kstanman Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Best places for cold approach and how to multiple approach at same place?	Outer Game	kstanman	/r/seduction	30/01/24 08:14 PM

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45	What's something you've learned that seems obvious in hindsight? Any excuse to not get together without a counter offer (ie "I can't because I have to...but how about...") is a no. They know what you want if you show interest, so if they don't reciprocate it's a no, move on.	/r/seduction	17/05/24 12:50 AM
3	Share The Best Advice You've Gotten With a noticeable but not try-hard bulge	/r/seduction	11/05/24 10:52 PM
2	What to do when a girl buys you a drink? Riff on the drink she got you - nice scotch, so you're looking to get me loose enough to take advantage of real quick Oh a beer, so you want to get me drunk nice and slow is that like a hint at your foreplay style Steer it to these themes: she's chasing you, you're the prize, very subtle sexish things (subtlety is like crack or a blow job for a woman, they get it and looooove it) Riff on the singing interaction - Well if that's what you give for a karaoke song at a dive bar, I wonder what you gi…	/r/seduction	30/04/24 04:40 PM
9	Can´t do my first approach, im just too scared and feel pressured to do it, then dissapointed when i don´t. You know how when you first dive into a pool you hesitate because you know it'll be cold at first, even though you'll adjust and it soon won't feel cold? What do you do to get yourself into the pool? I tell myself "ok, you [anxious me] stay here, bold, wise me is going in let's roll" and away I go who cares I'm running on autopilot kinda like sleepwalking. Edit: This topic fascinates me. Another helpful idea for me is, there is mechanically a way to do what I'm afraid to do, so I go into robot m…	/r/seduction	28/04/24 04:12 PM
1	Getting jaded from so much rejection Not sure I follow. Please expound	/r/seduction	26/04/24 01:30 PM
18	Getting jaded from so much rejection 110% this. This kinda comment is what I really dig about thus sub. Good on ya	/r/seduction	26/04/24 01:29 PM
0	I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people? IMHO the guy saying go anywhere to find women is wrong for several reasons like fewer third places, more women relying on apps...it's a very valid question. If you changed your post bc of what he said, dude give it a little time for others to say how good your post is and not so quick to change in reaction to others. If not, trust no respect your first instincts more. I have an answer but I'm still curious. I maybe missing something like maybe spinning class is where all the girls who want crotc…	/r/seduction	25/04/24 06:45 PM
8	I’m 20 where CAN I go out and meet people? Women go to these places to meet guys or get approached by guys: Parks Dance classes Yoga classes Malls Sports activities that you actually participate in with them like volleyball	/r/seduction	25/04/24 06:33 PM
2	Mastering communication before going to bars/night clubs If what you ultimately want is a girl, start there, then recalibrate (would that have been better if someone else had been with me or can I do just fine solo?). Don't wait for "being properly prepared to approach" just start doing it. If bringing others along doesn't delay you (ie their schedules conflict so you have to wait a week to go out) fune bring them along, but focus on you improving and meeting girls now, today. If that's what you want.	/r/seduction	25/04/24 03:00 PM
1	Feel somewhat emasculated Maybe let her "teach you" but you have some ideas of your own too like she gets on her knees and blows you while rubbing herself so you can watch her get herself off on you. Like ok I'll learn what you like and you do what I like. If she wants to run the whole show, it's looking like disrespect.	/r/seduction	24/04/24 05:55 PM
6	Why are you gay? Fuck all these keyboard Casanovas for shitting on u. Not the guy above, he gave you helpful info. If you always go for a kiss u won't have this problem again - as simple as "I want to kiss u" listen for silence or a positive response = green light. If she says no, you're done with her no need to waste more time. That strategy would have solved all the shit you're bothered about now. Add game and you'll do even better, but always going foe kiss is your insurance policy as you develop your game.	/r/seduction	24/04/24 12:35 PM
4	3 simple actions to improve your Online Dating Life Riiiiight, that's all it takes to overcome the fact that men outnumber women 9 to 1 on the popular apps. They're expensive garbage for the vast majority of guys.	/r/seduction	24/04/24 12:37 AM
94	Today I approached a group of girls I ran into during my walk. First time I do something like this in my life. Here's a key secret you won't really know until later, but trust this wisdom now and you'll start getting it's benefit early - it's a hack. After you approach a dozen or so times, so many unfounded fears and anxieties are soundly proven to be false. Each new girl becomes an attempt, a number, a score that helps you track your progress, and like everything else in life you will progress if you keep at it. Things that fall away are ideas like "ooh, this is the one, if this works my life will be fi…	/r/seduction	21/04/24 02:54 PM
1	10 steps on how some men build resentment towards women due to ego, lack of patience, and not getting the hint. Lol, I had a business colleague do this. I sent him business. Then, I reached out to him a year or so later when I wanted to make a job move to his co. They apparently weren't interested, but he was very positive, so I misread that. The nail in the coffin was an awkward lunch he paid for (after my several calls and emails - "Any news on the prospect of a move...") - because I was like a client that sent him business. That awkward lunch stopped my efforts to seek employment at his co. It's easy t…	/r/seduction	16/04/24 08:22 PM
1	Just became friends with this new girl but I don't know what to chat about online to make it playful. Give me some general fun topics. Imho MFORD, music is usually neutral to positive and can give you a deeper glimpse inside.	/r/seduction	16/04/24 07:08 PM
4	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? Mhm, still doubting and negatively judging yourself. I know that voice all too well. And it's not a friend	/r/seduction	15/04/24 02:12 AM
53	What's the worst way you've ever fumbled a babe? On the other hand, maybe give yourself some credit. What if all of those were the exact right move for you at the time. Meaningless sex might have ruined it for you such that when the girl who hits on all cylinders for you comes along it'll be really special, epic even. But if you banged em all beforehand, then it's just meh, which could prevent you from experiencing some real magic with the right one. Also the more partners you have the more likely the one you stay with will be the best. So ban…	/r/seduction	15/04/24 01:59 AM
1	I slept with her on our first night hanging out. Thankful for this sub. You nailed her before 30, that's when Taraban says the SM value starts to drop. Thas gold my man	/r/seduction	04/04/24 02:24 AM
7	Did my first true cold approach and oof There r no failures just good stories.	/r/seduction	31/01/24 03:04 PM
5	How to Escalate when Girl is at your Place - A Tip that Worked for me LMR would like a word w u.	/r/seduction	14/01/24 04:05 PM
1	I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person. A winner uses all available options to get closer to his goal, since even a bad experience can be a lesson in what to avoid and where one stands in the world. I meant more like u pick a girl who is available quickest and easiest. Don't date or flirt for rea, that is, dont go in search of "the one," just do it for practice. Make up what counts as "points" or a good dating session on your part. A black belt isn't afraid of getting hurt, he's been hit and taken down 100s of times. Nor is he so deaf…	/r/seduction	19/03/22 05:26 PM
3	I get terrible anxiety when I’m interested in a person. The more at bats you have, the easier it gets. You can always find 1 or 2 girls to practice on. Ones that wil spend time with you. Use what you learn from them - and more importantly the boost in confidence and self esteem you get from having options - to keep exploring other options. Alls fair in love, especially shopping around until you get what you want The opposite is a soul mate approach, where you keep finding the one and going all in on that. It creates way too much pressure that only a …	/r/seduction	18/03/22 05:37 PM
0	Why do most girls I meet seem disinterested? You mean uninterested. Disinterest means they are objective in their assessment of you, but each or them always has an element of self interest in your advances. None of them is objective.	/r/seduction	27/11/21 06:12 PM