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You say that the reason men are repulsed by sluts is because we get the remainder of them. Yet you then go on to say that sex and sexual history is nothing special A bit contradicting there which has left me confused
/r/TheRedPill11/02/17 01:26 PM
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Aren't these the type where they are boring in bed? My last girl "damaged goods" from her whore past and she was very immature but she was a few years younger than me so. But the sex was amazing and the comfort is next to none. She was very fun to be around. In the end, I had to drop her because I was constantly being depressed by the thought of her whore past and it was giving me too much pain/stress.
/r/TheRedPill25/12/16 11:26 AM
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I've been debating in my mind whether its worth just battling through some of the shit in order to mold her and build her up to a good standard as its virtually impossible to find a decent girl with a zero bodycount nowadays. If you live in a city, most girls have gone through a hoe stage. Can you explain why a poor relationship, one where a mother was very strict on her daughter, would cause her to become a complete whore?
/r/TheRedPill24/12/16 09:21 PM
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I am struggling to cope with the fact that a woman who has been with more than 1 sexual partner is very much incapable of becoming a great wife/LTR... how do I cope with this? Every hot girl I know has had a slutty past and rode the Cock Carousel
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:31 PM
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Can I ask you what is the best ones to go for as LTR/Marriage? I was with a HB 8-9 but this girl was infact a slut in her past... The thing that I cannot seem to work out however is that her father was an important figure in her life and someone who had good values. Was he just a shit parent or was she just influenced by her surroundings as a teenager? Her relationship with her mother was quite bad as she was very strict on her apparently.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/16 07:19 PM
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What is the best course of action ?
/r/askTRP28/10/16 02:09 PM
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I would do this but my IT Manager said it would violate health and safety terms which is why I am wanting to ask the facilities manager directly.
/r/askTRP27/10/16 09:27 PM
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Well what's the course of action I should take now. My final message was "lol my battery died and my phone was on charge but ok" after she sent a paragraph and ended the relationship. I'm thinking of calling her saying it's been a busy morning, do you wanna meet up and comfort her a bit then carry on with things the way they were
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:52 PM
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Is that really going to work after the final message I sent her?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 12:49 PM
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First of all thanks for the analysis and yes you're right it was a comfort test, something I'm ignorant to, and I've failed it. Is it still recoverable at this point ?
/r/askTRP23/10/16 11:45 AM
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Update: Well she's texted me saying how she has no trust in me anymore because she "knows" my phone is on airplane mode. She then said how she's been putting in 100% and I have given her nothing back which is bullshit and how she can't be in this relationship anymore. I replied with "lol my battery died and it was on charge but ok" she's read it and not replied since
/r/askTRP23/10/16 10:48 AM
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My advice would be to 1) Quit Porn & Masturbation 2) Eat eggs, fish, spinach and nuts - every day 3) meditation
/r/askTRP23/10/16 08:43 AM
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and also what happens when she tries to do the same thing to you? The girl I am regarding does this.
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:18 PM
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Wouldn't it be better to explain what she is doing is wrong and THEN doing that?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:17 PM
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I have to admit I have been extremley beta and soft with my ex LTR I want to know if it is recoverable and if so what steps I Should take? I don't know if its possible to recover from being beta/soft in a relationship
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 04:17 PM
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when you "let the bird go, see if it comes back..." was it always her that you expected to come back or did you go and ask for her back?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:51 PM
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how exactly do you punish the bad?
/r/TheRedPill27/09/16 03:42 PM
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Do you have any theories on why they are wild in bed? I've noticed this with one of my plates who claims she doesn't have daddy issues but has obviously severely lacked the attention and rewarded childhood she thinks she deserved. Bitch is godly in bed and incomparable to "normal" girls I've slept with.
/r/askTRP15/06/16 10:14 PM
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This is gold lol
/r/askTRP10/06/16 09:56 PM
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The female teachers in primary/elementary school are the demons of this planet
/r/TheRedPill09/06/16 07:22 PM
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It is probably true but I would not waste a second analyzing this bullshit. Use your energy on something which will give you value. Girls were put on this planet to be enjoyed. Never stress over one.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 06:01 PM
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My belief in the red pill philosophy is strong as I identify it to be the truth. I have always been a person who values the truth over everything and what the RedPill has taught me is that from the day we are born, to the day we die, we are well and truly alone. You need to accept this fact. I was extremely frustrated 6 months ago with the difficulty I had been facing getting sex from girls (I had the one or two sexual encounters but they were sheer luck). I had been lying to myself and had alwa…
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:59 PM
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I'm genuinely shocked at what I've just read.
/r/askTRP09/06/16 05:26 PM
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Relax bro, give it a week or two and text her saying "do you want to meet up" you can continue banging her but only do this once you fully internalise that you will NOT fall for her. For me it took 2 weeks, for you it could be longer/shorter. Do not commit, continue spinning plates.
/r/askTRP08/06/16 09:07 PM
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I would feel comfortable dropping her as she has very little chance of causing me grief from now on. I have told her she was a complete bitch and that she will never be my girlfriend again in this lifetime. I've also told her not to text me unless she wants to meet for sex (forgot to say that "you've already proved you're incapable of texting properly without causing arguments) I maintained frame and put my foot down. She later texts me "I admit I've been a complete bitch I'm fully changing and …
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:54 PM
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Hi bro, I appreciate you checking up on me again but rest assured experience is the greatest teacher. I am in the process of spinning 3 more plates and focusing on getting a graduate job so life can only go up from here. One thing that has really shocked my world is the realisation that my ideal/goal of having a woman to share experiences and fun times with is basically a myth which will hurt me in the long run. I am not completely happy with the fact that I can never have a companion to build a…
/r/askTRP07/06/16 03:44 PM
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I have texted her saying "what exactly do you mean by in my life"
/r/askTRP04/06/16 09:13 AM
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The best I've come up with would be "that depends" wait for her to reply with "on what?" And then say "if you're going to continue being a bitch or not" Because this sets a boundary for her but I am just unsure how she will react and how to deal with it. I'm also unsure whether it comes across as needy or not. Thoughts?
/r/askTRP04/06/16 08:50 AM
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I thought it seems needy to make threats. It shows you care and breaks frame.
/r/askTRP03/06/16 10:57 PM
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Ditto. That's what I thought. What would be a good way to react to her going through my phone on the other hand? Should I firmly and authoritatively say you must never go through my phone again and/or follow with a threat? Or is what would be the best way to react to this?
/r/askTRP03/06/16 05:25 PM
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Ok please help me how I can never contact her again without her losing all respect and resenting me. she called saying she wanted to meet up and talk because she has something important to ask me but I just told her I was busy and said she can call me later. she texted me after saying if we can meet in the evening and I texted back saying just tell me on here (text) she said she can't and then texted back saying how she can't believe im ignoring her as we were together for months and said all re…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 01:17 PM
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Thing is I am completely over her and will never view her as LTR material its purely just so I can have rough disrespectful sex with her.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:49 AM
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I do not have the feelings I had for her before, I can use her just as a plate this time but just need to work out how to avoid her shit tests.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 11:28 AM
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She has literally just called me this morning asking if we can meet up because she wants to talk, how should I play it?
/r/askTRP02/06/16 10:40 AM
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No honestly it was just sex and enjoying each others company, I bought her dinner once or twice throughout the 3 month period and it was because I wanted to. I have definitely learned not to commit to a slut and I knew this beforehand but honestly I just fell in love with almost everything about her. Her look, her body, even her smile. How do I avoid this next time? In terms of looks, she would be my dream wife which is why I became stupid and thought I could change her and ignored her past. ple…
/r/askTRP02/06/16 09:00 AM
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Still find it difficult to learn from this relationship I just view it as a catosrophic failure. And it could've been a plate I would be fucking for years but I messed up falling in love. I notice I fall in love easily as soon as I see a girl with potential. Idk how to cure this it seems to be something I was born with.
/r/askTRP02/06/16 12:12 AM
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ok brother I appreciate the advice and help you're giving me. I will forget about her completely.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 11:40 PM
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The problem is knowing my mistakes I want to get back and change them so I can play her this time and have the upper hand. I made the biggest mistake and embarrassment by falling for her and it bugs me so much. I want to have her underneath me yearning for me as I continue to fuck her without allowing her to ever get into a position of LTR again so she will always be reminded of what she lost. But yet again I realise that it is completely my fault for pushing for her to be a LTR whilst knowing s…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:56 PM
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Interesting so actually emotionally abusing her was more effective than being stoic and playing it cool ? for me, when I played it cool and stoic it would piss her off even more and she would then eventually apologise.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:50 PM
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Ok thanks I just thought I could get back with her and manipulate her this time and use her as practise for my new redpill adopted strategies and learning from my past mistakes. Remember she is young and dumb so this could work and could raise my SMV if I am capable of pulling this off but ok I will just leave it. What should I do if she somehow manages to contact me between now or a months time when her exam period is over? don't worry I will still have the number blocked and deleted but she co…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:38 PM
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Bro I completely understand I was stupid and naive. She is 17, in college, and a slut. There is no way in hell she can be LTR even if she has short bursts where she feels like she can. Understanding this, should I pursue her with the intention of perfecting my redpill strategies with her so I can improve for future LTR/Plates? or will this hurt me more than I can learn from?
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:29 PM
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Do you not think I can get back with her (I think I can but this time as a plate) then I can use her as my test dummy for red pill theories so I am perfect for any future LTR/Plates.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 09:22 PM
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Do you believe we can continue as plates now considering we were both emotionally invested ? If so, how do I do so from now on without her questioning or putting up fronts/tests about me being aloof whereas before I was romantic and affectionate to her.
/r/askTRP01/06/16 07:10 PM
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If I unblock her should I not wait for her to initiate contact? After all we have been through it would seem illogical for me to try and get back with her she will view that as her having the upper hand and she will realize I will come back no matter what she does. Your other points are all true however I just think by trying to use the excuse of I was having a bad time and took it out on her will not work as she already knows I ended it because she was acting like a spoiled bratt/bitch. She may…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 04:46 PM
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Indeed she is definitely not LTR I just became infatuated with her as we were having sex everyday for months. It is a big mistake on my part but something I definitely realise now, I think being loyal was a big reasoning behind this as I was not having sex with other girls but that will change this time regardless. However as previously stated, I want to find out if I can still keep her in my life and continue having sex with her because I don't want to pass on this opportunity if it's still pos…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:56 PM
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I went through a similar situation with my plate/LTR... I nexted her when I found out she was still texting other guys, but I then realized I just passed on some amazing pussy (also 9/10). I explained that I ended it because I needed her to know I was serious about her etc. after some friction things went back to normal. I just needed to explain my actions and quickly change the subject to try to make things normal again, avoiding arguing is key in this scenario. I am however in a deeper problem…
/r/askTRP01/06/16 03:35 PM
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What lessons should I take away from this for next time? avoid mate guarding but what else?
/r/TheRedPill01/06/16 12:53 PM
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Well I influenced that by teaching her what she said is not correct if she loves me like she claims and then she said that to me. I understand now that actually having a relationship with this girl is just nonsense however I still want to have her as a long-term fuck buddy I just want advice as to how best to play it from now on.
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:21 PM
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How would I be able to recover from the way things are now? We had a solid month of both of us on the same page where she poured out her feelings and I also showed that I cared for her. We have not seen each other for 2 weeks and shes young and impressionable so I guess things can be restarted now if I message her but this time play it differently?
/r/TheRedPill31/05/16 04:12 PM
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So how do you portray yourself as a socially apt winner? how do you make her know this to gain her attraction? any techniques?
/r/TheRedPill11/03/16 12:33 AM
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The thing that prevents me approaching the most is other peoples reaction. I have no qualms with getting rejected by a girl out in the street but to the hundreds of passers by in my local town mall, that to me is the biggest fear.
/r/TheRedPill24/02/16 12:38 PM
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Why do you recommend creatine? I can understand whey but I severely dislike the notion of creatine holding water in your muscles to give that puff look which will deflate once you come off it.
/r/TheRedPill06/02/16 07:59 PM
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Would this work if you start with escorts or prostitutes (whatever you prefer calling them) ?
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 07:59 PM
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I will begin focusing more on 30+ year olds from now on.
/r/TheRedPill25/01/16 12:28 PM
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Right now, if I genuinely beleive (which is to brainwash yourself as I stated earlier) that I have plenty of girls I can choose to have sex with, it would not change anything in terms of actually getting sex.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:36 PM
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Step three is the best advice I have heard but impossible for me to implement when I live at home with my parents. Granted if this was not the case this element still relies incredibly heavily on luck and would probably work on 1 out of 500 girls. I have been asking girls to go out and meet up consistently for months now through online game and girls I've gamed in person.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:27 PM
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Regular sex is top 5 things I want in my life. This post was made out of honesty. I am being completely honest with my goals and aspiration. I want to have a lot of sex in my lifetime and that is something which is important to me. Some people want family, kids, travelling, money. Granted I want a few of those my goals include sex. Asking me to ignore it, is it because its something which only comes to a lucky few? Is what I am asking similar to becoming a millionaire? Something incredibly hard …
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:24 PM
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pretty much summed up my op.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:21 PM
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I thank you for your comment and your well thought post however I yet again digress to explain that this is another fairytale. I do not act desperate when interacting with women. Abundance mentality = lie to yourself and brainwash yourself to believe you are in a harem of models, getting sex on a daily basis. If this worked I would have had sex with over 100 girls last year.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:20 PM
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I appreciate that. Studying at university and living at home in one of the most expensive cities in the world leaves most students broke as fuck. So guess I have to suffer sexless existence till I can save up enough to burn on moving location.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 11:15 PM
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As already stated: society and culture as a whole, was vastly different then. 180 degrees different. Sex and marriage were intertwined and everyone was getting married, most as early as 18.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:55 PM
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So approaching 100 girls a week is what it takes ?
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:35 PM
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Aside from getting a shit ton more money, plastic surgery or massive amounts of fame, I've been actively self improving since a young teenager. Please give a better contribution or refrain from giving generic bullshit, I've tried to make that clear in the op.
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:34 PM
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As I stated in the original post. Almost all the replies are generic bullshit fairy tale mantras. "don't seem desperate", "Get some girl friends", "Your tactic must be wrong"; all of these are generic shit talk I would expect elsewhere not on the red pill. What you have all said in here are things I have already done since day one. I came to the red pill as a final attempt at dissecting this situation and finding some truth. Maybe everyone else is ignorant to this situation or maybe it is just e…
/r/TheRedPill23/01/16 10:10 PM
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Thanks, I have a few other girls I'm trying to plate so I will continue gathering more and spreading my attention across all of them rather than just focus on one.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 06:45 PM
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She's busy with uni work. I don't message her often but have told her we should meet up on the phone call. I'm not going to be texting her but the next time I do it will be to push for a date
/r/askTRP20/01/16 04:41 PM
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Solid advice.
/r/askTRP20/01/16 12:53 PM
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How would you reward the examples you gave whilst retaining your masculinity and not providing her the impression that your effeminate.
/r/TheRedPill11/01/16 06:50 PM
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90% of the guys in my class probably couldn't. One of my friends who just financed his brand new 2014 car (not knocking him) came to my house with his flat tyre asking my to change it because he hadn't done it before.
/r/TheRedPill30/12/15 12:26 AM
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There are only 3 programs you will ever need, (until you are big and are ready to sculpt 5 years from now). I would say I'm an intermediate lifter (been on and off for about 3 years). I'm 21 now but I've been dedicated to the gym for the past 6 months. My current workout is a 4 day split: Shoulders Legs Back Chest / Arms Within these splits, I do include the compound exercises i.e. Deadlifts, squats, bench press, overhead press etc. but I also use many "sculpting" exercises such as: Dumbell Curl…
/r/TheRedPill29/12/15 11:56 PM
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This might sound like a silly question but how does everyone here deal with dirty talk without allowing it to make you fap? Not sure if anyone here does NoFap but I strongly support that idea because it leads to better sex but when girls are sending me pics and videos its very hard not to.
/r/askTRP27/12/15 06:49 PM
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apply and amplify or amused mastery would seemingly have the opposite effect. The girl is usually serious in this context and looking for a reason to get rid of me.
/r/askTRP26/12/15 10:55 AM
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You are going to be a Great Father. Thank you.
/r/TheRedPill07/12/15 10:59 PM
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thank you!!
/r/askTRP04/11/15 10:00 PM
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Definitely agree with this sentiment my only issue is I'm a nice guy at heart and just thinking about me doing this will give off the nice guy impression. Any tips for preventing my "nice guy" vibe? Is it as simple as just being bold and confident and letting the rest flow? Just really trying to crush my nice guy element since swallowing the red pill thanks for your help.
/r/askTRP04/11/15 09:16 PM
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Sex without a condom is yielding to the woman and beta in my eyes. It subconsciously portrays your commitment to them. Its really detrimental.
/r/askTRP03/11/15 08:23 PM
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4 day split day1) Shoulders day 2) legs Day 3) chest Day 4) back I throw in an arm day when I can.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 05:31 PM
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They have alpha traits. They may not be "Men" and many don't deserve that title, remaining as boys, but I would never naturally regard them as beta. The typical gang member usually has these traits: Bold, Fearless, Aggressive, Seducer, Selfish/Arrogant. Of-course heeding to your point being that it boils down to an individual basis you're just probably thinking of the little 12-14 year olds in your city centre or something. The take-home point I wanted to make was being alpha doesn't equate to b…
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 05:22 PM
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So squats are your main glute building exercise followed by body weight lunges?
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:53 AM
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Whilst you make a completely true point. My reasoning was that many members of a gang turn to it due to the money power and pussy which is gained from being part of that establishment. The mere act of saying fuck it I got nothing to lose I'm going to sell drugs etc. Is alpha the opposite side of the spectrum would be to give up and sit at home all day watching porn and surfing the net for hours on end. Both mentally unstable however and neither are the right direction to take.
/r/TheRedPill02/11/15 08:49 AM
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You're actually ignorant to this issue. Why don't you spend 30 minutes reading through the site (which contains sources) and you might change your mind. If you don't, your loss bro.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:36 PM
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I can never isolate my glutes (I basically never get sore) and I hate doing hip thrusts because it feels like a waste of time even with slow mind-body connection reps. Any tips?
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:25 PM
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Your third paragraph is spot on. Even with the teenage demographic there are many gangs (albeit the wrong direction) but still alpha in essence.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:21 PM
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Amazing. Only thing bugging me is that most of those girls probably don't deserve your company let alone the fun experience you're giving them.
/r/TheRedPill01/11/15 11:13 PM
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This is like the hidden gem that has been kept for centuries. Such truth!
/r/TheRedPill19/08/15 06:54 PM
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In terms of my degree, yes I do plan on completing it.
/r/askTRP10/08/15 06:15 AM
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so on top of the message she blanked, I should ask if she wants to go out ?
/r/seduction17/11/14 07:13 PM
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She said "hi" but I couldn't respond that night so messaged her saying "hey u alright" the morning after. She hasn't replied since and it's been 4 days now lol. Stupid bitch. I don't want to message her asking to take her out until she responds first.
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:56 PM
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thanks
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:27 PM
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should you ever send another message if she doesn't respond or leave it at one message and wait for her response?
/r/seduction17/11/14 06:26 PM
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Lets say you message a girl and she doesn't respond for a week, should you carry on the convo as if nothing happened? or should you send another message saying whatsup if she doesn't respond?
/r/seduction17/11/14 05:02 PM
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What should you do after the girl responds to you after blatantly ignoring your text for a number days? should you joke about it or pretend it never happened?
/r/seduction17/11/14 04:48 PM
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I will do this next weekend. I'd rather sleep in a hotel than a car though.
/r/seduction18/10/14 06:05 PM
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Can you speak about travelling to the next big city by car for one night and going crazy lol? First of all, driving means I can't drink any alcohol which isn't the end of the world but it might hinder the experience. Also, what to do? Clubbing ? Going out by yourself could be a pretty bad experience. Especially if its for the first time.
/r/seduction18/10/14 03:18 PM
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This is the worst link I've seen in a long time.
/r/seduction13/08/14 03:47 PM
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TEACH ME MASTER!
/r/seduction11/08/14 06:24 PM
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Dude. I JUST CAN'T!!!!! Why is this the hardest thing ever in my life? Its just so hard even though I want it so bad. I just can't muster up the courage to approach. I wan't it more than anything though, I realise it is probably the biggest factor to change my life for the better.
/r/seduction26/07/14 11:36 AM
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How you talk is a thousand times more important than the topic. Can you give us some tips on HOW to talk better ?
/r/seduction26/07/14 11:34 AM
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I don't know what I am afriad of exactly. I guess being judged etc. and to answer your second question, I don't know?
/r/seduction15/07/14 08:23 AM
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I haven't thought that deeply yet but I would want someone I can go out with and have a good time. The malls and parks are places o go to try approach but it seems so hard. I have no problems having conversations with people and being social. I just find the initial approach with a stranger the most daunting task of my life. I don't know what to do
/r/seduction13/07/14 08:47 AM
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Keep the ball rolling. 3 times a week minimum is how much you should be going out to practise game, the more the better to start newly changing your psychology and personality. Every girl you dont approach is a step backwards so keep that in mind and move forward my friend. I have yet to approach a single girl. I just can't muster the courage to do it or there is never a good enough opportunity; usually pairs, walking fast etc.
/r/seduction12/07/14 11:43 PM
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GOLDEN!
/r/seduction11/07/14 08:02 PM
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hey bro, I tried to take your advice. I went into my town shopping centre to try and approach girls but I couldn't really find anyone I could approach. Where do you think is the best place to start and who to start on? Whats the easiest location/situation ? I really want to get started.
/r/seduction11/07/14 07:18 PM
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how do you actually take the steps to become self-rooted and not seeking others validation? I've been trying to do this whilst being single for the last 4 years and I still haven't reached this level yet. I still have approach anxiety and I haven't approached because of it.
/r/seduction11/07/14 01:11 AM
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Hi, I'm from south london btw. I have been extremely eager to approach girls during the day. I really want to do this but I just can't master the courage. I have know enough theory to do it but I need practise. I just can't fucking get myself to approach I have no idea why. Can you please give me any advice? I want tomorrow to be the day that changes everything.
/r/seduction19/02/14 09:05 PM
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it just gets a little off putting even to myself when I look directly into someones eye when we are speaking. It sort of slows down time and I often forget what they are talking about or I stumble on my words lol
/r/seduction17/12/13 10:46 PM
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This is sold/golden advice. Thank you.
/r/seduction17/12/13 10:43 PM
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can you please elaborate on what you mean by showing interest but not seeming impressed? be as detailed as possible because I can relate to the OP so much. You're answer may be vital for me in the future
/r/seduction17/12/13 08:23 PM
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this is the exact answer I was looking for! I agree looking to the side or down gives off a insecurity vibe even though its very subconscious. I wonder what type of vibe looking behind the person would portray?
/r/seduction17/12/13 06:19 PM
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be sociable. Say hi to everyone you meet. male and female.
/r/seduction07/12/13 08:22 PM
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the problem is she is from Pakistan. She's very conservative. I am sure she is a virgin, probably never been out with a guy before let alone kiss one. I also playfully asked for her number a few weeks into knowing her and she rejected the offer.
/r/seduction06/12/13 02:47 PM
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People are too self absorbed to give much of a Fuck about you outside of the present moment. If she does... If it's on a positive manner, you're golden. If it's negative she'll let you know. You can't lose. MOTHER OF GOD. Enlightenment
/r/seduction04/12/13 01:44 PM
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could I ask you a question? What are your views on Meditation? have you ever tried it? Do you believe it has positive effects on the soul/spiritual essence of life? Or do you also believe that is snake-oil ? thanks
/r/seduction25/11/13 07:30 PM
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Please respond fully. What you wrote is precisely what I am going through
/r/seduction21/11/13 03:27 PM
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appreciate your help. I hope/aim to reply next time with a success story.
/r/seduction20/11/13 05:08 PM
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granted there were less than a handful of girls I saw today at my city centre I still didn't manage to approach. They were either walking too fast, on the phone/earphones or both.
/r/seduction20/11/13 04:57 PM
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I am out 3 days a week with the specific purpose of approaching but not doing so just end up walking around the mall for a bit with or without a friend then going home :| I feel embarrassed to admit that Edit* - Regarding your opinion to Eckhart Tolle. Idk personally everthing he says to I can relate 100% He isn't selling you a product but instead introducing you to an idea and philosophy from Buddhism (I just find that Tolle explains it very clearly). Maybe try reading the book one more time wi…
/r/seduction19/11/13 11:23 PM
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appreciate the repsonse but as I said its been 3 months I've been aiming to approach women each time I go out but I never master the courage. I can't "simply" approach. Maybe this just isn't for me?
/r/seduction19/11/13 05:28 PM
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