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Yup, he was my first boyfriend. For a long time we didn’t think we wanted to have kids. We very much enjoyed life just the two of us, but then after a lot of discussion we decided that we wanted to experience parenthood and realized that we’d be better off having our son while I was in my 20s because of fertility and health reasons. We have one child by choice because we find parenting really difficult even if we love it and we figure we’re better off doing an awesome job raising one kid then do…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 11:32 PM
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Yup. Together 19 years, married for 9.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 09:52 PM
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What counts as high paying?
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 05:27 PM
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Eh, you can have a career and be a mom you just need to do it right. I’ll never be top tier in my career, but I’m in my early 30s with a four year old son and we had a perfect balance before the pandemic struck. Just need to finish your education ASAP and then focus on marriage and family in your mid 20s
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen30/04/20 05:26 PM
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Nah, we’ve been together since we were young teenagers and we’re in our mid 30s now. We have a comfortable income but most of that is my salary. He’s just a kind, smart handsome guy that I snatched up early.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen22/03/20 12:08 AM
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No, as a wife I’m pretty sure I have sex with my husband because we enjoy it. Money doesn’t come into the equation.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen21/03/20 07:28 PM
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When it works, it's great. However the odds aren't in your favor. I'm 9 years married, 19 years together and I don't regret a thing. However, I have seen many marriages fail and often its the man who gets screwed.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 12:21 AM
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I make much more money than my husband, but we started dating in our teens so it's not like he chose me for my money. He chose me because I was pretty and pleasant and madly in love with him. I think most men would do the same.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen25/02/19 12:16 AM
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Hell, even within an amazing relationship having a kid makes it less amazing. Don't get me wrong, my husband and I love our son more than the air we breathe, but we definitely have had to make personal and marriage related sacrifices for his well being. These include: Less spontaneous sex, and often it has to be quick and discreet. Less one on one time with each other before our son goes to bed. Less money, time, energy and freedom in general. We find ways to keep things good, but the sacrifices…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen02/02/19 11:34 AM
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I want to add another layer to the bullshit that is societal expectations for men. My husband went through a period of extended disability where he couldn't work or help much around the house. I make decent money so I supported us financially while he was in the worst of it. It was rough as hell, but it didn't fall under one of my deal breakers (abuse, adultery or addiction) so I did my best to be supportive while managing my own stress levels. But HO-LY Shit you would not believe how shitty thi…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen20/12/18 10:43 AM
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Nova Scotia, Canada
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 01:05 AM
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Well, as a caveat, I haven't ever been single (met and started dating my husband at 14) so any clearly romantic gestures (expensive gifts, invitations out to eat, etc.) are politely refused out of respect for my relationship. But random small gifts all the time, chocolates, coffees, bottles of wine. Men were (are, I suppose) generally pleasant and accommodating and often go above and beyond when I ask for help. If I go out to shovel my driveway, without fail a man with a snowblower will come ove…
/r/MGTOW19/12/18 12:47 AM
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Oh, for sure. My husband was a stay at home dad for a year and when he was out with our 1-year old (at the time) people would hold doors for him and strike up random conversations and let him skip in line and stuff. He said he imagines that's what it must be like to be female and I couldn't refute it.
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:33 PM
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100% true. However, the caveat is that you have to be willing to encourage/exploit it, and most people generally frown upon that shit. There was a balancing act, where you don't wanna be shitty to someone just because they're interested but at the same time don't want to encourage it if you know you're not available. Source: Was a smoke-show when I was younger - now a totally average 31 year old and don't get nearly as much attention lol
/r/MGTOW18/12/18 08:01 PM
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I'm the breadwinner in my marriage, but then I met my husband when we were very young so neither one of us had any sort of financial status. He worked at McDonald's and I worked at Dairy queen lol
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen08/12/18 03:22 AM
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I don't know. My husband and I started dating at 14 and 15 and are still together. There's something to be said about a bond that is forged young. Of course we will always be curious about what else is out there, but ya can't have everything in life and what we have is too great to throw away for a "what if"
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen03/12/18 04:43 PM
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Just sticking under 1200 calories a day seems to work for me. High protein, high fat foods are the most satiating but I still enjoy carbs in my diet. Mostly rice, sweet potatoes and bananas.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/18 12:49 PM
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I'm not sure but perhaps it's because: a) Men are a lot more likely to have enjoyable sex every time they have sex with a woman, even if he's not crazy about her b) In contrast, it's more difficult for a woman to be "into it" and thus truly enjoyable sex with a man is the exception rather than the norm c) As a result of this, if she finds a man that she's sexually compatable with she will really really really be motivated to try and make it work out, especially if he has any other good qualities…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen18/11/18 11:41 AM
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Interesting perspective, it makes sense that everyone will have preferences and you can't exactly hold that against someone. Thanks for the congratulations. I'm not sure that it reflects any particular virtues on my part, just that I was lucky enough to meet a kind, intelligent man at a young age. It hasn't been an easy road and we've had some really rough patches over the years, but we always come through them intact. If I'm very lucky we will have another 40 or 50 years of Rocky patches and go…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/18 02:39 AM
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I don't think asking for further clarification demonstrates inability to see from another perspective. I just think your original point didn't logically connect the two statements. You corrected this by giving additional detail in your follow up message, which I appreciate.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen17/11/18 12:27 AM
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Ok
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 08:54 PM
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I have 500k one for him if I die. Not sure if I have one for me if he dies. Will definitely look into it. Thanks for the advice
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 08:51 PM
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Overweight currently (5'5, 150lbs), was around 130 for most of our relationship. Ballooned to 200 for one very awful summer but quickly dropped it. Aiming to be back around 130 by January.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 08:33 PM
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So wait, it's bad that I'm attracted to my husband? I'm really not sure what point your trying to make here. I'm not trying to be a dick, I just really don't follow.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 08:32 PM
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Ah, well - can't ignore the realities of life, I suppose. I've been lucky enough to find real love once, and suppose it would take a truly unusual stroke of luck to find it a second time. I'll just be grateful I've gotten to have it at all.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:38 PM
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I'm 31, we had our son at 28 and 29 after being married for 4 years and dating for 14. And no, he doesn't make nearly as much as me. He worked and supported me while I got my Masters degree, so it's a fair balance in my mind. He is very handsome, though, although he doesn't seem to think he is.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:33 PM
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Yeah I know several women like that - they meet a new man, become smitten, have their kid within a year and then are SHOCKED to discover he's actually an asshole and then they complain at how unfair life is. You're supposed to ENSURE a man is a good person and would be a good father before you procreate with them. You OWE it to your future children to be picky when it comes to this. He doesn't have to be rich or handsome, but if you're going to designate him as a father to the most important peo…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:29 PM
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Hm, that's interesting. My husband and I both love our son more than each other, but we also love each other very much. It's different kinds of love, though. If I could have a whole day to hang out with one of them: my husband for sure. Our son is amazing, but my husband won my heart on his own merits, not just because he is my offspring :P On the other hand, if both of them fell off a boat and I could only save one, I would have to choose my son. I feel a greater obligation for care and protect…
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:15 PM
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No, I make 80k a year so money wouldn't be the issue. I married him because he was a good man with a good heart and because I (correctly) thought he'd be a great father not because of financial reasons.
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 07:12 PM
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I've been with my husband since I was 14 and we have a 3 year old son. If my husband got hit by a bus tomorrow and a few years down the road I've finished mourning and decide to date again, would I be condemned to eternal solitude? In this scenario, I would: a) Be past my prime in terms of age, looks and fertility (I'm 31 and decently pretty, but not compared to what I looked like in my early 20s when we wed) b) Have a child. c) Have no idea how the dating world works cause I've literally never …
/r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen16/11/18 06:24 PM
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Ehh, I'm not sure I agree that women are unable to modulate their emotions. I think we are more likely to be hit with strong emotions, but like anything else in life you just learn to manage them and not let them affect your decision making. I can definitely see the value in having someone faithful and caring, but young and virginal isn't something I really understand,from the perspective of a woman. If a man told me he wanted a wife who was young and virginal I would think that he wanted a plac…
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 10:55 PM
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I've always been confused by the used up thing. I've only had one sexual partner, but my sister has had her fair share. She didn't want to get married until she got her career squared away, do you think she should have remained celibate for the entire time while she completed her studies? She practices safe sex, is always faithful when in a relationship, and is always honest and upfront when she only wants a sexual relationship. She enjoys sex, and she's dated long term, but she refuses to strin…
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 09:57 PM
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I ask questions because I didn't understand and wanted to see why my perceptions didn't match up with what I've been reading here. Most people I know who have gotten divorced got married for the wrong reasons. Married for beauty, married too quickly, married because someone got knocked up etc. Etc. I don't think I've ever seen a situation where someone had made an intelligent choice in spouse and was later screwed over by it. By intelligent choice I mean the other person is kind, responsible, he…
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 09:46 PM
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The wife
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 08:07 PM
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Thanks for sharing your story. It's definitely something everyone in modern western society has to contend with. My dad always wanted me to marry a rich man. My sister and I are both decently pretty and educated (I'm a statistician, she's an engineer) so he thought we were both going to marry the richest men we could find. It's had the opposite effect. We earn all the money we need and are comfortable, why would we focus on finding someone rich? I married my childhood sweetheart for love, my sis…
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 07:25 PM
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/r/MGTOW28/06/18 07:07 PM
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This makes sense. It's kind of sad to think about but I see your reasoning.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:53 PM
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You're wrong. I make 75k a year on me own and have been the breadwinner for most of our relationship. I've been with him since I was 14, love him dearly, and haven't left even though Ive had other men pursue me. I was raised right. You just don't want to admit good women exist because it sheds light on the cracks in your worldview. If the mods want to delete my post, they can.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:50 PM
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I'm in my 30s and married with a son. I have a masters degree and make a good income. With my husband for 17 years, married for 7. I feel decently qualified to at least discuss long term relationships.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:46 PM
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I'm free to ask questions, you're free to ignore them. I'm not trying to manipulate anyone, just present a different view. I'm open to discussion or dismissal, whichever you'd rather.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:34 PM
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Why wouldn't we be capable of it? I've been with my husband for years and I love him dearly. He's a good man and a good father.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:21 PM
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My partner is my husband. I'm the wife and I've never cheated.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:20 PM
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/r/MGTOW28/06/18 06:00 PM
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I'm happily married with a son. Together 17 years, married 7. I guess I've just been lucky and don't see the struggles a lot of people have faced. I wish you the best either way.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 05:56 PM
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Wouldn't you fuck attractive women all the time if you could? Of course you would.
/r/MGTOW28/06/18 05:45 PM
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My husband is a stay-at-home dad and he's awesome at it. I was off for a year on mat leave so I got to enjoy my time with our son, now it's his turn. When he turns two we will probably put him in daycare during the week, but for now this works for us.
/r/MensRights24/05/17 02:47 PM
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I dunno, I have plenty of friends who work in nursing homes and 90% get a visit every other week, if that. The odds are your kids are going to be taking care of their own families and won't be able to care for you, and you'll be left in the hands of strangers who are equipped to deal with your medical needs. Also, sacrificing 20+ years of your life so that your last few can be less shitty? Seems like a bad trade off. Having kids just so someone will take care of you when you're old? Sounds like …
/r/TheRedPill16/03/14 04:07 PM
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Um, people still date and have sex in their 40s. Not everyone wants kids
/r/TheRedPill12/03/14 09:39 PM
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If more people really knew what parenthood was like, they wouldn't have kids.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 11:40 PM
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Cause having no kids, making lot of money and having tons of sex is awesome. Not all women want to be baby machines.
/r/TheRedPill11/03/14 11:39 PM
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You're reading too much into it. I only meant it bothered me seeing him so down in the dumps and sad about it. I felt bad for and empathized with him.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 09:24 PM
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Among the single ones: Half and half - some of them really suck at relationships because they are selfish and are trying to "maximize their benefits" when it comes to finding a mate. The other half are genuinely nice people who just want to love someone but aren't entirely sure of what the process entails. Among the married/dating ones: Most of the unhappy ones just need to show the same love to their partners as they do their friends and kids. The ones that are happy make each other a priority …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 08:01 PM
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I got the job because I have a research-based masters degree, 6 years of previous experience as a researcher, and because the job is in a middle-of-nowhere town that no one else wanted to move to :p Not saying my uterus might not have played a role, but I was overqualified for the position to begin with and no one else wanted it.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:49 PM
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I'm not gunna lie, it helps that my husband is handsome so yes instincts do play a role in it. Even though I don't want kids, my biology tells me to selfishly hog all the good genes :P
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:47 PM
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They'll probably think the same - he's pretty handsome :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:43 PM
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Have faith, I'm sure someone will see your awesomeness. Maybe try to be a little less racist :P
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:32 PM
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I'm starting to think that maybe, in both men and women, there aren't that many people who are really worth loving...
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:03 PM
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You make a lot of really good points. You're right in the sense that I would probably be more impressed by a more successful man and find his ambition attractive. But I still think that I'd choose a good man who was poor over someone who was rich but didn't mesh with me as well. I'm really frugal and have a hard time spending money (seriously, my idea of treating myself is buying a $12 nail polish lol) so I don't really think having more money would make me any happier, whereas having someone I …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 07:00 PM
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Somewhat important. I have an outgoing personality and I love entertaining and conversing with people and I also have enough vanity to value how other's perceive my personal appearance. I like when people like me and I like when people think I'm pretty. I just won't disrespect my husband or myself to get these things. I'll just...y'know, put on mascara or something lol
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:56 PM
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My parents followed a similar path to my husband and I - they met in high school and dated seriously (breaking up once for a six month period, I believe) until mom got pregnant with me at 25 and they married three months into her pregnancy. They're not rich by any stretch of the imagination, but they get along and are happy together. Dad flirts with mom like she was a gorgeous 18 year old (she's pretty, but she is still 50 after all), and Mom has nothing but good things to say about him and his …
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:51 PM
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He's not beta, though. Everyone respects and looks up to him, myself included. I've had plenty of men profess their unrequited love in the last 12 years, but not one of them is half the man he is. A woman should be able to see a man's real worth, not his net worth. I'm the most frugal woman you'll ever meet, so even if he made a ton of money I wouldn't spend any differently or make any real difference in my life.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:47 PM
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It's all about thinking of the long term. Since my husband and I have been together I've had a handful or ardent suitors who have tried to take me away. To be honest, there were times that it was pretty damn tempting (fighting with the husband at the time, the guy hitting on me is a close friend, rough patch in life), but I just kept reminding myself "These guys are only acting all perfect and nice because they're trying to win me over - if I had been with them for ten years they'd probably be c…
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:18 PM
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I think that's a big part of it - even though he's not necessarily a financial "catch", he's confident and kind and the sort of person someone can happily be around for life. I know if I left him he'd have a beautiful woman by his side within a fortnight.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:07 PM
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Think King Leonidas and the Queen from the movie 300 - he always consults me for my views and opinions, but in the end I leave the final decisions up to him. I trust him enough to do what's best for us.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:04 PM
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That's where loyalty comes in. We've been through our rough patches (unemployment, depression, etc.) and I haven't wanted to stray even though I had the option to. I don't see my views changing out of mere boredom.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 06:02 PM
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Haha, yes. Haven't played in a while but night-elf druids were always my favorite spec.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:05 PM
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Try looking for childfree women - we're out there and growing in numbers :)
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 05:01 PM
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Thanks, will take link down.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:59 PM
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I think that's exactly what the subreddit is doing well - too many men are bullied by women. I think part of the reason my relationship was lucky enough to survive is because my husband doesn't tolerate any bullshit from me, so I know what his boundaries are and I respect him for having a spine. More men need to know their own worth, and be appreciated for their inherent value as men.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:58 PM
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I'm decently pretty, but I'm sure if he wasn't with me he could probably have found hotter. I dunno, I think he's happier being with someone who loves him and living with a comfortable income than he would be dating a perfect 10.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:56 PM
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It's just a figure of speech. He's awesome in the sense that he's funny, caring and a genuinely good guy. He's kind to his family, considerate of others and always stands up for himself - he won't take shit from anyone, least of all me, so I respect him as well as love him. I'm not looking for validation, I just wanted an answer to my question and I used my own experience as an example of the kind of situation I was talking about.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:54 PM
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I can't - I live in a small rural-ish area and I haven't been able to find a doctor that will do it since I'm under 30 and don't have kids. My husband was only able to get his vasectomy by lying and saying we had 3 kids.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:52 PM
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/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:51 PM
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When we first started dating I was easily an 8, but now as I near my late twenties I'm closer to a 6.5 or a 7. I have a really nice face, good skin and blonde hair, but I've put on about 15 lbs since we tied the knot so I'm no longer as toned as I used to be. Working to correct that now.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:46 PM
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We're vehemently childfree - he's had a vasectomy and I have an IUD as backup.
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:44 PM
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But it's harder to find someone with whom you're compatible with than it is to find someone who makes good money. The benefit of being financial stable is that you have the luxury to seek out a mate based on their attractiveness and compatibility, rather than based on their income. So why wouldn't I give him the time of day because he doesn't make much money if his financial status means nothing to me?
/r/TheRedPill23/12/13 04:12 PM
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