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They are attracted to some guys that can even be a mystery to them sometimes. But for others they can try to make work but eventually realize they just cant. Im sure a lot of them try to feel attraction for guys they "should" feel attracted to but just cant. Also some just do it to make themselves feel better and like they have "options"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:07 PM
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Thats what its like for even straight women. They simply dont feel the same attraction for men that we do for them unless in specific scenarios. Saying they have tons of options is like me saying you have a ton of gay men as options. They simply dont feel that way and its not like they can choose to feel that way any more than you can choose to like other men.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 03:17 PM

Most guys can get a decent to average guy too but for some reason they dont want to hmmm...
/r/PurplePillDebate16/06/26 04:23 AM
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In bed from a specific man that they are attracted to? Sure thing. In everything else in life? No.
/r/PurplePillDebate25/10/25 08:33 PM
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I thought game was more about being able get women to have sex with you rather than actually being good at sex?
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/25 04:43 PM
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How do you know?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:27 AM
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They just explained it? Some dont have the option and feel compelled to sex work?
/r/PurplePillDebate06/09/25 01:26 AM
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Their point is, you can tell the obvious ones. But can you tell the not so obvious ones? How did you confirm your false positives vs false negatives? Like how many did you think were abusive but actually turned out not to be not abusive/assholes, how many assholes did you miss? How would you confirm this? Theres a lot of self bias when you say something like "its so obvious"? Bias plays a huge factor into this. Often times you can say something like "that person appears to be an asshole" then yo…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/08/25 11:57 PM

As in why is she doing it herself? If husband is not stepping up she needs to talk to him about it. Men tend to have a mentality that "if its being taken care of then I dont need to do anything". This happens to varying degrees, if they see someone else step in first and seem knowledgeable they will step back and let the "experts take care of it". Of course this needs to change. I am not justifying this behavior simply giving you some insight as to why this happens. Our whole culture is built ar…
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/25 08:15 AM
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How do you know? You arent a woman. For a woman, theres this a person who is bigger and stronger than them trying to put something inside them that they dont want. For a guy getting hit on by a gay guy its the same thing. There may be a slight mix of fear and violation-- you might even feel threatened. Or you could just take it in stride and feel complimented depending on the person you are. Does this mean women only go for top 20% though? No. Just when they arent attracted, they feel differentl…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 08:03 PM
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But is it really false equivalence? The fact of the matter is you dont find the person attractive. Whether its because of sexuality or something else thats really all that matters in the discussion right now.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:39 AM
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Yes I'd say so. Each woman has a type they want to have sex with. If they arent interested they arent interested... But its not purely looks for women. Thats why ugly bastard is also a kink for many (or maybe just a different sort of looks...?). It is very comparable to gay sex. You simply arent interested in that guy despite all the "positive traits" he might have. He's just missing that something that does it for you. The way women react to a man they are not attracted to hitting on them is of…
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:37 AM
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But a lot of women CANNOT have sex with the man they want. Only the top 20% attractive ones.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:34 AM
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I see this with myself. Ive never dated in my life because my standards are too high. Im not gonna complain about it though.... Well I am but Im not gonna blame women for it.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:28 AM
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Exactly same with women's "options".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:27 AM
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Why would a woman want to settle with a man in the first place? This is assuming all women want a man in their life. In the past that was the case because women literally could not be alone due to job opportunities and safety. As times change why would a woman go out of her way to "settle" when she could just chill on her own?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:24 AM
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But here you say sifitng through women, why not men?
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/25 01:20 AM
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Good looks getting women does not mean thats all that matters. A lot of times they dont start off abusive and use charisma to hook them in then slowly turn up the abuse. Its good looks plus charisma and interesting personality that gives you the in. Not purely good looks. If you can master the charisma and interesting personality, the looks matter less.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/08/25 09:42 AM
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There is isnt there? Both sides have their troubles. Women just tend to have had it worse historically. Men for some reason dont band together in a way that doesnt evolve around power hierarchies which makes it difficult to get support for a mens rights movement without it being too aggressive. Men tend to think more on the lines of "I want this" "That seems powerful". They get wowed by power "That guy's a chad" "That look is cool." Mens goals tend to be more competitive and ambitious. Women on …
/r/PurplePillDebate30/07/25 01:38 AM

Women are happier single when____ Fill in the blank
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 10:16 AM
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Healthy masculinity is you are allowed to do all of that and shouldnt give a fuck what others think about you. Its about freedom
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:35 AM
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Do you have any specific examples about specific behaviors? Because its hard to pinpoint what youre talking about if you are just making sweeping generalizations. The whole point of feminism from what I understand is to give women the same opportunities as men. In order for this to happen men have to understand the problems women face vs the privilege they have because they dont have to face those problems. In order for this to happen, men have to be a bit more mindful of the things they say or …
/r/PurplePillDebate29/07/25 02:33 AM
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Unfortunately its a learned response due to our culture and society. I dont really feel the same hugging a guy vs girl. Its not really easy to change either as its automatic.
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/25 07:17 PM
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Yeah and an unattractive guy who can make people laugh can still get ladies whereas an unattractive woman is not going to get the men.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/07/25 02:18 AM
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Didnt think so either but Ive noticed myself becoming more attracted to less traditionally physically attractive women as Ive grown older just because Ive spent more time with them. Women that I would have nitpicked looks 10 years ago I find attractive now so theres one anecdote
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 11:42 PM
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Not necessarily, looks will always matter to some extent initially. But as you get to know someone and grow older together looks stop mattering as much. Doesnt mean the initial physical attraction phase doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/25 04:03 AM
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Ok how many single mothers are claiming they dont mind being single? Why are you conflating what some women say to all women? Like is this how logic works in your head?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/10/23 02:06 AM
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You can 100% approach, just keep it casual and ask in a way that allows them to say no if they want to. Keep to this and refine it and you will mostly be fine.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/09/23 05:17 PM
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Who cares? A large majority of incels and redpillers seem to be under the impression women will be miserable when they are still single and no longer "young and attractive" in their eyes. This is an anecdote the contradicts that viewpoint entirely.
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:41 PM
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Doesnt matter as much as you think. Theres a ceiling for "good looks" you cant get infinite surgeries to get infinitely better looking (just look at the people who have tried)
/r/PurplePillDebate08/09/23 03:19 PM
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I didnt say I derived everything from being useful (tho i guess what I wrote might be construed that way). Its just something that boosts my ego/self confidence
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:28 PM
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Define "who you are". What you do and what you say all contribute to what you are. Being helpful is often seen as a positive trait. I just like being helpful. Most people do in fact. I like to help anyone not just women. Just, helping women Im interested in triggers happy feelings deep inside me. Im sure you feel the same helping someone you like.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 09:00 PM
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I like offering advice and having it be useful. Idk it makes me feel like I have some sort of worth I guess. Also Im an older brother so...
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:29 PM
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Not superiority like smugness Im better than you but sort of like "Hey I know something that you dont and I like explaining things I can help you out" sort of superiority.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/08/23 08:26 PM
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At this point youre just purposefully avoiding the point man. What would you do if no matter what you did no one respected you? No matter how hard you worked or what you accomplished others would get recognition but not you? And when you ask why, you get: "respect is earned, stop expecting respect just cuz u have a dick"
/r/PurplePillDebate16/08/23 02:43 AM
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Whats social media got to do with anything? Its based entirely on attention and hasnt got much to do with respecting anyone at all. I guess the major problem is when a man appears he starts from a position of neutrality and if he does something he moves up to respected. Women start from a position of disrespect and has to move up to neutral from there. Women have to constantly prove themselves just to get to neutral-- and theres always that doubt that maybe they just got there because of their l…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 09:49 PM
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No gender wants respect just for breathing. Where are you getting this idea from?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 07:38 PM
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And there you have it. I seen women try their hardest doing good work as doctors, programmers, pharmacists... And you just go "i see no respect earned"
/r/PurplePillDebate15/08/23 02:19 PM
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Why does a nice guy need to be yielding? Why not a self confident decent person?
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/23 06:59 PM
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Precisely. So why, if someone has earned the respect do you focus on the tits? That's the concern here. Woman can do many respectable things but will only be known for the tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate13/08/23 09:55 PM
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I agree if the situation is: Woman likes talking to Man Man likes talking to Woman Man: Im doing this for sex/relationship because I want more Woman: im doing this for friendship because Id just rather things stay like this Man: dang that sucks Woman: dang that sucks No sides are entitled here.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:20 PM
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Uhh yes when women talk about mens entitlement to sex they ARE talking about forcing in some manner. Men will follow women around, ask repeatedly even when rejected, get actively violent (physically or verbally), use intimidation tactics and manipulate situations so that women will be vulnerable or trapped alone with them. Its not a "tiny portion of men". Women might feel obligated to have sex just so he will stop bothering her, and I bet you wouldnt consider that "rape" would you? The semantics…
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:12 PM
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They arent entitled though? If the men dont want to be friends they dont force them to be friends. They dont follow them around and forcibly try to talk to them to be friends and "give them a chance". They dont think men should be actively punished for not wanting to be friends. They just complain that this happens too much for their liking.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 07:01 PM
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How is asking to be respected for something other than being fuckable "entitlement"?
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:59 PM
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I dont think you understand what the word "entitled" means. They are complaining that men seems to only talk to them because they want sex. They dont assume all men HAVE to talk to them or "give them a chance" or "deserve to get raped and die" for not wanting to talk to them. Entitlement is the feeling you deserve to have something or the right to something when you dont. The women are expressing their disappointment that men often talk to them with the pure objective of sex not saying men HAVE …
/r/PurplePillDebate11/08/23 06:56 PM
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Well, thats life for you. Hopefully one day cosmetic surgery will be deemed "medically necessary" and become more socially acceptable for general population because ugly people definitely get a severe disadvantage compared to attractive people. "More misogynistic" nah they are pretty much the same. They just get a pass to be more open about it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 04:06 PM
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Im dodging the question here a bit but the problem most of the time isnt the deceiving but the "pressuring" into sex when they dont want it.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/08/23 08:36 AM
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It has parallels to being a female hererosexual as illustrated in the post. What a lot of men dont realize in dating is that dangers associated with being sexually approached by someone bigger and stronger than you. Men always come up with the scenario "I would be fine if a woman came onto me sexually and wouldnt be bothered" (roles reversed scenario). Except that doesnt accurately portray the situation at all. A sort of revelation like this post provides a valuable viewpoint because someone fin…
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 06:28 PM
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The only reason any of that matters is if you cant form your own opinion on the subject without upvotes. Psyops or not if the view is valid, its valid.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/23 05:58 PM
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There are many factors that play into why this is. Some people will get defensive some wont. You take each person as they come. You learn to let some of these things slide. Getting worked up about it gets you nowhere
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 06:11 PM
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When the question is asked to women it is often framed in a very unflattering way "why do you only like money" or soemthing similar. "Why do men only care about looks" will yield similar protests. The real answer is: that plays a part but its not ALL that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate28/07/23 05:54 PM
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Yeah for the most part they care about interactivity more than straight looks than men do.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 06:36 PM
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And interacting with them. Ive found women attractive after interacting with them when i didnt initially.
/r/PurplePillDebate14/07/23 12:51 AM
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If thats all you have to offer thats how it gonna seem
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/23 05:23 PM
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Youre making up a lot of crap about me that literally doesnt matter. Im not you. You have to figure your shit out Im just trying to make you see it. Or you can be lazy and just blame women or humans or whatever for your problems. Up to you man.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:30 PM
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Except for the chads that dont quit it and become good husbands after finding what they are looking for. Stop trying to find excuses to be lazy. Work on yourself. Talk to women like they are just people (like friends) and learn from them. I suggest trying with someone you arent attracted to first so your attraction doesnt get in the way subconsciously. People are people, learn them from them instead of reading off the internet.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:18 PM
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You can believe that if you want but even the quote proves you wrong. You said "looks" only. Which doesnt include voice pitch. Youre bringing up a wikipedia and a random quote that literally starts with the word "Some". Which means its not limited to this. Not only that you seem to think my point is that looks dont matter. This is why I said you're probably very young. You are impatient and just want to be "right". So much that you basically just skimmed the source for a phrase wihout even fully…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 04:03 PM
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Humans have been around for tens of thousands of years. And its a steady process. Not to mention how sure are you that cavemen didnt care about nurture? How is a woman supposed to survive and pass on genes if there wasnt anyone protecting them? Youre acting like if the man is strong somehow that means the woman is going to survive to give birth and the kid is gonna survive to reproduce. Now take evolutionary factors and add and in environmental factors. How they might shape the sexual preference…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:38 PM
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And you dont think anyone has evolved at all since cavemen? Profound or shallow doesnt matter. If you want to have sex gain the traits that will get you to your destination. Like i said: get both. The insistence of comparing personality vs looks is pointless. Get both. Different women will like different things trying to debate this crap is stupid and just serves to try to make yourself feel superior. Bit if a topic change, but heres my opinion: those that try to say looks are all that matters a…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 03:20 PM
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Are you like really young or something? Either that or in some way... Just not thinking through a lot of things. How does "profound" relate to any of this? Why does that even matter? What other things might matter evolutionary wise to the survivability of a female with a child other than physical looks of a male? What other factors might they have evolved to assess? Surely you can think of more... start using your head instead of just tunnel visioning on this crap that doesnt matter.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:51 PM
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No Im saying evolutionary factors make women have to be choosier. They cannot just rely on looks. Men have trouble processing this because they mainly rely on looks when choosing sexual partners. Personality is shown in different ways. In reality there isnt looks over personality etc. Its more often times people have both. Just get both and you'll be fine. Dont waste time debating this crap.
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:26 PM
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No i think men have trouble wrapping their head around the fact that women dont JUST care about looks like men often do. At least when it comes to sex. Its not like it "doesnt matter" it just isnt ALL that matters
/r/PurplePillDebate23/06/23 02:01 PM
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So youre saying if women didnt say that stuff, men wouldnt care about sex? Im pretty sure youre mixing up which came first here.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 03:28 PM
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Its not, women dont care about virginity as much as men do. Women say stuff like this to hit hard when they need to.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/23 12:59 PM
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Ok why are you bringing up such a pointless hypothetical anyways? If that is literally your question. "Everyone in the world ignores you and wants nothing to do with you" is something literally 0 people in the world have experienced. Even hitler would have people that would reciprocate if he tried to talk to them.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 07:10 PM
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Nope. Its weird that your only answer to this problem is to be creepy though rather than become someone that people will want to interact with.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/02/23 06:59 PM
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Dating is difficult these days because people are getting more isolated and relying on dating apps. Unfortunately dating apps only provide visuals. Most woman need to see someone in action. Visuals simply dont mean much to a woman so you need more or extraordinary visuals to catch their attention. A man can make up for poor visuals-- if they have the chance to interact and allow the woman to see him in action. However if a woman has poor visuals, it is unlikely she will ever capture the heart of…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 11:21 PM
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Thats because youre basing it on one form of physical attractiveness: pure static visual. Women are more likely to respond to actions, sound, interactions and reactions than a simple picture like a man would.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/02/23 10:56 PM
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Why? That just makes it worse. Isnt the point of this place for normal people to reality check internet delusionals?
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:53 PM
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Easy, friendzone girls who are interested in you
/r/PurplePillDebate04/02/23 10:52 PM
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How "early" do you think youre going to retire for 1mil?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/02/23 01:35 PM
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Rules are made to serve humanity, humanity does not exist to serve rules.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 03:27 PM
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An argument can be made that liberal women are more likely to brainstorm a situation where they think cheating might be acceptable whereas conservative women just obey. You also have to do the usual checks of integrity of the study. Where did they ask these questions? Where were these "liberals" or "conservatives" recruited from and How did they ask their questions?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:12 AM
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And yet conservatives are always the ones caught diddling kids
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:11 AM
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Well for me morality is based on doing whatever will have the best outcome for most people in terms of survival of our species and progress. But simplified most liberal morals can be boiled down to Freedom as long as you arent hurting anyone and to a certain extent, animals. Give as much freedom as possible as long as it doesnt lead to negative outcomes measured in happiness for the most part.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:09 AM
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You think liberals supported biden because we wanted to? Public opinion is unfortunately heavily controlled by media. Two party system means you have to choose one over the other. If one person is perceived as favored then EVERYONE has to get behind him or we lose. The reason we "support" is because we are forced to.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 01:04 AM
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Are you high or something? "God of liberals" uh ok. "Things are ok if they are unenforceable" does this sound like anything remotely grounded in reality?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:37 AM
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Do you actually believe this or are you just being brainwashed by your media? Its quite interesting how simple conservatives believe these simple lies designed specifically to make themselves feel better. Liberals as usual seem to have a much more nuanced take on things.
/r/PurplePillDebate29/01/23 12:29 AM
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Thats cuz guys are usually the chasers and are heavily influenced by looks. And women generally arent as phased by looks as guys are. There are differences for sure. But confidence is only a plus. In this regard Id say men have a bit of an advantage because an ok looking guy has a chance if he has PRESENTATION over even a hot meek guy. So yeah I guess I agree with you to a certain extent (maybe not the aggressiveness part)
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 01:46 PM
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Ugly people have to be exceptionally charismatic to get people to like them. Thats just how it always is man or woman. Men just tend to strike up convo purely for the aim of sex whereas women are less likely to. Also you need a way to present yourself that works with your looks. 2 hot guys that are different types will need to approach things in a different manner.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:36 AM
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Wow people are attracted to confidence and expressiveness over boring meekness? What a revelation.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/23 12:33 AM
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The reason women crave attention at all is because they are constantly bombarded with it by horny ass men from a young age. Take that out and you'll find most women will stop caring about it or learn not to. Most of the problems of women "attention whoring" are caused by men to begin with. This would probably take the crave sex factor out of a lot of male female interactions allowing them to interact hopefully in a more normal manner developing actual connection.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/01/23 04:44 PM
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As another person mentioned you also need to consider rates of marriage. Do lesbians marry more than gay men?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:48 PM
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Why the hell would you marry someone that hates you for earning less than them? This isnt even a man vs woman issue this is just a people in general issue
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:34 PM
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Im not sure how this question stems from the previous statement. Obviously if a someone wants a divorce, one with the ability to sustain herself will have a better time doing it. Where do lesbians come into this?
/r/PurplePillDebate29/10/22 11:31 PM
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And looks
/r/PurplePillDebate14/08/22 04:46 PM
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Women just are not as attracted to purely looks. A picture for a woman does way less than it does for a man. They need to see the person in action. Unless the man is super attractive, they will just be "meh" if you show them a pic/are trying to be based off visuals.
/r/PurplePillDebate06/08/22 05:01 AM
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For the most part, it is true. Mens' perceptions on women are almost entirely visual based. Just look at any major media/shows/movies: almost every woman has to be at least somewhat decent looking (up until recent years where its slowly starting to change). Men on the other hand can be anything from ugly to weird looking to good looking as long as they have a "redeemable attribute".
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:46 PM
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Replace "women" with "people" Answer is no. The vast majority of people will at least subconsciously react differently to people depending how attractive they are.
/r/PurplePillDebate05/08/22 06:42 PM
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his first line was that women absolutely are lying. perhaps thats what the issue people are taking with the comment rather than the reasonable part? If you go into any relationship with this mindset, it will skew your perceptions. A woman could be acting neutral or caring toward you but you will perceive it as hostile because of preconceived notions. Not you specifically but this happens a lot in men who have little social experience taking everything written on the internet as true.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/08/22 03:08 PM
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The way you describe it, men somehow seem to have no choice in growing up to be "criminal alphas" yet women are seen as having all the choice in having sex with them. Have you considered women and how they are raised also contributes to their flawed decision making? Same way that you attribute the men's upbringing to their criminality?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:27 PM
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Do you think perhaps the single mom is often times more forced to take care of the kid rather than the single dad? This would mean single dads care more and why the data might be skewed (also consider how often there is a single mom compared to single dad) What about young girls raised by single moms? You bring up boys raised by single moms= more likely to leave. Are girls raised by single moms more likely to grow up into women who leave? Or more likely to go for guys who leave them?
/r/PurplePillDebate25/07/22 10:23 PM
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Nothing matters unless you can present it in an entertaining way. Not just women, but people in general. If you can talk about your programming skills in a way that gets people interested, they'll like you and find you intelligent. Can you make a story out of it? People love stories. Its about presentation. Panache.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/22 07:06 AM
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