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| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why? | Question For Women | kvakerok_v2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 04:53 AM |
| 0 | Single Parenthood as a factor in the current dating market situation. | Debate | kvakerok_v2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/10/24 03:20 PM |
| 0 | Men don't actually want women's love in a relationship. They want respect. | Debate | kvakerok_v2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/06/24 09:38 PM |
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| 1 | What you guys consider IOIs or flirting isn't a reliable indicator of attraction at allYeah, none of that were real IOIs. Here's some IOI examples indicating that you have a chance: Woman running her foot up the inside of your leg under the table. Woman grabbing your crotch. Woman grabbing your ass. Woman inviting you over to her place for the night. Woman unbuttoning your shirt. Woman unzipping your pants. You could still fuck it up though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 08:29 AM |
| 2 | On a moral and ethical level, we need to ensure women have fair representation in government and leadership positionsUnless you're implying that women are too dumb to represent themselves politically, I can't possibly imagine why women would need any ensuring on top of what we already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 07:57 AM |
| -1 | How often do you have to communicate what you want during sex?Depends on the woman. I don't have to tell her to touch my dick. It's sensitive and most women in my area are shit at either moisturizing (Alberta where I live is dry AF) or at handjobs or both. For analogy, imagine dry scaly hands grabbing your clit, yeah. Regarding oral. More often than not, unless she's a throat goat or can unhinge her jaw, I don't want a woman's teeth anywhere near my dick. The best they do is icecream licks combined with dry scaly hands from above. Expecting an orgasm lol. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/01/26 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsLike I've said above. you can't differentiate between women affected by childfree culture, quality over quantity paradigm shift, or actual knowledge and autonomy And claiming that men incapable of even conceptualizing legacy have a legacy ego trip is frankly disingenuous. Plumbers don't desire to fly to the moon and randomly design a spaceship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 11:06 PM |
| 1 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsmore males than females express this sentiment. It's not backed by anything though? When women are adequately knowledgeable and have autonomy Realistically, you can't differentiate between women affected by childfree culture, quality over quantity paradigm shift, or actual knowledge and autonomy. Case in point: mormons and their gaggles of kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 11:01 PM |
| 1 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsMy points are that You're looking at a tiny sample of men that you even factor into "males". You see a homie on the street dealing drugs and you look right through him, but he already has more kids than an average lawyer-dude ever will, with different women too. Women are inconsistent about having kids, based on surrounding culture, how many of their friends are having kids, and even phases of their fertility cycle. And yes, of that tiny sample a lot of men are prone to ego trips. But the majori… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:37 PM |
| -1 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsI mean, pick an average dark triad frog - that dude doesn't care about any of this. Frankly, I doubt he can even conceptualize what legacy is. He simply creampies a woman dumb enough to let him. All this ego and legacy talk are redundant processes for him. It's the men that can conceptualize legacy, can get an ego from achieving things that would even go on legacy ego trips in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 10:14 PM |
| -3 | I think men’s desired # of kids is higher than women’s desired # of kidsThis implies women know what they want and are consistent about it. None of which is true. Case in point: they'll get their main guy to get a vasectomy only to let some random dark triad frog hit it raw and knock them up 🤷🏽♂️ Most (not all) women "don't want kids" until they pick up baby fever from their friends getting knocked up and having little bundles of joy. It does seem as though many men want kids as trophies. Most modern men are weak as fuck and don't want kids either. I think there’s … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 09:53 PM |
| -5 | Men don’t need empathy from women. They need compassionBruh. Real men only need 2 things from women: Look pretty. Get the fuck out of the way of us doing the thing that makes us successful. Everything else is an individual preference | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 08:14 PM |
| 3 | Why does it seem like only in pill communities are men failing with women?Self-selection bias. Those of us actually getting laid and in relationships tend to focus on those. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/01/26 01:59 AM |
| 1 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableMid 30ies here. Please don't tell me "church". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 04:42 AM |
| 2 | If you want someone to choose you, bring what they want to the tableOh? And where do I even go these days to find non tiktok brain-rotten women that guaranteed don't whore around and haven't in the past? We can bring whatever the fuck they want to the table and then some. And I mean it. Anything. They. Want. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:30 AM |
| 2 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Have never had a boss that would consider sleeping with his employees. Obviously nobody advertises this. The last CEO that I personally discovered was screwing the project manager, is extremely professional. He slipped only once. Do you have those stats from a place? What do they measure exactly? If I ever complain about my issues, I am usually told to suck it up and improve myself, so not sure about the pity thing. Stats about 80% of men being found unattractive, or having to suck it up and imp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 03:21 AM |
| 1 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'I'm a woman and none of those things apply to me or any of the women I know Just because you don't do them, doesn't mean you can't. And average women absolutely get these benefits. So let's jump for a moment into the shoes of a woman from the bottom 30th percentile in attractiveness. Her experience is shared by 80-90% of men. And even then, she's often pitied, not actively hated or a complete ghost. And THAT is life on easy mode. To further drive this point home, I'm going to ask you a very simp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/01/26 12:12 AM |
| 11 | Aight what should be the solution for gender wars ?The solution is very very simple: Men need to stop being spineless simping pussies and to start voting with their wallets. If a country doesn't want you, you get your business, your expertise, and especially your money the fuck out and into a country that appreciates you. And please, this is not a gender war. Anything but. This is decades of blue pilled men taking it culturally up the ass, and women turning into the worst, most useless and most narc versions of themselves, finally culminating in… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:58 PM |
| 13 | What do some men mean when they say 'woman have life on easy mode?'Unlike a woman you can't fuck your way up the career ladder. Unlike a woman you can "Sowwy" your way out of a traffic ticket. Unlike a woman, your don't have a pretty privilege that allows you to get away with the wildest shit imaginable. Unlike a woman strangers will not treat you nice the first time they meet you. Unlike a woman you can't assist a lost child at a mall/store/church without gravely endangering yourself. I could go on, but I think you get the picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:38 PM |
| 9 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?I don't have your STI results Very good point! We need a protocol for this one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:35 PM |
| -2 | If you don’t sleep with a man on the first date, what does that usually mean?Possibilities from most to least likely: She playing you. She playing you. She playing you. She actually never fucks on the first date (the chance is ~10% I'd say, and I'm being generous here). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 11 | At what age do women expire to men?According to 2024-2025 dating stats in the USA the average age of women hitting the wall is now around 45, so there's that. Personally, when my ex started getting early grey hair, it didn't matter to me. Frankly, if 10-20 years into a relationship, having been through thick and thin together, your man gets hung up on your aging looks, you've gotten with some vain piece of shit human. Don't know what else to tell you 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Do you think attraction is a choice?Attraction is not a choice. Examples of what is a choice: Whoring behavior that shapes your attraction pattern in the long term. Attention seeking behavior that desensitizes your ability to distinguish between genuine male interest and a dark triad frog just trying to fuck you. Tiktok overexposure brain rot, which completely messes up your feeling of "norm". You are the sum of your choices. Attraction is a second- to third-order side effect of those choices. These three alone screw a woman up to… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/01/26 06:40 PM |
| – | As a passport bro in training America women are right about thisFrankly, leftist should stay in the country they created and reap what they've sown. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 09:01 PM |
| 1 | What do you think about those dating behaviours.Asshole Grandma's Boy Eh. Could be anything. Asshole Walking red flag An even redder flag Alcoholic with no self-awareness Peak asshole. Olympic gold medal winner Soyboy What's your point? We already knew that women are absolutely clueless about picking actually good men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:58 PM |
| 1 | Women’s Selective Traditionalism Fuels the Red Pillhostile sexism that red-pill ideology reinforces and normalizes in society which women suffer from. Gaslight central bullshit again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/01/26 08:40 PM |
| 1 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Alright, then I guess he's bigger than me. You sure have seen a lot of assorted dick for a straight man 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 09:12 PM |
| 0 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I'm anything but miserable lol. You seem to be in the middle of projecting, I'll leave you to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:32 PM |
| 1 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Yeah? Is that why I still love her years later? Bless your heart, this is projection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:26 PM |
| 4 | Dating is simple, women make it complicatedThere still are objective qualifiers that the overwhelming majority of women find attractive: height, facial symmetry, dark triad traits, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 09:20 AM |
| 1 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Absolutely. I'm not saying she is a bad person, just that what she did made me unable to trust her and consequently terminate our relationship, despite the love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 06:36 AM |
| 1 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Lmao no, I don't do the insecure man shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 05:34 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Is he over 8 inches? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 05:30 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Sorry, I'm too straight for this conversation. As someone who shares a lot of body features with Zack, its definitely not just teenage girls trust me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 05:21 AM |
| 2 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?That's why I said young: https://i.pinimg.com/736x/76/e5/f6/76e5f62f74f5317921da52c6c6040f1e.jpg Of course, pause, no homo. Sure sure bro 😏😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 05:13 AM |
| 0 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Sorry, I overlooked this important part of your comment: you'll forgive them and move forward with them. This is only viable when there is a path forward. In fact, your whole claim hinges on that. When someone intentionally hides something that is fundamentally against everything you plan and want to achieve as a couple and a family, it's not about forgiving or not forgiving them when your discover it. If they indicate no intention of changing their behavior, no matter what they say, are simply … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:59 AM |
| 1 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.No, she betrayed my trust in other ways. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 04:47 AM |
| 0 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.False. Loving someone and being with someone aren't the same thing. You can love someone and know they're not good for you so you stay away from them. That requires discipline though, a superpower by modern standards. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 02:20 AM |
| 0 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Lol, I know | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 02:19 AM |
| 1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"I will when I see women capable of emotional self-regulation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 02:19 AM |
| -7 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?Yeah, that's why I'm asking. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:05 AM |
| 1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsTranslation: women will destroy families over pussy tingles, creating fatherless whores and fatherless feral shits, men will stay and properly take care of the children 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/01/26 12:03 AM |
| -9 | Thoughts on shy, no-experience men?If I find him attractive What are we talking here? Young Zack Efron build or something more humble? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 11:33 PM |
| 1 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsFalse. In fact, MEN are more likely to cite 'boredom' due to lack of passion/excitement Men cheat, women get a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 11:16 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsDo you understand the word "started"? That means it's increasing in frequency from outlier to norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 10:39 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Spoken like someone who doesn't understand discipline, morals, or sacrifice. You don't do any of these things to feel better about yourself. You do all this because that's the right thing to do, because the fire in your heart drives you despite getting hurt, despite suffering, despite discomfort. I guess a narc would never get it... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:25 PM |
| 0 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.That's a trash materialistic ideology that doesn't factor good will at all. It completely fails to explain the good Samaritan phenomenon or self-sacrifice. A sign of weak people that grew up children of weak men and weak women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 09:02 PM |
| 3 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.I can read myself, that's why I make this statement in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 08:34 PM |
| -1 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Sounds like projection to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:59 PM |
| 3 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.No, "because she had a vagina" is a condition. I loved her for no particular reason. Again, proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 07:57 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Thank you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:53 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Yes. I cannot trust her, which is why I left. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:48 PM |
| -3 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.You're just proving my point. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:34 PM |
| 2 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.I loved my ex unconditionally. I think women can't help but project their own inability to love unconditionally onto men, and try to use dark triad trash men who only want sex from them as strawman to "prove" that all men are like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:20 PM |
| 3 | Stop looking for unconditional love. Its unrealistic and entitled.Oooof 😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 06:11 PM |
| 2 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating options🤦🏽♂️ I'm not talking about abusive or dead relationships, where leaving is a legitimate solution. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 05:57 PM |
| 2 | Do you think it is possible that in the future women will be the ones whom society will expect to be providers rather than men?Right after pigs turn into winter birds. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/01/26 05:03 AM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Hate is your projection, there no hate, just pity in my heart for y'all. Happy new year to you too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 10:49 PM |
| -1 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"They've let women lead in every aspect of marriage and life together, at least on the outside, constantly pandering to emotional instability instead of helping women self-regulate. Their sons grew up watching this travesty as if it's the norm and don't even know about alternatives. Now the same women that would be emotionally imploding or exploding when something doesn't go their way have the control and complain about wanting to be led. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | What's With the Sudden Increase in "Women Being Lead?"Assuming you weren't living under a rock for the last 20 years, you must know that unlike your father, the vast majority of blue pill men turned into complete emasculated pussies and their sons are even worse. Combine that with all pervasive DEI handing out the best paying and most cushy jobs to women, which in turn means there's not going to be enough higher value men for women to partner with. Combine that with the psychotic metoo witch hunts - the young men that are dating are very passive fo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:26 PM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Bless your heart, sweetie, they miss you on 2xRegarded | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:11 PM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Correction: Nobody cares what average men think. If women didn't care what all men think, they wouldn't hide their N counts 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:05 PM |
| – | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterYou're reading too deep into it sweetie, bless your heart! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 03:03 PM |
| 0 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Just enjoy the pretty pass, man, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Should couples who don't have kids and don't want to ever have them do 50/50 by default?Lmao, American women will die on this hill before this becomes norm. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:40 PM |
| 3 | The red pill is delusional about single mom dating optionsThe only women who struggle are those who sabotage themselves for a variety of reasons. So the majority of single moms. You do realize women today started divorcing and leaving perfectly fine "good men" to chase the tingles of the whore phase? That's literally tiktok brainrot-induced self-sabotage. The only men that would find acceptable to wife these whores are not anywhere close to even the caliber of men they've divorced lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:37 PM |
| – | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterBless you heart, sweetie | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:18 PM |
| 1 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Men's whoring comes with effort and thus guilt-free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:16 PM |
| 1 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?If you think women's most dominant traits are delusion and groupthink, then I think pulling a France and disguising the marriage thing as a feminist thing can be a good move. That would imply embracing all the other terminal brain rot of modern feminism. Not at all. Modern feminism is only about equality on paper. Women might be prone to groupthink induced delusion, but they are not retarded by and large. No politician would even table such a law for fear of loss of women's votes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 01:06 PM |
| – | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterSorry, in not reading this wall of text. Just say you're upset. We get it. You want equality until these topics come up, then all we hear is bitching and whining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:57 PM |
| 2 | Why is slut shaming wrong?I already do lol. You forget that men's whoring has merits, unlike women's whoring. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/12/25 12:55 PM |
| – | Women have given up on dating menHow dare you /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 11:05 PM |
| 3 | Why is slut shaming wrong?Whores want to whore with no guilt. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:58 PM |
| 3 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterYou do realize I'm comparing women to the children of the same species? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 10:56 PM |
| 2 | The cock sharing pact between alphas and mid-tier carousel casualties is fucking dead.As an owner of "top tier cock" I find these posts amusing, but not entirely wrong. The shit single and married mids have pulled to get fucked by me is insane. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 08:42 PM |
| 4 | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀Sorry dude, I must've missed it. I'm old school RP too, and the communities I'm a part of predominantly focus on self-improvement rather than MGTOW, field reports, or cold approach wingman matching. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀….but instead of hearing that this is possible, these dudes would rather just say “I don’t believe you, it’s impossible, you must just be Chad.” You are confusing black pill with red pill, mate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:49 PM |
| 7 | 🤔 Quick question for the Guys in This Sub: How Many of you Are Actually in a Relationship? 👀Are these young green beans even RP at all? We know that bargaining doesn't work from the old TRP. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:46 PM |
| 5 | Men say they just want a normal, decent partner and resent women for wanting ‘perfect’; Women are terrified of being chosen merely for being decent and acceptableThey are searching for “the one,” and they want a man who believes they are the one too. I think this has never been a problem for men. The problem men have with modern dating are all the Dark Triad frogs women kiss fuck while searching for "the one". Which coincidentally automatically makes these women whores and not "the one". Thus by definition the only men these women would match are Dark Triad trash that will knock them up and abandon them in favor of fresh pussy or "get milk" quest. I went… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:39 PM |
| 4 | You can discuss the incredible feats of women athletes without having to say that men are stronger and betterAre they actually incredible feats if an average teenage boy in that sport can easily outperform them? I don't question that they are incredible feats for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 06:28 PM |
| 1 | Whats your best Blue Pill success Story?Blue pill is mainstream relationship types only. Red pill is just one of many non-mainstream approaches. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 04:29 PM |
| 1 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?They need guidance from other men ಠ_ಠ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 04:10 PM |
| 4 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?They're already on the downwards trajectory with no sign of change. The most realistic outcome is birthrate collapse combined with failure to attract immigration, followed by economic collapse, within 30-40 years, if nothing changes I'd say. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 03:02 AM |
| 5 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?You sound like a chatgpt response, man. I'm from Canada, but I have friends and acquaintances worldwide, it's the same shit all over the West and even in many westernized Eastern countries. Because I think it will get worse for you unfortunately I've adapted a long time ago, so it can't really get worse for me personally. people have what it takes to take a better route. This claim is completely unsubstantiated though. In order to take a better route, people need to have values that allow them t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 5 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Sorry if you and your friend have been hurt but you should leave your environment Haha, I'm the fuckboy, I didn't get hurt. And you can't really leave if you want visitation, right? None of them are deadbeats to abandon their kids. The one with grown-up kids did leave the West on my advice, but his ex has fucked with his head too much, so he still can't settle anywhere. that's clearly not what the reality is The reality is that you don't know shit. The men that's been fucked in the ass by their … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 12:39 AM |
| 5 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Yeah, so much. A woman I play chess with across the continent is trying to figure out right now how to get on this dick here. A mother of 2, married, got a pass from her BP husband. take anything from me She was never yours, it was just your turn 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 12:14 AM |
| 2 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?It's impossible to figure out because rules shift up to 180° from one crazy bitch to another and it only takes one of these crazy bitches to completely wreck our career/life with a couple finger taps on her phone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/12/25 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?You are conflating Anger phase stage of grief guys from here and the rest of the Internet with my fuckboy friends. There are actually two paths to red pill: not getting laid and getting laid too much. Both may cause the man to ask himself "WTF is going on here?" I'm the latter. I only learned about Tate on this sub, you BP chumps talk about him more than any red pill community lol. Guy is a pro fighter afaik, he gets his ass beat for a living, that's in the job description 🤷🏽♂ anyone who's ever… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 11:47 PM |
| 8 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?I’m happy to contribute to the misery of red pilled men. What's happening only creates blue pilled fatherless feral shits and fatherless feral whores. They're neither red pilled nor men, overgrown boys at best. I’ll make sure when we have our annual blue pilled men Don't kid yourself, you don't have conventions. BP men are too used to taking it up the ass from the women culturally and politically to organize themselves into anything even remotely useful or meaningful without the women's approval… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Jesus, that's crazy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 10:38 PM |
| 12 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Gaslight central again. Bro, I don't need to invent anything, I have a name and a "good man" (honest, high-earning, faithful dude) with every story. Blame women for all problems That's not what wrote, I wrote "this society". Blue pill men and politicians of all sexes are absolutely complicit in this shitshow. Things might start changing if men vote with their wallets, but until that happens this race to the bottom will continue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 09:05 PM |
| 3 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?I don't know about backed by the courts, going to the gym and coed sports are still legal where I live, but the bullshit feminist cultural stigma definitely lingers around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 08:45 PM |
| 23 | Why do we have a generation of "weak" men?Their advice is toxic and dividing men and women. This clown gaslight central shit is why men stopped buying into blue pill in the first place. Men and women were ALREADY divided, red pill just pointed out that the Emperor was butt naked. I know a literal plethora of good guys, not fuckboys like me, and each and every one of them got totally fucked in the ass by their ex-wives and soon to be ex-wives. From lying in court to get primary custody, to taking all the shared money, to cheating and get… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 2 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughIs it a fundamental difference though? While I would never sugar daddy or pay for sex, I think there's a difference. Because if we accept your premise, then, extending that logic, every woman in the West that goes on dates and expects men to pay for her is fundamentally a prostitute. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:20 PM |
| 1 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughAs a sugar daddy you pay for desire vibes, not for getting your dick wet with a whore. The rest is a weak blue pill strawman not even worth responding to, you can do better. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:55 PM |
| 5 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughHow many men do you know that can afford to be a sugar daddy? Blue pill is so cute when it faces reality. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 04:07 PM |
| -1 | Redpill works if you're patient and consistent enoughSugar daddy ≠ loser though | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 03:40 PM |
| 2 | What's the reason behind women constantly calling men "Porn Brained" merely for being interested in hookups and casual sex?I'm repeatedly attracting everyone, cheaters are just ready to fuck without leaving their current relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 01:19 PM |
| 3 | What's the reason behind women constantly calling men "Porn Brained" merely for being interested in hookups and casual sex?u/FlamingMetalSystems Its fair to say most young women do hookups and most relationships grow from hookups. It's fair to say that you've picked the most lied and gaslit about topic on PPD. Thus you will be lied to and gaslit. Good luck with that. I say this as the guy women try to have as FWB and try to cheat with on their SOs. I literally live the other side of that you talk about. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 06:25 AM |
| 1 | Why do men think there are so many good menWhen a mid and below mid woman wants a top guy, she's shopping outside her price range 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:45 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think there are so many good menYou've forgotten the biggest condition: this guy must be willing to give up all his other options for her lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:42 AM |
| 8 | Why do men think there are so many good menHe's obviously a secret misogynist /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:32 AM |
| 11 | Why do men think there are so many good menYou think most men would never lie or cheat or hurt another person? Don't know about "would never" but the whole reason this society even works is because they don't do that casually on a daily basis. Because societies where that changes disappear rather quickly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:31 AM |
| 2 | Why do men think there are so many good menmen on here just tell you you're lying. It's because when we hear that it's usually coming from someone who's big time into Moses'es salary rather than his looks. A woman who feels her wall coming up and is trying to cash in her chips. I'm sure you're nothing like that. This is not about you, this is about all the other women who act like that 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:28 AM |
| 20 | Why do men think there are so many good menMeaningfully too | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/12/25 05:19 AM |
| -1 | Women: Do you agree with the concept of the "Chad-widow" ?I'm the widowmaker 🤷🏽♂️ Sorry, you guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:55 AM |
| 2 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women."It was only getting worse" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/12/25 06:35 AM |
| 0 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.Lmao, it's not trafficking when whores pay for their own tickets and come to stay voluntarily. But if they prove something, then he's trash and deserves it 🤷🏽♂️ See, RP Tate followers can at least tell where their father figure is, yous OTOH 😏 know what I mean? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 11:56 PM |
| – | Online Stalking DiscussionHe admitted to me his wife hasn't been putting out for like a month now, so this simp behavior is forgivable as far as I'm concerned. Poor guy is down in the dumps and desperate to get his dick wet or at least his ego boosted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 10:58 PM |
| 2 | When guys who say “I want to be TRULY desired” or “I want to be wanted for who I am, not what I can provide” they mean they want to worshipped.They don’t see women that people... + the rest of that fucked up paragraph. What kind of broken life experience is this coming from? Did I miss the memo when this sub became group therapy or something? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 10:55 PM |
| 0 | Men severely underestimate how much threat processing women need to do and how much that hinders their pursuit for romance and sex.Dear women, make sure you definitely don't put out for this guy. If this was actually the case, ONS wouldn't even exist. But they do exist, which flushes your wall of text down the toilet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 07:13 PM |
| 3 | Thoughts for men who stay mad at womenStages of grief are a bitch. Some men are just stuck in the Anger stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/12/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Do you know what other gymcels do beyond lifting like you? No you don't. So, by your own logic... 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:40 PM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.It's really dumb to speak for all red pill men. It's really dumb to assume every red pill man would know every red pill grifter. To have no idea who this myron is or what he does is not dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 10:05 PM |
| 6 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women.They read the book and used it as an instruction manual 🤦🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 08:45 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Resilience training, patience training, perseverance training, "try again" is a family motto. I also train them in martial arts, but that's a "just in case" optional extra, when they're in the mood. Here's the thing, everyone is sensitive when they're little, because all the bad things are happening to you for the first time. But, unlike with women, the world will not be as forgiving when these boys grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:54 PM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.RP is mainstream and popular So I need to know every grifter out there? Please. It's like 'muricans thinking we all know each other here in Canada. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.With all due respect, if you are actually assertive, then you assert yourself to be in a position where people are disincentivized for even questioning you. That's a toolset you naturally develop as an assertive person. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:44 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.No, parental pressure is not social pressure. Social pressure you can escape by not participating socially. Parental pressure is always there until your grow up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:42 PM |
| 1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Eh, I'm loving with my kids, I don't care what anyone says. They're kids only once, might as well pour my heart out 🤷🏽♂️ That said, I also continuously work with my boys to harden them up. Those are not mutually exclusive behavior patterns. Both are done out of love, because I want them to succeed in life. My 6yo already has mental resilience of an average western adult. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 07:37 PM |
| -1 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.sweet sensitive boys I want to point out that only a woman can even say this phrase without sounding like a child predator. Consequently, they need to be hardened, since life for men isn't on easy mode like it is for women. The angry part is the failure of their parents and mentors indeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:21 PM |
| 5 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Only when red pill does it | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:16 PM |
| 0 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Who TF is myron? Is it some red pill grifter you're about to strawman us with? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:15 PM |
| 4 | Women have a heard mentality and because of this they don’t do things in their own interest and are very performative.Cool. 99.99% of women are nothing like you, and you know it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:14 PM |
| 3 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women.😭💀 Good one! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 30 | No one told men that good manners and good morals translated to sexual desire within most women.TL DR: don't believe your lying eyes, guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 09:43 AM |
| 5 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?You conveniently skip the parts where they literally admit my point: The apparent value of marriage can be almost entirely attributed to what social scientists call “selection effects.” That is, certain types of men are more likely to succeed in life, which increases their marriageability, but the institution itself does not make an independent contribution to men’s financial well-being. Another part: The question about selection effects, the one Matt Bruenig asks, is an important one. Clearly t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 03:04 AM |
| 1 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?You're confusing correlation with causation. These cause and effect are backwards: High value men that don't flounder and are stable are also much more likely to be successful and have women chase after them and do everything they can to marry them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/12/25 02:27 AM |
| 1 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?I would say that the problem I presented you with is even harder than the one you presented us with, because it fundamentally requires that women in the west voluntarily give up the marriage perks they currently have, which in turn requires women to reign in their biological urge to permanently lay their hands on men's resources. See the broken pattern here is: women want high value men, the objective penultimate proof of high value is resources, marriage removes these resources from men and giv… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 10:42 PM |
| 1 | One of my fundamental grievances with TRP is that it kinda makes you frame your life around your appeal and ability to find/keep a relationshipDude, are you familiar with history at all? Men literally built this whole civilization to get better pussy, make pussy more available, to ensure men don't have to fight and kill each other over pussy. If women didn't exist and we multiplied by mitosis, we'd still be chilling in the caves around the fire with our bros. Be having the time of our lives too. Also, no, I have plenty of other hobbies that don't center around women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:07 PM |
| -1 | How to make it so that pregnancy doesn't change a woman's health forever ?Let's make a deal: we'll figure this one out, while you come up with a solution to "how to make it so that marriage doesn't negatively affect a man's financial status forever?" Y'all want women to do what they're good at. Considering how much effort is being put into developing artificial wombs, that's just not the case. Whatever fucked up side effects kids will have from not growing inside a live woman, they're continuously weighed against ever more multiplying terminal tiktok brain rot cockroa… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 09:01 PM |
| 21 | How do you think this "Red Pill recruiting" happens?As predicted, OP got immediately strawman flooded with engagement algo slop. A better question would probably be "how do men get red pilled offline?" We see who women claim to want feature-wise and then we see who they fuck. Then we notice that there's virtually no overlap between those two groups of men until women hit the wall or start worrying about the wall. The former is some bullshit Disney Prince feature set, the latter is every Dark Triad frog they kissed fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:13 PM |
| -1 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.I'm not Henry Cavill, but I'm more attractive than most of them 🤷🏽♂️ it's not that high of a bar really, esp when you see them without makeup. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 07:05 PM |
| 0 | When women say they “don’t like muscular men,” they are often lying, consciously or unconsciously.models mid. For the last time, your real appearance is you without makeup. Margot Robbie that women clamor about here constantly is just above mid (6-7) without an hour of warpaint work on her, and so are many Hollywood actresses. They are nowhere close to model. I say this as someone who was offered model work. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 05:48 AM |
| 26 | Do men actually prefer if their girlfriend is a virgin?Let's just say, most men prefer that their girlfriend is not a whore, details of what that entails may vary from man to man. For some it's virginity, for others sub 10 N, etc etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 12:43 AM |
| 1 | Why men still ask women on dates if they don't want to pay?You need to reframe your worldview from "I'm settling" to "we're learning about each other". Also, we certainly don't need to learn anything about a hoe to tap that ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 12:41 AM |
| 1 | Do you not believe that some women genuinely don't want kids?Absolutely, some don't. I also believe that some women are easily brainwashed by the media they uncritically consume (hence "baby fever" and childfree DINK fad). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/12/25 12:34 AM |
| 1 | What are you’re thoughts on Ice Spice outfit at the SpongeBob Premiere?Who TF is ice spice? Wait, I don't care. Like Dave Chappelle said: "if you dress as a policeman, people will think you are a cop and come to you for help with the police things. Likewise, if you're wearing a whore's uniform, don't get angry when someone confuses you for one". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 11:01 PM |
| 2 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.Oh, he should absolutely be held accountable, his wages garnished for child support... Oh, he's unemployed? Tsk, how did that happen? Oh, he's in prison? My goodness! Oh, he's fled the state? What a terrible man! I guess no child support for the baby mama. All these things could have been avoided if women didn't spread for trash men 🤷🏽♂️ causality is a bitch, innit? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 04:52 PM |
| 1 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.Only after redpillers get called out for talking shit about the parent who stayed. They never have that same energy to talk shit about them as they have towards the women who are actually taking care of the children. If they hadn't spread legs for human trash, there wouldn't be a need to become "the parent who stayed". Do you understand causality? You are complaining about outcomes of a problem, women created EXCLUSIVELY by themselves, but fucking human trash. Do you understand how ridiculous th… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:33 PM |
| 5 | The majority of criminals are not raised by single moms. That’s just propaganda to blame women for the actions of men.We're perfectly fine calling smash and dasher human trash, a better question is why so many women spread their legs for human trash with no rubber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 03:01 PM |
| 3 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.You cant even hold men responsible for their actions without talking shit about women. I don't owe it to you either of those things though 🤷🏽♂️ And I'm not taking shit about women, just the hoes, there are plenty of women still that don't whore around. You just want special treatment for men. Please. I'm not interested in defending what you've imagined I want. I don't care how average Joe Schmo gets treated by women. I care about long-term societal outcomes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/12/25 07:35 AM |
| 2 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.What? Commitment has to be earned by everyone. It's absolutely consistent. But it is true that some weak-willed men will lie to hoes about it (as if they have a chance, whereas they're too deep in the red) just to keep getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 09:58 PM |
| 2 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingNo emotional self-regulation = anything in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:27 PM |
| 1 | If you don't want to be exclusivity with a person, then you don't really like them.Nah, you're just not committed (yet). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:23 PM |
| 4 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingI mean, they've successfully nagged men to cede power to them over the last 50 years or so, so lash out MO clearly works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:22 PM |
| 3 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.Because it has to be earned. Women have created this environment by fucking around and oversupplying pussy to the high value men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 05:20 PM |
| 16 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingWhen are they not lashing out? (It's a rhetorical question) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:36 PM |
| 3 | If you want exclusivity with a person, you should be willing to communicate that.Men consistently pursue what they want. Women should pursue what they want. If women want exclusivity, they should verbally pursue establishment of exclusivity agreement. Just because they're too immature to communicate that, doesn't shift the burden onto men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 04:22 PM |
| 2 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingThis sounds like cap lol. "I'll have you know, I even cum sometimes !" Look, I'm not saying it just to say it. I'm saying it because the overwhelming majority of women sliding into my DMs are leftist. The ratio is like 10:1. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:28 AM |
| 5 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingBut if leftist guys went back to the more masculine versions of leftism from the past Unlikely since it has a lot more to do with clown-ass feminist articles "signs that he is alt-right: going to the gym" than whatever leftist men actually want. But I understand your sentiment, since the original leftism is blue-collar labor movement. Except having absorbed Marxism and it's cult-like features leftism has distanced itself from labor and embedded itself in academia, which is also the breeding grou… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 03:13 AM |
| 1 | What advice would you give a woman to find a good men?Lmao, asking modern women for advice on dating good men is like asking a compulsive arsonist about self-control | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:24 AM |
| 1 | What is great about therapy?Therapy is unfortunately snake oil of the 21st century. Most people go there to see some shit therapist to simply validate their own bad choices. A rare real therapist worth his or her salt will help you figure out your shit. That said, if you're not a total deadbeat clown, you should be already working on figuring out your own shit daily. Therapist should be necessary if you have some traumatic shit to process, something that makes you break down or non-functional. The hard reality is that we a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:21 AM |
| 3 | Women should not date, sleep with, or in any way sexually validate men who are conservative/right-wingIf leftist men weren't such limp dicked noodle armed soyboys, this would never be a problem lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/12/25 02:11 AM |
| 0 | Should men be openly critical of women who are bad or boring in bed ?Fax | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 09:24 PM |
| 0 | "Woman is killed every 10 minutes" is a meaningless number, and intimate-partner-homicide ≠ gender-based-violence or femicide or misogynyThe real question should be: "what did those women do?" 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 05:26 PM |
| 0 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?A trolley bus. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 02:24 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingPrecisely. So it may be prudent to stuff your assumptions until you know the whole picture. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/12/25 06:43 AM |
| 3 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityI'm in my 40s and according to Reddit: I'm well past the wall. Though I do stay active, keep my weight down, have a religious skincare routine, and keep my hair long. For what it's worth, the US dating data shows that the wall for women has moved to around ~45. Hope that brings some joy to your life. Also, you're proving my point that these chats about what "most men" (mid men and below to be precise) do is completely moot and meaningless. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 09:25 PM |
| 2 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalitymany men do not marry a woman necessarily as an access to sex, but moreso they want a mommy. Does any woman ever aspire to get with an average man? Be honest. No, no woman ever aspires to get with a mid man. Thus what mid men do or don't do is absolutely irrelevant so long as they pay taxes and do work - the only two things they are good for before woman hits her wall. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 08:18 PM |
| 0 | What hinders alot of guys from getting and staying in long term relationships is being manchildren.Which begs the question: why do women enable them? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:37 PM |
| 3 | A lot of men marry women because they want constant access to sex, not because of her personalityPlease. Do you have any idea how much pussy I gave up by marrying? My N would be higher by hundreds. If not more. A mid man maybe does this, but who gives a shit what mid men do? No woman in the history of humanity told herself "I'ma bag me an average guy" or cared what they think or do. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:35 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingBruh, there are places where working girls hang out, where Johns know to pick them up. Cops know those places too. Do you understand the difference in consequences between getting caught picking up an 18+ hooker and picking up an 14yo underage? One of them comes with a double digit sentence and surprise buttsex in prison. Could she been fucking some hobo for a $20? I don't know, maybe, but sure as hell nobody was seeking her out before she started that business. Putting that aside, she didn't ha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:28 PM |
| 3 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?I'm significantly above average in looks and other metrics - women randomly flash me their titties on a bus. The advice that worked for me will not work for average men. I'm self-aware enough to know better than give it. The things I can confirm absolutely worked for my friends are: Pre-selection. Once you have a girl, getting another one is orders of magnitude easier. It's like they can sniff out that you're dating. Step-stool technique. Date a slightly uglier girl who is friends with the hot g… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 07:18 PM |
| 3 | How can we reconcile "Don't go out just to meet women." and "Get outside your comfort zone [if you want to meet women]." as dating advice for men?I think it's nigh time men realized that asking women for dating advice is a sign of mental weakness. Even if they mean well, it's going to be incompetent at best, have the exact opposite effect at worst. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingDuh. Of course I know all these kids. I volunteered at a youth center they all go to. The boys are already gangbangers, and the girls are already selling themselves, because they grew up seeing their moms do it (even non prostitutes). Did you think transactionality of women putting out for favors/money escapes kids? They see everything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 02:03 PM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingThey're already gangbangers. The ignorance and entitlement is seeping off the screen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:58 PM |
| 0 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingEntitled to safety and protection. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:56 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingI guarantee the average woman does not know or care about this topic. The whole point of the question is to get a woman's immediate reaction that reveals the reality of her inner world, not a canned curated response. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 01:55 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Between two identical looking men, who’s going to have the most casual sex: the intro or the extro?Absolutely extrovert. In fact even a less attractive a foot shorter extrovert will get 5x-10x-100x the pussy, assuming he has game that is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:32 AM |
| 2 | CMV: "I thought y'all chose the bear" is an immature response to women's frustration with datingAgreed. I really think the man/bear thing should die, though. It's so stupid. It would have never exist in the first place if it didn't perfectly highlight how completely fucking deranged and entitled the average female's worldview is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:23 AM |
| -1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingYou mean the underage boys she offered sex in exchange for money or favors? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 03:16 AM |
| 2 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingSo you think she committed a felony by trafficking herself? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/12/25 12:28 AM |
| 1 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingThere's a whole red pill Christian subculture out there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Forgiveness for past sins in datingNot necessarily. I've seen many inner city girls copy their moms and just start offering sex for favors and money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 11:36 PM |
| – | "But I know so many ugly guys who are married !"Money gets many women moist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 03:39 PM |
| 1 | Redpill teaches men things to avoid but is extremely damaging to having real relationships> when shes mad Alexa, what is boundaries. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 07:15 AM |
| 1 | What I think people get wrong about whether or not men care about your careerMen marry down. It doesn't matter *how far* down. Thus her career is absolutely irrelevant. The only thing that changes with her career is her entitlement - she thinks she's entitled to a higher earning man. > statistics about how intra-class marriage is the most common. Because you marry who you hang out with, duh. It's not rocket science. Your daily average close proximity to a woman drastically increases your chances with her. > But I'd argue that this is simply due to women going to college … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedRoger that 🫡 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/12/25 06:37 AM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Because women cover themselves with the bullshit SIDS term. If any man was found near a dead baby and spouted the absolute horseshit "oh it just stopped breathing, I don't know why 🫣", people would line up to Lynch his ass. + All the baby murdering through abortions. Women out-murder men by orders of magnitude. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:45 PM |
| 1 | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.They're on the literal battlefield, fighting to the death, what are you on about? ಠ_ಠ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:25 PM |
| 0 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?So it's okay to murder children when women do it? Are you actually hearing yourself? 🤦🏽♂️ Using that logic I could say that men murder their women because they're around a lot and have to deal with all the women's hormonal bitching and whining and tantrums. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:21 PM |
| – | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedIs that what I claimed? I suggest re-reading my comment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 11:37 AM |
| -1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?And your response is whataboutism? Did I write anywhere that men are angels? I'm confident I did not. I'm not going to whitewash poor behavior of men. The question was inquiring how does red pill sees women, not to compare bad men to bad women, or bad men to average women like you're doing. Or should we start pulling data on how women and not men are predominantly the people who murder their toddlers? Because we can. Think before you type a response please. I don't want your knee-jerk reaction. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 11:35 AM |
| 3 | Ladies, what are the top 3 things your partner does in bed that guarantee an orgasm?You better not be tagging me again with video lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:31 AM |
| – | If stealthing is legally considered rape, so should lying about birth control be treated as reproductive coercion and be equally punishedMake paternity fraud an automatic felony retroactively and introduce mandatory genetic tests with mandatory child support payback. I guarantee that within a week the incarceration rates will not be gender skewed anymore lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:27 AM |
| 0 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyExcept saying that guys are price charming is nowhere near blue pill mainstream, is it? To claim so would be making a barefaced lie. But yeah... I do wish I was treated more kindly back then, so in that spirit I'll drop it Fair enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:13 AM |
| 1 | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.People in leadership positions often have to face choosing between the two evils. It's easy to sit on a high horse and preach, until you have to make such a choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 2 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyHe's just in the anger stage of grief, cut him some slack. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/12/25 01:06 AM |
| 1 | Does redpil sees women as people who prevent men from getting sex as much as they want?Red pill sees (yeah yeah nawalt, bla bla bla) women as the "oldest teenager in the room", teens in grown-up bodies. They never learned discipline, or the value of having to earn respect, they're entitled even when they think they're humble, they boast about being humble, shallowness... we won't even go there. Women announcing their "standards" while attracted to shady toxic guys to us is an equivalent of Doris from Nemo doing her monologue then going "Ooooh, SHINY!" Frankly, Doris from Nemo enca… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 09:16 PM |
| 4 | Men have inexplicably rejoiced in their own subjugation - but only selectivelyHave you wondered what happens when most of the world starts getting fed the "rage bait from an algorithm firehose" for multiple hours a day, every day? Most of the world WAS sane before everyone started doom scrolling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.I don't know about the Tang dynasty, but regarding Stalingrad siege you should look up "The Hunger Plan" that nazis devised. They were never going to accept surrender of the city, the plan was to fully surround it with machine guns and make everyone starve to death or shoot them, their only concern was whether regular German soldiers were actually capable of committing such an atrocity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 05:19 AM |
| 2 | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.Someone had to weight disposability of women and children of a city vs the whole country. Clearly the country's worth of women and children were more valuable than one city's worth. It's an awful decision to have to make, but the math is mathing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 03:09 AM |
| 3 | Women Argue Against What They Think You're Saying Instead of What You Actually SaidAnd they also get mad at what they think you've said/meant over what you've actually said. That's like womanese 101. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:55 AM |
| 2 | The "men aren't really natural protecters" is just a lame gotcha argument.Protecting the country obviously comes before protecting the individuals. Similar things happened in Stalingrad siege during WW2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:54 AM |
| 4 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)No, I have no interest in taking down the government, but it is indeed hilarious that that is the train of thought my comment has prompted in you. So? If those men consistently simp and cater exclusively to the female electorate (which is actually the case) it's their problem. Blue pull bullshit. These very programs create an atmosphere of "it's okay to whore around and get knocked up by multiple baby daddies because Uncle Sam (or any other government) to the rescue". That's enabling toxic behav… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/12/25 01:19 AM |
| 2 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)You're lumping in all red pillers together. Those in the Anger stage of grief aren't the same as the ones adapted to modern realities. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 07:52 PM |
| -1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Do you have two kids in the west and you moved away? I don't know if I can pull that off. Other than subpar quality of women in the west, I'm a happy father and I sure as fuck don't intend for my sons to grow up blue pill soyboys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 03:41 PM |
| 4 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)Dude, if you are single top 10%, moving out of the West is easy as pie, what are you talking about? If I didn't have kids, I'd be in LatAm for years now. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:00 PM |
| -1 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)ьзку "У вас ус отклеился" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:52 PM |
| 14 | The Top 10% Illusion: Why Dating Apps Still Suck for Attractive Men (as a 10% user)The only real way to de-center women is to completely remove ourselves from the Western tax system. They get plenty of attention and compliments from simps on socials, what they really need from us (top 10%) is our tax money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 01:51 PM |
| 2 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Oh you! Made me spit out the toothpaste 😂 /u/gauts2103 Can vouch, this porn you watch for education. Takes oral to the expert level. Your SO will be most pleasantly surprised👌🏽 when you give her a leg shaker. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 04:45 AM |
| 1 | Society upholds women’s standards of men more than men’s standards of women, because women’s ideal man is someone broadly admired and socially successful, while men’s ideal woman is someone valued almost exclusively by her romantic partnerHe’s tall. Very attractive. Charismatic. Principled. Kind. Generous. Brave. Intelligent. Either wealthy or extremely resourceful. Well-respected and socially competent. Except that's absolutely not who they get with, is it? Why not look at the caricatures of who women put out to: 1. A drug dealer with a habit, several felonies, and multiple baby mommas. 2. A saggy tittied old rich man popping TRT and Viagra. 3. Tall, attractive man, with a 6-pack, a big dick, and any level of shallowness. This i… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:33 AM |
| 1 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.I know, and she's talking out of her ass 🤷🏽♂️ most people here have no fucking clue what Internet even is. Hundreds of different protocols, millions of kilometers of cable, dozens of types of servers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/12/25 02:22 AM |
| 3 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.For Republicans women gun rights are very important. They're in the minority among women 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:10 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.It was a tongue in cheek comment. Of course I know you're not the leader. I just find it ironic that women are trying to ban the one thing that would give them a permanent leverage against any man with ill intentions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 05:21 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.Guns are the equalizer 🤷🏽♂️ and criminals don't listen. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 05:06 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.Sure, but you gotta talk to your sisters, because they're the reason guns are getting banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:44 PM |
| 2 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.Frankly, we as individuals need to dismantle social networks and social media and go back to snail mail and in person gatherings. I think it'll be a good first step away from the insanity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:24 PM |
| 1 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.Women are the ones voting for gun bans lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:20 PM |
| -1 | Feminism is not an idea. It is a technology I can switch off at will.It wasn't, but nice try. A woman created the wifi spec, and she still has to bring it to men to make any use of that idea. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 04:15 PM |
| 1 | Putting ego aside for my woman’s pleasure. Girls thoughts?Hey u/HorrorAddendum1466. As a very well endowed man who has seen and had sex with absolutely cavernous vaginas out there, it's absolutely the right perspective. Don't ever listen to anyone who tells you otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/12/25 06:25 AM |
| – | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?Yes, really. It's not like they're some sort of spies, you know. Actions are visible and obvious 🤷🏽♂️ and I didn't say it's completely impossible. I also definitely have selection bias, Canada is very liberal, even though I live in the most conservative part of it. I'm sure in some other parts of the west, like the rust belt of US it's slightly easier to find a woman matching those parameters, but realistically, for the vast majority of places, that's not going to be the case imo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?Its not an offshoot, mainstream redpill is highly dogmatic if you want to discuss it or not. Look, if everyone jumps off a bridge, I'm not jumping with them. Feel free to call me a red pill heretic or something 🤷🏽♂️ I've only heard the phrase "red pill truth" be used by those who claim to be red pill (which is funny because if it was true it would just be called the truth). Back to the dogmatism. I'm not interested, like I've already told you. This is what I'm talking about originally, red pill… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:55 PM |
| 1 | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?I always look at people's actions rather than words. Being consistent is the most efficient way to live. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 05:28 PM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsFor what it's worth, I feel the same way about men complaining. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 04:37 PM |
| 1 | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?The red pill is just the justification for the belief system. See, I'm not interested in discussing some dogmatic red pill off-shoots, or mentally challenged red pillers living in their confirmation bias. Which is why you constantly hear "red pill truths". "Red pill truths" are a blue pill strawman. The whole point of red pill has always been: "look at women's actions, not at women's words". That's because actions are self-evident, and that's why women hide some of them: "Body count shouldn't ma… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/12/25 02:36 AM |
| -1 | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?What I learned about the red pill as I got older is that it takes some truths about social behaviors and human nature, then exasperates it to an extreme level to make one size fits all judgements about entire situations Yeah, red pill doesn't replace the need to use your own brain. I'm sorry it took you so long to discover that. Red pill is about rules of thumb and default assumptions you can make about any randomly met woman. Can she challenge those assumptions with her behaviour? Absolutely. B… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Do you have the feeling you changed the mind of somone here?I mean, you can't un-take the red pill. The only thing that could happen is you catch a oneitis and go through the whole "she's not like the rest, she's a 🦄" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 09:00 PM |
| 2 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsFR, what a tease. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | CMV: GFs should not cook for their BFsSo then a man shouldn't pay for her on the date, right? Since she didn't prove she's wife material. It's a transactional red flag bruh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 07:02 PM |
| 0 | Women are denied the gift of failureI think he's saying there's always a kind soul, a variant of Captain Save-A-Hoe, willing to rescue said woman from her predicament, thus resulting in her not experiencing the real consequences of said failure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:33 AM |
| 1 | Dating is only hard when you dating people with a void (Avoidants)Bruh, what about flakes? Ego shoppers? Cheaters? Visa grifters? Delulus? Crazy beaches? Avoidants are the least of our problems. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:25 AM |
| 1 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.You belong to a group that does and you think a man child still thinking about his middle school heartbreak 20+ years later is trauma. 4/10 low effort troll. You can do better. You clearly have never heard of co-parenting and only like 25% of children only live with their mothers. Even disregarding all the hoes that got knocked up out of the wedlock by ONS or baby daddy that ditched em the second he heard they're pregnant, women initiate 80% of divorced, meaning they've no respect for their husb… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:17 AM |
| 1 | Slutcon - a training camp for learning how to flirt, etcYep, that's her! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:12 AM |
| 1 | Is Don’t Worry Darling a redpiller’s dream?As a top 10% I've adapted to modern travesty of a culture, but I'm not happy about it. I have a lot of traditional and progressive values, so I guess I want something in between. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 08:05 AM |
| 1 | Slutcon - a training camp for learning how to flirt, etcThere's a fantastic tutorial on eating pussy done by a porn star (20+year lesbian). All the women gave me top marks after I employed that skill. You basically wrap your tongue around the clit and gently suck on it while moving your tongue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/12/25 04:09 AM |
| 0 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.At >50% divorce rate, growing up without a father is a normal experience. Conversely, claiming it's a trauma says everything we need to know about you 🤷🏽♂️ demanding empathy for themselves. Nice try, but you won't find a single post by me on the Internet fishing for empathy. I'm not a woman after all 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 06:02 PM |
| 1 | Are Young People Shooting Themselves In The Foot?No, the main pipeline is: tiktok brain rot => spike in gold digging whores + entitled unbearable women => men dating less => men trying to figure out WTF is going on => men discovering red pill => men getting laid or stuck in the anger phase. I'm sure there's tiktok brain rot for men too, but women are much more prone to consuming it. I'm sure other socials have their versions of tiktok brain rot too. If you ever ask me how to fix it, I'd say shitcan all socials. Within a 5-10 years things will … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 04:03 PM |
| 2 | Explaining why an issue exists is not an excuse for the issue to keep existing.is not an excuse to keep having a normal youth experience keep affecting them well into their 30s. So, by this logic, women should get over their daddy issues and have their shit together by 30, instead of being run through by miles of cock, right? Right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:35 PM |
| 0 | Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status?Are you going to tell us you have no preference in men at all? Please ಠ_ಠ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:28 PM |
| 1 | Why are Red Pillers so obsessed with status?😂😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/12/25 03:26 PM |
| -2 | Slut Paradox: Men don’t wanna wife sluts, but are sluts the ladies who genuinely like men?Let's put it this way: in the world where the vast majority of women whore around, and a huge majority of women are completely fucking delusional, getting a slut that's actually in touch with reality doesn't sound like a bad deal for many men 🤷🏽♂️ I've known plenty of sluts that are pleasant to be around and will treat you nice, they're just not my cup of cocoa. The "promiscuous girls" this chick is taking about are usually sluts that know their place in the world, they know exactly who is the … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:59 PM |
| 2 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating apps😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 05:49 PM |
| 2 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?No, cheaper than being married and definitely cheaper than a divorce. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 09:58 AM |
| 1 | Women shouldn’t complain about dating appsWomen not bitching about something are like dry water - non-existent. Like Chris Rock used to say in his stand-up "you can fuck a woman with diamond dick and she'll still find something to complain about". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:44 AM |
| 2 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?Still cheaper than a wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/12/25 04:40 AM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysIt wasn't until recent history that women had much of a choice of who to be with. And they're choosing even more in favor of dark triad traits, so you're whole claim falls apart. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:51 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysWomen in the West have complete freedom in partner selection now and they're selecting overwhelmingly for dark triad traits, so historical references are irrelevant 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 09:50 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysThat's false, because among the people that do have babies, dark triad feature exhibiting men are consistently the (absentee) fathers. If women didn't consistently select for those features, men in general wouldn't be genetically predisposed to exhibit them. The women not having babies better correlates with spike in women's mental health issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 03:14 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysI used to until I realized what it meant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:44 PM |
| 8 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?The idea of duty sex makes my skin crawl. This so much. It always weirds me out how women on this sub consistently try to shoehorn all men into this latent rapist stereotype. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:22 PM |
| 2 | Men, could you go without love if all other traditional desires were met?Knowing that men and women define love differently, how would that "lack of love" manifest externally? Complete indifference at all times? I can get an actual live-in bangmaid for less money than it would cost to have a wife. I don't get one for the same reason I wouldn't want an indifferent wife. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 02:20 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysMen still go to war. Their women now sell their nudes on OF or look for Western simps to fund their lifestyle. Ever wonder why so many single Ukranian women with kids suddenly appeared on Tinder? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:36 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysfound men score significantly higher on average in all three traits than women do when compiling together dozens of studies on this topic. Which would indicate that women as genetic selectors increasingly choose to have babies with men exhibiting those traits. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:32 PM |
| – | There are more bad women than men these daysThe whole point is that she sold her dignity for that money. People kill themselves before selling their asshole, because they still won't put a price tag on their dignity like she did. Shitty men created by shitty single mothers and shitty blue pill parents lack dignity and thus simp for women like her, earning her that money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:29 PM |
| 3 | Is Don’t Worry Darling a redpiller’s dream?No, they were more dark triad street trash. And what is the red pill utopia? There's no such thing. If you think about it, red pill doesn't cover the way "things should be", only the way "things are". Consequently, red pill men don't have the same ideas about how things should be, thus there's no unifying idea of a utopia. For example, many top 10% guys have embraced the "enjoy the decline" mindset and simply enjoy all the free pussy women are giving away, with no thought of relationship or marr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:11 PM |
| – | Q4M: Why do you ignore obvious social cues inviting you to approach?I don't have enough hours in the day to approach every woman that looks at me then looks away. Most of them I find unattractive. I also find this behavior unattractive. A grown-ass adult that can't properly communicate her wants or needs is just icky. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 01:38 AM |
| 10 | Is Don’t Worry Darling a redpiller’s dream?The opposite really, it's a living nightmare. If the only way the woman I desire is with me is because she's drugged/simulationed out of her mind, then I'd rather be single and jerk off or fuck robots for the rest of my life. And to be honest, the movie has more parallels with today's world than some imagined red pill utopia, except women are brainwashed and overmedicated into the hollow, shallow illusion of meaningless hedonistic freedom, while realistically living as freeuse holes for dark tri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/12/25 12:05 AM |
| 3 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipI agree. The last lady I ended things with said she was ready to drop the big L on me, but I knew it wasn't going anywhere with her and I'd rather she find someone who wanted a permanent relationship with her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:17 PM |
| 2 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipThanks. You should also recognize though that a lot of women lie to themselves "I'll change him", only to later claim "he led me on, to get sex". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:24 PM |
| 0 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipI do value them, so much so that I wouldn't do them with a woman that is not wife material (doesn't want to fuck or have kids). Relationship activities with me are reserved exclusively for my main woman - wife material one. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipYes, because those are minimal conditions for her to be in my life, not the total extent of what we're doing together. We still going vacationing, picking the wallpapers, all that family stuff together. Don't be assuming that I wouldn't build any sort of relationship with her. What I meant was that if one of those two things were to be removed, I won't even bother to start building a relationship with a woman like that. The best she can do with me is be a temporary/side chick, and I'm pretty cle… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:12 PM |
| 2 | Access to sex is a terrible reason to form any serious kind of relationshipWhile I absolutely agree that getting in with a woman for an LTR would only be done during post-nut clarity, on the flip side, why would anyone even date someone they're not sexually attracted to? I have friends and family for when I want a good company. The only reasons I would tolerate the presence of a woman in my life are if 1 we're fucking and 2 having kids together. There are surrogates, hoes, and situationships for everything else. That said, I sure as hell ain't stooping down to emotiona… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | Guys should be a bit gayer if they wanna get laidSo he's just too much in his own head. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 02:46 PM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyThanks man, I'll check it out! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 06:33 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyOk, adaptation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:29 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by society"Government by the retarded, of the retarded, for the retarded" Osho never gets old lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 04:28 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyThat is what the old way was like for women. Realistically, this "evolution" only changed who's getting head though 🤷🏽♂️ instead of Billy the hubs it's now Gary the boss, with even less commitment than what Billy had. And let's not pretend that Gary is any less ugly than Billy. Most women now pursue "happiness" with their cheeks clapped by Gary or some complete street trash. That's why no good men want them 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/12/25 03:28 AM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyEvolution implies improvement due to evolutionary pressures. None of that is present in this process. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 09:39 PM |
| – | The stats on growing ideological divide between men and women shows men's ideals have relatively remained the same yet women are increasingly becoming radical, yet all the discussion is about "young men being radicalized"... exposes a clear agenda pushed by societyThis requires a capability to understand collective interest and an ability to think beyond yourself. Which arguably is quite lacking in today's voters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 09:37 PM |
| 1 | QFW: Do you think it’s a bad thing that women are generally perceived and/or expected to be more “nurturing” and “caring”? Do you think it’s something men can learn from?Don't know what they'll answer, but the amount of women that get their Jimmies rustled when they meet a man who is more nurturing than them is unreal. immediately offers her assistance to me and my siblings and to anyone else I don't think that's being nurturing, that's just being a decent human being. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 05:00 PM |
| 13 | Women consider it a "betrayal" when an ostensibly platonic male friend expresses romantic interest in them ONLY IF they're not interested in him, as wellAren't women the ones pedalling This implies women actually know what they want 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 04:56 PM |
| 15 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?Holy shit, bro, most of women freaking out is nothing like this. I was giving you the benefit of the doubt, but this is definitely a you thing. You're attracted to or you attract some toxic AF women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:14 PM |
| 12 | Why does it seem that women's feelings override any normal relationship boundaries?are the majority of women nutty? You're not going to like the answer to this question. The majority of women never even experience boundaries and thus freak out when you enforce them. As to whether that makes them nutty... I don't know. I blame single mothers and simps - neither enforce boundaries in their kids/partners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/12/25 02:06 PM |
| 4 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayI don't use Gepetto or anything else in writing here. What do you need me to unpack for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:42 AM |
| 3 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayThe giving or not giving a fuck is not self-evident. Women swipe on pictures, not on catered openers. Ergo: A mid's knowledge of her bio is completely irrelevant to his success in matching or maintaining a chat with a woman. What is relevant is his perceived attractiveness by her. Thus a funny generic opener is more coat effective and saves an incredible about of time across thousands of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:41 AM |
| 2 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayNo I didn't, since there's no way in hell I'd date her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayTomato, tomato. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:18 AM |
| 5 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayA mid, average man, might read women's bios in vain hopes that his catering to what they like/don't like increases his chances of matching/date. Reality is such that his chances are so minuscule that any effort multiplied by zero is still zero and quite often the effort itself gives women the ick. The reason it gives women the ick is because such behavior indicates that the man is at a disadvantage in this dating interaction, and women don't date down. Conversely, a much higher than average man … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 11:06 AM |
| 2 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous way? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:55 AM |
| 5 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayMy point is that a mid's chances of a match are so minuscule that personalizing an opening is an absolute waste of time. it's more cost effective to send more generic openers to other women than to peruse her bio. Even if you match, rather than reading bio is better to organically ask things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:53 AM |
| 4 | Do most guys never experience the "talk" with their parents about relationships?"The talk" makes it known that the "fun man" and the "husband man" are two different men and most blue pill husbands had no fucking clue about any of this up until recently. Girls get this talk low key, away from dads. Most boys never do. This is actually the main driver of divorces and growth of manosphere: women being done with the "husband men" and looking for "fun men" to get dicked by, while clueless blue pill guys suddenly finding out they're the dog shit backup option. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:45 AM |
| 10 | Men complain about being unsuccessful but then limit their pool in the most ridiculous wayThat's exactly what she claims lol. She got big mad yesterday when I told her reading bios is an absolute waste of time for a man, and the reason for it being a waste is women's flakiness. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 10:37 AM |
| 1 | Do you believe your life holds value simply because you exist?Are you asking philosophically or practically? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:29 AM |
| 7 | Do you believe your life holds value simply because you exist?Personality doesn't exist in a vacuum. A good personally only makes a positive contribution when interacting with other members of society. Take a hermit for example, it doesn't matter what his personality is, since he lives in the mountains and interacts with nobody. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 06:01 AM |
| 10 | Do you believe your life holds value simply because you exist?Value for others by purely existing? Not at all, lol. A man's value is merit derived: for other men based on how competent I am, for women how much I make and how much I can make her cum, for society how much I pay in taxes and otherwise contribute to community. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/11/25 05:50 AM |
| 1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I'm not from US either so I can't speak to that 🤷🏽♂️ all I can say is that maga peeps and red pill peeps are not the same peeps. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I don't see it peddled on TV or youtube or socials like woketardism is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 07:26 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Do you know that there's data that super likes and such have the exact opposite effect on women? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:45 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Lmao | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:22 PM |
| 4 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.If you read the woman’s profile before swiping, you will increase the odds of the women viewing your profile being people who would be interested in you. That's completely false. Women swipe on your pictures, which coincidentally take up 90% of real estate on the screen. If profiles actually meant anything relevant for matching, the app developers would give them more space. But they don't. If you were more selective with your swiping I am selective. Big tits & ass, nonsmoker => <= Everyone else… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:53 PM |
| 3 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Unfortunately, quantity beats quality here. The amount of time he would spend reading and addressing the profile is more effectively spent swiping on or chatting up other women. It's women who made the effort meaningless or even icky lol, too late to be mad at this now 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them."Men not reading is women’s fault, but men can totally take accountability. Trust me bro!” Men didn't behave this way before apps 🤷🏽♂️ we know women's swiping patterns 🤷🏽♂️ we act this way because we'll either get away with it or it will not matter in the first place - that's our accountability. Most of those were ex-boyfriend‘s. Are you mad women arent virgins until marriage? Not at all. I frankly don't care about any woman's mileage, but my boys will sure af know not to marry high-N whores. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:38 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Look, I understand your frustration, but for an average man apps are a mind numbing grind. Reading most of women's profiles would cause him to lose the remaining 3 brain cells 🤷🏽♂️ With zero investment, talking to a woman for days means nothing, he's either hot enough for her and she'll break the "bare minimum" or he isn't, and that chat had no future in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Because expecting men to be accountable is apparently a fantasy. They are accountable though. Those men fully recognize that they operate on incomplete information. I don't know why you're so upset nobody reads your profile. It's a direct consequence of women's dating behavior lol: Hot guys don't give a shit about your profile since you'll match them anyway. Mid guys don't give a shit about your profile because it's a 1/1000 chance you'll match with them regardless if they read it. Guys are very… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:23 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.No, even that is a waste of time. Even the majority of matched women are flaky as hell. It's meaningless to learn anything about them, since through their own behavior they've devalued the match to nearly nothing. By learning the guy over invests in the match. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 01:08 PM |
| 2 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.What does that have to do with you believing women to be the only ones reading profiles? Not believing. I think it's silly and unrealistic to expect men to read profiles when they match 1 in a thousand (if they're lucky). Extremely wasteful. No sane man would adopt such a strategy. How would you know? I'm a top 10% so they're all in my DMs, and their conversation skills suck. That's how I know. So stop pretending you guys want relationships. We do want relationships. With women that are relation… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:59 PM |
| 7 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.A mid guy has to swipe thousands of times to match one chick. He ain't got time for that profile read. And for hot guys it doesn't matter, women will break their rules every day. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:53 PM |
| 4 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.So we have just completely given up pretending that men take accountability more than women do. Huh? This is so far away from what we're talking about it's not even a strawman, just a random meteor in space. it's only practical for a non-top 10% man to cast his net wide and then look at the profiles of those who already matched him. This way he gets both the LTR opportunities and sex opportunities. It seems too many men are overestimating their looks. Read the rest of the paragraph. Most women t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:49 PM |
| 5 | Men will absolutely do things that do not benefit them.Not reading profiles. That's your job, lol. An above mid guy has to swipe right on literal thousands of women to get a match. He doesn't have enough hours in his life to read profiles. Never learning how to socialize or maintain a conversation. Literally doesn't matter if hot enough. Most women he's matching with completely lack that skill as well so 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 12:28 PM |
| -2 | Are you afraid of being alone in your twilight years?If I can't get it up anymore, it doesn't matter if she run through or not 🤷🏽♂️ you said twilight years, not child rearing years. At 65+ I'll get with some 40yo who still looks good in cowgirl and matches my libido, assuming my dick still works by then. A 20yo would probably fuck me into an early grave, which is not a bad way to go I suppose, but I have kids and fam, who love me and who I love. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 04:13 AM |
| 3 | It is entirely possible that humanity NEEDS "losers".Just read about Natural Selection and evolutionary pressure. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!I agree with the general idea that MAGA/right wing beliefs have become more intertwined with the redpill and manosphere but it was always a right wing position to begin with. The only thing they have in common is that they're both riding the same anti-mainstream bus, but their goals are diametrically opposing: MAGA tries to fight mainstream, red pill exploits mainstream. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:46 AM |
| 2 | How MAGA Hijacked The Manosphere!Calm down Alex Jones. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:41 AM |
| -5 | Are you afraid of being alone in your twilight years?Lmao, no. The older I get the more run through hoes and other women want to play house with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/11/25 02:38 AM |
| 0 | Men will use the “women just hate male sexuality” excuse when criticized displaying for selfish behavior.His preference: a woman with a vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 10:46 PM |
| – | Confidence is something you are born withCompletely disagree. Confidence comes from competence and awareness of said competence. Even when I was short and chubby mid ghost before my final growth spurt I was confident because I was competent and I knew my shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:27 PM |
| 1 | Do you believe relationships are riskier for men or women?They are riskier for women physically, and riskier for men financially. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:23 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Was that a half-hearted attempt to gatekeep? It didn't work. It took me less than a heartbeat to cut out of my life someone very close at the time, immediately after they tried to manipulate and abuse me. It's all about perspective. If they try to abuse you - they don't love you and they're not your friend, and no matter who they are, you are better off without them. All you have to do is get up and say: "we are done". Then you walk away and live the rest of your life abuse-free. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 08:09 PM |
| – | Do you actually feel comforted by the "you dodged a bullet" mentality?Depends how crazy the bullet is. You fuck the bullet and it shoots you in the dick or gives you AIDS - that's not dodging it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:55 PM |
| – | Do you actually feel comforted by the "you dodged a bullet" mentality?You actually dodge a bullet is when you discover after/during the breakup/rejection that there were even more red flags you didn't know about. Most importantly, you always politely thank the woman/man (don't tell them for what) and be on your merry way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:52 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.Shows your knowledge of a subject. You are right, I don't know much at all about hoe life. But that's because hoes are for fucking, not for learning about them 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 07:44 PM |
| 0 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.dude, only small amount of abusers are in jail or pay fines. Because "But he really loves meh!" - Proceeds to not report him to the cops. Don't feed us this bullshit. Bruh, you even got the metoo literally destroying men's careers and lives without any evidence whatsoever and still have to gall to spew this? Get real. The only reason they get away with it is because women don't report them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:55 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.okay, so you don't shame them because it's obvious. Bruh ಠ_ಠ We shame them so much they're in jail or pay heavy fines, they're also unemployable and thus jobless. None of that stops women from hooking up with them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 06:41 PM |
| 1 | Are the men better now or 10 years ago?They are weaker today, and 10 years ago they were weaker than 20 years ago 🤷🏽♂️ And I'm not just talking about noodle-arm soy-boys here. Even so-called "gym rats" are weak, in character. They may look shredded and strong, but inside they're like oysters. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Men hate women who like bad men but don't care about those bad men. And that means they hate women not for "bad choices" but for not choosing them.I see a lot of posts and comments that blame women for choosing wrong, choosing assholes, deadbeat dads, abusive men, toxic, those who'll just use them, you name it. They did choose them, didn't they? Your choice = your responsibility for your actions. The focus is always on women We already know that criminals are shitty people, that's nothing new. It's the allegedly normal women, who pretend like it's no big deal to chase a shitty person that are the problem. They are normalizing being shitty … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 05:53 PM |
| 9 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.A pretty woman had zero incentive to experience character growth between 18 and 44. The only relevant difference between a 44yo pretty woman and an 18yo pretty woman is dick mileage and a *maybe* better job (not guaranteed) 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 04:54 PM |
| 10 | 30 year old women hitting the wall and regretting things won’t change anything for men.The latest Pew research data shows that the mean of US women's wall falls somewhere between 40 and 55 years. Which frankly tracks with the whole "whore until I can't have kids no more, then freeze my eggs" modus operandi you see pushed on tiktok brain rot channels. As a Chadlite who did get to have sex with them in their prime, you didn't miss much. Pretty women don't get smarter at all between 18 and 44, there's no reason for them to do that. That's also number 1 reason why the whole talk about… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.Reddit popped it on my front page 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/11/25 12:43 AM |
| 3 | Need Advice from Women: How can men decenter women and still get regular sex & intimacy, just like women are decentering men and meeting their needs? How can men live like women?6'3, about 8.5/10 in looks, but my buddy with a much much higher body count than me is a plain mid with a 5'7 height. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 09:35 PM |
| 7 | Need Advice from Women: How can men decenter women and still get regular sex & intimacy, just like women are decentering men and meeting their needs? How can men live like women?Can you edge a woman with your dick for 20 minutes without busting? Can you eat a pussy like your life depends on it? Do you know proper clit play? Can you quickly find her G-spot when fingering? Those of us getting regular casual sex have answered yes to all of the above. Good fucking = repeat business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:22 PM |
| – | Most dating advice from women here comes from a point of extreme ignoranceWhat he said ☝🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 08:17 PM |
| 1 | 90% of all women want to be dominated. Period.The fact that you think you dad spanking you and your partner spanking you are the same... It's a bit disturbing tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:58 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.No, the ex-husband is blocking her from the payout, so she's barely scraping by lol. Also, I can't dicknotize her because of her arthritis. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.Bro, she has a 1 year old and rheumatoid arthritis (incredible pain in all joints). The first one takes away her sleep and all free time, and she can't even fuck because of the latter lol. It's like a perfect hoe punishment from God. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/11/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Men's Libido Is a DiseaseI presume you're a grown adult. I'm taking about teens/pre-teens that get exposed to this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 04:39 PM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingI'm surprised myself. I need a good strategy for lineup management. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:55 PM |
| 4 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeThis is absolute bs. My buddy, the biggest man-whore I know, is absolutely plain looking, 5'7 guy. I personally watched him rizz his way into a 6'1 bombshell chick's pants over one evening. She wasn't the first either. If you aren't getting laid with your type, it's nobody else's fault, but yours. Remember OYS of Red Pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 12:44 PM |
| 2 | Single moms are a negative for a man, and only widows should get an exemption.I had a chick on OLDs hide that she had a 1yo toddler (in addition to a 5yo), was suing her millionaire ex for divorce money (claiming he's abusive), while trying to hide her OnlyFans "career" from the family court, lmao. It was like I hit a hoe bingo. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 11:23 AM |
| 2 | Men's Libido Is a DiseaseI agree that the guy that used fentanyl as an example was unnecessarily hyperbolic, but that does not and should not detract from the fact that it is a real issue. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 10:50 AM |
| 2 | Men's Libido Is a DiseaseNobody claims they are the exact same. There are obviously degrees of addiction, and psychological addiction is no less harmful than physical, especially to the young minds that get exposed to hardcore porn pretty much the second they get on the net. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 10:44 AM |
| 2 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingLoL, is that why every time I date a girl all her girlfriends line up trying to get some side dick? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 09:16 AM |
| 4 | Men's Libido Is a DiseaseIs it though? Psychological addiction is real. I know my first experience with adult content was completely accidental, popping "The Best of Pamela Anderson" VHS in, curious to find out who she was and what the movie was about. These days you click a random user profile on Reddit and it's some OF chick spreading her asshole in 4K. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 07:21 AM |
| 1 | Women not being able to get and stay in good-quality relationships is embarrassingRemember the saying: shitty single women keep other women single. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:55 AM |
| 3 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.The rules are: Be attractive. Don't be unattractive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 03:39 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.makes some guys picky The criteria for pickiness is still rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/11/25 02:36 AM |
| 16 | What women don’t understand about male nature: you likely AREN’T your boyfriend’s typeSpeak for yourself, bro. I date only my type and married my type. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:51 PM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.I am one of them. Want to know the criteria? 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 10:45 PM |
| 1 | Men who want a stay at home wife or mother: what would you consider financial abuse versus fair?Access to all accounts, benefits, top 10% lifestyle, severance package. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 09:13 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.ಠ_ಠ Are you for real right now? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 07:30 PM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.The only way to get rejected by a man before sex is to break rules 1 and 2 to such a degree that he can't even get it up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Directly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 08:03 AM |
| 1 | Most Low Status men (ugly, autistic, short,etc..) rejected by society and by women become alcoholics (some hide it well, others not so muhc) and create problems for everyone else involved. And it seems that no one wants to adress this issue. It's society's fault this is a systematic issue, CMV😭💀 peak! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:49 AM |
| 0 | Most Low Status men (ugly, autistic, short,etc..) rejected by society and by women become alcoholics (some hide it well, others not so muhc) and create problems for everyone else involved. And it seems that no one wants to adress this issue. It's society's fault this is a systematic issue, CMVProblem: societal rejects drink too much alcohol. Society: let's make them too poor to drink! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 05:46 AM |
| 5 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.If what you say checked out, then men wouldn't self-report being single in constantly increasing numbers. Women clearly don't select those "regular men" for neither sex not relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:44 AM |
| 3 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Doubt it. Situationships are on the rise. That's all the women lying to themselves that they got the guy almost locked in. One is a fuckboy and the other is a safe boy. They're the same man extremely rarely. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:32 AM |
| 2 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Lmao no, if memory serves me right, those results are from donor matching tests. It's a bonus on top of "No you are not a compatible donor with your child because your child isn't yours". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 04:08 AM |
| 1 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.> Only a small percentage of women participate in hookups. Statistics that over 30% of kids aren't biologically husband's heavily disagree with you lol. If you had said "only a small percentage of women are honest about participating in hookups" I would agree with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:02 AM |
| 8 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.I know lol. Modern women today have guys for sex and guys for relationships and those aren't the same guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 01:00 AM |
| 0 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorBut do you actually see red flags if you ignore them every time you see them? Say this was about stop signs instead of red flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:22 AM |
| 3 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorInternally yes, but for the rest of the world it doesn't make any difference whether you actually believe the man is good or whether you're in "I can fix him" denial. At the end of the day you're choosing a bad man, regardless of why - ergo your discernment is broken. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:12 AM |
| 2 | There's nothing women bring to the table other than reproductionKek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:07 AM |
| 1 | Where do autistic and adhd men fit in?They don't fit in. They're low key not supposed to procreate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:06 AM |
| -2 | Women should stop acting like a personality detectors and being morally superiorBut how is that different from not having the ability to see red flags in the first place? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:04 AM |
| 5 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Rules 1 and 2 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:02 AM |
| 7 | Women get rejected just as often as men, it just happens after the sex.Nope, because women aren’t after sex The biggest lie propagated by the blue pill. Women are after both good sex and relationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/11/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | Redditors are insane when it comes to age gapsIt's not an equitable environment for them. Arguably though it was never supposed to be an equitable environment. All men were never meant to succeed, even the majority of men were never meant to succeed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:56 PM |
| 1 | As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025If you approach girls out an about they almost always go cold, its like some Psyops done to people. I smell rule 1 or 2 not being followed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:17 PM |
| 2 | If men take what they can get in dating, then why should women bother with relationships?why should women bother with relationships? You are right, there is no reason, that's why women started forming soft harems around bulls. A woman in a friend circle locks in a good fuck, and all her friends line up to get dicked down. Guess how I know? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 05:14 PM |
| 1 | Why are these popular figures controversial?Get ready to be called a pickme. They're controversial because what they say goes against the feminist narrative of "woe is oppressed me". When JP says "if you have a problem with every woman - the problem is you" he's met with applause, when he says "if you have a problem with every man - the problem is you" every feminist in the earshot has a brain aneurysm. JP's message has always been unisex, likewise so was everyone else's from the group you've mentioned. You should ponder, what happens whe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 11:05 AM |
| 4 | As a single man, dating apps are your best bet to find a partner in 2025And half of those women are catfishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 07:58 AM |
| 1 | Beware of people who give you sob stories that explain that everyone else is the problem.It's not leeching if he's going to pay them back. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 07:50 AM |
| 1 | Beware of people who give you sob stories that explain that everyone else is the problem.It's it me or is Lilith slowly getting red pilled? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/11/25 07:49 AM |
| 4 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?Bruh, women's way of getting involved is nagging men to do something. We're already sick and tired of that shite. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 04:41 PM |
| 6 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?It is a societal issue, but expecting women to fix it is frankly idiotic. Men have been fixing all societal issues since the beginning of time, like that's going to change now lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 03:32 PM |
| 6 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?Lmao, no, nobody expects women to anything. Expecting women to care about and act on men's issues is like expecting water to start running uphill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 03:06 PM |
| -1 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?Something like that. It's like watching shite hit the fan in slow-mo | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 05:14 AM |
| -1 | I’m convinced that the only reason men want women to be more involved with fixing the “male loneliness epidemic” is because they genuinely do not care about one another’s problems. Thoughts?I would believe that if every woman I was ever friends with, hadn't low key tried to fuck me at some point it another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/11/25 02:40 AM |
| 5 | It is not a parent’s job to teach their kids how to get laid.ಠ_ಠ whose job is it then? Do you not want your sons to succeed? It's also absolutely parents' job to teach the daughters how to be discerning when choosing who gets to date and fuck them. The "bad advice" all comes from blue pill clueless dads who don't even know that their wife had settled for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 08:49 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itIre? It takes a special kind of a person to pedestal women who "bring up" their kids to be career criminals and whores at rates twenty times higher than single dads. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 08:20 PM |
| 0 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itRemarried and had a stable family overseas. Mom had him sign away parental rights. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 08:18 PM |
| -1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itNot at all. Single mother child criminal/prostitute rate is ~x20 times, as in 2000% higher than that of single fathers. It's absolutely not a money problem, it's a single mother is shit at parenting problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:52 PM |
| 0 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itI meant growing up with a single mother and seeing a bunch of loser boyfriends or an abusive stepdad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 0 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itAnd I have and know a dozen kids with the exact opposite personal experience. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 05:03 PM |
| -4 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itLook, I care about the outcomes for the children. I don't give a shit if the single mother is breaking herself in 2 and working 5 jobs - if her children grow up into criminals and whores she's a failure by definition. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:51 PM |
| -4 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did it> They are never actually single fathers. They always have some woman lined up to take on the responsibility. Thats why men remarry basically instantly after divorce/death of wife. That's called delegating though, and the outcomes for children are all positive. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:36 PM |
| 1 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itI'm sorry you had such a father, but I think it's unfair to project your experience onto other single fathers. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 04:16 PM |
| -6 | Becoming a single mother by choice using a sperm donor is actually insane and it would rightfully be seen as insane if it was men who did itThere's a reason single father households do just as well as two parent households for children outcomes - it's not crazy for a well off man to rent-a-womb for his offspring. Isn't that what already happens with gold digging whores that marry for example football stars just to divorce and take half? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/10/25 03:40 PM |
| 1 | Women are much more naive than menAh, I apologize, but the solipsism factor is still valid. I've worked in female dominated fields for almost a decade and everything you've described down to a T happens there, but in reverse. I'm a former fuckboy, so women came to me to try to cheat. It could've been the same women that claimed their husband would never, or completely different women. Putting the above aside, I'll have to say that women are definitely adept at feigning ignorance and innocence. They could be giving you trash advi… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 09:59 PM |
| 4 | Women are much more naive than menI have some female friends and they give me TRASH dating advice. You forgot to factor in solipsism. They give you advice that works for them, which is absolutely trash for a man who is not a 8-9/10 (and even for those men that's pushing it). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 07:05 PM |
| 0 | What options do high income women have?Does being successful come at the cost of having a healthy relationship with a man? I think you almost nailed it, but got the cause and effect backwards. Being successful is a result of being unable to develop a healthy relationship with a man, even if he is a good provider. Instead of working on her deeply rooted trust issues such a woman throws herself into work. Some of these women become successful, others don't. As the bar for women to succeed is lowered through DEI and various other initia… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 05:49 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?A minority of women are making the wrong choice of having kids with the loser men and end up single. That's 40% of all births lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 02:57 AM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?are in fact not reproducing Oh, they aren't? Over 40% of all births to unmarried women, single parenthood at an all time high, 80% of which are women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/10/25 12:35 AM |
| -1 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badA single mom is the parent who stayed stayed because failed. common to gain weight and get stretch marks when you have a baby I know, I'm a father. And after she's had a baby and done breastfeeding, does a secret fattinator monster keep her fat? No, it's a lifestyle choice. Sitting on her ass will always be easier than working out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 10:25 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?I don't pretend that all men are good, like you and the rest of women do here when trading about women's mate choices. Women choose who they spread legs for. Thus, by definition, a fatherless child is an end result of a woman choosing a shitty man as a partner and fucking him without protection. You keep blaming women for men’s actions and decisions. Did she think he was a fantastic human from the get go or did she go "I can fix him", "he'll be different with me!" That's what I thought. Why woul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:57 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?Hold men accountable for them being shitty people? Lmao. Are you implying they transformed into villains Scooby-Doo style the second they knocked up those women? Please. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:52 PM |
| 2 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badSingle mom is a failed wife and fattie with stretch marks is a lifestyle that has absolutely nothing to do with being a single mom. Fixing birth rate through single moms is like trying to deliver a baby through the asshole. I'm sorry I didn't read the rest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:25 PM |
| 4 | Red Pill advice surrounding the Male Loneliness Epidemic is confusing and badHuh? It's not on a single red pill forum or channel I've been to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 09:21 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?So it's a sliding scale, they have to be older by less than half your age or something like that? lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:36 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?> He taught me how to make bread the first time. He taught us wood working, and kept a big veggie garden, and had ducks and rabbits, and enough grapes to put up about fifty bottles of wine a year. (I have fond memories of the three of us kids getting hosed down and then stomping grapes...) And read us Tolkien. All this in the middle of Seattle. I think, at the end of the day, your homesteading friend was providing non-monetarily for the family. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?> Who is paying then? Society makes him pay through alimony and child support. > But what if the husband doesn't pay? What if he walks out? A big part of being a tradwife that everyone glosses over is picking a non-shitty human to marry 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:59 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?> If women are getting knocked up by shitty men "en masse" that means there is a substantial number of shitty men. Like pairs with like though. > You can't have it both ways - you either have women pairing up with some shitty men to have kids, or you have a low birth rate 100% Disagree. If women exercised discernment as they've done for literal hundreds of thousands of years prior to sexual revolution, they would only have kids with non-shitty men. 80% of men in the history of mankind did not pr… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 06:57 PM |
| 1 | What's your ideal world ?Ideal world? Where women and men couldn't lie when in relationships and when getting into relationships. All the women's actions would always align with their words and so would men's, all the dark triad clowns would be left on the side of the road, you would always know what kind of daddy/mommy issue bs you're getting yourself into. A ton of insecurities would disappear because you'll always know that they're not lying to you when they say you look great in that dress. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:47 PM |
| -1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?> PAY for it like any job. Society does pay for it. With the husband's money 🤷🏽♂️ > Sounds like it's a lack of good men and fathers if the problem is fatherlessness. Sounds like it's a huge lack of discernment if women get knocked up by shitty men en masse, no? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:42 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?She? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?All your billing, banking, money management has gone from a real job into a non issue. Are you for real right now? When the majority of individuals and couples struggle to budget, are almost permanently in debt, and live beyond their means? When my ex took her job seriously she was saving/making us close to a hundred thousand dollars per year. Cars, real estate, investments, etc etc. I can't even take you seriously after this claim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 04:03 PM |
| -3 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?There is nothing honourable about being a submissive accessory to an average man. Ftfy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:52 PM |
| 3 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?stay at home husband I would disagree on this being feminine. I think the stigma is directly linked to the implication that the man has failed as a provider to the point his wife has to earn money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:50 PM |
| -1 | Do you genuinely believe that a "traditional" female role is important and honorable?Personally I can't speak to "fulfilling for women" since I'm not one. Statistically, there's probably some women that get fulfillment out of it and some that don't. All that said, I can comfortably claim that childrearing is absolutely of outmost importance for a society, and we are currently witnessing how lack of it is massively fucking up the West. Childcare clearly fails to deliver the same level of childrearing, as do schools. But interestingly, the overwhelming majority of criminals male a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 03:47 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Of course I can lol 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:39 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Got it, thanks! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:34 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?What about 10 years? I'm trying to find the upper boundary. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:31 AM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?😭 💀 Gotcha! Thank you for the feedback! Thanks for the laugh too, I haven't had such a chuckle in a long time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/10/25 02:30 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I thought the other qualities would offset those. Clearly I was wrong for the most part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I want to create 4 or more tangible archetypes for the men to pursue, while making it fun for the women to choose from. > Did you expect someone to choose the good guy or the muscle nerd? I did and several women did pick them actually! Less than I expected to be honest. I thought they were pretty balanced, but clearly I was way way off lol. I'll have to re-balance these guys and make another "Would you rather" next monday. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Got it! Thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:20 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Awesome, thank you so much for extensive feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:15 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! I'll make adjustments and post new descriptions next week. And thank you for the female version idea! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:11 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! Would your answer change if the kids were pre-teens? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:05 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Got it, thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?So 10/10? Makes your brain explode into fireworks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:51 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Sure, I'll crank it up to 275lbs on the next iteration lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Would that change if you were in your 30ies, say 35? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:49 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I know, but I had to start somewhere lol. I want to bring it from a "romantic trope" to a set of realistic options for men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:00 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Interesting choice, thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:56 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I didn't say The Roid Roach, lol, he's still a Nerd. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:54 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Awesome for you! How much would you rate sex out of 10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:52 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Do you think more women would pick fuckboy if they weren't worried about cheating? I'm more than willing to remove the cheating fear for the next iteration of the poll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:45 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I'll change it from a range to 10 years 👍🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:43 PM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?If the good guy gets to 5/10 on sex scale and gets one interesting hobby, would he become more attractive than the Fuckboy or the Daddy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:10 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Happy for you! Most women picked The Daddy over fuckboy though. Why do you think they did that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:09 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?May I ask, what part humanized the fuckboy? The helpfulness? The knowledge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:05 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Alright, how much better would he have to get? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:02 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Most adults don't "party much" so it's not a deal-breaker to many women unless they're 19 probably. I've met multiple 28+yo women to whom it mattered, that's why I'm asking. I'm trying to go off of observations, rather than my assumptions. If it's not a factor at all, I'll remove it for the next poll. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:52 PM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Gotcha, so it does become a deal breaker at a higher number, thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Well, believe it or not, I didn't come here to use this poll as ammo for anything. I was quite surprised how age gap of 15 years didn't matter at all to anyone here, and it's clear to me based on responses to my adjustment of The Daddy that women here value certain things way more (hobbies, wealth, social skills) and others way less (having kids, fitness, massive age gap, being a musician) than I expected. For the next iteration I'm going to nerf The Daddy down wealth-wise (maybe even take away … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:49 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:34 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback! Did 15 years of age gap matter at all for you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:33 PM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Did a 15 year age gap factor at all for you when making the choice? I was under the impression that it mattered a lot. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:31 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?15 year age gap was not even brought up anyone. I am mind blown to be honest. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 01:29 PM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Hahahaha, thanks, but no, I'm not him either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:12 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Thank you for the feedback. Unfortunately, I didn't have time to write an even deeper backstory for each of these guys. As for the past, I wanted to be accommodating to all kinds of women and see if such knowledge or lack of it affected their choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:10 AM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Fascinating, thank you! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:03 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?👍🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 07:00 AM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Congrats! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:41 AM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Do you feel like that would be settling? What if you had no other options than these 4? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:40 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I'll be honest, I was thinking about a very specific guy I know. He's actually married with 3 kids now lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:27 AM |
| 2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I'm probably a weird mix of Fuckboy and Muscle Nerd... But even that doesn't sound right tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:23 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Nerfed The Daddy with two teen kids and no hobbies in common. Let's see if anything changes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:18 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I'm none of those guys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:17 AM |
| -4 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I just nerfed The Daddy though with two kids and almost no hobbies in common. It's he still winning lol? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 06:15 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Done | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:52 AM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Let's say, he has 2 kids. They divorced because in-laws didn't get along and they had to take sides. He's half boring and he doesn't party much. He may still decide he wants more kids and if you don't - that'll be an unwinnable scenario. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:32 AM |
| -2 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?I actually used a bunch of people I know to create these profiles. There's probably 40 or so guys that went into these. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:29 AM |
| 0 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Half of his hobbies are boring, and he doesn't party much, and may still want kids. These are deal breakers for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:26 AM |
| 1 | Who would you rather pick for a partner and why?Half of his hobbies are boring, and he doesn't party much, and may still want kids. These are deal breakers for many women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:25 AM |
| 7 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?There's a reason why I've put "the good guys" in quotes. When women talk about the good guys, they're never taking about the actual good guys. A good guy/man is a mythical creature that does not exist. He's simultaneously passive when she needs her feminism and independence flexed and takes charge when she doesn't want to bother organizing something, before she even realizes that. He's simultaneously a good fuck, but also has a low body count, but also other women want to fuck him because he's s… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 05:21 AM |
| 6 | Q4M: Thoughts on this advice for young women?then when you are READY to settle down, "spin the block" on the good dudes so to speak. They'll be stoked to talk to you. The advice is inherently bad because your experiences change you. First, women that have been around the block think "the good dudes" are boring. They give no pussy tingles to women that got used to acting on pussy tingles. Second, "the good dudes", who don't know any better will be stoked to talk to her until they find out she's been riding that cock carousel. Some kind soul… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/10/25 03:41 AM |
| 2 | NNN: Abstinence For Males, What does it do?you gotta toughen up and get used to that, it’s been that way a long time. My dude, I'm the proverbial 666+ guy, I don't need to toughen up, getting women to fuck is not a problem for me. Finding the women I would want to LTR/wife is a problem for me. Lol most western women are not retarded reddit feminists. I never said they were, they're just completely incompatible with my values. What is considered "success" for women in the Western world, I perceive as failure. And the overwhelming majority… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | NNN: Abstinence For Males, What does it do?Because actual women around you look attractive when you are not blowing your dopamine receptors out jerking off. And what does that have to do with this conversation? I don't want to fuck western women not because they're ugly on the outside, but because they're ugly on the inside. We're also taking about abstinence, not necessarily dumb Internet challenges. Is easy don’t look a porn. Dude... Have you seen any lingerie commercial at half-time? I've seen 18+ material that's more tame. That zen c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.Shots fired lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:52 PM |
| 0 | NNN: Abstinence For Males, What does it do?How can it be a mix lol, they're the exact opposite of each other. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:46 PM |
| 1 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.😮 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:44 PM |
| -2 | Men shouldn't expect women to settle for them in their prime (20's) because men themselves don't have a prime they can give women.While women hide the aging part under makeup. Can't hide the fat though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:44 PM |
| -3 | Is it true that pair bonding is affected much more in one gender than the other?Not true iirc, pair bonding affects both sexes equally, however the big difference in the sexes is that men can bang another woman and not feel anything towards her, while they're in an LTR, while women are more likely to get emotionally attached to their affair partner. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 04:23 PM |
| 1 | I feel like most mens' lives are decided as early as middle schoolIn middle school I was short and chubby. Then I grew a whole foot over the summer and leaned out. Went from a ghost to girls flashing me in public. Most insane experiences ever. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/10/25 01:49 AM |
| 2 | Maybe you are the Fox?If I'm the fox why is my dick covered in grape juice? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 11:38 PM |
| 4 | How likely would a man with these standards be to find a partner?Frankly, his "standards" are non-existent. You've described an average-below average woman in the upper middle class, which he's a part of. That said, imo this He has a master's, is financially stable, decent job, own place, exercise routine, but he isn't earning six figures, Is not enough to attract a DINKer lady. He's below mid for HCOL salary-wise, and as a fellow DINK chaser she'll care a lot about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 03:46 PM |
| 0 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?Get some good dick what 😂 Most women dont even orgasm from dicks. Cool 👌🏽 not my problem. would be harder for women to use men through sex. Thanks for telling me what kind of circles you're in, but I don't give those women anything other than dick. You just constantly talk and talk about yourself. Nobody cares about your personal life bro. You mean just like you immediately took it personally and started talking about yourself? Nobody cares about that either 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:32 AM |
| 1 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?I just used the most egregious example. Thanks for confirming you took it personal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 08:27 AM |
| 0 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?The woman that ran a train on herself was 34 at the time, looked 26-28, and a solid 8 with makeup on. Does that answer your question? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:14 AM |
| 1 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?And yes, normal working people dont got the time to hoe around and get in a boat party like what in the world You're confusing brokies with normal people. The fact you revealed youre personally associated with these kind of women speaks more about you and your life 👀 Lmao, this is the standard gaslight that starts every time I mention I know those women. I've met them through work, regular normal work, not at a brothel or a strip club. They have normal lives, kids, boring beta husband with a dri… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 07:10 AM |
| 3 | NNN: Abstinence For Males, What does it do?Abstinence for men takes 2 shapes: The opposite of post-nut clarity (horny rage?), induced by sexual visuals that are literally everywhere these days. You turn into a horny dog ready to fuck anything with a pulse. Zen, when combined with removing oneself from sexualized culture and imagery. You are freed from your testosterone driven urges and become a new man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:45 AM |
| 6 | Its interesting how advice that amounts to “write your own path to success” is met with hostility in male dominated spacesI want whatever optimism pills they feed you, man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:38 AM |
| 14 | Its interesting how advice that amounts to “write your own path to success” is met with hostility in male dominated spacesDon't believe your lying eyes, come to blue pill! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:35 AM |
| -4 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?I don't use porn examples or expect porn scenarios out of life. They just happen sometimes 🤷🏽♂️ And what's the "able to afford" being a hoe? It costs money to spread legs? And what does my age have to do with women's hoe phases? This is so left field. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 06:32 AM |
| 1 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?While I agree with you in theory, in practice I talk to new STEM grads, and some straight up tell me that correlation implies causation, others have no clue even what the difference between a theory and a hypothesis is, nevermind knowing how to use the rest of the scientific method. Most of them have learned to follow instructions and have zero understanding of what they're doing. This is top of their class graduates from a world renown prestigious university. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 03:29 AM |
| 1 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?Some go wilder than others lol 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/10/25 02:59 AM |
| -5 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?Again i can't say for sure, but that sounds incredibly porn like. Ok lol, but I personally know these women. That many men that would keep quiet There were other girls at the party who didn't keep quiet lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 10:46 PM |
| -6 | Do every woman go through a hoe phase?What about non-hoes that had a hoe phase after an LTR? A weekend bender when she ran a football team train on herself, a boat party. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 05:11 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Be honest - wouldn't you feel harassed if a woman told you to smile?That's just adorable is all. If an armed hamster told you to smile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:20 PM |
| 1 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?See, what I'm arguing is that an average high school graduate forgets 60-90% of the knowledge from high school precisely because it's not practical applied knowledge, thus it's irrelevant what they learn, they're still not knowledgeable. Additionally, knowledge has no value in a vacuum, and most academic knowledge we instill is surrounded by exactly that. The reason a lawyer remembers nothing of Chem 30 if he even took it, is because knowledge of redox reactions, etc is not anchored to anything … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/10/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | The DoorDash incident proves feminism rightKek | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 07:55 PM |
| 1 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?They learned more practical knowledge, predominantly because their survival depended on it. Today your survival isn't knowledge dependent. Even after appearance of artisans specializing on particular trades most people were jacks of all trades, from sewing to leather tanning, from carpentry to metalworking. True, they weren't knowledgeable in the literary sense, but their knowledge of chemistry, physics, etc was practical and thus more deep than that of a modern person. Most people of those time… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 06:46 PM |
| 1 | Women have abandoned Natural Selection.Did they through? Did women stop getting knocked up by tall strong aggressive men? Not at all, if anything that number is higher than before. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:11 PM |
| 1 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.Dude, do you even understand the obvious fallacy in your statements? 😂 OP said “Evo-psych is sub par” What is "par" in "sub par"? That's OTHER RESEARCH. Stop acting obtuse. Therefore, the only logical object of comparison, and a tougher position to argue against, is that evo-psych is sub-par compared to proof-based mathematics. Yet everyone consistently freely quotes non-evopsych sociological research here, which is ON PAR with evopsych, and OP has no qualms about that. Get out of here with your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.I think that as an ex professional STEM researcher you will agree that all humanities research is in the same boat as evopsych. So we either not take any of said research seriously, or we give evopsych the same amount of credibility we give to other sociological studies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:44 AM |
| 0 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.1 - I said that OP doesn’t not argue that evo-psych is sub par COMPARED TO OTHER HUMANITIES Come on. Rigorousness does not exist in vacuum. It's relative. When you say "it's rigorous" or "it's not rigorous" just like when you say "it's strong" or "it's not strong", you imply "AS COMPARED TO X". Pine wood is strong (as compared to jello). Pine wood is not strong (as compared to Titanium). Do I have to elaborate further? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 11:14 AM |
| 0 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.Nowhere does OP argue that evo-psych is sub par compared to other humanities. Please. What's in the header of the post? Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe. Apart from that, you appear to entirely agree with OP that such research is rarely fit for purpose. No, I don't agree with OP. It has some predictive capability, which means it's actually fit for purpose. We know that rules 1 and 2 work extremely well for certain scenarios like FWB and ONS and less so for oth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:38 AM |
| 1 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.I think that a debate about rigorousness of scientific research is outside the scope of this conversation. Unless you're implying that evo-psych scientists were the OG Red Pillers and planted evidence in advance to support their ideology? I hope you don't mean that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 10:30 AM |
| 1 | [conservatives] Would y'all be okay if women could get an education, but just didn't get paid for working ?People learned more. Today you go to school and get to fuck around in your free time afterwards. Before universities and systemic education, you apprenticed for family or another artisan, working and studying dawn to dusk. As a blacksmith you didn't just learn to swing a hammer, you learned metallurgy, applied physics and chemistry of steel hardening, quenching, carbon ratios, coal usage, etc, etc... Instead of such a comprehensive education, today you get a disjointed smorgasbord of shit. Half … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/10/25 04:30 AM |
| 2 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.OP is trying to imply that evo-psych is subpar, but it actually isn't. It's on par with the 80% of humanities research. Additionally, at the moment falsifiability of evo-psych is impossible by definition, we're solving for an unknown number of variables, in fact, we're still trying to identify all the variables we're solving for. It's fallacious to hand-wave away all evo-psych just because there are still unknown additional factors. Proper scientists get excited about those because they get to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:49 PM |
| 9 | Evo-psych is nowhere near as rigorous as red-pillers like to believe.Over 80% of humanities research is non-replicable, so these chats are moot 🤷🏽♂️ You do realize that we're studying a complex dynamic system, which is changing even as we speak? Getting even a snapshot of what things used to be is like shooting a bullet through a sparrow's asshole from 500 meters while standing on a galloping horse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:16 PM |
| 2 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notYou should actually read what I wrote. What I wrote is that "his feelings and opinions about how those taxes being spent are irrelevant", since his voting power is negligible. The government will still take the money, while giving zero fucks how he feels about it being spent one way or another. So can men stop complaining about being 'net supporters of women' when most of the men making this complaint don't build society or pay any meaningful amount of taxes But they are net supporters of women.… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:21 PM |
| 6 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notMen are still net tax contributors despite the attempts to edge them out of stem and all the other high earning low risk fields through systemic discrimination. Men are also in the lowest earning fields that women here and elsewhere enjoy to shit on, like custodian jobs, garbage pickup and processing, water treatment, etc. Don't see any of the women lining up to get into those fields, yet we'd all be drowning in shit and trash if those men disappeared tomorrow. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 11:58 AM |
| 2 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notShe's trying to use the irrelevant opinion of her husband as a jumpboard to imply that all men's opinion on the matter is irrelevant. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 08:43 AM |
| 1 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notmen are net tax contributors and women are net tax recipients Well, it's the truth, so it can absolutely be used as a supporting argument for a specific point. What doesn't matter is men's feelings about it, while they're not supporting those feelings with actions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:22 AM |
| 8 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notHe'd rather force the men to support their old children even if that meant sky high child support for them Oh, so he's in favour of mandatory paternity tests at birth? Guess what, nobody cares. At the end of the day he's the tax ATM with no fucks given by anyone at all about his opinion. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 04:06 AM |
| 8 | Low status men like high status men are their allies but but they are notMy husband is a top‑5% earner, he’d be pissed if guys making $60k usedhis taxes How does he feel about his taxes currently supporting kids of some broke ass mfers that knocked up some hoes and are on welfare themselves? Guess what, nobody gives a flying fuck about how he feels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 03:28 AM |
| 5 | CMV: The types of men who pay for intimacy? CowardsI mean, I'd never pay for sex, but if some guys want to fork out their hard earned money to get their dicks wet, as long as they're not breaking any laws, I don't care. It's their money 🤷🏽♂️ Tbh, this kinda reeks of insecurity on both sides. Guys afraid to approach, women afraid guys won't approach them anymore because they're getting laid with pro whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/10/25 12:03 AM |
| 1 | If straight men wear the same gym outfits as women in the gym. Most people would consider that predatory.Predatory? We'd get arrested for indecent exposure lol. There's no way my dick fits into anything women wear to gym today 😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 11:59 PM |
| 0 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%If you fail to get in you don't really know what you've lost. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 09:16 PM |
| 1 | An hugely understated "purgatory" for men is being stuck in the "zone" between average and the top 10%The real purgatory for men is maxing it out into the 10% and then falling out of it due to circumstance out of their control. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 04:27 PM |
| 1 | If you could guarantee up to three personality traits in your future partner, what would they be?My original second trait was humble/modest lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 02:15 AM |
| 3 | Writer researching men’s loneliness, why do some find purpose in ‘self-improvement’ or ‘masculinity’ channels?Well, I can't speak to "masculinity channels" since I've never been attracted to those, but ‘self-improvement’ Aren't we all trying to become better people? I am. I've been working on myself my whole life in one way or another, both when single and in relationships. I'm highly discerning with what content I consume, so even among those channels I only watch select few and those very topic-dependent. At the end of the day the content needs to answer the question "will I become a better person if … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:46 AM |
| 11 | What do woman wrong?I'm pretty sure op is in the middle of the stroke too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:35 AM |
| 1 | If you could guarantee up to three personality traits in your future partner, what would they be?Nurturing, open minded, big titties low to no neuroticism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:24 AM |
| 1 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldI mean whoring leads to paternity fraud. A non-whore woman that has morals wouldn't whore and thus would never have kids that aren't yours. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/10/25 12:19 AM |
| 2 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?That number just doesn't take you far in HCOL areas especially with a family I don't live in HCOL area though 😏 and I already own a house. HCOL "high earners" are not high earners. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 11:04 PM |
| 3 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldOne leads to another. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 10:01 PM |
| 14 | Why do you think that women seem to believe that "leagues don't exist" more than men do?It's not about awareness, it's about the narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 36 | Why do you think that women seem to believe that "leagues don't exist" more than men do?And also, if women admit that leagues exist, it'll mean that pretty privilege exists and that goes contrary to the whole "woe is oppressed me" feminist narrative. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 08:57 PM |
| 1 | Society is one giant psyop designed to exploit and extract value out of people.most species don’t bother trying to manufacture attraction. ಠ_ಠ where does the term peacocking come from? Animals do every thing in the book to manufacture female attraction, from inserting shiny stuff between the feathers, to building huge fucking circles underwater, to flexing, to building massive nests. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 05:02 PM |
| 0 | CMV: Western men need to take accountability for the terrible behavior of many western womenWomen will outvote you every time though. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 02:53 PM |
| 0 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?After an 5 amazing years together and a proposal this is a tough burden for me to bear, i haven’t been intimate with her since this (it isnt working if ygm..) but im in full understanding and hold no anger as we have common ground. Man... You may be understanding with your head, but your heart clearly isn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 02:47 PM |
| 5 | "The juice isn't worth the squeeze anymore." Is it for women?Frankly, I don't expect women to do all that. You can bring the horse to the water, but you can't make it choose the future you want it to have. What do you do that makes it worth it for her? EZ. Multiple orgasms till she can't walk, consistent best sex of her life. I'm a top 10% earner, the only reason she'd work is because she wants to commit her time to a charitable cause. Most women I meet treat their job as a main part of their identity, which is a red flag to me. I was not investing into "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/10/25 02:07 PM |
| 5 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldno one had a clue 🤣 Bruh everyone knew the village whore Also, that's just like 4 people lol. Today a 19 yo girl has a higher N. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/10/25 03:06 PM |
| 1 | I realized recently I don't really care about a woman's past if she's upfront and open about her lifestyle.If her pussy isn’t worth its weight in gold then why do men act like it is? 👀 Simps maybe 🤷🏽♂️ their opinions didn't matter in the first place though. How does a woman act like a virgin? "I don't usually do this" - girl dry humps me in the car on the second date. "I'm not like that" - girl climbing on top of me on the first date. Also, another woman trying to sneaky fuck me behind her husband's back. And yet another woman who later that evening ran a train on herself and offered me first dibs. … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:33 PM |
| 0 | I realized recently I don't really care about a woman's past if she's upfront and open about her lifestyle.No, it's the double standard that upsets men. Nobody cares about any given woman's past, until she goes back into dating and starts acting like a virgin wannabe, as if her pussy is worth it's weight in gold. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:20 PM |
| 11 | Dating hasn't become worse; it's just the internet that has exposed all the lies we were toldBefore the cars, sexual revolution there was definitely less whoring around due to less individual mobility and more stringent morals, and thus less dick availability. For comparison, back in the day everyone knew the village whore, today it's easier to assume that every woman is a village whore. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:16 PM |
| 9 | NO, autistic women do not mask better than autistic menWomen "masking better" is just them brainlessly copying their less autistic girlfriends. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:09 PM |
| 0 | Is being a "passportbros" really a bad thing?Being a passport bro out of desperation is a bad thing - because it's indicative of a scarcity loser mindset. Being a passport bro because you're not interested in run through western women is not a bad thing (but most run through western women would beg to differ) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 06:25 AM |
| -2 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.Lady, linking 6 soon to be 7 year old research is bad manners. Cohabitation is lack of men's commitment, which by definition doesn't make it into anything close to "stable marriage". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/10/25 12:38 AM |
| 8 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.31.5% of women are even married in the US, never mind being in a stable marriage. You represent less than a third of the women. https://www.bgsu.edu/ncfmr/resources/data/family-profiles/FP-24-25.html | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:57 PM |
| 5 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.Don't say the quiet part out loud lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:04 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.Don't feed the troll | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:02 PM |
| 1 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.I will say that I’m in a happy, stable marriage That's great for you, and I hope your husband feels the same, but that statement alone puts you in the minority of women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 10:01 PM |
| 6 | Most women want to be loved, but they dont want to love.they dont want to love. I would argue that most (not all) women don't even know how to love. They've grown up fucked up by Disney's fairy tales, Hallmark movies, or by some bullshit stories their mothers have told them. There's a saying: "give an idiot a diamond dick, he'll still find a way to break it" - that's most women in dating today. Now, most people on this sub are not even in the biggest cohort, they're mostly millennials with an occasional gen X and Z. They still however think that they… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 09:54 PM |
| 1 | Are Eastern European men undesirable for women in western Europe/USA/Canada/Australia?LMAO what. The opposite, the accent is still considered exotic, as long as you don't fail rules 1 and 2 you'll be fine. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 09:48 PM |
| – | Q4M: Does women shaming your sexuality feel dehumanizing?Literally never was told that. If women are setting boundaries for you - you are not hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 09:46 PM |
| 1 | The idea that sexually successful men don't share our complaints about modern dating is a complete fantasy.sexually successful men our complaints Implying we're not red pill lol. Bro, most of us are red pill AF, we just don't talk about it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/10/25 09:25 PM |
| 1 | Women don't see men as "human beings" either. And that's normal.https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Work_spouse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:04 PM |
| 3 | Women don't see men as "human beings" either. And that's normal.I'm 666+ 8+ in looks. In the evening/night/dark alley women (and men) see me as a scary fkn threat. In the club women see me as a funny dancing guy. In the day women see me as a hookup. In their group chat women see me as community dick. In the restaurant women see me as an ATM. In the office women see me as a work husband. You can be a lot of things at different times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 12:16 PM |
| – | Would you be more comfortable in a world where strict social and gender norms, roles, and hierarchies exist over a world where there’s more freedom from gender roles for all people?As long as I decide what my tax money goes towards I don't give a toss tbh, I'm a top 10% either way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:42 AM |
| 3 | Question for women: How can a man who's not able to get casual sex, pursue a serious relationship with a woman who did have casual sex with other men?u/FlamingMetalSystems a man who's not able to get casual sex is fundamentally unattractive to women. You can't pitch your product if you can't get a foot in the door. Your only two real options are work or hobbies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 08:30 AM |
| 2 | Society actively mitigates biological disadvantages for women, but systemically entrenches them for men.What's "artificial" about it? Are you getting swiped on by robots? No, it's women. Natural selection coexists with human systems developed to offset it and always will. many men would take women by force You think they don't try? They're in jail for attempted rape, or jerking off to their rape fantasies at home. result women would prioritize strength and status way more and seek marital relationships where they are loyal to one man, since they would understand that the man is the key to their su… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:45 AM |
| – | Society actively mitigates biological disadvantages for women, but systemically entrenches them for men.Can you imagine blue pill mainstream actually acknowledging that over a third of mothers whored around to the point of getting knocked up? I can't either. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:16 AM |
| 3 | Society actively mitigates biological disadvantages for women, but systemically entrenches them for men.Write this on your forehead if you have to: We will never not have natural selection. Consequently, if evolutionary pressure gets eased up on the women's side through a systemic adjustment, it'll increase on the men's side to stay consistent across the species. What that means for us as a species is that overall increasingly shittier on average women will be getting overall increasingly better on average men, both as side dick and partners, even via situationships if they have to, while mid men … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/10/25 03:08 AM |
| 2 | Which woman would a man select?Hmmm, there are benefits and drawbacks to each. But having chatted with and dated both Comp sci grads and the less educated women, I extremely exceed both in mental capacity and other capabilities. So both types are so far below me, they're effectively equal. Those guys would be even smarter than me, so for them it's even less of a factor. Also intelligence doesn't seem to be correlating with good life choices for those women. I've seen more 30-40yo highly educated emotional wrecks than I care t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 09:36 PM |
| – | What are the signs of a cheater?Can't text or call at certain times Phone on DND That just means I don't want to deal with your shit while I'm at work. Keeps their phone on silent Introvert. Everything else is reasonable red flags 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 09:30 PM |
| 1 | Men need to stop tolerating physical aggression from women. The “play fighting” excuse has gone too far.Agreed. Took me about 4 years to train my ex out of that bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 09:29 PM |
| 3 | Rollo's "responsibility without authority" mantra is trashFirst of all Rollo is a grifter, but he speaks some truth. Let's get a drop-down on taxes paid by men vs who benefits from taxes men pay. Right now over 60% of my gross income goes to the tax man. I know most men here a broke-ace mids, but let's go with someone who's above average. How much do I see out of that tax money? Fuck all. What's it going to? Some fucked up wars women voted on getting us into. Welfare subsidies for the brokie whores that don't even know who knocked them up or whose baby… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 09:19 PM |
| 4 | No, women do not make it "obvious" they're into youSome do. I had a woman lock eyes with me and slowly spread her legs. Another leaned forward until she flashed me her bra-free titties through a deep V-cut. I'm not even counting those who just approached and asked for a number or invited me over for a bang of tea. If women don't come onto you strongly, you're not hot enough. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/10/25 06:04 PM |
| 1 | What's the difference between red flags and flaws in your opinion?Red flags are indicators of huge hidden deal-breaker flaws, that would be a cause for an immediate nope out. That's why they call them flags. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 10:47 PM |
| 2 | Woman should state expensive hobbies to turn off broke under achieving men.Good job! A solid way to filter out brokies 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:19 PM |
| – | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?I'm sorry your future was wrecked by your father. I hope whatever man you'll attach yourself to, will be generous and loving and accepting of your shortcomings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 07:11 PM |
| – | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?It's unhealthy to conflate love with Given whatever I wanted. I'm sorry you were never taught discipline. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/10/25 03:04 PM |
| 8 | Redpillers I know IRL are loserstop of the hierarchy are equally as misogynistic, because they can have any women they want. You have to admit that it's hard to perceive women as people when the only depth of theirs you get to explore is the depth of their vagina. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 11:51 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?What else does “spoiled by a father” mean if not being shown a happy and healthy view on relationships and love? 🤦🏽♂️ well, no, not at all. When I'm talking about "completely spoiled" I'm talking about things like a full size princess castle in the daddy's basement, like a grown-ass adult woman on full retainer from her father spending all her money on Disney merch, a woman with no concept of what a budget is, how to save money, how not to waste money. That's what I'm talking about when I say "… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 10:22 PM |
| – | Removing access to abortion and birth control won’t make women want dependable average men more -- it’ll make them avoid men altogethercall it "sexual socialism" mockingly. See, you're joking, but they aren't. Equity is equality of outcome. The second equity started getting peddled by mainstream as a part of progressive movement, it implicitly means the same outcomes for everyone, including not getting laid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 03:17 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Literally nobody is attacking you, you're not that important, chill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | Male lonliness is self inflictedWon the genetic lottery + dress well + artistic type + worked in female dominated workplaces. At that point it's like shooting fish in a barrel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 05:17 AM |
| 2 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Well, I was neither taunting nor degrading anyone, so no, you aren't holding me accountable. You took it personally, which is precisely what "I hit a nerve" means. Look, your Disney princess merch collection is not my problem, so don't get all butthurt because I saw it as a red flag. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 04:55 AM |
| 5 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Inconceivable! /s | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:51 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Looks like I hit a nerve, huh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:49 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?He showed me how a man should treat a woman. That's not what we're talking about here, lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/10/25 12:46 AM |
| 1 | Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you?You asked how I deal with that. There's nothing to deal with, because I'm unbothered by it. Why do you care if other dudes don't want to date them? Wouldn't that just mean that you'd have less competition for those women? I don't care. I'm just pointing out that this mindset will lose you both promiscuous and non-promiscuous women, who will perceive it as lack of options = you're unattractive to other women = something wrong with you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 07:00 PM |
| 2 | Men who dated "experienced" women, how do you deal with the fact that your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you?your partner likely hooked up with guys hotter than you? Scarcity loser mindset. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 06:42 PM |
| 1 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.True that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:53 PM |
| 0 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.Only because you're too poor to have guns. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:53 PM |
| -2 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.And their kids still turn out shite. I've been wondering about that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 04:46 PM |
| 6 | They are trying to convince us that women are happier single and childless when almost all rich women get married.You have people shitting in the street and unsanitary food. Last time I got told: "I'll have you know, we now have streets designated for shitting". Can't make this up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 03:23 PM |
| 12 | Q4M: Your age-appropriate date has a collection of romance novels, fanfiction, and Disney Princess stuff. Red flag? Or no big deal?Almost all women have those books, but Disney Princess kitsch Is a big red flag in my experience. They typically have a father that completely spoiled them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:49 PM |
| 1 | Male lonliness is self inflictedWell, if you put so much value in the views of those men The views of those men are irrelevant to me. You are conflating two absolutely irrelevant to each other things. The data they can provide would shed light on the real cheating rates. take it from a man married women cheat with: it's nowhere near 70% of women. After everything you've written here and in the thread with stats, I'll sooner believe that you're a woman LARPing as a red piller, nevermind your complete lack of knowledge of statis… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 02:32 PM |
| 6 | Male lonliness is self inflictedPeople the most qualified to give the closest to reality ratio of cheating women are the men that women would try to cheat with, and NOBODY else. If you gave me poll results that unequivocally identified fuckboys and tallied their experiences, I would have no qualms about accepting those. But you don't have them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 10:31 AM |
| 3 | Male lonliness is self inflictedLet's say for argument's sake that I have selection bias, that I was just lucky to run into all these thirsty women at a 7:3 ratio across multiple schools, jobs, and countries. As did my fuckboy friends coming from completely different circumstances, school, jobs, and countries. Your claim of 25% has no more intrinsic worth than mine, if anything less, because they call them sneaky links for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 08:04 AM |
| -2 | Male lonliness is self inflictedLow effort projection, try harder. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 07:53 AM |
| 4 | Male lonliness is self inflictedLess than 25% of women and thats me being generous Do you understand the difference between extrapolating data and extracting it from the anus? I literally got to see who was faithful and who wasn't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:36 AM |
| 5 | Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world?A recipe for a healthy relationship 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:34 AM |
| 8 | Male lonliness is self inflictedBro, did I write that I attempted to hook up with them? Actually re-read what I wrote, instead of imagining whatever it is you've imagined. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:30 AM |
| 2 | When you say "what do you bring to the table", what do you expect? Do you expect different things in different life stages?Ayyyy, the only right answer 😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:23 AM |
| 2 | Male lonliness is self inflictedಠ_ಠ wat? You do know that uncoupling sex from emotional intimacy is SW modus operandi? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:20 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world?excitement "Will he beat the shit out of me today or not?!" 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:15 AM |
| 10 | Male lonliness is self inflictedPlus most women are not "secretly" hooking up with men, As the guy who married/paired/etc women have consistently attempted to secretly hookup with through the entirety of my 20ies and 30ies, I can confidently say that this is absolute bullshit Blue Pill gaslighting. The ratio of women getting secret side dick vs staying faithful is about 70:30. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:13 AM |
| 6 | Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world?Women are getting something out of those men Yeah, abuse | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:11 AM |
| 8 | Q4W: Do you think most men are just not good enough/worthy of dating/marriage in the modern world?We’re not masochists Looking at how many dark triad guys women date, this does not check out at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:09 AM |
| 2 | almost none of the arguments about why caring about a potential partner's past is wrong make any sense, all of them come up as ego lash outs rather than proper arguments.No, people who are secure about their sexual performance and themselves in general will not care about finding out the partner's N. That knowledge will naturally come to you as a part of talking about sex as you date and share about your lives. Once she feels secure enough to tell you and does so, you're free to do whatever you want with that info, keep her, dump her, anything else. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/10/25 12:06 AM |
| 2 | almost none of the arguments about why caring about a potential partner's past is wrong make any sense, all of them come up as ego lash outs rather than proper arguments.most who ask just ask if someone has been on and about Bruh, that's even more insecure sounding ಠ_ಠ : "soooo, you been whoring around lots or?" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 10:27 PM |
| 3 | almost none of the arguments about why caring about a potential partner's past is wrong make any sense, all of them come up as ego lash outs rather than proper arguments.They can have all of that, sure, but asking the N count question betrays fundamental insecurity. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 06:50 PM |
| -1 | almost none of the arguments about why caring about a potential partner's past is wrong make any sense, all of them come up as ego lash outs rather than proper arguments.What it does is it confirms these 3: "u suck at sex" "u re insecure" "U re afraid of being compared" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:46 PM |
| 1 | "Provider men" content is deeply infantilizing to women and misogynisticTiktok brain rot strikes again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 11:23 AM |
| 0 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyWoman in a situationship is not single. She is performing one-way commitment. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 11:10 AM |
| 1 | almost none of the arguments about why caring about a potential partner's past is wrong make any sense, all of them come up as ego lash outs rather than proper arguments.Alright, so lemme tell you a couple things. Whores are gonna whore, no matter what men do. So just accept that the way you accept sun rising in the East. As an endowed man I have never in my entire life experienced the need to ask the N-count of a woman. I know that unless she's fucked literal hundreds, I'll be her biggest. Despite the above, nearly every single woman I have been with has told me her N-count without me ever asking. The reality is that women want to be loved for who they are, N-c… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 04:57 AM |
| – | Men have to take responsibility for feminismSounds like a they problem 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/10/25 02:43 AM |
| 1 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyBecause there's stigma in young men admitting they tap those cougars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 05:09 PM |
| 8 | Removing access to abortion and birth control won’t make women want dependable average men more -- it’ll make them avoid men altogetherIf everyone is equally miserable that sounds like equality to me lol. /S | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 03:14 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: if you refuse to approach, does that help or hurt the loneliness epidemic?Average men refusing to approach does absolutely nothing for the male loneliness, their success rate was one in hundreds before the whore epidemic, one in thousands after it started. All it actually does is hurt women's egos, because they don't get validation anymore. Now, if we could also Thanos snap all the simps from the planet surface, things would be absolutely golden. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 04:50 AM |
| 5 | Red Pill influencers don’t live the life they preachJust because they claim to be high value men doesn't make it so 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 02:41 AM |
| 1 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismYou should maybe make use of this education thing and find out who gave whom education, rather than reading or watching pop feminist trash propaganda. Maybe, while you're at it, find out why anti-suffragette women's movement existed and why they were against it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 12:41 AM |
| 3 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexAlright, story time for the crayon loving kids. I was fucking this girl a while ago. Took her out a couple times. At that point you could've said that we were dating, sure. But at some point it became obvious she was not relationship material. We were still fucking. I was not taking her out anymore. I bailed hard on meeting her family. I started seeing another girl while I was still fucking the first one. I was not dating her lol. She became a side chick in a situationship. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/10/25 12:11 AM |
| 1 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexAnd what about it being called a situationship would specifically make someone feel less bad? Either way if someone feels bad about the non-committal they would feel bad whatever word they chose to use lol ಠ_ಠ really? Are you actually asking me that? Because no side chick wants be known as a side chick. It's all about status. Tell me these two sound the same: "I'm in a situationship with a rich guy" vs "I'm a 2 am booty call for a rich guy". They don't, do they? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:37 PM |
| 3 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexSo you took someone else's definition of difference and came to me with it? Do I look like I care? Your parents didn't teach your to not bring trash into the house? Have a sit and figure out for yourself the difference between "stringing someone along" and both people working on "the possibility of it becoming something more". I'll give you a hint: one has two people invested. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:31 PM |
| 1 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexsex is already crossing the friendship boundary lol Obviously, that's why it's "friends with benefits", not just "friends". Humans are just have complex emotions and when you involve sex, some people can keep those lines clear successfully but a lot of the times it doesn’t. Naturally, but it's not about feeling, it's about acting. I felt like banging a lot of my hot married coworkers, and they were DTF too. But I didn't bang them and I didn't wreck their marriages because I'm not a piece of shit… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:21 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismExisted before feminism. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:16 PM |
| 2 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismLol you think my partners (or I for that matter) had good parents Then I have some news for you. What you think being strong is and what actually is being strong are two different things. My condolences. No woman ever left a good marriage Nobody is insured from making bad life decisions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:15 PM |
| 2 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismName 1 right feminism gave you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:13 PM |
| 6 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexwith the possibility of it become something more Except that's not what I wrote, is it? So why don't you exercise that reading skill? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:13 PM |
| -2 | What is your ideal partner like?Nurturing would be a huge one. High agreeableness. Low neuroticism. I'm a highly creative person so creativity or intelligence would be a bonus. Offline rather than online person. Open-minded as well. The first 3 are nearly impossible to find in a woman in the west. I think their combination would manifest in different types of healthy femininity all of which are attractive to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 11:09 PM |
| 1 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexIf you draw a FWB square and paint inside it - it's FWB. The second you start trying to paint outside it without the other person's consent - it's not FWB, and you're trying to take advantage of your friend. Also, just because dumb out there people call anything under the sun a situationship doesn't mean it actually is. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:57 PM |
| 10 | Situationship is a term made up by women to make themselves feel better about being used for sexOne person almost always was “hoping” it would. One is two people explicitly agreeing to non-committal sex, no strings attached. The other is one person stringing another along with the hope of a relationship. They're anything but the same. Just because you've imagined a "secret hope" in the first scenario, doesn't mean it actually exists. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismTheir existence has nothing to do with feminism and everything to do with good parents. If anything feminism creates less strong independent women by incentivizing women to divorce and break up otherwise good marriages, resulting in fatherless women with daddy issues. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:17 PM |
| 2 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismYou literally told us to own the weaker sex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 10:16 PM |
| 2 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismPfft. I've turned down more women than you masturbated to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 07:53 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismBecause I fucking love feminism, I love falling in love with strong independent women Feminism created anything but strong women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 07:50 PM |
| 1 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismNot blaming weaker sex, not trying to make up excuses. Just own it. Bro, owning people is illegal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 06:27 PM |
| 0 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismYou are conflating being disagreeable with being strong. They are not the same thing. A strong woman can be agreeable and a great team player. A woman that built her whole identity on being disagreeable and "independent" is not it. Literally nobody wants to "tame" women. It's a thankless job, just to get some used up pussy. Negative ROI. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 06:18 PM |
| 5 | Men have to take responsibility for feminismActing like matriarchal societies did not exist since the beginning of time. Time for a history lesson refresher. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 06:15 PM |
| 4 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societythat is how single is defined. So no accounting for situationships at all? Peak research to quote 👌🏽 Gen Z ARE pairing up outside their cohort as well. The math is mathing. The data does not point to unstable situationships. It's proportional though, unless you're implying that sugar mommas are somehow on the rise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 04:05 PM |
| 5 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyYou've linked the study, right? genz women are more single than gen z men. It says lack of stable partner, not lack of any partner. Assuming genz aren't pairing up outside their cohort, the math ain't mathing. The only thing it points to is that women find themselves in unstable situationships, that men find acceptable. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 02:22 PM |
| 4 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyThat's what happens when you're a side chick, not when you are single. Key word: "stable partner". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:47 PM |
| 5 | We are going back to our uncivilized days in dating and it isn't great for societyThis comment is way too deep for this sub, lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:42 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?Best of luck | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:16 PM |
| – | At the verge of starting a hoe faze, ladies any suggestions?/u/Appropriate-Chest-16/ Check R4R subreddits if you live in a big city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/10/25 01:05 PM |
| 0 | We're headed toward rich get richer in the dating market aka PolygynyWe're headed toward I hate to tell you this, but... This has always been the case. It only became obvious with apps and everything being in the open. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 10:08 PM |
| 1 | Q4RPmen: Why do you need women?They actually say to not tolerate women if they dont want to be simps или оленями Tolerance in Russian and in English has two entirely different connotations. No, Im investing in my personality, looks and interests, but men claim that they dont care about women achievements and if she is't hot. Look, you have two partnership paths in life: 1. Looks and 2. Personality. You max out looks - you'll get partners that prioritize looks over personality. You work on personality - you'll get partners tha… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 09:17 PM |
| 2 | Q4RPmen: Why do you need women?It creates an impression that all women are creatures of pure evil and that there is no SINGLE good woman on Gods green earth. It's because you're trying to perceive it all through a moral lens, and discard how much men care for women despite all the bullshit they bring into the relationships. Also RPtubers are absolutely awful grifters, not worth watching. "women only get worse with age" If you made your whole personality about looks, ask yourself: what will happen to you when your looks start … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:47 PM |
| – | Does virgin-shaming exist?Abso-fucking-lutely. Pre-selection among women is huge. If nobody wanted to fuck you before, there must be something wrong with you. Nobody cares if you're volcel. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:26 AM |
| 4 | The advice that “men need to stop showing interest in order to actually attract women” only works for certain top % men. It’s horrible advice and a catch 22 situation.Can you imagine young Obito trying to pull that shit? Yeah me neither. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:24 AM |
| 2 | Before subscribing to toxic ideologies to get what you want, you should see what being an amazing person gets you firstPeak BP: "Have you tried being amazing for a change?" I can't even 😭💀 No bro, we all collectively woke up and drew lots on what kind of shitty or average people we'll be today. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 04:19 AM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.punched in the cervix That's just awful sex skills. There are dick bumpers like ohnut, and some of us are skilled enough to not jackhammer it (unless asked). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 03:58 AM |
| 1 | Would you date a very attractive girl who doesn't like sex?Would you date a very high status man (also attractive, etc), who will never commit to you? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/10/25 12:37 AM |
| 1 | Men should increase thier standards and be ready to be single if they dont get what they want.Stop supporting women by being a pathetic simp and then marrying some old hag just because she’s the only one who would talk to you. You can't stop. Government will use your taxes to support them. To truly stop this descent into hellish hoescape, men need to actively leave West, no just the dating scene, but physically completely abandon countries that don't represent their interests. Most can't either for financial or other reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 09:58 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: Why would anyone be ok with dating down?People are absolutely entitled to their opinions and preferences. At the same time those opinions and preferences should probably be based on reality. At this point in time we have huge cohorts of both men and women whose opinions and preferences are nowhere close to that, so we get what we get 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 09:48 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter."Statistically unlikely" here 🤦🏽♂️ I think it's calling me a liar lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:38 PM |
| – | The horde of women lusting over the full-frontal scene in House of Guinness proves that size does matter.Endowed guy here. It's a lie. There are some women who chase the BD. Most are simply curious and rarely want a sample. Don't believe everything you see on social media. Rules 1 and 2 get you laid. BD and knowing how to use it get you repeat business. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/10/25 05:03 PM |
| 2 | How are ugly couples sexually attracted too each other?It's the boyfriend/girlfriend goggles effect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 04:22 PM |
| 0 | Would you be better than women at vetting guys?Absolutely. This is why it's important to have straight friends of the opposite sex who can vet for you, when you're attracted to someone. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:59 PM |
| 1 | How do you all talk about this online discourse in real life?What's to talk about? Half my friends are fuckboys and the other half are trad married normies. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:51 PM |
| -2 | Regulating dating apps will improve male mental healthIt won't. Degeneracy drives the whoredom via the apps, not the other way around. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:42 PM |
| 0 | How do men differ between women genuinely wanting to take things slow and women who lack desire for them?Virgins are shy. If you can hold hands with an unkissed on the first date, intertwine fingers with her and you pretty much got it in the bag. On second-third date, if she's hesitant about kisses, you can escalate to touching foreheads, rubbing noses. I probably gave up too early there. Yeah. Dating an unkissed virgin that has a crush on you needs to be done slowly and thoroughly, like tasting a fine wine or unwrapping a present. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/08/25 03:31 PM |
| 1 | How do men differ between women genuinely wanting to take things slow and women who lack desire for them?Did she show signs of attraction and initiative throughout that time? Yeah. She was an actual unkissed virgin. Turning heat up took a while. Kissing on date 2, grinding and sleeping together on dates 3, 4. Sex on date 5. What made you not give up? Her perfect waist to ass ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/08/25 02:10 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedAnd what were your expectations towards the men in such relationships, if you don't mind me asking? Did their low earning potential contribute to the fact that you are now no longer together? I'm not trying to paint you as a money chaser here, just want to gauge the effect of male's lower earning potential on the relationship dynamic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:07 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedI, for example, have out earned every single man I’ve ever dated seriously. Just out of curiosity, are you in Europe or NA? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:55 PM |
| 22 | If you hate women nagging about cleanliness, just date slobs.Clean freak here. Point me in the direction of non-slob women please 🙏🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:27 PM |
| 9 | The below 80% of men should strive to get dating apps removedIt's possible to remove the dating apps, but it's not possible to remove the cock carousels and the degeneracy of the modern days. I'm sorry to tell y'all this, but cock carousels have always existed, they were just less obvious and physical proximity-based. Now they're so huge and obvious they're impossible to hide or for men to ignore. Women don't even hide them anymore. These apps simply have tapped into the worst qualities of women and laid them bare, resulting in global disillusionment of m… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 12:21 PM |
| 1 | If women actually dropped their standards, men would feel too emasculatedThe latter is super rare. 60-70yo rich sugar mommas craving some 20yo dick and basically paying for it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 11:32 AM |
| 5 | How do men differ between women genuinely wanting to take things slow and women who lack desire for them?There's no such thing as a "woman wanting to take things slow" if she's genuinely sexually attracted to you. The longest I've had woman hold out is 5 dates. Deeply religious mormon virgin was dry humping me on date 4. Before Tinder. I'm not even a full Chad. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:36 AM |
| -2 | There is a reason why guys like anime, but hate romance novels and Hallmark moviesBut that said, there is an argument for why anime isn't off-putting to men specifically. And I think it mostly comes down to not triggering insecurities. Has nothing to do with insecurities. Most of the pre 2010 anime is about overcoming obstacles, building character, self-sacrifice (being a hero), building bonds, all positive societal values. Newer anime started to tune into mainstream gynocentric trash. Case in point: "The Dreaming Boy is a Realist" 🤢 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/08/25 01:28 AM |
| – | Men: Can you honestly say most guys you know are attractive?If these men talked to an average college girl in a class, would they let him borrow a pencil, or would they call the police? They'd let him borrow a pencil. Especially for the types of men that would consider a woman who has several kids, STDs, and a drug addiction. You've got it all wrong. See you think that they pick these women. They end up with these women, catch the STD, have their money stolen (for her drug habit) and THEN find out who these women are. Cocaine addicted random? I’ve never … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:52 PM |
| – | Men: Can you honestly say most guys you know are attractive?Slightly chubby with muscle, dressed ok, a couple tattoos, no obvious physical abnormalities - what part is 1/10? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 10:01 PM |
| – | What is your environment like ?Church, sports, bars, trade shows, anime conventions, exhibitions, malls even. All over the place. 18-50+yo Don't ask - don't know. ~95% are promiscuous across the board. Multiple. Less than average. Success rate of what? Community pussy stays community pussy, then picks up a loser to settle with. Community dick (the carousel) goes through 7-9s then settles with a 7 or 8 that cooks well and keeps her mouth shut. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 09:03 PM |
| – | Men: Can you honestly say most guys you know are attractive?Yes, but as a Chadlite I don't befriend uggos, men or women. All the sub 7 men I know (not friends) that aren't celibate are smashing 1s and 2s, I'm talking full body tatted, cheating 3+ kids from 3+ men, clap and other assorted STDs, heavy drug users women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 08:50 PM |
| 1 | Women need to come to terms with the fact that they put too much unnecessary mental load onto themselves, and they should stop blaming men for that.Even the Bible had it that (I'm paraphrasing) "it's better to live in a desert than with a neurotic nagging woman". What you're describing is neurotic nagging women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 08:35 PM |
| 1 | What if Trp is the path to world peaceDavid buss never made the added claims of “HVM/spin plates/etc” The purpose of a research paper is to present the observations and facts, not make recommendations about maximizing ones value or spinning plates. If you ever read that in a paper - it's not a research paper. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | Men need to be more composed, to attract women.Tinder => assorted dick on tap + unlimited validation for women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 02:03 PM |
| – | Is redpill advice applicable for marriage or just casual sex?You'll need to be better than ok in bed, since even trad women fuck around these days. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/08/25 11:13 AM |
| 1 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Doesn't track with wealth, only tracks with single motherhood. Unless you're implying that women these days can't save money. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/08/25 02:50 AM |
| 4 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%Come to Southern California But then I have to subject myself to and live in Southern California | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 10:25 PM |
| 0 | whats our current thoughts on monogamyWith an ancient tradwife from the 80ies? Maybe. With a modern western woman that carries Western culture, thoroughly steeped in whoredom and narcissism? Not at all. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 08:43 PM |
| 1 | Women are more replaceable than men in datingIt stands to reason that the less you contribute the easier it is to replace you. So if you think you bringing your pussy is sufficient, congratulations, you've just reduced yourself to a fleshlight. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 08:41 PM |
| 2 | Polyandry is the answer to male lonelinessNevermind the mythical clitoris. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 08:37 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menAhahaha, as if anyone cares about uggos' feelings | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 07:50 PM |
| 0 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.Still doesn't explain why women with allegedly larger friend groups fail as parents at 5 times the rate. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 07:49 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.80% and well, western men are fucked up trash - confirmed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:40 PM |
| 3 | Q4M: why did this "office worker" get more votes than Sydney Sweeney? 77% to 23%The epitome of Western whoredom with a resting bitch face vs modest and approachable looking lady 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 03:12 PM |
| 1 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.while 90% of men watch porn Source: ass. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 02:36 PM |
| 0 | People need to accept men generally do less parenting than women.If it takes me to do the job in half the time compared to a woman, it doesn't mean I've done a worse job. Also, according to NIH kids of single fathers are 5 times less likely to be young criminals or whores, compared to kids of single mothers. Something for you to ponder on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 07:46 AM |
| – | Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR?Alright, so while my example was off the mark, I think you saw my point. Furthermore, despite the daily bullshit threads here about men dehumanizing and objectifying women, I, a literal fuckboy, can't just pretend the woman I'm fucking is a blow up doll or something. I don't sleep with women if sex serves no purpose. To me sex is an additional path to reinforcing the relationship. If I can't have it with my woman, my relationship is being crippled, stunted. When I'm having sex with multiple wome… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 05:29 AM |
| 1 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.And there's plenty of women addicted to cheating and toxic cock. There's not enough hours in a day to count all trash. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 05:08 AM |
| 0 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.So men want hot women and women want hot men lmao That's not what I wrote though. Btw you know that MOST men in relationships watch porn? Look, I know that a man with regularly drained balls won't even think about watching porn. Then we have what, ~30-40% men raising kids that aren't theirs. If you combine the two statistics, clearly the majority of those women have no desire to have sex with their husbands and have desire to fuck random side dudes. Which results in men turning to their secondar… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/08/25 12:04 AM |
| 2 | Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ?I hope you get over your heartbreak too man. If you need to talk to someone, my DMs are open. I don't advocate for any pills in private chats. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 11:58 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menWhat else is there to do? A sturdy ceiling lamp and a rickety chair with a length of rope are the only real alternative for them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 08:06 PM |
| 2 | Why are you in this sub ? And what make you stay there ?It's my community outreach volunteer work. I try to help angry red pillers get through their stages of grief. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:54 PM |
| 3 | Ai robot sex toyswouldnt they make the same thing for their female costumers Because women can pick up assorted dick practically anywhere. Commitment from a successful person - a bot cannot replace. No billionaire Chad-bot for a woman to take half his shit 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 06:22 PM |
| – | Why do Red Pill influencers act like Miami women represent all women?It's a free country, she wants to be community pussy - she can be it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/08/25 03:18 AM |
| 0 | Would you be okay with a (one-sided) open relationship if there was a lack of sex in your LTR?Bruh. Would you be okay if your partner met I don't know 50% of your financial needs based on his feelings? Your bills are unpaid because he didn't feel like it this month. But you're free to seek financial help elsewhere. You would drop this guy in a blink of an eye. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 11:08 PM |
| – | The Red Pill have got the 80/20 Rule WrongConsider that there are way way more Dark Triad people who only exhibit traits of successful people than there are successful people themselves. Most women ride toxic cock on the carousel. We talk about it all the time. Quite often, when a woman finally meets a stable successful guy, she's already trained herself to be in toxic relationships/situationships and a stable relationship lacks the "oomph". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 05:51 PM |
| 12 | Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationshipsYou forgot the bullshit "Emotional Labor" they've made up. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:26 AM |
| -2 | Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationshipsJust world fallacy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:24 AM |
| -3 | Men are fundamentally unsuitable for long term relationshipsNormal gives no tingles and thus unattractive to the hoes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:23 AM |
| -2 | Men warp the definition of hypergamy to exclude any of their preferences.It doesn't mean what you think it means. A man that has actual regular sexual relationship with his looksmatch (you know, where the penis goes into the vagina) won't even think of paying for a stripper or an OF whore. Putting fucked up weirdos aside, regular men resort to strippers and whores (put cheating here as well) in exactly two scenarios: His looksmatch let herself go and got disgustingly FAT to the point she is not his looksmatch anymore. Or He's only getting ABC starfish sex from his lo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/08/25 09:15 AM |
| 3 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.So what you're saying is tate is right? Low effort strawman. Try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:45 PM |
| 4 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.She's not turning me into anything. I said that boys will observe her or women like being a whore for guys like Tate, which they do, and will know that she's full of shit, thus making them question blue pill and conversely turning them red pill. It's the women's behavior not words that turns people red pill lol. What, did you think a Nazi Santa drops down our chimneys and turns us red pill? Get real. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:41 PM |
| 1 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.gynocentrism’s when there is consequences to their sexual decision. You've got your wires crossed. Gynocentrism is when you can kill your unborn babies on a whim. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Dude, your threatening a woman with rape supporting children......cmon. have your "are we the baddies" moment already. An even lower effort strawman. Impressive. But try to reread what I wrote. I'm not threatening her with anything. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:33 PM |
| 3 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.You choose who gets to fuck you. If every man that fucked you manipulated you into barebacking, you've only dated manipulative assholes. That also tells us who YOU are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Low effort strawman. Try again 😘 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:30 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menIncels sabotage themselves on purpose so they can cry. Common bipolar trait That's not all incels. Some are just fugly to the point escorts don't want to touch them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:28 PM |
| 1 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.I don't whine about anything lol. I also don't creampie unreliable whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:27 PM |
| 2 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.If you propositioned sex on the street, most men would turn you down. But women clearly can't keep the knees closed 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:26 PM |
| – | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Low effort strawman, try again. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 2 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Most men do. The manipulative assholes, women are fucking en masse, don't. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:42 PM |
| 4 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Take notes: So not keeping knees closed AND fucking manipulative assholes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:37 PM |
| – | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.You made 5 typos in "dick" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:25 PM |
| 1 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.If only women figured out how to keep knees closed 🤔... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:24 PM |
| – | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.AYyyyyyy 😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:20 PM |
| 15 | “Women should take accountability more” until it inconveniences men.Let me help you: "women should take accountability for their own dating behavior, no exceptions". Women: Calls out toxic masculinity, teaches boys the dangers of being violent misogynists and that men like Andrew Tate are awful. Create the MeToo movement to further address issues. Gaslighting boys has nothing to do with your own dating behavior though. The more you lie to them the harder they will swing to red pill once they catch you fucking Tate-like men. Kids watch what you do way more than w… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 07:18 PM |
| 0 | Another blue pill lie: The romanticization of "blended families"#1 reason to not date any woman with previous kids. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:26 PM |
| 1 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowBecause every man's dick is a sex demon living in his pants, whispering obscenities to the man every time it perks up. The longer it goes unattended the stronger it gets. Post-nut clarity is the only time when a man is fully free from the demon's influence. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 06:07 AM |
| -4 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowABC sex = married inceldom as far as I'm concerned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:42 AM |
| 3 | If a vast majority of men got laid easily, the United States would be a quasi socialist country right nowIf the vast majority of men got laid easily we would live in heaven on earth. Imagine all those men living in post-nut clarity and making rational choices? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 03:40 AM |
| – | What experiences influenced your views the most?I was a regular blue pilled mid boy, ghost for all girls, until I hit puberty and grew way over six feet in a single summer. Suddenly I was on every girl's radar, getting flashed with titties, propositioned sex on the street, at work, at the store. I'm not a spring chicken anymore, yet 30 to 18yo are still hovering and asking for that dick. It's crazy. I could probably destroy just shy of a hundred marriages that I know of by simply telling guys whose women tried to cheat on them with me. This r… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 02:08 AM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.No, addiction is getting used to specific stimuli (psychological or physiological) and chasing them. Habit on the other hand is what you default to doing because that's what you're always doing without any second thought. I want to note that while they're not the same, a specific behavior, like for example chain smoking, can be both a habit and an addiction. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 01:44 AM |
| 1 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.you are who you are That's not true at all. The simple stats are that habit forming behavior takes anywhere between 21 to 200 days, depending on complexity and other factors, median being around 66 days. Most people don't bother to maintain a behavior for that long and relapse into whoring, cheating, ONS, stop going to the gym, stop eating well, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 31/07/25 12:17 AM |
| 2 | Onlyfans proves male hypergamy.Women soft harem because they hope to pussy trap a Chad. Men simp for strippers and OF hoes because they (these men) are losers who will never experience anything resembling love of a desirable woman ever in any other way. If you fail to recognize the difference, you need to reflect upon your experiences. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:57 PM |
| 8 | It doesnt make sense to believe both that women cannot change their mind about how attractive you are immediately after meeting AND that women lose the ability to pair bond with each person they have sex with.What you do matters. What you do a lot matters a lot. If you spend most of your life in an LTR, chances are you'll keep being in an LTR. if you spend most of your life fucking random dudes, chances are you will keep doing that, and no Cpt SaveAHoe will save you. This applies to both men and women by the way. A cheater will keep cheating. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 11:54 PM |
| 1 | Feminism has actually accentuated gender differences and made ancient relationship models reappear in the WestThe one thing that I agree with Jordan Peterson on is: "if you equalize everything else, then the differences caused by sex/gender will become the most pronounced". That's exactly what we've done in the West. And what do you mean by "going to"? I'm already seeing soft harems forming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:59 PM |
| 3 | Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional.I pick better because I've experienced a lot of women, women can pick better because they've experienced a lot of men. Mid men can't pick better because their experience is 2-3 women tops. You're trying to pawn this job off onto someone who can't perform it well. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:19 PM |
| 1 | What can a man expect for paying for a date?What if he says "you can pay for the next one" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:51 PM |
| 2 | What can a man expect for paying for a date?That's way more than most men get lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:50 PM |
| 3 | Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional.Is it me or is Lilith slowly getting red pilled here? are completely uninterested in good girls Not necessarily true. If we imagine an average guy, It's actually impossible for him to tell between genuinely good girls and toxic women masquerading as good girls. Sure, they'll start drip feeding him the truth about themselves once he commits, but it only happens after he's committed. Here, I think a lot of women could help out and warn the guy when he's about to commit to a toxic lady. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:47 PM |
| 2 | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itmen choose abusive women over being alone Still not good enough. Because so many men do this it enables narcissism in women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:22 PM |
| 1 | Stop being emotionally vulnerable to women, your close male friends are the only ones who can actually handle itUltimately this. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:17 PM |
| 0 | Men who only know dysfunctional women are also dysfunctional.alabama First boyfriend wasn't a cousin was he? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 2 | Individualism is overpushed and it hurts the dating scene too.I’m going to pursue what’s best for my life. I think the whole point of this sub and why the Games Theory exists in the first place, is that we don't 100% know what is actually best for our lives. The strategy and team effort come into play too. Current individualistic meta is creating negative outcomes for the overwhelming majority of men, and I say this as a top 20% guy. We need a rebalance to at least maintain an illusion of balance for them. I don't want my life disrupted by civil unrest of … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 09:59 AM |
| – | Online dating and the internet have not ruined dating, but only changed it for the betterThey're genuinely ignorant sometimes, just like women are, of the 80%'s eating struggles. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 09:39 AM |
| – | Online dating and the internet have not ruined dating, but only changed it for the betterThe guy is a top 20% fuckboy with zero self-awareness lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 05:00 AM |
| 1 | Western women preferencesEdit: sorry, I've read you mid run and completely misunderstood the comment at first Edging is peak The only times I've had women experience chain orgasms was after edging. LADIES, DO YOUR KEGALS!!! A man that can control his pelvic floor can delay ejaculation at will and thus help his partner achieve maximum pleasure. Putting kegels aside, a woman can absolutely desensitize herself with an oversized dildo, or a man's big dick, or that new clit sucking vacuum toy that's apparently toe curling go… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 04:41 AM |
| 1 | Western women preferencesProbably the latter, she was in her mid 30ies and said I was her first piv orgasm, which is pretty sad for that age. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:51 AM |
| -4 | Western women preferencesI am what most women would call monster-sized and I've met a woman with an absolutely cavernous pussy. I don't know what she used to satisfy herself on the regular, but it must've been horse-sized. It was like throwing a stick down the hallway. I don't have an explanation for why she was so loose otherwise. She couldn've easily fit my whole fist. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:26 AM |
| 1 | Western women preferencesBad Dragon connoisseurs entered the chat. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:21 AM |
| 0 | Western women preferencesFuckboy here. Not the case at all. From my experience, western women see a big dick as a novelty item, you only get bites on a big dick alone from "Pokemon collector"-types that are absolute whores (and also extremely rare among women). Maybe the community pussy types will have a round with you. So you'll get a single fuck or two out of it in your entire lifetime, maybe become the collector's bull if you're really good at fucking: practice your kegels like your life depends on it (gives you an a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/07/25 02:19 AM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalpleasure for pleasure. Access to each other's bodies Bruh ಠ_ಠ you live in a dark and fucked up world. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:44 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalYou just claimed that consensual sex is a transaction 🤦🏽♂️ What's being exchanged and for what? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:40 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalact of service in the manner I said?? Nobody who does shit for a girl with no expectations advertises that in a dating environment. It's a catch 22. Thus, if you fail the "acts of service" shit test, you oust yourself as a transactional loser trying to "buy" sex with them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 06:39 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalActs of service is literally a shit test to see if you're a loser. Like imagine some super model guy but he doesnt know how to do anything. That's competency and has nothing to do with anything in this conversation. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 05:58 PM |
| 1 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalYes, they wanted to fuck with you, they still got what they want. Still a intentional trade There's nothing transactional about both people enjoying an activity they do together. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 05:27 PM |
| 3 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalAre your needs met and are you meeting the needs of your partner is literally transactional lol. Sigh. No. Transaction implies intentional exchange. In a relationship you do things for your woman because you like her, not because you hope to get laid later that day. Transactional attempts are called "choreplay" for a reason and are absolutely unattractive to women. No woman in the history of humanity looked at clean floors and thought to herself "I wanna fuck him right now!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:50 PM |
| 3 | Everything with most relationships is transactional and true love can only be unconditional and non transactionalEverything with most relationships is transactional It's absolutely not. I've had women put out without a second thought. I've helped women without any expectations. Only 2 questions are fundamentally important in a relationship: Are your needs met? Are you meeting the needs of your partner? Quite often the answer to one of those questions is "no" or "not fully", and that underlines the very fact that relationships are not transactional. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:32 PM |
| 8 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menI think he's so ugly that even the thought of giving him a hug would be nauseating for you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 02:19 PM |
| 2 | Is there change in the apprehension of male flight?News at 11: men are contortionistmaxxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:21 AM |
| 8 | Is there change in the apprehension of male flight?Frankly, the presence or lack of concern are both absolutely irrelevant. Nothing men do within the rules of the currently rigged game will have any effect whatsoever on women's behavior patterns. Mgtowtarding is meaningless, monkmaxxing is meaningless, return to monke is meaningless. All of those are pathetic individualistic attempts at dealing with a systemic issue. And the systemic issue is: government creating inequality of outcomes for men and women in favour of women, using our taxes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 09:18 AM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Only if you're Qin dynasty. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 29/07/25 07:59 AM |
| 3 | Escorts are the worst option for undesirable menಠ_ಠ why do you even know that? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:31 PM |
| 2 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?Bruh. I can't believe I have to explain this. A man and his dick are two different entities and live two separate lives. A man is just a person. His dick is a sex demon that lives in his pants. If a man listens to everything that demon whispers to him he becomes a trash man. That's every simp, serial cheater, and man-slut out there. When a man sees a beautiful woman his sex demon immediately perks up and starts whispering obscene things to him. That's every single man out there, without exceptio… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?From anything. Like having a wall around you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 08:15 PM |
| 1 | Being afraid of being betabuxxed or that whatever guy you’re dating is just settling is dumb.💯 Ben Shapiro got gaslit AF lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:12 PM |
| 0 | Q4M: When you hear women say they want to feel "protected", what does that mean to you?Multiple women have told me that when I wrap my (rather long) arms around them - it trips some lizard brain feeling of being protected and safe in them. So I just do that. Works almost all the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 05:01 PM |
| 0 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?What part of take what they can get did you miss? men wanting to fuck their girlfriend’s friend. Did they make any moves to do so? If not, then you're full of it. If yes, that's just cheating and appropriateness depends on the society's perception of it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 04:51 PM |
| 1 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menSteak is local. Still ~$200 is what I would expect to spend on a date 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menWhat are you spending $200+ on a date on That's like an average restaurant I wouldn't be ashamed to take a date to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:18 PM |
| 1 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."That's too vanilla for a fantasy lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 03:03 PM |
| – | What’s your checklist before a date?Relationships wait for no man, or woman lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:37 AM |
| – | What’s your checklist before a date?Sounds painful 😬 Why not just shave? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:36 AM |
| 6 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?I can't believe I'm agreeing with you, but yep, dump him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:28 AM |
| 8 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?He said he has no idea why. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:27 AM |
| 3 | What is the point of dating or getting into a committed relationship with men?You're asking a rhetorical question. If you’re always pining for other women and novelty, why would you care about being in a relationship or getting married? Not the same men. The top 20% that women actually desire are indeed quickly developing a Peter Pan complex en masse, because we either flash green or pecs or both and you shower us with assorted pussy. The other 80% take what they can get lol. It's not like any of you ever gave the smallest of fucks about them in the first place. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:23 AM |
| 4 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menspending hundreds So, a cost of an average non-brokie date? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:15 AM |
| 27 | Escorts are the best option for undesirable menBefore the incel sub was banned (yet again) I was especially curious about this part. It (the escort usage) worked for them in the worst way imaginable. They would visit an escort then post-nut clarity would hit them like a dinosaur extinction meteor. Most were depressed as fuck about realizing that nobody in their entire lives would ever love them (often not even their parents). But then there were other guys that were both ugly and dumb so they couldn't even save money for an escort. Yet other… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 01:09 AM |
| 0 | Hypergamy is real. But what's wrong is saying that it's "women's fault." Or that women are "Sharing men."First of all, you're conflating "identifying decision-makers" and how said decisions are made with "blaming". Only men whose red pill was a suppository are an angry bunch, feeling salty with women. I was a late bloomer. For me red pill was a girl locking eyes with me across a half-full bus and leaning forward to flash me her DDs through her low-cut lemon-colored dress. The rest of the world did not exist in that moment. The day before that I was a complete ghost to women. After that the most wil… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:25 AM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.You have self-awareness 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 28/07/25 12:01 AM |
| 2 | What is the Point of No Return for Being Single? How Long Does it Take for a Person to Realize They Missed the Chance to Get a Partner in This Life?Except I know multiple ones that went for stepmom scenario as soon as they felt the breath of the wall on their backs. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:13 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.🤦🏽♂️ Ivy league is literally inbred trash offspring genetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:09 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:07 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.She wrote a whole essay about how much she doesn't care 🤦🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:07 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.It's fine, we should just stock up on popcorn and watch it play out. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:05 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.And? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:04 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.The benefit is they leave me alone and stop bitching and moaning about modern women nonstop. You attract what you are lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:03 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.Well said! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 11:00 PM |
| – | Men "replacing" women is actually beneficial for us.top 1% genetics Doesn't donate to a sperm bank lmao. If he had to donate he's implicitly a loser, and a match for a donation seeker 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 10:59 PM |
| 3 | The redpill would be taken more seriously if they didnt comment on things they know nothing about.Lumpy you need to go on a cleanse. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:30 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeI hear that attraction scales with the number of zeroes. Good paying job ≠ own a yacht, a private jet, etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:25 PM |
| – | The redpill cant detect bad men unless its super obvious.Why should we stop commenting? We know for a fact that there are good guys out there. If a woman only ends up with douchebags who treat her as a booty call side chick, that only shows us who that woman is. She's a booty call side chick. We don't dispute whether those guys are douchebags or not, lol. Good food doesn't attract flies, poop does. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:23 PM |
| 0 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?Only critical information, like my net worth, my real name, my DoB. I don't hide anything about my habits or marital status or how many kids I already have. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:19 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeI'm one of them lol, so I have no complaints. I am laughing about gold digging whores admitting to be gold digging whores 😃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 08:16 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?LoL, no they don't. When you're attractive, how much does a guy know about you before he wants to smash? Barely anything. It's the same with women. Most women have sex with me on date 1-2, the rarest exceptions last until date 5. How much do you know about a guy by date 5? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:22 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeLmao "Hi, I'm a gold digger, and this guy is so bad!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:17 PM |
| 15 | Did the Tea App prove the Redpill?The app just leaked the whole user database with their driver licenses, so it's hardly an ad, unless you want your identity stolen lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:15 PM |
| 1 | How can men avoid rape allegations?Vet for crazies. Yes, we know, crazy pussy gives the best sex, but you also don't go to jail over false charges, your car remains not keyed, and the tires remain un-slashed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:28 PM |
| – | "Women are not a monolith" but the Tea App is #1 at the Apple storeYou just didn't see the bank account. 😉 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 12:01 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?You run into a: STD carrier, mentally unstable girl, green card marriage seeker, retiring OF whore, etc etc... You naturally end the relationship since you want none of that. They start stalking you, posting your face on the Tea app with slander, etc. If you're extra unlucky, they start damaging your property. If you've doxed yourself, they show up at your work, they write angry emails to your work slandering you. I've experienced all of the above, except for showing up at my work and work sland… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/07/25 03:33 AM |
| – | The redpill cant detect bad men unless its super obvious.It's not the job of red pill to detect douchebag men 🤷🏽♂️ it's women's job. abusers and cheaters are incapable of pretending to be upstanding good people? That's why you vet them, duh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 10:48 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?I don't care if my pseudonym gets leaked with my face to some Facebook psycho group, my real info is a different story. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 10:34 PM |
| 1 | How would you feel about a guy that gave you a fake name?It occurs to me that I’ve never had to tell someone what my real name is after giving them the fake one. I've never been doxed and never want to be. I've had enough crazy stalker women to start using a pseudonym. It's a variation of my name in a different language so I respond to it if called lol. It's insane to me that people share their real birthdays and real names with complete strangers online. Gold mine for identify fraud. Don't do this, kids! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 26/07/25 01:35 PM |
| 1 | How have AWDTSG groups affected your dates?Think bad character qualities. Say if she also has a propensity to deflect and deny fault if she makes a mistake. Or she randomly started (shallow curveball) over eating and getting fat, while denying that she has a problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:29 PM |
| 1 | How important is status to women?🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:02 PM |
| 2 | How have AWDTSG groups affected your dates?No. I was always picky. No. Apps are already sub par, these groups do nothing to improve or lower quality of that experience. It depends. Getting posted there is only indicative of the woman's insecurity. If there are additional red flags I would probably dump her. I don't want a partner that is incapable of trusting me a year into a relationship. Not really. By getting posted there you simply limit the dating pool to women that are willing to compete for you against each other. It's no fun if y… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:01 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pill influencers act like Miami women represent all women?She is not the average woman. An average woman doesn't have the intellectual capacity to become a lawyer, she's above an average woman. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:42 PM |
| 1 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”you know for certain hundreds of women who have had a whore phase? They don't even hide it is what I'm saying. you attract 99% of women? Let's just say I'm highly attractive. I've been asked if I modeled before. I've turned down propositions of all kinds from more women than I care to remember. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:58 PM |
| 1 | How important is status to women?Oooo don’t let the other men hear that they’ll tear you apart. But seriously the vast majority of men watch porn and I’m telling you this because it happens like every week the mere mention of a man who watches porn in a relationship being something negative will absolutely make you public enemy number 1 with them. I said what I said :) So you’re say that those men do choose to fuck up their relationships with whores lol not even celebrities just an average homwrecker if that’s all it takes to l… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:51 PM |
| 1 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”See paragraph 2. Also, I could go back in time to when I've worked in almost all-female environment. Would you like to guess what happened? Different jobs, different industries, heavily religious to atheists, all races - all wanted to smash, including the married ones and in relationship ones. If I only attract whores, then 99% of women are whores 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:42 PM |
| 1 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”Except they only say they're single while they're fucking a guy as his Nth side chick in vain hope that he'd leave his main. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:17 PM |
| 0 | How important is status to women?There’s already a lot of men ruining their relationships just to watch another woman get fucked lol. If a man is watching porn I won't for even a second believe that he has anything approximating what you would call a "good relationship". men are only as loyal as their options. And women are gatekeepers of sex. Do you see where I'm going with this? If we accept your premise: Whore epidemic => men have way more options, since now there is a whole cohort of women that go exclusively for married or… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:14 PM |
| – | Do you think shy men wishing for women to initiate and be more proactive are against women's autonomy?It is what it is 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 03:07 PM |
| 1 | Why do Red Pill influencers act like Miami women represent all women?They do though. There was that chick that left her lawyer career to be an OF model - she was pretty articulate. Wrong as fuck, but articulate. I don't think they screen women by intelligence, it's just most OF models see that as free advertisement and that's why you get this ratio. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:57 PM |
| 1 | How important is status to women?a shit ton of men would ruin a decent relationship if their favorite pornstar asked them to fuck. If they already had a good relationship in which they were getting laid? Hell no. Some trash men would definitely do it, but absolutely not a "shit ton". | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 02:54 PM |
| -1 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”I've won the genetic lottery so 🤷🏽♂️ And I would've LTR'd them if they weren't whores. It's not like I ask them their body count, they tell me this shit on their own. One was showing me booty call messages from her previous fuckbuddy as she was leaving him on read, right before I clapped. I still don't know what she was trying to tell me by that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:49 AM |
| – | Do you think shy men wishing for women to initiate and be more proactive are against women's autonomy?Women do initiate. If women don't initiate for you, you've failed rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:29 AM |
| 1 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”They aren't living the life they want though. Because they all want me back even as side chicks, and people like me do indeed have a type: we don't LTR whores. So clearly there's a big disconnect between who they are and what the men they want will accept as LTR. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 07:27 AM |
| 3 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”Bruh. I'm dating 28-38yo women now, would you like to guess what they ALL have in common? A whore phase, a bunch of ONS. I don't even ask about that, date 3-4 they tell me anyway, sometimes before we even meet. And I'm picky too, I don't swipe right on everyone. If this is where 8-10s are, the fuglies are completely run through. Before you ask, 2 women. Out of hundreds, 2 didn't have a whore phase, that I know of. It's not a revenge fantasy, it's a fucking tragedy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:11 AM |
| 0 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”manipulate men into a relationship just like men try to manipulate women into sex. Assuming preexisting attraction, a woman has 3 ways: Sex, Silence, and Snacks (cooking). If she's S-maxxed, a Chad may fuck other women, but he won't ever leave her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 05:01 AM |
| 2 | I think there’s some truth to “why but the cow when the milk is free”it’s a misogynistic statement and way of thinking but I also think it’s holds true in the real world from what I’ve seen personally. You do understand that something cannot be misogynistic and objectively true at the same time? That's a self-contradiction. If it's true then it reflects reality and calling it anything other than "fact" or "objective observation" is gaslighting. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:51 AM |
| 6 | A woman being super sexual within relationships (ex-boyfriends) is a huge green flagIf she tells me that she was very kinky with her ex boyfriends It doesn't matter if she was kinky with her exBF, what matters is if she's kinky with you. And the discrepancy between the two can signify a vast array of flags, from red to green. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:12 AM |
| 2 | Why is toxicity rewarded in a dating setting like I know it makes them interesting but what about morals?Lemme check on this calendar when the morals got a man laid:... Never. It never happened. Remember guys: a woman will break literally every rule she has over tingles. Highly religious, "no sex before marriage" virgins that I've had sex with lasted between 2 to 5 dates. If she isn't fucking you, she isn't attracted to you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 25/07/25 04:03 AM |
| 2 | The Manosphere Thrives On The Hostility of Its Detractorsdo a sweep of the content and podcasts that are poisoning people's minds against one another. And how exactly do you imagine that happening? Cancel free speech? Good luck with that. It's going to go about the same way tiktok ban went. get filtered through these spaces where they're told to looksmax, hit the gym 24/7, get rich off of crypto scams, dread game, spin plates, etc. If they're unquestioningly listening to strangers on the Internet, be that Jordan Peterson or Fresh and Fit clowns, they'… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | Should women be “giving guys a chance”?No. Women should just stop whoring around, bullshitting men, and know how to be nurturing and cook more than Kraft dinner. Sans women's bullshit, men will naturally grow of the desired caliber. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 07:58 PM |
| -1 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry thembecause being manly also isn’t a prerequisite for being a good father Ahahahaha. Well, this explains why boys today grow up fatherless feral shits and girls grow up whores, if that's the husbands and fathers you pick. being a cuck to Rogan and Trump is the opposite of manly. You sure are butthurt about Rogan and Trump. Did they steal your boyfriend or something? 😏 Trump has so many men by the ball sack that you think it was a kink for them at this point. Can't hold them by the pussy, can't hold … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:28 PM |
| 2 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?Well, I care about my morals and ethics and passing those onto my children. Clearly, someone shameless is incompatible with me value-wise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 03:23 PM |
| 2 | Explain so many involuntarily single men at a roughly 50/50 gender ratio3 women for 1 guy. That's rookie numbers though. You need at least 5, one for every day of the week, and keep the weekend for yourself, or special events. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themGood for both of you 👌🏽🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:11 PM |
| -2 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themDo you think being manly and attractive is what makes you a good husband? I think being manly makes one a good father, but you clearly haven't thought that far. And if your definition of "manly" No, that was just a correlation, not causation. You should look up the difference. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:10 PM |
| 0 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themI know. The question is whether you get upset with him when he doesn't do it "right" 🙂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:04 PM |
| 2 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?Ok, so that's normal expectation of privacy. And if you're ashamed of your kinks, that's unfortunate. Meanwhile, we're talking about getting naked on camera for the world to see. Which is shameful. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 02:01 PM |
| 2 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themI do now lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:57 PM |
| -2 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry thema government contract This is why so many countries started passing common law marriage act. Basically a woman gets to claim half your shit even if you don't have a marriage contract, as long as she lives with you for X amount of time. So beware. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:56 PM |
| 0 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themIt has more to do with doing chores and dealing with her bullshit at the same time. Man alone: does laundry. Man in a relationship: does laundry and deals with her feelings about laundry, her feelings about drying laundry, her feelings about folding laundry, her feelings about putting away laundry, and finally her feelings about how he dealt with her feelings all the previous times. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:48 PM |
| -4 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themMen who make good husbands do not listen to joe rogan and vote MAGA. This reminds me of a slew of articles a couple years ago by feminist women being angry that conservative men are manly and attractive 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:42 PM |
| 1 | I think that women are to blame for men not wanting to marry themThey’ve settled. Respectfully, disagree. They didn't settle, they've overcommitted. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:37 PM |
| 6 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?Knowledge needs to be development-appropriate. You don't throw calculus at a kid that doesn't know arithmetics. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:31 PM |
| 6 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?Not really. "Wouldn't" and "be ashamed to" are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 01:01 PM |
| 2 | How many cold approached have you made in the last week?Zero. Women approach me. I'm also quite picky about body types that I'm attracted to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:12 AM |
| 10 | Would you date an actress who does or has done nude scenes?I wouldn't want my SO doing anything I'd be ashamed to tell my children about. So no, I would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 24/07/25 05:04 AM |
| 1 | Women are overly fearful of male strangers and have rose tinted glasses towards men in their social circlesThis is why you need women friends lol. They'll provide the social proof and warm up your approach. Stop trying to fuck every woman in your vicinity ☝🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 06:58 PM |
| 4 | In current dating market, women soon will soon prefer fictional men over real men and men would have no choice but to be better than they are to even be considered for relationship.If humanity en masse chooses fake digital life over reality, then it deserves to go extinct. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 02:41 PM |
| 1 | Have you ever benefited from gender-specific privileges?I'm fully aware that my opinions are given more weight in professional settings than my female counterparts. Same, but my opinion is backed by several decades of experience in the industry, adjacent industries, and I'm a walking compendium of assorted unrelated, but practical knowledge. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 23/07/25 05:22 AM |
| – | What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male?I can likewise bring up another project manager, whose most marketable skill was sucking dick, which she discreetly and consistently demonstrated to CEO. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 05:20 PM |
| 2 | Those of you 30+ and are/were single at this age: did you start getting "flooded with attention" the moment you turned 30?Yes. Surprisingly not on the apps, but in person and not just women my age, the most off-putting are barely legal 18yolds hovering around at the gym. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 05:10 PM |
| 8 | Instead of resenting the Sisterhood Uber Alles, men should blame their fellow men who refuse to be supportivethe main reason I fully sided with him is that I have a romantic interest in him 😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 04:23 PM |
| – | What are the real tangible examples of society becoming anti male?When your son comes home from school and says to you "I'm doing great, for a boy", when he grows up and doesn't land a job due to quota despite being miles ahead of others in communication and skills, when he gets a completely incompetent diversity hire woman project manager and has to do both his job and hers, maybe you'll think different. These are all real world examples by the way. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 03:58 PM |
| 2 | Why are you still single?Well, since men love it, I'd say you have all that needs to be had 😃 best of luck in your search! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 11:53 AM |
| 5 | women did not shoot themselves in the foot by complaining about getting approachedShe only gets looksmatch cold approaches 🤷🏽♂️😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 22/07/25 11:48 AM |
| 3 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?All boxes checked, but no brakes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 11:37 PM |
| 3 | What alternatives to therapy would you like society to provide?First, let's address the fact that therapy for men is bullshit. Allow me to elaborate: if a man is facing a situation that's causing him to have negative emotions, he needs to be pragmatically working on extricating himself from it, or eliminating said situation altogether. The negative emotions are a motivator. Men who have insecurities are already broken. They've allowed someone's shitty opinion to infiltrate and erode their ego. Could they go to a therapist and get an ego boost? Yes. But if t… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 11:30 PM |
| 2 | Do most women lie when they say they post on their IG only for their friends and themselves ?There's an honest woman ☝🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:27 PM |
| 0 | Q4RP: Do you think having first kid in woman's 30s is selfish and stupid idea?Putting cultural reasons aside, the healthcare in Russia is dogshit and that should explain to you why you want to have kids early, if at all. Personally, I don't think it's stupid, but it's absolutely selfish. Not only you're having a much higher risk pregnancy with assorted disorders, you're also depriving your child of active (disregard this if you were young and fat) young parents that can actually keep up with his or her shenanigans. In 30s your whole life is in a completely different stage… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:24 PM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?I know, in my time I've tolerated a lot of crazy for DDs and a dump truck of an ass 👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 08:06 PM |
| 8 | What are the signs a woman is only into a guy for his looks?This + She doesn't even know anything about him. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 07:59 PM |
| 1 | The “Nice guy” is a loser to most men.to all* men FTFY | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:18 PM |
| 0 | Alot of men struggle with dating because theyre selfish and dont want to be empathetic.Shy ≠ lack of social skills. Personally, I was never shy, just struggled to communicate my needs, wants, and feelings properly and pick up if women were into me. Once they slide into my DMs it becomes obvious what they want so 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:40 PM |
| 13 | If you knew a woman/man who could never have sex, would you still marry them?You don't have to be in relationship with it to admire it, you can just be friends. You should ask that person, why even marry if they've placed a hard limit on how far marriage can develop? Looks like they just want to play out some Disney marriage fantasy. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:15 PM |
| 3 | Alot of men struggle with dating because theyre selfish and dont want to be empathetic.I'm attractive enough for girls to make the first move. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:03 PM |
| 4 | Alot of men struggle with dating because theyre selfish and dont want to be empathetic.Couldn't be more false. I've got laid plenty before I've developed social skills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 01:59 PM |
| 0 | Why are you still single?Too bad. I hope things worked out for you otherwise. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Why are you still single?Yikes and good luck! 😃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 03:10 AM |
| 1 | Why are you still single?I find it interesting that she kept the baby nevertheless. Was he in the picture at all in your life? And if no, does he know of your existence? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 21/07/25 02:53 AM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.🤦🏽♂️ Typical woman behavior: gaslight the man with your bullshit. You are creating drama right now. And failing at it. What integration does is REDUCE drama, because an integrated into hierarchy yappy little shit is not going to create any additional conflict. This difference right here is why women today don't know when to shut their mouth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 07:54 AM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Well, on my end I'm only laughing, so 🤷🏽♂️ 😃 And I don't need to know what happened in your family, when I can see how you turned out. Look, I'm not denying that you have a shitty father, who didn't establish hierarchy properly, thus resulting in your ass getting beat. Your first problem is that you, as a grown-ass man, are still uneducated in how fatherless feral little shits (you and your brothers in the past) establish hierarchy among themselves. Which I explained to you in the comments abov… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:32 AM |
| -1 | Women withholding sex is the same as men judging you for your pastYet I've lost count how many women have told me "I'm not like that", while they're undressing on the first date. I keep saying "Of course you're not" as I help them unfasten their bra 🤔 the math ain't mathing | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:12 AM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.It's only drama if you're a whiny little bitch about it. it's a vagina-drying story, the highest purity ick generator. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:05 AM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Bruh, if you think this is freaking out, I have bad news for you: you are actually a girl born in a man's body. You should definitely check with an appropriate doctor. My five year old child handles conflict better than you lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 05:02 AM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.No drama. Drama is when someone (a woman) starts bitching and whining about it and how it's unfair to the leader. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:42 AM |
| 2 | Men cause just as much drama as women.They're not a friend group, they're siblings. Fighting as pecking order establishment happens obviously only during childhood and teenage years. Among criminals in later years, I guess. Pecking order exists everywhere though, if you ever try to actually do anything productive with your friend group, you will immediately know where you stand and whether you take or give commands. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/07/25 03:14 AM |
| 0 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Man grew up with brothers. His "petty arguments all the time" cover predominantly childhood. When you're kids, all arguments are petty, unless you think only yours aren't, in which case you're a narc. Did that make it clearer? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 09:27 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyCondoms weren't widespread in Eastern Block countries. He was just nutting and they kept the kids 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 09:24 PM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.There's no drama. Newcomers gets smacked and integrated, end of story. We're not women lol. Bitching and whining doesn't happen after integration. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 09:23 PM |
| 2 | Men cause just as much drama as women.No. Once the order is established, there's no drama. You challenge the order = you create drama = you get put in place. Commenter is a narc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 09:03 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyLmao, no he didn't. She would lay into him every day, and he took it on the chin when sober. He did occasionally chase her with a knife for giving him the lip when drunk though, but it was playful. (I'm being sarcastic) | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyYeah, men absolutely stay with emotional abusers if they get amazing pussy. My grandpa was a big time player, has kids scattered all over Europe, yet married to my (def undiagnosed bpd) grandma for 50 years 🤷🏽♂️ I can't imagine how good it would have to be for a player to stay married that long to a human tornado. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:38 PM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Writes absolutely like a woman too. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:34 PM |
| 1 | The less you care, the most success you'll have. Here's how.The interesting thing about blackpillers and redpillers is that they are obsessed with women. Ayyyyy, opened with being wrong. They're obsessed with being able to consistently get laid. Women are just tangential to that. A man that consistently gets laid automatically places higher in men's social hierarchy. That's why men lie about it lol. As it stands, they're the bottom rung if they can't get laid. got interested in feminism This unlocked even more success. Man was so desperate for pussy he b… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:25 PM |
| 1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.I was being sarcastic. Did I overdo it? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:07 PM |
| 4 | Men cause just as much drama as women.My point was that once pecking order is established, the drama disappears until some little shit that doesn't know his place starts opening his mouth. And that's when you put him in it, and being a teenager you don't have all the patience in the world, so you give him a little smack or five. It's absolutely normal among boys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 08:02 PM |
| -2 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Come on, when you're kids, ALL arguments are petty. You're arguing who gets the window seat, who holds the TV remote. Who gets the bigger bowl of cereal and the last candy. Who gets to shower first. All petty. Except for yours, right? Yours are the important arguments. Your turn with the curling iron is the most important argument, right? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:58 PM |
| -1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:54 PM |
| -1 | Men cause just as much drama as women.Nothing but petty arguments and aggression. You are confusing establishment of social hierarchy with arguments. For men the pecking order is important. You, as a weakest, are at the bottom of that. If I disagreed with my brothers they would attack me. They were putting you in your place in the hierarchy, as the weakest member. Edit: didn't realize you were a man. Are you perhaps gay or a Decepticon? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | Q4M - What happened to make guys go from self-described (AFCs) to self-described “incels”?Not attractive? No. Attractive women that aren't partner material? Yes. I have my own needs, my dick has its own needs, gotta keep it happy 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:32 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyAyyyyy 😭👌🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Q4M - What happened to make guys go from self-described (AFCs) to self-described “incels”?What happened to them is women got on dating apps en masse, got some Chad dick from me and my boys and how feel entitled to a relationship with us lol. They won't "settle" for a man that's their looksmatch 🤷🏽♂️ they keep going back to the apps or sliding into our DMs to get some dick, and keep hoping for one of the Chads to fall in love with them. Disney promised them a prince after all. By the time (if ever) one does though they're so toxic and warped by the apps, they have become a terrible p… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:23 PM |
| 1 | CMV: "my ex is crazy" = I drove her crazyCrazy pussy = the best sex, that's how they get ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 06:02 PM |
| 5 | How much interest and attention do you think the average woman receives?I think the average woman, before men decided to collectively fuck off off the dating market, received plenty of attention, probably dozen or several dozen of approaches per week. As for what type of approaches they were, its highly depended on how whorish she was dressed at the moment and on location. Men at bars and clubs are less inhibited than during 9-5 at some trade center. As for getting her bills paid, that's entirely dependent on how unscrupulous she is. The "gold digging whore epidemic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 19/07/25 01:31 PM |
| 2 | Women are doing traditional gender roles-- and often male ones toomen are doing all of the heavy lifting in relationships They are :P If you married the "I'll fix him!" who spends his day doing fuck all, it's your own fault. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.They all want the attention and the D. It's exhausting, as an introvert 😔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:08 PM |
| 0 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.I'm old school and don't split the bill. Have you heard of this new thing called humor? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:07 PM |
| 0 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.I was obviously being facetious ಠ_ಠ And good women are nonexistent in the west 😜 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 06:04 PM |
| 17 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.Remember, women want egalitarian relationships, but never when they have to pay for their own bills lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 11:10 AM |
| 4 | Yes, women should “wait at the finish line” for a good man.Literally never watched them. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 11:08 AM |
| 1 | Men are not inherently bigger losers today than they were in previous generations, there’s just finite amount of opportunity and by definition more men will lose.I'm talking about this, your original comment that prompted my response: There are always nightmare Reddit stories where some husband who is the lesser earner wants his wife to have kids and be a SAHM, but he seems to have no plan for how exactly the bills will get paid. May those idiot men never find me. 🙏 Now that we've unpacked it, it's clearly evident that in those nightmare stories the so-called "idiot men" were chosen as LTR partners by women of equally sub-par intelligence. Since you your… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 18/07/25 07:46 AM |
| 3 | Men are not inherently bigger losers today than they were in previous generations, there’s just finite amount of opportunity and by definition more men will lose.So the nightmare story started somewhere around the proposal and her saying "yes", right? We're just witnessing the fallout of bad choices. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 2 | Men are not inherently bigger losers today than they were in previous generations, there’s just finite amount of opportunity and by definition more men will lose.AND there is evidence that he is a competent man who can do as he says he will. Would you marry him without that proof? What is your opinion on women that do? So they set themselves up for success? Do you understand what my pill flair is? What people think they are, and what they objectively are, are two different things. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 07:44 PM |
| 3 | The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slavesLording over robots... It doesn't feel the same. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:50 PM |
| 3 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?We need to shame men for consuming prostitution actually Is already in decline, ceding ground to sex robot toys and only fans surprisingly. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:49 PM |
| 5 | Men are not inherently bigger losers today than they were in previous generations, there’s just finite amount of opportunity and by definition more men will lose.He has to be aware they will not have the finances to make it work if his wife stops working. Does that not open up a conversation about what they both need to do to facilitate that happening? I do not believe in egalitarianism. Oh? So if your hubs could comfortably support 3-4 people on his income you would just do as you're told and quit your job to have kids, if he asked? Or would you tell him to pound rocks? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 06:47 PM |
| 9 | Men are not inherently bigger losers today than they were in previous generations, there’s just finite amount of opportunity and by definition more men will lose.nightmare Reddit stories where some husband who is the lesser earner wants Women: we want an egalitarian relationship! Also women: how dare my husband communicate his desires without presenting and spoon feeding me a perfectly formulated plan! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 04:33 PM |
| 4 | The future is polygamous - rich men have harems and male slavesIf they bomb everyone there will be nobody left to lord over. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 03:52 PM |
| – | The market depicts your value, not youThat's way off. 99% between ages 14-25. 95% between 25 and 40. 90% 40+. Exceptions for low T levels. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:10 AM |
| – | The market depicts your value, not you☝🏽 beaches be crazy | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 08:09 AM |
| -1 | Do you experience attraction to men on a binary "attractive, not attractive" way or on a spectrum? "He's a 6 but the other guy is an 8"but the other guy is an 8" Floored me NGL 😭💀 *Wipes tears* | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 02:48 AM |
| 1 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameYep, that's modern world for ya. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/07/25 01:56 AM |
| 2 | Women aren’t harder to date; this generation of women have built themselves up more and aren’t willing to date a man that doesn’t do the sameYou should familiarize yourself with polycules. People aren't coupled. People live in mini communes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 08:09 PM |
| – | [Q4RP]: Why haven't you joined a more conservative community?There's r/marriedredpill (if it hasn't gotten banned yet lol) that's about it. Not sure if Reddit is the best place to look for something like that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:18 PM |
| – | [Q4RP]: Why haven't you joined a more conservative community?Because: They're also mainstreaming simping and blue pill. They're bleeding female membership to the whoredom of modern society. Look at the stats for all churches. They're getting oversaturated with born-again whores. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:15 PM |
| 0 | When times are hard financially for women, Why do they choose to be sex workers instead of moving in with one single wealthy man?This. I know a woman who divorced her multimillionaire husband to work as an only fans hoe. According to her he was too controlling. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:03 PM |
| 0 | Women don't approach men because of other women.Nobody cares though. Women will never change their modus operandi while there are men willing to go the extra simping mile. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 06:01 PM |
| 13 | Are young men failing at dating because they aren't dedicating enough time and effort to it?This among other things. We need to bring back simp shaming and slut shaming. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:58 PM |
| – | Sexual compatibility isn't a real thing.Cavernous vagina. Never seen anything bigger than 6 inches. Choose one. Have a look at r/bigdickproblems for self-education sometime. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 16/07/25 05:56 AM |
| 1 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most menChris Rock on women's happiness | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:41 PM |
| 1 | It’s not that women have it easier, it’s just that dating is horrible for most men37% of young gen z women are single ≠ withdrawing themselves from dating. What they are is community pussy pool for us fuckboys. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 04:32 PM |
| 4 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.loads of western women have long term relationships and support family values and get married and have children. Lady, who are you trying to deceive? I've been to church, different denominations, they're all the same: smorgasbord of post-wall born again and sneaky "I'm not like that" hoes, settled ones with henpecked mid hubs, completely naive ignorant girls. The latter demographic completely disappeared over the past ten years with Instagroom and tiktok proliferation. Even the most conservative… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 15/07/25 02:27 AM |
| -1 | Men obsess over achieving a variety of women, to their own detrimentLike Shaq said, and I agree with him, there are 3 types of cheater-men: James Bond cheater, serial cheater, and driven to cheating by his woman. If the only men you end up dating is serial cheaters that just says something about you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 11:03 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?Let me think about it. Thank you for the advice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 08:50 PM |
| 2 | Overall. Getting women as a man is entirely too much work.Not at all. It's just the women you get are... of questionable quality. If you're a grown Peter Pan only wanting to smash some hoes, western world is heaven for you. If you want a relationship and family values, western world basically tells you to get fucked. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:46 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I already had a woman like that though. She just had other deal breakers that I could not overlook 🤷🏽♂️ So it's not absolutely impossible. i wouldn't have the best gf i ever had Ok, and I'm happy for you, but are you really suggesting I lower my standards and settle? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 05:38 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?How are aussie girls better? Same issues, different country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:04 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?May I ask, are you dating in NYC? I'm not even in US. Canada, Alberta here (northern Texas if you will), just over a million people city. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 01:27 PM |
| 1 | What Defines Red Pill?Incidentally, this also debunks the "women are attracted to assholes" kneejerk. It does not actually. Just because A is false, doesn't mean that Not A is also false. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 01:21 PM |
| 1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?Sorry, they're just basic skills that can be learned in a work week and half an hour respectively Sure, and they still don't know them. A grown-ass adult not knowing how to cook shows to me that they have no effin clue what they're putting in their body. I don't want Mrs Doordash that lives on junk food. It's not even about cooking, it's about nutrition planning that stems from being able to cook. have a specific look to their faces and eyes that give them away Those get filtered out way before … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 01:16 PM |
| 0 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?Don't over-filter, especially when you can't be sure about your filters. I don't though. I can summarize what I want like so: I need to be attracted to her. She needs to be mentally and physically healthy. She needs to be able to take care of herself. She needs to be a good role model. All the other things I've listed are indicators for these 4 points. You don't ask a person if they're a good role model, you look at their behavior, and so on. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:42 PM |
| 0 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation??!? ? At least in this category (lets call them low energy people) you can generally clock them in under a minute. Obvious cripples - yes. But there's tons of chronically ill ones, you don't even find out about their issues until you've been talking for weeks and went on multiple dates. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:39 PM |
| 2 | I think women feel the same thing for famous men that men feel for regular attractive womenif the women is making you wait more then a week or two she probably aint feeling you all that much. If that happens, a man probably doesn't have an abundance of choice. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 09:59 AM |
| – | Do you ever actually have to filter out unattractive people?Lol yeah. I've turned down more women that most men on this sub jerked off to (it's not a flex, unless you're comparing me to mids, most attractive women turn down way more men). It's mostly my fault because I've developed flirtiness as a part of red pill journey. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:22 AM |
| -1 | Why are you having trouble dating, in your earnest estimation?I have worked hard towards success, achieved it, and as a result I got access to an abundance of women I absolutely don't want as LTR partners. Can't cook, can't iron, aren't nurturing, aren't homemakers, the list goes on indefinitely. The women that have even the bare minimum of these skills are practically non-existent in the West, even in churches. If I were to summarize my problem in one sentence: There is no good way for me to filter out the whores trying to play house. Then there's chronic… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 02:12 AM |
| 1 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Only sexually and it's ultimately a male gold-digger aka gigolo pattern. Women get no resources or commitment from those men. Assuming she even has resources to buy male gold diggers | /r/PurplePillDebate | 14/07/25 12:09 AM |
| 3 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.Increased self-esteem results in better advocating for oneself, which then results in faster promotions. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 04:34 AM |
| 10 | We should start sexualizing menIt's literally the opposite of flex. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:55 AM |
| 1 | Being more blue-pilled can set you apart from the vast majority of men who are now red-pilledYou're correct, it will definitely set you apart. Right in the friendzone with the rest of the simps and cucks lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:53 AM |
| 21 | Most of the time, dont wait for a man to get better. Just pick a better guy.Imagine her rage when that guy dumps her ass for a younger hotter one? Lmao. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:51 AM |
| 3 | Why do women seem to dislike men who like fishing?Nuh uh. He teaches to people fish. That's a much better hustle than fishmaxxing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:49 AM |
| 6 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.Even if the car gets his foot in the door, these girls are going to expect a little something for themselves too. Hump & dump. He dumps them before they realize he's a brokie lol. It could be just a car head, or a quickie, but basically he bags them before they even get to asking for expensive shit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 02:42 AM |
| – | Money doesn't bring womenI even invested $45k in a high-end matchmaking servic Bruh... You're failing rules 1 and 2. Why not invest in plastic surgery? But get a vasectomy first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 12:21 AM |
| 2 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.I'm from Alberta too 😃 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 13/07/25 12:09 AM |
| 9 | What ways do you condone women using to choose better?Bruh, when I responded to you, you tried to strawman it 🤷🏽♂️ now you're complaining? I don't care who's obsessed with what. My point was: for as long as you primarily select for pussy tingles, you'll get the guys that max out primal attraction, which is fuckboys and toxic boys. The apps and the world will expose you to so much fuckboy dick that you'll die of old age before you find the good men lol. Even if you don't, by the time you've met a good man, you're too desensitized to a good man's fe… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 11:25 PM |
| 7 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.None of this lol. A guy gets in debt for a car => gets to smash crowds of attractive gold diggers => gets enough self-esteem to actually afford the car => keeps the car and keeps smashing the gold diggers until he ages out of his price bracket. This is how men develop the Peter Pan complex, there's absolutely no need for them to become mature after getting the bag and consequently assorted pussy on tap. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 11:06 PM |
| 14 | What ways do you condone women using to choose better?Lady, I'm a literal fuckboy. I told you how to avoid ending up humped and dumped by guys less scrupulous than me. You can do whatever you want with that info, even completely disregard it. You are your own person and if you want to be community pussy, you are free to become one in this free country. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 10:46 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you be comfortable if your wife went to the female version of Hooters if she insisted that she was just there for the wings and not the men? Would you go with her for the wings?Ange's Meats 😏😭 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:55 PM |
| 2 | Q4Men: Would you be comfortable if your wife went to the female version of Hooters if she insisted that she was just there for the wings and not the men? Would you go with her for the wings?She can go there every day lol. If you struggle to understand the fundamental difference between a hoe bar/club outing and a Pecks meal, I don't even know what to tell you. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:53 PM |
| 21 | What ways do you condone women using to choose better?Are We Dating The Same Guy Demonized Is it demonized? Let's see. Theory: women sharing creep and abuser info to ensure each other's safety. Practice: 90% salty toxic exes trying to ensure the guy never gets another date and making up the wildest bullshit about him. Also, the guy dating multiple women actually gets even more attention because of all the social proof the group provides. If women actually weren't okay with being side chicks and sharing men, this bullshit wouldn't be happening. Choo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:45 PM |
| 2 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.Strong Alberta vibes 😏 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:35 PM |
| 3 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.I know several dudes that own lifted trucks because they go offroading a ton. But the rest are indeed SDE pavement princesses lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:30 PM |
| 7 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.But the reason they are deeply in debt is because the car thing works and women take the bait, which drives men going into debt to get these cars. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:28 PM |
| 7 | Women don’t care about cars. And past a certain age you should know that.😭💀 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 06:25 PM |
| 3 | Title: Ever notice how feminist guys support sexually liberated women… but usually date “modest” ones.I know one, but now that you've said it, I'm starting to question whether he actually had sex in his 10 year relationship (he left because she didn't want kids). | /r/PurplePillDebate | 12/07/25 02:45 AM |
| 1 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Just pick any brainless blue pill statement that is objectively false - I was told all of them lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 08:03 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?Well, they're idiots and it will never work. You can't negotiate attraction, you can't legislate it. If they desperately wanted to get laid, community pussy already exists in every neighborhood, they're just too dumb to find her. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 08:01 PM |
| 2 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.In order to recognize actual success, one has to be able to define actual success. If you are misled about what actual success is, you will not recognize it when you come across it. This issue is actually very prevalent among inner city youth, and is a perfect example of why "lifting oneself up by the bootstraps" is fallacious. In order to succeed a person needs to: Know what success is and looks like. Know the path to success. Be motivated to follow that path. When I was volunteering at a youth… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?I'm sorry, but literally no RP using man is asking to make laws lol. Those who use RP get laid plenty and don't need any assistance. Making any laws to "fix" whatever is happening right now will only backfire majestically. I'm firmly against any "laws" any salty incel on this sub has ever suggested. I think this situation will balance itself out within 10 years tops. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:48 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Do roids impact CNS function? With the exception of my one grandfather everyone else was blue pill, spewing blue pill bullshit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:39 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?But RedPill operates based on trends Precisely. Trans people representing sub 0.01% of human population aren't anything like a trend, thus general statements are still valid. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:37 PM |
| 3 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.They did and got red pilled lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:04 PM |
| 1 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.They interact with women, correct. They don't interact with unicorn women, due to incredible rarity of such women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:03 PM |
| 4 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions."You'll meet a girl who's not like that" implies a higher than zero rate of occurrence. Meanwhile 99.9% of men will never meaningfully interact with, nevermind date such a woman. And that is what makes it a myth. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 04:24 PM |
| 6 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Parents, grandparents. If my grandpa wasn't a player and a ladies man I would've grown up completely blue pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:33 PM |
| 10 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Despite also allegedly seeing and understanding what kinds of traits attracted the girls as early as school aged years. This is where the lie of "Not All Women Are Like That" and the myth of a unicorn woman comes into play. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:31 PM |
| 11 | I don't get why men are surprised with womens behaviors or actions.Red pilled from childhood men aren't surprised though. The most salty men you see here and everywhere else are the ones that were entrenched blue pill, severely brainwashed by their single moms, grandmas, or terminally feminist parents, only to then violently come in contact with reality. Their red pill was a suppository, and they didn't like it one bit. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:26 PM |
| 1 | Do y'all believe trans people exist ?It's frankly irrelevant to the dynamic. It literally doesn't matter what people self-identify as, in the context of having sex. People will fuck whom they want to fuck. In regards to having kids, giving birth, etc - the actual physical bits matter, and no amount of self-identifying or surgery it's going to change that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:00 PM |
| 1 | How often does the average man get 'approached'... In their lifetime?Not thin, not fat, not tall, not short, a-b cup, no hips. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 08:41 AM |
| 7 | My handsome, successful male cousins are getting married to women I perceive as "average". None of them are with beautiful women. This also reflects what I notice in society (not including Hollywood). Am I missing something here?As someone who's dated both 10s and 8s, and married an 8 before, there's something you don't know about the beautiful women your cousins meet and about the women they've married. Extremely beautiful women live life on extra easy mode and are often spoiled to the point of being infantilized to the max and throwing batshit crazy adult tantrums when things don't go their way. Only a 10 will playfully throw a pitcher full of water at your head on date 5 and think nothing of it (yes, this is from exp… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 08:24 AM |
| 2 | How often does the average man get 'approached'... In their lifetime?Looksmatch of a land whale is not a 6. It's a 3-4. 6 gets with a medium built girl that has average features. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 07:55 AM |
| 3 | You cannot tweak culture and society a little bit and suddenly the dating market is balanced outAnd never came out of the closet. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 11/07/25 02:59 AM |
| -1 | How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationshipsWhat are you even talking about? I'm not lonely lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:38 PM |
| -1 | How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationshipsLet me rephrase that for ease of your comprehension: present company is absolutely not worth it to spend brain cycles on running a language filter. Is that more clear? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 10:23 PM |
| -4 | How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationshipsYou think I would ever be discussing pussy tingles in high society? No, I would not. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 5 | How often does the average man get 'approached'... In their lifetime?Land 🐳 think they're tens these days, the only time you'll catch them with mids is if mids are paying their bills. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 05:54 PM |
| -2 | How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationshipsShould I have called it "nether tingles"? Southern heat wave? Procreation tension? Sausage urge? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 03:04 PM |
| -1 | How do you vett men for hookups and long term relationshipsFor hookups 😺 tingles is the vetting part. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 02:17 PM |
| 42 | How often does the average man get 'approached'... In their lifetime?An average man? Zero to one times. That's why men remember compliments given to them for years. Based on your hit ratio, is say you're in top ~20% by looks, give or take 10% since your "autistic ass" most likely missed a whole lot of women trying to low-key signal. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 02:14 PM |
| 1 | The nice guy does deserve to finish lastNice guys that have no other marketable qualities do indeed deserve to finish last. Well-rounded nice guys that get jerked around by a girl while she's screwing several other guys, only to "settle" with the nice ones later, don't deserve that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 01:51 PM |
| 15 | You cannot tweak culture and society a little bit and suddenly the dating market is balanced outBy following rules 1 and 2. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 10/07/25 01:37 PM |
| 3 | No women should be excited to get married in 2025"Evidence", lmaoooo 😭 Two-thirds said women do more than their fair share of washing and ironing. and ironing My bullshit meter just red-lined. Most of the women today don't even own an iron and don't know which way to hold it lol. My ex hasn't used an iron a single time in over 10 years that I was with her. Bet most were too shy to ask "what is ironing?" and just said "yes, I'm doing more than my fair share!" | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:42 PM |
| 4 | Why do you want to be in a relationship?☝🏽 💯 I want to add to this, I've seen a lot of long-term couples fall apart when their goals have started to diverge or completely diverged, but they have never discussed them until it was too late. So both parties felt like the other one was not putting the effort in, while each actively pursuing sometimes mutually contradictory goals. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 05:05 PM |
| – | How would you react if you found out the man you were dating had a 'slut phase'?Let's make it more fun: you also find out that every woman that he was with before you has 3 sizes bigger tits and 3+ inches in hips. But he says that size doesn't matter and he loves you the way you are. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 01:45 PM |
| 2 | How much do women actually care about sexual compatibility?Plus, I think most women would be interested in giving the guy more than a few chances to figure out how to make her feel good during sex, including guys who are small, if they are already in the boyfriend/girlfriend stage. I agree with most of your comment, except this. Micropeens get ditched on the spot, even in highly religious marriages. Conversely big dicks get nearly infinite chances. I recall on r/bigdickproblems there was a girl posting her conundrum. Even after warmup her guy was giving… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 09/07/25 02:08 AM |
| 1 | If you are calling a woman a pick-me or a man white knight .But you also praise the opposite gender for being a pick-me or white knight. Then you are a hypocrite.Nobody calls a providing husband a white knight or a simp. Simps and white knights are men performing as good guys in hopes of getting laid. One of such obvious performances is men defending a woman that has an absolutely ridiculous opinion or position on something. Case in point: every "male feminist". The same applies to women in reverse, but instead of getting laid, there's usually a fiscal interest of some sort. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 11:10 PM |
| 1 | A man being asocial, doesn't automatically make a man socially awkward or a loser.No, but social proof lacking is a big problem. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 08/07/25 04:56 AM |
| 5 | Wife goggles can definitely exist for some menOneitis has a name for a reason. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 07/07/25 11:20 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Hypothetically, if we were to come up with a foolproof test that would unequivocally indicate my IQ of 150 or above, would that change your opinion of me? I don't think it will. People, even highly intelligent people have a really hard time adjusting their worldview. I was pro-abortion most of my life, until I became a parent and actually sat down and tried to reconcile my memories and my worldview with a child I was holding in my hands. At the end of the day I see too far into the future to per… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 07:57 PM |
| 1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Depends on your criteria for "good." Objectively, I'm above average. As to how much above average would have to be measured. If it's by IQ, I was clocking 150 ~twenty years ago when I last bothered to measure it. If it's by thinking under stress, I've been in actual life and death situations, where only my reaction and analysis saved me and others from serious harm or perishing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 07:46 PM |
| 0 | Women Have it Easier in Dating Than Men.Disagree. Brainwashed modern women that bought into the Disney princess fantasy bullshit and expect a prince (and there's a lot of these women), they don't see substandard men as people at all. Likewise, if you were out of women to have sex with, would you fuck a sheep or a pig? No, you wouldn't, and they don't want to either. I know it's a crude analogy, but it's the best approximation of what women feel when they settle for substandard men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?I'm sorry, but women are supposed to be the gatekeepers of sex. The amount of willpower I have, compared to an average guy is insane. That willpower is what enables me to turn down pussy on tap. Meanwhile 99% of men are absolutely not equipped to do that, so I cannot in good faith blame them for succumbing to their sex drive and fucking those cheating women. It's easy for women to turn down sex, but men live with a literal sex demon in their pants. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 05:04 PM |
| 0 | Apparently women just magically turn “demisexusal” around average menNow the moment a guy would potentially have issues with her more promiscious past he'd immediately get reminded that he is insecure and old fashioned Frankly, indicating that you have problems with a woman's past whoring is the dumbest and weakest position imaginable. If she's below your standards, just move the F on and stop talking. If you still want to smash, you don't get to complain about the damaged goods, so shut up and get in line. Either way, you shouldn't be talking about it, but inste… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:50 PM |
| 2 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?No, that would be against my moral code and enabling cheating. Bros before hoes. I only had sex with single women. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/07/25 04:42 PM |
| -1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?You asked. I tried that, it made me even more attractive - we're now here. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:13 PM |
| 1 | What do you want from a marriage?I know, that's why I'm not married anymore lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 11:12 PM |
| 1 | Can a man ever become as attractive to women as women are in the eyes of men?Yes. When you're in top 10% of men, you get life on easy mode. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:14 PM |
| 0 | The majority of Red Pill men are incredibly insecureRed pill just underlines the truth of women being only attracted to the top 20% of the guys. Which will naturally make the remaining 80% insecure as fuck lol. If you're not a part of the club, you have my condolences 🤷🏽♂️ | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:11 PM |
| -1 | What’s stopping you becoming more attractive?Nothing. I am attractive lol, that's why I'm red pill. I've seen women treat good guys like absolute shit, then try to fuck me, try to cheat on their SOs with me, etc etc. You name it, women tried to pull it with me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:08 PM |
| 1 | Most men have terrible dating advice. Being bitter is not the gold standard of attracting women.a bunch of shallow, vapid women who just want to be spoiled. See, I question this premise. Let's look at all the partners of Elon Musk, especially ones he had babies with. You just know they were with him not for his charming personality, lol. And some of them aren't so shallow. So clearly, either all women are on a gold-digger spectrum to a certain degree, or it's not just about wealth, but women using wealth as a measure of the equality of your genes. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 05/07/25 03:05 PM |
| 1 | The Politics of DatingI'm happy too! 😃 Orders of magnitude better than when I was blue pilled. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 04:07 PM |
| 1 | CMV: requiring women to make the first move with "choosing signals" is just more emotional laborWDYT I think nobody cares. Half of women are just as autistic as the men they rag on, and are incapable of simplest displays of affection, which results in no date chemistry whatsoever even if she's into him. No amount of him "obsessing with her" is going to fix that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:18 PM |
| 10 | equality vs equity the eternal argumentAnd yet equality still ≠ equity. People insisting on equal outcomes are dumb. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 01:01 PM |
| – | Men who claim women are "boring" what makes them "boring" and what makes you more 'interesting' or 'fun' to be around?Jesus, it's like you wrote a white paper on it. /Thread | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 12:57 PM |
| – | I am not surprised that a lot of people on here struggle with datingLet me present you the flip side. Have you ever used cheats in a videogame, got everything and it immediately got boring? That's how dating for me is while using red pill. The absolute ease of locking down a woman, and her then introducing you to new women you can fuck is insane. it's like God Mode in some weird-ass harem game. If I had infinite balls I could spend literally all my free time just driving between women and fucking them. But none of them are marriage material, even though almost a… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 04/07/25 03:20 AM |
| 2 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysSome men's game is terrible and they are phony. Other men's game is great and they flirt just fine. My point is that BOTH are game. Just because she likes it or doesn't like it doesn't decide whether it's game or not lol. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:35 PM |
| 2 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysBeing genuinely interesting and funny does. That's called having a good game lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:32 PM |
| 3 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysFlirting is game 101. And the fact that you don't get it is hilarious. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:41 PM |
| 2 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysFlirting isn't game. Flirting isn't serious. Flirting is amusement. Flirting is harmless. Bruh 🤦🏽♂️ Flirting IS game. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:35 PM |
| 4 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysLook lady, it's not my fault if every man you've met tried to "rizz them with the tism." Do you understand flirting? Have you ever been flirted with? Have you successfully flirted with someone? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:29 PM |
| 3 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysNo. Never. It's very easy to pick up on game. It's very obvious. He's not talking to you like a person but instead like a conquest. I'm sorry to tell you, you were only exposed to low quality game. High quality game is fun and exciting, not icky. That's why it works. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:19 PM |
| 5 | As a guy, game is arguably the best thing to invest in these daysI always walked away from men trying "game". Ever laughed at a guy's joke and thought to yourself "damn, he's smooth, I like him"? That was game. When you pick up on the game it has already failed. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 03:13 PM |
| -1 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy Risksadvanced maternal age (AMA) instead. Anything to preserve an ageing woman's feelings. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 12:59 PM |
| – | Men will tell women to choose better while not detecting red flags themselves.Oh, we know why. But stating it out loud gets one banned. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:50 AM |
| – | Men will tell women to choose better while not detecting red flags themselves.As if women ever listened to men's advice when we warn that they are getting in with a trash man. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:49 AM |
| 0 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksAlexa, what is geriatric pregnancy? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:38 AM |
| 11 | Father’s Age and Fitness Linked to Placental Health and Pregnancy RisksThat would explain the autism epidemic better than the vaccine conspiracy theory. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:34 AM |
| 3 | What do you want from a marriage?A trustworthy partner, hot sex, many kids, lots of laughter and respect. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:31 AM |
| 1 | What is your MBTI type? - and other mbti nerdery🖖 I think it's just us two lol | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 06:27 AM |
| 4 | Advice geared towards men is circular and designed to drive you insaneComing to women for advice lol, whenever did that work? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 03/07/25 04:58 AM |
| 0 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?This may surprise you but we have more slavery today in the world than literally at any time in the past. Can't speak for sacrifice, don't have any stats on that. Wouldn't be surprised if animal sacrifice is still happening and increasing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:55 PM |
| -1 | Do you guys REALLY hate being the sole provider ?redpill rage phase Those are literally stages of grief: the anger stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:48 PM |
| 2 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?I was one lol. That's why I'm calling bullshit 😂 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 03:09 AM |
| 1 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?What a load of bs lol. As of a narc douchebag ever cared about women's orgasms. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 01:59 AM |
| 4 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?Seems to me that women figured out that men weren’t as reliable and monogamous as they had previously claimed. Please. This claim would be inducing hysterical laughter if it wasn't so preposterous. "Women figured it out and started hooking up with the biggest douchebags they could find"? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 01:08 AM |
| – | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?Why don't you read the hypothetical out loud to a friend. Things will quickly become clear. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:22 AM |
| 4 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?In order to stay 50/50 you'll have to stay childfree, which I presume is the goal like with most feminists? I like skinny twinks Sounds like you're "the man" in the house tbh. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:21 AM |
| 3 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?I don't know why you're getting so defensive, I'm just telling the other guy to not jump the gun. It's kind of pointless to debate someone if they lack the capacity to operate on the level you expect them to. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:13 AM |
| – | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?I don't take substances that enable you to engage with this hypothetical. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:10 AM |
| 2 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?And what makes you think that I want my woman to work a job? But 90% of women here are brainwashed to immediately jump at this as "he's being controlling." Really? In a traditional marriage in Asia, you hand over your entire check to the wife and get back an allowance. That traditional marriage? If she fucks like she means it, cooks good meals, knows when to keep her mouth shut, and is a good role model for kids, I'll put a bow on that paycheck too. She'll roll in the money and want for nothing. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:07 AM |
| – | Q4W: What is on your list of requirements for a husband?I hope you are not having a stroke. Get better soon! | /r/PurplePillDebate | 02/07/25 12:02 AM |
| 2 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?I was being sarcastic. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 10:07 PM |
| 1 | My current job reminded me how much community and social continuity matters for dating.Most people just want to work and go home dawg. No, that's what awkward shut-ins do. Mingling with attractive coworkers > sitting at home 100% of the time. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 08:59 PM |
| 3 | Are you happy redpillers?hence why it is so sellable. You are confusing influencer grifter red pill with the actual red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 07:37 PM |
| 0 | My current job reminded me how much community and social continuity matters for dating.I'm not saying you get invited to an orgy. After the bar/club a bunch of buzzed people get into a car or two and head over to one person's house "to crash". That's where the mingling happens. I can't believe you don't know that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:54 PM |
| 1 | QFW When you hear people make jokes or belittle men for "compensating", having "small dick energy", or otherwise belittle people with smaller dicks, do you speak up?Cavernous puss. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:22 PM |
| 2 | Are you happy redpillers?feminism is an ifeology that stands for equality between the sexes It literally doesn't though. Egalitarianism does. Feminism just advances female agenda, whatever that is at the moment. Feminism is female hivemind infected by tiktok brainrot and perversed in every imaginable way, since the second wave. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:13 PM |
| 3 | Are you happy redpillers?They're going through stages of grief and are stuck in the anger stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:10 PM |
| 1 | Are you happy redpillers?Red pill is about knowing the truth about women and accepting them despite of it. Most red pillers you see here and elsewhere are still going through stages of grief about reality, and a lot of them are in the anger stage. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:09 PM |
| 1 | Are you happy redpillers?Ditto. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:06 PM |
| 2 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?This requires self-awareness. Let's see if she's capable of introspection first. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:05 PM |
| 1 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?You seem to be a smart person, capable of introspection. I suggest you sit down with a notebook and write down everything you want from a guy in a relationship. Then, on another page, write down everything you are ready to contribute to a relationship. After you've done all that, write out traditional gender roles for men and women respectively. Then see how much what you expect from a guy overlaps with his gender role, and how much you are ready to contribute overlaps with yours. In not trying … | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:49 PM |
| 2 | Are you happy redpillers?I'm absolutely more happy because I'm more in touch with reality, my predictive capability has improved drastically, I'm a more successful person overall due to it. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:41 PM |
| 4 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?This is not an attack on you, Mary, I'm just outlining the typical issues of such relationships. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:37 PM |
| 17 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?It's almost as if red pill is men adapting to feminism 🤔 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:34 PM |
| 2 | Are any red pillers not looking for a traditional relationship?My longest relationship was not traditional even though it started as one. I soon discovered that she was a feminist while performing as a trad woman. Now that I'm out of it, I'm not sure I want one again. There are huge hidden issues with trying to make it work. The biggest issue is: everything, and I mean absolutely EVERYTHING needs to be negotiated, because you don't have gender roles anymore. I'll be washing dishes and you'll be changing oil in the car. Or I'll be changing and nursing the ba… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:30 PM |
| 6 | Q4M: How would you feel if women acted like "fukgirls"?Picture your crush in your head... Now imagine her leading you on, gassing you up, love bombing, sleeping with you... But then keeping you secret, never introducing you to her friends or family You just described my second relationship to a T. She's one of the reasons I'm red pill. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 04:08 PM |
| 4 | My current job reminded me how much community and social continuity matters for dating.If you're working in mixed staff environment and aren't invited to afterwork parties, it's bad news. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:56 PM |
| 0 | My current job reminded me how much community and social continuity matters for dating.Sigh. If you're not a part of it and not invited to any parties, I'm afraid I have bad news... | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 03:36 PM |
| 1 | My current job reminded me how much community and social continuity matters for dating.Dude. Pick literally any job with mixed staff, where you spend extended amounts of time together - you'll quickly discover that everyone is fucking. And if the staff is predominantly young, the fucking happens on a whole other scale. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 09:08 AM |
| 1 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?Oh lol, my bad, I missed that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:48 AM |
| 1 | If I could guarantee you that 1 out of every 40 guys you approach is your ideal man, would you start cold approaching? Why or why not?Sure. I don't care enough to profile her. I just know there's additional reasons. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:40 AM |
| 2 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveCuz you're talking about OF. I don't consume OF and indicated absolutely nowhere otherwise. And Dune is geared towards a certain kind of nerd, not your typical movie goer. I've read the books, the original movie was a classic, you're fishing so hard and so bad you need a trawler lol Also, you know more about pop culture than the average man. Sorry to tell you, I know less than the average man, Zendaya and Scarlett what's her face are the only female actresses I know by names. You should apply yo… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 05:38 AM |
| 2 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveThe fact that you guys know who all these women are is telling. Really? Zendaya? The Spiderman's main chick? The Dune Chani chick? I know for a fact red pill men consume a lot of porn. How warped is your perception of reality, if you read a name you didn't recognize immediately and right away assumed it was a porn actress? Smh | /r/PurplePillDebate | 01/07/25 12:34 AM |
| 2 | Is there any redpill movies or any movies or shows that reinforced your belief?The Sean Connery's James Bond was red pill AF. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 06:55 PM |
| 3 | Men cannot complain their way to sex and relationships"Attraction cannot be negotiated" Rollo Tomassi, the red pill apostle. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 06:52 PM |
| 1 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?Brunei doesn't count, too westernized 🤪 but jokes aside, I bet you don't live there now, have not for a long time, and in the meantime your worldview has been heavily influenced by the western people. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 05:53 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveI don't even have tiktok. I'm telling you that they leave and alienate their friends and family in favor of whore-empowering tiktok, which is insane to me. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:58 PM |
| 6 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveHuh? I don't know why you've projected all that. No, I don't care who Jeff married or bangs or why he's with this specific woman. Maybe she makes a mean sandwich, or maybe she sucked the soul out of his dick, or she knows just the trick that gets him going, maybe she knows exactly when to shut her mouth and stay quiet, who knows. What we do know is it's not for her looks, lol. And kudos to her, whatever skills she's got, they're clearly offsetting her slowly ageing beauty enough to lock a bald 5… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:56 PM |
| 1 | How should your gf be different from the average woman?In Latam and Asia they just cheat lol I'm not disputing that lol, I think the rates of cheating are different though. Actions reflect values after all, and latam has different values. I think you need to visit other cultures and observe average families and people there. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:44 PM |
| -1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductive👌🏽 All I'm saying, don't claim she's out of your league until you've seen her without makeup 👍🏽 | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveLook, I just see viral tiktok brainrot clips when they surface. God only knows how many are made daily in that toxic cesspool. My point is that it's a whole separate cohort, almost completely detached from us and from grass. They live in tiktok world where being a whore is empowering, they alternate their real friends and family who try to talk sense into them. I've seen this happen multiple times to real women that I know. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:36 PM |
| -3 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveLmao it has worked for me. I'm not always right, but I'm self-aware enough to actually correct for my mistakes when I'm wrong. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:32 PM |
| 1 | Lauren Sanchez is the opposite of what Red Pillers are telling us that men want in women and shows that women just have to be hot and seductiveOther whores on tiktok say that. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 30/06/25 04:17 PM |
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