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She's not picking him for a fling. He has already self selected her with a goal in mind, and she's down for that because she can't do any better... and I guess validation from a "hot" guy is nice.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 10:10 PM
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We inherently know why... but no one wants to say it. Guy with early sex = he's high caliber and sex-zoned her. It was easy easy sex for him or nothing. He wasn't gonna waste his time on her with formal dates. Guy who waited = someone more in line with her own league and would seriously entertain her as a long-term option.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/03/25 09:22 PM
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To me, these women with 20+ short term relationships are un-dateable to me. To me, those are the types of men she truly wanted and desired and were out of her league. Like I get being played, being young and naive, and being lied to by men, but after the 5th time you've been down the same road... how do you NOT know you weren't in the same league as those men? How could you not tell that none of those men considered you relationship-material? Women claim they can ready and better judge social se…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/01/25 04:45 AM
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I agree with most of the points in the OP. If a male is subjective a 7/10 and he wants a looksmatch/social status match of 7/10 in a female partner, how does he navigate this situation? Since the looksmatched 7/10 woman is aiming higher... does this mean the male is actually a 5/10 and should be aiming for 5/10 looksmatch woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/12/24 07:40 PM
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Women's sexual fun is most likely flings with guys out of her league that would NEVER consider her for long term material. If she was looking for something serious but got "played so many times" and "all men are pigs", then mostly likely it's entirely her fault. Her fault for giving out sex without commitment or without tactfully meeting his friends and family first. She did the same play in the playbook multiple times and expected a different result? That indicates low intelligence on the woman…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:37 PM
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Again... I don't doubt that SOME men exist that are insecure about their own ability to pleasure their partner but most of it stems from... why would the man, self-made and self-establish and all he's worked for, get down on one knee and worship and crown a woman, that's let so many men walk over her... get pumped and dumped left and right... giving out free sex to men at the club, sex at 2AM with a "u up?" text no effort or plans made... why make that woman the mother of your children? All thes…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/09/24 08:32 PM
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"Women file 80 percent of the divorces"... Think hard about why you think that is. Randomly or the guy has become distant and an unsupportive partner? If women are initiating the divorces, it could indicate that they are suffering more and much longer and divorce is the last straw.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/09/24 02:21 PM
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In my experience, guys have a longer leash for so-so dates and feelings on the person. We have less options so we're forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:04 PM
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She can have the attention of a CEO Part-time Model Chad the same night of the breakup if she wants. Whether that CEO Chad got is interested in commitment is another question.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/09/24 08:02 PM
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The tiny tiny font at the bottom is that men could chose to cuff these women up while the women virtually has no chance to cuff these men up. That's why one is "less" worse than the others when it comes to eventually "settling" down.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/09/24 02:37 AM
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Define "Dating"... are these men marrying them and taking them seriously?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/09/24 04:27 PM
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Eh sometimes you have a good convo one day because you're bored but the next day you're just feeling it. It's the reality these days with so many options... both men and women. Just take it for what it's worth.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:17 PM
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The first date??? If she kisses on the first date, how many other guys is she doing this with? In any case, if I had to re-do my dating experiences, I would 100% go for the kiss and be as forward as possible. Skip the month-long song and dance and uncertainty. It's either there or it ain't.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:12 PM
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Not following... "truthworthy" because he's attractive. You mean he's pre-selected because he's attractive? Then yeah I guess in a round about way that proves his trust worthiness.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/08/24 03:10 PM
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I'd say it's possible in theory but generally no. Women don't understand why men obsess over n-count... why men don't want "to pay full price for something other men have gotten for free". To me, as a man, the points seem very logical. But to most women, it's hurr durr "small dick energy" and "insecurities". Women advice for men struggling with dating so comical and out of touch.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/24 06:35 PM
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Okay then... so what topics excite women? Honestly, if you are pre-made man, lead singer of the Beatles or the team captain of the LA Lakers or the top male model for Vogue, women have already pre-selected you and want you regardless of what types of conversations you want to have...
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:14 PM
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And if you're hot and successful enough, you get the 'Chad' pass to objectify them and they'll love you for it!
/r/PurplePillDebate23/08/24 02:12 PM
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It's never that quite enjoyable because you know deep down inside you're on the prowl for dates... You're "fake" having fun. Just use online dating and keep your hobbies... your hobbies.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/08/24 05:51 AM
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If I went up to a hot (single woman), most likely I'd be shot down and told to get lost. But tell her I was a Premier League soccer superstar? Keep in mind... same height/face/personality. Yeah she'd go on a date with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:34 PM
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If your looks and personality were EXACTLY the same, most women would have already rejected you in their minds based on your social status. Why bother?
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 07:02 PM
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One nit pick is that dating apps are indeed regulated or at least rigged against men (and people in general) so you buy their premium stuff instead of the free-tier stuff.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/08/24 02:14 AM
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I don't care about having better or not better. I don't want to roll out the red carpet and have a flowers for her waiting on Valentine's... a thoughtful anniversary dinner with her if she literally gives it up for free to strangers on the first night or hardly knowing them.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 06:45 PM
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At the end of the day, the loud mouth and overconfident jock is going to sleep with more women than the reserved choir boy. It is what it is. Despite so many women being "repulsed" and "turned off" by Andrew Tate... he's exactly the type of guy that gets with hot women in real life. Throw in the fact that he's legit wealthy... it's a no brainer.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/24 05:56 PM
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Why are these top men entertaining them in the first place... why not have a harem of all hot looksmatch women... I mean I guess if you're in the NFL/NBA or a guy like Leonardo you're doing that. I'm guessing the game really is that tough on "normal" Chads. So if you're an average guy, just forget about dating basically if a top tier guy is having to put in work.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 02:08 PM
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All of this would be fine and dandy except women are just not attracted to their looksmatch and about 95% of guys. I've seen how harshly they judge average and normal looking men. An extremely hot and attractive woman liking Chad... I get it.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 01:57 PM
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No... because of the second reason. Of 500+ men on the apps asking for the same thing. It's like a job filter. What's the easiest criteria to limit most people? GPA, certifications... which is looks in this scenario. Anyhow... the reason question is why women aren't attracted to their looksmatch in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:10 AM
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Yes... BECAUSE he quiet quit. You expected her to just stay take it all and stay unhappy in a relationship?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:01 AM
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Yes... why is that so hard to believe? Because of a strength differentials between man and woman, she's at risk. You might as well weight the risk and rewards and go after someone you are VERY attracted to if you ALREADY risking your life. Risking your life to go for a mid hookup? LOL.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 06:01 AM
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Why are you phrasing it as SHE got bored? Most likely he was the one that got bored and started putting in less effort... basically quiet quitting to make it seem like she was the bad guy when she finally initiated the divorce.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:20 AM
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If you're risking your life and you have 500+ people asking you for the same thing, might as well go for the best looking one.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:18 AM
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Any woman that accepts a spot in the fuckzone, a "spot" on the rotation is just un-dateable long term for me. Just DoorDash pussy at 2AM, doing whatever the wants and pleases... WTF Does the husband end up getting in the end? A random dude, who put in no work or effort, got the same sex you did. Got the same privileges you got except you have to go 50-50 with her on the house chores, pay for her, and listen to her complain and talk your ear off.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 05:05 AM
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They are "hookup material" only because the guy dictates that. They'd be husband material if the girl was looksmatched and the guy would consider going exclusive with her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/24 04:57 AM
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Harder... because you're no longer competing with guys only in your small town, neighborhood, adult sports league, gym, art club, etc. etc. You competing with guys, some of whom are highly good looking and successfully and in different and exclusive social clubs and circles...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/24 06:36 PM
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At the end of the day, it brings out the worst of people’s insecurities, those involved and not involved. Women feel insecure because the men, typically at the height of his career and field, has his pick of women and goes younger. The women themselves involved, despite feminism and all of the rights gained, choices to be objectified and under a man. The men and others feel as those the women can’t possibly be attracted to someone their grandfathers age (look at Al Pacino, Bill Billichek, and Ro…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 04:58 PM
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For the record, don't be an asshole and treat people poorly. For any reason. No matter what your social status and wealth situation is. Period. It takes two to tango though. Sure, some high status men can be abusive and possess low morals. But they couldn't and wouldn't keep doing this on a long term basis if women were black-balling them. But no, women are still RECEPTIVE to them and still pre-selecting them. BUT WHY? WHY?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:32 AM
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Because we're told in school, taught in movies and TV shows, told by our parents, lectured online about being a good and kind person, indoctrinated by religion of having good morals... treating women like human beings... in order to attract women. And yet, a guy with at least 8 baby mamas abandoned his wife and their kid so he could cheat does drugs and pills raps about degrading women That guy is worshiped. That guy has his named chanted by women. That guy has beautiful women rushing to go back…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/24 12:16 AM
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Is it a fair conversation that women should pick better men as to not be abused, become single mothers, and eventually become un-dateable because of their past?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 10:28 PM
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Were the Beatles and the Boy Bands ever this blatant though in their lyrics? You could at least claim plausible deniability.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:42 PM
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Why are they attracted to this in the first place? Why are they attracted to these seemingly dark triad traits? Why don't women pick better men? Why do some women, who are otherwise beautiful, smart, and intelligent and successful in their careers, become brain dead when it comes to picking a partner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:21 PM
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10-15 women that got picked... how many more wanted to go backstage? 10-15 that got picked in one city, how many cities are they visiting? How many countries are they visiting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:12 PM
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This is what this whole sub is about. "Rules for the 1%-ers" and "Rules for everyone else".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:10 PM
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People that go against what it means to be a decent person, talking about objectifying women... something women preach against and demanding respect, yes... I'm surprised that person gets laid. Like I said, some women just don't care.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 07:05 PM
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Why have this song and dance about being a good and kind person then? Just say that if you are rich and famous, you have different rules. Why do women act so surprised and disgusted about being hit on? Just say you don't want ugly guys hitting on you and it's welcomed if you are a 6'4" water polo player, $500 M mutual fund manager and part time model. JUST SAY THAT.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:58 PM
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Uncomfortable truth: Women do not mind being objectified and used if the older guy is successful enough and had a successful enough film/music/sport career. You think they'd let themselves be objectified by a 55 year man working in accounting?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:41 PM
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It is disgusting if it's too wide in my opinion. So you'd sit here with a straight face if your 19 year old daughter brought home a 55 year old man for Christmas dinner?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/24 06:08 PM
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Hypergamy... that side FWB dude is probably someone she couldn't even dream of securing commitment with.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:38 AM
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I actually knew of a few women that had side FWB's while they were seriously looking for a long-term partner. MAKE THAT MAKE SENSE. So, this potential guy you've gone on a few dates with, him trying to appear trust worthy and dating material to you... possibly paying for dates, meanwhile you just went home and had free sex with the side dude? Just basically DoorDash pussy. No commitment. Nothing.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:37 AM
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But many of the same men also don’t like it if they are not getting sex in the first few dates. It all depends on what the end goal is... If LTR/marriage is my goal, then I don't mind waiting until we've established an exclusive relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:35 AM
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If it's a low n-count woman and she's made other men wait in the past (aka no Chad-passes), then I'm sure most guys would wait if she's a big enough catch. I won't wait for a former ho though.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/08/24 05:34 AM
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Yes... if you are white, over 6'0" and you work out, by default, you are playing the game on kid's mode when it comes to dating.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:56 PM
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Yes... how many options do you think athletes, musicians, entertainers and other social status or highly respect profession men have...
/r/PurplePillDebate31/07/24 01:49 PM
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No one is saying you should go for someone you're not attracted to. Obviously be with someone you are attracted to. But if you are an average woman what makes you think you can attain commitment with a man much more successful and better looking than you? Why are you not attracted to your looks-match and socialstatus-match? Do you hate yourself? Then seek therapy. Did you get alpha-widowed? Then seek therapy.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/24 01:04 PM
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Am I supposed to take every woman on a first date to dinner and pay for it all? When chances are, I’m the one being ghosted afterwards? Ladies make it make sense.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/07/24 11:00 AM
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Having sex while married or in a relationship….
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 03:55 PM
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I literally was that in my early 20s and still hardly got any matches. The average to slightly above average males get no love dating apps. Why are women not attracted to their looksmatch and social status match?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:41 PM
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Men find the stereotypical cheerleader aesthetic hot. But we also find goth, nerds, and subgroups attractive. We find the girl with a few extra pounds appealing.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 02:07 PM
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By the same token, youd be very very surprised the girls that you’d never think to engage in causal sex, will engage in causal sex. It red pills you. In my early 20s, I was pursuing a chick. She didn’t come across as the hookup type but she was. She hooked up with a relative cool and attractive guy who didn’t even bother to call her text back after sex. Then she came back to me like a few days later and confessed to me that “she’s 1000 percent” sure she wants to be in a relationship now
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:49 PM
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Why are they finding such a small and tiny percentage of men bangable? I guess when you flip the question and realize when a large percentage of men DO want to bang, it makes sense to just go the most attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/07/24 12:45 PM
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I think most men are in agreement that if you abuse or harm women you deserve to be in prison. But then you have cases where the men have a history of violence and yet women continue to go for them because "they're just soooooo hot" and "sooooo successful". Fame and social status are like drugs to women and they have a pikachu-surprise face when the violence happens to them. Look at Chris Brown and Tyreek Hill.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/07/24 06:25 PM
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The most frustrating part of dating is being told to be this nice (not a push over) but an overall good moral person and standup person... only for women, who are beautiful and successful in their own right, just go for the worst of men with histories of violence and treating their previous partners poorly and as disposable objects in their lives. At the end of the day, it's all about looks and status. When you're Kobe Bryant, you can cheat on your wife and do no wrong, you'll still be hailed as…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:30 PM
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And if you're Cristiano Rolando, you don't even have to speak at all. Pretend like you don't speak English, while still getting what you want.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:18 PM
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You become attractive when he's literally Dr. Strange who's this tall and witty former Doctor... I wouldn't take what they say seriously. My ex told me between a super famous singer (global music idol) versus a basically an incel that no woman wanted nor desired sexually, she'd pick the incel. WHAT A COPE.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:12 PM
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Women in previous abusive relationships as well... There were good and bad matches on there just like anything in life. But "some" of the women that were on there, they were single and un-dateable long-term and you knew why.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:10 PM
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I would agree with you that Dr. Strange has a funny face and his proportionals are weird. Face alone I don't think he's super attractive, but he isn't ugly.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:02 PM
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Hive mindset… and the bias of knowing he’s famous… cmon dude lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:24 AM
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Fame…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 11:15 AM
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I dont need to have sex with men to know that Brad Pitt is attractive. I don’t need to have sex with men to know that certain men would perform more favorably with women.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 05:03 AM
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Again... reality hits him in the face pretty early on in his life. Youth. College. Early career. Not only isn't he getting attention from a 9/10 but also not his 6 or 7/10 looksmatched either. Women can delude themselves into thinking this is attainable through hypergamy and one night stands without a chance of commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 03:08 AM
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He probably wanted a petite woman and didn't know how to articulate while put on the spot.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 02:03 AM
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I don't doubt some people are here for clout either. To say something outrageous to go viral.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/07/24 01:32 AM
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The older you get, the less options you have since men prefer younger (in general). The older you get, the less chances you can give birth (or multiple births) for men that prefer to have a family.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 04:04 PM
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If you were ever another man's sidechick/FWB, giving him all access to sex with no commitment, came to his house at 2AM for sex and got demanded to leave after the deed was done, got used as DoorDash-ed pussy, were too dumb to realize you were being used, were too dumb to realize he was out of your league, then no, logically I do not want to be with this person. Why is it so hard to comprehend why?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:12 PM
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At the end of the day... still hot if they married young enough and didn't have any kids out of wed-lock.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:10 PM
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There's a desperate beta for everyone. Sure she "could" land commitment or a high value man who doesn't care but often times, if a high value man, has any sort of standards or self-respect, he won't pick her.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:03 PM
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It's an easy way to filter out entitled, uppity women.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:02 PM
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Without the "shame" and circus that comes with dating him, Tate is someone that I have no doubts hot women would be attracted to but somehow women need to pretend to be repulsed by him.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 01:58 PM
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It was hard finding the right words but think traditional long hair, feminine look rather than short blue hair with sneakers on most of the time. In any case, I’ve been to a ton of country music concerts in some of the biggest cities you’ve heard of, the women there with their men are drop dead gorgeous. The idea that conservative and republican men are the worst and un-dateable are a myth.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/07/24 02:49 AM
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"Most women who complain about being pumped and dumped constantly to the point where it becomes a trend in their relationship history are usually In my experience too neurotic, boring, or have too many negative personality and character traits or are the female equivalent of immature manchildren. Or they're aiming too high." Of course... otherwise, somebody would have claimed them by now. These women are MID tier in looks with nothing going for them. I agree that you could substitute GOD-TIER lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:53 PM
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Number 1 is a tiny percentage of men. 98 out of 100 men do not have the juice and resume to back that up. And if it's a dusty and broke man pulling that, it's your own fault for being stupid enough to get involved in that. Pick better.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:48 PM
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Casual dating is way different than marriage/long-term...
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:44 PM
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At the end of the day, if you get pumped and dumped and get used for sex, it is categorically YOUR FAULT if the man isn't raping you, using emotional and monetary blackmail, or physical intimating against you. YOU CHOSE TO HAVE SEX WITH HIM. Yeah, it'll happen a few times when you're naiive and don't know any better and realize some men can be awful people and lie to get what they want. But if you make a career out of being passed around with no commitment - when that's what you desire - then ye…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:27 PM
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Every day, there's a new trending thread on reddit of a male celebrity dating someone 30 years younger than them lol. Today, Johnny Depp dating a 24-26 year old. If Depp was a random 61-year old, she would not be into him. Can we just admit that fame and status is probably the number 1 or 2 criteria for dating and an addicting drug for women? Why can't we be honest with ourselves?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 04:26 AM
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Endless matches and offers for sex on dating apps, including by men much more successful and hotter than her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:33 AM
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I don't think I could take seriously a very hot woman that's slept around with 1%-ers. I'd just be the beta bux at the end of the tunnel after no 1%-er would commit to her. I'd rather have my pride and be single. But if you tell a woman that, you're suddenly slut shaming and hate all women.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:31 AM
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Aren't men also gravitated to a small percentage of women? We're just too horny and take shortcuts (aka severely lowering our standards).
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:27 AM
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They can "afford" to be more picker since they have more options. But at the same time, it's weird because they "can't find anyone". Yes, they can be picker but they should have a more objective idea of their own sexual market value.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/24 01:26 AM
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Why does the average-meh women think they deserve an extraordinary man? Make it make sense. You want that all-around catch to LOW HIS OWN STANDARDS and take himself out of the dating pool so he can be loyal to you and make babies with you? Repeat that to yourself out loud.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 08:29 PM
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You are the reason why the same ol' conversations get repeated over and over. Women lie to men. Women lie to themselves. Objectively, why would being way above average in height, in a relatively lucrative and respected field, being set up with a financial safety net or a down payment for your future house, possibly a college fund for any future kid... why would that objectively be a bad thing? Would it be a stretch to say that type of man garners 15% (a conservative number) more interest than no…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:36 AM
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I literally never said "therefore all women do"... I'm just highlighting the stark differences. When you have women online and on reddit claiming one with one, hoards of other women agreeing with her and backing her up in the comments, and then you see 180 degrees of difference in real life, that's very interesting to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/07/24 01:32 AM
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That’s a given. Why did you assume I couldn’t tell the difference? the way dating subs and twoxchrom talk about sex. They are so anti sex and so prudish and they say it so proudly and boldly like it’s the truth. Yes, I’m sure I’m not comparing sexual harassment to two consenting adults
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:34 PM
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The fine fine fine print everyone’s afraid to say out loud. I wish women would just lead with this instead of being outraged at any guy that tries to shoot their shot at them. Just say you want the 6’5” trust fund guy in finance to say hello to you in the subway and for anyone else to ignore you and look downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 07:07 PM
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Yes, but if I went on about how despised a certain demographic of women. Denounced them categorically and blanketly. I would personally hold that belief for all other men. Like why would OTHER MEN want something I don’t, coming from what I believe is a rational view point.That would still be eye opening for me
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:54 PM
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Yes, but by the way the women speak of them online, it's like conservative men are categorically undateable by anyone. The women are surprised other women are attracted to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:43 PM
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The orgasm and getting off is definitely real... the same way we climax and release. Women have that too.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:37 PM
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I'm guessing it's the bias of women that even gather onto reddit in the first place... respectfully. Same with men. I think men of a certain spectrum gather on reddit moreso than others.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:30 PM
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Yes, but by the way and manner in which women speak about them, it's like they're talking about the devil himself.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/24 03:14 PM
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For long term dating and marriage... of course personality matters and looks matter even more. Any guy who says otherwise is in the small minority that truly doesn't care or can't afford to have standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/07/24 04:19 PM
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Yes, they don't have the edge and lack of empathy to close the deal. Some men will literally do whatever it takes to get laid. Some women are turned on by dark triad traits.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/07/24 02:50 AM
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I couldn't do it because it's predatory and these women are truly attracted to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/24 01:51 PM
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Men and women have the same issue. Except substitute sex for relationship if it's the woman's point of view.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 09:24 PM
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Men... aren't worth putting in the relationship for. There's good men and bad men. There's good women and bad women... worth pursuing. Is your premise then that the majority of men are just terrible partners? You KNOW getting pumped and dumped by men in at the top is a reality. But getting with someone at your own level... who you think isn't worth it... you haven't had a chance to be proven right or wrong yet.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 03:16 AM
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Here lies the problem... that you think women are "dating down"... when it's really dating in a straight line to their looksmatch.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:58 AM
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During the talking stage when you're still communicating over the apps... if it turns sexual, block. When you've exchanged numbers, when it gets sexual, block. Don't have sex until 4 dates out, or better... no sex until you get commitment. A guy, wanting solely sex, isn't going to waste his time on 4+ dates or be willing to stick around months at a time for commitment. Yes, they'll be guys that lie and are desperate enough to fake it, but doing the above will solve the majority of your issues. A…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/24 02:57 AM
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You’re right. I was too liberal with what I wrote. Dating above your league is impossible. What’s more accurate is matching above your league and entering causal relationships or entering relationships where the goal is largely unknown.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 08:00 PM
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Women can be uneducated, not confident, a few pounds overweight, don’t have a job, no car, nothing and the red carpet is still rolled out for them. That’s the point. Why do men need to be this out of this world superhero character out of a movie? By definition, NOT ALL MEN can attain this. So your premise is that some women are just going to end up unhappy and unwed then right? Not everyone can attain this. What’s wrong with being normal? 68 percent of us are within one standard deviation of bei…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:48 PM
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Getting pumped and dumped and blocked isn’t pulling.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:37 PM
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It makes no sense to me that you don’t want to looksmatch, financematch, and social-status match. Is this a form of self hate? If I eat myself to obesity or didnt work hard towards, for example, why do I deserve someone who did the opposite of me?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:36 PM
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All of this is subjective and even moving. But we can generally agree on certain stuff. We can put two people up and generally there’s a consensus on who’s the more appealing prospect.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:35 PM
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If I get 3 matches a week, wouldn’t I want to maximize the rare chance that I actually get a match? I might grow to like her personality and she turns out to be a good long term match.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:32 PM
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The point is that they are already well qualified. Groomed, go to the gym, have a degree, their own apartment…
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/24 07:12 PM
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They were selling a service to delete your account. They didn't do anything but pocketed the money. How sure how they recovered from blatant scam...
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:47 PM
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I'm starting to believe men and women dating issues are two sides of the same coin. Men also state that women just need to do the "bare minimum" to be date-able.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 01:05 PM
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I don't want to be the husband, the sweet caring partner who plans stuff and does romantic things... when she's given up sex for basically nothing. Basically, allowing herself to be doordash pussy to a random stranger. Why put in the work when you also could hit for free? If you can't, then that means she's not that attracted to you and the issue solves itself.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/06/24 12:49 PM
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Even if it's true that the men she's with were ACTUALLY bad, it's a red flag that she's dumb enough to go for them consistently in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/06/24 01:58 PM
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That's what they are biologically attracted to or by some form of modern beauty standards. But they are quickly slapped in the face with reality... women still get to have sex and casually date men out of their league. But commitment is another story. That guy will NEVER go on a date with a hot woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:25 PM
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The biggest barrier (for me previously) was not realizing that girls equally want to have sex with you. If they agree to go on a date with you, that's cutting time out of their own day and the potential to see other people. Use this fact to your advantage. Secondly, as the guy you HAVE TO go for it. Unless you're a 7.5/10 or higher, women will not initiate any form of intimacy with you. You need to do it first. And often times, if you've had enough rapport, they'll be happy that you made the fir…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 03:00 PM
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A nice gym body is at least a 2-year commitment in the gym. Having a successful career is at least 4-years of college and another 5+ years in your field until you get move up and get paid more. Being "confident" and commanding social standing isn't something you require overnight... So yes, this trumps having to brush your hair every morning.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/24 01:54 PM
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Trying to "have more hobbies" to appear more interesting and being open to meet new people is one of the more soul crushing things. The pressure to meet someone or the pressure to "achieve something" in that hobby in hopes of meeting someone takes the fun and pleasure out of it. The number one currency will always raw looks or social status. Every other advice is just cope and you're fighting for the scraps that most high-value men don't even care to waste their time on.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 07:25 PM
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Hypergamous sexually... no guarantee they can actually secure commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/06/24 01:51 PM
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From the sound bites and comments on social media, women expect to be taken care of by men. They willingly subject themselves underneath men. They are dependent on men.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/06/24 02:07 PM
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The average guy, if they were women, would also be like celebrities on dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:20 PM
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I find this generally to be true. Women, why are you attracted to men that most men wouldn't even want to be friends with? Probably because women don't approach. The loud guy wins because he's the boldest and takes the most chances. Has the most rejections but also the most luck.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:19 PM
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Average men don't even get average women lol. Most men date downwards in looks.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/06/24 08:17 PM
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Logically you wouldn’t recommend your daughters be jobless and be dependent solely on the assistance of a man… or another person for that matter. I would wager that being “pleasant and feminine” and you just sit there looking pretty is a backhanded compliment to some women and that they are a tad beneath first class citizens.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:11 PM
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I agree with you. Work in some capacity brings EVERYONE sadness and stress. Should we all stop working then?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:04 PM
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What happens when she stops becoming pleasant? What happens when you guys break up (not her specifically but women in similar scenarios) with no job and no job experiences to get a job? I guess what I’m asking is a loaded question in itself. I didn’t make it clear it’s dating versus marriage with one or more children.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 10:00 PM
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Which is why 50-50 should be the norm, default, no questions… but obviously some women are not going for that now.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 09:52 PM
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That's cool, and I believe that most level headed men think that's a fair exchange. Both people are benefiting. But modern women are coming out and saying the opposite... they don't want to play those roles anymore while at the same time don't believe in 50/50 relationships. Anyhow... I believe this is a loud minority on the internet. Most couples and most families I know... both the men and women had jobs... every aunt and uncle I have... they both have jobs.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:41 PM
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Folks get with asshole celebrities all the time. Yeah their personality sucks but also $$$ and status. They did the math. Why do beautiful young women still get with Leo?
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:30 PM
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Good to know! I didn't know that. So basically... marry rich if you can lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/24 06:09 PM
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Women have every single advantage when it comes to dating, moreso online dating. The fact that women state they can't find a single a decent guy says everything about the women.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:48 AM
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A highly attractive and successful guy... that... hmm is willing to lower his own standards to be with her. Got it.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/06/24 02:42 AM
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It's a catch-22/self-fulflling prophecy in some ways. I would instantly brand the women as low-value if they ever allowed a man to do this.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:22 AM
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This makes no sense... because the guy is also bringing sex to the table...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/05/24 03:16 AM
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At the end of the day, you have to be somewhat attractive or stable at 30+ years old to attract younger women. Are women not allowed the freedom to chose who they want to date? Yeah as much as the men want to date younger because "she's hot" and less baggage, on average, the women equally also want to date the men because he's successful and has high status.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:13 PM
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I generally agree that women tend to be more emotional than men and make decisions based off that emotion... on average. It was one of the things that ended my previous relationship. My ex-gf would just come home and complain about everything. It's like she had issues with stress management and compartmentalizing stress... and just unloaded on me. Instead of finding solutions and thinking logically about the actions and reactions, she'd just super worked up.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 09:10 PM
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It's two fold... I've been with women who wanted sex and had a higher sex drive than me. But from experience and seeing how the current dating market is, it does appear that men are way hornier and are way more desperate for sex than are women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/05/24 05:13 AM
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Why would unattractive women expect commitment from attractive men?
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:42 PM
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There's chasing and then there's just showing basic interest and initiative.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:36 PM
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Women don't seem to understand how off-putting that "entitlement" and "luxury" expectation mindset is of them. It's pretty gross. Like yeah, everyone wants nice things but men actually need to go to school and work for those nice things... women just expect it to be given to them since they are just so great.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 03:35 PM
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Point 2... is that most men cannot pull off telling women honestly that they only want sex. Point 3 is that the men were never truly interested in the women in the first place, feeling as if he's settled.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:13 AM
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I thought women were the more lovely-dovely and relationship orientated gender... with Disney dreams and shit. I don't get this pandemic of women "not wanting to date" anymore. Dare I say... the bulk of the issue is that they are all going for the same small percentage of men, out of their league, and just getting played over and over.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 06:11 AM
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Why would you SHOW men women who have already rejected you based on your profile/age/height/career/religion/preferences? It makes no sense. Show me people who have already pre-selected me. Like everyone says, dating apps are meant to keep you on there.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/24 05:39 AM
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Maybe he keeps posting this because people continue to argue the contrary... 20/80 rule exists because men are the hornier and more desperate sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/05/24 05:46 AM
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No... I find women to be pretty delusional when it comes to dating sometimes. They don't actively comprehend that men fuck downwards.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 04:57 AM
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Yet of myriad of posts about... "low effort men" and "why do I constantly attract emotionally unavailable men"... "why did I get ghosted after sex"
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 02:35 AM
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Why would also self respecting guy with options WILLINGLY pick a woman that allowed herself to be Chads late night meat toy, accepting a spot in his Rotation of women?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:47 AM
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Cmon no one is making this argument. U are arguing with yourself. 2 guys in 5 years??
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:41 AM
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This shit makes sense to me, but at the same time so fucked. I couldn't make myself be with a woman like her. My confidence and self-doubt wouldn't last the relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:13 AM
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Why would this be your wall when you have executives and businessmen being 45+ and hitting your professional peak?
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:09 AM
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No they wouldn't... they are white and are good enough looking to be movie stars. It would be a cakewalk for them. What kind of question is this.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:08 AM
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Online (and certain subreddits)... it's so anti-sex and anti-conservative men. For example, people on reddit couldn't fathom women enjoying rough sex, but in real-life nearly everyone I've been with have enjoyed rough sex and being thrown around. People hate on conservative men, but yet as a well-traveled men... they are doing just fine... with beautiful women on their arms. People can't fathom hookup culture and don't understand when a guy on Tinder/Bumble is forward and just asks for sex immed…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/04/24 01:07 AM
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Too much real life lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/04/24 05:19 AM
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I take that back. 6’1” helps but isn’t a meal ticket in itself. You need to have a 6/10 or higher face. Do you pictures of you doing social activities and smiling? Or just a bunch of depressing solo pictures?
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 11:08 PM
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Since "white" and "6'1" are preferable traits, this basically the equivalent of an athletic build or slim built white woman... which would easily be a "top profile" on most dating apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:51 PM
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Catch-22 is... money IS a factory and makes you more attractive, but do you want to be attractive because of women? It attracts the wrong type of women. Most men want to be attractive for their looks and style.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:21 PM
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How do they know how much you make? Date younger...
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:20 PM
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Eh... I'mma need you to message me your profile, No Diddy lol. I don't believe you lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:19 PM
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Some women just come off as straight delusional when it comes to sex. "I met a hot guy and we had sex 3 times that night and got ghosted"... they don't understand how easy it is to get guys to commit to sex... especially if they are offering like DoorDash and serving it on a platter. Of course you can land a hot guy. The dating market is flipped on its head.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:19 PM
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Seeing on the main page reddit about Babe Ruth, getting with 6 different women on the same day... like yeah, if you're a married man, you shouldn't cheat... just be single. But women are just so obsessed with it comes to social status and fame in men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/24 08:03 PM
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Being white... I became a top 20% man when I went overseas and blended into a local. I couldn't even keep up with all of the messages I was getting. I TRULY thought I was ugly until I realized western women do not find "ethnic" men attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:31 PM
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The men being chased are worth being chased... the men being chased are in-fact BETTER than the women themselves...
/r/PurplePillDebate09/04/24 08:24 PM
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Casual sex/hookup for women is just a series of men, out of their league, fuck-zoning them and they are too dense to realize it. The whole point of this sub is that this alleged premise make these women un-dateable. Who wants to be the guy at the end of the road that put a ring on these women?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:28 AM
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I'd stay single and childless for the rest of my life than to be a beta provider for someone who wasn't truly attracted to me. That picked at closing time of a bar.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:24 AM
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The most obvious answer is that they see themselves in those women that men describe as sluts. Correct me if I'm wrong but I don't think most men care if you have tons of sex with your boyfriend or be in an exclusive relationship. They are just afraid that you rode the cock carousel of men totally out of your league, willingly subjecting yourself to Chad's meat toy, and they accidentally get with you in the future. They dislike it if you went through that phase... and want to suddenly "settle do…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/03/24 06:11 AM
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Married men are married for a reason... they are either above average in either finances, social standing, looks, personality. Married men are better than the socially awkward guy who lives in his basement still.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/03/24 12:29 AM
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I don't get why we need labels. It's just called being single and no commitment to anyone. But to answer your question... probably human nature "averaging to the mean". I don't think really think we were biologically meant to be monogamous. Sex feels good. Variety feels good. Do you want it more than intimacy with one person and potentially the other parent of your children? Also... women being so down on their self esteem they'd rather share the attention and warmth of a man than be single... W…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/03/24 07:46 PM
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Because it's more scarce... women get hit on everywhere, can make friends so much more easily. Aka less options, and infrequent options.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:35 AM
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I guess I'm in the top 20-30% then lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:33 AM
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Standards for what??? For a relationship? Yeah my standards are high and not "just exist". But "just exist" does have some merit. The women being in a healthy BMI is like 90% of the battle. While for men, a healthy BMI is like 9% of the equation.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/03/24 03:33 AM
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everyone settles but in the dating stage, you shouldn't even as if you're being settled for. meaning, you don't feel like a backup. the persons initates, confirms plans quickly, texts back quickly
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 04:29 PM
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The quiet part (from a woman's perspective) is that it's causal sex with a man THEY COULD NEVER secure and tie them down.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/03/24 06:02 AM
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You can... but it's harder than it should be. AGAIN... I'm not talking about guys that never leave their houses, never talk to women, never exercise... live in their basement. Just your every day normal guy with hobbies and a job/car is an uphill battle to find someone his level. Like yeah, he could go on dating apps and get matches but none he'd take seriously or no one he's excited about.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/03/24 08:01 PM
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What kind of women are those men with? Of course, the Red Pilled guys on here aren't going to take notice or be envious of that.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:59 PM
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I'm happy for people who are both in the same league or both have some sort of hobby that they've bonded over and are married and have kids. I really am... but the envy is 1000x as hard for a "Chad" to be lusted over by all types of women, all types of races, and all types of races... from the girl next door to the IG model to the successful career woman... Chad is universally lusted by women. One man can share 100s of women if he so chooses to.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 10:57 PM
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What's the alternative? Holding the bag when you're 30+? Also, I don't think it's flattering being used as a meat toy for 25+ men... if that's what you're implying... "why commit at all".
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 07:00 PM
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The reason you lack the "high quality" options are because you are shooting above your league. Of course, these men are taking you out to dinner and asking you about your life goals.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/24 06:56 PM
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NOTHING is inherently stopping women from shaming men who have lots of sex with different women, but deep down inside, they are attracted to this man. How did he do this? Some combination of status, good looks, wealth, occupation, personality, social circle, and that he's needed by others.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:10 AM
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More women having sex doesn't automatically mean more sex occurrences with all men (uniformly). More women having sex just means more men in the higher echelon having sex. 4 out of 5 men would be sitting on the sidelines yet again. Only the top guys benefit.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:07 AM
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Men: fuck-zoning a girl because you couldn't be bothered to waste any time or resources on her. Women: Getting whatever I can from a guy out of my league. Because trust me, a girl just isn't gonna have causal sex with some joe-schmo or someone on her level. So for future dating prospect, the women allowed herself to be objectified and be DoorDashed for sex. Why would any man want to commit to her? Plan special Valentine's Day for her?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/03/24 07:01 AM
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My ex-gf legit found guys "ugly"... meanwhile to me they were just regular looking guys. Not hot, but not someone you'd double take in public either. Just normal...
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:02 AM
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They share Chads and are surprised nobody wants anything to do with them afterwards. Pikachu face.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/03/24 06:00 AM
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Yeah but looks is still a major factor for us. Yeah she's poor but she has to be good looking.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/02/24 08:44 PM
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I'm out for me. Not gonna be that beta provider she settles down with after she's done going on a cock carousel giving it up to random men for free and with minimal effort.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/02/24 04:32 AM
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Everytime I talk about struggles in online dating with other women they always say the same shit like "better pictures, hobbies, working out, yaddy yaddy". And I'm like "No... the issue is that they are ALREADY doing all of these things and getting no luck in online dating". Online dating sucks if you below a 8/10. It sucks even worse if you aren't passable at 6' and if you aren't white.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/02/24 05:00 PM
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I've never done full bondage. To me, it's kind of weird (personally). I just mean rough housing... like hair pulling, hard thrusting, some slapping. I've yet to meet a woman who told me she WASNT into that stuff, being manhandled by a man. But it's interesting because if you go on platforms like reddit (i.e. twoxchromosomes, the women there are so against this kind of stuff). It's SUPER interesting to me how there's such a stark difference.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 06:37 PM
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What's wrong with "lowering" your standard to the woman's objective "value" is? That's the issue. People think it's lowering their bar... sorry to say, but if you can't secure commitment at the bar you're shooting for, then that's not your league. Your league is below that.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:04 AM
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And men get criticized for REFUSING to pick up the scraps after a woman has been churned and turned and used for sex by multiple men without learning. Like yeah, we all learn and have a few hookups when we're young and don't know what we want, when we don't know any better. But some women make a CAREER out of this phase. To me, those women are un-dateable.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 04:01 AM
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I can only speak from my personal experiences... but I haven't been with a woman who WASN'T into that rough play / dominance stuff. The dominance stuff got them wetter than anything.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:54 AM
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It's moreso that you can be the most vile, most disrespectful, most violent, most predatorial (aka Chris Brown and other high profiled athletes) and still get sex from beautiful women...
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:42 AM
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I hate the song and dance, and the fake facade women put up about "respecting herself" when we all know it's a big sham. If you're ugly, you gotta pay the ugly toll. Otherwise, you can hit for free.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/24 03:39 AM
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Every woman has an FBOY or DBAG story and how they were "played by one"... that's because that's who they are truly attracted to. They wished those FBOY's and DBAG's treated them nicely.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/02/24 07:37 AM
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Answer me this. If a woman puts herself out there and allows sexual access to her casually for men (i.e. one night stands, random hookups, sex without a relationship, sex without formal dates). Why would I be the sucker in the end to formally court her and be exclusive with her? The whole point of a relationship is to keep her to yourself, but she already gives up the most intimate part of herself, the most intimate part of herself she could give to you as a partner... to other men, who didn't h…
/r/PurplePillDebate02/02/24 05:22 AM
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The hot attractive ones are sleeping with the very hot and attractive guys. But yes overall I agree... its the middle of the band ones that are sleeping around for validation and for ANY little attention a guy would give them. Sex is the only way.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:09 PM
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I'd say about 80% of women I've met have been into the rough play. But hearing Reddit, you'd think it was more like 8%.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:06 PM
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If I'm courting you formally... and you have a side dude getting sex for free. Why in the world would I try to be exclusive with you? I want that free sex too without the headaches and whining you get with a relationship... and the freedom to sleep with other women.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:05 PM
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Males are generally against this (i.e. upset at the women for doing so) because dating is more of an investment for him than it is for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/24 05:03 PM
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That's your opinion. But I do see imagine lots of attractive women would be attracted to a guy like Andrew Tate though.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:38 AM
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If you had to pick, would you rather date him or someone line Andrew Tate, assuming the sex trafficking allegations were false?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:26 AM
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If you had to pick, would you rather date him or someone line Andrew Tate, assuming the sex trafficking allegations were false?
/r/PurplePillDebate16/01/24 03:25 AM
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To be fair, men also have their type/unicorn
/r/PurplePillDebate15/01/24 05:28 PM
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You can prove Red Pill in as little as 30 minutes making a fake account as a Chad and inviting women over for sex. But I'll mind my own business because the world is too snowflake for that discussion.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/01/24 12:50 AM
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As we move to current day, dating apps are as popular now as they ever were so of course the answer is yes. But at the time, dating apps weren't a new thing.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 10:04 PM
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Dating for me in my 20s was a lot easier even though I had no money and no game/experience. I had more attractive options... it felt like "dating" and getting butterflies in your stomach trying to get to know someone... Nowadays it's too much of a dick measuring contest, women wanting their lifestyle funded... that or people just became weird. The last paragraph is ultimately why me and my last GF broke up. I couldn't get over those facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/01/24 06:26 PM
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Actually, yes... you should let the women pick you. If she "shoots her shot" and is most forward with you, she's picking you out of the other 100s of men she could have picked. You know that you have EXACTLY what she's looking for and desiring.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:20 PM
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You think if Brad Pitt or the hottest/most popular basketball star was the "needy" and long texter in the OP, it would be negative? Do you think if the short texter was conventionally unattractive it would work? She's already made up her mind.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 07:05 PM
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Women have already made up their minds who they like and like a little. Every thing else is just a song and dance.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 04:11 PM
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Women sleep upwards. So they get the validation and be in the presence and kiss and feel up on a guy out of their league that they could never secure for commitment.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/01/24 06:01 AM
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The older I get the more I think we're not wired to be monogamous. Too much ass being thrown around. Having sex with the same person for decades...
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/24 08:29 PM
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Blue pill is dead because you have the worse types of men, with a track record of violence and other transgressions, within the industries of sports, film, and music (and other high paying or notable/respected professions)... who CONTINUE to get beautiful, drop-dead gorgeous women lining up for them. That pipeline of beautiful 10/10 women won't ever run dry anytime soon.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 05:37 PM
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Dating apps are the literal scum of earth in my opinion... for something that's advertised to "meet people" and "bringing us closer to together". For example, women, who already reject us based on filters, should NEVER show up on men's feed. Why? Men just waste their swipes, that go into the abyss, on women who won't even show up on their (the women's) feed.+
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:03 AM
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That seems vastly unfair. And as a partner (and a man), I wouldn't want my female partner going through that. I would try to be equal as I can in the homemaking and caregiving duties.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/01/24 07:00 AM
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You won’t get lusted the same way in a vacuum. But no reason why they can’t do the same sex acts and why the rules can’t be broken for you too. Also with types and all, you cannot be Chad but your her 10/10 type.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/01/24 04:28 PM
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Echoing what you said... the juice isn't worth the squeeze these days. It would be one thing if it meant you looksmatched (at the end of the tunnel) but most likely you're securing someone not even bringing close to what you bring to the table.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 04:50 PM
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Because the impression/mindset is that they were so deeply attracted to and enamored by the guy that they just couldn't help themselves in "breaking the rules for Chad" and then suddenly having standards "being a good girl" later on. Why did you do the things that you did? LUST and wanting the approval of Chad. That's what we want. We don't want to be known as "the good guy" or the "smart guy". We want your undivided lust.
/r/PurplePillDebate02/01/24 06:19 AM
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I think both women and men are normally distributed in their personalities and how vibrant they are. Some men are boring; some women are boring. The problem is that women just need to show up.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/12/23 05:34 AM
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As a man, you have to do the leg work (career, good body, confidence, funny, own car, decent income and own apartment) in your profile, making it stand out amount the 10,000s men she could potentially have access to... then if you are lucky enough to get a match, you'd need to lead the conversation and set up and follow up on dates... with only the TINY HOPE that you get laid or enter a relationship with her... assuming she doesn't lose interest and starts talking to the next best thing she matc…
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:53 AM
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For women, their FWB is generally someone out of their league and the FWB situation is the scraps they receive... not like it's a choice they had. That's why men and women view and react to casual sex with such contrast.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/12/23 07:42 AM
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Women can more readily "look as good" as female celebrity easier than a guy can attain the status of a male celebrity. About 75% of a man's attractiveness (for the male celebrities), it's their profession and knowledge that they are someone important.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/12/23 06:49 AM
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If he's way hotter than the girl... most likely she can't even bring him home if she wanted to. Sex, with its easy and convenient for him, is all she gets.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/12/23 08:16 AM
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Yes... and then you act lukewarm and disinterested to the person that showed up to your date. Same shit, different sides of the coin.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/12/23 12:39 AM
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Because the pool for sex only is a lot bigger and wider than a the pool for a relationship. Since it's bigger and wider, there's a higher probability of a "hot guy" in the sex only bucket. If it's only for one night/thing, you go with the hot guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:27 AM
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So many incorrect assumptions in the OP... they aren't lowering their standards for a relationship. It's just no man at a certain tier would seriously considered them for anything more than just sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/12/23 05:23 AM
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Outside of having children and taking leave (while the husband goes full 100% or making the collective decision to be a stay-at-home mom), why do you feel entitled to having someone take care of you? If there's no childcare and being a maid involved, what exactly are you bringing to the table? I might as well have 10 FWB's then be exclusive.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/11/23 05:42 AM
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This is so comical... do they even know anyone making $200k or more? Also... another funny question to ask is "how much should a guy have in his savings/checking account?" and they answer "$2k" or more. It's so comical. $5k is NOTHING to be honest.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/11/23 06:33 PM
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Are you trolling or for real? It was a 2nd world country in a big city.
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 08:11 PM
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I went overseas where I blended in as a local not just "an American" visiting... I got over 500+ matches in just a few days. The women there took all of the initiative and even asked me out on dates. On average, they were younger and slimmer than my few matches in the USA. No one had a kid out of wedlock...
/r/PurplePillDebate17/11/23 05:37 AM
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Yes... I agree it's hard for both genders. But at the end of the day, the women are still at the position of choosing. They have the options and they have the capacity to filter down their abundance. Men, more or less, cannot filter anything... because you can't filter when all you get is crumbs in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:29 PM
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So many choices but none of them are even adequate? There lies the root of the issue... women believe they are settling... when in fact they've looks-matched or the guy has settled for her.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:27 PM
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Also... the certain "inflation" that is modern dating nowadays.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/11/23 07:25 PM
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I'm doing all of these things... I strongly believe there's shit going on that's out of my control... that's being white and being passable as 6'0".
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:06 AM
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90k these days is NOTHING... and let's even say you doubled that... you can't really project that on OLD... if you blatantly display that, you just attract the wrong type of women.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/11/23 01:00 AM
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re-post after flairing... As someone that's objectively successful in their career field, has a mixture of hobbies, and a multiple friend groups... I am mostly dating down. I am mostly dating women with at least 1-2 things that they don't have that I do... I wouldn't require them to have it, if I myself, didn't do it... Since being single, I don't think I've EVER gone out on a date where I both looks-matched and career-matched with the woman... Of course, those women who I am looks-matching and …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/11/23 04:19 AM
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I don't disagree... I've had arguments in the past. Once an argument or discussion start and one party obviously feels a certain way, you should just split it right? Nah these girls fight foot and nail.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 06:38 PM
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Bill splitting and cheap dates resulted in 3 girlfriends and then afterwards I splurged on them like crazy... I guess the trash does take itself out if "not paying for the bill" was a red flag for the woman... If you can't spend $30 to pay for yourself as a woman for your own meal, maybe you should be the one that shouldn't dating...
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:46 PM
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How is it self esteem when it's literally established facts that alpha/bad boy/Chad doesn't wait, doesn't put in any work while the betabuxxx has to formally court a woman?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:32 AM
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This is pretty spot on on how I feel and one of the big reasons my last relationship failed.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/11/23 02:31 AM
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I do not find 90% of women attractive lol. Attractive to me = I'd marry you if the personality and life goals checked out.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/23 02:59 PM
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As a man (dating women)... yes I would. We're in this together. We are on the path to potentially marriage and having children together. It wouldn't be a second thought to me.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:55 PM
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Dude you have a subset of women who fetishize this for the majority of women... the type that actively go after and date people already in prison... I don't think any sane person would do this. Also, how are attractive are these women anyways? Would you even go for them? But overall, I would agree with your assessment. Sometimes the men these women pick make you scratch your head. Why do rappers get so many women? Why does a guy like Leo continue to get with beautiful women? In the end, I think …
/r/PurplePillDebate04/11/23 12:50 PM
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I don't even know how to advertise my wealth... plus, that's a turn off for me if a woman is that entitled and wants to be "taken care off".
/r/PurplePillDebate02/11/23 11:44 PM
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Dude literally everything in life, every debate... is "subjective". There would be no points in debates then... because every "rule" we try to talk about there would be at least one person on this earth that would be the contrary to that.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:36 AM
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So she might have high worth and takes care of herself, but women, who don't have these things, are also seeking out these types of men.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/10/23 04:32 AM
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Yeah... if he hits you up at 2AM in the morning, and you got out of bed for him and went over to place the first time you met him? Didn't even take you out or have a real convo over drinks? Yeah, I would be completely turned off. This is me personally.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:50 AM
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If go into a random college room, a conference at work, at the gym... yaddy yaddy ya... most of these stiffs ARE NOT getting laid if they are not already married or in a relationship. Most of these guys neither have the looks nor the rizz to pull of having causal sex with multiple women. Out of 100 single guys, I'll have about 8-10 are having causal sex on the regular.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 01:32 AM
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I would agree with you. Where did I ever state the contrary? Most men, outside of those in a relationship, are NOT having sex.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:06 AM
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Before the deed even happens, the guy knows he’d never date her seriously and the woman knows she could never lock a guy like him down. They can’t fancy or not fancy a relationship with each other because they already made up their minds. I know that women enjoy sex. I’m talking about situations where women have told me that men have strung them along and have been in year long situationships. Like you… you just have to know that the two of you are in different leagues. To me, sex is kind of the…
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/23 12:02 AM
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I would agree that most men aren’t sleeping around… they either locked down a woman/marriage or they are not having sex at all. Most men would love to sleep around but they can’t.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 11:56 PM
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She was probably a 6/10. About 5’3”. Slightly on the chubbier side. I thought she was cute. But no where near model status.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:45 PM
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Generally, women are courted and suited. Not the other way around. So yes. Men need to put in significantly more work to stand out from the army male attention and courtship she gets. And yes, it’s her best interest to go for the best and to not waste her time. So as a man, you are competing against the best.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:31 PM
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The average woman with a few extra pounds still gets sex from men who live in the gym.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:27 PM
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Having to pay for the date? That’s the easy part… the hard part comes in securing a match and getting conversation in the first place. In a sea of 10,000s of men… the average woman is exposed to literally CEOs of multi-millionaire dollar companies. My lady friend was literally bragging to me she had matches and was talking to men who created startups and doctors. WHO THE F was she? She was an ordinary average woman.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 07:24 PM
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An average male with an average job with an average dad bod… complaining about getting used by a hot woman with high social standing… complaining that he only gets sex and no formal dates. Said… no guy ever.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:58 PM
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Literally never said this… I’m saying if you legit want a relationship and constantly go for men and sleep with men out of your league with no prospects for a relationship, then yeah.. you don’t respect yourself and have shown low levels of intelligence.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:13 PM
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At the end of the day, any of these men having causal sex with the women… could clean up their act and be gf-bf with the partner. The men can become emotionally available for the woman. It’s damaging for women because they are constantly being rejected by men and used for sex by men. It’s not damaging for men because they gatekeep relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 04:05 PM
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Yes, because he’s hot and has high social status but is otherwise a child mentally and/or emotionally unavailable. I’m sure if he became emotionally available she’d be all over him. Getting to sleep with him is all she’s afforded. Take it or leave it.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:51 PM
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Because I’m dating to marry you and to have children together one day and we’ll combine our finances and make large investment purchases together?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:45 PM
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Yes, you fall into a small minority. Your story is the exception not the rule. Again, if you follow religion and hard rules. That’s it and this doesn’t apply to you.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:44 PM
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I personally don’t… but obviously you have the person above me who states “plenty of women would pick the virgin”. And two… adding to the point that women themselves wants a man that gets women… lots of them.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:42 PM
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Why do I care? Because we are on a forum about purple pill debate… and because the masses have told us that n-count doesn’t matter and woman want to normalize and even shame men into not caring about a woman’s sexual past.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:28 PM
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Your last statement is pure cope. Coping for the fact that the first man would never give them a chance. Sure, if you pulled 1000 women, some will pick the virgin. But the over 90 percent would pick the first guy…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:26 PM
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I would never use biology as an argument. That’s a cop out to me. I’ll say that getting laid is significantly harder as a man, and if a woman is picking between two men, without knowing anything else, one guy gets a lot of female attention and sex from other women, and the other guy is kissless and is a virgin, gets zero female attention, who do you think the woman picks? The guy doesn’t randomly get lots of sex from multiple partners for no reason… he’s talented in sort of field and has created…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/10/23 03:09 PM
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Most men don't have the juice, social status, and looks to just shotgun sex. If it didn't work for the first 100 women you tried that on, why do you keep trying? People, regardless of gender, have self preserving and act selfishly in their best interest. The point is that the guy isn't going to keep trying something that yields him in results. Of course, this doesn't include men, who lack social cues and even for male standards... just disgusting and even men can see why they are single. Do a so…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:51 AM
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My exes all have said the same thing. Also that they were surprised to have found me, a quality and well rounded partner, on a dating app and glad that they did... they would complain about the types of men on these dating apps. I'll say that dating apps have opened up the flood gates to weird and creepy men... who otherwise would have ZERO interactions and ability to converse with women... and have just made it a free for all. So in that respect, I find it frustrating for women. On the other ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:20 AM
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Again... filtering out all Chads and rich guys, if you match with 500 guys and all are looking for sex, that means your shooting out of your league. If a guy puts sex on the table within 10 minutes of talking to you, he's more or less content with getting unmatched immediately if you turn him down. He doesn't care. Obviously, he's not going to be doing this on a consistent basis if he strikes out 100% of the time. He's doing it TO YOU, the woman specifically, because he's shooting down. If all 5…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 06:17 AM
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It's just an eye test. I just recognize them because we matched in the past, had a convo, maybe even met up.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 02:32 AM
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It begs the question... how do these masses of women become dateable in the future? They will represent such a large percentage of the dating female population.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:37 AM
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A lot of women actually let me see their dating apps and how they swipe. They literally swipe left on men for the stupidest reasons... men that just look like normal everyday men to me. In shape, good teeth, professional looking photos. Men that legit look like they have their life together... I'm not talking about dudes with 5 selfies in their dark room. On the apps, they can be this picky. But in real life, these men wouldn't even look their way twice.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:32 AM
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I've said this like 5 times lol... my excuse is that dating is 100x harder as a man. And I was in 3 LTR but they didn't work out, so here I am back on the apps.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:30 AM
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After the 3rd guy or so, you should clearly know your league. If the guy is way too good to be true and of higher social status and looks than you, chances are he's not sticking around.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:27 AM
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I don't doubt that at all. It's so sad... they can't just go outside and do a hobby or something. I'm assuming most of these people are women because the average man sure enough isn't good attention on here the apps lol.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 01:05 AM
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Sounds like personal hell to go on these 50 first dates… and have the exact same convo over and over. Even with the free food and all. I couldn’t do it.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/10/23 12:39 AM
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Because dating is harder as a man… by a wide wide margin. And secondly, I control access to relationships.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 10:47 PM
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The same reason me and other men are… yes. But also no… the answer for men is fairly simple. Matches and quality dates are scarce. For the slightly above average male and below, OLD is basically impossible. 6/10 or below.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:49 PM
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They literally have new pictures up. And if I already swipped on them, why are they appearing again in my queue? They are deleting and re-downloading.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 08:40 PM
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Who says they HAVE to get with Chad? Most women doesn't deserve Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:42 PM
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They have looking for relationships in their bio. I am excluding people who leave it blank or are looking for anything but a LTR.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 06:04 PM
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As a man, I am gatekeeping relationships. So in a way, I am blocking myself from entering relationships. I can control this access. A more accurate question, is why can't these women convince men to be in exclusive with them? I am doing my own thing, yes... but there's an epidemic of single men out there who get zero matches and zero dates and would love nothing more than to have a single GF and check out of dating. But apparently, these men are invisible to women.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/23 05:50 PM
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You could go to any poor village in the world and find a hot, loyal wife EASILY. Why would you want this? You are trapping the woman into situations she can't leave... no wonder they are on their best behavior. I'm all for TRP but this is predatory...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 11:57 PM
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By your late 20's (let's pick 28), you've had your fun... which started at 18. The guys fun probably started at 25. Mind you... if you're Chad then it started much much younger. Not comparable. But hey I'm happy for you and it worked out for you.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 07:28 PM
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The idea is to not sleep with them if you cannot secure commitment. If can't and then that makes you just made yourself a fleshlight for a guy you knew wouldn't commit, why would the next guy take you seriously then?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:47 PM
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The average man gets nothing...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:44 PM
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You would think about a half a decade "in the game"... women could figure out who would and who wouldn't stick around... which would still put them in their mid-20s... after that... a decade later, it's an easy pass for me for anything long term.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:42 PM
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We're not talking about all of the interest women get from men below their league...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:19 PM
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Women have time and time again said they like sex as much as men and that "the male sex drive" is a sorry excuse for their behavior... so which is it? At the end of the day, you still got sex from a hot guy out of your league. That would generally never happen as a man. If I was a bum as a man, I would not have an OF-money maker sleeping with me.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 06:07 PM
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Don't get me wrong... there ARE women I meet where it becomes an issue and it becomes very awkward when we get the bill...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:49 AM
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I feel that 75% of women's dating problems would be solved if they weren't fat. How hard it is not to be fat when men literally make it crystal clear this is a criteria that's important to them? A criteria (not counting medical disorders or disabilities) that you can accomplish?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 03:06 AM
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No I don't... but I don't need to. Women break the rules all the time for the top 10% males.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:30 AM
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If you are attractive, you just sleep with them. There's not even a date.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:22 AM
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I've literally have no issues with bill splitting for girls I've dated seriously and made my girlfriend eventually... to me, this is a great way to weed out entitled and uppity women. When we split the bill (or one person buys dinner and the other person pays for the movie tickets), there's no sour energy or hard feelings. It just feels like the right and natural thing to do?
/r/PurplePillDebate24/10/23 02:21 AM
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Being a man in his 30s is still relatively hard. If not harder than a man in his 20s. I’m not surprised you are getting matched and being asked out on dates. That’s a given. How many of these men want commitment with you?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 11:29 PM
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As a guy, you were looks-matching and "having your fun" with women you could have dated if you wanted to do or didn't want to date. As a guy, "the fun" you had was earned because of how you built yourself up as a high value man... to stand out above the rest of men. For women, the fun they had was with unobtainable men they could never get. Men that only wanted them for sex and that the women went along with it because they got some sort of validation and attention from a guy they could never lo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:33 PM
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I don't think you fall off a clip but for me personally, if she's 30+ and single... I'm going to assume she held out for a Chad and never got it and is now adjusting her standards. Obviously some women figure this out way earlier at like 24-27, some don't. Of course, every human is different... breakup, focusing on career, bad luck meeting non-committal men. But for 70% of single women past 30, I'm going to assume she held out for a Chad and got humbled.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:26 PM
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As a guy, why would they want a woman she's "finally done having her fun" and being that stand-up/nice/safe guy she ends up with when she's pushing 30? What good reason is there for a man to accept those terms?
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:19 PM
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A good looking, beautiful woman in their 30's... is attracted to men that aren't looking for her. I agree that a good looking beautiful woman, herself, is high value but it's hard because theoretically the men "in her league" would rather go for someone in their 20s.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/23 07:18 PM
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Why is this question so beaten to death when the answer is generally VERY straight forward? Getting lots of women as a man is extremely harder than it is as a woman getting sex from man. Women actually want men that other women want and desire, and you guessed it... that man has lots of variety when it comes to sex. Women elevated this man up and allows him to do as he pleases. That's not men doing.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:24 AM
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8-10 easily... lol. Very high.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/10/23 04:05 AM
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It goes together with 20/80 rule. They are easy access sex to Chads and are ridiculous hard to tie down for commitment unless you are Chad.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/10/23 01:54 PM
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I'll be in this boat. Men are not stupid. Men won't do the same thing 500 times... getting the same results (reject) and keep on doing it. They know better than to be too forward with sex. The men that are asking for sex right away are shot-gunning. They literally don't care if you reject them because in their eyes, they've out-looksmatched you. If you bite, great. If not, oh well. If ALL guys you meet and match with behave like this, then yes. You are shooting outside of your league.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/10/23 07:23 PM
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I believe we should stop downplaying the importance of height. "You know, that's not the only factor. And not all girls care about height." Yes... we knew all that. If I changed my height to 6'3" right now, I'd have 50x more matches and 10x the attractiveness of those matches. That's just facts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:26 PM
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It's not that being nice should get you laid. It's that it's most obnoxious, most violent, and most annoying and low inhibition men out there get laid.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:23 PM
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If a woman has a ton of ONS, random hookups, gives up sex easily without a relationship... in the future, why do I want to be the "nice and stable" guy she ends up with and courts her formally, putting a ring on it and taking her on all of these nice dates and trips? When others basically had sex with her doing jack shit. Why can't I also be one of those guys? Maybe I should.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:19 PM
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A younger version of the women with less stress, less emotional baggage, and less scarred.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 04:36 PM
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Non exclusive sex. No dates required or low effort dates. Literally just driving over to their house to fuck. Fucking in a car. Someone they met the same night.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 03:04 PM
1

Throw in Deshaun Watson and Kevin Porter Jr... Joshua Primo.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 05:18 AM
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Too much real life LMFAO. He hit it on the head.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:19 AM
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What I've learned is when women list out qualitative personality traits... the part they don't say out is that person also needs to be attractive. It's given to them that the person with the good personality is attractive.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:18 AM
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At the end of the day... men do not want to pay full price for someone other men have gotten for free.... and since it was in the past... they got a higher product for free... but you're (the man) is supposed to pay full price for a lesser product?
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:11 AM
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Obviously no one is saying 100/100 the case it's true... in every subject or domain, there will be exceptions. Most people are talking statistically speaking and non-trivial amounts.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:06 AM
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Men will virtually use every platform, every alley way, every crack, every opportunity to meet people due to how astronomically hard it is to date as an average to slightly above average guy. I'm not saying it's okay... it's not. Leave these women alone. But it's something women will never understand since they have so many options.
/r/PurplePillDebate19/10/23 02:04 AM
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Chads never have to lash out and act out of character and say certain things because it's always been there for them. An average guy speaks up and it's "OMG you're such a sexist". Chad NEVER needs to ask anything of women because they do it willingly. Chad doesn't ever have to be the bad guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/10/23 07:41 PM
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