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NAH, SISkurikuri7/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:18 PM
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Preach. That’s my first thought. Practice? For what? Waste my time? No thanks.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/22 12:00 AM
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Nope. These aren’t men trying to be your friend. These are men trying to be friendly in hopes of gaining more. Just a tip, if they are messaging you on IG, you can restrict their profiles. When they message you, you can view their message and they will not see that you’ve viewed their message so it looks like it’s been unread… AKA you’re busy. No need to reply. They will eventually stop (hopefully). And also, you can block them from seeing your insta-stories… so you look like you’re barely on In…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy01/04/22 04:29 PM
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Every guy I’ve been talking to on dating apps have been SO boring and non-engaging. Anything more than a week I just unmatch, or stop responding as a whole. I don’t need another text mate. I have enough friends to text bs to.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/03/22 12:27 AM
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Omg I had an ex who was a complete cheapskate but when it came to ME, he insisted on paying for our meals and even bought me a car when I really needed one! I ended the relationship eventually because he couldn’t see himself marrying me, even tho he really loved me, was the love of his life, and that he didn’t need marriage. I told him I did, and we broke up. That’s that.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy04/03/22 05:41 PM
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Omg this is great. What a coined term! 🤩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy09/02/22 09:18 PM
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This is so so helpful. Thank you. I have the biggest crush on this stupid man and Im having the hardest time moving on from him. The hardest hardest time. Every other guy I’ve dated after him and then some, I have easily dumped and moved on to live my wonderful life but he always creeps back into my thoughts. I haven’t felt this way about someone (crushing hard) since I was in high school. I am a woman in my early 30s with my great life and yet this ONE thing is hindering me continuously. I’ll k…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/02/22 08:02 AM
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My worst break up was with my exhusband. I’ve never been more gaslit or manipulated or used in any relationship I’ve been in my whole life. Really opened my eyes to what a piece of shit he was at the end. I’m still friends with my exes (not close but civil and we catch up on very rare occasions) but my ex husband? I’m never wasting time or energy on him again. End. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/01/22 10:25 PM
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I do this too. I usually just end things early when I know I’m not interested. The men I’ve dated usually appreciate my honesty and leave me alone. No one has bothered me so far
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/01/22 08:16 AM
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Yep!! A guy I dated NEVER called me by my real name. Only a nickname I created “Kay” which was the first initial of my real name, on dating apps. Usually when I finally meet someone from OLD, I tell them my real name. But noooo, not this guy. We ended up just being friends and he kept calling me Kay for MONTHS, although I kept correcting him time and time again. I finally put my foot down and decided that I’m not gonna take his shit and told him to call me my real name. He decides to shit test m…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy19/01/22 03:15 AM
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What a fucking asshole.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:19 PM
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Bruhhh guys say this to me all the time too and I’m like “I know what I look like. Thanks.” 🤣🤣🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/01/22 04:04 AM
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Good ole days? They can’t even provide these days what men did back in the “good ole days.” All the men i have been meeting can’t even hold a job down, haven’t finished college, and have emotional issues that you don’t even want to be near! And if they do start to look good on paper, they don’t treat you right and start acting like hot shit!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/01/22 07:23 AM
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It’s the audacity of men in America. Ridiculous.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 11:15 PM
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Oh this is a good one. Dated a guy who made almost no money but would always buy everything for me. Gifts, food, groceries, etc. He knew he couldn’t afford it but really insisted that he covered these things for me. Edit / Add-On: This ex even knew how much I made/what my salary was. I make a decent 6-digit salary a year and he STILL insisted in paying for things. Edit / Add-On 2: There seem to be some lurkers who say that I milked my ex of his money. Absolutely not. Why would I do that when I h…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/12/21 10:54 PM
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Thank you. We’re divorced now. Good riddance.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy03/12/21 07:25 AM
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What a bunch of crybabies. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:03 PM
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Mine too. AND I CLEANED IT UP FOR HIM. Never going to be that fool again.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 11:00 PM
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THANK YOU for this post OP. I am currently trying to get out of this obsession I have with a current gamer. All of you ladies have described him to a T in this whole thread and it’s opening my closed eyes and seeing past my rose-colored glasses I have for this man. My current crush is 29, masters educated, career-successful, has a six-figure salary, stable long-term job, own place, own car, and not to mention he is also handsome as fuck (every time I see him I become utterly useless) and tall (6…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 10:17 PM
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WTF is this pickme talking about?? I go to bed at 1am, excuse me. But you know.. the rest of my day is filled with work, family, and friends. But then I prop myself into bed around 10pm, have my nightly routine, put on something to watch, and cuddle my dogs.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 07:58 PM
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I liked the movie but really disliked that they made the women in the other world act like men. It was weird. What’s the point of a woman if she ACTS like a man? (Unless she wanted to then that’s cool, but all of the women in the movie acted the way we hate the way men act/behave)
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy02/12/21 03:53 AM
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I agree! Im recently divorced (1+ year now) and I’ve just been living my life. Im super selective about who takes me out and will not settle for “come over to my place.” If I’m going to have a causal a One night stand, it will be on my terms.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:31 AM
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I hope not. I hope these women who don’t know their self worth figure out their self worth and leave these men to rot in their self-made loneliness.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:24 AM
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Ew!!!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/11/21 12:21 AM
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I’ve only ever dated outside of my race. I’ve never dated within my race, but honestly, none of that really matters. You want someone who will treat you with respect and there are assholes EVERYWHERE in every culture.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/11/21 05:36 PM
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Omg I’ve been with guys with big ones and they think that’s enough to qualify them to be good in bed. NIGHTMARE! Lol they think they no longer have to put any effort. 🤣🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 06:05 AM
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In my experience with men, if they consider themselves a god in bed, they’re definitely not.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/10/21 04:26 AM
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This was my sisters exNVM. Always paraded that things are 50/50 when it comes to relationships. What he really meant was it was only 50/50 when it serviced him. When it serviced my sister?? Why did he have to to xyz for her?? It didn’t make sense to him. She dumped his ass. She literally got anxiety and panic attacks being with this dude.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:43 AM
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Same! I’m extremely low maintenance. I don’t have expensive brand names in bags or shoes, don’t care much for materialistic things… but baby, bring me to a nice restaurant and beautiful trips. That’s where I splurge or should be splurged on ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:39 AM
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Lmao “discovered” 🤣
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:37 AM
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The more I read his post the more I heard “Look at me!! I’m just further explaining what a piece of shit I am and that my girlfriend has been amazing to me and FOR me from the get go! She wants ring that she’s obviously worth?? I THINK NOT!” As this asswipe stomps his foot on the ground. What a waste of space.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/10/21 07:28 AM
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He’s willing to start intimacy just so he can receive it from her. But once he’s getting it from her, he won’t reciprocate back so essentially he’s getting what he wants by doing the bare minimum.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:01 PM
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I. Fucking. Love. This.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/10/21 07:00 PM
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Same! I thought I was the problem! 100%!! It took me a lot of therapy and a divorce to see that he also contributed to our marital problems. Im constantly working on myself and trying to be a better human for myself. I know that my ex husband still thinks his shit don’t stink.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy20/10/21 07:39 AM
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This was my situation at 31. I thank my lucky stars everyday HE left ME. I was too in love to see it at the time but I’m 1000x happier now. He left because I had an attitude towards him. No wonder I did. I DID IT ALL. I was exhausted and overworked. Not anymore. I’m thriving 🌻
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/10/21 12:12 AM
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I am absolutely in love with all of my grandparents. I would do anything for them.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/09/21 07:03 PM
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Dry vagina is right. My exhusband would complain and wonder why I never pursued him sexually or never initiated sex. I couldn’t. He sat on his ass all day playing video games, while I worked full time, grocery shopped, came home to cook us dinner, and do all the chores. He would only ever lift a finder coz I had to ASK him to do things. If i didn’t ask him to do something, he would be sitting down all day. Dry vagina is right.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy27/09/21 07:57 AM
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I don’t understand why the hell they ask if you’re interested in seeing him… and then expects YOU to do the rest of the planning. Like wtf… I met this one guy who was all “I’m so interested to know more about you” and I’m like.. why? Then he said he just wants to know me more and become close. So I said.. sure. Then he tells me “ok, tell me about yourself. Start. Go.” Like… WTF?! No. Go away.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/09/21 01:50 AM
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They want their cake and eat it too!! Nope!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 05:32 PM
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I did this with an ex. He was so adamant on staying friends after ending things. I wasn’t up to it but we kept in light contact here and there and sometimes he wouldn’t answer. One day I REALLY needed him (we became best friends when we were dating too) and he didn’t answer me. Not my text, not my call. I finally gave him one last text coz I was driving home and realized… this guy said he will always be there for me.. and he has proven to me that he isn’t. This doesn’t serve me. So I texted him …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/09/21 09:45 AM
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Omfg my ex husband was this. We went 50/50 on everything since the very beginning. I was fine with it at the time (foolish me) because I wanted to prove to myself that I didn’t need a man and I can carry my own weight. Eventually during our marriage, I carried more than my weight — I carried our weight. It became… “can you wash the dishes?” “Can you take out the trash” “can you be a partner” and I got SO frustrated and he eventually turned it around on me and told me that I didn’t need to get an…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy16/09/21 03:46 PM
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Yep!! My ex did the same thing. Used to text me soooo much and replied within reasonable timing. Near the end, he did not reply for at least 12 hours sometimes and everyday it was playing a guessing game of … was he gonna contact me today or leave me on read today?? And we were together for 7 months!! He was so lovely in the beginning of our relationship ship and I started to noticed him weaning off and contacting me less so I asked why and if everything was okay and he said I was nitpicking! He…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/09/21 07:07 AM
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When you know they try hard, don’t even let them get hard for you. Boy bye. My ex said something similar. That “were the same person.” So SIMPLE. But he was right. We were the same person. We had that connection. Too bad it didn’t work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/08/21 06:16 PM
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These are great. Thank you!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy26/08/21 08:22 AM
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Lmaooo
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy22/08/21 12:16 AM
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Yep! This was a conversation on OLD today Male: hello Me: hello, how’s your day today? Male: I’m hanging out at the pool of a hotel come join me ;) Me: No thank you 🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄🙄
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/08/21 08:26 AM
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I dated a guy who seemed HVM. Super gentlemanly, always dressed to the 10s, clean well kept hair, opened doors for me, dropped me off to my car, yadda yadda. After a couple of dates I told him I wasn’t feeling well so I needed a couple of days. 3 days pass by and instead of asking me how I was, he texted me “so what’s up?” A complete different demeanor from who he was in person and our usual texting banter. I immediately felt turned off and told him that “I gave it some thought and decided that …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/08/21 09:01 AM
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Be careful with marrying a man with a successful career. I married a man with a successful career but that was all he was good for. He did not clean up after himself, never cooked, never cleaned, always was on his ass at home, playing games, etc. We’re not married anymore (thank goodness) I believe that if you ever decide a partner would ADD to your life, he just needs goals and passions and is also a good partner in a lot of other aspects.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy15/08/21 05:57 PM
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Omfg I just dated a Jeff and we broke up because he said he was too depressed and needed to work on himself… after 7 months of dating! 😩
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy08/08/21 07:34 AM
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Oh man, if people have friends like this, they aren’t friends. Majority of my girlfriends are constantly bringing each other up and always going “ooouuuuu girlllll” when one dresses to the 10s while they themselves are in hoodies coz they felt “lazy” that day. It’s just lovely to have that type of support and vise versa.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/08/21 05:52 AM
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EW!! This was my ex husband!! Good riddance!!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy06/08/21 07:55 AM
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I felt this.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy05/08/21 08:12 AM
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Lost so much weight, got a job promotion almost DOUBLING my pay, started to reconnect with friends again, living my life how I want to live it, less cleaning up, less chores, no more worrying if he was happy (this was his job to do but he told me that it was MY job to make him happy! What BS), less groceries, healthier eating, looking way WAY better, more time for myself, happier, less stressed, spending money on myself to feel better (skin products, therapy, better food, etc.), taking trips WHE…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/07/21 10:53 PM
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That’s the problem with today’s society right? If you were a woman that had an opinion, stood up for herself, or is assertive in what she wanted in life or her career, you were seen as a bitch majority of the time. I grew up with surrounding myself with comments like “Kurikuri7 is such a bitch” but I embraced it. As soon as I embraced it, I felt respected and the tone that I was known as a bitch… I became a respected bitch. I did not end up with any of my exes but they were all at least good men…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/07/21 03:30 PM
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Burn the sheets. Throw the man.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 09:37 PM
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She’s not picky. He’s picky with his boogers tho. 😂
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy25/07/21 07:22 PM
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It’s not. I was also married and divorced and honestly would take my sweet ass time the next time around and by MY standards and timing. That’s the most important thing, I believe. I’m a free, independent woman, and do not need a time frame for a proposal from a man. If he does, great. If he doesn’t, I’ll communicate my needs and see where that goes.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy23/07/21 05:03 PM
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Well said and simply put! You described my ex to a tee. Like I have said many many times before. My ex wanting divorce opened my eyes and has liberated me! Cheers to my new life! Free and happy!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy11/05/21 07:17 PM
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This was exactly it. He was spoiled. But not in your typical way spoiled but a different kind of spoiled. He was the first born male of a long, family line. He was handsome, successful, funny, but man he was not a good partner. He was spoiled. I can’t knock him for working hard to get where he is successfully when we met, but he was spoiled and well loved by his parents. Idk where it went wrong. He’s now living back with his mother and is jobless for over a year now. I’m not sure where it went w…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 02:28 PM
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This one was a complete knocker for me. My ex husband’s parents were lovely and shared household duties and divided everything. My ex... not so much. It’s like he didn’t observe the symphony his parents created together. I would be over at the in-laws when we were married, see the dad clean up after the wife as she Waltz around the house, and I looked at that, then at my ex and asked him...”how come you’re not like that???” Then he would just laugh and joke. Fortunately, the trash took himself o…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy10/05/21 10:17 AM
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This was also my ex husband. I should have factored this into our marriage before we got married. But to my credit, I did tell him that he needed to be picking up after himself and us when we get married. (That totally didn’t happen) He was treated like a king when we were at his family’s. He didn’t have sisters or anything of the sort, but he would sit at the dining table, while everyone else was prepping the food and getting the table ready — which also included me helping (I was raised to hel…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 05:20 PM
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This. I relate to this 100%! My ex-husband really made me feel like I was in full control of our marriage. And by control, that meant I was controlling and that I dictated our lives, when in reality, I was just trying to move us forward while he sat on his ass and waited for me to wait on him. I was so blindsided by this comment he told me about myself because I am absolutely positive that I’ve always asked and VALUED his opinions in our life decisions. Yet... I was the controlling one. I’m savi…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 06:22 AM
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Thank you love! The anger. I also wasn’t an angry person. I’m a much better person now.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy29/04/21 02:00 AM
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I was married once. I was so in love with my ex-husband that I was consistently doing the pickme dance. I was both the breadwinner and a housewife. We did not have kids, despite him asking for children in our second year of marriage -- I told him flat out, 'NO.' That time, I told him I was focused on my career -- when looking at myself now, I said no because I knew I wasn't ready to take care of 2 children -- him and ours. I'm so glad I said no. He asked ME for divorce in our 5th year of marriag…
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/04/21 09:37 PM
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Yay!! Amazing achievements!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:48 AM
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I’m just gonna freeze my eggs. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy21/04/21 06:46 AM
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I’ve been with my dude for over 3 months now I think? He stays with me for long lengths of time (24/7 for a month one time! Lol) but then gives me the space I need when I need it.... I appreciate that he’s been patient with me.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:57 AM
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SAME! I found a partner that is low pressure and provides fantastic sex and he’s a great person to be around. We have a lot of fun just being together without the pressure of a relationship. It’s been good so far and I’ve been keeping it honest with him and letting him know I’m not ready for anything serious and he hears me out. There have been slip ups from him when he asks what we are and I just tell him I like where we are and that things are good. For once, I feel like the male-counterpart. …
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy17/04/21 03:36 AM
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My ex, also had a receding and thinning hairline. Explains a lot. 💁🏻‍♀️
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy13/04/21 06:50 PM
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For me, apps just went downhill. It started out great with the first guy I met from the app to in person (were still together, dating.. it’s going well). I had the apps for about 3 weeks and it was absolute shit. The quality in men just became shittier and shittier and the dates became worse and worse. After my third in-person meeting, called it quits, disabled my profile and deleted everything. Continued to date the first dude and we’re still doing well. I consider it luck. Lol
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 08:42 PM
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Ooooof never thought of it this way but I think you’re right!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 01:09 AM
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I fucking loooooove this whole this. This whole post. YOU ARE A KWEEN!! 👸🏻👑 Preach preach preach preach. I was also the higher income earner in my previous marriage. (Single now) and now I’m earning what we BOTH made combined. Ladies, were all worthy and can climb up up up. Without someone dragging us down!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy12/04/21 12:59 AM
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Lol! Divorced at 31, just turned 32. All within 3 months. ✨
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy07/04/21 06:13 AM
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Ugh! I dated a guy ONCE, went to his apartment, it was disgusting. Absolutely disgusting. Not just messy disgusting but CRUSTY disgusting. Ended the date right then and said I had something to do. Texted him that it wasn’t going to work out.
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy28/02/21 01:49 AM
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Never had a girlfriend and they are ages 30-35?! Yikes!! Run far far away ladies!
/r/FemaleDatingStrategy30/01/21 06:10 PM
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