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| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeYea but "systematically" I meant being aware of your situational awareness and actually using it consciously rather than just a subconscious instinct | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 10:50 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeEhh, for me it's kind of natural but basically, I pay attention to my behavior and her behavior continuously, and adjust , as well as test her emotional state by playfully teasing verbally or touching. From experience I can sort of see the changes in "vibe" but going into details I'd have to think a lot about a model situation to explain every detail consciously But like, uncalibrated means she's emotionally in some state and you, instead of adjusting your behavior to match her emotionally and m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 05:31 PM |
| 1 | Got dumped after 4 dates - met on Hingetbh i'm kind of intrigued, after this last comment you wrote, how'd comment on this guys approach? https://www.youtube.com/@FastSeduction1 i've had people tell me mixed opinions , from this guys canned af to he's an evil genius. I can sort of see that his behavior, verbal and nonverbal, is very coherent and there's continuity throughout his interactions, but i'd love to have you comment on it. because currently i think you're flattening "pua" into he opens with these 3 sentences, and i consdier … | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 04:02 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeit's almost like you only get 1 life to live, and what you consider unjust is kind of irrelevant to the whole argument (the "normative" side i talked about). if your objective is to fuck women, said bluntly, and some people seem to get that for free, it literally does not matter if you consider it unjust, in fact wasting your time on how it's unjust is already the issue, instead you should learn about all the factors that these people get right, and do whatever it takes to match them in those fa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:52 PM |
| 2 | You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart. For men here - autistic analysis of every single detail is one of the reason for failure in dating.You can't LOGIC your way into a women's heart Stop analysing human interactions like mathematical equations. Actually, yes, yes you can - https://www.youtube.com/@FastSeduction1 Except is less so "logicking" and more so learning (through interaction, analysis, and logic) what systematic behaviors in concert make the woman respond to you better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:38 PM |
| – | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Women being women. They for the streets | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:32 PM |
| – | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Arguing for genocide | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:31 PM |
| – | If roughly half of Gen Z men have no hope of ever getting married and having children, how can anyone be surprised they're being radicalized?Arguing for genocide, how nice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:31 PM |
| 2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeno body should be shamed for things out their natural control, Until that happens , you're gonna wait around intentionally sabotaging your chances? There's a concept in law etc. called normative vs positive statements. Positive statements are objective and factual, describing how things work without value judgments, while normative statements are subjective and involve opinions about what should be done. You can only rely on positive statements to guide your behavior because they're the ones gro… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timedon't listen to the fish, listen to the fishermen | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThis, but it's not really suprising that people on socials are not the same people outside because you can't split yourself in 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:48 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeYour social circle seem like people who have their shit together :) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:47 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeWho cares about your mood?? You're a stranger to me, your mood is your own problem to deal with alone. I have my own life with my own goals, and they take precedence over worrying how it might affect your mood xoxo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:44 PM |
| 2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeit's always the losers who talk with most confidence, yet this comes from their inexperience and limited perspective rather than a grounding in reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:42 PM |
| 0 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeAbsolutely wrong, inexperience reeks from you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:37 PM |
| 2 | Approaching random women is a waste of timethat's on them, that part is called calibration and if it's this obvious they're completely uncalibrated, instead of building a connection which feels natural (and this can still be done systematically,) they try to play the "cool" guy and it's a huge turn-off | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:35 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeOr as normal people say, socialize / talk to people | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:33 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeGet off tiktok to learn those baseline social skills is a first step i'd say | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:32 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThis is just common sense social skills, idk why "approaching" is made such a big deal of. You don't come in there hitting on someone hard without no introduction or breaking the ice first, that's just uncalibrated and moronic | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThis , unless you're a bottom of the barrel hag which is usually the ones pursuing men because no man wants to approach them | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:30 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeshe cant | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeTrue at that | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:29 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeNever happens | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:28 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeThis | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:27 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeAnywhere is a decent room if you're not a moron / loser like the majority men in this sub | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:25 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeprobably already did | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:23 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timePolite 'no' doesn't work, you must be rude. This is not some business meeting to be polite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:22 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeWell that i guess means y'all need to get closer in personality looks etc to the top men women want. Why do men expect to put in zero effort and get all they want for free on their plate in return.. Just do what it takes, you live in a modern world you can solve almost any problem. Bad teeth? Balding? No jawline? - go the doctor, get a surgery. Short? get taller shoes or height booster inserts. Bad skin? Wear fucking make-up. No social skills? Start talking with real people in real life, like bo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:19 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeNot *you* clearly | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:13 PM |
| 1 | Approaching random women is a waste of timeTHREE times?? Are you for real:? Imagine you try to play chess 3 times, or apply to 3 jobs. Do you expect to be a grandmaster or get a job on the same day?? You're delusional. Hope this brings your perspective closer to reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/06/26 02:12 PM |
| 1 | Got dumped after 4 dates - met on HingeThis exactly. The sheer number of weak losers in this sub is just insane | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 02:09 PM |
| 1 | It’s important to make eye contact with people (especially cute girls) at the gym, bars, etc!!Coming from the biggest loser in this sub and comment section, I consider that a compliment. | /r/seduction | 27/06/26 02:03 PM |
| 1 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowOfc, he establishes a baseline. That's why she's ok with his physical body language later. Now, where did he grab her again? | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 08:21 AM |
| 1 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowWho's grabbing anyone?? Are you blind? | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 08:01 AM |
| 2 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowIf you want to approach next to beggars you need to differentiate yourself from them as much as possible to smoothly pull it off. This is a crucial lesson you'd learn from it. This lesson generalizes across the whole game, if you want to learn it well. But I guess not everyone likes a challenge as much as you're quick to insinuate judgment ("next to beggars" is loaded language intended to dismiss me whether you consciously phrased it this way or not). Details matter in game. | /r/seduction | 24/06/26 06:46 AM |
| 1 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowDon't do that that's canned af and girls don't respond well to this . Because you're pushing (complimenting, explaining yourself for no reason) not creating a pull where she's interested and curious who's this hot guy talking to her. Better opener is guess what, just asking for help with directions since you're on the metro anyway. Or help with buying a metro ticket. Or any number of logical things relevant to the situation. "you're cute" is not relevant so she will close down. Asking for direct… | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:35 PM |
| 1 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowAsk if men are exhausted that everybody avoids them 100% of the time | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:25 PM |
| 2 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person now"A few" LOL. You need to count in 100s | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:24 PM |
| 0 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowYou don't need to be that playful if you want her to be your friend rather than fuck you. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:17 PM |
| 2 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowThis isn't staged and it works (don't ask me how I know). It's only weird because it's highly advanced. Terrible blowouts almost never happen if you're calibrated and make it socially okay, if she's not interested she'll make usually make it very clear and you don't engage with her further , or if she's shy / doesn't respond well to touch you obviously don't push more into touching her but keep her engaged and test her for touch continuously, to see if she softens up. Its only up to you to decid… | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 10:12 PM |
| 1 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowBruh. Don't ask for their name or personal information. It doesn't matter in the beginning and it feels like she's being interrogated, it can only backfire. Instead go up to her and introduce yourself: Hi, my I'm <name> Make statements not questions. state judgments about her - this earring you have , it's so cool . Your eyes, they have this suspicious look. You're definitely a spy,... Then go on that tangent with her. After a few minutes you can say, what's my name? To see if she remembers. Or … | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:29 PM |
| 3 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person now'Course we are , it's the only reason we survived. Women should be grateful | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:18 PM |
| 3 | I approached 21 girls today and I'm a totally different person nowThis | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:16 PM |
| 1 | It’s important to make eye contact with people (especially cute girls) at the gym, bars, etc!!LOL Loser | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:10 PM |
| 1 | It’s important to make eye contact with people (especially cute girls) at the gym, bars, etc!!"Inner game" lololol just do the reps first reflect on them once you have any experience to reflect on. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:09 PM |
| 0 | It’s important to make eye contact with people (especially cute girls) at the gym, bars, etc!!Eye contact alone is not sufficient to tell you anything at all. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:06 PM |
| 1 | It’s important to make eye contact with people (especially cute girls) at the gym, bars, etc!!LOL Loser had to make himself known to everyone | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 01:02 PM |
| 3 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachWomen are mostly the same, unless they're lesbians. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 4 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachSkill issue | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 12:34 PM |
| 6 | It’s so wild seeing the shift in sentiment towards cold approachWomen complaining men don't approach them are not the same women as those #metoo feminists 15 years ago. We've all grown up, and a new younger generation has emerged. Your narrative falls apart at this false equivalence you're making. | /r/seduction | 23/06/26 12:31 PM |
| 4 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThis is correct, except is not the failures, it's what you learn from them, and i mean this not in some esoteric sense, but real reflection about details of what happened when you tried this or that, and changing what you do in the future to match what worked in the past. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 10:03 PM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItStart talking to people? idk. what do you do all day?? sit in front of the computer? there might be your issue. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 10:01 PM |
| 2 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do Itthere's LOTs to be said and done between those 2 points in time. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 09:59 PM |
| 3 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItWhat does that mean | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 01:12 PM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItJust a bunch of weak excuses. "High standards" lolololoooool your "standards" are just an excuse to be a pathetic loser and a poser. Those who judge the most (you!), are the ones who have achieved the least (you.) And that blabber about absolutes or whatever - no, that's just statistics, the law of large numbers, specifically. The rest of your post is so braindead I did not bother to even read it. The amount of losers and posers in this sub ofc is reflected in the respective opinions expressed a… | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 01:06 PM |
| 3 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThis | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 01:04 AM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItRead my other comments | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 01:01 AM |
| 2 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThis man knows what's up | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItIf you don't count in the 100s of approaches each month at the very least, you're not gonna figure it out ever. You can't take it all personally with those numbers, you can't have heartfelt "genuine" relationships with each and every single individual woman like some (inexperienced!!) people on this sub are suggesting. Each woman is there to improve your skillset, as far as you're willing or able to go with her. You cannot care about them all individually. Learn to play, and have fun. gg Edit - … | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:52 AM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItCompletely bad advice. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:47 AM |
| 2 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItI meant exactly what i wrote. | /r/seduction | 26/04/26 12:45 AM |
| 2 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItBS advice | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:35 PM |
| 4 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThis guy fucks. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:34 PM |
| 0 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItAsk her for a picture, or a napkin, or a lighter, whatever, yk, like a normal person would, except you're curious about her and don't let her go as easily. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:33 PM |
| -1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThis is BS. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:32 PM |
| 7 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItNone of OP is actual good game. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:32 PM |
| -4 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItGet in the effing field. You can't learn this shit from the internet, just try a few variations with real women and see what works dawg | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:31 PM |
| 5 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItAlso this is BS. She can sense the gap in logic too, she's going to get her radar lights blinking "this guys full of shit," you got to make it plausible, so either you lead her first into admitting she likes some artistic shit like dancing or whatever, THEN state this afterwards and say basically, "I saw those vibes from you," or you make the "cold read" statement ambiguous so that it's not jarring off bat, so instead you say e.g. "You LOOK way too creative.." or something like that, with maybe … | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:30 PM |
| 1 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItThat's not the point .. you don't .. If you're this autistic, game is not for you, find a better hobby dawg. | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:26 PM |
| 12 | Women Want To Be Approached, Just Not How You Do ItDude this sales-y chatgpt-adjacent style does not become you. In addition, half of what you wrote is just the same rinse and repeat what everybody else says, without original thought, not grounded in reality or own experience from approaching 100s. Stop BSing on reddit and get in the streets. No, saying "Hey, I saw you there and I had to say hello. You looked quite interesting." really is NOT much better than "omg you're amazing," you just never got to the point of being rejected hard because if… | /r/seduction | 25/04/26 01:24 PM |
| 3 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameNo books, just go among real people in the real world and gather real data. You can experiment with whatever you come up | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 07:56 AM |
| 3 | My Thoughts After 4 Months Straight Of Night GameWings mostly help when you're starting out, as you improve they become a hindrance. Friends tend to only be a hindrance. The reason is simple, having to account for additional people complicates your logistics | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 07:54 AM |
| 2 | Is a big concert a good idea for a third date?Only if she agrees to take molly with you | /r/seduction | 18/02/25 06:07 AM |
| -10 | Best answer to "I would date someone like you"?You're reading way too much into it. | /r/seduction | 12/02/25 09:18 PM |
| 1 | Weird Texting Pattern for Women?touché. | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:22 PM |
| 2 | I Dated Trump Lawyer, De Niro’s Masseuse, Spanish Athlete - All from Street ApproachesNo, he's an grown man presumably | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:20 PM |
| -20 | I Dated Trump Lawyer, De Niro’s Masseuse, Spanish Athlete - All from Street ApproachesSalty | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Weird Texting Pattern for Women?Small talk | /r/seduction | 02/12/24 12:24 AM |
| 3 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?This guy fucks. As one legend put it, why make them all horny where you can't fuck her. Attraction+comfort, pull, then make her horny once you're at a convenient location. You don't need to kiss her at all if you're not into that. | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:28 PM |
| 1 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?Yes | /r/seduction | 29/11/24 07:23 PM |
| 7 | How Many Men Actually Get Hook Ups Consistently?You're cockblocking yourself. | /r/seduction | 23/11/24 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Why am I getting dumped after one date?Are you aware of Vin DiCarlo's Escalation Ladder? Holding hands is not proper escalation and is mostly platonic, you need to move through a series of stages of increasing intimacy | /r/seduction | 17/11/24 02:47 PM |
| 2 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenOP is an obvious rage bait troll, others please downvote/report/ignore him. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:29 AM |
| 3 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By Women"women invented" women did not invent anything. "seduction" is an evolutionary byproduct of human social behavior. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:27 AM |
| 2 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenWell it seems to me at this point that you are trolling, since you have obviously zero idea what you are talking about. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:24 AM |
| 1 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenSeduction IS biology, what you wrote in the OP is a very obvious brain fart of yours that you must have been really proud about. But your "seduction" has nothing to do with reality. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenDude learn some fucking biology and stop spouting nonsense about topics you know nothing about. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:06 AM |
| 2 | Never Forget: Seduction Was Invented By WomenYou're an idiot. Stop spreading unfounded and hateful disinformation. Seduction (more appropriately flirting) evolved alongside the high stakes and complex social environment humans live in. Social species across the animal kingdom have courting signals; humans have evolved subtlety due to the fact that seduction can be (socially or otherwise--e.g. due to a rival) risky in human social environments. | /r/seduction | 07/11/24 02:03 AM |
| 3 | Why attractive girls don't make eye contact, and when they do, it means nothing.That's because it's fact, not an analogy. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 04:42 PM |
| 24 | Why attractive girls don't make eye contact, and when they do, it means nothing.Same as she isn't attracted to you. | /r/seduction | 29/10/24 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Authenticity when datingNo it can't be accelerated despite the illusion of hindsight. You have to figure it out because this is about your emotions, behaviors, and intuition and even if you learn it consciously nothing will change for you because you need to change yourself | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 08:44 PM |
| 1 | Authenticity when datingdating “market” urghhfgh. ew. Market necessitates transactions, dating doesn't function like that. | /r/seduction | 28/10/24 08:40 PM |
| 2 | How do I flirt on InstagramSo old school haha, I like it 😘 | /r/seduction | 27/10/24 04:59 PM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?I'm done here. You can either take from this discussion what it's worth or go troll someone else | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 04:39 AM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?Do you know English? Passive-aggressive excuse-me is a common way to challenge someone who is being disrespectful and full of shit. Also having blue eyes and blonde hair (and being white by extension) is your made-up beauty standard and not mine, I took it directly from your own comments here. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 04:36 AM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?Excuse me? | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 04:26 AM |
| 1 | Does your action make difference?Success requires self-esteem. You're doing yourself a huge disservice. Also my sister loves Indian/South-Asian guys and she's a blue-eyes blonde :P | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:46 AM |
| 0 | Does your action make difference?Calling women "females" is all you need to know about why they do it in your case. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:42 AM |
| 3 | Does your action make difference?Bullshit. | /r/seduction | 13/06/24 03:40 AM |
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