they are not fully compatible. ​ Didn't realize some of you in PPD are okay with objectifying women like this under certain scenarios which aren't exactly black and white How is this even romotely related to objectifying women?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:50 PM
3

Why would it matter? I don't get sex regardless of what she did before.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:47 PM
8

That's the thing kiddo, they are not fully compatible...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:11 PM
2

Don't get together with someone who has a drastically different view on having physical intimacy. Then all the other problems about cheating/sacrificing/whatever just won't be there.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/04/22 01:09 PM
4

The vast majority of guys are average... Impossible!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/22 04:26 PM
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I really don't understand people who scream about them being recorded/ tracked/ whatever by the government/aliens, but don't mind putting their whole lives online and giving basically all their info to a random private company. The same thing with the crying about the comments - don't put your photos for public viewing and expect only nice comments. You CAN block random creepesters from your FB profile, you CAN also block them from contacting you.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:44 AM
1

Keep in mind that no individual is truly selfless? You need a common consensus for that?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:39 AM
1

Majority is the key word here. Not all men are like this but I think very few are geninuely selfless and would put their needs aside for their partner. Who cares? Do you want to preemptively establish biases before you meet an individual?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/04/22 09:21 AM
1

you haven't made a point mate
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 02:38 PM
2

It's not a caricature, it doesn't matter if your mom or our friend tells you you are a 9. It's all subjective and a girl doesn't need to go to a date with you just because she's a 9 too. Or even if she's a 6. The whole rating system is bullshit, it's either you like someone or don't.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:37 PM
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Proving what point exactly? You say it's a fallacy, I say it's a hard pill to swallow.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:15 PM
2

yes, yes, lump everyone together that will show you that you are right!!!
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 01:00 PM
1

He looked at the mirror
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:59 PM
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There is no fallacy. It doesn't matter how you or someone else rates you. If you can't pull a hottie, you are not that great of a catch and probably overestimate how great you are. No one is forced to be in a relationship with anyone, if they think the other person doesn't bring enough to the table they stay single.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 12:55 PM
4

So you yourself have a high n count?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 11:34 AM
1

Only works if you know that your jokes are shit and no-one else is laughing. 100%
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:58 AM
1

yeah, no shit, but that doesn't fit the narrative that all women are sluts and have 100+ partners, but won't sleep with ME. People fixate on a few percent of women who flaunt themselves on ig/of and are objectively very attractive and have a party lifestyle.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:11 AM
1

Do you need to schedule a deposition with both parties' lawyers present? Or can you just drop a bomb during a family dinner and start describing each sexual encounter in chronological order? How do you envision a disclosure like this happening and when?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:07 AM
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Do you start all your conversations with people with "Hey, how many people have you slept with?" I mean, how do you know the n counts of the people around you and why would you need to know them?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:05 AM
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People like that just don't care enough, it's not like they wouldn't want to look better. Or they just don't want to put in the effort. Nowhere I said that it's not a beneficial thing. Haircut/shave alone can drastically change a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 08:01 AM
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Whatabaotthisthatandthis.... Those individuals will become more healthy and have a nicer body composition, so still a massive win. Even if you don't have an amazing facial structure - losing your 3rd and 2nd chin will make your face more attractive. Slimer/lengthier faces in most cases look better than round blobs. What's your solution? Not even try and cry in the reddit comments?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/04/22 07:57 AM
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Exactly, dropping body fat % can really change your face as well, dudes look like models with visible cheekbones and jaw, while previously they were covered in fat and everything just seemed like a big round blob.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:46 PM
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Basically long story short. Try to improve your looks first and foremost. If you have the funds to make yourself look like a 10. Oh man, how did anyone not think of this?!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 05:44 PM
1

So same argument with the women....
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:14 AM
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I think there are some hard lines concerning the political beliefs that are deal-breakers. Probably the biggest problem is when you have to raise a child together and can't agree on how to do it. I don't think that constant arguments make the life more interesting...
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:07 AM
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Unfortunately, none of the guys is mega-rich in my friends' circle, so no marrying up has happened :) Most of them also got together during their studies, when no one was earning any serious money anyway. Also, In my opinion, finding someone who has similar education and income levels is probably one of the most important characteristics to have a successful life together. I would also probably not get together with a girl who doesn't have her finances together, why should I finance someone's li…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/04/22 08:04 AM
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Yeah, max 2 dates, and then you move on. Tbh, I would be surprised if the girl didn't offer to split (or at least pretend to) after the first date even if I insist that it would be my treat. It says a lot about the person/their intentions from the get-go.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:12 PM
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So the expectations are not something outrageus for "normal" people :) ​ Are you exaggerating once again? If someone is not a virgin are they a slut? What do you think is the experience level of a person who's had sex one time?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 03:11 PM
1

Again, why would you date someone who's entitled to that?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:33 PM
-1

Of course, but why would you want to get together with someone who is unhygienic? And what's the big deal about being a virgin?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:32 PM
-2

Is this too much to ask? Taking care of yourself and being financially secure? If you don't care about yourself, why would anyone care about you? And what's why the obsession with virgins?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:26 PM
4

threat to mainstream society lol
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:20 PM
1

What kind of women do you have around in your life? I'm really hard-pressed to find a woman in my friends or family circle, who doesn't work themselves and just leech from their partner. Maybe it's time you re-evaluate your life and the kind of people you associate with?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 01:19 PM
1

There I agree. But I also feel that you can start seeing each other and just do stuff friends would do. There is no need to dish out and go to expensive restaurants and feel awkward.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 12:12 PM
2

Doubt that a guy earning 50k has any assets to lose. Also, don't marry a poor person, who doesn't have their own assets or income.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 10:00 AM
-1

What do you propose instead? Getting married before seeing each other? Isn't being friends the same thing as "see where things go"? You literally spend time together and get to know eachother.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:36 AM
3

Correction - "Doesn't work for most people, who spend excessive time on reddit".
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:34 AM
3

Mate, you are highlighting a few outliers. How many men earn less than 50k a year? Even by earning 100k, I doubt you would drop half of your salary to a glorified hooker.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:29 AM
1

Yeah, I'm paying by spending the time together with my partner lol. If you hate spending time with your partner then what's the point of being together?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:27 AM
2

I hope for the sake of yourself that you are trolling mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:21 AM
1

Yeah, I don't understand why would anyone want a relationship like this. If you talk about "power dynamics" and "saving time" I don't think you need a partner in your life. Sex is great, but there is more to a relationship than just "the sexy woman in raw human form, together intimately". If you want just someone to fuck, then yeah I guess it is not much different than paying for a hooker, but you might get some exclusivity.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/04/22 09:20 AM
1

An even easier way to fix this - don't date.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:43 AM
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There is a multitude of hobbies/classes which are female-dominated. For example, you might not get a lot of women in the free weights section (although in my gym it's almost 50:50 in the evenings), but if you hit a yoga class after your workout it's going to be 90% women.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/04/22 10:21 AM
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Who cares? Do what you want and live with the consequences. There doesn't have to be a consensus about everything in life.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:59 AM
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Nah, fat guys are ok. It's the fat women you gotta watch out for. Yup
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:55 AM
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Mate, you are the one who started dividing based on gender
/r/PurplePillDebate01/04/22 08:31 AM
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Strong disagree, I can think of millions of worse possible advice. For example - kidnap his/her whole family and demand that they go to a date with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:13 PM
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That they weren't dicks when they were alive?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:12 PM
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How can there be unconditional love? If the other person chops off your hand do you still have to love them?
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 01:11 PM
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Yes, you can do whatever and blame whoever, there is no need to justify it to you or anyone esle.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:14 AM
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Tell someone you are a fat guy without telling them you are a fat guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:13 AM
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I don't think anyone doubts that there is a preference for taller men. But the difference of 88% vs 92% is really stretching to draw strong conclusions. As you said, the fact that random pairing already provides 88% of couples to have taller men leaves little room for significant changes. Also, what are the estimated errors for the percentages? Say, someone is lying in the survey or just estimating that the man is taller while they are actually similar in height. I guess some minor deviations of…
/r/PurplePillDebate31/03/22 08:11 AM
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"If it doesn't align with MY views - I call it BS"
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/22 10:15 AM
1

Whatever floats your boat :)
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/22 08:06 AM
3

It depends on what you want to attract - obviously going drinking and clubbing gives you a much higher chance to score a one night stand, but I doubt you would want to be in a long-term relationship with someone who goes out partying 3 days a week.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:53 AM
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If you look at the average basic woman she contradicts this advice in every way possible. There are literally girls whos main interest include eating 🍕 , travel ✈️ , and watching the office 🏢 Why would you do that? Getting a hobby that you enjoy lets you bypass these basic bitches and actually find someone who you are compatible with. ​ If she is really interesting then maybe she will like doing basic shit like going the the gym, cooking and reading. You really overestimate your average person -…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/03/22 08:47 AM
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You really don't see other advantages to relationships besides sex and attraction? Obviously, it's important, but you can't just build your relationship on that.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/03/22 01:28 PM
1

Both characters are womanizers except one is successful and the other is a failure. The difference is in the script for both shows...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 02:00 PM
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Did you read the text? There is no such thing as punching up, if you get them you get them that's it.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/22 10:02 AM
2

To each its own
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:41 AM
3

Yes?! Not sure why you posted this as this agrees with what I said.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 09:40 AM
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This idea has evolved from people who can't get partners and consider themselves to be a great catch. So their only logical explanation why they are single is that women on their level are stuck-up bitches and only date up. HOWEVER, I do believe that there is more success in relationships when people have more in common - say similar education or income levels.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/22 08:49 AM
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Maybe they are "missing out" on some things, but why would it affect maturity? Wouldn't it be the other way around - you are mature enough to settle down and therefore not go through a "hoe phase"?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/03/22 12:16 PM
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The idea is that the woman can make the bad boy settle down and change just for HER. So he will still be spontaneous, passionate, etc., but just for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/22 09:18 AM
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"Mileage" - tell me you are an incel without telling me you are an incel... Is the "milage" counted on the number of times someone has sex? Or just the partners? :) I imagine long term relationships on average have much more sex than occasional one night stands. I mean you are perfectly within your rights to not date someone based on any reason you have be it partners or interests or whatever. But the other person doesn't have any obligation to provide you with an excel spreadsheet about their p…
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/22 10:58 PM
2

People want to prop up as many partners as possible, there's no connection anymore, just pure flicking. Who are these mysterious "people"? Are you one of them?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/22 01:26 PM
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The fact that women are not interested in a relationship with you, doesn't mean they are not interested in them at all.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/03/22 12:46 PM
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What? I said its ridiculous how every relationship is labeled as "settling".
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:32 PM
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Never said they were ugly, just as average as they get. Definitely not your chad material that goes out clubbing and pulling a girl every evening. What I said was that being in the same friend group the girls were not initially attracted to them based on their looks, but by spending more time together and getting to know them they started a relationship. ​ The word "settled" gets thrown out here so much that I have a feeling that the incels feel that every relationship is some kind of power stru…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 05:05 PM
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Sure as hell it happens, guys with good personalities can definitely win over girls that were not initially interested in them just based on looks. Probably half my friends got their girlfriends like that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:58 PM
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If everyone is forced to settle below their "value" then that means that the perceived values were too high to begin with :) The market corrects itself. I really can't wrap my head around that there are people that use terms like "BluePill" and "SMV" unironically... Or that there is an "ideology"...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 03:49 PM
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Hard to be a "bad guy", when the other side is bombing your civilians.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:32 AM
0

This is such a baseless statement, how do you measure who was more silent?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:28 AM
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That's the thing, no sane person does that and no one uses terms like "looksmatch" in the real world. If you like a person then you like them and there is no "fairnes" in that. You don't have to justify that.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/03/22 09:17 AM
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Yes, it's called a personal preference. You can't over/underrate your own preferences...
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 01:06 PM
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How can one under/overrate someone? It's literally how attracted you feel to that person.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 10:02 AM
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2 and 5 are attractive, 1 and 9 are above-average, they look cute, but everyone else is meh, not ugly, but nothing that catches your looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:57 AM
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From the pictures of the guys they really seem unremarkable. I wouldn't say that anyone is particularly good-looking, but on the other hand, none of them is ugly. From the video, it's a bit easier to judge, and probably only two guys would fall into the 7+ category - 3 and 8. Everyone else is 4-5, maybe 6.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/03/22 09:49 AM
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Love how you are just dismissing everything that doesn't align with your views... Real mature mate.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:40 AM
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It just probably says something about you and your friends... My closest friends circle has been in long-term relationships forever. I really don't know any female friends, who were sleeping around a lot even in my uni days. Of course, I know of some acquaintances who have been slutting around, but that's probably why they are just acquaintances - our world views/interests/etc. don't align. But even taking them in account - it's only a few girls, real minority compared to others that didn't do t…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/03/22 10:29 AM
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Are you mental? I couldn't care less about offending someone when wearing a seatbelt. It's not for them it's for me.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 08:07 PM
3

Marriage has very minor benefits in addition to just a relationship - mainly related to law/admin things like tax optimization, questions related to your children and easier processes in the case of some kind of unfortunate events like your partner's death/disabilities, etc.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:37 PM
1

Same thing mate, it's a transactional relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:33 PM
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It's not like the girls in the developing countries are actually sexually/romantically interested in the relationship, it's just another type of gold-digger. She's interested in your money and the possibility to move away from poverty/worse living conditions.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/22 01:51 PM
3

Looking presentable is always for the outsiders
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 01:35 PM
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It should be the norm, everyone should work out so we have a more healthy society.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 11:00 AM
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Join a club - be it a sports club or some social club for your hobbies, where you can meet women. It's a great basis to develop relationships with women - you already have something in common, she sees you in public and doesn't perceive you as a complete stranger and you develop familiarity as you see each other on a consistent basis.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:43 AM
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If your partner shows you affection only if you are all dressed up then it's a sad relationship. If we are talking about couples, then I also want to look good when I go out with my partner, so that I look good next to her and we look like a nice couple. When I'm at home there is no need to "pretend" and we can just chill in Pjs.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 10:40 AM
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How is this a counter-argument? They wear makeup to feel better/more confident by looking better in public, obviously, it doesn't make any sense to wear it at home...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:34 AM
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I work out for myself, but I'm not going to lie that the benefits of an athletic body are also going to increase my attractiveness. If you do something to make you feel better and the added bonus is that it makes you more attractive, why do you have to apologize for it?
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:30 AM
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Good luck living your life following all the trends from social media and not having your own opinions. Grow a pair man and stop giving a fuck about what you see from influencers. I don't understand why would you want to fit in with the culture you don't like - you are only going to find people who aren't going to be compatible with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/03/22 09:27 AM
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You clearly chose the wrong people to be around. My friends circle is almost all in long-term relationships and none of them have been hoeing out. Choose your friends better.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 05:06 PM
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What does "overly" sex-positive mean? Where do you draw a line? Who decides where to draw a line? Don't see how my life changes if someone else sleeps with 10 or 100 partners. I can still have my preferences and not date such a person.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:59 PM
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Ey, not arguing if it's good or bad, just saying that no one is pushing you to sleep with 1, 10 or 100 women. No one has canceled the consequences of your actions whatever they may be. Just stop pretending that people are oppressing you and making you fuck.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 04:44 PM
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Poor you, are they putting you in prison for not wanting to have sex with multiple women/men? Who exactly is pushing you to act that way? You can do whatever and whoever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:58 PM
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Everyone should take responsibility for their choices, not just men. Both people are responsible, why are you so hell-bent on one side? How does one determine if "a man will do that"? Sign a contract before sex? What happens if a dude bails after being married? Should we put him in a prison for not keeping his word? I'd love to live in a world, where I can just opt-out of any responsibilities I don't want and just enjoy life :) Your IQ of 130+ is simply shining in this conversation...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 03:55 PM
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Well, imagine if the person was breaking some traffic rules - you still can't undo the killing. Maybe you will get a more lenient sentence in court, but the moral weight of killing someone will still stay with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:44 PM
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True! You should be aware of the risks everywhere around you ;) If you kill someone by driving very carefully you still can't opt-out of murdering that person...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:30 PM
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Don't stick in the vaj if you are not ready for the consequences.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:25 PM
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Didn't bring abortion to the discussion at any point. You are going waaaaay of tangent again. I have nothing against abortion. Please reply to the questions I asked not bring another imaginary point in the convo. For example, how is the child's life "fucked up" by getting child support? “Just do not have sex” it just doesn’t work. It is why abortion is legal. Oh it definitely does. Apparently, there is only one case in the whole history, when someone got pregnant without sex. And people have dou…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 12:11 PM
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Do you even read what I write? Why did you even bring a single-parent household? Everyone agrees that the kid is better off with two parents. What I am saying is that the kid is better off with two incomes rather than one... It's easy to avoid taking care of a child you don't want - don't have sex. Which is probably not a problem for the wast majority of dudes here anyway. How is forcing someone to pay child's support fucking up the kid's life???? The father isn't forced to interact with the kid…
/r/PurplePillDebate09/03/22 09:33 AM
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Are you mental? Basic math says 1+1=2, obviously, 2 incomes are better than just one for the kid. What different women do with the child-support money is a different story.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/22 04:16 PM
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Otherwise, no male would pay child support after knocking up a random chick.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 06:00 PM
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As soon as there is any interaction - following the profiles or commenting/liking pictures.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 12:16 PM
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There is no rise, it's just an echo-chamber on reddit.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/22 10:26 AM
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Most guys in my commercial gym can't bench 2 plates even though they have been going there for years. Shit, they can't even deadlift 2 plates (not that they are even trying to do that).
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 09:35 AM
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Stop reading these posts then, you live in an echo chamber and each post bashing women will just reinforce this idea. It's not all bad, it's just that people generally are not going to write online a post about how all is good. On the other hand bashing on bad experiences or venting is very common.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/03/22 08:34 AM
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Makes sense, that kind of people attract similar people, and one who can't control themselves will probably engage in more casual sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:32 PM
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Weakness turns everybody off, no one wants to see that. The ability to fight or strength also shows confidence which is definitely sexy. But I don't think violence is something people look for in their partners in general. There is a good chance that violence will spill over and the partner will be the target. Then again there are a lot of domestic abuse victims, who still stay with their abusers. ​ "I’ve seen in street/bar fights women talk down to their guy because he lost and even once saw a …
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 05:29 PM
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tell me you are single without telling me you are single
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:27 PM
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Long-term relationships aren't only about sexual desire. What are you going to do in 10-20 years when your looks start to get worse? Divorce? The only thing is that even if I wouldn't like something about my significant other I wouldn't say it/write it out loud for everyone to hear. There is no need to write the first part of those sentences - just write that your husband is loving, funny or whatever.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 03:26 PM
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It is, but I think with time that kind of burning type of love gets replaced with a different love - one where you just need and enjoy having the other person around you. But in a way it is somewhat conditional after all - I wouldn't stay together with my partner if her life choices were majorly conflicting with mine. Say, she started doing drugs or spending money recklessly etc., I don't think I would want to be together with that person anymore. I think it's only rational to have some limits t…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/03/22 11:04 AM
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Stability and I would also argue that sustaining/getting new casual relationships involve more time/planning/money.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 01:03 PM
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People engage in casual sex, so yeah, by extension also women do it... But definitely not MOST people. Does anyone else choose the ugliest person for sex? Is attractiveness the only trait you search for in your future partner???
/r/PurplePillDebate24/02/22 08:45 AM
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Sure thing buddy, women would love to have no say. While we are back at it, maybe revoke their rights to vote as well. Everyone would be happier :)
/r/PurplePillDebate21/02/22 08:38 AM
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So force women back into marriages?
/r/PurplePillDebate20/02/22 08:47 PM
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Bravo
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:59 PM
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Apparently, there have been only about 100 cases reported in the medical literature, ever!!! You can't be serious to base your argument on such a negligible outlier.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/22 03:26 PM
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find better friends mate
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/22 06:50 PM
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fit guys they fuck make fun of their looks after Yeah, not sure that counts as win kiddo. You are the one who fucked an ugly chick, if you laugh about her looks afterward it doesn't make your "conquest" better.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/02/22 08:52 AM
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Social skills are something one should pick up naturally and not read a book on "How to act around women?".
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 04:13 PM
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Okay for whom? The girl that gets the money, the guy who loses the money? Society in general? This sub is just full of questions that are searching for the ultimate truth that everyone agrees with. It depends! If the guy knows the girl is with him only for the money does it hurt anyone? If a girl manipulates guy to marry with the sole purpose of getting money after divorce, then probably it's not "okay" for the guy...
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:09 PM
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Everyone should try to lift up everyone, doesn't cost much to be a nice person.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 12:01 PM
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Why does there have to be consensus about if it's right or wrong to care? We are individuals with the right to choose if that bothers us or not.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 09:06 AM
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Is there a basis for this statement? Maybe you feel that way because you spend most of your time on Reddit echo-chamber, where men, who can't get a partner try to rationalize their inability to do so and hence find fault in women. And before you start attacking me, I would prefer a woman, who didn't have a lot of partners in the past.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/02/22 08:59 AM
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Read it for the first time - the KISS seems to be very reasonable statements that basically everyone should follow. But oh my, why are there so many acronyms and terms, why the need to label everything? Also I don't see how a healthy relationship can emerge if one follows the "1st Rule of Relationships: In any relationship, the person with the most power is the one who needs the other the least". You don't want a partner, you just want to have power over another individual.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:29 AM
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So if I tell you that my experience is different, then you will change your point of view or just dismiss it? Why did you waste your time on women like that?
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 09:06 AM
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It's a pity that you have such an experience, but I highly doubt it's exclusive to one gender. Some people, regardless of whether it's a man or woman, are just inconsiderate and selfish.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/02/22 08:32 AM
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I wouldn't consider a relationship with someone, where this was not true.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:23 PM
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But surely you could find something that both of you enjoy for a date? Going to a movie theater or ice skating or whatever. If only one person has to "concede" and go to picnics even though he doesn't like it that's not cool at all. But say, you go to a picnic with your partner, and then she returns the favor by going to a basketball game with you it makes a nice dynamic. The thing you might not enjoy (picnic) so much gets better because you spend time with someone you like, while the thing you …
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:21 PM
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Or it could be the other way around, I just got extraordinarily lucky with my experiences and more pessimistic view is actually more accurate :)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:18 PM
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I think you are talking about dating, like actively courting the other person, while I'm talking about the aftermath of it when yous settle down with a person. Yeah, dating period for sure is dump of your time and money, with small chances to get anything meaningful back.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 03:10 PM
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Don't get into a relationship with a nagging woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:56 PM
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Huh, so you don't like spending time with that person if you feel that you would rather spend that time somewhere else? Then I don't see the point of being in a relationship with that kind of partner.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:55 PM
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I think there is some weird over glorification/fantasy of virgins. Or I should probably say promiscuous/nymphomaniac that saves herself for this one dude... That's probably the incel fantasy.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:30 PM
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Like I said, if both are working and contribute equally then money pooled together is definitely a financial gain for both persons. If one person is free-loading, then that's a different story. Yeah, I consider "serious" relationships so living together is assumed Again, if both persons contribute then say house chores can be done 50% faster, or instead of cooking dinner every evening, now you could cook every other day and let the other person cook on the other days. There is not much differenc…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 01:23 PM
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Your "average" woman can easily enhance their looks by makeup, hairstyle etc. and be considered conventionally attractive. Man, half of the Instagram thots would not be considered attractive if they didn't wear makeup, push-up bras, didn't bleach their hair and didn't photoshop the shit out of their pictures. Your preconception of the hotties is screwed by the fact that their beauty is at least partially enhanced/fake. So no, the bottom 80% are not condemned to be ugly or low value.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:40 PM
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The benefits of a relationship are much more than love and sex. From a practial poitn of view, assuming both people work and contribute equally you get: lower living costs, higher purchasing power, more time/hands to deal with problems. And in general, you just get a person who enjoys spending time with you.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:33 PM
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It's a mix of things, but I think the main one is social media. The constat comparing yourself to others, the unrealistic expectations (both look-wise and money) that you take from "fake" posts really drive your expectations to insane levels. Also the general culture shift, that everyone DESERVES anything they want even though they don't fight for it and some kind of victim mentality also disrupts the "normal" outlook on life. Finally, people live in echo chambers, where their ideas can't be cha…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 12:30 PM
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So who's forcing you not to change your standards and criticize others outside of those Reddit communities? Those subreddits are made with a specific idea in mind and they don't want/need to discuss or change their views. The same as you won't go to a football subreddit and start dissing football and say that ice hockey is better and they shouldn't talk about football here....
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 11:00 AM
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Say the girl got sexually active at 17 and is now 27, then 30 partners means just 3 guys per year. Yeah, there are some questions why hasn't she been in a LTR, but the number is not that high tbh. Definitely better than the OF girl, don't understand the obsession of someone being a virgin.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/02/22 09:19 AM
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Completely agree, also all the relationship drama and divorces seem to be more common or at least more "televised" on social media. On the other end of spectrum, people with higher education (and MOST likely higher socioeconomic status) have lower divorce rates.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:37 PM
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You are talking about something completely different from what I was saying. All I said in my original post was that you don't have to force your opinion to be universally accepted. Some people don't care about body count and some will care, you can't persuade the other side that your opinion is somehow more or less valid than theirs. It's just the personal preference of an individual. You don't have to explicitly discuss your past relationships, you or your partner are not obligated to disclose…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 04:30 PM
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I'm happily in a relationship, thanks! What are you on about? You don't need to write an essay to your date about all your preferences. You date that person and see if you are compatible or not. If you establish that she has a high body count and you don't like it then you have all the rights to end that relationship. No one is forcing you to stay with someone who you are not compatible with. How is this an issue of communication????
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 02:16 PM
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Do you scream that out on the top of the building and then they insult you? I mean, you are under no obligation to disclose your preferences at any point, you can just act on them.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 01:21 PM
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Why does everyone have to come to some ultimate agreement? Some men won't care about the past, while some men will care about the past. It's just one thing between million of others that will determine if the relationship will survive or not. Why do you feel the need to convince someone one way or another?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/22 11:46 AM
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I always wonder in what kind of friend circles people like you are hanging out or is it just all a fantasy you build up by spending too much time on the internet? In my friend circle no women are selling themselves on internet or are dating older men just for the money. Actually, most of them are in long term relationships with "normal" guys, not ugly losers, but your average guy who has their life together. Of course there are women who have OF, or do escort services, but I doubt it is such a b…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/02/22 05:29 PM
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I would never date a girl, who has a friend or friends like that. It just means she has no ideas of her own and if every aspect has to be approved by her friends that's just sad.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/22 04:10 PM
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but every single bodybuilding subreddit or forum I've seen talk about this concludes that huge traps and the quintessence of an aesthetic body, Yeah, because they are on juice and traps have a very high concentration of androgen receptors, hence they grow faster than other muscles. So this "drawback" now needs to be remade into something positive, essentially people are just deluding themselves.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/02/22 06:05 PM
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Good for you. Like I said, each situation can be different and we are not all the same. But when I'm (late 20s) interacting with freshmen (~18-19) in university, then I feel that there is quite a gap between our interests and I'm not that interested to keep up a convo.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:18 PM
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Do you really want to date a woman who agrees to "meet in the middle"? What's the point of being in a relationship, where at least one of the persons doesn't want to be there?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:15 PM
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There are men who look better as they mature. Plus, you can't discount the money, maturity and confidence older men have. Also, 31 is definitely not old anymore, as long as you keep yourself in shape.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:10 PM
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Did you read my previous comment? I said besides looks/sex. I don't berate anyone, you can have sex or date whomever you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 04:07 PM
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Are you for real asking the first question? If you like doing the same things that means you can do them together, so you can spend some quality time together. If, for example, she wants to go out to clubs on weekends, but you already had your share of clubs while young and rather go on a hike on weekends mean there is some incompatibility. I just find it a little bit odd that you would have similar interests with a person who's 10 years younger than you and in a different stage of her life. But…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 02:36 PM
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If you just do it for the looks/sex then sure. But do you REALLY have things in common with the 18-year-old?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:57 PM
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First case. There is definitely a huge difference going from high school to college age. Just a completely different worlds for both of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 01:54 PM
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Why would you ever want to be in a relationship like this? I don't see any positives in a relationship, where you have to manipulate the other person into doing something you want. That just leads to fake interactions and probably resentment from one or both sides.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:19 AM
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I always had the issue about "love someone for their personality and not looks" statement and getting fat. If you get fat it's probably a nice indicator that your values/ personality/ interests have changed. Either you don't want to do anything active, or your diet gets worse, or you don't care about your health etc. In MOST cases you don't become fat by doing the same things you were doing again, so there is some negative change in your life.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/22 09:07 AM
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Processing fee and shipping/handling, ahaha, guy's got a sense of houmor.
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