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| 1 | Children need Dads and Fathers. My 47F neighbor is hiring a 29M to come over and attempt to impregnate her on a monthly basis. Am I old fashion or is this crazy?Yes but not Lesbian relationships, just lesbians in general, many of who were married to a man once upon a time and often they were hatecrimed for coming out as lesbians. Yes anyone can abuse anyone but that study is very boad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/05/25 09:15 PM |
| -1 | Why do so many gay men get along with straight women?Confirms my suspicions - half or more if cishet guys ar only friends if they think they MIGHT have a chance with woman | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/03/24 12:45 AM |
| 2 | How comfortable are you dating someone that uses drugs?Buddy I'm sure a load of western young people don't wanna be around that. I don't even wanna be around heavy drinkers and smokers! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 03:22 PM |
| 18 | Nobody ever died from the house not being perfectly clean and tidy all the time, yet women's complaints that the man doesn't help around the house enough are taken super seriously, but a man is called a selfish asshole if he complains about lack of sexStagnant water could breed mosquitoes and they could kill you with Malaria or Dengue or Zika. You could trip over stuff on the floor, fall down the stairs, and break your neck. You are not entitled to touching someone else's body OR living in their house if you do not have basic decency. I'm not saying preform open heart surgery in the tub clean, but you should not have to be careful when walking around or have any strange mouldy things in the sink. Green potato gas can kill and orphaned a littl… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/23 03:05 PM |
| 11 | Do you think older, single, childless, "cat ladies" are largely happy or not?We can also vote, get paid ( arguably ) equally, have our own bank accounts, and own our own property that we buy! So much less of a man needed as well. A lot of marriages were for convenience. A study showed that happily single women were the happiest demographic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 09:46 PM |
| – | Why do women pick the worst partners?Also their friendships and teenage relationships! A shitty boyfriend at 16 or being bullied in middle school might make them think they deserve less / any romantic relationship they could get because they are undesirable and should be happy and greatful. People with healthy and happy parents get that behaviour modeled to them and can see when their own partner is good. If you don't want your potential child to grow up like your parther, your partner isn't good enough! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/23 12:46 PM |
| 1 | Watching people be unaware of their type is funny.Yes that too! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 06:59 PM |
| 2 | Watching people be unaware of their type is funny.Manic depression is a mentall health thing but yes, most men don't like the depression side of us ( neither do we ) however they get so mad and agressive instead of being sympathetic and supportive because we can't be fun and risky ' manic ' ppl all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/12/23 06:59 PM |
| 11 | Watching people be unaware of their type is funny.I'm a 5ft tall asian with an alternative style and knee length hair. Objectively pretty to guys. But the type of guy who often persues me want a manic pixie dream. But they don't wanna deal with the neurodivergence and mental illness downsides that often come with people like me. I think a LOT of people only think of ' what I want ' but not what comes with the full person. Girls might want a guy who pays everything but do they want someone who can financially control and coerce them and take awa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 10:15 PM |
| 1 | Watching people be unaware of their type is funny.A lot if girls who are hot to men are not going to be church girls saving themselves for marriage. I hope he likes natural or no makeup, long skirts, and covered shoulders! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/12/23 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?not everyone is horny for you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/22 09:36 AM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?Not everyone has that especially with the internet. There are good and bad jobs though. It's hard work! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?That's the point of a buisness yes. Goods and / or services are exchanged for money in this case. I as the ' dentist ' do not really want friendship with my ' patients ' and nor do most other dentists. It's a job. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:00 PM |
| 1 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?So does sw! Can you promote, film, edit, do your books, and have your own businesses that also takes a huge mental and physical tole? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 09:53 AM |
| -4 | Q4W: What is a low value woman to you?So what about your daughter doing construction? Don't want her to use her body to build something for everyone to use? Sure, a lot of people have no choice but a lot of people do it by choice as well! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/22 07:52 AM |
| 1 | Q4ALL straight men and women who are single. Why are you not dating your attractive single friend of the opposite sex?I don't go into friendships because I might get to date that person so I don't feel romantic attraction to them also I'm pan. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/09/22 09:58 AM |
| 1 | CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of childrenNo, but this is as fair as can be on paper. However, I do this but I also love my SO so I do pay for fun stuff and also save. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/05/22 03:36 PM |
| 1 | CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of childrenYea so if rent was 100£, I'd pay 25£ and the spouse would pay 75£. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/05/22 04:46 AM |
| 12 | CMV: If the man makes far more money in a "marriage", the female should do the vast majority of home labor/chores/taking care of childrenYea - if his wage pays a house cleaner for instance. I'm more or a time person - if we both work the same amount of time, we pay bills in equal percentages and split the housework down the middle. Like don't you BOTH live there? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/05/22 05:29 PM |
| 2 | Ex-RP'er here: Thought I found the perfect girl, shit got weird. Whose perspective makes more sense? Red or Blue?I'm a master's student and my boyfriend works. If she has finals in a few weeks she might just be suuuuuuuper stressed and busy. I feel awful when I can't be with and reply to my bf because of work but it is a future thing that is good for me and I know he understands that I love him even if I don't have so much time for him. You need to be more understanding and less sexually pushy. You said you had good personality chemistry so why not work on that? She seems super smart and pretty but surely … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/04/22 09:47 AM |
| 1 | Divorce attorney says that in 13 years of practice, the women who were her most difficult or litigious were the SAHMs.It's better to become a lawyer than date a lawyer for that salary since if anything happens, they have a leg up with their other lawyer friends and knowing the law better than most as well as having seen many examples in court. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/04/22 10:41 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed?It is, that's what I'm saying. Like getting a prenup isn't just for divorce - what about death, disability, coma / injury, or mental health crisis? You don't want the state to have your stuff and you want your partner to be in control right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/02/22 12:53 AM |
| 1 | What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed?That's usually because they want financial independence, need to for finances, or want to have a safety net for if something happens to the partner. Like, it isn't the best to only have one income unless there are enough savings to live comfortably and prep for an emergency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 06:27 PM |
| 2 | What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed?What do you mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/02/22 11:26 AM |
| 3 | What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed?what are u on mate i'd rather have financial security n independence - what if my partner lost their job? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 3 | What are some of the expectations of women in dating/sex/relationships that you would like to see changed?Yea because women want their own independence and bank accounts! Men always paid because women couldn't open their own bank account. Women got more independence and freedom when they could have their own place and buy their own things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/02/22 04:48 PM |
| 2 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?He's not broke, I just expect to make more money. He has ambition and everyone does different things at different times. I would always want to at least have the option of supporting myself even if I married a billionaire just for safety's sake and so I wouldn't have to ask for money. We are both young and we are both still learning and growing and finding our paths in life. You just sound jaded and selfish at this point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/22 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I am not a man. I would love him regardless of if the law was involved. I'd marry him if he wanted me to or just stay together forever anyway without the certificates. We've talked. If it helps with immigration ( international couple ) such as me becoming a PR in his country and him getting a green card for mine or job stuff such as spousal benefits on insurance, then we'll do it. Neither of us wants a big ceremony. This is why prenups are important - and if something happens to one of us! I wan… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 07:58 PM |
| 3 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?Different strokes for different folks I suppose. I'll be graduating with an MA and my family is fairly connected. I don't expect to be making bank with six figures right after graduation but I bet I'll make more than my bf who doesn't have a degree but works. The thing is, he's a lovely guy and I don't care that our salaries are gonna be different. I'm with him because I love him, not because I love his money. I want to never have to rely on another person to pay my own way in the world. If he m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 06:49 PM |
| 2 | Do most men actually want to be with a traditional woman?I'd rather the person be working and ambitious than match or outperform my salary. If we split the bills by paying matching percentages into a joint account it wouldn't matter as much and love is very important. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/02/22 04:43 PM |
| 0 | Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn?Whack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/09/21 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Why should a woman choose to date a man she knows is using porn?Most people use porn but you can't touch or have an intimate emotional connection with someone on screen. They chose you. Stop being insecure. If it IS a problem, then maybe they aren't relationship material. Why would you decide to be with someone who doesn't view you as their number one? Relationships built on love and trust last, if you are always suspicious it isn't healthy for you either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/09/21 11:18 AM |
| 7 | Romance as depicted by media has set more unrealistic expectations in men than in women.Yea for real! If a guy did ' movie hottie courtship ' where he love bombs and is infatuated so he stalks her and such even when she says no, he just comes off as a creep. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/21 06:09 PM |
| 5 | People are underestimating the popularity of the childfree movement in Gen Z.Yea but I want a happy and healthy child, not another farmhand. I also have birth control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/06/21 03:26 PM |
| 3 | Is Hitting The Wall at 30 a American Phenomena?Korean ( the example was kdrama ) work culture is horrible and they often must drink with their boss. Idols and actors obviously have their looks as part of their job, but abusive ' idol factories ' and loads of parties with actors doing promotion and such would probably lead to loads of that. I think it's also portrayal. People don't suddenly look whizened and gross at 25. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/04/21 06:42 AM |
| 4 | Why does the cheating gap exist&change with age?Exactly. Or sick ladies. The amount of men who leave their wives when they ( wife ) get cancer or some other horrible medical thing happens to them is so high. Even if you marry the human incarnation of Jessica Rabbit, she could get cancer, she could get hit by a truck and loose her legs, she could get brain damage from a swimming accident, and she will get old and wrinkly. That's why you factor in love and personality along with attractiveness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/04/21 01:02 PM |
| 3 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Oh I assure you other gay young adults wouldn't have your same mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 11:07 PM |
| 14 | CMW: Most men (especially those who struggle with dating) vastly underestimate the importance of style and aesthetics in luring in women to date or have sex with.Wow who hurt you? He looked good before and great after by enhancing and hiding some features as well as dressing up. Also, I sure hope this sub isn't just bashing some random gay teenager who hasn't fully matured yet as the majority of the app seems to be young people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 10:55 PM |
| 6 | Sluts aren’t bad people they are just poor choices for traditional monogamous relationships.Yea! I know tons of people of all genders who can and do sleep around because they like it. The guys are often praised for having loads of consensual sex ( he's good with the ladies ) and girls are often shamed ( what a slag ) even though they are doing it for the same reason and at a similar frequency. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 7 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offI know plenty of clean but average looking guys who have a girlfriend because they are interesting and treat her like their best friend and the love of their lives with respect and emotional maturity just like she treats them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 05:21 PM |
| 34 | You basically need to be a psychopath to actually close with “hot girls”... Empathy is a turn-offI have attractive friends and average friends and ugly friends but I always look for people who have empathy. Some of the hot ones in all genders have figured out that they can get by on looks so their personalities are awful. They do deserve each other! If you are a kind an empathetic guy who presumably is also interesting and reasonably clean in appearance ( no gross man nest, make frequent use of a washing machine, brush your teeth, and you actually wash your ass for instance ), then there ar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/03/21 03:42 PM |
| 8 | Are women who are “addicted” to erotica/smutty romance novels/fanfiction equal to men who obsessively watch porn?Addiction is when you negatively impact your life consistantly in pursuit off something. Reading fanfiction or watching porn isn't bad, but it is if you rely on it or skip things in life consistantly to read or watch. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/02/21 07:36 PM |
| 4 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,Then don't use dating apps people notoriously use for hookups and go out and find someone with your real life face and personality? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:19 AM |
| 6 | Highly educated women are more likely to be promiscuous than less educated women,That's because a lot of men think women are below them or don't like them because they are ' nerds ' but actually women like to be treated like a friend and nerd culture is pretty mainstream but it makes for a bandaid over the fact that women don't like you because you are disgusting or have a bad personality. Women had a sexual revolution sure, but men didn't really have a ' women and men are equal ' revolution. This is not all men but enough that we are wary. It's like sure, not all lions and … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/02/21 08:18 AM |
| 2 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?Fair. I guess there is a slim minority of women who chose to foccus on studies and / or career first then date after they are established either after finishing school or having worked a bit or both. I sense that maybe some of the men on here wouldn't want a more career oriented and independent partner. That being said, I know some absolutely horrible people in relationships or who have had multiple. Now looks fade and personality is what you get left with and even people who look below average … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 10:34 PM |
| 1 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?No I'm just curious because further down, someone said that a woman not getting her first kiss till 21 was a red flag because everyone she med found her undesirable presumably anyway. So what are your pros to those cons? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?If you think you peaked in High School, that's sad. Your best years didn't fly by when you where 16. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 03:14 PM |
| 2 | Are late bloomers basically screwed?How would it work in their favor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/01/21 01:35 PM |
| 8 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenOften because they believe that's how a man is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 04:11 PM |
| 9 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenYea. I'd say the women counterpart is those who act like a princess and / or try to act like a cutesy kid but it gets old. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 04:07 PM |
| 4 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenI do she literally adopted a kid from Cambodia because she wanted a baby but not a husband. That girl turned out just fine and was very loved. We used to play together when we where in elementary school. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 04:06 PM |
| 14 | Kindness, and Respect are not sexually attractive to womenNope. You aren't 3, you have learned your manners and how to use them. Be a big boy and do the bare minimum of being nice and polite. You have big ' my wife has a chore chart for me and our 3 kids under 10 on the fridge with babysitting my own child written down for me and also I expect sex because I washed 3 dishes instead of leaving them on the table and retreating to my ManCave(TM) ' energy. Women don't wanna date someone they have to raise. They can get a pet that is cuter and sweeter for le… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/01/21 12:34 PM |
| 4 | Penis-size-manifesto: bigger is better up until the point of inconvenience?It's like how a family recipe only tastes right when one person makes it even if everyone has the instructions. If that dick doesn't have love attached to it, it could be the best dick of your life but you'd still prefer your current partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/11/20 06:50 PM |
| 1 | Men who want a "traditional woman", can you do traditionally male chores?I'm pan, and I enjoy cooking and cleaning but also woodwork and plumbing. I want someone else who is good at household chores and will share the load equally to me but my one thing is that they deal with the bugs. I will unclog every single toilet for the rest of our time together if you get the bugs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/20 02:48 PM |
| 0 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeIt's money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 08:32 PM |
| 14 | Female privilige≠pretty privilegeMoney can buy everything. Cardi B admitted to drugging and raping men casually, not in court or anything, and still has a flourishing career though she should be rotting in jail. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/20 08:26 AM |
| 1 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I'm talking about my past experiences and those of my friends. I'm not saying everyone is like this, but it is a factor. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 04:04 PM |
| 0 | Why don’t women like video games or board games generally?I think a lot of them get bullied by men because they aren't a walking talking Skyrim / HALO / Red Dead / GTA dictionary who is ready to flash boobs. So they play alone or quit. Girls are often not encouraged like boys to play and many popular games are super violent or complicated but you get called a faker if you play Minecraft or Slime Rabcher and JRPGs or visual novels are ' not real games ' to ' hardcore gamers ' for some reason. I know plenty of girl gamers. I don't know that many people w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/20 02:21 AM |
| 1 | Why are a lot of men so strict about weight on a woman?I know people who are genuinely shocked when a thin person says a ' heavy ' weight. Like yes, if you are 5 ' 8, you can be over 100lbs and not be fat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/20 01:17 PM |
| 2 | Why are a lot of men so strict about weight on a woman?Also, loads of people don't really know how much weight is especially on a different frame. They just whack out a random number and say for everyone, even if it could be underweight on a tall person but overweight on a short person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/20 11:40 PM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I'm not the brightest or the most coordinated with medical documentation to prove it. What do you like to do in London? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 03:53 PM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.I've only been to London once but it was really nice! I went to some museums and bought beautiful post cards then almost impaled my foot on a fence. I thought the spikey things where decoration and filed down for safety. Apparently I'm just stupid. What do you like about London so much? I'm so glad you figured your worth. Stay humble doesn't mean be a doormat and never be proud of anything you do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/20 10:08 AM |
| 2 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Get out before you turn bitter. You don't need to constantly be in one for clout. Also, where are you where everyone is like that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 11:52 AM |
| 1 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Don't let your dreams be dreams! I suppose it's a bit prudish of me to want to finish my schooling before looking to date unless someone else came along I really fancied who wouldn't mind me being super busy with school but that's the reason why. I get I'll always have jobs and shopping and doctors and such but I wouldn't feel comfortable just taking. I want to have time and money to properly love someone and treat them good. So there are definently people out there with the same mindset! Also t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 11:46 AM |
| 5 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.Bruh you do not deserve to be treated like that. You deserve love and thoughtfulness and gratitude. She should bring you a coffee sometimes and hold your hand and say she loves you and take you on dates too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 08:10 AM |
| 6 | The issue isn't buying things for your girl. The issue is that you feel ENTITLED that I buy YOU things BECAUSE you're my girl.For sure. And sometimes the girl wants to treat the guy and he should be appreciative too! Showing affection and gratitude are really important things so neither takes the other for granted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/20 08:07 AM |
| 4 | Q4All: How true is the idea that women give “bad” advice to their male Friends/family members?That's the advice they are also given but maybe it's time for Kathy to stop being the ' cr@zy bitch ' who has fake BPD to excuse herself for being edgy and flighty and who thinks she can put 0% into a relationship and take 100%. It's a two way street. Be yourself is good when yourself isn't selfish and lazy and dirty and such. If you are that sort of thing, you have to work on it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/20 03:38 PM |
| 3 | A big cause of the general hostility between the genders is that women want to marry people who are better than them but still wish to be treated as an equal.Yea, I don't mind doing 80% of the housework on the weekdays if I don't work, but he can put his dirty clothes in the laundry basket and his plate in the skink and playing with your own pets and kids isn't a chore or babysitting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/20 06:59 PM |
| 1 | How does being born into a rich family effect your dating game?Well, maybe shirts are different? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 08:33 PM |
| 1 | How does being born into a rich family effect your dating game?I think already you can weed out some gold diggers like that. Do you have a well known name or something? Do you know how the gold diggers found out? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 11:06 AM |
| 1 | How does being born into a rich family effect your dating game?It's a good investment my parents have some for yardwork going strong for over 30 years! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 11:05 AM |
| 3 | How does being born into a rich family effect your dating game?Well, I went to private school as a middle class person but kids who where from wealthy oil or banking or even acting star's families also attended. Some of them where good and kind but lots of them loved to flex. I wouldn't say that all russian girls are trained gold diggers, but I would certainly be wary even at a young age. Obviously if you have more money, you should get to spend how you see fit, but toning down a bit such as taking the bus or train and still alternating who pays on dates wi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/20 01:33 AM |
| 2 | Has anyone had their problems solved by getting into a relationship?A relationship can be a great thing and can help you grow and change as a person but they aren't trained to keep all your mental health up. Having a SO won't magically make everything sunshine and rainbows. I'm very happy and single. Therapy isn't supposed to get you a relationship. Therapy is to help you work on you. You don't have to love yourself every minute but have some confidence! Nobody should be going through life with a relationship = fix me mindset. It is toxic. Never go into relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/20 07:37 AM |
| 3 | Traveling brags in women's dating profilesSometimes you get someone who is super open and knowledgeable because they are well traveled. Sometimes you get someone who has traveled around but only to western style places and has never experienced the real culture of each place so she ends up more spoiled and / or entitled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 07:38 PM |
| 2 | Has anyone had their problems solved by getting into a relationship?That's terrible but that's the true toxic mentality against men. Try more new therapists and if your friends and family aren't supportive of you and helping you better your mental health in healthier ways then that's on them. I know plenty of guys who are very supportive and uplifting of each other and help each other emotionally as well as physically. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/20 02:16 PM |
| 5 | Has anyone had their problems solved by getting into a relationship?There it is! Society teaches men to go only to girlfriend / wife for emotional problems instead of parents and friends and counseling and girlfriend, so they have less support. Women are also taught that they must be nurturing. Plus, wouldn't you want to help you SO? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/20 05:14 PM |
| 2 | Do you feel like the amount of relationships you’ve had makes your current relationship any less exciting and/or enjoyable?Thanks! Just open your heart and be upfront and honest. Never settle. It's not like you love your cousins and friends and brother and dog and dad the same way you love oreos and Chris Pratt and the stars and fireworks the same but you can love them all. So every girl is a different kind of love. And you don't have to stop loving them if you are better as friends than lovers. It can evolve. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/06/20 03:24 PM |
| 7 | Do you feel like the amount of relationships you’ve had makes your current relationship any less exciting and/or enjoyable?If you date around you know what kind of person you can vibe with, who you live well together with, who you can netflix and chill with, and ultimately who you can spend your life with I think. Don't date as a fling but not everything has to end in marriage or a huge fight. Every kind of loving for every person is different but it's okay because your heart never runs out of love. It isn't less special at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/06/20 01:20 AM |
| 2 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?It does if he is gross because he thinks it doesn't matter or it's gay to brush your teeth. Nothing is wrong with being gay and you'l get loads of cavities. Extremely violent yet emotionally stunted guys get way less girls and friends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 09:27 PM |
| 2 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?Also, lots of it is health related. Like some guys think they are stronger than the literal sun and don't use sunscreen. I met a guy who didn't brush his teeth unless he felt a film of dirt. I think society fails guys on emotions and appearance a lot of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 09:25 PM |
| 1 | I constantly read on this sub that men don't put nearly as much effort into their appearance as women. Other than common sense and being physically fit, what can men really do?People hated how the vikings who bathed, changed clothing, loved perfume, and did their hair up became super popular with the women. Now they can't understand how Kpop / idol looks with men in flattering clothing who do makeup and haircare are getting so much attention whole John Smith who uses one thing of body wash for everything and half a can of axe with minimal teeth brushing isn't getting super popular. Half of it is how you act such as not being sexist and being confident but the other is… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/06/20 06:50 PM |
| 25 | People who hate the opposite gender: what can they do to earn your "forgiveness"? What would it take for you to stop hating them?You don't hate feminists or women. You hate people with a superiority complex who support an agenda of toxic masculinity. This is perfectly reasonable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 10:09 PM |
| 16 | If a girl dresses slutty shes not doing it for herself.Is it bad if people like getting comments? Like loads of guys on here say they never get complimented so if they do they wear that kind of thing or do their hair like that for ages. Some people love dressing up. Some people love getting compliments. It it such a crime? I'm not saying if her personality and everything does a 180 like that comment abobe, but if wearing sweatpants and a hoodie is such a huge turn off for you who do you think you can date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/05/20 02:58 AM |
| 1 | When I was 16 I got my first bf (Q4redpillers)Oh this doesn't matter when you are young. Not many people marry their childhood friend or high school sweetheart or first love. That's why it's always news. You to still have so much growing to do! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 01:56 PM |
| 4 | Old adYes because you married her! If you two need to talk about a health problem, mental or physical, do it. If you two fell out of love, then talk about it so after pandemic you can break it off as fast as you can. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:39 AM |
| 4 | Old adWhy would you make their body image lower? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/20 05:38 AM |
| 1 | Men have a hard time accepting that women's preferences evolve with age because they themselves are permanently 12 years old in their desire.I'm sorry I'm not a pedophile? I really don't know what to say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 09:08 PM |
| 9 | Men have a hard time accepting that women's preferences evolve with age because they themselves are permanently 12 years old in their desire.I'm a pan adult and those 15 year olds I thought were hot when I was 15 look cute as in awww young people not as in hot I would date people yet lots of dudes I know still think a 15 year old girl can be hot as in they would think of dating her if she were 18+ and it boggles my mind. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/11/19 05:54 PM |
| 1 | PSA for the ladiesSharks kill people at an incredibly low rate and we are all still terrified so?? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/19 10:15 AM |
| 2 | Men don’t actually know what women look like at 20, 30, 40, etc.Wrinkles are usually like smile lines untill 30, then faint eyes and forehead ones not all saggy by 40! I also thinj the flipside is those horrible botched surgeries that make people like Kylie Jenner look nearly 40 right out of her teens. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/19 09:45 AM |
| 1 | Clown world iPhone communist starter packShe could have lost her job or gotten a nice gift, found them 2ndhand or saved up. You don't have to look like a neanderthal to be poor. Nobody hires you if you do and you keep your nice stuff good forever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/19 09:41 PM |
| 6 | Do you wish you could be 100% provided for by your partner?It's sad, but if one of you passes away or has a crippling accident having another income is a good choice. I'd want to be rich enough to provide for my partner and have them able to do the same but still work because accidents happen unexpectedly and if something goes wrong I'm not in the possition of having nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/09/19 08:14 PM |
| 1 | Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's?Aren't workout clothes supposed to let you have a lot of movement? Some baggy clothing could be dangerous. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 06:05 PM |
| 0 | Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's?Well yea, some people go for a sundress and some people go for leather pants. It's their body and their choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:03 AM |
| 1 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?Yes! Middle school locker room HELL! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/09/19 09:01 AM |
| 3 | Discussion: Why are women's exercise clothes such more revealing than men's?Dude, some people wanna look pretty for THEMSELVES and not for you. It's not always about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 10:27 PM |
| 1 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?No, it's just that people who use too much deoderant or body spray end up using those brands, and they already have a strong smell. I think it is worse in America. They are the same parent brand under a different name like Walkers and Lays or so my friends tell me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 09:49 PM |
| 1 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?Or snake powder? But I don't think you have it in america. Something to absorb the sweat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 02:43 PM |
| 1 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?It's an exageration of the all in one shower product people get for like 1£ . | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/09/19 02:42 PM |
| 1 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?Like I know feet don't smell good, bug I legit know people who just let the soap swirl around their feet when they shower. Nah man, you soap those shits up, add a lil babypowder, and buy some socks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/19 06:17 PM |
| 2 | What physical traits do you NOPE on potential mates?I hate it when people use that awful all in one shampoo, bodywash, lotion, toothpaste, mouthwash, lotion, conditioner, hair wax, eyedrops whatever the fuck then Axe / Lynx over. Either you stink of B.O. or you stink of too much perfume. For some reason a lot of guys I know don't think you have to brush your teeth if there isn't something in them or they can't feel the plaque. Humans do have a smell, but goddamn have a little hygene! Exept if they just went to workout and they shower after. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/09/19 11:31 AM |
| 1 | What do most women fail to understand about men?I think it's hikey abusive not to let your partner have close friebdships with all genders like damn, it's healthy to be able to do that? Co - dependancy isn't cute and everyone needs time alone and time with different people! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/19 01:11 PM |
| 2 | People who think you’ve got to be starving and boobless to be a US size 2 need a reality check.I understand this! I don't restrict myself, but I take the stairs, eat lots of vegetables, cook instead of eating ready meals, and stop when I am full. A lot of people think it is natural, wich it is to a degree, but my lifestyle is a bit different. I like pizza, but I have a slice or twi when they finish it for instance. Keep up the good work! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/06/19 02:00 PM |
| 3 | Discussion: men and women alike do complain about the difficulties of modern dating. To what degree are these issues caused/exacerbated by a majority of adults being above a healthy weight?It is easiery to be pretty when your whole job is being pretty so you have all these people and plans. Then makeup, lighting, and of course - photoshop! Didn't Hugh Jackman / Wolverine say he almost passed out because he had to look so lean and shredded for the fight scenes? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/06/19 12:02 AM |
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