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The fact that she kept talking about sex was a clear yet subtle signal that she wanted to be fucked and you didn't take the necessary risk, you had to "Roll The Dice" my man. Nah it's not actually an IOI, when chicks overtly talk about sex like that it's usually beta bait, and these dudes failed hard by taking the bait and eating that shit up in this situation. When a girl initiates overt sex talk it should be treated with total indifference, ignore it or make a quick tease about her having a di…
/r/TheRedPill15/01/22 01:06 AM
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Not enough context. How has she been acting recently? How have you been acting? Is it the first time she's done it? If so you're fine, don't overreact, maybe subtly have her do something for you the next time you see her to make up for it and to keep her invested and compliant, but don't be bothered by her canceling or mention anything about it. It's only a problem when it becomes a trend.
/r/askTRP05/06/21 12:25 AM
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I was assuming you meant another dude was trying to game her while you were with her, so I meant she would entertain his advances. If all he asked was the question in your post then you definitely have nothing to worry about, but you might be a little insecure still.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 05:01 PM
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If you're high value and have a sexual vibe with her you have nothing to worry about. If she sees the other dude as higher value than you she might entertain it, but that's when you walk away.
/r/askTRP23/05/21 04:07 PM
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Once a week max for plates, twice a week if she hits you up first. Skip a week here and there.
/r/askTRP22/05/21 08:06 PM
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Nah I have no beef with the bar owner or his policies in this scenario as I'm sure he just didn't want to get fined. It was the random chick getting bitchy and trying to tell me what to do that was the issue. The specific scenario isn't even that important, it just got me thinking about the question I posed at the end.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 09:50 PM
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If so, it sounds like the lady giving you shit was a regular and knew how far the table needs to be? Yeah this turned out to be the case in this situation. But I had no way of knowing that in the moment and wasn't going to just go sit inside just because she was being a bitch about it. Thanks for sharing your perspective.
/r/askTRP17/05/21 08:33 PM
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Currently rolling with a soft fade and stubble along the lines of this.
/r/askTRP16/05/21 10:38 PM
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bachelor’s degree This made me lol. Women don't give a fuck about your bachelor's degree bud. I have a HS diploma and fuck girls that attended Ivy Leagues.
/r/askTRP13/05/21 06:38 PM
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Yeah my profit is usually 25-30% of the total project costs , and I don't bid on projects under 3k. It's what I do after putting in my 40 at my full time job so I usually put in 16 hours on the weekends. I have pretty minimal overhead. It's just me working and sometimes I'll pay people cash if I need a hand with something.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:58 PM
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or own your own business. This is where the real money starts, especially if you live in a wealthy area and have wealthy clients. I do residential remodeling and my side business makes me at least $50 an hour. If I worked for myself full time right now I would be making $100-200k. I'm still trying to learn as much as I can about the trades before becoming a GC myself, so that's at least a few more years from now.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 08:12 PM
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If you go into a trade, choose plumbing, electrical, or HVAC. Apprentice wages start low but once you become a journeyman you can easily be making 70k. I know plumbers that make over 100k in my area.
/r/askTRP11/05/21 05:33 PM
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Yeah her social circle is actually pretty high value so it's entirely possible he is a cool dude/valuable connection, which is why I don't want to say no entirely. But she's given me zero info about him and I don't want this to become the focal point of the trip, so I want to keep the interaction on my terms.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 06:11 PM
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I have no intention of telling her she can't see her friends, nor does she require my permission.
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:58 AM
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That's what I was thinking. Indifference+dread has worked well in the past. I'm not even worried about her doing anything, I just don't know anything about this dude or his motives for wanting to hang out and don't want to deal with any BS on this trip
/r/askTRP23/04/21 03:36 AM
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Personally I only use social media to promote my business but I think the same concepts apply. Essentially you are marketing yourself. Think of your social media as your brand and only post things that represent the best image of yourself and show high value. What do you want to show potential "buyers" that might interest them in your product (you)?
/r/askTRP12/04/21 03:27 AM
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Why are you even talking about this shit? Stop talking so damn much and just fuck her and move on, you're giving her too much attention. Overtly talking about sex like this is pointless, you have nothing to gain from it and are gonna end up fucking it up by saying something stupid. Don't text her again until you want to fuck, and then hit her up and see how she responds. If it's anything other than a yes drop her.
/r/askTRP08/04/21 07:36 PM
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Green flags: takes me out on dates pays, does anything i want sexually, buys me gifts Those are not green flags, those things are pretty much the bare minimum you should expect from an LTR. Reread the sidebar.
/r/askTRP28/03/21 09:11 PM
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Haha, we do have good chats, but I barely answer to my friends, so theres no point You should've just stopped replying after this. Everything else only hurts your cause
/r/askTRP11/03/21 01:39 AM
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I've been dealing with the same thing and have been trying to figure this out also, between my main job and side business I've been working 7 days/60 hours a week since the start of the year, leaving only a couple hours a week for girls and no time or energy to take them on real dates. At least in my case being tired all the time and stressed out makes my frame weaker and I've subconsciously been leaning on them more for comfort, which turns them off.
/r/askTRP11/03/21 12:49 AM
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Girls lose interest when they know exactly where they stand with you. You showed your hand and came off as eager when you should have waited for her to reach out to you, or at least waited two to three days. After only one date she should feel like she is just one of many options to you still.
/r/askTRP09/03/21 01:10 AM
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I think what he's saying is that just "being smart" without practical knowledge/skills and experience isn't going to get you anywhere
/r/askTRP08/03/21 08:36 PM
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This is way too vague to possible give you an answer, but I'll give you one anyways. 1) Don't do things that you would be ashamed of if someone else were to find out 2) Own it when you get caught
/r/askTRP23/02/21 04:11 AM
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This is the answer I needed
/r/askTRP22/02/21 05:28 AM
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Yeah I figured that much. I can't even feel any kind of way about it because I would drop her if necessary to pursue my own goals too
/r/askTRP22/02/21 04:13 AM
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What are you trying to "escalate"? Imo the only escalating you really need to do over text is going from basic rapport to setting a meetup. If you have weak text game trying to establish sexual banter over text is going to blow up in your face. "Escalating" is largely nonverbal and is something that should be done face to face.
/r/askTRP08/02/21 03:24 AM
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Sorry but she already nexted you, the only option you have is to cut contact and move on. She might try to come back later on but if I was you I wouldn't give her another chance if I was you
/r/askTRP06/02/21 04:54 PM
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Other dude is correct, this is just nonsense mouth noise produced as a result of feelz. Don't overthink it, keep living for yourself and don't change anything, you are doing it right.
/r/askTRP22/01/21 08:24 PM
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You can build confidence through sheer willpower, aka "fake it til you make it", but the most solid confidence is rooted in competence. Outside of building competence with women, you need to learn a skill and master it. Rock climbing, music, woodworking, doesnt matter what, become exceptional at it. This has to be for yourself and not for women. No matter what happens with women you will always be able to fall back on this and know that you are the fucking best at whatever you do. You also need …
/r/askTRP22/01/21 05:00 AM
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Good job, you found a girl that is naturally submissive. Essentially what you are asking of her is against her nature. Her form of sexual expression IS focused on your pleasure, and that is a good thing. Your pleasure is her pleasure, idk why you would complain about that. But you need to understand that she is looking for you to take control and guide her. Tell her what to do to you, throw her around and physically move her into different positions, pin her down while eating her out, just do wh…
/r/askTRP22/01/21 04:35 AM
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"no thanks, it fucks with my head" Theres no need to ever explain yourself to anyone, just say nah I'm good and leave it at that. If anyone actually presses you on it you can just say "It's not my thing", but its no ones business but your own.
/r/askTRP19/01/21 04:46 AM
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Take this as a learning opportunity. Her attraction level is definitely very low. You shouldn't have hit her up first and you should've started the soft next immediately. Don't respond and don't hit her up again. If she eventually reaches out either ignore her or set up logistics to fuck only.
/r/askTRP14/01/21 06:32 PM
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Tbh this girl sounds like a pain in the ass, personally I would just next her. You are doing the right thing by ignoring her words and withdrawing attention, but now that this has become a frequent occurrence you need to withdraw attention further. At the very least you should soft next for a little while and not meet up with her for a week or two if you want this behavior to stop. As the man you will almost always have to initiate, but when you do she should willingly submit to you. She isn't f…
/r/askTRP13/01/21 10:48 PM
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Girl that I LTR'd is exactly the same and yes it still applies exactly the same if not more. AWALT
/r/askTRP12/01/21 02:08 AM
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Quit that shit as soon as possible, it will be hard as fuck but you will feel so much better without it. I never vaped but used to smoke, the two things that helped me the most were 1) always be quitting and 2) meditation. Always be quitting = treat every cigarette like it's your last. You can try tapering down, but imo cold turkey is more effective. Push through the day without smoking for as long as possible, and even if you slip up and smoke, you are still quitting, the clock resets the next …
/r/askTRP16/12/20 05:09 AM
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Yes you should absolutely do that. Also don't read the sidebar and make sure to post this question at least 5 more times.
/r/askTRP09/12/20 03:52 AM
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Unless you are super low SMV to the point where all women are disgusted by you, you should be improving yourself and approaching women at the same time. Otherwise monk mode is just a buffer.
/r/askTRP06/12/20 08:53 PM
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She's trying to pull you into her frame, ignore and do exactly what you have been doing. She's not an LTR you don't owe this girl shit, she can go cry to Billy Beta about her bad day. If she actually drops you over not being at her beck and call then you're better off
/r/askTRP06/12/20 05:32 PM
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Just treat it like a shit test if in doubt. Girls will come at you with nonsense all the time for literally no reason, if it's a stupid question give a stupid answer, fuck with them in a playful manner, or just agree and amplify, you can't lose. Just dont be autistic about it.
/r/askTRP03/12/20 07:02 PM
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If a girl doesn't respond to dread then she does not see you as the prize. A girl that isn't chasing your attention and validation is chasing someone else's. However, the example you gave is the wrong way to apply dread. You don't need to "drop hints". In fact you should never be overt about it at all. Dread is about what you do, not what you say. Dread is best subtly communicated, by having a life that is separate from her, being an attractive man that other women want, getting IOI's from attra…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 02:44 AM
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Mysterious is giving her just enough to think about you and wonder about you. Boring is giving her nothing to think about. In an LTR the answer is dread and living a fun life for yourself that she can be a part of. Keep her engaged and invested by keeping things fresh and doing new things with her, routines and comfort are the death of an LTR. Be unpredictable. You also need dread to keep the competition anxiety going and keep her from getting too comfortable with her position in the relationshi…
/r/askTRP01/12/20 01:40 AM
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Incidentally, do you actually wanted a LTR? I don't really want an LTR just for the sake of having one, but after a lot of vetting this girl seemed like she might be worth it to give up plates for and give her a shot What do you think a LTR with this particular woman will bring you? Like I said, she has a lot of good LTR qualities. Highly educated, good family, very submissive, will do anything to please me. She pulls her weight and adds a lot of value to my life, and most importantly doesnt str…
/r/askTRP25/11/20 12:47 AM
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you can be that kind of a patriarchal figure? what does you bank account look like? your degree? is your job anywhere near being a diplomat? Like I said to the other dude, she isn't especially high value herself. If she wanted a wealthy beta she has them, but I know how she talks about those dudes. She looks to me as a dude that has his shit together and can give her guidance. I make at least as much if not more than she does. Make a decent living in an expensive and have a side business that ma…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 10:20 PM
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Her dad lives on the other side of the world and I will probably never meet him unless I marry this girl. I dont know how truly alpha he is, but it sounds like he is the leader of the family. She speaks really highly of him and gets a lot of guidance from him, going as far as wanting to follow in his footsteps. I have my shit very together and I've picked up hints that she wants similar guidance from me as well. I know what you mean about status not equating to alpha though. My ex-LTR had a very…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 08:24 PM
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What this says to me is that her dad is high value but she isn't Yeah I definitely have higher SMV than her and hold almost all of the power in the relationship. The passive dread is really strong, I get IOI's from way hotter girls in front of her all the time and she is afraid of doing anything to get on my bad side. She's probably a cute 6 but she is exactly my type looks/personality wise, the sex is really fucking good and she has a lot of good LTR qualities. Honestly I would LTR her, but she…
/r/askTRP11/11/20 07:48 PM
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Solid advice, thanks for clarifying.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 03:32 PM
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No shit she isn't special. I've met plenty of girls that have good dads, but it's not typical for them to be high status dudes like that. Her dad is a foreign diplomat whose job meant they lived all over the world when she was younger. No chick is "special" but that isn't a typical life either, so you have to admit there are going to be differences
/r/askTRP11/11/20 02:22 PM
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OP basically said he only goes after mentally ill women Not really what I'm trying to say, just trying to illustrate two sides of the spectrum here. is now having trouble with a normal girl. I've been fucking this girl for over a year, wouldn't say I'm having "trouble".
/r/askTRP11/11/20 01:44 PM
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Yeah that's definitely a possibility I've considered.
/r/askTRP11/11/20 05:07 AM
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Yooo just started reading Cashflow Quadrant, this book is exactly what I needed
/r/askTRP07/11/20 03:14 AM
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I didn't mention it originally, but I'm a journeyman carpenter and work for a company that does high end renovations as my main source of income. It's a decent living by itself but I'm pretty close to topping out my salary.
/r/askTRP06/11/20 05:28 AM
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Right now I have a full time job that I need to pay the bills and pay for school, and take night/online classes in my off hours. It'll probably be about 4-5 more years and at least 60-80k of my savings before I finish my degree. The side business is just money in the bank which is why it's so tempting to just go after the money now haha
/r/askTRP06/11/20 04:24 AM
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Civil engineering, with the intention of eventually going into a career in construction management. I would only make $10-20k more than my current trade job at first, but with a way higher top end
/r/askTRP06/11/20 03:48 AM
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Doing the same thing right now, about the same age as you. I work as a carpenter and am going to school for civil engineering. Eventually want to get into construction management and real estate investment. This is pretty unrelated but what part of the US are you in and what kind of work do you usually do? If you are a solo contractor (as in you are your own boss) you could be making more than $50k per year if you have the business skills.
/r/askTRP31/10/20 12:36 AM
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refusing to do it someplace closer sounds hell of a lot autistic. Trying to change the location at the last second is almost always a shit test, but it's not 100% black and white, there are times where you can take her input into consideration without giving up the lead. For example, I once had a girl offer up a location that had way better logistics that I hadn't thought of, in that case she was trying to make things easier for me and not just herself so I was was safe to adjust the plan withou…
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:40 PM
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Yeah that's the only thing I really would have changed. Just tell her the time and place up front so she knows what she's agreeing to, otherwise you're just giving her a reason to flake later. Also if it's a first date, girls will usually want to tell a friend where they're going just in case. I promise she doesnt give a shit about you keeping it a "mystery". Other than that you handled it fine OP, don't sweat it. Just keep it moving and she'll hit you up if she's interested.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 05:13 PM
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Some girls just want the dick and don't wanna be tied down. Idk why you wouldn't see that as the best possible situation. There is nothing you can do to nudge her towards being more than just a plate that won't just push her away, that is just a different way of chasing her commitment or trying to lock her down. She must put herself in the LTR box, not you.
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:31 PM
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I understand where you are coming from, but this is rooted in a blue pill mind state. Yes, honesty will earn you respect... from other men. With women, it's not about what the "right" thing to do is, it's about what is attractive. You don't have to lie, but you do have to learn to STFU sometimes. Next time before you speak, ask yourself, is what I am about to say going to make her more attracted to me... or less?
/r/askTRP29/10/20 02:02 AM
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Yes, kino is a process, start early and start small to get her comfortable with your touch then build up to sex. You can't just go from 0 to trying to fuck and expect it to work. You should be building sexual tension as well. But... you should also always assume attraction. This girl matched with you on Tinder so obviously there is some interest on her part. Your job is to escalate, her job is to shut down anything that is unwanted. There will always be some degree of resistance but generally gi…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 08:07 PM
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I would have just said the first thing that came to mind, something non-serious. You cared way too much about what the "right" answer was and telling her what you thought she wanted to hear, and she could tell that you were afraid of saying the wrong thing. That's why your answer turned her off
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:52 AM
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Your overthinking has reached levels of autism I didn't even know were possible. You care way too much about what this bitch thinks of you, every "technique" you think you are employing is pulling you deeper into her frame. I tried to sort of agree and amplify, I said: "I like many things, what about you?, is there anything you love outside of friends too?" That is not agree and amplify, and you dried her up to the point of no return with that answer. You have zero chance of fucking this girl. I…
/r/askTRP28/10/20 03:45 AM
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No. You discover your purpose by trying many many things until something sticks. Do not worry about starting a business right now. Focus on getting skills or an education, ideally both. It is possible to be successful without school, but it is the much harder route. If you do not pursue college, learn a trade. A man without skills has no value to society. You will learn valuable skills while making money that you can leverage into a business later on if you so choose.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 02:14 PM
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Delete her from your life.Oneitis is an addiction and you have to treat it like such. You have to make a conscious effort to let go of this girl. Be mindful of your thoughts and actions, when you notice that you are thinking about her immediately shift your focus to something else. When you feel like contacting her, immediately occupy yourself with something else. Get her off the pedestal, realize she isn't special. Keep talking to other girls. Over time you will think about her less and less un…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:59 AM
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No, improving yourself is not easy. If you want to be something you have to put in as much work as it takes to get to where you want to be, that's what being a man is about. I know how it is, I started at the fucking bottom. I didn't get any pussy until I was 22. You put way too much energy into the things that are out of your control, learn to accept them and focus instead on the things that you do have control over. I looked at your main profile and I can guarantee that women can sniff out you…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:52 AM
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Yeah she "loves" the attention you give her lol. Dude this girl doesn't love you, she has been stringing you along for 6 years. If she really wanted you she would have fucked you already. The "connection" you think you have with her is all in your head. Never contact this girl again.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:34 AM
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Bro you are 18. That is way too young to be giving up, you have time to make yourself into whatever you want to be. I'm not going to adress the incel talking points No, not everyone can be Chad, so what. That doesnt mean you should just not try to improve yourself. You don't need to be Chad to pull bitches or to live a good life. Self improvement is for YOU to have the best life you can and be the best version of youself, that is the real reward. If you're doing self improvement just to pull bit…
/r/askTRP26/10/20 04:14 AM
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You think way too highly of yourself. All those things you listed don't mean shit if you act like a little bitch. You know why they go for all those other guys and not you? Because they aren't controlling and don't simp for them. They are the alphas, you are not.
/r/askTRP26/10/20 03:57 AM
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I have a main FWB that I see once or twice a week and spin a plate or two on the side here and there. It took me years of focusing on myself to get to this point. I am usually too busy focusing on my grind to fuck with girls everyday and add new girls to the pipeline but I know that I can get them when I want to. Confidence in yourself and your abilities is key. Don't stop shooting your shot and keep improving yourself and the results will come.
/r/askTRP23/10/20 03:20 AM
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Always invest as little as possible on the first date. Picking her up on the first date is extra effort on your end and lowers your value because you are catering to some chick you barely know. Always have then meet you, making them expend the effort to meet you somewhere will weed out low interest girls and makes them more invested in the date.
/r/askTRP21/10/20 05:32 PM
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Also for future reference: "You could come study with me" and "Wyd saturday" are not the way to set a date. Never leave invatations open-ended, girls will never take the initiative to fill in the blanks. You should be asking "I'm doing 'x activity' at 'y location'. Want to join me at 'z time'?"
/r/askTRP21/10/20 03:09 PM
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Bruh that that girl was trying to make it so easy for you lol. Girls are almost never gonna straight up say "Let's hang out", so you have to understand that when they put themselves in your orbit like that and try to get your attention they are creating an opportunity for you to escalate things and ask them out. "Heyyy how are you" = ask me out. "Random bs about some quiz" = ask me out. Keep the chatting to a minimum when a chick has high interest like that and just set up the date. You took too…
/r/askTRP21/10/20 04:51 AM
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Yes, it is possible if you already have a solid proto-Chad foundation. And it is a lot easier to change yourself more radically the younger you are, at 21 you are still very malleable as your social conditioning is not as strongly ingrained. There is a growth curve and the first few months are the hardest as you internalize RP concepts. I started my RP journey a little over a year ago and in that time I have leveled up in almost every aspect, and HB 6-7 chicks see me as Chad now, but I was also …
/r/askTRP20/10/20 02:41 AM
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Sometimes girls will try to get you to change locations or settle for bad logistics as a shit test. You should be leading, not her. Tell her to let you know another time she can hang out when she doesnt need to study.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:38 AM
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And I answered your question, but you are missing the fundamental point. You care too much about fucking her again. As long as you are invested in an outcome, anything you do, like a soft next, will just be an act. If you are seeing other women instead of just waiting for her, it won't matter what happens with this girl, and that is more powerful than any technique.
/r/askTRP19/10/20 02:18 AM
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And that's why you probably won't. Let her to hit you up, no reason to go after a chick that isn't fucking you
/r/askTRP19/10/20 01:48 AM
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Lol no, literally 75% of chicks I've ever met have a tapestry where I live. It's just trendy girl shit. And all girls will cheat under the right circumstances. "Is owning a bed a red flag because she might fuck Chad in it?"
/r/askTRP19/10/20 12:49 AM
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Sounds like she has other options and probably moved on to them, not really anything you did. Now move on to your other options and hit her up in two weeks, if it's still a no then consider the plate broken.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 09:47 PM
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In my experience if she is denying sex for a valid reason they will usually tell you. If she doesn't, it is usually a shit test. But if she doesnt give one don't demand an explanation, that is super needy and you are failing her shit test even harder. You have to go with your gut. A girl that is shit testing you is not deserving of your attention. The idea isnt to just silently comply but to stay in your frame.You were mostly right except for that part.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 08:30 PM
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If she didn't provide a reason you should have demanded one. Never do this. It doesn't matter and you are entering her frame. Just decide if she has earned your non-sexual attention or not.
/r/askTRP16/10/20 04:41 AM
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Honestly I just wouldn't reply. Your response is way too overt and tryhard, if you just dont reply it communicates the exact same thing but in Womanese. Also if she responds with "I don't know" when you ask her out she isn't high interest. Just withdraw attention. Edit: I’m anticipating that some of you will say just move on or that she’s an attention seeker but I’d rather be two steps ahead than give up something I could’ve gotten had I been prepared. Lol
/r/askTRP16/10/20 03:51 AM
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Have you ever even read the sidebar? Who cares why she didn't want to fuck you, but it's probably because she could tell you were super outcome dependent and needy. That's what she is trying to tell you when she says "guys always expecting sex is annoying". Then you failed her shit test and lost your shit when she denied you which is literally the worst way you could have reacted. This is a lost cause, move on to the next girl, work on your frame, and actually read and internalize the sidebar.
/r/askTRP15/10/20 05:38 PM
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Yeah you are right, it was just a weird move on her part so it threw me off a little
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:09 AM
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Thank you, this is the kind of advice I come here for
/r/askTRP05/10/20 03:01 AM
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Dude it doesnt make you a simp to initiate every once in a while, in fact you have to if you want to keep plates around for a longer period of time. It sounds to me like you're afraid to initiate and lack confidence to handle the slightest bump in the road. Eventually girls figure out that you will never initiate with them and they will pull back indefinitely and that's when they drop off the map. It's fine to just drop girls over the slightest thing when you have abundance, but it sounds like y…
/r/askTRP07/09/20 02:26 AM
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It sounds to me like you are failing to assert your needs and manage your relationship properly. Your first mistake was going out with her friends when you didn't want to. You needed to leave early because of your flight and she knew that but refused anyways, you were in her frame. There should have been no negotiation on that, remember DARE not DEER. That is not proper behavior on her part and should have been punished by withdrawing attention while you were on vacation, but you texted her ever…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 08:15 PM
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I second the other commenter. Medication to get your brain chemistry balanced and therapy to develop skills to have a better handle on your thoughts and emotions. There is no end to it, but it becomes easier to manage as you develop mental fortitude and strengthen the skills you develop with therapy to keep it at bay. Meditation, proper diet, and daily excercise are just as important to mental well-being as well. Getting your mental state in proper order should be your first priority before purs…
/r/askTRP03/08/20 03:54 AM
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Yeah basically this, nothing wrong with he buzz cut but it doesnt suit my face at all. It's just another way to maximize physical appearance, and being as good looking as possible makes it a lot easier to get chicks
/r/askTRP23/07/20 08:22 PM
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You're not wrong, I put a lot of effort into my appearance because it pays off, so it's been pretty difficult to not give a fuck. The shorter hair is definitely more masculine though and less pretty boy haha
/r/askTRP23/07/20 07:51 PM
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Her asking you to use a condom multiple times isn't a shit test or LMR, in this case no actually does means no. You pushed too hard and she felt pressured to do something she didn't really want to do, so she's not gonna feel comfortable with you. If a chick was super insistent on fucking raw the first time it would be a red flag, and I'm sure this chick sees it the same way. It's also possible you triggered some ASD. My advice: work on finding a balance between pushing through LMR and pushing to…
/r/askTRP06/07/20 10:55 PM
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What's the most red-pill song you can think of off top? https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=Il_EE3EFTRY
/r/askTRP11/04/20 05:01 AM
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Talk less. Dont give detailed answers or dont answer questions seriously. Dont be an open book. Make her work to discover things about you.
/r/askTRP23/01/20 08:32 PM
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This is the way to go. You have to separate yourself from all those other guys that are chasing after her, and the way you have to make yourself stand out is to be the one guy that doesnt shower her with attention and validation. She will definitely take notice. I wouldn't say you shouldn't show interest. You can be charming, funny, even slightly flirty with her, but you have to do it from a place of non-attachment where you can subconsciously convey that you are not trying to impress her and wa…
/r/seduction10/12/19 05:40 AM
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I highly recommend Corey Wayne's book and online content. He breaks down the fundamentals of relationships and opposite sex interactions in a way that is very straightforward and easy to implement, and I can vouch that the methods he teaches are very effective.
/r/seduction28/11/19 03:51 AM
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Yeah don't do this. Dumping your feelings on her all at once puts a lot of pressure on her, and most girls get overwhelmed by this and dont know how to respond. Girls are all about subtextual communication, which is why it is usually much smoother to express and gauge interest through less explicit means.
/r/seduction26/11/19 03:49 AM
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You did the right thing by holding frame. I think if you had left out the last part things may have gone better, she might have come back around. You probably pushed back a little too hard and it seems like now shes probably gone into auto-rejection, but if you do anything more at this point to chase or break frame you'll come off as weak. Don't do anything more; if she comes back cool, but accept that she most likely won't.
/r/seduction08/10/19 07:33 PM
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