kspinner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)

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11	Is it true that women over 30 are seen as lower value by men or don’t get quality male attention? You will get less attention in your 30s but it mainly filters out the creepiest and most obnoxious, vapid men. It's pretty great. If you're say 20, you do not want the men who only want a 20-year-old. If you're a virgin, you also don't want the men who only want a virgin. They're the worst. Found that one out the hard way. So yes you won't get as much attention, yes you're seen as lower value by SOME men, but you will not get less "quality" attention.	/r/RedPillWomen	10/12/25 06:13 PM
3	Does anyone else’s partner ask them for nudes? I never do it. There is so much "revenge porn" out there and it is such common behavior for men to share photos after breakups as a way to intentionally disrespect their ex. I'm sure my current partner would never do this, but I still hold to my rule, and he can see me in person	/r/RedPillWomen	09/06/23 09:48 PM
2	I am F32, divorced. Live with parents. I recently started an affair with my neighbor M40 widower, single dad. I love the child and am hoping it becomes something, but the dad doesn’t want to marry again. Do you think it would change with time ? They're not married, hence it is a love affair.	/r/RedPillWomen	06/07/22 05:14 PM
5	My (26f) long term boyfriend (27m) made a very stupid decision that cost him a great job opportunity, and I’m really bummed because this wouldn’t have happened if he had listened to my advice. Oh my gosh. I can't believe I'm coming out of lurker mode to say this of all things, but they make fake pee that you can buy for around $50 and it works perfectly- you just have to get it to a reasonable temperature. My boyfriend has used it several times and it is easily worth it to keep/get a job.	/r/RedPillWomen	20/04/21 11:04 PM
6	Boyfriend left me :( I'm so sorry you're going through this. Going through a period of unemployment and not getting great results from interviewing is really depressing and if he is going through depression, that could be why he didn't feel he loves you. Depression numbs emotions. :( It's no fault of yours; please go easy on yourself. As far as leading you on, he probably knew the potential the relationship had, how lovely you are, and that he would likely feel that way if his emotions were working right, so he kept…	/r/RedPillWomen	02/03/20 05:55 PM
10	Tips to keep skin looking health and young? Wow. Her skin sure speaks for itself.	/r/RedPillWomen	12/02/20 02:29 AM
22	33 year old former feminist. Am I screwed? All of your actions make sense to me, and I'm sorry you've ended up 33 and in this position. My mom was sort of in the same place but never as self-aware about it-- she still says she doesn't understand why fewer men her age wanted to date her when she passed 30. She broke up with her long-term boyfriend when she was in her early 30s, got together with my dad at 34, went off birth control at 36 to see if she could get pregnant (she had never been off birth control or gotten pregnant) and to her …	/r/RedPillWomen	03/01/20 05:16 PM
1	Keeping conversation meaningful while long distance Same here, he graduated in 2018 and I'm graduating in 2020 and have already found a great job close enough to allow me to move in with him. We've made it this far, and the distance is hard, but affirming at the same time. I'm very confident that neither of us has interest in pursuing other people, because of our mutual eagerness to just contact one another despite the distance... I think it's made our relationship more secure than if we had had the opportunity to be together right away.	/r/RedPillWomen	19/12/19 06:41 AM
1	Virginity is like a trophy. I had the same attitude and was saving my virginity. At age 22, I ended up losing my virginity nonconsensually to someone I consensually went home with when drunk (to fool around and not have sex, turns out he had other ideas), and I did a lot of things that I wouldn't normally have done in the subsequent months because I felt so worthless. I'm not sure what I would tell myself if I could go back in time and give myself advice, but it isn't a healthy attitude. I have bonded well with the guy I a…	/r/RedPillWomen	22/09/19 09:48 PM
13	How much does physical appearance matter? Like others have said, I have to be physically attracted to him and naturally inspired to want to be intimate with him. Beyond that, I'm not weighing men against one another based on how likely they are to be on the cover of a magazine, it's more of a Pass/Fail, and then the other criteria come into play.	/r/RedPillWomen	02/09/19 03:32 PM
1	Are most women doomed to marry a man that isn't attractive? We gravitate toward the men we find attractive, and experience shows that this varies wildly among women, seemingly a lot moreso than men's taste in women. I personally prefer men closer to my height and think taller guys look skinny and lanky, and a lot of my friends don't think my current SO is attractive, but I was instantly very attracted to him. Physical attractiveness is subjective.	/r/RedPillWomen	21/06/19 06:59 AM
3	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? Sorry to butt in, but I thought it might be worth sharing: My mother is petite (105lbs) and had no issues carrying me or my brother. She had to have a cesarian for my brother (9lb 14oz) but no other issues, and had me (7lb 7oz) naturally with no issues. I wish you all the best!	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 05:36 PM
1	Are Moms Doomed to Get Fat? I'm in my twenties with no kids, but my mom is 60 and she has never had a pudgy stomach in her life. She has had two children and eats modestly and normally, doesn't exercise much, just gardening and walking. It boggles my mind when people imply that women must have big flabby bellies after having kids... I've seen many more counterexamples than examples of that in my life.	/r/RedPillWomen	29/05/19 05:32 PM
11	Is there something wrong with me if no boy has ever approached me in a romantic context? I think it's pretty rare in this day and age for guys to ask girls out outside of dating apps and bars. I've only been approached a couple of times outside of situations that guys feel are appropriate to talk to women (e.g. bars and parties).	/r/RedPillWomen	17/04/19 07:36 PM
2	Is it futile to try to come up with a timeline for marriage/family? I think so. I'm in the same boat, 23 and still in college after delays, very single and not ready to date again after a taxing relationship, though I will graduate in a year and a month. I just stress myself out more thinking about how I'd like to have kids in my 20s, yet be financially stable, and married in a stable relationship with someone I've vetted carefully and truly love. I think it's best just to try to work on myself, put away money if I can, and try to be open to meet people.	/r/RedPillWomen	16/04/19 02:01 AM