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Let me know what you think of Getting to I Do. Lols
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 06:15 AM
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Exactly girl !!! I felt the same way. So confused lols
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/07/20 03:32 AM
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Maybe you should take off the book “getting to ‘I do’” by Patricia Allen off the recommended FDS books. Because the book does not espouse FDS ideas
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:34 PM
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Lols I don’t know 🤷🏻‍♀️I was going through the books that FDS recommended so I am very confused
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/07/20 09:31 PM
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Sorry to trouble you but what do you mean,”When you're firm in your standards, you won't reveal too much. Women don't need to be mysteries. We need STANDARDS.” I have standards and I have no trouble cutting men off but I’m a very bubbly person so I feel like I am revealing too much about myself when FDS says to remain a mystery?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/05/20 03:23 PM
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That’s so great to hear girl!! Yes baby steps!! ❤️❤️❤️ and you have us here at FDS to support you!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 05:41 PM
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Thank you for asking __^ before it used to bother me a lot and I would use the rape as a crutch for my shortcomings or “failures.” I recently got a motivational coach/therapist and she’s been amazing. She helped me reframe my thinking in that I have agency and control over how I feel now. I can choose everyday either to be sad or happy. I can either mope and dwell in the past or keep on moving forward. I used to blame myself but not anymore.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/05/20 02:22 AM
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You’re so brave for sharing your story and surviving through this. Thank you for giving concrete advice to women. I totally support your decision to not report him. People who aren’t in the legal world don’t understand how incredibly traumatizing and interrogating it is to basically relive your experience. I’m an attorney so I know how unjust the system is. I’ve also been raped and I never reported because I wanted to move on and not be dragged for years in litigation.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:52 AM
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But what’s the difference between confidence and arrogance ? I don’t want to come across as arrogant? Or is it okay if I do?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 07:27 AM
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Thank you __^ and yes it does! Law firms are very snobby and archaic. It has to do with clients perceptions. They think because you went to a good school you must be smart but book smart doesn’t necessarily translate to practice.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/05/20 12:24 AM
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Hey girlfriend !!! I’m an attorney in corporate and real estate law but had no experience in it. Basically a newly grad/baby attorney. It was definitely all confidence that landed me the job. I have attorney friends who make 40-80k only. I say only because they could make more considering that they went to a top law school but don’t have the confidence. People who graduate from my school make 200k starting. It took me 5 months to get the job. Lots of anxiety esp with a 200k student debt loans.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/05/20 06:35 PM
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Do you ladies think it’s a good idea to get a dog during this time ? Or foster ? I’ve never had a pet before? I’m currently living with my parents in a rural area with a big backyard to ride out the quarantine. I have my own place in the city 🌃but no car and no backyard for the dog after quarantine ends. I’m an attorney so I work 8am to 10pm at the office but since it’s foster hopefully someone will adopt the dog before quarantine ends.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:57 AM
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My cousin-in-law didn’t want a fancy ring but she got a 700k house as a wedding gift from her husband(my cousin).
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/04/20 12:23 AM
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Awww it makes me so happy seeing that HVMs like this exist 🥰
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:28 AM
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Thank you Queen 👑I feel a lot more confident and validated in my decision to leave. It’s so wierd like when you’re in the moment you don’t see a guys toxic behavior and now I’m starting to see it.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:16 AM
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Thank you Queen 👑I know it’s probably my victim blaming. I just got help today. Hoping to level up like everyone on this sub!!! Thank you for making me feel more validated and confident in my decision to leave.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:14 AM
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Thank you Queen 👑🙏yeah you are so right it was like within the first five minutes of the conversation. Definitely a porn addict. Thank you I feel more validated in my decision and more empowered.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 07:09 AM
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Omgawsh girl I’m so sorry that happened to you. Yeah I wasn’t even naked or anything. LVMs
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/20 05:58 AM
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Omgawsh Queen 👑you’re so right. It’s the victim blaming. It must have stemmed from my trauma as a teenager and the years that followed where I blamed myself for what happened. I just signed up for online therapy to level up during this quarantine. Thank you so much for your advice !! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:31 PM
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Omgawsh exact same situation !! I also recently got back on FDS after not logging on since January! You are so eloquent and on point! You should coin some of these terms haha like pandemic bae and the dopamine surge. I think I was also trying to find comfort as well during this crazy stressful time. I also met the guy just before quarantine and I kinda just latched on. I’ve also being doing self-care! I do home spas got a bunch of epsom salt and fancy glittery cupcake soaps LOL. I’m so glad you …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:25 PM
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You’re so right about the blind spot!!! Yeah this dude is an attorney went to good schools and yeah it’s unbelievable his behavior. It’s hard but yes I will not settle!!! ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 07:15 AM
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Thank you so much queen 👑yes you are right I feel so drained emotionally and mentally just dealing with his BS. And yeah the pool of men isn’t any better haha education and job don’t really equate to HVM.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:35 AM
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Thank you so much queen 👑I’m checking out the video now !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:32 AM
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I cried reading your comment. And you are 100% right about the LVM I’m finally seeing it now and the withdrawals I’m experiencing. And the cognitive dissonance since there were qualities about him that I liked. I am so grateful for QUEENS 👑like you for helping me and showing me the light 💕
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 05:26 AM
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I definitely needed this. Love this ❤️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:37 AM
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😭😭😭thank you so much girl. I’m so grateful for this community and I will use better help. Who knows how long we’ll be in quarantine for. And you are right I feel so much better about my decision to not speak to him again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 04:05 AM
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Thank you so much girl!! Yes you’re right it is a perfect time to work on myself.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:44 AM
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Thank you so much girl !!! Yes I definitely need to do therapy and figure shit out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:44 AM
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Thank you so much girl !
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:43 AM
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Thanks so much girl. I think that’s the problem. Men can sense that and that’s why it’s been very difficult getting men to respect me. Can’t believe I didn’t realize that before. Thank you so much __^
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:43 AM
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Thanks girl I should definitely do therapy since I’m not right now. I think this is something I need to do after this quarantine.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:19 AM
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Okay thanks girl yeah I think I should definitely move on.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/04/20 01:09 AM
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Thank you for validating me. You’re so right I can still hold out on sex. I was starting to feel insecure. I think it was a good thing what I did because he’s Asian and Asian males are notoriously emasculated in society for having small dicks or aren’t manly enough. I think he appreciated that I made him feel desired.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:14 PM
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Thank you sis. You’re right I would ignore the red flags and I do feel myself getting too attached. I have wasted months like six months for sex and the sex was TERRIBAD (terrible + bad). Such a waste of time. Sure they were nice but it doesn’t make up for underwhelming sex.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:07 PM
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Sis you are amazing. Thank you so much for this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:01 PM
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Yeah he is clingy...but for some reason I like that compared to all the fuck boys I’ve been with LOL
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:39 AM
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I almost experiencing this. The guy I’m seeing texted me five time so and called me 3 times. What do I say to him? I just didn’t feel like talking or texting back.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:18 AM
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Thanks girl you’re the best thank you for giving me validation. I was talking to my guy friends and they all berated me saying how cruel I am.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 08:12 AM
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How do I implement the LURE method after dates ? Do I not respond to his texts/phone calls?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:56 AM
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I concur. I wasn’t stuck with anybody in my 20s I was dating multiple guys and I was still miserable as fuck? My 20s were certainly not fun. I suffered multiple close family deaths depression rape law school. I finished law school and passed the bar but leveling up was not fun.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 07:25 AM
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Yeah...mutual lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 06:51 AM
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29 going on 30
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 06:51 AM
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Well it was just oral sex but it was REALLY REaLLY good the best. He’s super attentive to my needs. He made me orgasm 3 times. I’m addicted ughh
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/20 05:05 AM
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Wow girl you’re amazing. Thank you so much for your insight. I think it is childish a man should never let a woman go to bed angry. And it’s too early too.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/01/20 08:41 PM
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Thanks girlie __^ you are right they might not mean it in a rude way. I think it’s because I’m doubting and questioning every little thing a guy says. I should give them the benefit of the doubt haha for some comments and not immediately blow up haha.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy24/12/19 09:08 AM
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I do wear colored contacts but it’s just so rude and does knock my self esteem a couple of notches
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/12/19 02:01 AM
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He did apologize immediately and said he’s had a couple of experiences like that and just doesn’t want to waste time ?
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 11:42 PM
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I totally agree. I was this girl. I just liked the attention and being the “queen bee.” Several guys in the group ended up having a thing for me. And now I wished I had built stronger relationships with girlfriends. However, the group of guys did give me a lot of confidence and self esteem though so much so that I thought I was the shit back in the day and could accomplish anything I wanted. I made it into the top universities in the world and top law schools but even with all these degrees and …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/12/19 09:56 AM
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Thank you so much for your insight. You are right in that I do feel spiritually unwell and ashamed at the things that turned me on which were basically the opposite of everything I stand for. It is so incredibly hard to find a decent partner but I’m coming to terms with the fact that I’d rather be alone than with someone who’s porn sick. It is indeed a pandemic ever since the advent of the internet.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 11:06 AM
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Thanks so much girl for your advice. You are so right and I’m really glad I didn’t mess around with this guy. It was definitely a moment of weakness on my part to even think of the possibility of doing something like this. Never be financially dependent on a man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/12/19 10:57 AM
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Okay so I come from a family where we don’t talk about sex at all it’s just not in our culture. I didn’t discover that females could masturbate until the young old age of 27. That’s when I discovered porn I can only masturbate to porn how do women do it without it? And should I get a vibrator? Eversince I discovered masturbation I’ve grown less reliant on men but also have a lower sex drive.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/12/19 10:13 AM
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After posting this I realized how pathetic it sounds. I have since realized the errors of my ways. You’re right I need to find my own job and not be financially dependent on a guy.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 05:08 PM
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I need serious advice. Who knows maybe I’m a pickmeisha. So I met this guy 48 and I’m 28. 20 year difference. He’s married and has two kids. But putting morality aside how do I play the FDS game on him. He asked me out to drinks (which is a no no right ? But he can’t ask me to dinner because he’s married and maybe dinner seems too date-like but if he’s already going down that road why not ask me to dinner?) also he’s super wealthy worth a couple hundred million dollars and I’m not interested in …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/12/19 06:31 AM
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