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| 136 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit! | Field Report | kryptonyk | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 07:54 PM |
| 11 | [FR]: First club scene k-close and #-close in a long time. | Field Report | kryptonyk | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 10:08 PM |
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| 1 | Troubles in bedI hate to say it but this is sort of genius... | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 03:57 AM |
| 6 | I think I am done with cold approachThis. Also, try an insta-date. Wanna grab a coffee/drink? etc, etc. | /r/seduction | 15/10/14 03:44 AM |
| 32 | I've seen immediate resultsThanks dad! | /r/seduction | 11/09/14 08:26 PM |
| 4 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.I feel like you are making excuses for women and treating them like lesser beings. I like to treat them like rational adults. If they know it is a big deal to them, THEY should bring it up before sex - which is fine. That said, I have rarely had a woman become angry with me for not wanting a relationship after sex. (read: one or two crazies out of a decent sample size) We usually have a conversation like two rational people and move on. Sometimes later on they decide they don't want to keep seei… | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 05:02 PM |
| 4 | Your dreams really can come true. Keep going.Afterwards is not a shit bag move. Having that convo before sex is weird and presumptuous. I always talk about it after sex, or even after hanging out and having sex multiple times. Usually not until they bring it up. If a girl has sex with you and is immediately expecting a relationship, that is immaturity on her part. You had sex because you both wanted to, right? Adults can make those decisions without expectations. When it does get brought up and I'm not looking for a relationship I usually … | /r/seduction | 05/09/14 03:46 PM |
| 1 | Does anyone have any experience seducing a virgin?Like she told me she wanted me spank the shit out of her until she started sucking my dick You really need help with a girl who said that to you? | /r/seduction | 28/08/14 08:59 PM |
| 5 | Why Approaching is Like Mortal Kombat.Nice. Out of curiosity, how'd it go once you got the numbers? I have a harder time going from number to hangout than I do getting the number. | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 05:31 PM |
| 3 | fun and easy way to remove fear of approachingWhat age group are we talking here? | /r/seduction | 27/08/14 03:56 PM |
| 50 | guilt over "leading a girl on"?Tried to be good friends with a girl who had a boyfriend. Went fine for a while until she started treating me like a second boyfriend, getting mad over little things, unrealistic expectations, etc. One day she invited me to a party and I didn't go... and she literally stopped talking to me. Now I'm a lot better friends with her boyfriend, who, as it turns out, is way more fun to hang out with than she was. | /r/seduction | 25/08/14 06:56 PM |
| 0 | Does r/relationships have unreal expectations or am I just an asshole?I'm putting my feelings for her on the backburner. If they fade, great. If they don't, then I might have to try and give things another shot. You literally can not "put feelings on the backburner." The sooner you realize that the sooner you can move on. Please take this advice from someone who has been in this situation more than once. I know it's painful, but after being there I truly believe it's for the best. You need to date other people. Period. A long time from now after you've forgotten a… | /r/seduction | 22/08/14 05:35 PM |
| 1 | Remember that guy who did that OKCupid experiment? I tried my own. (Info-graph and data included)I guess the rest of that thought was: Just because some asshat did this doesn't mean it's a good idea. If you want women to like you, you should treat them like human beings. No one wants to be spoken to like that. Any girl who responds positively to something like that is crazy or just really desperate. Not something you want, even if it might mean sex. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:32 PM |
| 3 | How to increase the amount of women in your life?You've read everything on the side bar including the links within the posts? This one from the sidebar has many, many links within it, and that's only one post. Look, if you had read and understood these things you wouldn't be asking things like Is it really just by 'cold approaching' random girls in random places like a grocery store? YES. IT IS. Talk to women everywhere and anywhere. Ask them to get coffee. Get to know them. If you are looking for women to date, meeting them through mutual fri… | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:28 PM |
| 8 | How to increase the amount of women in your life?Look to the right of your screen. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Remember that guy who did that OKCupid experiment? I tried my own. (Info-graph and data included)Dude... | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 06:00 PM |
| 7 | Why you should just approach.I think it's probably this one. Great talk. | /r/seduction | 04/08/14 03:22 PM |
| 8 | [FR] - Breaking down the wallRight? What did I just read? Went out, acted like sorta a douche (not necessarily bad if it's mostly playful, but still...), then banged a girl who has a boyfriend? Oh, and btw, she was just one of seven this week? How is this constructive for seddit in any way? | /r/seduction | 01/08/14 05:12 PM |
| 2 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?Yes. | /r/seduction | 30/07/14 06:15 PM |
| 4 | The cold approach as a college freshman. Yay or nay?Second. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:29 PM |
| 11 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?Good question and by the lack of replies I think it's very tough to answer. Some people find it fascinating that I hunt and fish. I also think using sarcastic humor and giving people a bit of a hard time (always obviously jokingly) helps me stand out a little bit, especially when first meeting someone. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:20 PM |
| 23 | What do you have that makes your interesting and gives you value that others don't?Well, that's pretty vague. | /r/seduction | 29/07/14 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Unsure of how to deal with a new city that's just not my type of place.That sounds pretty rough, my friend. If it were me, I would definitely check out online dating. You might find the one person who shares your interests, because maybe they are stuck in the same situation? That said, what about opening your mind just a little bit to their way of life? I'm not saying go get a pickup, a pair of wranglers, and start chewing tobacco, but what if you dressed a little more in between while there? Maybe a little more casual than you're used to, but still presentable in … | /r/seduction | 11/07/14 06:42 PM |
| 4 | Is PUA just for sex with sluts? Or can it be used to develop a loving connection?If you think it's only about sex, you're either very young or very mentally limited. PUA is about engaging people and being able to earn their interest/respect at will. What you do after that is completely your choice, and it can go a thousand different ways. | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:41 PM |
| 6 | Don't underestimate the power of "Hi, what's your name"?I knew it, I'm surrounded by assholes! | /r/seduction | 28/04/14 03:29 PM |
| 3 | [FR]Is this bartender giving me real IOIsbartender nope. | /r/seduction | 22/04/14 08:42 PM |
| 3 | The Greatest Realization Of My Life.This Ted Talk covers a similar topic. I found it helpful and I hope you do too! | /r/seduction | 14/04/14 01:00 AM |
| 2 | Closed on a very cool girl, and I dont know where to take it form here. This doesnt happen often for me so I really need advice so I dont lose her!!!You definitely need to change your mindset first and foremost to have an abundance mentality. You need to look at this girl as one of many options. If you aren't already meeting lots of other women, I direct you to the sidebar of this subreddit. Focusing in on one girl who you just met and has sex with a few days ago is the opposite of what this sub teaches. Instead of worrying if you can keep her, you should worry that she might not be good enough for you... | /r/seduction | 07/04/14 05:16 PM |
| 1 | Friendly reminder for young and older CasanovasReally? You know, for a fact she didn't/hasn't slept with someone else? May I ask how? | /r/seduction | 24/03/14 08:46 PM |
| 1 | Things I wish I knew years agoThank you for a concise and meaningful post. This is what seddit needs more of! | /r/seduction | 14/03/14 03:51 PM |
| 1 | So, just got out of a 5 year relationship.If she bores you that much she's not the girl for you. If you're just looking for fwb, invite her over "for a movie" and seal the deal. I find that when I just want sex, it really helps to think of them as an actual friend or buddy, not just some object I want to fuck. Simple, but it took me a while to figure that one out... | /r/seduction | 03/02/14 08:35 PM |
| 2 | 23/M - From crippling anxiety to successful first date EVERtry not to think about it much and hopefully it will happen I don't know if this is the best approach. I'd probably be watching diligently for the first opportunity. | /r/seduction | 22/08/13 09:14 PM |
| 2 | What do you consider to be a HB 5,6,7,8,9 and 10?Everyone has different taste. I like small semi-nerdy brunettes, you might like bombshell blondes, etc. That said, I find there to be a big divide between about a 7 and 8. When I say HB8 it means her looks/personality are getting so good that I actually start to care what she thinks. I know I shouldn't anyway, but I do. If I see a HB9, I'm petrified to go talk to her... but I will anyway. Have only ever pulled a few of these. I don't know if HB10 exists other than models and such. Just my take. | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 09:21 PM |
| 11 | Music festival weekends, any tips?Well that first part was unnecessary. Although you're sort of right... | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 09:14 PM |
| 1 | The Death of the Boyfriendit’s being driven by pressure on young women to “succeed”, and the perception that boyfriends are an unnecessary drag on a young woman’s ability to achieve I completely disagree. From experience, most girls I've hooked up with wanted a relationship afterwards... | /r/seduction | 21/08/13 02:29 AM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13Man, you understand my life. I laughed when I read this because it's all so accurate. People do think I'm weird for trying to have fun and joke around. I'm like no, you're the freak, FREAK! :( | /r/seduction | 20/08/13 03:37 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Met for the first time to f-close in one eveningRoger that. | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:48 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13I feel like I'm headed toward this. Did you just make yourself go meet new people? | /r/seduction | 19/08/13 03:47 PM |
| 2 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13Yeah I don't think johnny-faux here knows exactly what I mean by awkward. It's not one awkward friend in a group of normal people. It's the reverse. | /r/seduction | 17/08/13 03:09 PM |
| 6 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13"These are my friends, and I'm proud that they will make you and your friends uncomfortable so that you don't want to talk to us anymore." K got it. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 11:15 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13It's not that they won't say anything, it's that they sound like The Big Bang Theory and I can't get them to stop talking about science. Even at bars. I have repeatedly mentioned it but it just happens. | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 11:13 PM |
| 8 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 8/16/13How can I get around the fact that many of my friends are socially awkward? I am a grad student in the sciences, so many of the people (including my roommate) I know are just very nerdy/socially weird. I can't really not hang out with them because they are good people and I like them, so I'm often left in strange situations when I bring a girl around/meet girls out. I know I can try to meet other friends, but.. any other tips? | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 06:46 PM |
| 2 | [FR] Met for the first time to f-close in one eveningGod damnit I hate taking pictures and posting them. I know I should though. Thanks for taking the time to write all that! | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 06:40 PM |
| 3 | [FR] Met for the first time to f-close in one eveningOut of curiosity, did you already have multiple social circles and lots of friends/female friends before you "took it to a new level" with pickup, or was that partially a new development? Would you mind sharing the types of things you started doing to live that attractive lifestyle? Great post! | /r/seduction | 16/08/13 12:52 AM |
| 1 | [FR] Saw a cute girl that smiled at me and i did not approachThe great news is you will get plenty more opportunities like this. That upside-down feeling in your stomach is what it's all about! | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 10:56 PM |
| 5 | Dealing with racist girls?No sweet n sour for them! I'm going to use this forever. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 09:05 PM |
| 2 | Dealing with racist girls?Hell, I'm white but I have darker skin and some white girls snub me for it. | /r/seduction | 15/08/13 09:04 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A year of seddit; the pattern that has worked for me and why I need to change it.Wow. Maybe they are trying to make you jealous? Next time something like that occurs I'd say something like, "Oh, really? Can we talk about something interesting now?" Keep it lighthearted and smile of course, but let them know you aren't interested in their baggage. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 08:46 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Last minute one night stand, overcoming LMR"I'm going to bed, you can crash in my room but we're not having sex." If the girl has a good sense of humor, or if I'm feeling particularly bold I like to respond, "yeah, we'll see." Honestly it doesn't seem to matter. She has already accepted you in her bed for the night. It's pretty much a done deal at that point. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:27 PM |
| 1 | [FR] A year of seddit; the pattern that has worked for me and why I need to change it.not over her ex In my experience almost all women people will still hang out with or at least think about their ex until they find someone better. My question is how did these things always come up in conversation? Did the girls just happen to tell you about it? I always make a point to avoid talking about past relationships, especially when first meeting someone. Just have fun with them, keep up the seduction, and they will forget about their exes soon enough. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:20 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Day Game progress"Is this how you react when I flirt with you? " Giggles "So what time do you get off work?" | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:12 PM |
| 32 | [FR] From strangers to F-close in an hourThanks OP. Now I will know what to do next time a girl starts unabashedly hitting on me. | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:07 PM |
| 1 | I've never touched women, where do I start?If you never hug, how do you know you don't like it? | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:30 AM |
| 0 | I've never touched women, where do I start?obvious troll is obvious | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:25 AM |
| -1 | I've never touched women, where do I start?dont shit where u eat ...unless it means losing your virginity. FTFY | /r/seduction | 14/08/13 03:19 AM |
| 10 | Where's the line between being persistent/showing interest and being desperate/creepy?I don't think he means you should feel literally entitled to have her, just that you should be confident enough to expect her attention. Having the mindset that you are good enough for anyone and acting like it. That's all. | /r/seduction | 11/08/13 10:26 PM |
| 13 | Some gold from an old PUA forum, advanced kino techniqueWhy the hell are you reading this sub? God damnit I'm tired of reading posts like these. You DO go around crossing lines to see if people are ok with it. For fuck's sake... | /r/seduction | 05/08/13 07:47 PM |
| 13 | [FR] Number close, long term gaming1) ask her to go out with you 2) kino 3) kino 4) kino... | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 03:59 PM |
| 4 | I just don't really care about girls anymore...?I feel the same way. I know so many guys who care about literally nothing but looks. If the girl is crazy or a bitch they just say "whatever man all girls are like that, at least she's hot." I can't convince them otherwise... | /r/seduction | 01/08/13 03:54 PM |
| 5 | Warning! Rant ahead: I'm tired of seduction!I have wondered this same thing. I guess I just sort of force myself to believe, "When you find the right one, you'll know." Is that BS? I have no idea... | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 09:51 PM |
| 1 | New Orleans HopefulsHey man let me know if you want to go out in BR sometime, a solid wingman would be appreciated. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 04:30 AM |
| 1 | New Orleans HopefulsHey glad I saw this. Also in BR but love a good time in NOLA. I'm 26. Let me known what/when you are thinking. | /r/seduction | 30/07/13 04:28 AM |
| 2 | Extremely frustrated. How do I talk to women in a loud club?Dance with them. Seems to work well, then ask them to go somewhere quiter with you like the bar or outside. | /r/seduction | 27/07/13 03:11 AM |
| 9 | CAN. NOT. APPROACH.Hey. First, it sounds like you have A TON of things going for you. You have to remember that when you approach and know that you are offering something great. Have you read the seduction guide "Above The Game" located on the sidebar? If not, check it out immediately. I used to have those terrible self-doubting thoughts when I went to approach. It's all bullshit. I guarantee it. I am no pro but I've been getting a lot better lately. Now when I have those thoughts I just remember the truth: it doe… | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 05:36 PM |
| 0 | [FR] DisappointmentNo. It's not after they explicitly say no. It's when they want to have sex but they're worried about what people will think Known as ASD. I've experienced many times where a girl says no at first, then changes to "well I normally don't do this" then changes to "well don't tell anybody." Then we end up having sex and she has a great time. Encouraging something is different than taking advantage. | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 05:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fucking yes, k-closeI do this to remind her subconsciously that she is here for me, not the movie YES! Love this. Thanks for the story, and well done. cute asian HB8 I got a chub. :) | /r/seduction | 19/07/13 03:19 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Fun night, almost F-Close, but I'll never understand quite what was happening hereStill would have been nice for the night though... | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 05:30 PM |
| 1 | [FR] DisappointmentIt's good that you put yourself out there, OP. I am going to be honest with what I think but please know I'm only saying it to try and help. The problem is I don't see a single opener here that makes you seem different than any other AFC out there. I feel like the effort wasn't quite there. You were (maybe drunkenly?) going around asking "how are you?" but were you maintaining strong, confident eye contact, getting in their personal space, and demanding their attention? Next time follow up with … | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 05:23 PM |
| -1 | [FR] DisappointmentI don't find Tofu's guide to be misogynistic... and I honestly doubt many women would either. It talks a lot about being a good person and cherishing women. Of course you want to sleep with them, but that is not wrong of you. I have been using the guide recently and have already had more success than I used to. | /r/seduction | 18/07/13 05:15 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Getting good at night game DOESN’T mean you HAVE to go to CLUBS. Surround yourself with an environment that will bring out the best in you!surrounded by a layer of superficiality and people who don’t care to seek depth to their character I agree somewhat, but remember nice normal people go to clubs too. built a large amount of attraction with an HB7 that was with us (but couldn’t do much cause the best friend was right there This is most certainly another self-hindering thought. Great job overall, but your night could have been so much different if you had just showed your attraction to the girl. Her friends would have probably bee… | /r/seduction | 17/07/13 10:54 PM |
| 3 | [FR]: First club scene k-close and #-close in a long time.Thank you for your critique, and I agree with you on this. I think it was just something I told myself so I could try and get over the sting more quickly. No doubt she could be a nice person. Now that you point it out it seems like I still have that insecurity, caring too much what she thought, and I should work on that. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 04:14 AM |
| 1 | [Field Report] My first night out. AWWWWWWWW YEAH!And that it doesn't exist. | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 02:21 AM |
| 3 | [FR]: First club scene k-close and #-close in a long time.Yes I have struggled with the same thing myself, but this was quite obvious. Also, what did I have to lose? Feeling awkward for a couple minutes isn't too big of a deal, right? | /r/seduction | 16/07/13 01:46 AM |
| 5 | [FR] First date in a long time.I should have made my move here, but instead I pussyfooted around and got changed elsewhere. Bummer that you didn't, but it's all good. I am a little confused that she is down to cliff jump and "toke" but doesn't kiss on the first date. It really does sound like she was upset that you took so long to do it or something. I would try to get her to come over for dinner + a movie, and don't be bashful about your physical intentions. | /r/seduction | 15/07/13 10:57 PM |
| 4 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Start by making sure you sit close to her - like thighs touching on the couch. She needs to be comfortable with you in her personal space. During a movie I like to randomly sneak a kiss on the neck without saying a word, then sit back up with a little smirk on my face. From there she's already thinking about kissing you some more... it's only a matter of time. P.S. I expect a PM update on this. | /r/seduction | 13/07/13 03:47 AM |
| 7 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/12/13 (please upvote - zero karma)You should never worry about how she sees you. Assume she is interested in you and act accordingly unless she explicitly says otherwise. Invite her to come over for a movie or go out somewhere, and let the escalation begin. | /r/seduction | 12/07/13 09:12 PM |
| 3 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 7/8/13 (please upvote - zero karma)And this is why he's lead mod..... | /r/seduction | 09/07/13 08:09 PM |
| 1 | [xMODx] Seddit Simple Questions Thread 6/10/13 (please upvote - zero karma)Hey Seddit! I've been wanting to ask this for a while. When I'm out at the bar scene there are usually lots of guys/girls together and so on. How can I tell which girl in a group is single and which isn't? Or should I just approach the one I find attractive and not worry about that part until it comes up? | /r/seduction | 11/06/13 02:55 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!I was actually lucky in this regard. Everyone had hotel rooms near each other, and some friends were indeed getting together for a bit (~10 girls/guys) so it was pretty perfect. It was good when we got there, everyone was in a good mood and we even got challenged to a game of beer pong, which we won! I took the opportunity to kiss her for the first time when people weren't focused on us, etc. That was honestly the easier part of the night. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:08 PM |
| 13 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!I just got a massive chub. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:00 PM |
| 19 | Tonight, on my date, I applied EVERY single "PUA" theory. WOW!I don't think this guy has a girlfriend. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:51 PM |
| 1 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Hell yeah. And I'm telling you, dress up. Most guys don't give a shit, and they put on whatever shirt/tie they have lying around. I put in a small amount of extra effort and people noticed me without me saying anything, especially the women. (Told this later by the groom and others) Then add an outgoing personality and it's the perfect storm. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:48 PM |
| 4 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Good point. Luckily I do genuinely like talking to new people about all kinds of things. I wouldn't call what I did acting, but I probably went more out of my way than usual. Thanks for the advice! | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 02:43 PM |
| 4 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Sure | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 05:26 AM |
| 5 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Kentucky. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:30 AM |
| 3 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Haha. Really guys?? | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:29 AM |
| 2 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!Kentucky. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:29 AM |
| 5 | [FR] F-closed at a wedding. Thanks Seddit!You're damn right. | /r/seduction | 28/05/13 03:28 AM |
| 0 | [FR] F-closed a random girl I took a photo for on a night out thanks to simple tips from Seddit.Um... pics? | /r/seduction | 27/05/13 03:40 PM |
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