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Red Pill Theorykrystyin/r/TheRedPill12/08/14 02:36 PM
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Before you go home for the holidays I highly suggest looking up the four horsemen of divorce. She will expect you to react to something in one of those 4 ways during the holidays around her family. If you display the symptoms of divorce (criticism, defensiveness, contempt, and stonewalling) then you are to blame for the relationship failure. Learn to say I when describing what is wrong (not I feel "you", instead use use agree and amplify - for example, she spends $100 on garbage without asking -…
/r/RPChristians09/12/19 08:45 PM
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You just made your decision, "whether she and I are together" - you want to leave, "children are a goal of mine" - you want to have kids. Sunk ship fallacy is that by investing more time it will improve - it won't. Why are you trying to solve what is the job of a professional therapist? I am not advocating leaving, but rather being honest with yourself and ultimately where you will end up in 20 years - please - don't put kids through a relationship that isn't showing love by both the husband / w…
/r/askMRP02/07/19 05:47 PM
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What was the first book?
/r/RPChristians16/04/19 08:41 PM
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Do most people use their pastor as free counseling? I really haven't ever done that before - how does this start. Umm... "Hey pastor, don't tell my wife or judge me but we are having marriage trouble. Please help?" Last thing I need a pastor saying "been praying for you buddy - how are things with the wife" - I know in weakness there is strength but gotta be careful or beta chad will exploit that... at last church pastor ran away with another man's wife.
/r/RPChristians26/10/18 03:05 PM
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I would postpone the wedding - neither one of you is ready to do what ever it takes to be with the other person. If you hold her back she will forever resent you - If you move your kid will forever resent you - if you love her let her go, if she loves you she will return. 12 months is a very short time - If it bothers you then your trust is low and should reconsider marriage. Good Luck
/r/askMRP30/08/18 05:47 PM
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1% of the time it is a friend that left the phone the night before. My wife's friend does this all the time - I find that phone all the time. First time I found it was the basement behind some books, next time in the car under the seat... have a little trust. She can't unlock it. [Not a real story - but if I was the wife that is what I'd say]
/r/askMRP07/02/18 05:51 PM
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Remote start kits are around $350 and last the life the the vehicle. Two clicks and the vehicle is on for 10 minutes then shuts off. If you can't afford $350 to save 3650 minutes of your time per year - you have bigger problems in your marriage. Also, don't gift it - just do it. From that day forward you are good, 2 clicks! You can even click it for her on your way out.
/r/askMRP11/12/17 04:16 PM
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Every part of that says he is A) Not happy being with you and B) Not happy with himself. If this was on a guys forum with the roles reversed (i.e. cheating wife) they would say lawyer up, delete facebook and hit the gym.
/r/RedPillWomen26/11/17 07:57 PM
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Here you go: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=YFusZ32f3EM
/r/askTRP15/10/17 08:13 PM
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Agree, acknowledge but don't stare them down, as a white boy who grew up in the hood, I heard this more than once - "What are looking at boy...", "I aksed you a question.... why you staring at me." then giving me the stink eye while his buddies are backing him.. fun times.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 07:26 PM
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Not only that but people actually use your eye direction to determine which way your are walking. Eye contact will promote, beggers asking you for money, hooligans trying to eye you down, girls think you are checking them out, etc. Just look where you are going.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/17 03:17 PM
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https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=h5SNAluOj6U
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 06:39 PM
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There is one holiday a month for the next 5 months - next time he asks what you are doing say "potentially spending time with you" - and see what they would potentially have planned. If his plan sounds good then request / trade off. Difficult does not mean impossible. [Labor Day, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, New Years].
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 06:18 PM
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Once you are introduced to his friends or family you will know. If you never hang out with this friends / family then it is non-committal. If you are the "one", they will want to introduce you to someone - i.e. see if you are accepting of there friends / family and vice versa.
/r/RedPillWomen28/08/17 05:35 PM
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My wife likes to use the word elusive as another word for mysterious.
/r/askTRP01/11/16 02:32 PM
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Someday you will meet a girl that is just as awesome it will be twoitis, then threeitis... and then at some point you will forget about one for a long time. Right now your goal should be forgetting about one for a day or a week - perhaps you have her as a friend on facebook, or perhaps some old photos in your phone... while it is hard to do, just disconnecting from that person really helps the moving on process. I think about my one a few times a year typically because I am reading questions lik…
/r/askTRP26/04/16 08:23 PM
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You may downvote this - but a million dollar bet is pretty Red Pill: Results are in for the seventh year of The Million-Dollar Bet—Warren Buffett’s 10-year wager that the S&P 500 would outperform a sampling of hedge funds—and, for now at least, it’s looking like a rout for the CEO of Berkshire Hathaway Under the terms of the wager, Buffett is betting (with his own money, not Berkshire’s) on the stock market performance of an S&P 500 index fund while Protégé Partners, a New York money manager, is…
/r/MarriedRedPill12/04/16 08:20 PM
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stop being beta stop being beta stop being beta. mgtow lift
/r/MarriedRedPill05/04/16 07:38 PM
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https://howhot.io/
/r/askTRP04/04/16 01:55 PM
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I suggest a read of The Life-Changing Magic of Tidying Up: The Japanese Art of Decluttering and Organizing. The premise is very similar to the OP: Keep only that which brings joy to your life - clothing, books and yes even friends.
/r/TheRedPill26/02/16 02:37 PM
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Facebook will only show you info on who you viewed recently, if you have 1000 friends then chances are you will only see the status of 20 or 30 of them. Chances are those 20 or 30 people will also have you in their circle of friends.
/r/TheRedPill25/02/16 10:55 PM
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In TRP every male is able to get a 10 - in reality we have lower SMV than Danny Devito - he got the bartender from Cheers, Rhea Perlman, who had high status but was no means a super model.
/r/askTRP13/11/15 08:51 AM
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“Listen, smile, agree, and then do whatever the fuck you were gonna do anyway.”― Robert Downey Jr.
/r/TheRedPill05/11/15 11:33 PM
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With $80K a year you should be able to figure this out unless your mortgate is over $2K per month - my guess is you need to have a complete reassessment of your financess. Start with the basics, what do you "need" to live. Now add in best value entertainment - picnic instead of eating out, class at gold's gym with $5 child care instead of babysitter for night out, internet and hulu instead of cable. Don't jump ship - don't blame, shame or explain (beta behaviors) - just start saying how you feel…
/r/askMRP03/09/15 01:54 PM
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Hard to do - oneitis is like a drug - feels great when your on it - feels horrible when your not. She will never be just another girl - she will be that girl who left you to date another guy - don't get sad or mad it's just who she is. Now, who are you - find your self. Perhaps start with a new use of all that dating time - going for runs or working out or joining a a club - this will help define who you are becoming. Also read a good book - you would be amazed at how a good book can alter your …
/r/askTRP31/08/15 04:17 PM
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In your mind, think that she is dating another guy in the social circle and has moved on - while it was fun while it lasted it is now over. Don't become a beta orbiter - it makes you look undesirible to others who see you for oneitis. Then again don't be a dick to her as it will show you are just insecure about it. (p.s. once a crush always a crush until you find someone better then it goes away - to get better you have to be better yourself - also going to college will help as you will no longe…
/r/askTRP31/08/15 03:49 PM
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This should be upvoted more - single red pill and married red pill are both about confidence and assertiveness but they are not the same. Marriage changes the dynamics of the game (especially with kids). If you are married and want a good marriage - get away for a weekend without the wife. She has plans great - let her know you have plans too - this makes your time valuable. Now read, write, reflect - come back and start lifting everyday, work hard to push your career and continue to improve. Ev…
/r/askTRP28/08/15 02:12 PM
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Who said anything about her actually keeping in touch with them - I friended my ex on facebook - we talked like 2 years ago. People move on...
/r/askTRP14/05/15 03:48 PM
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If she "dated" them so what. Do you want to come off as insecure - are you afraid that she actually is still in contact with them. Let me clue you in - it means nothing. Don't try to be controling saying who she can friend. Most girls just want to see who that guy is dating, what he is doing, etc... if you can't handle it you need to up your self worth.
/r/askTRP14/05/15 01:12 PM
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Let's be honest, if we are "asking strangers on the internet for advice" we need to laugh a bit because that is funny. Here is what I suggest, take the most alpha guy you know at the office or neighborhood and get to know him. You need a role model - not some sheep on the internet. Read books - stop giving a F*ck about what the internet has to say.
/r/MarriedRedPill07/05/15 02:13 PM
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If you want one more kid have another kid - stop flirting around the issue. She will either let you be captian or tell you to fuck off, either way you two will be in a better spot as it shows you where your relationship stands.
/r/MarriedRedPill06/05/15 06:28 PM
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After being married to my wife who would gladly do this, I can say it is not ideal. These type of women are often only concerned with their own self - not having a kid of their own just reinforces this. Go to silicon valley where 1/2 the corporations allow women to "freeze" their eggs as a perk and you will find Marriage 3.0 is in full effect. My advice - stay away - while it sounds good this is actually part of the feminist agenda. http://www.wsj.com/articles/SB100014241278873236280045784588821…
/r/askTRP20/04/15 01:39 PM
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You need a guy who is stronger than that - I had a neighbor marry a man like that, he ended up popping pills, losing his job, becoming a loser and after she lost all respect cost the marriage. Save yourself the time now while you still can move on. Here is another tidbit - pharmacy school will lead to a high paying, boring job with zero creativity in 95% of cases. He will still want you years later - especially if you come off as the best he ever had. You have nothing to lose.
/r/RedPillWomen20/04/15 02:56 AM
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Calla, That is not dread. That is the last resort. Here is the Dread - Dread 1: Be the Captain - Maintain Frame Dread 2: Improve Physically, Spiritually, Mentally Dread 3: Increase Social Circles - All Work and Women and no Play.... Dread 4: Do Everything Decently and Orderly - Get your Shit Down. Dread 5: Dress to Impress - At this point you should have steps 1 to 4 down and are just improving first impressions. Dread 6: Be Bold - Have confidence to be direct in sexual advances. Dread 7: Be Men…
/r/RedPillWomen17/04/15 02:18 PM
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Your mind is the key. Try meditation instead - you will find that time spent in one are was better serviced by training your mind to connect with yourself. "Alpha" is understanding yourself and learning to to submit to your "weak" will - that voice that says take the "easy road". Work out and your mind will tell you to stop, Jerk off and your mind will tell you to go. Learn to control your innerself and share with others your experience. (my weakness is procrastination - which is why I am here n…
/r/askTRP02/04/15 03:10 PM
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That time of the month? Try it again next week.
/r/askTRP02/04/15 02:22 PM
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If you are having doubts about whether you can actually trust a person. Chances are you can't. Also think about what you just said - "If she drinks, or smokes, or does drugs, or went to Mexico for spring break, or has many guy friends, that doesn't mean she's a slut." Sounds like a winner to bring home to mom. I can see it now - "Hey Mom I want you to meet Star - we met in Cabo on spring break"
/r/askTRP23/03/15 09:20 PM
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Ego hurt bro? Just as nuzz said "minmise" it.
/r/askTRP15/03/15 06:10 PM
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Take a chill pill and hang with the guys or play some sports... become a little busy doing other things. Texting (flirting) gets old after a while for anyone especially if you life revolves around 3 nights with her.
/r/askTRP27/01/15 12:37 AM
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"I'm not in good shape." Eating right and going to the gym proves you feel you are willing to dedicate your life to hard work. You likely follow a routine that says I go to bed at x and wake up at z and do y in between, you need to write down what you are going to do, say it to your wife, and do you what you said you were going to do (or become her beta forever).
/r/askTRP09/01/15 04:58 PM
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Keep working on it - there will come a time when...
/r/TheRedPill01/01/15 05:19 PM
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Its all about balance - same people who say gaming is bad will watch 10 hours straight of a series on netflix or like me get OCD reading up on stuff till I feel like I have it down when it doesn't matter. The real goal should be to use every minute as well as possible which means this is my last post for today off to the gym.
/r/TheRedPill04/12/14 06:25 PM
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Don't do it if you want a long term relationship. It is a good way to take a loyal and loving girl and toss that out the window. If you want a threesome just have one with two girls at a party just don't include her. It is short lived, when you are 40 noone will care.
/r/askTRP18/11/14 06:10 PM
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You have oneitis, stop putting her on a platform. You said she is a 10 but in her world she is a 7 - any girl that rates herself a 10 is not worth dating as she sees the world as serving the perfect woman.
/r/askTRP26/10/14 07:50 PM
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She wanted to visit her friend you just happen to live close by.
/r/TheRedPill26/10/14 07:29 PM
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One: Call ex and get rejected big time or have amazing make up time, either way stop being a Facebook stalker. Two: Stop focusing on the past Facebook stalker, you can only change the future if it doesn't work out delete her facebook link - be a man.
/r/becomeaman14/10/14 06:34 AM
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I agree - comparing Don Draper (Mad Men) to Tom Scavo (Desperate Housewives) is a great example of Alpha Man and Beta Man. One is in control and one just thinks he is is control both are in the same profession. These are shows my wife watches before anyone comments like a douchebag.
/r/askTRP03/10/14 02:22 PM
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Thank you. That was a really nice video.
/r/RedPillWomen10/09/14 09:52 PM
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I will add to that - never appear to be in a hurry instead act like you have your day planned and walk to places like you have a purpose. People loafing, walking without purpose, etc look beta - You will never see the CFO meandering - they got work to do.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:40 AM
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You will be labeled as one of two types of people at that point. Creeper or Keeper. half the work is already done.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:35 AM
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Bill Murray said the key to life - just relax. http://www.thestar.com/entertainment/tiff/2014/09/05/bill_murrays_advice_on_life_just_relax.html
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:32 AM
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I just did all that and thought "this would be so much easier to do if my muscles were tight from the gym" - going 1st thing and working back.
/r/TheRedPill07/09/14 02:30 AM
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Love of baking and travel? ... those are what you do for yourself.. the man wants "fun, sexy, alluring". i.e. Make him a sandwich (with that baked bread) and give him a reason not to play poker with the guys tonight.
/r/RedPillWomen22/08/14 07:31 PM
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Wow - you should write a book - BP vs. RP
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:08 PM
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Go ahead lots of people do and end up with /r/deadbedrooms
/r/TheRedPill22/08/14 01:06 PM
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The funny thing is if they never got married she would be in a tricky situation and would likely only get awarded 50% of historical (at the most). This is a sign of a legal system with double standards.
/r/TheRedPill18/08/14 06:46 PM
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Legal reasons - she either has to say she willing allowed it (police testimony will hold up in court) or she did not willing consent at this point. Try getting angry at your wife after that happens - you will end up divorced and the guy will give testimony that you were verbally abusive. Give me another option? Walk out like nothing happened - sorry not going to happen.
/r/TheRedPill14/08/14 02:05 PM
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Much of TRP is difficult to follow - as a man you have stop being who you were and become who you are (fake it till you make it).
/r/TheRedPill07/08/14 06:46 PM
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Since you posted about something from /r/askwomen I assume you are now banned. They are very sensitive about things trp posts - they are watching us thinking we are some women movement(wtf).
/r/TheRedPill14/04/14 12:42 AM
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So true - Will leave this song here: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=H-gfxjAaZg0
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 05:32 PM
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Do your self a favor and read this - ask what red pill life you want - http://marriedmansexlife.com/2010/01/pua-game-vs-married-game/ What ever path you take do not lose the knowledge you gain here - it is why your girl is loving you more than you feel you do her - you feel that your value is higher and would like to trade up. Many here like to blame the women - they are not red pill - the true red pill is realizing you are in control of your destiny and how others treat you including women.
/r/TheRedPill19/02/14 03:55 PM
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Thank you for posting - this is the first post that validates trp for me. Where do I start to reclaim my throne and role as head of the house - woman hear me roar!
/r/TheRedPill28/01/14 03:41 AM
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I just finished a business law class. The issue deals with the funds in which the lottery ticket were purchased. If they only had one checking account together then that is what the case will focus on. The bits about having a child and how long the relationship was help strength the case that they were evenly sharing all earnings till that point and that it was not a temporary arrangement. I would say she has a good case even if you don't think she deserves it.
/r/TheRedPill11/11/13 03:49 PM
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For a more rounded personality substitute Andrew Carnegie to Dale Carnegie - How to win friends and influence people and Robert Green to Stephen R. Covey - 7 habits of highly effective people (one of the habits is win - win per your point #5). Napolean Hill was influenced by Andrew Carnegie , like Covey he also has 7 principles (different and worth reading). Ayn Rand is good but not great can I suggest Good to Great by Jim Collins, if you are still interested in Ayn Rand watch Atlas Shrugged on …
/r/TheRedPill18/09/13 02:01 AM
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Its time to say F*k it and have some fun... get out there and do things you always wanted to do but never had the guts. You only live once.
/r/seduction09/02/12 12:36 AM
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Work on trying to be with one girl you really want instead of 100 girls you can have. Life is better with meaningful relationships.
/r/seduction03/02/12 01:25 AM
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1 in 300 is crazy high. Please use protection people!
/r/seduction22/09/11 12:42 AM
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