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| 1 | If You Were Chris Hemsworth…Off topic: I have a relevant question, and I don't know where to post it. Are women obsessed with money because they essentially don't have Testosterone? Consider what T gives: physical strength and assertiveness/motivation. Two of the most important things necessary to get shit done. Because a woman doesn't inherently have this from T, what can she use as a substitute? Money. Because money can also get shit done. A man with good T, but no money can still get shit done. A woman with no T and no … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/24 02:57 PM |
| 5 | Why You're Getting Shit TestedQuestions.... Back when I was really skinny, I never got shit tested. When I started gaining some muscle (but still somewhat thin) I started getting what I now recognize as shit tests. When I started doing T cycles and really took lifting seriously and built good muscle, the shit testing mostly stopped. Is it possible that a fat/skinny guy won't get shit tested because he's not seen as a good mate anyway... and a confident muscular guy won't get tested because he's an obviously good mate... ... … | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/24 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Body count is a strong predictor of infidelity and divorceAll I can add to this thread is that I dated someone a while back who talked about one of her friends who had super high body count. When I looked her up on Google, she had apparently already been thru 2 divorces by her mid 30's. | /r/TheRedPill | 22/08/24 02:38 PM |
| 2 | If your afraid to hit on women in public, your not 100% behind your own product. (Hitting on girls, is not scary. Part 2)Say anything to her, even if it is corny/basic or whatever, you have no idea where it could lead or how she is feeling at this moment. What works best for me is to say something that is so completely relevant to the time & place at hand, that it doesn't even sound like you're trying to say something. IE: standing in line at Starbucks: "Does the app seem like it's running slow in here?" or "What's better, the cream or cold foam?" If she answers these with any enthusiasm, come up with other things… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/07/24 11:16 PM |
| -1 | The main difference between a 20yo and 50yo woman is bodyfat, not wrinkles, despite what society tells us?I generally agree with what you're saying, but you're mostly on the topic of mental differences. I'm focused on the 2 most obvious physical differences of aging: bodyfat vs wrinkles. | /r/askTRP | 11/05/21 06:25 PM |
| 6 | What advice would you give your 21 year old self?I googled this question years ago, and the standard answer is... Don't GAF what people think.. because they're too busy with their own lives to really be caring about anyone else but themselves, let alone you. | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:33 PM |
| 6 | Tall womenI'm the same height as you. I get along better with taller girls than shorter ones. Think of it this way: You're wearing a T-shirt with a specific logo. You run into someone wearing that same exact T-shirt. You instantly know that you have something in common with them. Same thing with tall girls. Assume attraction. Assume that you both have one major thing in common: you're both tall. All the things that go along with being tall that you have... she also has. Another thing: there were at least … | /r/askTRP | 20/03/21 07:24 PM |
| 1 | Do anyone here just do bodyweight workouts?When I have no weights around, it's always pushups, crunches, and lots of squats. Chin ups are also great if you have a chin up bar. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 08:06 PM |
| 1 | As an alternative to TRP/MGTOW, how about a forum that's only about plating, and devoid of any relationship thinking?Also cool. 2 unrelated questions... I'm guessing you're divorced from a prev marriage? If so, do you find that gives you a GREAT reason to say to women something like "I won't commit because I don't want to go thru THAT again" ?? And is your SMV way higher than your #1 plate? I suppose that when that happens a woman will accept a situation that maybe she wouldn't if the SMV's were comparable? | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 04:04 PM |
| 1 | As an alternative to TRP/MGTOW, how about a forum that's only about plating, and devoid of any relationship thinking?I am in an open LTR, with plates and my LTR is full aware. That's cool, but I don't know whether to say "Congratulations" or "What's the point?" IMO, open relationships seems like it's spinning plates but one girl has the "#1 plate" badge. | /r/askTRP | 11/03/21 03:20 PM |
| 2 | As an alternative to TRP/MGTOW, how about a forum that's only about plating, and devoid of any relationship thinking?Far from it. I'm seeing a lot of posts of guys complaining that they found out some negative thing about a girl, and asking if they should continue with her. To me, that's relationship thinking. Instead, maybe the thought process should be about how she's a good fuck/plate, and where else can one find other good fuck/plates. Never about commitment. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/21 10:31 PM |
| 2 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?There's kind of an irony there about the Agricultural revolution, considering how men usually like to eat more meat and women eat more carbs.There's a saying among the carnivore crowd (which I try to do) that if it comes from an animal: eat it. If it comes out of the ground: don't. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 11:24 PM |
| 1 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?in our modern society, is men who need to be social beings in order to prove themselves worthy of LITERALLY living. By working you are providing value which is the solution to a problem that comes from a necessity. Good points. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 11:18 PM |
| 3 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?the urgency for sexual relief is higher in men I think this is a great point. Although it's essentially a by-product of the woman being the one who gets pregnant, it still drives a lot of the economics. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 07:16 PM |
| 8 | Trying to get to the fundamental biological reason why women have abundance?100% this. Agreed. There are good replies in this thread that talk about testosterone and urgency for sex and high-value males... but ultimately these things are by-products of the fact that the female is the one who gets pregnant. I actually had a similar discussion a while back with a woman (she's an RN, so she's had health science training) and when I mentioned the stuff about many sperm vs one egg, she replied like "duh.. it's because the woman gets pregnant". So, yea. | /r/askTRP | 20/02/21 07:14 PM |
| 2 | Being financially successful is sales (and PUA) often requires that you not be too smart?being really hammered makes me more relatable as it reduces my iq by 20 points, so I am nearer the idiocracy they are. There's a sentiment that I've seen a few times in these TRP subs that talking to a woman for a length of time makes you feel like your IQ has gone down a few points. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Being financially successful is sales (and PUA) often requires that you not be too smart?Exactly. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Being financially successful is sales (and PUA) often requires that you not be too smart?To be truly successful in sales It also helps to be lucky to be selling something that is TRULY in need and essentially sells itself. Imagine being a sales rep for Microsoft in the mid 90's. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:56 PM |
| 2 | Being financially successful is sales (and PUA) often requires that you not be too smart?Also, selling shit requires a certain moral flexibility with regard to the truth, and I've noticed that people who make shit up all of the time tend to convince themselves, so it's more likely that people in sales and marketing really train themselves to be stupid. Good point. I like to run an honest game. Saves headaches and the occasional ass-kicking from angry brothers and uncles, but it's also the right way to be. Even better point. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 09:54 PM |
| 1 | What is your mission in life and what drives you?I see a lot of posts mentioning Health and Wealth. Health and Wealth are interelated in the sense that your career (which determines your finances) is often determined by your mental acuity... which in turn is related to your health. | /r/askTRP | 20/12/20 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?I hear ya, and generally agree, but this part: in order to achieve success. Doesn't matter how much genetics you have in your brain because you actually have to read and study hard to exploit this Actually “motivation” (the ability to focus, be disciplined, and work hard) is also a genetic lottery winning thing because it’s based on dopamine and other neuroscience factors. I’ve seen older discussions where “IQ” is based on genetics but “motivation” comes from “somewhere else”. ... but they are B… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 2 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?Imagine your level of success is determinated by the level of luck you get with your gen I generally agree, but how is that any different from someone who won the gen lottery for IQ and was able to become valedictorian and sail thru med/law/engineering school, ultimately making great $$$ in the workplace? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?I disagree, I think the next generation of people who are younger than us (mostly Gen z) will be numb to this type of behavior and not really care too much if someone has an online past wrt job interviews. I’ve talked with women who are over 40 who are shocked at how younger girls post bikini pics on Insta and I say “yea, and YOU would have done the same if Insta exited back in your day” and they shut up. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 06:34 PM |
| 1 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?Thanks to you, and the others who posted breakdowns of the numbers. It feels like any other online business where the top % are killing it, and you cant tell how everyone else is struggling. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 05:09 PM |
| 7 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?Or will “pro porn” be a thing that girls do (at a reduced price?) for the purpose of building up a following for their OF & cam businesses? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 04:56 PM |
| 1 | Know any guys who aligned their lives (in a major way) to be with their gf's, only to get dumped? And you saw it coming?I remember reading a similar story here on a TRP sub about a pair who were dating in med school, and when it came time to do residencies, he had a very promising track, but dumped it for a lesser one in order to move to her city. Then she got a great residency, while his kind of floundered, and she soon outranked him. And dumped him. But worse than losing a girl, he lost a great career opportunity. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 10:54 PM |
| 1 | Know any guys who aligned their lives (in a major way) to be with their gf's, only to get dumped? And you saw it coming?And part of what makes it possible is that women know there will ALWAYS be an abundance of thirsty males ready and waiting. | /r/askTRP | 06/12/20 10:52 PM |
| 10 | Modern technology exposing true nature.Great post. | /r/MGTOW | 24/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 2 | Hate to admit it, but the key to great sex for a man is *variety* of partners?Yea, totally forgot about that one, thanks. | /r/askTRP | 28/09/20 12:02 AM |
| 1 | Hate to admit it, but the key to great sex for a man is *variety* of partners?Yea, abundance mentality helps. | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:17 PM |
| 20 | Hate to admit it, but the key to great sex for a man is *variety* of partners?And I respect this opinion from you and other like-minded guys. But for me (and other guys like me) those 5's & 6's are perfectly enjoyable because of the newness. There's a saying I heard here like "new pussy is the best pussy" | /r/askTRP | 27/09/20 08:16 PM |
| 1 | If a girl says "just as friends"TBH, replying that she'd go out for a drink "just as friends" sounds like an ASD thing she'd say to any guy. The difference is how the guy makes the most of the situation while having those drinks. If he shows himself to be of high value, she'll fuck him. If not, she won't. | /r/askTRP | 05/09/20 03:35 PM |
| 1 | Ways to overcome the BP mindset that women don't have abundance? (we don't understand how much they do)so the competition for a decent/high smv man isn't much in everyday life (not online). But doesn't the high SMV guy who can make an impression on a woman IRL still have to compete with all the attention modern women are getting from online dating & social media? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Ways to overcome the BP mindset that women don't have abundance? (we don't understand how much they do)It’s like how a celebrity would be when they post on ig, constant notifications I was thinking something similar before you posted this. In order for a guy to be near the level of getting approached that women do, he essentially needs to be a celebrity of some sort? Being good looking and successful isn't enough... women need social proof before they'll actually get up off their ass and go after a guy? | /r/askTRP | 29/08/20 05:27 PM |
| 14 | "Women are naturally Red Pill" - can someone give me a short explanation of what that means?A girl I dated years ago told me of manipulating a former bf... everytime he was ready to ditch her, she manipulated him into staying because she hadn't found a replacement for him yet. Then she dumped him when she did. I kid you not. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 08:36 PM |
| 1 | "Women are naturally Red Pill" - can someone give me a short explanation of what that means?51% of people know what's up: All of the women and 1% of the men. Thanks, I remember reading something about a secret sex society (or something like that) and the membership consists of ALL women, and a few guys who have figured it out. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 08:33 PM |
| 0 | I asked two women to define the #1 trait of a "Chad" and this is what they said.You beat me to it. Watch what they do, not what they say. This is probably what my little experiment came down to. Women say they don't like men who are cocky. And yet they are all lining up for that tall, muscular, good looking guy over there who also happens to be cocky. | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Someone explain why a cucked husband/BF goes after the other guy but not so much his woman? (based on 1st page thread)women are naturally Red Pill. Thanks. I never had a chance to get back to this thread, but this little line inspired me to make a separate post about it. (go see my posting history) | /r/askTRP | 15/08/20 07:19 PM |
| 3 | are all types of piercings a red flag?Red flag for a LTR Green flag for a FWB/plate | /r/askTRP | 12/07/20 11:54 PM |
| 2 | Blowjob plateOP, how long have you been seeing her, and about what frequency do you two "hookup"? | /r/askTRP | 06/07/20 05:26 PM |
| 5 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?even, say, from her period, Aside from the LTR I mentioned in my original post (when I was a needy beta) I have a deep gut feeling that the majority of times a girl refused my escalations was because she was having her period, and was too embarrassed to admit it. But twice I've been with girls who admitted they were having their periods and were willing to give me a BJ as a sort of "substitute". That might make for an interesting question here: "What do you say to a girl to get her to admit she'… | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 07:10 PM |
| 2 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?I just can't understand what's the difference for girl to fuck on the first date or 3rd date Has anyone ever considered sometimes this may be related to her cycle? Example 1: 1st date she's ovulating, and fucks you silly. The next weekend... 7 days later... she's perioding. No sex. Example 2: 1st date she's perioding and doesn't want you near her pussy. Next weekend... 7 days later... no period, she's g2g. Maybe this happens a lot more than we realize? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:59 PM |
| 4 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?I like to take them out for a drive in 3 different places before I bring them home. Not only does it give her the impression of 3 dates in 1 I notice that when I've taken a girl to multiple places on the same date (IE: starbucks -> movie -> sit in a park -> my place) that sex tends to happen more often. | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 06:54 PM |
| 2 | Overstating the obvious: if she's truly into you, sex happens. If not, it doesn't?not just because I "pressured" her into it Oh I defintely tried every form of pressure and persuation with that girl I mentioned, and she ALWAYS found a reason for "not tonite" ... and like a stupid beta I let it persist. I go for sex on the first date because that's what I want. Agreed, that's me too. But a secondary reason is that it's a very effective screening method? | /r/askTRP | 20/06/20 12:23 PM |
| 1 | Married men make more money than single men. Is this the REAL reason?That may be true if you look at it from the perspective of combined welath, but I'm looking at who literally makes more income --- the married or single men. | /r/askTRP | 09/04/20 05:03 PM |
| 12 | Is online dating full of fat girls everywhere?Thanks for that link. The reason for this gender disparity is probably not that women are more appearance-focused than men. The most likely explanation is that women, who are generally less likely to initiate contact, have a higher threshold when they do so. For many women, though certainly not all, if they are going to break with gender norms, it is only going to be for a really attractive guy. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Which one , a true alpha is more like- Douchebag or gentleman?(read description)Blunt. Says anything the opposite party is not willing to hear. Bernie Sanders Donald Trump | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 11:55 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she responds to messages, but doesn't really ask anything to keep it going?Thanks. Like the other reply, just immediately escalate to logistics, and see what happens. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 05:11 PM |
| 2 | What does it mean when she responds to messages, but doesn't really ask anything to keep it going?Thanks. Edit: found this guide which is relevant to all this. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 1 | What does it mean when she responds to messages, but doesn't really ask anything to keep it going?See my response to Blackhawk2479. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 05:09 PM |
| 3 | What does it mean when she responds to messages, but doesn't really ask anything to keep it going?Why the fuck are you messaging “how’s it going”? That was just a generic example for this post (I made an edit pointing that out). Usually I'll message something more specific and relevant. The point is if her reply is just a bland response (B) or if she makes some attempt to keep it going (C). | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 05:08 PM |
| 1 | For those who fully embraced TRP, how many of you ever cringed thinking about your former self and beta behaviors such as oneitis?I think she went crazy. This may very well be what happened. Considering that a decent percentage of women are on psych meds, and it tends to get worse as they age. | /r/askTRP | 22/03/20 04:57 PM |
| 1 | Question about the gonewild subsI've noticed that some of them reply in appreciation to every compliment. Is that a clue that there's some kind of business motive? Or just a way to keep the attention rolling in? | /r/askTRP | 18/03/20 09:28 PM |
| 1 | Question about the gonewild subsOne thing I'm noticing is that the women who cross post to a ton of similar subs tend to not be some amateur at home but rather some semi-pro model/pornstar who's trying to promote her website or whatever? | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 03:00 PM |
| 3 | What're you guys doing to stay in-shape during this "lockdown"?Same here. Weights at home, same workout as always | /r/askTRP | 17/03/20 01:51 PM |
| 1 | What's the most common mistake that guys make when first trying to cold approach?Which online dating have you been most successful with? (and what does the 666 acronym mean?) | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 11:06 PM |
| – | If a new girl shows IoI but keeps mentioning her BF, what should we do?IoI = indication of interest. It's a common PUA acronym. | /r/seduction | 10/03/20 07:20 PM |
| 7 | Could a normal weight or healthy fit mans "looksmatch" actually be fat obese women?Facial attractiveness is by far most important factor for women. This. The key to a good chisled face and jawline is to get your bodyfat down as far as possible. Intermittent fasting and keto. | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:41 PM |
| 1 | I've been talking to a girl in college but she has a ring, what to do?but I'm sure she is in one Question for anyone; what is the tipping point where this guy should decide that she's worth going for, or she's just leading him on as a potential orbiter? | /r/askTRP | 10/03/20 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else see the value of being able to spontaneously say anything interesting to any woman you meet? (and working on it?)just by hanging out with her "hanging out with her" implies a situation that you're in a safe situation with lots of time to talk to her. I'm talking about situations where you have to say something interesting RIGHT FUCKING NOW (like in a supermarket or public park or bar before she walks away) or the opportunity to "hang out with her" never even exists. | /r/askTRP | 01/03/20 07:49 PM |
| -9 | Shaved My Head Due to Shitty Hairline. Should I Grow it Back or Embrace the Bald?focus on the neck traps and shoulders Maybe I'll get downvoted, but since you no longer have hair to lose, I'd suggest starting to research anabolic steroids. (A Test Enanthate cycle is a good place to start) The upper body parts like neck/traps/delts have more androgen receptors so they'll blow up faster. But fully do your research if you choose this path. | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 09:52 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy trope - video essay based on mediaInteresting video (I sorta skipped through it, but got the gist) I've long heard that movies should not be showing young men the misguided notion that if you just keep pursuing the girl long enough, you'll eventually get her. We RP's know that as "oneitis". Also, look at the scene at 14:28 - do you go for the pretty girl who may possibly be a starfish, or the slightly awkward/chubby girl who will suck & fuck the living daylights out of you? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 09:45 PM |
| 2 | How many of you are on propecia/finasteride?Does it lower your overall DHT levels, or just in the scalp area? | /r/askTRP | 22/02/20 09:39 PM |
| 1 | Hot Nurse Story Time (seeking advice)Is there anyone else out there looking at this situation thinking "isn't there an unwritten rule within doctor's office practices that the employees (which the nurse is an employee of the practice) should not be fraternizing with the patients?" She could possibly lose her job (or be reprimanded) for giving out her number to a patient while she's supposed to be working. Or am I reading this wrong? | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 05:33 PM |
| 1 | Are these 3 of my observations of women with tattoos correct?red flag I'm just looking at these women as plates/hookups, not a wife. | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Are these 3 of my observations of women with tattoos correct?A better indicator of if she has multiple tattoos would be the piercings she has. Thanks. The other day I was at the eye doctor and the nurse who takes the prelim tests was wearing short-sleeve scrubs and had a small bird tattoo near her elbow. I'm pretty sure she had one of those "spike" things in her earlobe. Good indication of more concealed tats? ...which is a good indication of slightly higher than average sluttiness? girls with plenty of tattoos are more likely to be "liberal" minded There… | /r/askTRP | 21/02/20 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?I dont get excessively drunk either. I've had girls get all touchy on me with only half their drink glass down. It doesn't take much, but a little goes a long way. There have been plenty of times where there is NO reasonable private place to take the girl after I've connected with her. Believe me, there have been instances where I've tried my best to find an isolated place. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 08:08 PM |
| 2 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?(OP example from previous thread - copied & pasted) As an example, my record is probably about 1.5 hours, but it required multiple circumstances to happen: I arrived at a New Years Eve party about 10:30pm. Started talking to a girl about 11pm. At midnight ("Happy New Year!!") we started heavy kissing. I was able to isolate her to an unused bedroom, and I probably put it in her by 12:30. But think about the circumstances that had to happen: Alcohol New Years Eve (edit; socially acceptable to make… | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?and the opportunity slipped away. Did the lack of two things: weed/booze and a private place to isolate... did you have those available? I've lost out on opportunities because there was no place private to go. Sometimes even my car was not viable because it was parked in a well-lit public place. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?I literally said like two words to her just that I wanted to show her something and she followed me I've done that myself. It works. Though it never would have occurred to me to do that while her bf is present. Ballsy move. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 06:01 PM |
| 3 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?Didn't see that one coming. Yea, having a wife who's into 3-somes would be an advantage. | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 06:00 PM |
| 3 | Ever meet a girl and f*ck her 1-2 hours later? What were some of the things that really helped?In this case "high" means her interest is maxxed out. But ironically, I knew a guy who's fave pickup line was "wanna go out to my car to do a joint and get high?" Seemed to work a lot. Now he's isolated with her, and they're both under the influence. (though I suppose "Wanna go out to my car and drink some beers?" would work too.) | /r/askTRP | 08/02/20 05:59 PM |
| 1 | Any balding/bald dudes on here?Yep. And DHT is essentially high-octane Testosterone. Should definitely take advantage of it and lift. In fact, if you have no hair to lose, might as well do some juice cycles and get really big. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 03:23 PM |
| 1 | Least amount of time you ever took from meeting a girl to doing her?in a tent by the ocean This shows the importance of "isolate and escalate". Your key move was probably inviting her in some way to go to one of the tents by the ocean? | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Least amount of time you ever took from meeting a girl to doing her?I'm guessing she already had some alcohol in her? Some kind of nearby space that offered privacy? (room/woods/car-backseat/etc) | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Least amount of time you ever took from meeting a girl to doing her?(OP example) As an example, my record is probably about 1.5 hours, but it required multiple circumstances to happen: I arrived at a New Years Eve party about 10:30pm. Started talking to a girl about 11pm. At midnight ("Happy New Year!!") we started heavy kissing. I was able to isolate her to an unused bedroom, and I probably put it in her by 12:30. But think about the circumstances that had to happen: Alcohol New Years Eve (edit; socially acceptable to makeout with strangers at midnight) Availab… | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 02:27 PM |
| 4 | Any balding/bald dudes on here?If you're bald, chances are your Testosterone is high. Go lift. You'll make faster gains than most guys. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:36 PM |
| 1 | Have you noticed any difference between girls with and without divorced parents?If dad is an overbearing control freak while mom is submissive to him, that drives daughters to rebel and be super sluts Dated a girl who fit this description exactly. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:09 AM |
| 2 | Girls only want onsI banged her within 30 min of meeting her Wut? Please explain that one. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:06 AM |
| 4 | What is it about a woman that makes her so attractive other than looks?The normal looking girl-next-door who you know has some crazy good sexual skill(s) that you wouldn't expect. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:04 AM |
| 3 | What is it about a woman that makes her so attractive other than looks?Agreed, when you see Japanese girls here in the USA they seem soooooo feminine compared to the local girls. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:02 AM |
| 0 | Girl I just started talking To Snapchats me a pic with another dude. I’ve gone ghost, what should I do?This. Sorta. My first instinct when I saw this thread was SEND HER A PIC OF YOU AND ANOTHER GIRL. | /r/askTRP | 02/02/20 12:00 AM |
| 2 | Abundance of thirsty males for women: teens/20's vs 50/60's ?I agree, they have all of the above. And yet I'll bet there's still a ton of thirsty guys her age lining up for it. And she knows that. | /r/askTRP | 01/02/20 02:13 PM |
| 0 | What is the best way to isolate a girl in a group setting?First, think of a picture on your phone that she might find interesting. Then pull out your phone like "check this out, blah, blah" acting w confidence like what you're showing her is the coolest thing she'll see all day. Then say something like "wait, it's too bright here, c'mon over here for second where the light is better (actually, the light isn't better, it's actually darker) so you can see this better." After you show her the picture, show her some more. Escalate. Escalate. Anyone have an… | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Ever notice the coincidence between the expression "get lucky" and ovulation?ovulatory shift, a breakup, traveling, etc. are all chance events. the ability to capitalize on these random opportunities - that's skill. Good reply. Good stuff to think about. Much appreciated even though this post got locked. | /r/askTRP | 26/01/20 09:08 PM |
| 3 | Tips on how to go about this situation?I agree with this strategy. It's pretty much all you can do at this point. Speaking for myself, I've done what OP did many times. I'd do a girl then put up a wall in a sort of "pump once and dump" attitude. Then a short while later start thinking to myself that she wasn't really so bad after all, and it would be nice to do her again, but I'd look like I'm crawling back. The lesson is to not put up that wall so soon, and plate-spin/string her along until you may be ready to do her again in the ne… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 07:18 PM |
| 2 | A club will host a "ladies event", is a good place to be for a guy?Here's a potential strategy.... When do the clubs close in your area? 2am? 3am? Show up at the front door and ask a bouncer how long does the stripper show go until. If he says it ends at 1am (about an hour or two before the club closes) then go to some other bar/club and hang there. Then go back to the club at right about the time the stripper show is ending. Walk in and start talking to the women, but play dumb like "I just showed up because I like the music here, I had no idea there was a str… | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:58 PM |
| 2 | Girl from Bumble just messeged me " how is your weekend going? ". What do i say?OK here's what would have been my response, I'm curious what you guys think of it.... "Just doing my workout. I also try to fast on the weekends. Ever do fasting?" There's two things I'm trying to do: send the message that I'm a fitness fanatic (implying I have a good body) and extend the conversation by throwing her a question about a topic which has some edge to it. Thoughts? | /r/askTRP | 20/01/20 06:47 PM |
| 1 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)Go see the edit I made to my OP. There's another woman I knew who married a guy pretty much because he looked like her teen alpha LTR. That imho is a good reason for vetting before too much commitment. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:13 PM |
| 2 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)STILL got 'alpha goggles' even when he's fatter etc. In the scenario in my OP, I'm suggesting that she didn't settle down with him.... and hasn't seen him in years... and still has "alpha googles" thinking he'll still look and act the same forever. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 06:11 PM |
| 2 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)and yes she will compare and be happier Good to know. Only problem is getting her to see me and him in the same room at the same time. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 04:07 PM |
| 3 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)He said "almost a decade". I know a woman who told me her boobs exploded at 12 and she was playing strip poker with boys not long after. Also knew a woman who was on the pill at like 15 or so. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 04:04 PM |
| 22 | How do you approach girls who are surrounded by beta orbiters?I get approach anxiety The cure for approach anxiety is well known: approach over and over and over with a wide variety of women. Practice and practice until you're so good the anxiety is gone. | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:51 PM |
| 0 | What do you do when a plate tells you they've been fucking other guys"oh you thought we were serious?" I think this is the best reply.... to somehow/someway tell her that this is NOT a serious relationship. For example, slip it in there like this: "Look... I'm not your father or husband or serious boyfriend... I'm not here to tell you what you can and can't do" | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:46 PM |
| 1 | If it's girls routine to ask 'what have you done today' what to answer if it's coming every time you see her?Great one liners! | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:40 PM |
| 2 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)You’re not more Alpha than their exes. To be precise, I'm not more alpha than the mental image of that perfect guy during that perfect time period of her life. But I may very well be more alpha than what he is NOW. I'm curious (if anyone out there has experienced this) what happens when a woman is with a current guy who's fairly alpha.... but not up to the standard of her younger alpha... and they run into her now-older former alpha who has let his SMV substantially drop, and she can directly co… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:33 PM |
| 0 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)She had her Alpha at very young age and he is hard-coded in her mind as the Alpha. Would it be worthwhile to slip in the stealth question with every plate as a vetting: "I didn't have time for any LTR's in my late teens, how about you?" If she says yes, then you know she's a potential late-teen alpha widow? (because any guy she would have an LTR at that prime age would very likely be alpha) I’ve been in both situations. Just don’t sweat about and do your shit as best as you can. Good to hear the… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:27 PM |
| 3 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)Ok thanks, I get it. By saying "Chad Alpha took me to that restaurant" is an indirect way of saying "I'm so hot" | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 03:20 PM |
| 1 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)Just asking - How would what she's saying be virtue signaling? | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 01:59 PM |
| 3 | Teen girls LTR w alpha: Is there a name for this? (or just another example of alpha widow)before she even reaches legal age. In both cases, the LTR ended after age 18, afaik. she will be attracted to other qualities like provisioning/affluence. That's true, especially as she hits the wall. She's had her sexual fun and now wants comfort and security. BUT... we all know this essentially as "beta bucks" and is not exactly a sexual attraction. you would have your work cut out for you dating these girls. Agreed. I actually once joked with one of them (after she mentioned her teen alpha ye… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/20 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Seriously, why are so many crazy women so good in bed?Women don't learn to fuck like this by themselves. Great point. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 12:06 PM |
| 3 | Very old oneitis said she wants to date me. Thoughts?Best reply. Treat her as another plate. Enjoy the sex and not much else. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 12:03 PM |
| 3 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)This. Getting inside these girls heads to see how they tick is useful. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:59 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)You're not alone. As I'm learning, you just have to put yourself out there... fail a lot... and figure it out. (Fortuntely we have this community as a source of help) | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)I don't know if they qualify as "Chads" but you see a lot of "bad boys" getting laid a lot (girls call them "dirtbags" or "assholes") who probably didn't have much conditioning that this behavior was "wrong" and so they were constantly just going for it. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:53 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)I also would have missed those 2 examples you gave. I could post all day examples similar to your of missing little clues. It also frustrates me too. We have to just live and learn and keep moving forward. | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:49 AM |
| 3 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)No balls is, in fact, the answer to most of the problems on this forum. This is literally relevant. I'm currently on TRT for low T. (edit: hypoganadism.. my balls were'nt working right) I was probably not as aggressive (and muscular) and combined with a fair amount of religious indoctrination, that would explain a lot of it. Part of unplugging and finally gaining sexual success is the realization that you wasted a lot of years and blew many opportunities. Agreed, the regret hurts and is hard to … | /r/askTRP | 14/12/19 11:47 AM |
| 0 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls? (2nd try)Because they moved on girls as soon as they had an IOI Agreed. My problem was that I was so oblivious to IoI's and any other "tells" that a girl was DTF. But why? It almost feels like I had low emotional intelligence bordering on mini-autism (for lack of a better term). Anyone else like this? | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:18 PM |
| 3 | What are some examples of extremely common beta behavior you see?The good ole "be friends with women first before you take it to the next level" or my favorite "keep dating her UNTIL SHE IS ready for sex." This. I was guilty of thinking like this. What got me out of it was a combo of finding out directly from girls (edit:often after a drink) of just how quickly they'd fuck guys they'd known before me, as well as my own assertiveness of just going for it, and finding out I didn't need to be friends first bullshit. | /r/askTRP | 13/12/19 06:06 PM |
| 1 | Being "funny" sort of raises your SMV for this reason?Yes, social intelligence as well as verbal intelligence. But the ability to use humor (showing this intelligence) in a situation with a lot of tension seems to have a big ability to raise one's SMV. | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:03 PM |
| 1 | Being "funny" sort of raises your SMV for this reason?Thanks, is this the series by Zack Browman? I see it on Pirate bay. Edit: is this it or at least part of it? | /r/askTRP | 10/12/19 07:01 PM |
| 1 | 16, eat a ton or intermittent fasting?It's something you need to adapt to. First start off with IF of about 16/8 (lunch & dinner) then gradually build up to 21/3 (just a huge dinner) Once you're used to it, you'll be fine. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 07:16 PM |
| 0 | Any men over 40? How's dating?And like I asked above, anyone think he should seriously be considering a vasectomy? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 12:51 AM |
| -9 | Any men over 40? How's dating?At 40, he's a bit old to start having kids. Perhaps he should be considering a vasectomy? | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 12:50 AM |
| 1 | A question on liftingThis. 8-12 reps (4-5 sets) are good for hypertrophy (building muscle for size) Eat lots of beef and eggs. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 12:47 AM |
| 1 | 16, eat a ton or intermittent fasting?OMAD (one meal a day) Best of both worlds... go for about 21 hrs without eating, then a 3 hr window (presumably evening) of gorging yourself with protein and fat. | /r/askTRP | 08/12/19 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls?I played sports and was athletic, although somewhat thin. I occasionally had girls telling me I was "cute". But I just was so totally tone deaf to any IoI's they may have been giving out. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:25 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone else realized just how bad you were at picking up signals from easy/slutty girls?Agreed, this is not about regret. I just want to learn from the past to apply it to the future. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 07:24 PM |
| 0 | What are some Food's That Every Man Should Be Eating?It's good to see a lot of posts in this thread saying beef and eggs. IMHO, those are the big two. | /r/askTRP | 07/12/19 04:25 PM |
| 1 | Why do women stick around even after you cheat?Why do women stick around even after you cheat? Does this also apply to most married men? I don't think so. | /r/askTRP | 29/11/19 09:16 PM |
| 1 | Are boyfriends mostly a status symbol for women?Women are sex objects. Men are status objects. Great point. | /r/askTRP | 24/11/19 01:01 PM |
| 1 | when a chick mentions other guys are good looking?When a girl mentions that how some guy over there is a hunk or whatever... how about responding with something like "and the guy you're talking to right now is even bigger than him" How's that? The reason I ask is that I actually said this as a response to a girl who said that to me at a bar once. She went quiet at first and then said something like "yea I guess you're right" | /r/askTRP | 15/11/19 06:00 PM |
| 1 | How to get over a fear of breaking women's heartsHere's the link | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 12:02 PM |
| 2 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themThink of it as a parallel universe, another realm, the 'club'. Gotta cross the divide to see what happens on the other side. I have read about this before. Is it something like this ? Have connections with the 1st string football guys or know some of the dealers Actually, like I said in another reply, there was a divide between the jocks (who were mostly clean-cut) and anyone who could be considered a dealer/bad-boy. | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 11:57 AM |
| 2 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themyou just likely weren't a popular jock or party dude. Actually, I was a jock myself (although soccer & track are not exactly the popular sports) and it seemed that most everyone who played sports were the high-achiever types who also studied hard and got good grades. Also, if you played sports you constantly had the coaches drilling into your heads "don't drink, don't smoke, don't do drugs!!!" So the jocks were not big party people. On the other hand, the party guys tended to not play sports and… | /r/askTRP | 09/11/19 11:47 AM |
| 4 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themfor attention, to get invited to parties, This makes a lot of sense there's a second group, that is the BJ group in middleschool and HS, they are "good girl virgins" who just suck bags of dicks weekly Shit, I'm even more clueless than I thought I was. I was really really bad at picking up on any signals about this. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Questions about high school girls with high n-counts and being oblivious to themObviously not directly, but they probably didn't care that as they fucked more and more guys, the word gets around. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 05:53 PM |
| 1 | How many here put money before women?This old meme springs to mind. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 04:43 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a fear of breaking women's heartsAlso thanks for this too. When you google it, the first result points to a post in forums.red (not sure if it's OK to link to it here) It's important to always remember that men think logically and women think emotionally. This is why women can do the lightswitch effect. | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 04:36 PM |
| 2 | How to get over a fear of breaking women's heartsGood reply. Would it be correct to say that women are designed by evolution to be able to move on quickly after being rejected by a man? | /r/askTRP | 08/11/19 04:33 PM |
| 1 | Are traveling nurses the ultimate CC riders?I ask “which floor” (I stand next to the buttons) they answer and I said “me too” Wait, were you really staying on that same floor by dumb luck? Or were staying you on another floor and you faked it to try a pickup? (that's some balls if you did) | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 07:43 PM |
| 1 | How many times do you usually have sex with a girl before you're bored with her and ready to move on?I do agree, the hunt is fun There it is again. It's also in another new reply below ("thrill of the kill"). Must be something to it. | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Are traveling nurses the ultimate CC riders?What level of school are these teachers mostly... elementary, middle, or high school? | /r/askTRP | 04/11/19 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Are traveling nurses the ultimate CC riders?Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 09:21 PM |
| 5 | Are traveling nurses the ultimate CC riders?I've dated a female RN off-and-on. She swears all that stuff about nurses hooking up inside the hospital itself like exam rooms, on-call rooms, and bathrooms are overblown (though she does know of one married MD who hooked up with a nurse in a car in the parking garage) What's your take on this from what you've seen? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 07:51 PM |
| 1 | How many times do you usually have sex with a girl before you're bored with her and ready to move on?You may simply be a thrill-of-the-hunt kind of guy Someone else mentioned this in another reply. I never really thought much about it, but maybe that could really be a major reason why I get bored so quickly. Anyone else out there think the "thrill of the hunt" thing applies to them or anyone they know? | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 07:47 PM |
| 1 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?I occasionally see that RN, so I'll ask her about this out of curiosity. IIRC, she did say that ER docs are the most chill, and Nephrologists are the smartest. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 07:44 PM |
| -2 | How many times do you usually have sex with a girl before you're bored with her and ready to move on?Yes I have a word for this type of girl... "unicorn" Also, hoping for a girl like this to come along feels like oneitis. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 03:44 PM |
| 1 | How many times do you usually have sex with a girl before you're bored with her and ready to move on?True, see my reply above. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 01:38 PM |
| 5 | How many times do you usually have sex with a girl before you're bored with her and ready to move on?The first fuck might be 70% of the validation you get from accomplishing the hunt. God, that's a great way of looking at it. Never though of it that way. There are times when the girl is way more skilled than expected, (or maybe her body was better than what she presents when dressed) and that would lead to wanting more encounters with her. If her skills or looks are worse than expected, I guess any guy would get bored sooner than later. (edit) But still, I can't see a girl being such an awesome… | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 01:35 PM |
| 2 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?Good for you, but your description (and your friends) doesn't match with the majority of MD's I've known. Some nurses I've dated (as I said in my post below) describe most of the doctors they know as socially backward. Don't get me wrong, they're good guys, but I can't picture the majority of them working in a machine shop or playing football. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:42 PM |
| 3 | So basically her having a boyfriend means absolutely nothing?She told me most of the doctors she worked with were ugly and socially wierd. This. I've dated a couple of nurses who pretty much said the same thing. Also, most of the doctors I've been to (for checkups and occasional problems) are good guys, but usually very nerdy and beta. I would suppose because it's a career that requires a lot of empathy as well as a lot of the ability to sit still and consume lots of book knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 03/11/19 12:38 PM |
| 4 | Why do women get so intoxicated?Because women think emotionally while men think logically. Emotional thinking = "hey this alcohol feels great right now, let me have more and more and more" | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:11 PM |
| 1 | Do you guys know about mewing and squinching?Jawline and cheekbone structures are genetic. Disagree. There's a video out there that shows twins. One developed a breathing disorder which caused mouth breathing, which in turn caused an inferior facial bone structure. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 12:05 PM |
| -1 | Do not engage with Bipolar WomanAnyone want to speculate on what's going to happen to society when the technology reaches a point when we can actually show through a test (blood, brainscan, genetics, etc etc) if a person has a mental illness like depression, anxiety, schizophrenia, bipolar or BPD? | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:56 AM |
| 1 | Guys acknowledge my body, but girls indifferentWomen's primary factors when analyzing looks are height, face and race. This. Several times over the years I've overheard women talking about some guy they were really into, and the combo of words "tall and handsome" comes up (race is always assumed to be the same as them) We know what "tall" means, but "handsome" essentially means "face". The code-word for muscles is usually "built" but that's not as common. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/19 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Why do girls like it when you have your fingers in there mouth whilst fucking them?All women are like that I somewhat disagree. A while back I was running some plates and only one girl was totally into finger sucking along with other behavior like rubbing her clit while fucking and pulling on my hair, etc. I treated her no differently than any other other girl I was seeing and yet she stood out as those most sexually aggressive. And oddly enough, she didn't have any freaky tatooed/pierced look either, she was fairly conservative girl-next-door looking. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 06:43 PM |
| 1 | What is the terminology of the male equivalent to hypergamy?I know what you mean, and I don't know the exact name for it, but the majority of those traits come from having an abundance of the hormone testosterone. Testosterone gives those traits you're looking for. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 06:36 PM |
| 2 | Guys acknowledge my body, but girls indifferentSimilar thing happened to me a few years back. Posted a picture of myself at the beach (which I had never done) on FB and got plenty of "likes" from all my guy friends with congratulatory stuff like "way to go, dude" and almost no "likes" from any girls. About a week later posted a picture of myself in a Tux at my brothers wedding (from a few years earlier) and plenty of girls "liked" it. I guess sending a "like" for a guy in a Tux is socially acceptable for girls, but not for the same guy showi… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 06:32 PM |
| 1 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"Yea, I thought that too when I read it. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 02:11 PM |
| 1 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"So you're implying that the second guy should have had equal verbal abilities to "verbally fight back" at the first guy? That wasn't going to happen. The first guy was taking advantage of the second guy's verbal shortcomings, and the second guy fought back the best way he could. Like someone else replied, this was a very primal response. These two guys were likely from an era where political correctness and a cop on every corner to handle "assault charges" didn't exist. This is probably how name… | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 01:48 PM |
| 1 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"Yea, I'm really kind of surprised by some of the responses here. These two old codgers are probably from the era when "them's fightin' words" meant something, and you didn't call the cops for assault charges. The first guy was taking advantage of another guy who didn't have verbal skills, and so the second guy fought back the best way he could. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 01:41 PM |
| 3 | "You disrespecting me in front of these people here??"True, but I think in this case, the first guy was taking advantage of the second guy whom he knew couldn't fight back in a verbal sparring match. | /r/askTRP | 30/10/19 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Hey TRP: why do so many guys drive big pickup trucks that they don't need?But when I'm hauling a camper or hunting And good for you. But most of the guys I see around here are never hauling anything and hunting never happens. | /r/askTRP | 28/10/19 04:03 PM |
| 1 | Hey TRP: why do so many guys drive big pickup trucks that they don't need?No, midatlantic... but I have relatives in Houston. I visited them years ago and noticed that nearly everyone drove a pickup truck. When I asked a few family friends why, they usually responded with "it's great for when you need to carry stuff" but almost never do you see anyone carrying stuff around in their pickup. | /r/askTRP | 27/10/19 11:06 PM |
| 1 | Tinder gameAnyone have a link? I googled exactly that and couldn't find it. I did find this but I'm not sure it's the right one. | /r/askTRP | 26/10/19 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Will there be a "tipping point" where women finally realize that technology (dating apps) has given them unprecedented abundance, and then...But females are quickly breaking down those norms (look at all the polyamory articles popping up). They will figure out soon enough that polygamy is beneficial for females, and pretty soon, feminists will be openly polygamist. Very good point, pretty close to what I was thinking about when I posted . many, many females practice polygamy in college and shortly after True. I knew girls in college who had so many partners it was like a sport to them. It really is essentially polygamy as you say. | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:55 PM |
| 1 | Will there be a "tipping point" where women finally realize that technology (dating apps) has given them unprecedented abundance, and then...https://theamericansun.com/2019/10/02/the-puzzle-pieces-to-soft-prostitution/ | /r/askTRP | 22/10/19 09:51 PM |
| 9 | Will there be a "tipping point" where women finally realize that technology (dating apps) has given them unprecedented abundance, and then...Women already know that they have an abundance of men who would fuck them on demand. I disagree. I think the majority of women, especially the ones 30-60 have no clue about online dating and apps. Especially the married ones. They have no reason to check them out until maybe they get bored with their husband for whatever simple reason, and a divorced girlfriend tells them about all the guys she has at her fingertips on match, tinder, etc. girls on dating apps are very suspicious of men just look… | /r/askTRP | 20/10/19 07:45 PM |
| 0 | Have you gotten laid more since following TRPI'm not married. But I've experienced similar thoughts wrt being in LTR's (and so have some of my friends) | /r/askTRP | 08/10/19 11:37 AM |
| 1 | Have you gotten laid more since following TRPThanks. It looks like most of the things you mentioned in your reply are mostly on the not being nice side. | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:16 PM |
| 1 | Have you gotten laid more since following TRPTwo questions... First do you have the attitude kinda like "yea, I cheated while married and maybe it was wrong at the time, but the relationship/marriage eventually ended anyway, so now it doesn't really matter" ??? Second, do you have a positive feeling that instead of tying your dick exclusively to that one woman because of wedding vows, you made the most of the situation and got laid with other women and enjoyed it?? | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 10:14 PM |
| 2 | Have you gotten laid more since following TRPIs strategic withholding of attention/validation (toward the girl) a big part of your tactics? (I think my problem is that I'm still too nice and complimentary towards the women I'm with) | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:19 PM |
| 1 | are fat girls generally more difficult?Great advice. In my experience, pretty/thin girls are usually nicer than fatter girls. Like someone said in another reply : It’s a common misconception to believe that pretty girls = bitch, and fat girls = nice | /r/askTRP | 07/10/19 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?Which would imply that girls might place more emphasis on muscularity than height? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:13 PM |
| 2 | Are single mothers the new trend in the USA?The same happens in my country (Spain) All Spanish women over 45 who I know are divorced and with children. the divorce rate is around 85% Is Portugal (next door - very similar culture) also about the same with that? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:54 PM |
| 1 | Are single mothers the new trend in the USA?Growth Hormone. It affects height and other things. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:35 PM |
| 2 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?"I'll bet my chest is actually bigger and firmer than your chest" That might work. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 08:33 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?What I meant is that from the shorter girls PoV, she has a way higher pool of guys.... of all heights, including shorter guys who happen to be muscular... to choose from... compared to the tall girls who don't have as many options. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:19 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?Thanks, good one. I know some girls who are jogging fanatics. But instead of "bigger" I'll use "harder" like.... "I'll bet my glutes are actually rock harder than your glutes". (typo edit) | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:11 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?Yea, for years I overly worked my pects with bench presses and pushups, to the point where I'm trying to bring the other muscles up to match. Here's a great line that I've been able to pull off when the mood is right... say to a busty girl: "I'll bet my chest is actually bigger than your chest" ...it's great because it's almost like a neg for something they're used to being pedestalized for. And I've gotten responses like "you're probably right" which gives her a chance to give me an IOI. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 06:05 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?My mother would get frustrated at how much beef & chicken I ate at dinner to the point of saying "save some for your siblings". I was eating tons of eggs back when they were considered unhealthy. What made the difference was getting my T tested. It was on the low side, which is why I wasn't building as much muscle as I probably could have, considering all I ate and lifted. Blasting & cruising changed all that. Edit: Perhaps Low T may have contributed to my increased height. Apparently it has som… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?You're the prize Agreed. But all prizes have different values. To the shorter girl I'm just another guy in a sea of short/muscular guys (edit: AKA manlets). To the tall girl, the short/muscular guys don't exist and I'm worth much more to her. Now which girl is better worth the investment of time and attention? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:46 PM |
| 2 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?I don't think I've ever been blown away by a tall girl right after I approached her That's pretty close to my experience. I'm 6ft 3, 212lbs at 12-13% bf right now. I'm pretty close to that weight, but thanks to keto and intermittent fasting in the past few months (not easy) I was able to get my bodyfat down to about 10%. I'm far from HUGE, but it's nice to actually be able to see my abs for once. Thanks for making me realize that I should just ignore short girls and focus on tall girls. One thin… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:43 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?I searched on that and there's a thread about short girls having higher SMV on the RedPillWomen sub. There's a few posts that essentially say the same thing about shorter women having more choices of men taller than them, and average size men preferring shorter women so that they can be taller than her. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 05:36 PM |
| 2 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?I'm trying to rack my memories on this, but as best I can remember, the girls who've complimented me on my height tended to be the taller ones, I think. But it would make sense... to a shorter girl, most guys are relatively tall. Seeing a guy taller than her is an everyday occurrence. Why would she be so awe-struck by any guy taller than her if she see's it all the time? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:35 PM |
| 3 | Are single mothers the new trend in the USA?I wonder what are the factors that make someone grow bad or good in that situation. See my other post below... if a boy has the good genetic gifts of higher IQ, no psyche/neuro-chemical imbalances, good testosterone and GH, he'll likely do well despite not having a father around. And think about the opposite... what if a boy has these gifts but has a father who's super beta/BP or is projecting his own mental problems on his son? How's that any better? | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:18 PM |
| 2 | Are single mothers the new trend in the USA?See item #3 - "chemical imbalances" is shorthand for "psychological problems" (which are caused by neuro chemical imbalances) If a guy has psyche issues (like Ted Bundy) he's not going to succeed. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Tall guys - do ever think about shorter vs taller girls this way?I disagree... I think girls value tallness mainly to the point where the guy is taller than her. After that point, tallness levels off in value and muscularity increases in value. A short girl has a wider pool of muscular guys (that are taller than her) to choose from. She'll have a much higher chance of flaking on me. But to a tall girl, I'm gold. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 03:01 PM |
| 1 | I can attract women, but I feel I have nothing to talk about with them and my fucks given for 'entertaining' them just to get pussy is getting less and less the older I get. Normal? What do?I’ll even double down on that House MD comment. I see tons of other men including myself smoke week, drink more, play video games, porn anything for mind numbing thing while in a relationship. Wow. I can see similar situations like that with my friends in relationships | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 12:18 PM |
| 1 | Should I message all my tinder matches?Haven't done Tinder yet, but this sounds like good advice. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:55 AM |
| 1 | Opinions about glassesWhy not Lasik/PRK? I got PRK after wearing contacts for a few years. I always hated wearing glasses. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:41 AM |
| 2 | A steroid talk needs to be had.Agreed. The online market for anabolics is heavily based on reputation, and if one does their due diligence to find the best sources, their UGL stuff is very, very good. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Do I need TRT?This is an excellent reply. Nothing more needs to be said. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | A steroid talk needs to be had.In order to understand steroids, one must first understand Testosterone. That's what made the difference for me. Once I read everything I could find on Test, I then understood how anabolic steroids are essentially just enhanced versions of test. | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:28 AM |
| 6 | Are single mothers the new trend in the USA?Those kids grow up and be damaged or become beta cucks with no father figure guiding them. I'm going to disagree here. If a boy has these 4 things as a result of genetic luck: Decent IQ No neuro "chemical imbalances" to cause depression, anxiety, adhd, etc Decent GH for height Decent Testosterone for muscle He's going to be able to figure things out for himself and become an alpha, irregardless of whether there's a dad in the picture or not. Chances are probably good that his "baby daddy" had th… | /r/askTRP | 06/10/19 11:24 AM |
| 1 | Ever work your bicep/tricep only on one side for a while?If you trained compound mvts your physique wouldn’t be as unbalanced. Do Rows, Bench and Military Press with a barbell. Same applies to curls and tricep extensions. Do Chin ups, pull ups, dips, push ups. I am doing lots of compounds. If you're working both sides at once the stronger arm will be forced to quit when the weaker arm gives out. Over time they'll become balanced. Thanks, I never thought of it that way. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 06:54 PM |
| 3 | I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?shitty relationship problems Which is what probably happened with my brothers friends divorce. On one hand he's complaining about all these hook-ups which maybe he thinks are shallow or whatever... but then he gets into a deep LTR and finds that she's got the usual AWALT crazy issues. | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:42 PM |
| 3 | I see/hear some guys saying "Banging lots of women eventually gets old fast" Who disagrees?Most men that say that are not driven I have found But doesn't the opposite get into "beta bucks" territory? I see guys who devote their lives so much to their careers to the point of becoming skinny fat "dad bod" types who are almost asexual. (But women might call these guys "driven" because they make for good $$$ providers) | /r/askTRP | 05/10/19 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Why WOULDN'T you want a girl to feel clingy and insecure?Great reply. I've known a few who fit this description. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Girlfriend cheated on meAlso learned something new too. Thanks. | /r/askTRP | 01/10/19 11:10 PM |
| 1 | So you have any observations or theories about women who are naturally masculine?ask for dick pics WTF, this really happens? Mostly over what? Tinder, dating apps, FB, or just iMessage/texting? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 11:03 PM |
| 3 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?Holy shit, according to that article, the female-to-male ratio at that retirement community is about 10:1. These women are openly propositioning the guys for sex. A guess a woman's SMV really does go down over time. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 11:00 PM |
| 3 | One Simple Trick That Doubled My Matches on TinderAlso it’s an appropriate place to not have a shirt on. This. The only shirtless pic I've ever allowed of myself to be public is one taken on the beach because that's an appropriate place to be shirtless. I would NEVER do a mirror selfie. (and OP, thanks for the post... One of these days I'm going to take the plunge onto Tinder) | /r/TheRedPill | 26/09/19 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Willing To Drive 4 Hours + Rent a Hotel Room To See Me - IS SHE CRAZY?Do you truly have an abundance mentality? Are there a decent amount of other girls just as available to you? If so, then walk away from this one. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 05:12 PM |
| 1 | Daygame: do you often think of a great thing to say about 10 seconds too late?Thanks. One idea I might do when I see a girl I'd like to talk to (and I'm drawing a blank) is just stop and pull out my phone like I'm checking it... but in actuality I'm thinking of something to say to her (after I put it back in my pocket). | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 05:03 PM |
| 12 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?What makes you think at 70 they're going to be warm inviting people that sing to animals and bake delicious pumpkin pies? Agreed. The GF's I mentioned in my OP strike me as more whiny than warm. Hopefully by the time we're 70 a combo of weightlifting + keto + IF + TRT + GH + whatever medical advances are invented will have us be much more attractive to women who are still in good physical and mental shape. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 04:50 PM |
| 1 | Daygame: do you often think of a great thing to say about 10 seconds too late?Thanks, that's why I keep at it. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 04:12 PM |
| 1 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?This reply just reeks of crab bucket mentality. Hopefully many TRP men of this generation will re-define what it means to be 70. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 04:09 PM |
| 1 | How to get the girl back to your place first date and overcome ASD, logistics, etcEventually I get her to leave the 2nd bar I'm curious as to what you said that accomplished this. Question for anyone: what if he had used some assertive rationale for not wanting to be in that bar anymore like... "I can't stand this place/I wanna get outta here/this place sucks... let's just go to my place now etc etc" How's that? | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 04:07 PM |
| 11 | If I'm single at 70-something, will I be lonely ...or having lots of divorced/widowed women bugging the hell out of me?As long as you take your test consistently Agreed. I've done some high test-only cycles, but yes... all men over a certain age should be on TRT. Possibly GH too. | /r/askTRP | 26/09/19 03:55 PM |
| 12 | What to respond when girl asks how many girlfriends I've had before?This. I made this mistake a few years ago. I learned the hard way. Never again. | /r/askTRP | 20/09/19 08:32 PM |
| 0 | Questions about asking girls to dance at a clubThat hand five trick is genius. Its ingrained subconsciously to not reject a high five. Agreed. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 10:00 PM |
| 5 | Questions about asking girls to dance at a clubSo if you get rejected, start laughing like she just told you a joke. That's a great idea. But to flesh it out, what would be a good thing to actually say to the girl as you're laughing? Something that actually makes you look good if you might talk to her again later? Something like: Me: "Hey, this is a cool song...let's go dance right now" Her: "No, I don't want to" Me: (laughing) "Ha ha.. oh wow, you're BRUTAL" (implying that she's overly cold) or: "Ha ha... oh wow, what was I even thinking?" … | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 09:58 PM |
| 4 | Isn't the idea of seducing women fundamentally bluepilled?she can download Tinder and have 90 guys exactly like me at her beck and call, within 10 minutes Hard reality, let that sink in everyone. Even before Tinder, I talked with girls who were overwhelmed at the flood of choices they had when they signed up with Match or eHarmony or whatever dating sites were big back then. | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 04:08 PM |
| 3 | Questions about asking girls to dance at a clubYea, I've totally accepted that girls will almost always be in groups. A universal rule is to avoid ASKING to dance. And the problem is that's the BP advice we're taught from an early age: "Go up and ASK her to dance" (with the unrealistic mental image that she's standing alone, not in a group). And it's tough to get out of that mindset. Outside of TRP/PUA, it's rare to ever hear other more assertive strategies that don't involve asking. Edit: it just occurred to me that I even used the word ASK… | /r/askTRP | 19/09/19 03:52 PM |
| 1 | How does Dwayne Johnson eat so much yet stay so lean?But like I asked in another reply... what is more likely burning most of the calories? The workouts or just the BMR of the muscle mass? | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 02:17 PM |
| 1 | How does Dwayne Johnson eat so much yet stay so lean?Different people have got different metabolism and activity levels. The more muscle you have to more kcal you need to sustain it. Agreed, I'm just trying to figure which burns more: his activity/workout levels, or just the muscle mass BMR/TDEE. he has been juicing for decades Also agreed, there's even a few posts about him in nattyorjuice. But it's interesting to note that he was just BIG in his football/wrestling days, but he got CUT in his movie days. Did he change from bulking stuff like Test… | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 02:14 PM |
| 1 | How does Dwayne Johnson eat so much yet stay so lean?So what is burning most of those calories? Is it his workout, or just what's needed to maintain that muscle mass? (edit - In the past I've also read other articles about top bodybuilders who eat almost 'round the clock) | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 02:05 PM |
| 2 | Testosterone boosters you’ve had success with?Agreed. After doing one's homework on how Test works, it then becomes a matter of finding a good source and becoming familiar with bitcoin to buy it. (I've done several long Test-only cycles myself) | /r/askTRP | 15/09/19 11:29 AM |
| 2 | Does anyone else here see lifting/exercise as hobby #1?In other words, you've upgraded it from a hobby... and that's sort of in the ballpark of what I'm talking about here. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 11:10 PM |
| 6 | The weakened signal hits home. "A new study is making the rounds that found a mismatch between the imaginary men unmarried women are planning on marrying, and the real life unmarried men available..." "They found that a woman’s made-up hubby makes 58 percent more money than [available] bachelors.""I like the way you look. Give me your number to see if we can turn this physical attraction into an emotional one." Good one. Do you pull out your phone (in a confident way) like you're expecting her to start reciting her number to you, or what? | /r/TheRedPill | 14/09/19 10:55 PM |
| 2 | FIRST POST: Should you build rapport over text before asking a date? And how straight-forward should my intentions be?Two things that make men look feminine in texts & posts... Smileys/Emojis Exclamation points at the end of sentences. Stop using them. | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 10:35 PM |
| 1 | Obese virgin needs a harsh reality checkIn addition to all the guys here who are saying to fast & reduce calories, I'd also suggest you read up a lot on keto You're probably like most who believe that fatty foods make you fat. They don't - it's the carbs that make you fat. Right now as a start you need to avoid anything with sugar in it, as well as things that have flour (bread, pasta, cakes, etc) as well as anything with potatoes or corn or rice. Avoid sugar and starches. Alcohol too. Unfortunately, much of this is what makes up the … | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 10:29 PM |
| 19 | My 9 month LTR is doomed isn't it?No homo but the room was filled with super attractive studs in uniforms. There are only a few careers where "workout a LOT and stay in top shape" is part of the job description, to name a few... Pro Athlete Action Movie Actor Military (and you're now competing with one of those in that list - weightlifting has to become part of your life if you want to compete with that) | /r/askTRP | 14/09/19 03:20 PM |
| 1 | The aggressive slut vs the no-resistant slut -- ever notice this?The general escalation pattern is: forearm -> lower back -> upper arm -> outer thigh -> stomach -> inner thigh. Thanks, I had never seen it laid out in a logical sequence like that. And thanks for the rest of the post too. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | The aggressive slut vs the no-resistant slut -- ever notice this?Good points. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 11:21 AM |
| 1 | The aggressive slut vs the no-resistant slut -- ever notice this?Yea, the aggressive sluts are much rarer than the passive ones. | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 11:20 AM |
| 0 | The aggressive slut vs the no-resistant slut -- ever notice this?So what your saying is to maybe touch her boobs or ass in a way that's playful/joking, (early in the interaction) and see how she reacts to that? | /r/askTRP | 11/09/19 11:19 AM |
| 169 | Had a girl yesterday then 10 whiteknights fucked meTHIS. Really. You should have called the police right then. (edit: go into a safe place like a nearby convenience store or whatever) Even if they ran away, she KNOWS who he his, and it would put her in a position of having to identify and turn on him. Why do we not report things like this? I have a hunch that it may have something to do with our media: have you ever noticed how many times people get punched in movies and TV shows and it never gets reported to the police? Because it would wreck t… | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Cooking for womenA great cooking date is tacos. Thanks, Great idea. Including all the other things you mentioned, like the music and booze. | /r/askTRP | 07/09/19 02:40 PM |
| 1 | Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?Thanks again for the insight. Yea, it wasn't qualification, just "the first part". Tone of voice makes a huge part of what makes it all work. I looked up Evolution Daily, and it's very interesting. Link Thanks again. Edit: Holy shit his latest talk (Approaching Women Direct or Indirect?) goes into a lot of the stuff relevant in this thread. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:42 PM |
| 2 | Any tips to survive in a female-dominated workplace?OP, what industry or what kind of department is it? Years ago, I had to do two IT consulting gigs in Accounting depts, and noticed the field was dominated by women. Many were polite, but there was always this undercurrent of self centeredness and that they'd back stab for any reason, with much less understanding than men would do. Get out of there. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:37 PM |
| 3 | If a LTR says she wants to take a break and it’s not cuz of “us” “just needs to clear her head” what should I think of this?No 1 priority should always be SMV. The higher it is, the less likely shit like this is to happen. And we should all change our mindsets about LTR's. Keep repeating :"She was never yours, it was only your turn" Plates, plates, plates. | /r/askTRP | 01/09/19 03:27 PM |
| 1 | Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?"weasel out" opportunities Yea, I gotta get out of the habit of wording things that way. Think about how the most beta chump would word this: "I'm not trying to impose... but I just wanted to ask... if it's OK with you... would you like to join me for coffee sometime that's convenient for you? If you don't mind? " And then word it in the complete opposite direction. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 07:10 PM |
| 1 | Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?Yea, i totally get it. Just trying to get past being used to phrasing things like a question. Instead of giving a definite time, but not phrasing it like a question, how's this: "The Starbucks down the street is always cool. You should join me there sometime" | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 05:44 PM |
| 1 | Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?"I really like that perfume, you smell amazing". Good one. "I like those leggings - your legs are really fit" (good for fitness chicks) "I like that top - it brings out your voluptuousness" (actually used something like this on a woman I know whom I had always seen in biz clothes, and she showed up at a party in casual clothes - holy shit was she stacked) | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Game opener question: is this too much validation or not?Why do you need a qualifier? Maybe "qualifier" wasn't the right term. It just sounded better than "the first part". So do all the 400 chumps who have used the same line on her. My experiences are showing me that women are not getting complimented as much as we think. Think about it: it takes a bit of balls to tell a woman you just met that she looks hot/sexy. Most beta chumps don't have any balls like that. I've gotten responses like "Thank you - it's been a long time since anyone said anything … | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Reply to "Not having sex with you tonight" ?Usually just say "alright" "cool", etc. Keep kissing though; I do this a lot. Act like I'm not desperate while still keeping my arms around her (if we're standing) and sporadically kissing her neck and sometimes giving her goosebumps. Anyone else do this? | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 11:42 AM |
| 3 | What do you do as soon as you wake up?This. Absolute first thing is always that big glass of water. Usually with a small splash of lemon or ACV in it for some acidity. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 11:38 AM |
| 1 | Daygame: why to do if you suddenly realize she's talking on the phone with airpods?Thanks, I really appreciate discussing this stuff. Go see the new post I just put up in this sub. | /r/askTRP | 31/08/19 11:27 AM |
| 1 | Hypothetical: quads vs calves - which would you choose?I don't want to influence how people answer this, but its kinda like my friend who has no abs and small pects, but works the hell out of his biceps and triceps. Why? Because that's the part that his shirt doesn't cover. Its almost the same with shorts in the summer: your quads are covered but your calves are out there. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Daygame: why to do if you suddenly realize she's talking on the phone with airpods?I was away for a few days, and this is my first chance to reply. Thanks, I appreciate members on this sub who like to discuss the details of game. "i don't really do this, but you are sexy as hell. let's hangout sometime" Thats a great line. But the subject of complementing a girl ("you are sexy as hell") is weird in this sub. A lot of guys here will say it gives her too much validation... but often times, a compliment like this really works wonders. | /r/askTRP | 30/08/19 07:46 PM |
| 1 | What style of game works best for you?I prefer what's known as "indirect openers" (Google it) It's when you ask a girl about something innocous that's relevant to the situation at hand, and then try to build from there. True example from last week: saw a mega-tit woman in a supermarket that I frequent. She was looking around in the section that has summer beach stuff. I asked something like "I guess this is all they have left before Fall comes?". Built the conversation from there. After about 3-5 mins, exchanged names, but not numbe… | /r/askTRP | 27/08/19 08:47 PM |
| 1 | You know what's great about finally having abs?Agreed, I did this because I/me/myself always wanted my abs to show. Getting some validation is the side dish. | /r/askTRP | 19/08/19 05:31 PM |
| 1 | You know what's great about finally having abs?guys could add a couple points to their face by getting abs Yes, this too. By reducing BF it also helps define your jawline. | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 11:48 AM |
| 2 | Game: how many of you do the "type your number into my phone so I can text you" trick?Tactic | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 11:10 AM |
| 1 | Game: how many of you do the "type your number into my phone so I can text you" trick?Think about how awkward that probably was. I wasn't awkward at all. She was genuinely interested in what I was talking about and wanted to learn more. She's a fitness fanatic. In retrospect, it probably would have been easier to just say "let me see your phone a second" and then just call my own number (let it ring once) and then tell her "now that I've got your number, I'll text you some interesting links about this" | /r/askTRP | 18/08/19 11:10 AM |
| 2 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?don't lay it on so thick you appear desperate/needy, but she should know you're interested, and not as an orbiter/friend/tampon/penpal. This. It's crucial to find the sweetspot. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:07 PM |
| 3 | Game: how many of you do the "type your number into my phone so I can text you" trick?Wow, and that's without even much of a conversation. There's been at least two other women I've had little keto/IF chats with (it seems to be a topic that women like, because it involves food, go figure) I may try this same tactic with them next time I see them. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 06:04 PM |
| 2 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?It seems to work most of the time for me. Maybe it's because in live social situations like a party or club, no girl wants to just stand there alone like nobody wants her, so they at least want to look like they're paired off with a guy. And I make a decent effort to be a good conversationalist with women. I don't think I'd go so far as to threaten to punch anyone, I just stand my ground if any other guy intrudes on our conversation. But sometimes it backfires... you spend the whole night gaming… | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?Just curious, can ask your ballpark age? Is there a sweetspot wrt age with Tinder? | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:38 PM |
| 2 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?Polarize, Isolate, Escalate. This. Many times at a party or club, I'll laser focus on a girl and essentially lock out any other guy from her for that night. Trying to send the message that "I'm into you, and nobody else here tonite is better for you than me" and escalate nonstop. | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:36 PM |
| 1 | Field report: Tried gaming a chick for the very first time in my life at a bar (in Japan) and failed - where did I go wrong?Yea this seems frustrating. You spend most of your night with her as your only target, and the IoI's and kino seemed to be working alright, but when you went in for a light k-close she rejected you. It's as if she liked the attention of you being a semi-orbiter, but not enough to seal the deal. The other guy got that. Also, contrasting this against your good fortune on Tinder, it makes one want to ask "why even bother with this 90's era speed dating stuff when there's new technologies that blow … | /r/askTRP | 17/08/19 05:28 PM |
| 6 | A secondary reason girls go for bad boys?Girls don’t want bad boys Although I didn't recognize it at the time (because I was pre-TRP) I've seen more than a few nice girls with guys with whom they seemed totally out of place being with. Now I know why. It ain't just the hoes, it's the nice girls too. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:48 PM |
| 1 | A secondary reason girls go for bad boys?What I was thinking. If the nice guy gives off an "I'm going to wait until the 3rd date before I try anything" vibe vs the bad boy who gives off a "I only want your pussy now" vibe, which would she gravitate toward? | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 12:43 PM |
| 3 | Lifting seems a chore instead of anything fulfillingOne thing you have to internalize is that lifting/bodybuilding is a SLOW process. There are going to be times when you feel that you've worked your butt off and have nothing or barely anything to show for it. You need to keep faith that this is a slow, SLOW process and the gains will come very gradually over a long time. | /r/askTRP | 10/08/19 11:53 AM |
| 1 | Plate with children?Great reply. There are probably so many guys like OP who think "it's all chill, what could possibly go wrong?" who need a good cold slap . | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:11 PM |
| 1 | Plate with children?Every year single moms are becoming more common. And every year single guys who won't commit to marriage are becoming more common too. Interesting how that's working out. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 08:09 PM |
| 1 | Approaching at the gym: yes or no?Thanks, that's pretty much what I was thinking. Lifting comes first. But if an opportunity arises, take it slowly. | /r/askTRP | 04/08/19 07:33 PM |
| 1 | Alpha widow questionWhen I wrote this, I was thinking that Guy A was in his prime in his late teens, and now 10 years have passed. The women would be late 20's, not quite at the wall yet. But still, I'm just not as obsessed with "the wall" as some guys in this forum are. | /r/askTRP | 03/08/19 04:14 PM |
| 0 | How to reject a girl like a gentleman(copy & paste from another thread) IIRC from reading all this TRP stuff is that females have evolved better systems (than men) for handling breakups. In other words, it's not as big of a deal for them compared to us guys. Is that correct? Just knowing this may be a big help for the OP. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Broke up with an LTR but feel like I did it the wrong wayIIRC from reading all this TRP stuff is that females have evolved better systems (than men) for handling breakups. In other words, it's not as big of a deal for them compared to us guys. Is that correct? Just knowing this may be a big help for the OP. | /r/askTRP | 23/07/19 04:01 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone tried to grope or hit on your gf/ wife in your presence?Same as before, it made no difference to her. She probably thought he was being "chivalrous". i was standing behind her when it happened, so she didn't see the look on my face. Maybe the whole thing didn't matter to her at all, but it annoyed me. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 11:34 PM |
| 6 | Has anyone tried to grope or hit on your gf/ wife in your presence?Years ago when I was skinny AF, I was in a club with a GF and some guy introduces himself to her, grabs her hand and kisses it, WK style. I just stood there looking annoyed. Today... 50lbs of muscle later... I'd probably get in his face and say "Dude WTF do you think you're doing?" | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 07:40 PM |
| 1 | Big belly when bulking400+g carbs Cut out the carbs and get those calories from fats instead. I know, it goes against the conventional wisdom of what we grew up with. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 07:31 PM |
| 3 | All women are hypergamous. Does this mean that all will branch swing given the chance or do they give you an opportunity to prove your smv before they swing?Great post. The difference between what women want with the Georgian man vs the Estonian man is telling. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:11 PM |
| 4 | All women are hypergamous. Does this mean that all will branch swing given the chance or do they give you an opportunity to prove your smv before they swing?This. I was always perplexed whenever I saw Muslims and how the women had to be completely covered in clothes while the men wore whatever. Thanks to TRP, I understand why now. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:08 PM |
| 2 | I wear glasses, and I want to grow a beard. Besides having a good physique, what else can I do to avoid the "soyboy" look?Get contacts. I did as soon as I could when I was old enough (13yo) Later on I got Lasik. I refuse to wear glasses. I wear a stubble beard with the setting on my Norelco at 4mm. And I lift and avoid carbs. | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 06:01 PM |
| 1 | Will common female psyche problems show up on DNA tests in the near future?Anyone have any good links? Here's the first two I found: https://www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC1112686/ https://www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/saving-normal/201604/what-you-need-know-about-the-genetics-mental-disorders | /r/askTRP | 21/07/19 02:37 PM |
| 121 | Will I ever not have to deal with my wife being a disrespectful c*@^?To be honest, it may not matter if a man has sky-high SMV, if a woman feels fairly comfortable that the man will not leave her, then she'll probably always shit-test and say disrespectful stuff to him. Anyone else agree or disagree? And is "dread" the cure for this? | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 04:49 PM |
| 7 | What percentage of girls do you think hate their current boyfriend and are cheating on them?Don't know the percentage, But there was a time when it seemed like almost every girl I was "with" (like a date or post-party hookup) had a boyfriend. And it's amazing how quickly they forgot about him when things started to escalate. I once did a girl who not only had a very serious BF, she got engaged to him about 2 months later. I also once got a BJ from a girl who was engaged. Every woman is always available if things are right. | /r/askTRP | 13/07/19 04:43 PM |
| 1 | PUA/game opener question (anyone else do this? and what's it's called?)Thank you. Googling it now. (and the first article I've found mentions that the hardest part about it is transitioning to a useful conversation, just like I mentioned in my OP) | /r/askTRP | 06/07/19 04:46 PM |
| 2 | BJ's vs Fucking: does anyone else see it like this?that's the situation I feel most dominant in See my post above. I think a big part of why many of us guys like BJ's is not just the nice feeling but also the sense of dominance. | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 07:39 PM |
| 2 | BJ's vs Fucking: does anyone else see it like this?I had an epiphany getting head once. Your post just gave me a "why didn't I think of that?" moment. Just curious, are you using a condom mostly because the girls aren't on the pill? Or they are and you just want to last longer? Speaking for myself, even if the girl is on the pill, I'll often wear a condom to last longer, then pull it off at the last moment and finish inside her for that raw feeling. But if she's not on the pill, I'll finish in the condom inside her. But this idea is great.. just… | /r/askTRP | 04/07/19 07:38 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy vs Polygamy: females seek one 10, while males are happy with an endless string of 5-7's?High testosterone guys go for hotter girls Do you know what it's like to be High Testosterone? I'm currently on my summer blast and my T level is "out of range". To me, everything from a 5 to a 10 looks equally good. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 08:10 PM |
| 0 | Wife of 7 years called me with his ex's name during sex.I know I had beta tendencies Get your Testosterone checked, and if it's low, then seek a doctor who'll put you on TRT. Start Googling. | /r/askTRP | 29/06/19 05:05 PM |
| 1 | What is it about nerdy girls with big boobs?Again, nothing special about them so you post it on here. Are you blind? You think the busty girl vs the petite girl vs the tall blonde vs the fat chick all look the same? | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 12:45 PM |
| 1 | What is it about nerdy girls with big boobs?Nothing special about them. AWALT. As I've come to understand it, AWALT pertains mostly to a woman's personality -- things like hypergamy, solipsism, rationalizing, feelz, etc etc. But when it comes to physical features perhaps NAWALT? Some win the genetic lottery for boobs. Some are tall or petite. Some have a metabolism which helps them stay thin. Womens personalities are the minefield, but their looks (which a lot has to do with genetic luck) are what we mostly enjoy them for. In this case, I… | /r/askTRP | 23/06/19 12:19 PM |
| 4 | "Men are for conversation, and women are for sex" ??Good point. Can't really remember. Probably some stupid shit. Or maybe I was gaming her. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 08:21 PM |
| 5 | "Men are for conversation, and women are for sex" ??Although my mother was not a single mom, she's quite the narcicisst, and I also learned to only pay half attention to her. | /r/askTRP | 18/06/19 08:20 PM |
| 9 | Would you fuck a 4?looked like she was overweight and was trying to hide it by wearing clothes that were too big or didn't fit well. As it turns out she had huge, huge, huge amazing tits A friend of mine went thru this exact same thing. She seemed fat until her were clothes off. Her tits were THAT big. I've found a few girls like that, but not to that extreme. Most girls with very big tits are somewhat self conscious about them and tend to hide them under baggy clothing. Being aware of this can be helpful. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 11:24 PM |
| 4 | Do you guys think monogamy and loyalty is dead?I would suppose monogamy and loyalty are still alive for women who are with guys who are of super high value (money, looks, charm, etc) that they could almost never replace. | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:09 PM |
| 29 | Would you fuck a 4?This. Was with a girl a few years back who was probably a 4 or so, but gawdammm did she know what she was doing in bed. I also walked away from a couple of girls who looked 4-5 in their clothes but it didnt occur to me that they may have looked MUCH better naked. Also did a girl with massive tits who was otherwise a 4 everywhere else. Anyone else here have similar experiences? | /r/askTRP | 10/06/19 09:07 PM |
| 2 | How to initiate sex without any kissing?Good question if an unusual one. Yea, if you think about, our society is soooooo used to doing things this way, that it's considered unusual to not start with kissing, then proceed from there... | /r/askTRP | 25/05/19 11:33 AM |
| 1 | Have you known girls whose HB rating went up substantially after their clothes were off?Sometimes they are, but sometimes (the opposite) the face is fine, but the body doesn't seem so, yet magically becomes great when her clothes are off. | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 02:41 PM |
| 1 | First time clubbing aloneBeen out clubbing by myself many times - sometimes it's just to see a band that nobody else wanted to go along, so I just went with the intention of watching them play, no pickup intentions. Then there's the times I go to dance clubs alone. That's totally with the intention of asking girls to dance any maybe any kind of pickup action. I'll ask lots of girls to dance, get plenty of rejection, but it doesn't faze me. Most girls don't seem to care if you're there by yourself or not. You can just ma… | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 02:35 PM |
| 6 | Signs of needinessProblem is -- I've practiced some of the usual tactics of not showing neediness, and sometime it creates a situation of a girl throwing a lot of annoying comfort tests (IE: "I don't feel that you're really into me" and shit like that.) | /r/askTRP | 18/05/19 02:26 PM |
| 4 | Need help getting over a girl in highschool after comically missing every chanceBeing the nice guy gets you nowhere with women Truth. Being the successful guy gets you somewhere with women You don't have to be either a bad boy or a nice guy. Find success in things and the women will follow. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:36 PM |
| 0 | Why am I getting "Matrix red/blue pill" doubt about having children as the end game?If it were only that easy. The Matrix (as used in these subs) is essentially a metaphor for the societal forces that are sweeping us along. Those forces are definitely not telling us to do whatever we want. They're telling us every minute of our lives to do what society wants us to do. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:29 PM |
| 0 | Why am I getting "Matrix red/blue pill" doubt about having children as the end game?It’s important that my brother and I have sons Funny you should mention that. What if you only had daughters? Some of my motivation for my post was seeing my much older brother expressing his unhappiness of how the time & money suck of marriage & kids have killed a lot of opportunities for him. He also has all daughters and it's unlikely a son will come along. | /r/askTRP | 14/04/19 08:28 PM |
| 1 | Is this an example of "game" or just "dumbing down"?You can't really tell if he's being serious or not Like I said in another reply, these posts don't always convey all the meaning. In this case he's totally being serious and putting himself in her frame and acting as if every word from her mouth is golden truth. Totally stroking her ego. He does stuff like this all the time. He wants pussy THAT badly. Oh that's cool. Probably what I should have said. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 06:49 PM |
| 3 | HBO Documentary: The Inventor (Elizabeth Holmes/Theranos)they invested in her as a symbol. They wanted so much TBH, I kinda wanted Theranos to succeed because it seemed like a cool idea to do these quick and easy blood tests (it was around the time 23andMe was getting big too). I could care less about the Girl Power angle. Once it all fell apart, it came out that traditional blood testing labs had known for decades that you can't get a good blood test from a simple finger prick. They had already been down that road. But she had managed to fool so many… | /r/TheRedPill | 31/03/19 06:39 PM |
| 89 | Drunk "wanna fuck later" text. Shit test?IMHO, I would have replied with some kind of "I'll pick you up later" approach rather than expecting her to come to me. I just don't ever trust that a woman is going to be pro-active and DO something. It also sucks that you may have not pursued an opportunity with another girl at the party because you may have thought you have a sure thing for later in the evening. | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 06:25 PM |
| 1 | Is this an example of "game" or just "dumbing down"?The problem with posting convos is that people may hear them in their own voice in different ways. I did my "never believed in that stuff" response in a polite tone, but I guess it could come across as condescending. That's a good reply you posted. To me that's more of what "game" probably should be... playing it cool. My friend on the other hand would go from talking to us buddies in one way, and then totally switching to a different personality when it came to girls... overly complimentary/nee… | /r/askTRP | 31/03/19 06:22 PM |
| 3 | Orthotropics: improving your health and facial beautyThanks for this post and the other one you put under the other Orthotropics thread. Speaking for myself, I see my face as being longer and thinner than it probably should have been due to nasal obstructions which in turn caused me to do a lot of mouth breathing over the years. I'm now more congnescent of my mouth breathing because of this. I started mewing in Jan. (surprised it hasn't been mentioned much in TRP until now) I'm way past puberty but at least I can pick up good habits (tongue postur… | /r/TheRedPill | 17/03/19 04:26 PM |
| 3 | Salty LemonadeMaybe this is why calm and confidence is selected for in men Calm and confidence is also the result of higher testosterone and a good mix of brain chemistry, which is also something worth naturally selecting for. | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 05:37 PM |
| 2 | How has your “type” (or characteristics you thought were dealbreakers with women) changed as you’ve aged?I used to be waaay too fanatical about huge boobs. Over time I've learned not to be so picky about that. | /r/askTRP | 14/03/19 05:31 PM |
| 0 | Don't be this guy, cucked for 8 years.and is just fucking huge just by his genetics I pretty much stopped reading at this line. Brad is a testosterone genetic lottery winner. He'll have a ton of lean muscle compared to everyone else (and more confidence/less anxiety) because that's what testosterone does. If someone were to start injecting Joe with test, he'd give Brad some competition, but realistically no one is going to inject a teen with test unless if by dumb luck he learns about it on his own. So Brad is lucky to have naturall… | /r/TheRedPill | 13/03/19 10:57 PM |
| 1 | How to game shy girlsthere is practically no thing like a shy girl This. She may be quiet in some social situations, but get her into a situation where she's comfortable, and the shyness goes away. And then you may even get to enjoy the contrast of a seemingly shy girl who's actually quite wild. | /r/askTRP | 13/03/19 10:49 PM |
| 1 | "Sex is not important for a relationship" Shit TestI have a similar story. Years ago I semi-dated a girl who started refusing sex and told me something similar like "our relationship doesn't have to include sex". Found out after a few drinks one night that she had a LTR with a guy years before who was much MUCH more "bad boy" than me and she was pretty damn raunchy with him. This never really clicked with me until I found these Red Pill subs. Thank you guys for all this great knowledge. | /r/askTRP | 05/03/19 11:25 PM |
| 3 | The ubiquitous frame of hypergamy. "The feral woman’s preferred sexual experience is to be seduced by a series of men who prove their alphaness to her."I had relatives near Houston whom I've visited several times and (after visiting Austin and Dallas) it's amazing how Austin is different from the rest of the state. | /r/TheRedPill | 05/03/19 11:19 PM |
| 1 | You should NEVER ignore any signs of infidelityTrue story - my nephew attended a private pre-K. A few times I picked him up after school as a favor to my brother and SiL who occasionally had work obligations. The school was owned and run by a 30-something woman. One time I saw her husband there (who apparently had his own separate career) doing some carpentry work there to help her out. I found out a few years later that they divorced after she had an affair with one of the dads of one of her her students. She was this quiet, serious teacher… | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 12:44 PM |
| 1 | The ‘real’ way to look at my life from an RP perspective...no one should have to cope with a BPD or an NPD in their lives; they are toxic emotional vampires who will never bring any positivity A few years ago I had never even heard of BPD or NPD, and even if I had I don't think anyone else around me would have known what it was. Now we can throw these terms around and everyone knows what they mean. At least in some ways our society is making progress in recognizing these things. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 12:34 PM |
| 1 | Bumble is launching a women-first networking tool that lets recruiters exclude men"representation" It's almost like an Orwellian thing how that article used that word. | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 12:27 PM |
| 1 | A High School Analysis of TRP PrinciplesTotally how I feel. Every day there's a new RP truth that makes me wanna say "I wish I had known that" or "I wish I could have been more naturally talented at figuring things out like that on my own". | /r/TheRedPill | 03/03/19 12:24 PM |
| 1 | HELP! Girl went to the club with me and kissed another guy, unsure what to doThis. It's happened to me twice, once at a party and another at a school dance (different girls that I had taken to these). They both started flirting with other guys, so I went and started flirting with other girls. The reactions were different: one reverted her interest back to me, while the other didn't and I just drove her home in near silence and never contacted her again. I think you meant to write "Get rid of your lack of abundance mindset" | /r/askTRP | 03/03/19 12:04 PM |
| 1 | Isn't the divorce rate statistic irrelevant in TRP context?"she's was never yours, it was only your turn" | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:06 PM |
| 25 | Is it ever ok to open up to Women?Best post in the thread IMHO. It takes a while but "suffer in silence" is what you have to do. | /r/askTRP | 28/02/19 05:02 PM |
| 1 | ROOSH: Never Listen To A Woman | " I’ve observed almost no cases where a man’s status or position has been increased from following a woman’s advice or opinions, and it’s much more likely for him to be harmed from it."How many guys here had a mother (with no medical background) who constantly insisted "you should be a doctor" with absolutely no knowledge of what getting through med school entails? | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 03:02 PM |
| 2 | ROOSH: Never Listen To A Woman | " I’ve observed almost no cases where a man’s status or position has been increased from following a woman’s advice or opinions, and it’s much more likely for him to be harmed from it."Holy shit, never knew that. Will Smith would have been choosing the red pill from Lawrence Fishburn | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 02:51 PM |
| 1 | Is lack of libido from birth control the same as lack of attraction?IIRC women's birth control pills are carefully regulated doses of progesterone and estrogen. Does the implant not release these hormones on a precise cyclical amount like the pill? | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Why are women so terrible at conceptualizing what they mean?It's mainly stems from emotional perception And that can be attributed to the hormone Estrogen which women have an abundant supply compared to men. | /r/askTRP | 27/02/19 02:27 PM |
| 1 | The Truth About "Misogyny" | "For a man to pretend to understand women is bad manners; for him really to understand them is bad morals."Marriage hides the nature of women while bachelorhood exposes it as life goes on. That section of the article where it explains how bachelors eventually get to see a different side of women is very enlightening. | /r/TheRedPill | 27/02/19 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Lessons from high school: the female instinct is present since birth, not acquired.OP, does this guy fit the usual definition of "Chad" by being someone who won the genetic lottery for muscle and size? Question for the pros here: High School can be a cruel place where some guys testosterone kicks in sooner/greater than other guys. Is that what's likely happening here? | /r/TheRedPill | 26/02/19 06:58 PM |
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