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I’ve made the first move in most relationships I’ve been in, except two. And I like really nerdy guys, so I’ve always been pretty direct (e.g. “I like you and I’m sexually attracted to you. If you feel the same, let’s go!”)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/04/18 10:13 PM
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I (37F) do all the home DIY, product assembly and maintenance/repairs. My husband (39M) does all the cooking. This is definitely the best for everyone; otherwise we’d be eating frozen waffles off wobbly tables
/r/PurplePillDebate30/03/18 03:52 PM
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(Am woman) I’d say I’m maybe at a a 0.02? I’ve kissed a few girls, but I’ve never touched, nor ever wanted to touch, another woman between the legs. Honestly, vaginas kinda gross me out. I’m way too much the cock enthusiast to have a lesbian experience.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/03/18 12:51 AM
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I once had a raging crush on a guy, who was very overweight and kind of weird looking, because he was amazingly intelligent, confident, and talented. Physical handsomeness is nice, but actually a turn-off if there’s no substance under the surface
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/18 10:44 AM
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Thanks for projecting. My assumption was based a little less on the “Thailand,” and more on my ex-husband’s description of the encounter.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 03:41 PM
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Ex-husband has sex with a prostitute in Thailand, which made me uncomfortable because it was probably higher risk for diseases, and because the poor woman was probably trafficked or otherwise coerced. Husband now hired an escort in DC before we met. I’m totally fine with it, since that seems a much lower likelihood for STIs and exploitation.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/12/17 02:25 PM
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Well, I think that making sexual or romantic advances to your colleague, employee, student, or other person (especially if they are subordinate) in a professional setting is probably always a no-go. If you’re there for work, work. Male or female, don’t use your place of employment for pick-up opportunities. Then you’re unlikely to ever be accused of harassment. Haven’t you heard the phrase “Don’t shit where you eat?”
/r/PurplePillDebate03/12/17 10:21 PM
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You’re trying to argue with somebody who has a master’s in ignoring cognitive dissonance. You’re not going to get through to someone whose argument is “Nuh-uh!” and “I know you are, but what am I?”
/r/PurplePillDebate16/11/17 09:26 PM
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Hm. I respectfully disagree. My husband is a feminist, but definitely not a white knight. He remarks that he’s glad red pill wasn’t around when he was in high school, because bitterness over his continued virginity and his unrequited feelings for a classmate would have made him an ideal target for RP BS. Instead, he went off to college, got socialized, got a girlfriend, got laid, and got over it. I’m assuming we’re defining ‘feminist’ as someone who actively supports women’s rights as human righ…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/11/17 04:25 AM
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Oh? What conclusions were you thinking of drawing, then?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 10:36 PM
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He’s also intelligent, kind, and a feminist, so be careful about what conclusions you draw
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 09:37 PM
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When I was in my teens and early twenties, I preferred less hairy guys - possible because that’s what is marketed as ‘heartthrob’ material, possibly because I found such hyper masculinity threatening to someone still finding her womanhood. Now I find body hair sexy - my husband has a luxuriant pelt, even if he’s thinning on top.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 09:36 PM
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My only rule as a woman is: I have to be the pretty one. That’s why I never jumped on the Leonardo DiCaprio bandwagon in high school. My husband is very masculine: muscled, tall, thinning hair, 5 o’clock shadow at 2pm, enough body hair to take what he sheds and knit a life-size Shetland pony...
/r/PurplePillDebate03/11/17 08:47 PM
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I have a higher count than my husband (3x higher), but he blew the doors off any other encounter the first time we had sex. Quality vs quantity - he made me bring my A game. The disparity in count has never been an issue.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/10/17 03:09 PM
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I’m guessing it’s because they hope some “9” or “10” will fuck them just to prove them wrong.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/10/17 10:28 PM
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Well, don't feel bad. My husband didn't lose his virginity until 21.
/r/PurplePillDebate20/08/17 10:06 PM
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Woman, blue pill: 16, no regrets!
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/17 04:02 AM
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What's submissive about a man giving a woman oral? I love sucking cock, but I also love it when I guy goes down on me. A guy who refused to perform cunnilingus because of some bullshit notion of dominance would be an idiot.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:40 PM
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No oral? Deal breaker. Give me contestant B every time.
/r/PurplePillDebate21/07/17 10:36 PM
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TRP needs sexbots. Since TRP seem to think sex is all women are good for, and resent women for withholding the sex these men feel they're owed.... Sexbots seem to solve that problem. Hell, maybe they'd settle for RealDolls and then they could stop complaining.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/17 12:59 PM
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I think if you're actually looking to date, not just to fuck, gender incongruence is just more interesting - it doesn't mean the congruent traits are absent, but that the profile has these surprises as an add-on. People like to be with others who are interesting.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 12:52 AM
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I get why TRP wants to view hetero relationships as being fundamentally transactional, but most people don't view relationships that way. I'm not married to my husband for money or status, nor is he married to me for sex. We're married because we love each other and desire each other's company. We trust each other. While we maintain separate bank accounts, there's very little thine-and-mine... mostly just "ours." As in, our apartment, our relationship, our future. Every time I read something fro…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 04:25 PM
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Eh. Woman here. I find classically handsome guys boring. I've been with loads of guys, who I loved or had a crush on, and all were different: - Lost my virginity to short average stocky blond boyfriend with glasses and small average dick - Loved a boyfriend who was whip thin dark hair narrow face big average dick - Almost married tall average bearded round face boyfriend with small average dick - Crushed hard on, and slept with, three different fat guys with small average dicks: dark hair with b…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/17 11:58 AM
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Well, whenever you and the future ex-Mrs.Basebool conclude your lengthy pre-nup and decide to procreate, be sure to let me know where all these affordable, trustworthy nannies are.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 09:31 PM
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Chacun a son goût. It's not optimal (although I guess optimal would be either independent wealth or democratic socialism). Eventually it may morph into SAHD - though his job offers some pretty good parental leave and work from home options. Like I said, childcare costs in our area are extortionate, and I don't make much as a high school teacher, compared to my husband. Why would you never accept SAHM/primary bread winner?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 07:48 PM
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He already does all the cooking (3+ years) because he loves to cook and it's his way of decompressing. I do most of the grocery shopping trips, and I clean up the kitchen when he's done.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:13 PM
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Cis het female, Blue Pill Hmm... I think technically shortest vertical to horizontal was about 20 minutes, but that was at a BDSM club. But most hookups 1-12 hours. My husband and I had sex about 14 hours after we met, and for about four hours. And my husband knows all of my sexual history - he thinks my rampant sex drive is a feature, not a bug.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 06:03 PM
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Good rule of thumb, I suppose, but is there anything that seems particularly unbelievable to you?
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:49 PM
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Well, we were each previously married. While our previous marriages didn't succeed, we learned a LOT about healthy relationships. I don't think either of us would be as patient or considerate now if we hadn't been married before. Still... there's something to be said for the 'starter' marriage. I think our exes are both better for it, as well
/r/PurplePillDebate13/06/17 05:48 PM
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Blue Pill Female Straight Married to a man who I would do anything for, and I know he'd do it for me. We moved so he could be closer to work and not have a two-hour commute, but it meant that for six months, I'd have to get up at 4:50 and out the door by 5:30 to make it to my work at 7. He helps by making me a quick breakfast (bagel, frozen waffles) while I'm in the shower. We're trying for a baby, so I'm not returning to teaching in the fall, though I plan to work as a sub for as long as possib…
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 10:59 PM
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Both my ex husband and my current husband have been with prostitutes. To be honest, I was sketched out when my ex husband told me he'd been to a prostitute in Thailand because it was so tawdry the way he described it, and we were both 90% sure she had been trafficked or economically coerced. My husband hired an escort when he was in college. Apparently it was pretty good! No qualms on my part. I just think there's an important difference between people who are sex workers because they enjoy it, …
/r/PurplePillDebate12/06/17 08:38 PM
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I've had a lot of sexual partners, and am married to my second husband. He's down with hot-wifing, as long as I'm emotionally faithful. I take advantage of this rarely, since I adore my husband and would rather take him to bed than anyone else on earth. Having a lot of sexual partners lead me to realize how intimidating many men find female sexuality and a high female libido. Previous boyfriends and my exhusband shamed me for having a high sex drive, and for being kinky. When I finally met my hu…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/05/17 11:54 AM
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I'll be 37 this year, and for the first time in my life I'm actively trying. Too much instability and financial insecurity before
/r/PurplePillDebate18/05/17 09:04 PM
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