kushboywonder Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
5	Why am I Not Pulling?		kushboywonder	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 06:59 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
1	Why am I Not Pulling? Lmao you're on point my talk is smooth, I'm just notorious at breezing through things I want. Not the case with women I see.	/r/askTRP	22/03/18 01:52 AM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? Hell ya man, I definitely am not a punk. I'm perfectly ok with nexting, my issue is if I'm doing everything in my end before I feel like doing so. I wanna be sure I'm doing all the things escalation wise, knowing I'm presenting my propositions are clear and strong.	/r/askTRP	22/03/18 12:39 AM
1	Why am I Not Pulling? Heh, I always loved fishing! Thanks bro$)	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 11:45 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? So you're saying I can go out by myself? I've thought about that and certainly have the confidence for it, just don't know how effective it would be, and what strategies to employ. Is that something people regularly do?	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 08:16 PM
1	Why am I Not Pulling? I really just need to turn my "fuck it" all the way on. The timid shit is still getting in my way, when the moment comes. I will make a point of being an "asshole" next time. And I know it's not about being an asshole, just becoming what you THOUGHT was an asshole.	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 08:08 PM
1	Why am I Not Pulling? Ya but bars aren't really my scene, and I have a hard time finding friends I can comfortably go out with. My friends are either too toolish or not big socializers, no in between. And besides, aren't bars low quality/effectiveness?	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 08:03 PM
4	Why am I Not Pulling? "either down or is down in the near future" Love that	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:53 PM
3	Why am I Not Pulling? Ok....the bit about using words if body language isn't par is gold for me. I'm not too strong on subtlety, maybe it will be easier with my words. We were on the same couch, but no kisses. There were a couple times I tried to get her eyes to lock mine, but no cigar. I'm not sure if she was just being coy, or being boujee. Either way, I don't feel terrible because I know that even though I didn't have all the signals, I was still working with what I had.	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:44 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? And I do go days without talking to girls. I'm still in the self-improvement phase and am really working on getting my mojo up to record levels. Working on my business, finishing up school, improving my hobbies, exercising, etc. I don't come into contact with a lot of women, as ironic as it is me living in Atlanta. I work in a corporate environment, though, and I'm a young black guy surrounded by (seemingly) uptight whities (i love white ppl relax).	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:37 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? What are some pointers you could give for escalation in the beginning? Like I'm not creative enough to come up with a reason to grab her ass or something.	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:33 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? See, I guess my impression may be wrong. I thought that limited talking was a good thing in the beginning. I haven't really been txting/talking to girls I haven't had more than a 2nd date with. I used to talk all the time, but I shut that down. Should I open it back up for the sake of rapport?	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:32 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? I feel like I could certainly escalate more. My problem is I don't know what types of contact I should go for, or how to implement. This recent date I went on, the girl was almost shying away from my leg rubs/shoulder holding/etc...could be a one-time thing but I would like advice on escalation.	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:30 PM
5	Why am I Not Pulling? Maybe I'm just too worried about "ruining" the date...its the same result if you don't go strong enough...	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:23 PM
2	Why am I Not Pulling? Word..the part about me getting better at signals makes sense... A recent example is a date I went on last week. We met at a bar I picked out and set the time for, and throughout the meeting I was going for leg rubs and overall getting closer to each other, but I kept getting hit with LMR or whatever. We agreed to another dinner/aquarium date, after which she came over to my spot. After we smoked we just watched the rest of some bullshit on Netflix then she left. I know I probably didn't escalat…	/r/askTRP	21/03/18 07:22 PM