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| 1 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?Women three times more likely to be arrested for domestic violence https://www.theguardian.com/society/2009/aug/28/women-arrested-domestic-violence Women are now Just as Likely to be Charged With Domestic Violence as Men https://www.californiacriminaldefender.com/amp/women-are-now-just-as-likely-to-be-charged-with-domestic-violenc.html "Despite popular belief, there’s no evidence to back up a claim that female offenders systematically receive more lenient treatment." https://www.criminaldefensel… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 02:01 AM |
| 1 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?I'll get downvoted. I'm not referring so much to what male ""betas"" think, but from the standpoint of society at large. Outside certain female only groups (mostly online) women do not get a pass to cheat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/21 01:50 AM |
| 1 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?Exactly. To them an overworked woman having no libido is an act of aggression that justifies a man breaking his marriage vows, going behind her back, lying to her about his activities, and risking her health with STDs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 08:19 PM |
| 1 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?One guy yells at another guy. Insults him, verbally assaults him, wears him down. The second guy cracks, takes out a gun and shoots his foot. Who are the courts sending to prison? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?In my personal life, I've never heard anyone regardless of gender "getting a pass to cheat." When you say a woman gets "away with it," she may get "you go gurl" from female tweeters or close female friends, but does she get a "female privilege pass" from most people actually in her life who might get wind of an affair? Children, parents, in laws, courts, shared friend groups, people at church, their pastor or priest, other parents in the play group? I highly doubt it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 08:10 PM |
| 1 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?There are people out there supporting abused men r/MensLib r/bropill | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/21 07:58 PM |
| 2 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?Maybe I'm naively idealistic or learned too much shit from movies...but it seems that asking "What would you like to do that excites you?" would go a very long way in preventing boredom. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:31 AM |
| 2 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?Granted the world is full of shitbags...abuse is abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:29 AM |
| 0 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.I've heard that too. Which is ironic because without foreplay a big dick would literally just hurt. That'll make you suspicious of big D | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:27 AM |
| 2 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?In hockey you instigate a fight by throwing the first blow. When you used the term instigating it was with the meaning of "incensing to violence." The two are different. The person crossing the barrier into physical violence is taking it to a whole new level | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:26 AM |
| 2 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?It's really enlightening. The author has basically dedicated his career to working with domestic violence | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:22 AM |
| 2 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?How is "A woman is turned on when you pay her attention" gaslighting? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:18 AM |
| 3 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?Hottest post on FDS right now | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?Well I can't add anything to what I originally said, just check out what other women are saying about it. Ok, chores are not a turn on in and of themselves--however, feeling loved and cherished is a turn on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:13 AM |
| 4 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?86% of statistics are made up on the spot | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:10 AM |
| 1 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.Of course they know. They just don't mention it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/10/21 06:10 AM |
| 3 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?Very true. A shockingly high percentage of men in domestic abuse "recovery" programs for the abuser turn up with zero mental illness. Even if they do, curing their depression just makes them a happy abuser. The vast majority of female violence in the home is self defensive. The majority of women who killed their husbands had been battered and/or stalked. This data is all in "Why Does He Do That?" Which is on libgen.I will be downvoted to hell | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 03:23 PM |
| 2 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?"He instigated another guy to beat him to a bloody pulp in the living room while their kids shook in terror" Think how ridiculous that sounds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 03:18 PM |
| 1 | When does "shit testing" become domestic violence?No one's said that either | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 03:15 PM |
| 0 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?If a woman married to you, 95% of the time she finds you fuckable, period. (Exceptions: age gap relationships, obviously marriage based on wealth like the Trumps, or the man "let himself go" while woman didn't). Women lose sexual interest because they feel neglected, unimportant, unloved, unappreciated, unheard. Ever heard of "choreplay"? Women literally invented a word to describe how men doing basic chores turns them on. Go onto women's forums for five minutes and the top complaints in marriag… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Women develop crushes outside their relationship all the time. Considering no actual cheating, how should men react to them?OP is so right about attraction being based on attentiveness. By the time I developed a crush in past relationships, my bf hadn't tried to make me come or even cared about foreplay after the first week of dating, sex was literally painful, and I'd been criticized and basically alone for months. It doesn't justify cheating and I never let on about anything. It's really frustrating bc it feels like my bar is so low and 90% don't bother to meet it. Literally just ask me about my day or what book I'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 03:01 PM |
| -3 | The average man is not doing bad with the average woman when it comes to sex.Totally true how many of the bitter guys get their idea of reality from porn tropes. They don't assume all men are morons because of how dumb male porn stars act, why assume anything else about porn reflects reality? For one I've never heard a woman say "the sex was good because he had a big cock." They might chuckle about it if the guy was huge. Most of the time my female friends talk about good sex they don't even mention size | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/10/21 02:47 PM |
| 6 | Does anybody have any studies behind the reasoning male homosexuality was outlawed but not female in many countries?You may want to look into research/writings on the traditional idea that non-penetrative sex is not sex, despite lesbian sexuality being very taboo. The great French poet Charles Baudelaire used lesbians as symbols for a passion that can never be fully satiated or fulfilled, where attempting sex only makes the longing more profound. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/06/21 07:09 AM |
| 6 | New project to track the erasure of adult male victims in the mediaVery insightful correlation. It's almost one word, womenandchildren. | /r/LeftWingMaleAdvocates | 30/06/21 06:57 AM |
| 1 | The genders live different realities (socially) and no middle ground can be foundIRL, the genders have way way more in common than not (in places like the US). IMO your socioeconomic class is a far bigger factor in quality of life. At the end of the day the "male" preoccupations and pressures almost always happen to women and vice versa. It's all a matter of degree. The pressure on me to make bank is much lower, but I've been shamed when I expressed interest in low income careers (by other women even) so the concept is not alien to me and I can easily imagine it being my #1 … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/04/21 01:07 AM |
| 1 | Men or women are not "privileged". There are just some advantages/disadvantages of being man/woman and they just envy each others advantages while overlooking the disadvantages.Honestly this paints men in a horrible light. Men's "primary strength" in society is to wield a club like a cave man? So why are women less than 25% of the Senate if men have their dominant hand tied? Why didn't women's ability to "manipulate men as much as they want" with sex catapult them into a primarily female ruling class? Why are most business owners and CEOs male? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/04/21 02:03 AM |
| 1 | Men or women are not "privileged". There are just some advantages/disadvantages of being man/woman and they just envy each others advantages while overlooking the disadvantages.Men can learn soft skills. These days you can't really get to the top without them. Stalin was one of the greatest charmers in the 20th century. On the other hand, women will never be as strong as men. Ones an inherent difference, the other is a skill you can acquire and that many men HAVE acquired. Keep in mind too that while it is illegal to USE physical violence, every day there are men out there who use the THREAT of physical violence and intentional violation of personal space against women… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 02:02 PM |
| 1 | Men or women are not "privileged". There are just some advantages/disadvantages of being man/woman and they just envy each others advantages while overlooking the disadvantages.Women aren't attracted to charismatic, socially adept, sexually "powerful" men? What? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 01:36 PM |
| 2 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?I'm guessing you can deliver your line with a light and playful touch, conveying the fact that you do not doubt her ability to keep up. You may be around powerful or put-together women who like a little challenge or appreciate boldness. In that case yes it's a masterful strategy if you have developed the skill to read her and do a proper delivery. I'm just picturing some redditors new to seduction dropping it like an inept neg in women's laps. There's already a guy saying he's going to neg away.… | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 08:00 PM |
| 1 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?An unplanned "oh you're younger than I thought" is not necessarily a shit test. Nor is "oh, you're kind of young for me." Both those could just be honest statements. A shit test is not just anything that makes you feel insecure. | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 07:49 PM |
| 48 | How to overcome the "You are too young" shit test?Do not say this to a potential date. It'll make her feel old no matter the delivery. It's memorable, and will remind her of the age difference every time she remembers it. If a woman is remarking on a man being younger, she's either concerned he's not mature enough and/or self-conscious that he'll think she's too old. Don't reinforce those fears with a challenge or jab, assuage them and redirect asap. "It won't keep you from having a good time" said playfully is far better, and uLifeIsMyLover ha… | /r/seduction | 01/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Women don't like Nice Guys. Women like good men.The Nice Girl thing is real, but "If you don't take my worst like a doormat, you don't deserve my best" seems more common. All of these patterns stem from a sense of entitlement to someone else's time, attention, affection, sexuality, loyalty, etc. while giving occasional nominal effort on their part. Basically an attitude of using other people | /r/seduction | 17/12/20 11:41 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongIt wasn't supposed to be a joke, but making fun of the original | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 09:18 PM |
| 1 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongDaMn feeeeeeemales bRuH | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 06:41 AM |
| 89 | My ex broke up with me saying that I texted him too much. I decided to write a program to analyze our text and using hard data to show him wrongNot if you're a data scientist. We live and breathe this shit. This stuff is the bread and butter of natural language processing techniques and can be whipped up in one sitting by someone as knowledgeable as OP | /r/seduction | 08/12/20 06:37 AM |
| 13 | Sometimes, it’s just not worth pursuingI can't even imagine what you guys go through. The most "eligible bachelors" I know seem to have an incredibly low hit rate. Not that women don't undergo our fair share of crushing rejection once a relationship has been established. But damn that initial process. If you want to help all of us, be kind and respectful when a woman does have the assertiveness to be straightforward. Literally says "Thanks for being straightforward, I really appreciate it. Wish you the best." I can tell you 9/10 time… | /r/seduction | 30/11/20 12:36 AM |
| 27 | Sometimes, it’s just not worth pursuingPiggybacking your comment, women go through this all the time. I think we're on the giving end far more frequently when in the initial phase, though. I don't ghost per se but give off lukewarm vibes. I have trouble saying "I don't see us dating." Part of it is fear of the rare guy who will blow up and insult me (a truly awful experience) part of it is simply not wanting to hurt their feelings, even though a firm "not interested" would probably be kinder. For the person sensing they're being reje… | /r/seduction | 29/11/20 07:09 PM |
| 6 | My red flagsOn a related note, I [F] have revved my engine by accident multiple times | /r/seduction | 18/11/20 07:35 AM |
| 1 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.And the same advice might have made a world of difference to someone else. It's on you to pay attention to the signs that they're receptive, but if you thought they would be receptive and you're coming from a good place, their reaction is their choice/a product of their mental state and not on you. | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 04:43 PM |
| 3 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.Thank you. It's a battle. We all have to remind ourselves that a mindset change takes work and usually isn't overnight | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 04:39 PM |
| 3 | You can't earn a person’s affection through performing unrequested actions and then getting upset when they don’t give you what you want.Made me cringe a bit when it made me realize how dumb I am in the present. Ty | /r/seduction | 11/11/20 09:43 AM |
| 4 | Lets talk about: male catfishes.Saw a profile where the age was 39 but in the profile text he bragged "I'm not 39 I'm 44 but I'm gonna do what I have to because so many women list 39 as their max." You're saying that literally the first thing I learned about you was a lie, you'll lie to get what you want, brag about it, and can't date women your own age. Dumpster fire | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 07:39 AM |
| 2 | FireworksThat's nice dear | /r/seduction | 20/04/20 04:33 AM |
| 7 | You guys rock!Haven't looked at the post history, but it turns out that a good mental health professional can help you stay positive and be yourself | /r/seduction | 02/03/20 05:51 PM |
| 21 | Date and a kiss.Confirm. There is no context on a first date where that line wouldn't automatically disqualify a second date | /r/seduction | 28/02/20 08:58 AM |
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