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PARENTINGkristmastree/r/RedPillWomen07/04/20 10:47 PM
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ADVICEkristmastree/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 03:37 AM
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DISCUSSIONkristmastree/r/RedPillWomen01/07/20 07:41 PM
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I would never.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/22 10:40 PM
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I told my husband I loved him first. We were 3 months into our relationship. His response was that he was getting there, but that he wasn’t ready to say it just yet. I was heartbroken but even back then he was the most committed man I have ever encountered, so I decided to be patient. A month later, he organized a surprise date at a fine dining restaurant I wanted to check our for ages and said it, also explaining that he didn’t want to say it before he knew we’d get married. Point of the story:…
/r/RedPillWomen02/04/21 07:16 AM
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I think you need to have a long, mature conversation about it. You should explain where you’re coming from and set expectations for the future. My husband and I have a joint bank account and then I leave 10% of my earnings as my own money. I do it (a) as a safety net, (b) for my frivolous purchases he doesn’t necessarily need to know about (or gifts for him). I would certainly apologize for hiding that bank account from him, because that must have been hurtful.
/r/RedPillWomen25/01/21 02:07 AM
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I would have probably gotten bored of my husband if we had sex early on. I didn’t lose interest and I enjoyed being purused and I was a little confused he wasn’t initiating it. Took us 11 dates, but was well worth the wait and I fell for him in the process.
/r/RedPillWomen19/01/21 02:00 AM
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Been there, done that (then married someone great). I think you need to move on and find someone who will respect you. Your frustration is completely valid and you won’t change this guy, even if it were worth it.
/r/RedPillWomen01/01/21 03:10 PM
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This is such an American thing I accepted in college, but never fully understood. It took my husband and I 11 dates to discuss it. Once we did, though, it became very serious, very quickly. To be fair, neither of us saw other people after the 3rd date, but we didn’t “label” it yet.
/r/RedPillWomen28/09/20 01:14 PM
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That’s a great approach if you ask me!
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 03:27 PM
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I’m lucky to be in a marriage where my husband supports my professional goals in a similar way (both in the legal industry). I think it’s beautiful for your partner to empower you to achieve whatever you set your mind to: be it being a wonderful mother, or a partner in BigLaw. People have different dreams and that’s okay. Unpopular opinion, but: if you’re a woman who wants to excel professionally, you need a husband who will actively support your career or you’ll have to stay single.
/r/RedPillWomen23/09/20 02:24 PM
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It depends. My first major relationship was with someone who was 8.5 years older than me (started when I was 21 and ended just before I turned 24). It brought a little bit of a power imbalance, and I felt like he was there to instruct me and guide me. There were a lot of fun moments because he’s young at heart, but I think it didn’t work partly because I was too young to know myself fully and to have the confidence that I do now. I then met my husband (who is my peer) and I loved being in the sa…
/r/RedPillWomen21/09/20 11:44 AM
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Three months now. 😊
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 07:40 PM
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I’m married now, actually! Thank you! Glad you resolved it!
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 07:06 PM
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I only ever posted a photo with my partner after we got engaged.
/r/RedPillWomen18/09/20 06:36 PM
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“I’m allowed to pick who I want near my child”. Of course you are, but what people are explaining to you is that you should’t enforce that right in a rude and inconsiderate manner.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 01:30 PM
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Maybe instead of being so defensive, you should accept what people have been saying. You asked for advice after all.
/r/RedPillWomen16/09/20 10:33 AM
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I’ve been dealing with mental illness and feeling less worthy because of it, but that doubt only pushes you away from fixing the issue. There is no shame in wanting to work on yourself. Getting help is good. It makes you a proactive, confident and open-minded RPW wife who can take care of herself well and therefore of her family, too.
/r/RedPillWomen28/07/20 08:12 PM
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Disagree. A man will marry you for who you are, not who you promise to be. You should act like you’re in the position you want to be.
/r/RedPillWomen23/07/20 09:06 PM
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Praying for you and your family. My sincere condolences.
/r/RedPillWomen21/07/20 03:05 PM
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I have that dealbreaker as well. I had an awful experience with an ex of mine who was so close to his ex girlfriend that I drew a sharp line moving forward. My now husband doesn’t stay in touch with any of his exes. Clean and respectful breaks, but no contact.
/r/RedPillWomen18/07/20 09:48 PM
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I surely see myself as a feminist and I follow RP principles. I always saw feminism as an ideology that gave me choice and an ideology that would allow me to succeed professionally based on my merits. I also realize that RP is not for everyone— my mother being the first! — so I wouldn’t want women to be forced into some notions of femininity and ideal relationships they don’t deem suitable for themselves. I think the “no feminism” rule relates to preaching about the dangers of RP approach and tr…
/r/RedPillWomen13/05/20 11:38 AM
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So, I’ve been doing Rebecca Louise’s videos for 4 years now (I started pretty chubby) and they’re magic. I love how hard she pushes me at times. Try the “35min Full Body Workout” and “How to Lose Arm Fat”. I also used the Couch to 5k app when I first started running and enjoyed it. But, it all starts with your diet. Exercising is only 20% of what you look like— eating healthy and in moderation is key. I eat very little meat, no processed food and a lot of raw veggies and fruits (10 servings a da…
/r/RedPillWomen03/05/20 02:45 PM
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You don’t have to be malicious to make an unnecessary comment that will end up hurting your partner. Complimenting weight loss and thinness can easily be interpreted as criticism of the status quo or whatever came before the weight loss. Sometimes, that can be appropriate, if there are health reasons involved. But otherwise, it’s not something I’d like to hear from my boyfriend.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 08:00 PM
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Baked turkey, ricotta & spinach meat balls served with whole wheat spaghetti and marinara.
/r/RedPillWomen26/04/20 07:54 PM
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We celebrated our 6 months anniversary with homemade cookies and milk in a bubble bath (neither of us drink, so wine was not an option). It was pretty cute and I had a lot of fun.
/r/RedPillWomen14/04/20 12:15 AM
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This is something my roommate and I discussed so much in the past month as we were figuring out our relationships. I’d say: religion and whether he’d want it to be part of children’s education, ideal weekends (in the city, brunching with friends versus nature, alone), importance of travel or other major hobbies that influence how you spend your vacations/ free time (read: the time you actually spend together!), level of closeness you wish to maintain with extended family, budgeting (like will yo…
/r/RedPillWomen06/04/20 09:31 PM
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Thank you for this! I needed some frankness because I’m coming to terms with a split in the making.
/r/RedPillWomen30/03/20 05:47 PM
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That sounds great! Whenever I frame my arguments in a “it’ll help your business” way, he concedes. How would you go around encouraging him to cultivate strong male role models without making it sound like a criticism of his masculinity?
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 05:39 PM
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You have the right to make that choice for yourself, but that’s not what I’m looking for and I was upfront about that from the start.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 01:02 AM
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Update: I brought this up in a gentle way. I told him I’m concerned for his well-being and he said he doesn’t have any underlying troubles, but he’s always anxious about small things and thinks it’s best if he spoke to a therapist about developing healthy coping mechanisms. He agreed with my assessment of the situation, wasn’t defense and was overall very mature and constructive. I hope he develops resilience, both for the sake of our relationship, and his own interests.
/r/RedPillWomen21/02/20 12:58 AM
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Thank you so much! I’ve been reconsidering things, of course, but it feels wrong to come to a conclusion without having tried to tell him my concerns and offer him a chance to work on this, if he deems it suitable.
/r/RedPillWomen20/02/20 03:55 AM
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I think Betty is a deeply unhappy woman, who is unable to change as the World around her does. I also think she is not a great mother, especially to Sally. Yes, she's beautiful and maintains a great household, but ultimately, she does not lead her family into a fulfilling life.
/r/RedPillWomen04/08/19 01:38 PM
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I just think that staying with this man and not continuing your education would make it impossible for you to readjust in case he’s not in your life anymore, without suffering terrible consequences in the future. You think that won’t happen to you, but it might. I was raised in a traditional Eastern European family and still my grandfather used to tell me this everyday: “Your eduction comes first. Your degree is not just a piece of paper. You marry only after you’re done with university”. And my…
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 09:57 PM
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I often feel the need for it, too. Especially if my partner would comment on attractive girls in front of me. I'd just want him to make such comments about me, no matter how objectifying they'd be.
/r/RedPillWomen13/07/19 08:57 PM
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These two dishes are very simple, always turn out amazing, and everyone seems to enjoy them: ​ Garlic Butter Shrimp and Quinoa 8 Minute Pantry Dal
/r/RedPillWomen30/06/19 07:58 AM
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I serve my meals by saying: “please be served”. I try to keep my manners impeccable.
/r/RedPillWomen26/06/19 02:31 PM
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I went to a hairstylist and paid her to teach me how to blow dry. After a couple of lessons, I perfected it. And it only takes me half an hour (extra long hair).
/r/RedPillWomen24/06/19 06:47 PM
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When I first started dating Captain, he was always paying at restaurants I could only dream of affording (I was still in college, and he had a high paying job). Every time I’d offer, he’d return my money and jokingly say he’d only accept 8 dollar bills from me. So I photoshopped an 8 dollar bill and wrote him a thank you note. He found it really sweet and two years later, he still keeps it. I think it’s important for a man to take the bill most of the time. To feel like I’m contributing (and cau…
/r/RedPillWomen22/06/19 06:19 PM
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I do needle-less mesotherapy once a month and I think it helps a lot. Facial massages help, too.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 01:21 PM
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I've been working on this for months. I tried having a softer voice while intimate with the Captain, cause he finds it arousing. Then, I started paying attention to the way women with soft voices speak. I'd make effort to imitate such voices when I was alone, and see which one suits me most, before slowly incorporating it in my daily life. I still have a harsher voice when I don't pay attention to how I speak, but I am getting there.
/r/RedPillWomen21/06/19 01:17 PM
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I never faked it with my ex cause he was great, but I did fake it before. I'd mostly be when I get bored and just want to get it over with. A couple of moans would help a guy cum and I'd just leave without the awkwardness of suddenly standing up and being "bye".
/r/PurplePillDebate29/03/19 05:29 PM
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