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| 0 | Stop seeking her approval, and you will notice a drastic change in how women will relate to you.It's really not a mind game though, that's what she wants. She's not tricking you or something, you need to change to fit that someone, and most women are like this, or you need to find someone that fits you. In this specific case though you really should change yourself, not only will she benefit from it but you will. A person should not need validation from another on a regular basis, you need confidence in yourself, until you can handle not having a girl you cannot handle having a girl. | /r/seduction | 26/08/12 06:22 PM |
| 2 | So I opened a girl on the train today... and didn't follow up. I feel terrible.You have a pretty mouth. | /r/seduction | 09/08/12 05:32 AM |
| 1 | What's your way of building momentum or getting into state?You can have some pretty good conversations with some crazy people. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 11:13 PM |
| 2 | What's your way of building momentum or getting into state?Buddhist here, I always recommend a simple counting of the breaths to start out with. Sit in the most stable yet comfortable position you can and count each inhale and exhale until you get to 10, then repeat. If you lose count start over. Do not force anything, if you're not enjoying it stop, if you're too tired stop, there should be no strain or effort if you're doing it right. I've found this to really improve concentration and focus which has carried over to most every activity in life. | /r/seduction | 13/02/12 11:11 PM |
| 1 | Why you shouldn't be trying to get a date off of OKCupid.Really, it may not be nice to hear, but there's a reasons she's not getting many messages. I assume I hit it as it's been 12hr and I haven't gotten a denial of weight. Hey parent, at least that is something you can work on if you are unhappy with the current crop, many are not so lucky. | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 06:03 PM |
| 8 | Why you shouldn't be trying to get a date off of OKCupid.How much do you weigh? | /r/seduction | 24/12/11 04:25 AM |
| 1 | The Effects of Quitting Porn and Masturbation for Six WeeksI see what you're saying. You do present some valid points, which should be addressed, but your way of presenting it and condescending attitude is not helping expose this guy if he is indeed a fraud. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 07:24 AM |
| 4 | The Effects of Quitting Porn and Masturbation for Six WeeksDo you think he sits at home and picks up solicitors or something? He picks up girls in stores, during daily routines, w/e, that's how I read it. There's plenty of places to find girls other than bars. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:24 AM |
| 1 | Do it all, and win.This is true, and goes a long way in explaining our current state of affairs. Only reinforces the OP imo. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:17 AM |
| 1 | Do it all, and win.As someone who has been where the OP has, though admittedly currently not, I agree. Advice only helps if you follow it, of the people interested in the advice even 10-20% seems like an overestimate of those that follow through w/it. Some people think reading a book suddenly means you can do what's in the book without practice. Knowledge is worthless if you don't use it. I'm going to get back there. | /r/seduction | 15/12/11 01:14 AM |
| 3 | TIL: If you say "neg her" really fast in a bar people will think you're a racist.I was so confused reading these comments, I totally read 'if you neg her really fast in a bar people will think your racist,' and I was wondering what you were expecting to get from negging the shit out of a girl really fast. | /r/seduction | 05/04/11 03:10 PM |
| 1 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.The 'you might like..' people? | /r/seduction | 01/04/11 12:21 AM |
| 1 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.Also, that $5 for A-list, is completely worth it. You get so much more activity from the increased exposure alone. It doesn't list anything about increased exposure on the page for it, where did you get that from? | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 10:34 PM |
| 0 | [OKC-R]I seem to have about a 90%+ response rate on sending out messages....here's how.Dude, I don't know what it is. You seem pretty average to me, don't mean that in a bad way, but just agreeing with you. There's gotta be something, I tried ok over a year ago and it didn't do much for me at all. I spent awhile tweaking my profile, I've got a lot of good pics up, I'm at worst mildly attractive yet I only got a date with one cute girl (I'm sure I could have gotten more with ugly and/or fat chicks) the whole time, which lead to another and then she just ignored me after that. Maybe… | /r/seduction | 31/03/11 08:58 PM |
| 2 | Advice to Young Men from an Old ManWhat kind of apastrophe is that guy using, why am I missing the char for it? Anyone else having issues w/that? | /r/seduction | 29/03/11 05:47 PM |
| 1 | HB 8 problem.. picks up her cellphone in the middle of a date and starts talking, nothing i can do about it.When she's done talking act annoyed that she's interrupting your game and tell her to wait a minute. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 08:34 PM |
| 1 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?You don't have to go to puru to try it if you really want, but you can do your own research on that. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 03:36 AM |
| 1 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?I wasn't necessarily implying you should do them to be funny while on them, not that I was implying you should do them at all, but it could possibly help with the inspiration (I had pot and psychedelics in mind). I feel you though, was more curious than anything. If you already had an interest I'd say go for it, but if not no reason to start. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 02:08 AM |
| 1 | What can I do if I am boring and not funny?There's much better things you can do, and should do, but these guys have touched on plenty of that so I'll leave it to them. That being said, have you ever tried any drugs? Serious question. | /r/seduction | 14/01/11 01:14 AM |
| 1 | Cheat Sheet for "How to win friends and influence people" - concise summary of the ultimate book. Print this out and stick it on your wall right now.Every morning I eat the same thing, a bowl of plain oatmeal, and every morning it is the best bowl of plain oatmeal I have ever eaten. | /r/seduction | 16/12/10 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Inside the mind of a hot girl - Vary rare insight. Only now can I truly understand the importance of negging / hiding interest. [AskReddit post]So how can we capitalize on this? | /r/seduction | 15/12/10 12:45 AM |
| -3 | "I have a boyfriend" responses [feel free to add your own]"What's his name?" "His names herp derp" "Sounds like a faggot" | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 04:07 AM |
| 2 | "I have a boyfriend" responses [feel free to add your own]nrr seeeee | /r/seduction | 01/12/10 04:03 AM |
| -2 | Cute girl in the library sitting across from me, what do I do?I would suggest being as quiet as possible when approaching; you don't want to startle her. If she hasn't noticed by the time your're standing behind her you can use this to your advantage by peaking over her shoulder at what she's doing to gain further information which can help you strike up and carry a conversation. If your still standing there at this point then she's probably comfortable around you and you can rest assured there it just gets easier from here. So keep on reading, get all of … | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 05:40 PM |
| 0 | Cute girl in the library sitting across from me, what do I do?"fuck you!" FTFY | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 05:34 PM |
| 1 | Cute girl in the library sitting across from me, what do I do?What if someone asked you that question? | /r/seduction | 09/11/10 05:32 PM |
| 6 | Didn't introduce myself on purposeI didn't really want to engage in a conversation because [insert excuse here] There, I made it general purpose so you can use it next time too ಠ_ಠ | /r/seduction | 18/10/10 06:43 PM |
| 1 | Gym pickup and a fail FRSo basically if the workout is cardio stretch first, if it's for strength, don't stretch? | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 07:04 PM |
| 2 | Gym pickup and a fail FRI thought it was supposed to be like this: light cardio > stretch > workout > stretch | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 04:55 PM |
| 1 | The best reason to "hit the gym" isn't gaining strength or losing weight...I didn't know this, but makes sense. I feel like this would be as beneficial as the endorphins, but no one seems to mention it. | /r/seduction | 01/10/10 01:45 PM |
| 0 | How do I pick up a girl on the beach?A guy who was at the beach last season stalking chicks. | /r/seduction | 17/08/10 11:34 PM |
| 15 | [EPIC FR] Why I Play The GameLet me be the first to say shhhiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiit that's long. | /r/seduction | 01/08/10 04:12 AM |
| -1 | Incelmanlate20s you're an ass, no wonder women don't gravitate towards you at this very moment.Downvoted, he may be an ass, but that wasn't a huge deal and imo making a submission calling him out such as this makes you just as much, if not bigger, of an ass. | /r/seduction | 31/07/10 07:59 PM |
| 1 | Downvote me to oblivion but I gotta say it..You're right, but ime for the most part women's egos don't get boosted by being hit on, they remain just as insecure as they started off being. edit: Of course it temporarily does, but I'm talking hours to a few days later. Unless a girl constantly gets hit on, which I'm betting even most attractive girls don't, this won't happen. | /r/seduction | 23/07/10 08:43 PM |
| 1 | How to become the Alpha maleLost what? Virginity is the first thing that comes to mind, but it seems odd you'd laugh about it haha, so I know that's not it. Lost your confidence, that doesn't make sense. Lost your temper maybe, but why would that destroy you before. I'm confused. | /r/seduction | 12/07/10 02:50 AM |
| 4 | What should I have done?How is that a no-no, he didn't send the text, he received it. | /r/seduction | 11/07/10 01:05 AM |
| 16 | Used my umbrella as an opener, neg, and lock in prop during a day set todayIt may not help you pickup women, but I think it would be hilarious to walk up next to a chick with an umbrella when it's not raining and just stand there waiting for her to say something. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 10:42 PM |
| 1 | For those looking to get a fix of Chick CrackA high five sounds like a great way to make a friend. | /r/seduction | 09/07/10 08:19 AM |
| 10 | Field Report: Called out on gameI don't see any reason to end the conversation when you did, even though it failed it gave you something easy to play off of, they didn't seem to be put off at all. | /r/seduction | 04/07/10 03:35 AM |
| 1 | A few things I learned that might help beginnersI don't think hitting on a girl would be a turn off to other girls, and as imperi said, especially compared to sitting around waiting for them to hit on you. It's all about how you approach and handle it. If you do so in a very cheesy, blatant, or obnoxious manner then sure, that's a turn off, but at that point so would talking to them. A girls opinion would be very valuable on this, but I could see a well handled rejection even being a turn on for a lot of girls. | /r/seduction | 02/07/10 12:52 AM |
| 3 | No Excuses. (Developing Self-Discipline)I'm going to start my diet and exercise routine right after I eat this bacon and pasta! | /r/seduction | 17/06/10 03:01 AM |
| 2 | Doing approaches recently, problems being low-energyDo intjpua's touch experiment as he details in his thread. New to seddit, could I get a link to this? | /r/seduction | 06/06/10 03:34 AM |
| 7 | "That's nice"'No it's not, it's bad ass' | /r/seduction | 21/05/10 04:11 AM |
| 3 | "Normally I'd try to talk to you more, but I'm kinda tired..."You said that as if some people just walk away mid conversation when they become sleepy. | /r/seduction | 21/05/10 04:05 AM |
| 1 | A better phrase than "How are things?"I think the best thing here is to not have a general 'go-to' question, for the most part they don't exist. It's all based on context, make it personal. For instance if you just got out of class with someone ask about something that just happened in class. Also if you've talked to them before there's probably something that you can recall to bring back up. This shows you care and are thoughtful and since they've previously mentioned it you know they are interested in it too regardless if they are… | /r/seduction | 12/05/10 05:00 AM |
| 11 | A better phrase than "How are things?"Am I the only one who read those questions with the tone of a therapist; eg an interview? | /r/seduction | 12/05/10 04:53 AM |
| 12 | How are you doing ?Depends how they seem to be doing. If they look depressed try to be sympathetic while being honest, 'Not bad, but could be better, how about you?' If they look happy then you can chalk it up more, 'Doing pretty good, certainly nothing to complain about.' | /r/seduction | 03/05/10 03:36 AM |
| 10 | What are some good tips for Short Guys,...other then the wear vertical stripes to look taller b.s.The best advice I can think of is be short. You act like it's a problem. | /r/seduction | 22/03/10 08:27 AM |
| 7 | Overcoming Approach AnxietyNow just accidentally before you know it and you'll have a number in no time. | /r/seduction | 10/03/10 09:35 PM |
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