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I'm not really sure I understand the question, but I'd say both.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:32 PM
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Isn't that exactly the EXACT same thing ?!? Nope, its very different thing. Men do fuck whores and don't marry them and then marry madonnas, while women fuck alphas and marry betas, that part is true. But men treat madonnas better than they treated whores, while women treat betas worse than they treated alphas.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/03/22 05:11 PM
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Gym 3-5x a week, used to go 6x but can't anymore due to my schedule. But even like this, I'm sure on this point alone I put in more work and effort into my personal care than 95% of women. Hair and beard, as required. Which means I shave my head more often than my beard. Shopping as needed, usually once per season. I know which clothes fit, and get some fitted at tailor. I don't really think about what I'm wearing unless I'm going for business meeting. And who doesn't iron their clothes? And, no…
/r/PurplePillDebate08/05/19 11:35 PM
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No, I feel entitled not to be in a relationship with a woman who showed to have cared more for men in her past than she does for me. Simple as that. If you bought expensive necklaces for your ex and she cheated on you, would you do the same for your current partner? Absolutely. I don't see why not and what is this question trying to prove to you. EDIT: Still not answering my question.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:42 PM
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No, but you and I have very different definitions of force. Not to mention that even if we are talking about real force, I would never get in a situation where I can be forced to do it the second time (hence, I included repeatedly in my previous reply). As for your definition of force, I can't answer that question cause I've never been forced to do anything by anyone and I don't respond well to threats. Actually lost my first job due to boss requiring of me something I wasn't willing to do (and …
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 04:08 PM
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I literally am, though sex is not the only thing I refer to. And presenting my viewpoint in that tone does nothing to disprove it or to answer my question. Ultimately, we do more for people we care about more. Her doing something she HATES repeatedly, does in fact prove she cared more about her past relationship(s) than present relationship. So, tell me, why does a man who treats her better deserve that?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 03:53 PM
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If you want to appeal to fairness/justice or whatever you are appealing to by this post, can you answer why does a man deserve to be treated worse by the woman he treats better than other men in her past treated her?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/01/19 03:38 PM
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The one with bigger tits.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 08:20 PM
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It is deciding factor because high N count undeniably shows her attitude towards sex and how much she values it. It is discussed so much here because it is very simple concept, therefore easy to discuss. But focusing solely on the N count pretty much makes you miss the forest for the trees.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:39 PM
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From my experience, most high N women are either insecure, therefore having high N for attention, enjoy the high of NRE or have legit abuse history or mental illness. Maybe one or two normal ones genuinely liked slutting around. So, I wouldn't bet high N = adventurous with high sex drive. Also, from my experience, I wouldn't say low N = someone I have to teach or low sex drive. Also, you are focusing on the N too much. It is just piece of the puzzle, I'd rather be with a girl who is giving me he…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 01:05 AM
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I might be tired, but your comment really makes no fucking sense to me right now. So, to address part that I understand: That to me, sounds more like an overall relationship problem in general despite N counts. There are relationship problems that I would be willing to tolerate / work on with low N count woman, which I wouldn't do with high N count woman. Sex enthusiasm/frequency being on that list.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:24 AM
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Sure, but you make it sound easy. It isn't. Because it isn't just a matter of fucking on the first date and doing nasty things she did before, its being willing to do all those things (and more) continuously and enthusiastically throughout long term relationship.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/01/19 12:01 AM
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I'm obviously not one of those people.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:30 AM
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I may have misunderstood, but she was single when she was with a married man? Therefore he is cheating, she isn't? Issues I could have about it are lies or blatant hypocrisy, not the act itself. I don't think there is anything to repent about. If she was in a relationship at the time, it would be quite different. EDIT: If she was friends with the wife who was cheated on, that would be a dealbreaker.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:27 AM
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First video wouldn't bother me unless she explicitly lied about it before (let's say she said she slept with only 3 guys before and named them all and omitted the guy in question) or if she always bashed people who facilitate cheating. Second video would be a deal breaker if she played hard to get with me, wasn't very sexually open with me or lied about never having been in a threesome (there is no way that question wouldn't be asked at some point in time). Otherwise, who cares.
/r/PurplePillDebate26/06/18 10:09 AM
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My comment was more a stab at you using quotation marks around word fat. You are defining fat as normal and morbidly obese as just fat. Also, I'm sure that even 3. one can get relationship with omega with not much work put in, just with willingness to put out.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 08:15 PM
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First two are fat, third one is morbidly obese. EDIT: Also, looking at 1. one, I'm not sure I'd even call her fat, though I certainly wouldn't call her skinny. Second one is fat.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/05/18 04:31 PM
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When talking about calling "sex workers" whores, you might be referring to me. And I assure you (while I am not English native speaker, we have both euphemism word for it and "derogatory" word for whore), I had contact with more whores than you did and they don't mind. They even call themselves whores. Its a literal word describing their occupation, nothing else. You won't cover up that actual occupation carries shame, not the word used to describe it, no matter how much euphemisms you want to f…
/r/PurplePillDebate28/05/18 12:20 PM
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Only if she is unwilling to repeat those acts with me. Otherwise, low n-count, sexually open woman is dream come true.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/05/18 04:51 PM
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This sums it up perfectly. Thank you.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:50 PM
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Can you tell me what is immature about wanting to find a woman who, besides general compatibility, is the most sexually open with me, and not some randoms in her past? You are acting like I am asking for world peace or pet unicorn or something.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:48 PM
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Where did I say I want virginal wife? I said that I want any serious prospect to treat me the best she can and in return I will treat her the best I can. If her best includes making me wait, I will wait (might fuck someone else while waiting). If her best includes threesomes, if she offers me anything less than that, she belongs in the fuck zone. And there are ways to get (relevant) parts of her sexual history without asking for exhaustive list of previous partners with their order, names and ac…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 10:18 PM
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Agreed, but we aren't talking about comparing myself with another guy. I am comparing her treatment of me to her treatment of another guy.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:55 PM
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No, cause I don't care about sushi. But even talking about something as insignificant as sushi it could raise some flags in a relationship if she used to eat it all the time in the past and wouldn't want to eat it with me or if I caught her in a lie about it. Not to mention, if she didn't try it at all, or tried it only once and I care about it, she should try it again (maybe the one she tried was at a bad place, for example in my city, I heard 3 complaints about specific sushi restaurant from t…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:51 PM
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No, he married her under assumption that she isn't into those things. What he found out is that she isn't into those things with him. Which is very different, even though outcome is the same . If he had known that before, he might not have dated her, let alone married her in the first place.
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 09:38 PM
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The thing is, a lot of guys are OK with waiting for sex, with women who aren't into casual sex. Issue is, when she is into casual sex, just not with the guy. Guys tend to find it out way later, when relationship is already established and there is some kind of sunk cost already. Not to mention that, in a lot of places, there would be a lot of shaming if he decided to leave cause of that. It also extends to sex acts. She swallowed, did facials, bdsm, anal, threesomes etc. in the past, but not wit…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/04/18 07:55 PM
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Maybe "learn to like you" was wrong phrasing, but I can't think of anything better and it got the message across. On that topic, I know that kind of attraction can be genuine, in fact I've experienced it myself several times (growing to like someone who I didn't, at first). What you are doing is framing attraction as either fireworks that quickly fade away or slow burn that takes a while to start. Both of those options are bad. What you are missing out on is that there can be strong attraction t…
/r/PurplePillDebate16/04/18 05:01 PM
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This post screams to me of low self esteem and worthlessness. My sister never met her LTR in a sexual way; she was actually more interested in his friend and then as she got to know him better her attraction toward him grew and she stopped viewing his friend in a sexual way and started viewing him in a sexual way. So, "boxes" exist. My question is, why would you want to be with someone who has to learn to like you, as opposed to someone who was genuinely attracted to you? Your sister can be attr…
/r/PurplePillDebate15/04/18 01:01 PM
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In my case, only twice. But I would rather pay for sex with a hot whore than bang someone I am not attracted to. I do know a lot of attractive men who had bad nights out and basically picked up a fatty just to bring something home that night. Also, a scene from a while ago, comes to mind, it was new years 2010 or 2011 and at this party I went into the room with a girl and it was already occupied by two guys double teaming one of the ugliest chicks I've ever seen. One of those guys trained boxing…
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:36 PM
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What a LTR/marriage entails, in my opinion is giving up a stake in your life to your partner, in return for stake in their life. Which is bad trade off for me, due to my type of personality and I like my lifestyle just the way it is. Not to mention that women don't give their best to the guys they "love".
/r/PurplePillDebate26/01/18 09:26 PM
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First of all, I would try to set a system that wouldn't require much of my god emperor interference. So I would make (almost) all government mandated payments transparent (but anonymous enough to protect individual privacy), with some exceptions that would have limited time frame censored and will have to be made available in lets say 10 years time. This transparency would also extend to other entities and recipients of funds from government (of course, they would have to be transparent only abo…
/r/PurplePillDebate23/01/18 01:09 PM
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12"L x 8"G? Do you even know what that is? Like, did anyone here ever see(or has) a dick of either that length or girth? You can go to /r/bigdickproblems and you won't see people claiming such measures. Even pornstars aren't that long. And, for comparison, Coca cola can is 8" girth. So, I honestly doubt you are seeing tons self made pornography with dildos of that size.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 02:37 PM
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Depends, how do you define getting women and getting money? You shouldn't be comparing getting rich to just having a gf or a fling, getting rich should be compared to having the ability to alpha widow hot girls consistently. And no gf/fling = unemployed, no income.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/12/17 01:41 PM
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I find it sad that you even need to ask this question. We can't control our feelings. We can control our actions. Woman who cheats, while in love shows bad moral character. Woman who doesn't cheat, despite wanting to, shows good moral character. What you are arguing here is, quite literally, feels over reals.
/r/PurplePillDebate16/12/17 12:38 AM
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Nah, men love. That is why when there is shooting or some other shit like that, men literally risk their lives to protect women. Or is it because of lust? Also, keylogger would totally get you :)
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 11:59 PM
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I am not saying he should have more sex than he wants to, just to have the ability to have it. Same way that a financially successful person has money left over to invest after covering his/her needs.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 11:51 PM
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Not the person you asked, but I would define sexually successful by having the ability to have more sex than you want (without paying for it) by the woman/women which fit your attractiveness standard.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 10:28 PM
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You are not wrong. But better men than me had full trust in their gfs which ended up in my bed lying to them where they were. I have seen town bicycles hiding their past, girls doing all kinds of degrading shit for guys who wouldn't commit, yet refusing to do it with their long term boyfriends/husbands. And that is only talking about sex. If I were to ever be in a serious relationship, I need that sort of assurance. To be clear, I am not talking about tracking her every move, I am talking about …
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 09:04 PM
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All is fair in love and war.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 04:44 PM
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1: What's the point of all the talk about N-count if there's no way to even determine any given woman's N-count? It is as hard to determine if your partner cheated on you, yet people do it and leave cheaters all the time. Also, with current state of social media and deteriorating privacy, these things are easier to determine than ever. 2: Are there ANY circumstances under which a woman might over-report her N-count, and what would be the implications if that possibility were there? I know a girl…
/r/PurplePillDebate24/11/17 11:47 AM
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But no bitches love like BPD bitches...
/r/PurplePillDebate21/11/17 10:34 PM
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I don't, I think equality as a concept is bullshit. But, if I were to implement it, I would start by legalizing prostitution and subsidizing it to incels.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 05:01 PM
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I don't know, I think equality is bullshit. But if equality is good and moral and whatever bullshit is preached to take away all sources of male power, its only equal to do the same for sources of female power.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 04:59 PM
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Of course it doesn't. But, equality has been forced into every aspect of life where men have the advantage, why not equalize aspects where men are worse off?
/r/PurplePillDebate27/10/17 01:56 PM
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Men don't file complaints cause they know it is a bullshit reason to file complaint for.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 02:51 PM
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She is definitely taking advantage of his situation. But just because someone is taking advantage, doesn't (and shouldn't) make it illegal. At some point, people should take fucking responsibility for their actions, and in this case, as he was active participant it is clear it was something he was doing, not something being done to him.
/r/PurplePillDebate31/08/17 07:45 AM
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How it should be: Incapacitation as in passed out = rape. Incapacitation as in blackout or any other state where desire to have sex is clearly communicated = not rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:43 PM
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Eh, I've had plenty of encounters when I was drunk/on drugs to the point I can't talk and have gotten laid. Have known a lot of other guys in that situation too. Even know one who literally got taken advantage of while passed out. Thing is, I have never heard of anyone involved even attempting to pass that shit as rape. Only cases of rape I heard prosecuted are violent/stranger rape.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 07:41 PM
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First of all, tattoo parlors are a business. Its logical that there be more rules for businesses than regular human interaction. Second, what is penalty for breaking such laws? Is it criminal or civil? Third, significant percent of population had drunk sex at one point in their life. I don't think total number of people with tattoos even comes close to that number and drunks getting tattoos are just a small subset (I imagine, I don't have any real data on tattoos). It is bullshit to make a law t…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 06:30 PM
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So, you agree with AFBB? Cause many don't. As for moral dilemma, I can turn it around and ask, what is guy to do when he finds out his LTR/wife, who is vanilla in bed with him and made him wait for sex, actually had a lot of ONS, did FFM threesomes and anal with exes? As for AWALT, it is much more complicated as a concept. It doesn't say that all women are like that at all times, it says that all women are like that sometimes, that all women have been like that at some point in their life and th…
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 01:35 PM
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Well, I don't think any RP claims to speak for vast majority of people. At best, claims are made about behaviors of vast majority of women. Examples include AFBB or AWALT, yet even those are disputed. You can't dispute a verdict brought by a judge, unfairly expelled student or female (statutory)rapist let go.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 12:27 PM
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Yeah, but from my experience, if you generalize what women want, even if you are right in 99/100 cases, that 1 will be pointed out and focused on and argument will deteriorate how you can't generalize. As for data, there is so much contradictory studies and a lot of things that could/should be researched on gender or race aren't for PC reasons. Courts don't have such luxury, so we can easier see those disparities there.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 10:48 AM
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It is probably cause its easy to discuss laws. Whenever someone talks from experience, doesn't matter if red or blue, there will be accusations of anecdote and demand for scientific sources that support observed behavior patterns. Especially when it comes to generalizing behavior of women. With laws, its easier to find reliable material to support your claim.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/08/17 10:32 AM
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Yeah? I would say that her sole claim was "i was drunk" and that evidence was in his favor (she clearly indicated consent through messages). He was expelled. I don't see how your criteria isn't met?
/r/PurplePillDebate28/08/17 12:00 AM
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Yeah, college guy got expelled from college for fucking a girl when there were messages of her wanting to fuck him (asking him if he had a condom) before going over to his place cause she was drunk.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 11:34 PM
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http://www.esquire.com/news-politics/a33751/occidental-justice-case/
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 10:19 PM
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Can you give some examples? But if you refer to TRP calling women sluts and such, there is difference. When feminists use shaming language to describe men, it is targeted at men, its purpose it to change male behavior. When TRP uses "shaming" language to describe women, it is targeted at men. Its purpose is to change male behavior.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/08/17 10:54 AM
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Yeah, I haven't seen one in years. But, at the time, it was easiest way to get sex and I had some other reasons to do it. Basically, a lot of the guys I am training with see whores on regular basis and it was one of the things Ive started doing to fit in. Never fucked one without a condom, either.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 08:51 PM
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Yes, I mean prostitute. I don't know exact count of them, but I guess around 20.
/r/PurplePillDebate04/07/17 10:22 AM
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Does that word have any other meaning?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 07:33 PM
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I am a guy, 27 years. N-count 57, though there was significant number of whores there.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:44 PM
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I don't lie about anything. It seems really hard for you to wrap your mind around that. As for Muslim example, if she asked and he lied, he is dishonest. If she didn't ask, yet he can infer it is important to her, lack of communication on her part does not constitute obligation of disclosure on his part.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 06:41 PM
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If she asked me to, yes. Related question: Is my gf dishonest if she doesn't give me name list of every guy she slept with? Would you apply same standard to that information, as you apply to my browsing of TRP?
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 04:50 PM
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I have seen women fail to baby trap men, women succeeding in baby trapping men, sluts fucking much older dealers for drugs, bareback. Sluts fucking criminals who give no fucks for them for validation, sluts having trains ran on them etc. Then I have seen those same sluts getting their BB, expecting them to invest 10x more than criminals while giving them 10x less than they used to do. I also never did well with the concept of equal relationship, as I require my space and "real" relationship requ…
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 12:37 PM
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By that logic, every woman who does not volunteer her n count is immoral? Its is all about framing. If someone asked me about TRP(never happened), I would be honest. If conversation leads to TRP topics, I would not lie, but I wouldn't use TRP terminology (which would be hard to do, as English is not my first language and it would translate really bad). No lies involved in any way.
/r/PurplePillDebate03/07/17 08:25 AM
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Do you think not giving full disclosure on something you were never asked about counts as lying?
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 11:06 PM
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There can be reasonable solution, like if custodial parent wants to move away, they have to guarantee other parent 50% of time with children somehow(all holiday times for example, or alternating years for example). If non custodial parent moves away, then burden should be on them to see the child (they should still get as much time as possible, but custodial parent shouldn't have to do as much to accommodate them).
/r/PurplePillDebate02/07/17 02:25 PM
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What, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 09:20 AM
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Yeah, I am not in the US. I just wanted to point out that there are ways to get fucked even without getting married, depending on where you live. And while a lot of countries don't have common law marriage, DV laws should be looked at too. In a lot of places, all it takes is an accusation.
/r/PurplePillDebate01/07/17 09:18 AM
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Don't forget to mention that in a lot of places something called common law(or de facto) marriage exists. Canada and Australia come to mind. It means, in essence, that even though you are not married, when you split up, court can treat you as if you were. Also, this applies if you own your place, kicking someone out can be a pain in the ass. A lot of places have laws that will kick you out of the home you own if your SO accuses you of domestic violence.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 01:42 PM
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Does it matter, in the end? How does a guy know which scenario is he in?
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:06 AM
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Nor is it in man's nature to provide for woman no matter what. Nor is it in man's nature to provide for some other guy's bastard. Yet, there is no issue in forcing men to do both.
/r/PurplePillDebate30/06/17 10:05 AM
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Depends on your criteria. If your criteria is attraction, then yes, most men are shitty. But, if they didn't have something of worth to offer to women, women wouldn't ever be with BB. Edit: Also, to add, that if you look at it from that standpoint, there is nothing wrong for men of value to upgrade to younger model, when their wife hits the wall (commonly shamed as mid-life crisis).
/r/PurplePillDebate29/06/17 09:09 PM
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Bro code = code between bros. Not code between all men. As for fucking taken women, I, in general, avoid it (though it has happened on occasion), cause it is a good way to get killed. On moral aspect of it, relationship is between a man and a woman, not the guy who fucks her.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/06/17 09:37 PM
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6/10, 8/10 body (could improve only if I took steroids). Going by BMI, I am overweight. 3,4) Total number is 57, out of that 4 "serious" relationships (first being in hs). I don't know how much of the other 53 were whores, but I would guess around 20. The rest were mostly ONS and some FWB. What is "social" hobby? Every hobby can have social component, anyway my current hobbies are gym and boxing. No, I was in relationship at the time. I wanted to, but was too comfortable in relationship to break…
/r/PurplePillDebate22/06/17 03:40 PM
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With what, exactly?
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:22 PM
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Benevolent sexism is just a word for female privilege. But, under patriarchy model women don't have privilege and word privilege carries some bad connotations with it, not to mention that using word sexism makes women sound more like victims.
/r/PurplePillDebate15/06/17 04:14 PM
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First of all, the ability to know something is irrelevant to its importance. People slip up a lot. Even if they don't, all that is needed is to catch her in one lie. Also, there is much more info on people now, than in your grandmothers era. Unless a girl in question is very smart and private person, social networks and hdd sweep will give a guy all the info he needs to know.
/r/PurplePillDebate11/06/17 08:19 PM
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To answer your first point, a lot of men will settle for women who don't do those kinds of things. Much less will settle for women who don't do it for them. Issue isn't lack of sex acts, but what it represents.
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 10:03 PM
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Eh, I gave you a data point related to question at hand. Feel free to discard it if it doesn't fit your criteria, but that is the way things work around here (won't give exact country for privacy reasons).
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 09:59 PM
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First of all, I am in Europe (in my country prostitution is illegal for prostitutes). How it works here, most prostitutes are in it either for the money (high unemployment rate, good earning potential as prostitute) or to support their drug habit. I didn't hear anything about trafficking, but it probably happens, in minority of cases. As for pimps, here, every girl is under one. They often start on their own, but when pimps hear about it they take them under their wing (if girls refuse, they get…
/r/PurplePillDebate10/06/17 11:31 AM
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Who knows/cares? Some cyberpunk dystopia probably.
/r/PurplePillDebate09/06/17 10:12 PM
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Yes. I led her to believe our relationship has a future, then dumped her after 2 years. In my defense, she wasn't completely honest with me either.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/06/17 03:23 PM
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Women like what? I go for women I am attracted to. As for the reins, the only reins I hold are my own and I am not willing to hand those over to anyone.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 06:30 PM
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I don't want equal partnership, not because I am opposed to it, but because I bring to the table much more than women I am attracted to. On the other hand, I don't want to be in control of all aspects of relationship, I just want to be able to walk away (with no losses) when some aspect of it doesn't meet my standards.
/r/PurplePillDebate27/05/17 05:36 PM
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What is the point of this post? To say that men don't have it as bad as they say they do in SMV? Cause, if you replace average guy with average girl, halve effort required and keep everything else, she could get to triple digits/month easy.
/r/PurplePillDebate24/05/17 08:40 PM
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18 is fine, but there should be reasonable exceptions/defenses. For example, romeo/juliet laws, then if guy reasonably believes she is over age it shouldn't be a crime (like she lies about the age online or he meets her at 18+ bar/club).
/r/PurplePillDebate30/04/17 08:50 PM
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I am still not there yet, so can't speak from personal experience, but some of my older friends (32-40, none of them has heard of red pill) are saying that women are desperate. They get laid much easier, but most of the women are either carousel riders who couldn't count amount of dick they have taken or single mothers. On the topic of the wall, as I see it, on average women will always have higher SMP than men. But men, especially betas, learn that it sucks and they even get a bit of a boost in…
/r/PurplePillDebate14/04/17 07:48 PM
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Depends on a girl and our relationship. For example, if she plays hard to get I expect her number to be lower. As for n count I would absolutely not consider is any n count higher than mine. Also if she has history of sex work or having sex for drugs. And doing sexual acts with others that she is not willing to do with me (I recognize that people change and grow and blabla, but I accept upgrades only, not downgrades).
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:30 PM
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Its related, I guess, but one thing that always strikes me as odd in English (not my first language) is this sentence structure that is often used by/for women. He/she/it made me feel that way. He got her drunk... etc. I notice that sentence structure is rarely used for men and its only use is to pass the blame.
/r/PurplePillDebate12/04/17 10:15 PM
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The thing is, people are using this word "insecurity" as a bingo. While insecurity can be bad/abusive in relationships (guy controlling his gf every move or girl doing so cause she is afraid of younger/thinner girls etc.), humanity is where it is cause we fucking feel insecure. We built society cause we were insecure on our own, we have jobs cause we are insecure we will make it on our own, we have marriage cause of insecurity of fatherhood for men and insecurity of providership for women. We ha…
/r/PurplePillDebate25/02/17 11:11 AM
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Men have their own exclusive privileges too, such as not having to worry about being assaulted when walking alone at night, or being a lower priority target for criminals. Or being physically able to fend off criminals. That is one of the privileges men get from biology. This is anecdotal, I know, but I know a lot of men who were attacked when walking alone at night. I know none of women who were (to be fair, a lot of them did have unpleasant experiences with strange men, but it never got physic…
/r/PurplePillDebate13/02/17 04:44 PM
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The way you make it sounds it seems like that it's more difficult to be a successful beta than to be a successful alpha. I wouldn't say it is more difficult to be beta, cause what it boils down to, both alpha and betas are behaviors. Alphas exhibit more alpha behavior and betas exhibit more beta behavior. While it is hard to successfully pull off beta behaviors (get a low n count, good looking woman, who loves you, respects you and doesn't cheat/divorce rape you), it is much easier to be beta in…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 02:06 PM
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Listen, its not that I don't believe you. I do. I know a lot of betas that got into successful relationships, some of them are married with kids (I am in my mid 20s). And I believe their gfs/wives genuinely love them/care about them and their sex life is probably OK. Thing is, I also know a guy who only goes after women in relationships, his n-count is high double digits (he has pictures to prove it). Their guys have no idea. I also know reformed sluts, who fucked everyone in HS/university and n…
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 12:35 PM
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Yes, betas are good for women. Issue is, you list things beta invests to get a woman, but what does that woman provide in return? Did she provide the same thing for alpha, free of charge? Thing is, alphas get better treatment for less investment and betas get their sloppy seconds.
/r/PurplePillDebate18/01/17 12:08 PM
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And that is reasonable assumption to make. Thing is, both men and women have "crazy" impulses. I can't count a number of times when I wanted to just go off on someone for some stupid shit, sometimes even just existing, sometimes with violence. Men are just better at suppressing it, probably because they are socialized that way since they were kids, while that "crazy" behavior is excused, even normalized for women - just look at your post "normal, average, hormonal", words that you use to describ…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:32 PM
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Ok, its not easy for women to be happy in relationship. Or single. I don't envy them at all. As a guy, with a plate or two, just doing my thing, I think I am more content than most women.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:29 PM
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I don't mean issue of woman getting laid, that shit is easy. I was thinking of something more long term, hypergamy and all.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:18 PM
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I have no idea. In general, humans suck at intuitive statistical thinking, so I really could not tell you. On top of that, as I mentioned, "crazy" often doesn't rear its ugly head until later in a relationship, so I can't even try to approximate it at first glance. I do know, however, that there are a lot of women who have enough respect for both themselves and their partner to not act "crazy".
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 10:14 PM
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Fair enough, but original complaint was directed at manosphere, which does not (to my knowledge) concern itself with female dating issues.
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 04:13 PM
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Few things. First, what do men have to do with anything? TRP is for men, who pursue women. Therefore, it is not concerned with avoiding bad male partners for romantic relationships. Second, all those women who are called crazy, but aren't by your definition, know how to behave. "Crazy" doesn't come at first date, or anything near it. It comes out later, when she got her hooks in a man and feels more comfortable. It is, more often than not, bait and switch. Third, those "overly emotional" women t…
/r/PurplePillDebate07/01/17 11:31 AM
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Why are you appealing to nature? You want men to compensate women for pregnancy and post all sort of spammy women have it hard so men should compensate. For example, in nature, there is no child support and men can bail on pregnant woman anytime. In fact, its perfectly natural to kill off female offspring with another male to ensure benefit to your own (see lions).
/r/PurplePillDebate17/09/16 10:23 PM
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