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Field Reportkrohlm/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 12:31 PM
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Red Pill Theorykrohlm/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:10 AM
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Because she's using her weakness as a weapon. Attempting to restrain me knowing I can't use my far superior strength against her. Knowing if I did I'd be straight to the slammer with the cops patting her little head about how brave she is. Its something I will always lose my shit over because its typical feminist "We all equal guys, I can do anything you can do cause I'm a gurl! But dont hit me, I'm a gurl!"
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:21 AM
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I actually answered this in another comment. which seems to have disapeared. I sent her a text as a "by the way". I dont remember the exzact wording. I'm very upfront with women about the fact that I'm spinning plates and not offering a relationship and I'm seeing others. Some get miserable over it but many women dont. The answer I often hear is along the lines of "o great! so many guys get all clingy after you have sex with them" blah blah. I dont hide the fact from them I just tell them early …
/r/TheRedPill19/01/15 08:15 AM
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My suggestion: Goto a dance class. I'm serious. Lets see whats in your favour here: 1) Not many men dance and bitches love dancing 2) You will be paired up with people to dance with by the instructors 3) The ratio of males to females is massively in your favor because most of the dudes there are beta dudes with their girlfriends or they learning to dance for their wedding. There is no shortage of single women however. 4) You'll learn a very valuable social skill which makes you alot more interes…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 08:25 AM
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When my dad got divorced for the second time thanks to a cheating bitch the only thing I did was fuel his anger. Pain and self pity are the stage he will hit first.. get him past that as fast as possible. Get him fucking furious. How dare she?! When he's mad enough to chew through iron have him start to hit the gym with you. Women (through rejection or the crap you describing) are responsible for creating more body builders than anything else. Use whatever excuse you can and have handy ("We'll s…
/r/TheRedPill16/01/15 07:55 AM
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No not really. I'm about 14% but haven't measured in a while. I gym hard 2x a day every second day (a post for another day on if that's healthy or not). I met Lisa at a dance class and she's been dancing for years. She runs and is fairly fit. Rachel has a little puppy fat I guess but honestly not muuch. I'd say she needs to lose about 5 or 6 kgs and do weights.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:06 PM
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I'm 30. Extra words added here to keep the bot happy.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:01 PM
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I'm against LTRS for alot of reasons which may as well require a post on its own.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 07:00 PM
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I don't remember exactly. I'm very upfront about friends with benefits and I mention this to girls before I meet them or very soon in the encounter. They know I'm not exclusive. So it was more of a "by the way" kinda comment.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:32 PM
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I'm half tempted to not answer cause uglier dudes than me have much better game.. go look at the birds charlie manson had as character testifiers at his court case to give you a an idea. I'm 180 cm, 88kgs at roughly 14% body fat. Earning is relative rather than absolute. I have a nice 2 bedroom apartment with a decent view. What works more in my favor is interests (cooking dance and painting mostly) and sense of humor. O and I use my intellect to run circles around girls heads.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:28 PM
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Join fetlife. Look up people and groups in your area. Attend parties. Find what you enjoy and then master the fuck out of it.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 06:25 PM
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I'm just describing a situation I found myself in. I was actually looking for feedback to how I held frame as this was the first true "frame attack" I've experienced. It look nearly all of my willpower to not break down and apologise and swear loyalty.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:38 PM
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Not really. All I did was kiss 2 girls and observe a few plays. I didn't partake in anything. I met alot of people and shook alot of hands. I'd think anyone there simply thought I am in a poly relationship
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 04:36 PM
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As I hold you in such high esteem I'm gonna take your advice and let her go. I'm not triad enough to go much further honestly now that you've dropped me that insight. I need to drop you a mail about another issue I'm currently dealing with. Edit: side note, I must admit, I never thought I'd see the day you felt sorry for a chick.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 02:18 PM
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I agree and disagree in some ways. This period is about sorting out the long term goals. Saving to BUY your own pad. Making sure your carreer is tight and get your hobbies and interests going well underway. Social circle isn't that hard to repair. Goto meets for whatever your hobbies are. To pickup girls, approach anywhere and everywhere. Use tinder as a crutch if you need to pickup something to keep you going to the next thing. DO SOMETHING EPIC. In my case its iron man. You are at a unique sta…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:44 PM
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Its nothing new for me. I'm weary about getting over excited about crap like that because it becomes the foundation for a pedestal. Also que entitlement feels about how "I learnt all this stuff for you" etc. I still find it hard to look someone in the eye and effectively tell them "Yeah you doing everything you can but no its not enough for me. Goodbye."
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:32 PM
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Not really, this is just the first time I got frame tested really hard. Spinning plates is easy. TRP in relationships/marriage is alot more difficult.
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 01:16 PM
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What FLFTW16 says is true http://www.irishmirror.ie/female/sex-relationships/startling-dating-graphs-reveal-what-4194587 There is a source for you, study done by okcupid. The fact that I'm thirty does not mean I'm trying to pickup girls my age. I'm going for 22 to 25. I dont compare you to other thirty year olds. I instead compare you to girls fresh from varsity starting in their carreers who are fun and bubbly. Older women I have found are jaded and less enthusiastic about themselves. They have…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 10:09 AM
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This is gonna vary from guy to guy on this sub. So I'll give you some of my own perspective. A relationship at its core is a value exchange. Lets talk Value. I'm 30, I have a carreer and not a job. I earn well and I'm studying further to improve my potential in this field. I gym. 7 times a week (cardio one day, cardio and weights the next) as I train to do Ironman in 2016. Why? well why not. I am what we know here as a MWTOW plate spinner. In socially polite terms this means I do "friends with b…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/15 08:45 AM
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"She's the coolest girl ever, sex every day, cooks for me does my laundry" Yeah because she knows he is way out of her league. This is why I stick to 7s. I've been told I'm a 9 (carreer/looks/cool batchelor pad/sophisticated/cool hobbies). 8s tend to be work, 9s need alot more dread to get them to work as plates and 10s are so damn insecure and a total emotional rollercoaster. The way I see it is as follows: ever noticed the overweight guy is often a totally "cool" guy and you enjoy spending tim…
/r/TheRedPill17/10/14 07:37 AM
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Freezing and thawing sperm probably doesn't result in the highest quality sperm. You might be better off with naturally produced sperm at age 37 than sperm that has been frozen for 15 years. Can confirm this. Its the first thing I was told when I had sperm frozen. I got myne frozen because I had a vasectomy
/r/TheRedPill16/10/14 01:07 PM
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I'd agree with g4zda but add to that. After getting alpha fucks, she looks for beta bucks. Read up on Tomassi's writings on menstration and the effects of what guy she's looking for at different times in her cycle. After getting some alphaish (no idea how alpha your vibes are) vibes she thinks she's had her fun, time to cash in that SMV for whatever beta bucks she can find.
/r/TheRedPill14/10/14 09:15 AM
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This is a very easy question to answer: The difference is how attracted the person judging you is. If she's very attracted, then you are confident, good looking and strong. If she isn't attracted, then you are arrogant, vain and a meat-head or steriod freak.
/r/TheRedPill13/10/14 09:27 AM
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Can confirm. I'm a MGTOW, plate spinner myself. Life full of hobbies and lifting 10x a week (2 workouts a day), studying, will be buying a bike in December and start sky diving with the intention of becoming a base jumper. Can you see me in LTR doing so much? I just spin plates and have 2 girls over on weekends but nothing long term or exclusive (they all know this)
/r/TheRedPill07/10/14 07:22 AM
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I agree with this sentiment.. Flirt like crazy with her. Wink etc, when you are alone do light kino. Escalate from there.
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 02:33 PM
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The Manipulated Man by Esther Vilar. Go read this. It contains a lot of important insights for you on things you are overlooking in regards to women. she is not very good looking (max potential 5-6), she is not very smart (book-wise or world-wise), not great in bed (but 100% willing), not particularly industrious, and her interests don't really go further than children and Harry Potter Then get her up to her max potential. You see yourself as a 7? well women date up. A womens love is based on ad…
/r/TheRedPill04/10/14 07:36 AM
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I've never been afraid to walk away but what always annoys me is when they frame test knowing the result is bad either war. I made my position clear the last time you throw a 3 year old tantrum. I told you what would happen if you did it again and you've done it again. I'm out now, good bye. My best example would be blocking doors not letting me past (Wait! No! Please hear me out! O god please don't go!). This really ticks me the fuck off. I made it very clear that trying to block my way is cowa…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:19 PM
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I think you have misinterpreted "holding frame". Holding frame mostly applies to LTRs. Its where you put down disrespectful behavior and lay down the law. She throws a fit because she doesn't want to do X. You tell her "no" and maintain your position. You do not bend, compromise or change your position. Your answer remains no, no matter how much she cries victim, threatens you, says your dick is small you maintain your frame and do not budge an inch. After she's tried every trick she has from cr…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:09 PM
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Fair enough. Simply knowing her past behavior and that sex CAN cause a UTI and her not seeing the guy for 5 months is enough evidence for me to believe the chances of her having cheated are massively high. It might not be the only source of getting a UTI sure.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 10:13 AM
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The thing about UTIs in females of repro-age is that they are often from having sex. She said she didn't fuck that dude cause she had a UTI, that might be true, but there's a good chance she banged another guy to get to that point This. Take a good look at the truth. She was never loyal to you. 5 Months? Think about it. This chick sounds like a bag of serious hormones, do you think she stayed celibate for 5 months?
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 08:03 AM
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The bad thing is I still like her ... and deep in my fucking heart I want to be with her no matter what. But then I think to myself "I will never again get the taste of her like in the past so fuck this, she doesn't make me happy anymore... you just need to let go buddy". This shit is hard, we know this. To get over her is actually alot easier than you realize, you need to fuck someone else asap or else you will dwell on it and your rational brain will be crippled to where you trying to find way…
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:59 AM
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I cant see this picking up, for simply one reason. Joining that dating app as a guy is already a massive show of low value. Women will just complain how terrible the guys on there are and go back to tinder.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:51 AM
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There are some others I use as well that don't seem to be mentioned. I put my hand on my jaw and tap my cheek area while thinking about something else completely. I'll then throw a one line answer. Roll your eyes. Bonus points if you say "ok, I'm gonna have to roll my eyes at that comment" and then do it. Head tilting, tilt your head to the right for bullshit that means nothing to you, to the left if its interesting and far to the left if you skeptical.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 07:10 AM
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You! Go Read 48 laws of power RIGHT NOW! Its gonna make a lot more sense after that and you can begin playing their games right back at them and with them. If you aiming for high corporate you better learn that crap and become VERY good at it.
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:47 AM
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Its the female equivalent of "leagues". It goes something like this: I will never get with a ripped, fit, hot doctor.. O mighty, hamster! I ask you for the answer!.. Spinning, please await rationalization solution Right, so from now on I'm gonna claim to be a chubby chaser who likes guys with some extra weight. O and I don't like guys who are too brainy anyway. They don't show respect to other people. So I cant get a hot doctor because I am not attracted to them! Thanks hamster!
/r/TheRedPill03/10/14 05:43 AM
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Show higher value by not giving a shit about them... Consider the following: With all their beta orbiters and white knights.. if you dated one they can turn your ENTIRE office against you if it goes sour (and probably will). Date girls out of work, be social as hell with all the guys in your office and date women out of the office. Get abundance mentality.. if you are fucking hotter women than these at your office then they don't matter. If they try get you to do shit, refuse. You are not a nice…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:45 PM
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What I do is put out my hand boldly for a handshake. They take it and I step closer and kiss their hand saying "Hi plate, how are you?", keep REALLY strong eye contact and speak slowly, hold her hand close to your face when you do this. If you gonna do this though, make sure you grip her hand quite hard cause she may half panic. DO NOT BOW when you do this. When your gesture comes across just know the next few lines of convo will be about if you are a gentlemen. I suggest try different things an…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:33 PM
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I would rather struggle every day and appreciate what I've earned than become complacent and slip into weakness. In other words you'd rather stay a man than become a women?
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:23 PM
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MGTOW needs to write a massive letter of thanks to women in general for swelling their ranks into the millions. Give it a year.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 05:06 PM
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Well played plate, well played. This goes through my head often when my plates pull something that's very Machiavellian. I tend to throw these right back as well. Plate calls "I cant make it tonight because of X reason" (Last time we spoke she hinted she's seeing a new guy she really likes, it didn't work cause I told her "That's great! Go for it! Do you need some advice?") Me: Thank god! An old high school ex is in town and there was no other time I could have caught up with her. Her: O.. um.. …
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 04:45 PM
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In a physical relationship? I caused tremendous shit with my ex when I actually did LTRs by saying "Well my commitment is alot more precious than your sex. Why should I marry you? What are you doing to earn it?"
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:58 PM
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Lets say I owned the house or was the person whose name was on the lease. I then have a female roommate who pays me rent, and I issue a receipt to her every month. Sometimes my female roommate and me fuck or do things together. I'm not in Canada but I was in a similar situation and so I'm curious to this as well. I eventually had to get her to move out after the lease expired because she was constantly cock blocking. Other thing I want to ask, do courts care if your relationship was never exclus…
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 03:00 PM
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Like at my own job. We don't have any female "leads" and this one bitch keeps bringing it up (even though her, herself is chronically late, lazy and underperforming) so they plan on just promoting a girl who has been there for 2 months because there are no other women that Aren't fuck ups. This is where women fuck up. You entering a world of men where respect is earned based on merit. You want to be promoted PURELY on gender and you wonder why men don't respect you? get real.
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:36 AM
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Even so, the judge believed that they were the victims. No matter what I said or did You can add this line to her "general thinking" pattern. Seems we have a good judge on our hands haha!
/r/TheRedPill02/10/14 07:32 AM
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It comes down to the unicorn doesn't exist. It never did and it definately never will. AWALT I cant go into a date thinking "well honestly she's just another hamster spinning tart who thinks she is worthy of everything I have to offer that I've earned through blood and sweat by virtue of her golden vagina". Then I wont bother.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:16 PM
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As much as we laughing about this and the sheer stupidity of it... Its going deeper than this. How far are we from needing to ask consent from a women to look at her? We gonna walk around with Que-cards asking "do I have your permission to talk to you?". If you live in a feminized country... now might be the time to start saving and making exit plans. Its getting beyond stupid.
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 02:09 PM
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Every morning I wake up and thank god for creating betas. This.... If every guy was alpha,high value and in charge of their shit.. I'd have a MUCH harder time dating women (or I'd have to date lower value.. ergh..). A quote from my dad (who's purple pill): "If you not the best of the bunch, then no-one gives a shit."
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 12:58 PM
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My honest answer to you is... SMV is determined by more than just looks. A women's looks determine how attractive she is to men and her place in society, A man's place in society determines how attractive he is to women. As you assend into the top 10% of men, looks wont be enough. You'll then aim for top 5%. You keep progressing to become the best man you can be. So with that in mind... Getting into the top 80% is easy. Go shower Top 50%? Do you have a decent job? Top 40? You have a decent job a…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 10:02 AM
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The stupidity is... "Steven" is likely a pump and dump guy who's more alpha than the OP. She'll come running back and play the victim card in two weeks time, watch this space
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:53 AM
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HOLY CRAP! There is a hall of fame for men like us! I suddenly want to get on that list and carry it like a badge of honor! Compete for the top spot! Why would you want to be removed?
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 09:41 AM
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How do you see it? I really suggest chewing your way through the entire sidebar. I disagree with some of it but I read the whole thing. TRP is about seeing the world (largely women) for what they really are. Its about observing behaivor as well as the things they say. Alot of the advice we giving guys is get into the top 10% of men and get your life moving forward. We've been emasculated our whole lives and while its no-one fault, you gonna be pissed. TRP isn't an ideology like you state where w…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:20 AM
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Part of the issue here is simply lack of people to argue with. I'd love to find a feminist who can debate but sadly they cant from my experience. They present some piece of info, I present a study debunking that, they then play the victim or change it to something else for example: "Well everyone knows for every dollar a man earns a women earns 70 cents!" "Actually, that data comes from a study done in the 70s that never took into account occupation or promotion. A study done more recently found…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 07:01 AM
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My attitude mirrors his perfectly. Every female I meet, I will normally disqualify them within 5 minutes of being worthy of my commitment. They then drop to "might be a decent plate" status, often they even drop from that and I'm out. If I find a rainbow shitting unicorn I'll be sure to bring it into a lab to study it for a while before I commit to it. Until then I'll keep spinning plates and looking for it. I'm well versed in powertalk so I'm reading 6 things into every sentence she says to und…
/r/TheRedPill01/10/14 06:42 AM
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How far can you push things? I hate "giving people replies" to questions because its largely about delivery. When women are "trying to win me as a prize" then my usual reply is "Damn right! No pressure now!" with a total shit eating grin. If she resists then I'll do what you did and leave.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:59 PM
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Every massive problem is a series of small problems. You want to be ripped as hell? well then start with some research, you find a 5x5x5 routine? How am I gonna buy the weights? ok lets mow some lawn? alright, got weights, lets start a routine. My muscles hurt all the time, I'm not stretching properly. I have a permanent headache, I'm not drinking enough water. I don't feel like doing my work out today, well I will anyway. Focus on the smaller problems that are part of the huge problems and the …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 05:29 PM
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The spark? There is no magical "here is the solution to all your problems". Here comes a kick in the balls, prepare yourself: Its got to come from you. Half of this sub is because there are no easy solutions in life. Take responsibility and move yourself forward. The world hates you, it owes you nothing, nothing is for free and nothing that is done easily is worthwhile. Own your shit and get yourself moving. There is no fairy dust which makes everything go right. You have to bloody fight for it …
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 02:30 PM
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Yes, it's not about gender. I see it as the difference between amateur and pro. Any excuse is a dead giveaway of amateur status. I'm 100% in agreement with you here. We rip on the female hamster but the male one is in full swing as well. If anything RP guys might be aware of it but its still spinning at full speed. I'd say its a biological function to prevent depression. IE: "I'm fat, so these women who are ignoring me are shallow because I'm such a nice guy" or "She doesn't want to sleep with m…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 01:41 PM
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"The truth is we shouldn’t be asking why some women date bad guys. We should go to the root of the problem first. O Gods.. This hamster is on steroids and running a marathon. You just told me to continue being an asshole because I'm rewarded for it. You damn right! So excuse me while I next your ass and go hit on your sister to drive your vagina into a frenzy
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 12:51 PM
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Spin her as a plate. Call it a trial period where you sample the goods to test worthiness. Transition it naturally from there, but spin her first and make sure you are spinning another to keep your oneitis under control and to keep your head objective. You need abundance mentality otherwise your attraction will awaken your hamster and you'll excuse all her behavior and you'll go beta. You can always promote her to a main plate, test the waters, guage her attraction etc. If you think like a snipe…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 09:08 AM
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I think this , this and this are all relevant.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 08:46 AM
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I was somewhat purple pill before coming here. I've been machiavellianist and used that to get somewhat average sex. Something was missing though, women just didn't click. I knew I could pull strings and it was mostly instinctual but it still felt like things were not clicking into place. A friend linked me to Rollos' blog and it was like being kicked in the balls repeatedly with my eyes bulging out of their sockets. I went monk mode without knowing what monk mode was where I tore through that b…
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:46 AM
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Its easier to make excuses than seek solutions... for everything.. this is the hamster's modus operandi in both men and women.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:24 AM
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I'd like more on this as well. Ultimately we do everything when it comes to romance and woo'ing. Women are more or less just spectators.
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 07:04 AM
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as stated by trphardmode. Be attractive. This is why we keep saying it: Go lift, sort out your dress, own your shit become a god. After that learn game and internalize that shit. The only place you are allowed to be beta or whiny from hence forth is this sub. Its the only place where we gonna tell you to get your shit together and take charge, everyone else in your life will tell you "its ok to be weak, here's a hug".
/r/TheRedPill30/09/14 06:36 AM
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Actually she will... Its all dependent on her attraction. You are confident if she is attracted, arrogant if she isn't. You look after yourself if she is attracted, vain if she isn't. You are muscular/fit if she is attracted, a meathead if she isn't. There is a good/bad word for absolutely EVERY thing and its based purely on her attraction to you. You have lots of money and are powerful and flashy with it? o you must be a bragger/chauvinist/compensating/full of yourself. O she likes you? well i …
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:12 PM
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I actually think the whole episode was some kind of comfort test. She was expecting me to comfort and say something like "yeah, in a different life but you have your future with your lovely fiance. I'll be ok" I'm not worried about losing this plate, I'm not into anal. Threesome.. yeah I haven't pushed for that yet but I'm not urgent about it. I think she'll come back in a week or so and pretend none of this happened. We'll see Still makes for a funny FR though
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 06:10 PM
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I'm really not worried. I seem to recall her complaining about him being a gamer or some such. If anything that happen I'll keep this thread updated. If she plays the rape card, well my phone is full of dirty crap she kept sending me. Also they can trace the massage vouchers to her credit card and messaging between us. The Machiavellianist side of me asked "who has more to lose" and the answer is her.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:51 PM
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I think its a combination of different factors. Forbidden fruit, limited time factor, validation urgency, total non-judgmental freedom ("I don't want my fiance to think I'm a slut!"), nothing to lose (except her morality but that's not valuable is it?), anger at her current beta, alpha, DHV, game, submission, 5 minutes of alpha, need for alpha attention, etc. Essentially, she can do everything she WANTS to do (or rather wants you to do to her) and not have to worry about consequences.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:30 PM
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Actually, I respectfully disagree. I'm still livid as hell over all the bullshit and romantic crap I was fed growing up. The hamster is the funniest thing about women but I am still pissed about societal blue pill shit that I thought was a "way to make myself different". Cook her a candlelit dinner and spend hours prepping that shit? You aren't going anywhere. Invite her over and tell her to bring wine? Its going down.. bonus points if you let her walk in while you doing laundry or asking her "A…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:15 PM
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nope. Not particularly worried either. Age old question comes up. Who has more to lose if word gets out? Her or me? She may try something like a trumped up charge but my phone is full of dirty shit she sent me.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 05:12 PM
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This is a blatant copy paste from somewhere else on reddit. I sadly didn't save the link, if someone can give me a link to the original writer I'll credit him. Here you go: Step 1 is the simple things that you can control. Are you in shape? Do you go to the gym? No? Well you do now. Now you go 4 days a week. You lift hard and and take it seriously. You eat right, quality food. Fast food and sodas don't exist in your life. When I was your age I looked like shit. I was rail skinny, no muscle, lazy…
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:11 AM
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I've really started to think the only reason I meet women is to get laid and toy with their hamsters. I need to think of a way to send one into a total nuclear phase though.
/r/TheRedPill29/09/14 08:04 AM
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I agree with this but people seldom go into why this is so important. If you live in a state of self-loathing or low self esteem it means you value yourself less than you should. As such when you are assessing women by comparing values (you do this by instinct) and they are doing the same to you, then you cant see yourself as a prize and you are proving yourself to women instead of the other way around.
/r/TheRedPill28/09/14 01:56 PM
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No, you need to take charge of yourself. Please go read everything on the sidebar or you going to screw up.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:20 PM
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Normally I agree... but this guy needed some intervention urgently I think.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:15 PM
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A women's loyalty is absolute... until she finds something she thinks is better. And no.. there is no reason to get upset about it. Its purely biological to pick the best genes/provider she can find. Its hardwired and there is nothing you can do about it. Going into a relationship puts EVERYTHING on hard mode. See the sidebar to the right there? Go read everything. Start with Rationalemale and buy Rollo Tomassi's book. The issue here is you MUST understand ALL the theory or else you gonna screw …
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 07:09 PM
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We always want that which alludes us.. Advertising/amused mastery/some principles of game all rely on this dynamic. Often we want things simply because we couldn't otherwise have them. When we get them, they become ordinary and we move on.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 04:58 PM
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The next move is to stop caring -.- You have sniper mentality, you need to think like a machine gunner. Don't next her, but start looking for your next girl so that you aren't so caught up on this one. Also, experiment with different condoms to find one that works for you. The durex featherlites are what work for me but I don't do anal with them. You are an IDIOT if you don't become serious about using condoms. You should be focusing on gaining value and when you are gaining value some chick wou…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 10:27 AM
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Its normal. You need to think like a machine gunner and not like a sniper. My first 3 approaches on a night are what I consider a warm up but will probably approach every chick in whatever night place I'm at. Even master PUA's will only get a number from maybe 30% of their approaches. Of 10 numbers maybe one they will bang. We only ever record our successes on subs and places like these but here is the fact of the matter: A guy who is getting loads of girls is getting rejected more than a guy wh…
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 08:54 AM
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I can 1-up with a guy friend who caught a knee in the balls for this. Her: "hah, I don't think you can afford me." Him: "Clearly you charge by the kilo then."
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:05 AM
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I'd argue its so they can get bucket loads of emotional validation. Also "The mountaintop is so far away, lets just make where I'm standing the new mountaintop." Its easier to make excuses than take action.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/14 06:01 AM
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^ This.. The whole thing made me laugh as its a battle of who's a bigger victim
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:57 PM
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Go read the sidebar and understand the theory. Stop looking for quick solutions and learn what you need to learn. Otherwise you just gonna screw up and claim its our fault that you don't know which way to point your gun. Your ignorance will be your undoing. Go read.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:12 PM
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For me.. this is why I use dread. Fact is her attraction is largely based on the the fact that other women are also attracted to me. The implication of possible loss/moving on is DHV in its purest form and only way I know of it maintain long term tingles or regain them. If nothing else it makes her re-evaluate whats more important to her, keeping you or having crappy sex.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 06:11 PM
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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Spiral_of_silence << This theory at work.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:18 PM
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This is a damn hard thing to quantify because its going to be different for everyone. I'd say the "Captain / ship mate" dynamic would work best for me. I steer the ship and we going places. She needs to be happy enough to stay on board but she also needs to know that if she doesn't perform her roles she can be replaced. In the same vein I know I have my own roles to perform and if I dont, then I have no-one to blame but myself when she's looking for a new captain.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:07 PM
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Sigh... The amount of crap we seeing daily thats in effect saying: "Women are allowed to have standards. You aren't" is just getting obscene.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 02:02 PM
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^ This But what is more interesting to note is how every feminist is gonna start a shit storm about "what great people we women are.. look at this amazing girl for an example". I'm sorry I dont buy it. There is an ulterior motive.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:59 PM
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Even so, I take a sledgehammer approach. "Not really in the mood. The sex we have bores me, I'm going to sleep, good night". I tend to be agressive with this kinda thing because I'm still deep in my anger phase. I probably will be for a long time. When plates try give me shit about it I simply shrug and reply "I guess I just hold you to a higher standard than other guys".
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:24 PM
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Personally.. I guess I'm just alot more upfront in my frame. I wouldn't say "I'm too tired after all this gymming" because she can simply use that as the excuse and her hamster can walk with this. I'l just state it out there that the sex we having bores me and I have better shit to do with my time. The hamster will turn nuclear. When the "talks" come my frame wont budge an inch "well honestly (insert name) it really doesn't take much on your part to satisfy me there. If you not prepared to give …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:18 PM
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Dont put your D in crazy man... It will never be worth it. Getting concessions implies her being reasonable and her hamster will never allow that. No matter what you do its going to be what she is getting out of it. The risk is just not worth the reward. You'd need to a master machiavellianist which I'm going to assume OP is not.
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 01:07 PM
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I dunno man.. We are way too quick to play the PD card. PDs are MUCH darker than this. I also cant see a PD being able to let go of a guy who wants out, it brings out the vampire to an degree thats difficult to imagine to regain control of him. The lucifers daughter is hard to predict but I'd say if she was one she'd be using every Machiavellianist trick in the book to get back with him so she can destroy him UTTERLY. She just seems like a bitch who's trying to give her hamster a break or justif…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:58 PM
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<< This.. Half the time dread can be subtle. Hit the gym (covert message), do stuff without her, begin to go your own way and dread will form on its own. Dont make any ultimatums, personally I'd stop initating with her as well. If she tries to initate with you turn her down and say the "sex we have is boring, I'm going to gym" or such. This is the point at which she's gonna need to feel she has to do more in bed because you aren't satisfied. You cant tell her this crap you have to show it. When …
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:25 PM
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She is feeling rejected because OP initiated the divorce, and despite screwing him over she has not broken him. << I overlooked that but you right its another thing. Honestly, try just whining about your problems to her when you see her. You have a new "boss" who's an ass. Claim you feel tired all the time. Claim you seeing a therapist to deal with your depression and how weak you are. Claim to have no motivation for anything anymore etc, etc. Tell her your therapist says you haven't moved on pr…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 12:13 PM
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In the spirit of red pill theory weekend: The harder you try push away the harder she's gonna pull. Its related to this: http://48laws-of-power.blogspot.com/2011/05/law-16-use-absence-to-increase-respect.html Lets face it, she hates that you are indifferent to her (she likes you still). She's bitter as hell because you can do better. That shit drives her wild. Its her way of playing the victim, she digs for dirt with your ex's so she can have a pity party about what an asshole you are to justify…
/r/TheRedPill26/09/14 09:58 AM
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What made me laugh was trying to picture her face if I walked up to her and asked her "Excuse me, are you a women?". More attention whoring from a "freely oppressed" women. Move along.
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:51 AM
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Inteligence is not actually a good trait for reproduction. I dont think it has much to do with the "elite" honestly. It takes a massive load of intelect and thinking to overcome a biological need to procreate. To look objectively and weigh up the pros and cons. If you need proof of this, just look at how many children wealthy families have compared to poorer families. No, I'm not pointing a link to wealth and intelect but we would be nuts to deny a link between wealth and levels of education. Bo…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 11:48 AM
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The logical conclusion is that less men will get married, thus less women will be able to latch onto a man and live off his income. << Women are more adaptable than we give them credit for. They will use deception to get these things and they already do (contraceptive, "accidental pregnancy", etc.). The great slap in the face to all women is coming. The male pill and fembots. Once women lose control of contraceptive and they lose their greatest agency (sex), they are going to have to change beca…
/r/TheRedPill23/09/14 10:14 AM
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^ This. Lucifers daughters view every one to be something to be used. She is better than you at getting what she wants, trust me on this. Run like hell.
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 08:46 AM
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Honestly its just gonna make it that much easier for us. You'll be that much more desired because in the current "minefield of stupidity and apathy" the general SMV value has dropped. If the highest SMV she's ever seen is a 7 and you walk in as a 9 she's wont be able to sit in her chair for sliding around. As more people pull out of the competition, the balance shifts in your favor. By not working on building massive SMV they have put themselves out of the running, essentially stepping aside to …
/r/TheRedPill19/09/14 07:19 AM
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No. Everyone else took credit for his acheivements, Edison etc. If anything he was beta for not standing up for himself in these cases. He didn't try fight. He did incredible things and got nothing for it. Just like a beta in marriage doing his nut to please his cheating wife. He claims he never cared about fame/money/etc but then why did he try claim his cheques from people? I think after his first abuse by edison he beta'd up and let others walk all over him, his achievements and his patents. …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/14 01:47 PM
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+1 Once you get good at powertalk you can pickup on women who have nothing to offer, they stay plates forever. Comments like "I've looked after myself a long time, now I want a guy to look after me" or "I want a man to love me for who I am". In powerspeak this translates to "I want a man who has more to offer than I do". Next time you not attracted to a girl you meet somewhere for whatever reason, ask her "What are you looking for in a guy?" after she rattles off some 50 point bullet list ask he…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 09:08 AM
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I have two replies when this is thrown at me: Put on your best shit eating grin (myne makes me look like a rogue) and reply: "You say that like it bothers me" OR "I was right, you way too innocent for me." and then I leave. Everytime I've left they found me later or took my hand to stop me. The innocence question works well for me and I use it often because then she has to prove how she's not innocent (proving herself to me). I use that innocence line whenever she says anything like "I'm not tha…
/r/TheRedPill17/09/14 08:46 AM
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If I understand it right, there are 3 parts that make a dude attractive. Looks, game and status. Game takes number 1 slot, looks and status will move around depending on age, what she's after and her monthly cycle/period. So the ceiling exists in your head really, status wont be earned short term.
/r/TheRedPill15/09/14 03:16 PM
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I think you missed one part of the theme. "Improve YOURself" "Achieve YOUR goals". Will women follow? who cares.. happiness can be created, chasing dreams and achieving is whats going to do that. Just don't be deluded to what women are -not-. Don't let someone else decide your happiness, do the shit YOU want to do. You can get women in other ways or other times when they don't compromise on YOUR goals.
/r/TheRedPill14/09/14 04:18 PM
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Find heroes or people I admire. Then become someone I admire. My standards are ridiclously high (comparing myself to people like Tesla, Einstein, Plato, Blake). So I just gotta keep going as hard as I can to get there.
/r/TheRedPill13/09/14 07:20 AM
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What you missed here and if you read her texts, its all about her and her feelz.. Rational crap has NOTHING to do with it, its always about her and always will be. "I was feeling bad about it all day" "I cannot believe you think that" "I wanted out but you .. " "I still expect ..." The debate has nothing to do with it. Honestly I'd just next her with something along the lines of "At no point did I ever state I endorse violence against anyone, regardless of gender. Nor did I state it as a "compet…
/r/TheRedPill12/09/14 09:31 AM
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This one is gold (By aussie girl): @ Aussie girl, Sydney, 18/1/2012 9:44 Do you behave like an upper class lady from the 19th century? If the answer is no then stop being such a hypocrite! Women who bring out the "a real man would blah blah blah" are usually just immature, spoilt, stupid, lazy, uneducated drunkhards who shun their womanly responsibilities, yet are deluded enough to believe they "deserve" the best from men, children and life in general. Those sort of women need to be told to grow…
/r/TheRedPill09/09/14 10:05 AM
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^ this You need a bells by the way.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:54 PM
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You lose a crapload of weight very fast in your first few weeks of paleo.. after that is slows down. Reason being is your body shouldn't be getting carbs and you mostly losing water weight in the early parts. Its motivating sure but it will slow down. OP: I'll give you the same suggestion I did when trying to force the red pill down a friends throat. Join crossfit. Its hard as hell and just getting through a WOD will make you feel like a badass. People are supportive as well so if you dodge a da…
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 05:52 PM
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Candidate for "Beta of the month" award? having had the red pill shoved down my throat by a real friend I feel so sorry for beta guys.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 03:44 PM
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I had this one blow up in my face. Girl flaked, I replied "ok". While on my other date she was messaging me (I was on a date and ignoring here) telling me she was coming through.. She did.. Didn't end well haha
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:12 PM
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I'd be VERY weary of articles that make men less likely to get a vasectomy. It serves the female imperative for men to have fewer birth control options.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 02:04 PM
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http://therationalmale.com/the-best-of-rational-male-year-one/ << this shit in my opinion is THE gospel.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 07:40 AM
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This man needs a bells. I'd just ask him when next you see him if he wants my leftovers after eating.
/r/TheRedPill11/07/14 06:54 AM
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