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I appreciate your input. I’m aware that these are massive red flags. As I’ve stated, I’d like to demote her to a plate and begin to work on myself/game other girls. I was simply asking for advice on how to do so.
/r/askTRP11/07/19 02:59 PM
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But she still wants us to be exclusive. A break was my idea and she still wants me back. She’s not gonna get dicked down by her ex. I know that for a fact. If anything, she’s worried that I’ll be out and about with other girls.
/r/askTRP10/07/19 10:00 PM
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Could you elaborate more as to why LTR’ing a girl who doesn’t view you as the most important part of her life as bad? Generally speaking, I don’t see why anyone would view their SO as the most important thing. You have school, career, and personal hobbies to pursue.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:29 PM
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On point. I’ve fallen off track and began to worry about her instead of myself. It should be her making an effort to keep me, not the other way around. As for my doubts regarding her teammates, her last relationship was with a teammate. They kept it low key for a few years and did things behind everyone’s back.
/r/askTRP20/06/19 04:27 PM
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100% agree with you. It’s just hard to put that into action. I have other friends that are girls but that doesn’t help alleviate how I feel
/r/askTRP10/06/19 10:53 PM
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This is exactly the predicament that I’m in. She plays tennis at a very high level and represents an elite team. The ratio of guy to girl is relatively even, however the top group within the team consists of the best players. That is where the guy to girl ratio becomes highly uneven (6 guys 2 girls). Just looking for advice or suggestions to not let this bother me as this isn’t a deal breaker.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:51 PM
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And the alternative is? This is going with the assumption that I act insecure and break frame.
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:42 PM
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Because she is great support, both for personal and professional development. She also goes above and beyond and does all the girl/wifey shit. I
/r/askTRP10/06/19 09:41 PM
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Update: plate never reached out to my LTR plate. I opened her message to my response of “I think you’re misunderstanding” and she responded with “you’re confusing LOL” Would you guys recommend keeping in touch with her still? Also, to clarify, she never threatened to reach out to my LTR explicitly. I was only assuming the worse.
/r/askTRP06/06/19 07:29 AM
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Can you clarify on don’t trip? Just ignore her?
/r/askTRP06/06/19 04:59 AM
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In retrospect, I would say I have oneitis. I’ve been vetting this “potential LTR” plate for quite sometime, conditioned her, and have found her to be quite a solid option. I’ll admit - I’m definitely in the wrong here. I’m just looking for feedback on how to deescalate the situation. I’m currently sitting on an unopened Snapchat message from the plate that could potentially hit up my LTR plate. Basically, I don’t want to lose my LTR plate. If shit hits the fan, how do I react and approach the si…
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:57 AM
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I should’ve provided more context. Apologies. The plate I’ve been talking to now has a boyfriend but still keeps in touch with me and is super flirty. I’ve reciprocated and is now concerned that she will reach out to my potential LTR plate. What can I do to deescalate the situation?
/r/askTRP06/06/19 03:51 AM
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Glad that I’m not alone. I tried my best to explain the situation without any bias. She has expressed her concern over the last month regarding how uncomfortable she felt from my recently frequent interactions with my ex. She ultimately asked me to give her a timeframe as to when I could give her an answer and placed heavy emphasis on choosing the route that I am most happy in, regardless of whether or not she’s in the picture. Overall, I do see this girl as LTR material and don’t mind being a “…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 10:43 PM
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Keeping cool while saying this is definitely important. However, does accepting her terms not demonstrate that you are breaking frame? ​ she apparently nuked the ex for you upon request, of course you should consider doing the same for her since this came up and your ex never was a big deal for you either way. She actually nuked him all on her own. If anything, it was her way of demonstrating that she's putting in effort to remediate the situation. I'm struggling to see as to why I have to compl…
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:21 PM
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Women are a lot of things; stupid isn't one of them. LTR worthy girls don't extensively text other guys in a social context, especially when they have a history together. I would agree with this. This incident would definitely be a deal-breaker but the other benefits (i.e. professional connections, etc.) offset it. a soft plate Not sure if I'm using the right terminology - but I guess a booty call or passive FWB would be the best ways to describe her. She's always down for whatever and whenever.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 08:18 PM
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Good advice. I’ll give the article a read during my lunch break. I also forgot to clarify that she cut her ex off as best as she could immediately after.
/r/askTRP10/05/19 06:29 PM
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Doesn’t matter if the window is closed or not. You don’t have much to lose at this point lol
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:46 PM
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Then do it. Talk to here, escalate and see where it takes you. Doesn’t go anywhere? Np. Next.
/r/askTRP12/07/18 05:39 PM
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I’m in the same exact boat as you. It’s scary as to how similar your story and mine is. My LTR of 3.5 years just said that she was no longer attracted to me physically. Her reasoning was that she only saw me as a best friend since we did everything together. When we broke up, she did the same thing to me as your ex did you with you—cried, gave me the long ass huh, and even asked if there’s a chance we could get back together in the future (???). She said that she wanted to use this time to get h…
/r/askTRP09/07/18 07:46 PM
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Super clever, but every time I’ve tried it on Tinder the girls always tell me that they’ve heard it before. Lol
/r/askTRP08/07/18 06:23 AM
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