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| 423 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡 | ROAST-A-SCROTE | kycake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 04:50 AM |
| 14 | so glad this scrote clarified that calling me crazy wasn’t an insult. | RED FLAG 🚨 | kycake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/04/22 03:21 AM |
| 1 | males that are majoring in women’s studies or gender inequality might be the worst. | THE AUDACITY OF SCROTES | kycake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/20 12:21 AM |
| 1 | why is fwb and casual sex labeled as a bad thing in FDS? | kycake | /r/askFDS | 30/07/20 06:42 AM | |
| 0 | do HVM ghost? | DISCUSSION | kycake | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/04/22 11:34 PM |
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| 4 | Is chasing unnatural beauty standards making women more vulnerable to unhealthy emotional states? Have you experienced this? Please discussfirstly i don’t think that being lean is unnatural for women, which is what that person implied. i have been very skinny all my life and i eat as much as i can, always making sure to eat high fat foods. i remember in high school i really wanted to get bigger and have a more “womanly” figure. i no longer think that having more fat in certain areas makes someone more or less womanly, but society does send such message. as far as having orthorexia, it’s very possible to eat well while still having … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/03/22 08:02 PM |
| 301 | I couldn’t find the original source of this text unfortunately, however I felt like this has to be shared. I was groomed into ddlg as a minor & am still unlearning the collective gaslighting from the kink community. Daddy dom/little girl or caregiver/little is not harmless. It glorifies pedophelia.when i first found out about dd/lg “kink” i couldn’t believe it. like people openly admit that they sexualize, get turned on, and get off to children. pretending that a grown ass male and a little girl, a child, are having sex is fucking disgusting. somehow instead of recognizing how harmful and awful something like that is, people were able to brand it as a harmless “kink” yea no. this “kink” is straight up ped*philia. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/22 07:57 AM |
| 15 | Pretty simple except that women are almost mandated to massage men's egos because it's more important that they collectively think of themselves as "good people".i’m so tired of seeing these exact posts, like women saying these exact words, again and again. like do y’all really think males don’t know why women are wary of men? or outright scared of them? even shitty fathers will worry if their daughter has to walk home alone at night, or take public transport at night, or even uber by herself, and they get very worried when their daughter goes on dates especially if they don’t know the guy at all, hmm why’s that? because males already know what men do to… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/03/22 01:19 AM |
| 15 | How to prevent hornyness related pickmeness on datesmy go to is strategy us to get myself off before the date. in general i think it’s important to have solo sex otherwise it’s too easy to be too flirty or too sexual with an attractive men. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/22 07:08 AM |
| 6 | "But hon, in this city no one will want to wait 2+ months to have sex with you" -- female acquaintanceif she thinks marrying someone after 2 months of dating is fine, regardless how long they have been vaguely acquainted for, then of course she'll think waiting 2 months for sexual intimacy is too long. personally, i would just avoid discussing dating with her since it's unlikely u two will have much to agree on and it might even lead to needless arguments. at the end of the day she will do what she wants, like someone else said, 'u can lead a horse to water, but u can't make them drink' the main… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/02/22 08:23 PM |
| 24 | OP asked for advice and naturally everyone gaslit her into thinking she was at faultthis post is so weird to me. like i get not wanting to go for a drive if i drove a lot that day already but i’d go if my partner was pregnant with my child. at least i think i would. at the same time, i feel like if she wants to go for a drive why not just go by yourself? listen to music or a podcast and just drive around. i love doing that, but maybe pregnancy makes driving uncomfortable? the woman in the post seems a bit too codependent on her partner. she says i want to get out of the house s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/12/21 07:06 AM |
| 23 | What are your thoughts on changing your name after marriage?always though it was obnoxious how normalized this practice still is. originally women were literally slaves that males owned so a father would name his kids and give away his daughters, that’s when the daughter would become her husbands property instead of her fathers. so she’d change the last name to her husbands. no way will i ever take someone else’s last name. also my kids will only have my last name. i won’t even hyphenate it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/12/21 02:59 AM |
| 31 | Guy got fired because he refused to get vaccinated.if you were too scared to answer his question honestly over face time then in person you will likely be even more uncomfortable/ scared to be honest or yourself. definitely work on self esteem and confidence, answering that question especially when there’s no threat of physical retaliation from the male shouldn’t have been uncomfortable enough to lie. as far as what to do with him, it’s up to you. my two cents if you disagree on vaccinations it might be time to move on, more importantly if he ma… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/11/21 07:56 PM |
| 12 | 365 Days on Netflix really helped when I was feeling horny AF.when i first saw the movie i was seriously disappointed and disgusted. it came highly recommended as sexy and romantic. there was nothing sexy or romantic. as u pointed out the main lead got multiple bjs that were so gross and one of them was supposed to show the kidnapped woman what she missing out on, and i had sam though as u. I’d be relieved that i don’t have to suck his cock and that i’m only missing out on having an even more awful time than being kidnapped already is. another thing that s… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/11/21 02:36 AM |
| 42 | After this, she is still unsure if she should leave.this is assault. she better charge him with assault. breaking up with him shouldn’t be his only consequence. she should tell everyone, mutual friends, his coworkers, his parents. he will do it to another woman if there are no consequences. let’s hold men accountable for their actions. just leaving him isn’t enough, he needs to be punished for this. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/11/21 08:29 AM |
| 43 | (TW: SEX, VIOLENCE). These are texts men sent to me when I used to engage in BDSM. Even when they hide behind a "nice guy" facade, this is their true nature. Looking back, I I can't believe I ever accepted being treated this way. BDSM is not liberating or empowering, it's ABUSE.big yikes i’m happy you’ve realized how abusive this shit is. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/11/21 02:27 AM |
| 15 | Who here ACTUALLY enjoys giving blowjobs?honestly even though of it grosses me out, it a turn off to me and i used to feel like i had to overcome it. like everyone always acts shocked, men and women, when i say i’ve never given a bj. but yea never gave one but probably will at some point when i’m married and in love, but would never do it for a boyfriend. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/10/21 05:33 PM |
| 10 | What are your thoughts on all-girls schools?i was thinking the same thing, sending my future daughter to a non religious all girls school, would be interested to hear other womens experiences with it! personally i only ever went to a public school and overall it was a good experience, but i do remember spending too much time putting together outfits to look cute and doing my makeup every morning since like 8th grade. there were a few boys i had crushes on which was distracting and i tried to look cute everyday cause i felt pressure to. i … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/10/21 08:21 PM |
| 50 | As a woman looking to buy a property in the next few years. It’s so important to legally NEVER give a man this much financial/ legal leverage over me. Any advice from you ladies???fucking disgusting. i just hope that woman was smart enough to not put this scrotes name on the deed. the only reason males accuse women of being gold diggers is because they are that. they will leech anything they can from their partner, so they assume their partner feel the same way. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:32 AM |
| 387 | Straight factsfinally a man saying something of value. we love to see it. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/10/21 09:24 AM |
| 115 | What’s something that you thought you had to do but realized it’s misogyny and actually doesn’t benefit you?i have a few: -removing body hair on legs and underarms. -making sure that i’m perfect for sex as in freshly showered, no hair, smell good, wearing cute under wear and bra or lingerie etc. (not saying that i’m against being clean, i’m still very hygiene oriented, but before if i knew i was having sex i’d jump into a shower even if i showered an hour ago. this was unnecessary especially since my yoni naturally has no or almost no scent to her, even at the end of a day or a workout she smells grea… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 07:43 AM |
| 5 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡agreed, his excuse could easily be bs, most likely he just didn’t have women complain about coffee dates rather than prefer them. or he is straight up lying about women never complaining about these dates. either way we spoke on the phone and he apologized for a bad date idea, tho he did again give me that same bad excuse. he said he was surprised when i said i wanted a romantic date and that this is the first time he’s putting effort into a first date but that he’s excited to do it. he also sai… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/10/21 05:47 AM |
| 3 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡he won't be getting what he wants, unless pleasing me and doing things for me is what he wants. i even told him i have no problem ending the date early if i don't feel a connection, i will not sit through the dinner if i'm not enjoying his company. trust me i know men will tell me what i wanna hear, i'm not easily impressed nor do i hook up right away even when we start dating. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:59 PM |
| 7 | I turn 24 today.happy birthday!!!! hope you have the best time celebrating! cheers to you and to being 24!🎉💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 08:31 AM |
| 3 | Jesus wept (photo not mine)he can't be serious, wtf | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:58 AM |
| 14 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡so i told him 'seems like you're looking for friends, which is fine, but i'm looking to date' to which he replied that he is in fact looking for a relationship. i then pointed out that ' you asked me to get coffee and walk around a mall that's not a date, that's the kind of thing i did in middle school. i value romantic dates that show effort' he replied that 'most people prefer very chill first dates and that he himself preferred romantic and effort dates but just offered a casual one cause he … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/10/21 03:06 AM |
| 104 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡right? like we were having a nice conversation, now i don’t even know if i should reply saying no thanks or just delete his ass. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:06 AM |
| 388 | we were having a nice convo and then he hits me with this "date" suggestion. 🤏🏼🤡that’s exactly what i though, but even high school boys gave me more thoughtful dates than that tbh. i actually wanted to reply and say “are we 14? haven’t gone on a date like that since middle school” he’s 21 btw | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/09/21 05:05 AM |
| 13 | Pick me culturei didn't read the flair, just read the post first and immediately though "how the f is she defying society's projections of what a woman should be?" she is constantly going out of her way to be a male fantasy. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 06:29 PM |
| 30 | Offered dating advice: now banned permanently from a popular subreddit because I follow FDSi was banned from a feminism sub because i follow FDS. fucking ironic. what got me is i was commenting on a woman’s post about her winning a fight with cancer and going in remission, and i literally commented “so proud of you and so happy for you💛” and then got a message that i’m banned cause i follow FDS, i asked why me following FDS is an issue and their response was “because FDS is misandry and feminism is against misandry” made me very angry but whatever, more and more women are joining FDS … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 07:01 AM |
| 187 | You never really know someone…it’s so scary and heartbreaking. the fact that gabby’s male partner (brian laundry) still hasn’t been arrested when its PAINFULLY obvious he killed her, is outrageous. also the cops that almost arrested gabby when she did nothing wrong and laughed with brian about how “women are so anxious and crazy” these cops need to be help accountable. gabby’s death is partially on their hand, she was crying and was on obviously very shaken up/ distressed, yet they totally wrote it off as her being anxious f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:44 AM |
| 26 | Can we talk about men who act like they are doing women a favor by objectifying them?this is not just objectification or males being gross, whoever runs this account is most definitely a predator. he brands himself as some sort of photographer or creative who want to “make women see their own beauty” yet what he’s actually doing is objectifying women and naive girls with esteem issues will fall for it. there are so many male photographers who claim to be artists that appreciate women’s beauty and want to lift women up by taking nude or sexual photos of them. many people buy into… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/09/21 12:35 AM |
| 96 | Methods they use to stealth unsuspecting womenyears ago i had a fwb and he told me he could tell when the condom was about to break or just didn’t feel like it was on correctly or securely. which made me realized how most men must also be able to feel this stuff and they just don’t care. and just to reiterate, for women having casual sex with males is a waste of time that can have lasting negative consequences. so find toys you like and take care of your sexual needs yourself until you find a man who makes a good partner. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/21 05:41 AM |
| 2 | Female psychologist wants to normalize Stay-At-Home Dadsi think women who are for it think that the male would view that situation and act in that situation like a woman would. as in, he would appreciate his partner for providing, would respect them and see it as a huge privilege that they can be with the child. they would do chores, child care, and run errands, all while staying grateful and taking pride in the role they play, doing their best to be a great father, husband. in reality most men would have little to no gratitude for being a SAHD. they… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/09/21 01:56 AM |
| 5 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.just read your update. it’s insane. he sexualized your child, made disgusting comments towards your child, blaming her for getting covid and implying she got it because of doing sexual things, which makes no sense and is just so inappropriate and enraging. then HE proceeds to say that you were a fake friend cause you told people what HE said about a 13 year old child. sorry your friend turned out to be such a piece of shit, but also congrats on finding out sooner rather than later. tired of male… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/09/21 01:19 AM |
| 6 | This sub won’t allow me to post images anymore so I’m going to copy paste a conversation I had with a long time male friend. He was asking me how my 13 yo daughter got covid and then decided to sexualize her. What the actual fuck.i would’ve been livid. insane that he had the audacity to say that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/09/21 11:05 PM |
| 21 | All Women Should Watch This: How a LV, Violent Scrote Can Gaslight People (and You) into Believing He's the Victimthese cops did such a shitty job. they totally brushed off gabby as emotional and anxious without for even a second considering WHY she was so emotional and anxious. her male partner tried to lock her out of her van and leave without her. that would make anyone upset. and i’m sure this isn’t the first time he threatened her. how is him locking her out of her own van ok? how is him pushing her to get her away from her own car ok? if he wanted distance he should’ve left the situation, taken a bus,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/09/21 04:26 AM |
| 4 | This is some of the vitriol that our podcast hosts recieve. Be very careful when talking about FDS. These men live and walk among us.you’re telling me a 9-12 year old boy could write something like that? that’s makes me literally lose hope. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/09/21 07:55 AM |
| 31 | Feeling disillusioned with modern day misogynythis! everything u said. women gotta start speaking out against female oppression with our MONEY. obviously even just posting about things and talking about things is better than nothing, but we gotta start voting with our money. refusing to purchase food and services from companies that are sexist or push unhealthy ideas that are toxic for women. we also need to start organizing, creating rad fem spaces and groups where we can connect and plan our actions towards a better, safer world for women… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/09/21 10:49 PM |
| 3 | THIS. I believe in gender equality like anyone should but I’m so glad FDS woke me up to the true ramifications of things like porn and bdsm.i wanted laser so bad when i was a teen, now i'm happy i didn't do it. funny how my perspective changed completely. but i'm glad u don't regret your laser, there's really no point in regret. what's done is done. the fact that u actually realize that u did it because of all the pressure from society rather than because u "just personally dislike body hair on women" or "self care" is huge. too many women claim that they remove body hair because they WANT to, and i really doubt that if women having… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/08/21 05:34 AM |
| 175 | THIS. I believe in gender equality like anyone should but I’m so glad FDS woke me up to the true ramifications of things like porn and bdsm.it kills me hearing young women and girls get plastic surgery, pay a ton of money for laser hair removal, and then more money for hair extensions and lash extensions etc and all the while loudly claiming “i’m doing this for me! this is self care!” like, no bestie this is the opposite of self care or self love. also u are not doing it for u. and most of the instagram feeds from young women are so sexual, posed, facetuned, for male gaze. and all about what they look like. it’s just sad af. and of … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/08/21 12:32 AM |
| -1 | On the unequal division of physical trauma when it comes to child bearing; therefore, any baby that I give birth to is getting my last namesurrogacy is a thing, and the women who do it choose to do it, and surely some of them possibly even like this job. it's a job. if i don't use a surrogate, it will still exist and those women will still be doing it for other people. it's not like i'm forcing someone, i'd hire a happy, healthy woman who wants to carry my child, nothing wrong with that. what am i missing here? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/07/21 04:14 AM |
| 216 | Every damn timethe fact that this is actually spot on is so sad and scary. like the world we live in is bad for women yet male violence and bad behavior is so normalized that it’s everywhere and most people dont even notice. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/07/21 05:09 AM |
| 14 | If he’s a mama’s boy, next him. You’ll have two people making your life miserable instead of just the onea good mother wouldn’t stand by her son of he’s doing all that. wtf. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/21 08:31 PM |
| 216 | My friend showed me a pic of the guy she is seeing and I said "he looks way too old for you". She said "oh he's actually a year younger than me" 💀💀💀either he lied about his age or his shitty lifestyle made him look like that. most males eat junk food, drink a lot in college, do drugs, and take zero care of their skin or hair. so naturally that can age someone a lot. also he might just have bad genetics. edit when i moved away from los angeles and was still using OLD in the new place, most of the males ages 18-25 (that was my tinder age range, i was 21 at the time) looked like they were in their 30's chubby with beer bellies, bad skin, bad h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 06:25 AM |
| 50 | **Finally** pinpointed why it really irrigates me to hear a woman describing herself as a wife and mother 10 seconds into any professional meeting...most women are so trained to be insecure and to shrink themselves that it's like a defense mechanisms to state that they are a mother or a wife as it grants them certain status and protection. at least that's what i think. but i totally agree with what you're saying, i personally would never bring up the fact that i'm a wife especially in a way certain women do, as if it's a title or an accomplishment. i will say that if i have a kid i will probably bring up being a mom just because it does take… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/07/21 05:59 AM |
| 115 | ' sEx wOrK iS EmpoWeRiNg 'i love this post, thank you! it infuriates me how the painful reality of sex work is constantly marketed as women empowerment. sex work is the farthest thing from empowerment for women, it sure is empowering for men. sex work greatly benefits males hence why it exists and is constantly romanticized by the media. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/21 08:12 AM |
| 54 | Much love to FDS, always ❤️this made me laugh but this is actually how it is. it’s beyond infuriating that our community gets compared to scum like MGTOW. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 16/06/21 10:32 PM |
| 10 | Why do you think?i don’t listen to country music but if this is actually the vibes of the lyrics then i gotta start. that’s definitely better than the lyrics in rap and rnb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/06/21 04:44 AM |
| 195 | Reminder: You do not have to "play act" through shitty sex. Get up and leave.yes to everything u said! i wish someone gave me this advice when i was 18. not until a couple years ago did i realized that i should just stop sex at any point if it's no longer fun or pleasurable for me. of course u do have to be safe so if u suspect that the male you're with will get aggressive or forceful it's best to say something to gross him out, like 'oh god i'm gonna throw up i need a bathroom NOW' or ' oh no i need a bathroom asap i had this burrito earlier and i think i'm getting diar… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:43 AM |
| 19 | I Like How She Handled This 😂6 months?!?! seriously?! why has she been putting up with his bs for that long? good on her for doing what she did, but now she's gotta dump him. sounds like she only did what she did to show him how it feels, since after 6 months of talking and pleading with him to take her pleasure into account, he still hasn't. now she is trying to show instead of talking, which is pointless for the most part. if u have to say to your partner that your pleasure matters u should dump him asap. not beg for 6 mo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 07:28 AM |
| 57 | Knock it tf off, pickmeisha 🤡i really hope she gets picked soon! that way she can spend her free time on relationship subreddits asking if she’s overreacting over her bf’s bad hygiene, total lack of effort in the bedroom, addiction to violent pedophilic porn and a bunch of other issues that low value sctotes have, since that’s the kind of man that she’s gonna attract with posts like these. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/06/21 01:58 AM |
| 32 | If a guy has a high "body count" he is probably a rapist.that's actually a great point, i never though of that before. in general if a man brags about how many women he's slept with he's most likely a dick, never understood why some men bring it up during a date it's just so disgusting and i never know what to say to that. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/06/21 05:36 AM |
| 85 | So true - this sub is a threat to the status quo which is why we receive so much backlashit's still mind boggling how quickly and how many people started hating on jk rowling simply because she amplified voices of women who regretted transitioning to men and were voicing their concerns over how our women hating world can affect young girls. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/06/21 06:58 AM |
| 22 | It’s important to never enable these behaviors in men, and to always put yourself first in your life.exactly, whatever your sexual history or experiences are don’t ever feel proud or shamed. men or people that praise women for modesty and “purity” are same people that shame women for enjoying their bodies sexually which is fucked up. women’s worth should never be based on her libido or her sexual preferences. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/06/21 11:19 PM |
| 190 | Stop sending paragraphs to men that don't care about your pain! No more explaining - use that time to help other women leave toxic/soul-sucking relationshipsthis is so true. the only way to liberate women is to stop trying to explain our experiences and realities to men in hopes that they will be kind enough to acknowledge and change, we need to start UNAPOLOGETICALLY prioritizing our health, well being, our peace, our pleasure, our desires and goals. that is how we get liberation. centering women and ignoring / avoiding any males that don't align with what we want. eventually if enough women did that, males would quickly change. despite everything … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:45 PM |
| 18 | Found my next book.i love this quote! it so well describes what i have been observing in our society. i remember the first time i heard it i felt relieved that i wasn't the only person who realizes the reality of the situation and just how deep the misogyny is in our culture. everything is for and about men while women are taught to be thrilled with crumbs of attention or kindness. the more women become aware of this the quicker can change happen. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/05/21 09:34 PM |
| 1 | A woman I know shared this...😬this is what i always say to all the men i cheat on. "don't get bitter, get better. he had something u don't so of course i cheated. u should apologize to me and be a better man from now on" strangely i've yet to have a male partner who blamed himself for my cheating. maybe we'll get there, hopefully. on a real note, seeing women post bullshit like that is so infuriating. like we don't shame and abuse women enough, let's now make them take responsibility for some males deprived abusive behavior,… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 11:19 PM |
| 5 | Underneath the mask is another mask, and under that is an abuser 😩his bio is just a bunch of red flags. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/05/21 09:23 PM |
| 4 | Moms with Husbands: More Chores, Less Sleep than Single Moms; studies confirm married and cohabiting moms have more chores, sleep less and have less time for themselves than single, divorced or women living with people other than a male partnerwhy am i NOT surprised | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:20 AM |
| 5 | What is femininity?i completely agree agree with everything u said. i'm happy that i see a lot more women realize this, myself included. thank u for this post! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/05/21 01:16 AM |
| 1 | Rege-Jean Page, ladies, I can't recommend Bridgerton enough ;)never seen the show but he’s hot😏 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 22/05/21 01:06 AM |
| 81 | No Man I’ve been with has ever made me orgasm. EVER.never faked it, and had multiple men ask 'are u one of those girls who just can't cum?' um no chad i can finish in 2 minutes if i'm really turned on, but in general it takes about 10 min, these men would ALWAYS assume that i'm not having an orgasms cause of me and never cause they aren't pleasing me right. their go to was also to say 'every girl i've been with i made cum' and i knew all those girls faked it and i always wondered why women bother faking. my friends don't even believe me when i sa… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 11:30 PM |
| 21 | Realizing how much of my family is misogynistici know it's your family but being biologically related isn't everything. u deserve a family that loves and respects u. if my family was as bad as yours i would never willingly be in contact with them. focus on building friendships and new connections, focus on creating a new family. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 02:29 AM |
| 34 | Tricking women into sex work is the Patriarchy's new strategy for keeping us out of the workplaceexactly, sex work can never be empowering and the best case scenario is it being mostly safe for those who only work online. you said it perfectly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/05/21 01:56 AM |
| 2 | ~Anyone anywhere bringing up women's issues~ Men and pickmes: bUt WhAt aBoUt MeN? wHaT aBoUt MuH pEnIs?circumcision can be healthy, and i personally know males that are very happy they are circumcised and i know one guy who isn’t. he hates it and actually wants to get it done now as an adult. FGM is NOT the same as circumcision. FGM is mutilation of a woman’s sex organ which causes NO health benefits and DOES cause MAJOR HARM. cutting half of the penis off leaving only a lil knob with balls behind would be a male equivalent of FGM. sick of people comparing the two. they are not at all the same or… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/05/21 02:51 AM |
| 31 | I still have a “pick me” mindset.ugh i have this same issue. my friends and my mom all have very pickme attitudes. two of my friends always ask men out and pay for dates since they are the ones who asked for a date. my mom is always telling me i’m too picky and to value a guy for being kind or respectful. which honestly is the bare minimum. like wtf i can’t imagine telling my daughter to just settle for a male because he treats her with kindness. never mind anything else. my mom also discouraged me growing up and to this day fr… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/05/21 11:05 PM |
| 12 | Woman asks if she was wrong to tell her ex's girlfriend that he had 3 kids he abandoned. The first responders say yes absolutely, but the fact they are heavily downvoted gives me some hope.i never understood why males who don’t want to be parents to their kids get off so easily. like people always just say “oh guess he don’t want to be a dad” like??? if he don’t want to be a dad he shouldn’t have participated in making children. women don’t just get pregnant on their own, a male has to participate. like if a person bought 3 dogs then just put them in a shelter right away saying “eh i don’t actually want dogs” like dude us would’ve thought about that BEFORE getting the dogs and why… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/05/21 01:46 AM |
| 23 | my friend, the wife, is upset with me for being rude to her husband. I’m sad for her.he called u a bitch and told u to drop dead but your ‘friend’ is mad at u? you were not at all rude and he was way out of line. u deserve better friends. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 10:07 PM |
| 3 | Sex workers accusing us of slut shaming then in the next breath mocking us for "sucking dick for free" ...wow. And they have the audacity to demand we "support sex workers"sounds like they really hate sucking dick and see it as this chore a woman has to do so at least now they are getting paid for it. but the thing is, sucking dick is not mandatory so you can just not do it at all. not for free not for money. and non sex workers usually only go down on a person they find attractive, love, have a serious commitment with so doing it for free really isn’t a problem. beside it’s not like any of those sex workers charge their bfs for sex, so they still are doing it for… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/05/21 05:49 AM |
| 56 | Wife is in critical condition in the hospital, man blames lack of resources for fathers while spending paternity leave playing video gamesexactly what i was thinking. also i'm worried for this woman's babies, they are left alone with their looser father who clearly can and does neglect every responsibility and common sense necessities that need to be done. i really doubt he's taking good care of his kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 07:59 AM |
| 8 | Ladies, please don’t post overtly provocative pictures on social media. Not only does it attract trash men ,but you could lose your job over it.no woman should lose her job over posting a sexy photo. that’s just further proof that our society hates women and will punish them for anything. males can post being at strip clubs, bring shirtless at the beach, whatever, no one bats an eye. a male can even have multiple rape or assault allegations and no get in trouble at work. so even though i agree that women should be careful with posting overly sexy or revealing stuff just because too many nv males will then save them and repost them and e… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/05/21 12:50 AM |
| 4 | It's not normal for half the world's population to live like prey animals, only cause the other half can't control themselves.not can't, WON'T. big difference. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/05/21 08:06 AM |
| 10 | Her quote says it all.Society views women’s bodies as objects to use or products to consume. Sex work and vile porn industry only push this narrative farther. My heart breaks for all the women and especially young girls who have or had to participate in any kind of sex work. Btw rape used to be considered theft back when women were owned by males as property. So if an unmarried woman got raped it was seen as a crime committed against her father and if a woman is married then it was crime against her husband, but neve… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/05/21 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Beauty is like a social exchange. I don’t like it.what I have been doing is try to truly only do things I find beautiful / good. so I still wear some makeup cause I love the look of groomed eyebrows. I literally can not be attracted to a male if he has very crazy/ unkept brows or if he just has weird unshaped brows, which most women don’t care about at all but I love eyebrows that are groomed and shaped so I still do mine. Same with hair, I love having silky hair that feels and looks good. I again also expect the same from men I date. Basically… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 03/05/21 08:13 PM |
| 68 | High Value Dates Onlyone thing i’d add is, do not let him pick u up. it’s not safe to let a male know where u live if u don’t know him well. especially if u live alone. another thing, don’t ever tell males you’re taking to/getting to know that u live alone. never understood how telling a stranger your address and then getting into a car with him is considered a good idea. it is a red flag if he doesn’t offer to pick u up, however it’s best to just drive yourself there so you’re totally comfortable on the way there a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/04/21 06:24 AM |
| 8 | (Not my post) but my own dad told me to use this strategy to weed out the losers, and here it is working!males really don’t even care to hide how predatory and disgusting their preferences are. lmao. though it’s good for us cause we don’t waste our time with them. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/04/21 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Found this on Facebook...king? what she’s describing is a fucking looser and a leech if he agrees for a woman to do this for him. any “king” would be embarrassed and trying to get on his feet on his own. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/04/21 04:46 AM |
| 2 | 50/50i feel like for it to be truly 50/50 the male should pay 100% of the medical cost since the woman is doing a ton of physical and emotional labor plus all the lifelong consequences pregnancy has. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/04/21 07:15 PM |
| 5 | Why comparing small dicks with small boobs is a massive false equivalencethis comparison has ALWAYS bothered me. like you’re comparing completely different things that play completely different roles in sex. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:55 PM |
| 19 | Yes, you’re cheap. Good for this queen for turning down this low effort “date”!you’re never trapped at dinner, u can leave at anytime. sure we’re taught that it’s impolite etc but u can in fact just leave. so i never understood this mindset of “i don’t want to be trapped” i also hear women say “i don’t want to feel obligated to do stuff so i don’t let him pay” ugh u are not a hooker, nor are u a vending matchinge where. if u spend money u are obligated to give something back. it’s ridiculous how a male doing anything kind esp if it involves money is considered a grand gest… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/04/21 08:46 PM |
| 6 | Every day the bar descends deeper into hell...i dated a guy who before we even hooked up told me that he has never been able to last over 10 min and that it’s usually 5. i was like ugh i don’t like that. he seemed upset but we kinda just moved on. when we did hook up for the first time he came in like 1 minute, but he immediately started giving me head again and did a damn well job. i came then we cuddled. it was overall an enjoyable experience. he was honest about being unable to last long and wasn’t angry when i honestly said it bothered … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 07:07 AM |
| 96 | I’ve been seeing an uptick in the posts and comments on here criticizing beauty and performative femininity, here’s some more food for thought :)what is hot is decided by males. male fantasies get sold to us by media, books, religions, literally everything. and as we grow up we internalize these fantasies and desires as our own. we start to think that it is our desire to be dominated in sex, to be hairless everywhere, to wear tight or binding clothes, to shrink our waist as much as humanly possible while having our butt and chest be as big as possible etc. so many women internalize male fantasies and desire as their own, myself included.… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/04/21 01:41 AM |
| 21 | Posts about male/female privilege on popular sub. TW: horrifically misogynistic, racist and hateful. This *really* is their perspective; and it's frightening AF.the last comment is so infuriating. how can males be this fucking ignorant. i will say tho it’s a fucking disgrace that most schools do only teach history aka his story focusing on men and only men, totally neglecting how much women contributed and how hard they worked to not only advance humanity in both productive AND reproductive labor but also how many women suffered and died just so we can now get education and vote etc. none of this is in his story books. oh and countless inventions that h… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:40 AM |
| 2 | Men assume all bisexual women are open to being Pick Mes who help them exploit other womeni never understood why males think that just cause i like girls means that i’m ok with them fucking other people when we’re together? like no. this myth needs to go it’s hella annoying. i never tell males i’m bi because they won’t shut up about it after and won’t stop asking for threesomes or to watch me with another woman. whoever started that stereotype about bi women is a dick. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/04/21 03:24 AM |
| 5 | Gail Dines deciphers porn culture.this is so shocking tbh. the fact that males can be so easily influenced to hurt and abuse women and even children. i grew up watching porn and it totally fucked up my view of intimacy but i definitely don’t want to abuse anyone. i’m honestly confused as to how the violent things they do in porn are legal? how is giving someone a disease legal? how is breaking someone body legal? how is causing someone harm on camera legal? just doesn’t make any sense. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 03:05 AM |
| 3 | Don't complain, Don't explain -Kate Mossi love this. i’m adapting this exact mindset and of course people pleasing tendencies die hard but i’m getting there. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/04/21 01:58 AM |
| 4 | Just because he makes 10x more doesn't mean he's HVwow i hope this girl realizes her worth and starts valuing herself. this shit is insane. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:58 PM |
| 16 | Yes, women can be pornsick too.there needs to be more education on dangers of porn particularly for girls. i started watching porn young and it fucked my head up. i finally realized not even a year ago how much damage it caused as far as what i thought was normal or healthy. it grooms girls to think being degraded is healthy and sexy, as well as see their pleasure as not important or at least not anywhere near as important as male pleasure. porn is literally evil. i’m honestly surprised that there isn’t a movement trying to i… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:51 PM |
| 2 | Oh hey, another shining example of how a LVM will destroy your life and sanity and how engrained gender roles make women think this is somehow okay.i don’t understand how or why she keeps living like this? i mean she is asking if other moms feel this way but being a mom isn’t the issue here, having to do all kinds of labor non stop is what’s making her feel depressed. and again i’m so confused as to how women live like this. I would’ve lasted maybe two weeks doing everything myself with my partner being a useless selfish fuck. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/03/21 11:42 PM |
| 4 | Stop Normalizing “Avoidant” Attachment Styles for Menwhat women are taught is that they need to cater and serve men, that being a woman is being nurturing and receptive which is why so many women when a guy they’re dating acts in ways they dislike will attempt to communicate, and keep trying to fix the relationship. women see their partner hurting them as their responsibility to fix. what girls need to be taught is that people’s behavior is about who that person is and only that person can change their behavior. so that when a girl is disrespected… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:39 PM |
| 7 | Allure Magazine Posts The Most Toxic, poorly thought out, male pandering, Sex Advice. Women’s magazines are pick me garbage.wow this is so infuriating. i love how u pointed out that males get praised now for sharing their kinks as if them being entitled sexually is rare. and saying she should either fulfill all his desires no matter what they are or let him see other women. like what the actual fuck. so what about when a man doesn’t fulfill all his woman’s desires be it financial or sexual is she allowed to see other men that are more rich or more capable so she can get her desires met? or would they call her selfish… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 08:28 PM |
| 8 | If all women watched and actively got off to porn of just men with huge dicks, men would feel insecure.personally i’m not worried about my male looking at attractive women in porn, the reason why i’m completely against porn or having a partner who consumes that content is because 90% of porn is straight abuse, violence, degradation, towards woman or women in it. if my partners is getting off to a woman being abused, be it in a mild or major way, then i don’t want to be with him. male violence against women has been normalized to the max. of course main stream media is to blame as well as porn, bu… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/03/21 05:49 AM |
| 35 | I wrote the "80% of women are equal in value to 20% of men" post that was mentioned in the podcast.i still get angry and not know what to say when people ask me “how are u single??” its like they don’t realize most men are complete trash. i’d much rather be single than have a partner who doesn’t deserve me. but i can’t say that, so i’m always left just kinda brushing of the question and moving on. ugh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 09:54 PM |
| 5 | Mass shootings have been solved everyone! Turns out lack of access to women's bodies is why men go on violent rampages killing women/poc/children/everyone.ha of course if only men could totally get everything they want exactly the way they wanted them male violence would go down. though back when women had no rights and were owned as property, male violence was actually even higher than it is now. hmmm. almost as if the pathetic males with issues always externalize their problems and blame women for them no matter what the problem is. like how can people deadass hear that a male committed a horrific act and his excuse is “no woman wanted to touch … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/03/21 06:25 AM |
| 8 | Needing some support. I am fuming. Boy moms are fucking worst.wow i’m surprised how your daughter is ok with it. she must be afraid of her own father? cause as a kid i totally would freak out if someone tried to tell me what to wear. i remember in middles school and high school we would have hour long a assemblies on dress code where teacher only discussed what girls can and can’t wear. nothing was said about male students. we had guys wear their pants all the way down their ass, like underwear and ass out, and teacher never said anything. but god forbid a… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/03/21 02:21 AM |
| 20 | Spring has Sprung...It is time to uncuff and move on from that LVMi remind myself of this all the time. this goes for any relationship btw even with parents. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 11:35 PM |
| 26 | Tragic Example of The Mask Slipping AFTER Marriage and Baby. Always be willing and ABLE to LEAVE Sisters!!what’s sad is her reaction and how many women react the way she did. of corse it’s maybe easy for me to say i’d straight up end it if a male acted like that, since i’m not in that situation and ik pregnancy makes people a sensitive etc. but yea the fact that so many women allow this type of treatment by staying with their partners is crazy. like ok she has a different body now that’s less tight. if he actually loved her or even liked her he wouldn’t care. never understood how males act like a wo… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 25/03/21 04:55 AM |
| 12 | I went on a walk today and a man spit in my facewow that’s awful. please report this! i know the police won’t do much but it’s important to report EVERY case of male violence against a woman. no matter how small, this isn’t small btw this is pretty major, especially considering the pandemic we’re in. i hope you are feeling ok now, give yourself extra self care and share with friends so they know to support u and so they know to be careful in whatever area u were in. lastly thank u for posting about this! it’s so important to speak up so peopl… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:52 AM |
| 27 | Vanilla is a word created by men to shame women for not wanting to re-enact porn and be degradedugh i fucking hate how males who want to abuse their partner during sex, degrade them, see them in pain, are called “freaky” and “fun” and worst of all “normal” yet wanting to have passion, oral (for me not him), kissing, compliments instead of insults, and overall affectionate and attentive sex, while prioritizing my orgasm, is labeled as “boring”“lame” “prudish” “terrible” and of course “vanilla” women are so conditioned to believe the abuse and violence that happens in porn is “fun sex” that … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/03/21 12:30 AM |
| 159 | She told him straight and held to her ideals - a Reddit GOAT post from years ago.wtf. she should’ve have to pay ANY child support. he used her as a surrogate so he should be paying her! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/03/21 05:55 AM |
| 133 | Ain't it Strangethe amount of women who have yet to realize this. i always try to tell women about this but even my own mom thinks “that’s just what women naturally find empowering” many religious or conservative women are so conditioned to believe that women being submissive, subservient, and a product for male pleasure is natural and healthy for a woman. one thing that can help is educating women in how our society truly brainwashes them into making themselves weak and dependent while simultaneously tricking … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/03/21 08:47 PM |
| 9 | To the NAMALT brigadeseriously. infuriating. also there are still people saying women’s shouldn’t be leaders / aren’t good at leading, yet we had SO many wars and ALL of them are started by males. so tell me again how women are supposedly “too emotional or to irrational to lead” side note - women have bigger amygdala’s which is why they are better at controlling emoting than males AND higher testosterones inhibits emotional regulating. so yea according to actual biology women are far more level headed and rational. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 17/03/21 03:14 AM |
| 45 | Ladies, take note of the men around you who are saying "not all men". They are promoting a pro-femicide agenda. Don't have sex with them, don't give them your attention, and don't patron their businesses #BoycottNAMALTyes I've already started doing it. i honestly think simply ignoring and totally withdrawing your attention from them is far better and more helpful than trying to "explain" why women are scared/ careful with men. if they cared they would educate themselves. it is not your responsibility to educate every male you come in contact with about how to have basic decency. also most of the time they will say shit just to get attention and to argue with you. do not entertain them when they show any bad b… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/03/21 12:03 AM |
| 11 | Saw this on Twitter — horrifying“harmless psychological fun” he should be in jail. there is nothing harmless or fun in what he is doing. and this is only the shit he feels comfortable admitting. he is a danger to others. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 06:28 AM |
| 3 | Woman makes a whole presentation to convince a guy to promote her to girlfriend..and this is how low he thinks of her. I'm in utter disbelief.despite how hard he tried to act like he doesn’t care and like he’s superior, calling her a plate and mentioning how he never says “love u” back etc. his post boils down to “i actually really want a relationship but i think as soon as i admit i have feelings for her and become emotionally vulnerable she will leave” cause he literally says he wants to be with her but worried that she’s manipulating him into commitment aka he thinks no one can actually love him or want him truly so she’s just doin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 04:47 AM |
| 5 | 💕i always try to make people realize this. ever since i have. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 14/03/21 12:11 AM |
| 18 | Vice claims that the #1 way to prevent men from going on mass killing sprees is decriminalizing sex work so that incels can direct all of their gender-based violence onto trafficked, marginalized women. Same author who wrote the smear campaign against FDS 🤡i just do not understand how incels are getting empathy from people or how someone cares to try and justify their idiotic behavior. but the part that pissed me tf off is where she wants people to feel bad about this one male not being able to afford to hire a whore. like wtf since when is not being able to get sex paid or not such a tragedy. women aren’t able to afford period products, education, safe housing - is a problem that we should be written articles about and fund raising money for. NOT… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/03/21 05:43 AM |
| 2 | More examples of blatant misogyny on Reddit. The advice he is giving other men in this post "Go for women you don't find attractive, so you can do depraved sexual things with them"i agree with him as far as “males should work to be as attractive as possible” too many neglect their appearance. i also agree that too many women esp those who think they aren’t attractive will do too much for males they aren’t even dating, like cooking for them, cleaning, massages etc. it is infuriating tho how males openly have communities where they discuss how to manipulate, use, and even abuse women, yet vice doesn’t write articles about that. or any other magazine / media. but when women … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 04:56 AM |
| 29 | Found on fb. This just seems like “things a decent spouse should do,” hardly worth a 4 page essay.“he can only boil eggs and butter bread” no one is born a chef. he can easily look up a receipt and put together a decent dinner date if he wanted to. this woman is seriously romanticizing low value / bare minimum behavior. sad. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:17 AM |
| 35 | 6pm curfew for men suggested by Green Party, views?this needs to happen. i wish more women were outraged enough to protest to force our government to actually give males a curfew. i’m tired of being held responsible for male violence by being expected to be the one to not get raped or killed. men should want to help fight males violence against women. i’m tired of it being presented as a woman’s job to not be attacked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/03/21 02:14 AM |
| 3 | We're like a small city!I love this idea! but like the other comments said males would not leave us alone. they will for sure try to get into the city to harass us or just to be around HVW. so we for sure would need a lot of security to keep LVM out but overall the idea is great. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/03/21 10:44 PM |
| 3 | If this has been posted before please remove it. But sisters, this is where 50-50 will get you. It's their kid, but her bills.24 and 38 big yikes. so she decided to settled for some very old bitch while totally being his slave and paying 50/50 ??? how do women like that exist? if a male over 30 wanted to be with me and literally paid for everything, and was very rich, i’d still not be down. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 10/03/21 04:01 AM |
| 33 | I've noticed that a lot of women here have toxic mothers. While it's true that mothers are often unfairly scapegoated for all of society's woes, it's important to remember that mothers also socialize their children to perpetuate patriarchy.literally, if mothers stopped treating their sons like royalty and their daughters as servants within a few decades we'd have a whole new world. mother aid males in not only expecting and being entitled to women's love and servitude, they simultaneously create a man that sees women as nothing but an extension of himself or an object to be used. and of course, everything you said about how most mothers treat their daughters is also spot on. they don't value them as people and end up making them… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 09:41 PM |
| 13 | Is it only fair to blame the sex works ?doubt boys under 18 can afford to pay for porn. so chances are grown women are not profiting and in fact those boys are watching videos of trafficked women being raped or simply women who are in bad situation and are forced to participate in abusive porn cause they have no support system to know better. pornhubs most popular videos are of women who have to take molly and pain meds to shoot the videos they do. and of course trafficked women and kids. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 06:51 AM |
| 57 | Don’t let your guard down for a single second ladies... Exhibit A as seen on AskTRPthis is a perfect example of how our whole system of the world hates women. the fact that these males felt comfortable posting comments like that. the fact that they should be in prison for life for saying it, yet they won’t even get banned from reddit for saying it. and these comments are getting likes and awards from other males. wow truly shocking how evil and cruel males are. despite how much pain and death males cause to women and children, we just want them gone and far away from us. where… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/03/21 02:40 AM |
| 5 | Came across this today I have no wordsit baffles me how easily males allow themselves personhood and being human and how hateful they simultaneously are towards women for being human. they deny us personhood and they get angry at us for having human needs. how truly narcissistic can men be is just unfathomable to me. he came from a woman’s body, he was nursed by a woman’s body, and chances are his mother took care of all his needs for most of his life, not his father. yet here he is referring to women as “these creature” i never wan… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:53 PM |
| 3 | If a man says "I will teach you" simply ask "Oh, so you've sucked a lot of them, yes?"it’s sad how many girls got brainwashed to think pleasing a male is empowering them. also after reading the second post where he talks about bdsm and anal he says “these degrading acts become hot to them” all i could think about is, so u agree these are degrading acts that women have to be coerced into liking. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:50 AM |
| 11 | best "advice" to keep a man from pinkpilled sisters“men want peace, pleasure and ease” umm pretty sure literally EVERYBODY wants those things. at least i sure do. this whole post makes it seem like she worships her male as some sort of deity almost. and calls him captain? ew. i feel sad for her kid if it’s a girl, imagine growing up with such a terrible role model. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/03/21 07:22 AM |
| 60 | Men will date you while still looking for his wife ..if u even have to ask him “ what are we” then u should block and delete. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/03/21 09:43 PM |
| 25 | Don’t let them baby trap you ladies. Very bad things can happen.wow this is heartbreaking. he essentially killed his wife, as in who she was before this, her career, lifestyle etc. she will never be the same physically or mentally. her current life is straight hell from what he described. i hope he genuinely feels guilty cause he ruined his wife’s life. and he doomed two children to having parents that don’t love or care for them properly. though i doubt he feels truly as bad as he should since his post is about how bad he has it and how terrible he feels ak… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/03/21 02:52 AM |
| 3 | I’m new to this community and this way of thinking, so I’m wondering. What are your thoughts on the kind of music we listen to? Do you ladies actively try to avoid music with lyrics that are disrespectful to women/sexualise women?i’m realizing that so much of my music has vile lyrics about women. rap and rnb mostly. i made the decision to stop listening to anything that says degrading or abusive things towards women, decided that a few weeks ago still struggling to delete my favorite songs just cause i love the sound so much and the memories connected to them. i mean i’ve been listening to hip hop since freshmen year of high school so it’s hard to just delete all the feeing connected to certain songs. i keep telling myse… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/03/21 07:58 AM |
| 3 | Why is it “gross” for women to have body hair despite the fact that every adult woman's body naturally grows hair, but when a guy has hair on his body and armpits it's okay?we need to normalize women choosing to keep their body hair, i hate shaving but feel obligated to. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/02/21 12:34 PM |
| 10 | Show them the same amount of respect they show you!like i want to be rude but i was raised to be polite first and foremost in every interaction and was scolded as a kid anytime i wasn’t overly friendly. on top of that society as a whole set a very high bar for women. being cheerful, smiling, etc is just normal so if you’re not that you’ll already be a labeled as rude, which is why so many women have a hard time telling males to fuck off or being hostile in any way even if we want to. and my last point is safety. if a male on the street yells som… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 02/02/21 10:24 PM |
| 3 | Reminder: The Wall is a lie men desperately try to project onto women to disguise their own pathetically lackluster lives.i love this!😌💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 28/01/21 03:17 AM |
| 26 | Reframe how you think about “choices” :)this is good. i never though about it like that, makes so much sense. i hate how the focus is always on women to do the right thing or to fight oppression or to advocate against male violence. men just get to sit and enjoy their life only being concerned with their stupid useless dicks. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/01/21 04:25 AM |
| 26 | Comeback queengirth is more important than length as long as he is over 5 and thick i can work with that. but an ass on a man is also very important. so i guess i’m a girth and an ass girl. any time i’ve said that to a man he’d complaining that i shouldn’t judge him based on things he can’t control. ha. first of all sir u could make your ass nicer by working out and second of all i only date men i find attractive and satisfying cry about it. and btw i have a few physical traits that are important to me where … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/01/21 10:02 PM |
| 31 | Romantic Relationships with men are poor investments of time, energy and money for womeni agree with all of what u said except children. u shouldn’t expect kids to help u upkeep the house or to help raise younger children. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/12/20 09:22 PM |
| 19 | I’m here for it! 😜i love the last question. it should actually be asked. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 04:28 AM |
| 8 | Maybe he’s trying to do her a favor by kicking himself out of her life so she can move on to better things...if this is real then hope she broke up with him. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 08/12/20 12:56 AM |
| 3 | “YouTuber kills pregnant girlfriend on live-stream as viewers pay him to abuse her.” - Summary in comments.the article says “he will face two years in prison if proven guilty” what the fuck, he recorded himself killing her and still needs to be “proven” guilty?? how is this even real? definitely think in russia women are more dehumanized than in the us. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/12/20 12:48 AM |
| 13 | Law enforcement declines to charge women for killing a man that was attacking their daughter/sister.this makes me so happy, i’m glad they didn’t hold back on fighting back 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/11/20 07:19 AM |
| 3 | The realities of legalizing sex workwow this is so sad no woman should be put in a position of having to be a prostitute. we as a society should do better in educating women and giving them unemployment when needed. having to do sex work to avoid being homeless or starving is like my biggest fear. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 26/11/20 10:38 AM |
| 87 | I think I found the queen of pickmesi can bet it’s a male writing this. come the fuck on. no woman can be actually thinking like that or enjoy anal and think it’s “such a small thing to do for a man” fucking gross 🤢 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/11/20 06:49 AM |
| 3 | #YesAllWomenexactly. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 18/11/20 09:31 PM |
| 27 | You can literally be Beyonce and still be devalued by LVMam i the only one who doesn’t like beyoncé? like she’s a huge pick me and her music isn’t that good. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:32 PM |
| 3 | How to deal with a cheaterhonestly this is the best advice. that’s the only way to handle men who cheat. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/11/20 10:30 PM |
| 23 | Truth from a Queenugh i’m tired of everyone pondering to the male ego. Like just because you respect woman does not mean you’re a strong man. Respecting women or treating them like human beings is the bare fucking minimum. Why do we have to convince man to be respectful and give us basic decency by being like “oh you’re so strong and wonderful if you do this” smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 24/10/20 09:07 PM |
| 5 | Please beware of men who treat us like experimental projects... this is so extremethis male is disgusting. he’s very clearly an incel who can’t get women so he made this video just so some young girls will think he has value but no intelligent woman will actually even speak to him after seeing this video. also there are tons of comments under his video calling him an incel and an idiot which is nice ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 20/10/20 08:27 AM |
| 25 | LVM and HVM revealed in gaming. The last line says it all.i love this study. i’ve noticed in general beta males who got nothing to offer behave way worse towards women than hvm. funny how that works. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 21/09/20 01:22 AM |
| 8 | If the sex is bad the first time, move on.exactly. i used to always make excuses like “he just needs me to explain that i deserve pleasure too. he doesn’t know that women want orgasms cause porn taught him different” like how was i such a fucking pickme before. now if the sex isn’t good the first time, especially if it’s because he is trying to do what they do in porn i drop that man right away. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:13 AM |
| 122 | Go build me a table!miss the times when men went to war and died. at least build me a house chad and provide me with what i need, like a nice car, bills paid, cute clothes, trips to europe, then i’ll happily cook healthy meals for us both. males want women to sleep with them right away and to pay for everything themselves AND to cook, clean, be their therapist, take care of kids, look fit and glamed up daily. their audacity is out of control. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/09/20 02:04 AM |
| 13 | Found on FB......what the actual fuckthese type of men should be castrated 🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 07/09/20 12:31 AM |
| 24 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.if you’re looking for friends then of course don’t block him, just be careful cause i had many guys claim they wanted to be just friends when i did need friends and they all ended up constantly hitting on me and trying to be fwb. it seems like most men do not want a real friendship with a woman only fwb. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 11:53 PM |
| 58 | Guys avoid the “date” word to avoid accountability for their intentions. Pay attention to these clues.i totally agree! the only thing is most people are so used to saying meet up or hang out that they might genuinely not mean it in a bad way. at least if you’re dating males 18-24 which is the ages i go on dates with, i’m 22. so i do ask them “as friends or like a date?” after they invite me to a restaurant or movies or a show etc. or u could even say “i’m looking forward to our date” if he then corrects me “ it’s not a date” or says “do we need to label it?” i let him know that i’m not looking f… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 06/09/20 10:53 PM |
| 12 | Political alignment aside, there’s merit to this.exactly this. i get more intense orgasms while on my period and i get them in half the time it usually takes. it’s crazy how many women i know think periods are “gross” and don’t have sex while menstruation. smh. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 01/09/20 04:11 AM |
| 2 | Actual r/wholesomememesat first i got so upset that a meme like that would be posted here but then i looked at the lower half and was like oh i love this 💛 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 19/08/20 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Help in choosing which approach when the bill comes on a datehad that dilemma like should i offer, and i did when i was younger cause everyone around me told me i was rude or a bitch for expecting a guy to pay and letting him pay. but now i finally gained confidence and no way will i be paying for myself on a date or offering, if he asks to split i’ll gladly do so but that would be our last date. also if he pays but then hints at sex or starts acting like i own him i will also block immediately. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 11/08/20 04:14 AM |
| 72 | It's entitlement, pure and simple.this is so true. another thing is we hate males for very valid reasons but they hate women because we don’t want to dedicate our lives to being their slaves. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 06:15 AM |
| 151 | And they have the audacity to get upset when women call them “wallets”half the time they describe a child. hairless, naive, virgin, submissive, petite and skinny. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:11 AM |
| 21 | This is how LVM on Reddit see FDS - I have to laugh.men should make themself useful like this more often ☺️ | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 31/07/20 03:04 AM |
| -1 | why is fwb and casual sex labeled as a bad thing in FDS?i agree that’s there’s more risk for women. and i have read the hand book. my point is when a woman feels totally safe with a man and truly want sex then it shouldn’t be discouraged cause our society already harshly judges women for their sexuality or wanting pleasure so in spaces where we try to empower women we don’t want to send that same message that my body isn’t mine to enjoy sexually how i want. | /r/askFDS | 30/07/20 11:02 PM |
| 0 | why is fwb and casual sex labeled as a bad thing in FDS?i have multiple toys but still crave a person. | /r/askFDS | 30/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 0 | why is fwb and casual sex labeled as a bad thing in FDS?i mean i surely had males who would beg me to stay and men who got hostile but i don’t care and never had anyone violent. i will say i will never again go to a guys house without hanging out a few times in public setting cause i did have one time where a guy straight up refused to let me leave. we ere not having sex just hanging out i was thinking of hooking up however he gave me an aggressive vibe so i didn’t even want to make out. then when i said i had to go he basically was like “no, i want … | /r/askFDS | 30/07/20 11:00 PM |
| 8 | I mean, who cares what people think but yeah, that is most definitely not the solution!exactly this! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/07/20 06:42 AM |
| 59 | LVM and their heinous tactics about pressuring women for sex.lmao something tells me the male who wrote this doesn’t have a wife and never will 😌 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 29/07/20 05:27 AM |
| 5 | Ladies, Be Patient. He'll Marry You ELEVEN YEARS FROM NOW 🤡what the actual fuck? how did he even find a woman this patient and pathetic? | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 27/07/20 04:56 AM |
| 6 | Don’t settle, you’re doing just fine.totally agree with everything u said. we should spend very little energy pitying pick me girls and mostly focus on calling them out on how inappropriate their behavior is. and she’s putting her kid in danger. if it’s a girl she will learn to tolerate abuse, while if it’s a boy he will learn that being an abuser is ok. smh. expected better from someone who is rich and successful and constantly preaches about being a strong woman. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 23/07/20 01:10 AM |
| 2 | Wisdom of our elders...🥰 | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 15/07/20 09:26 PM |
| 2 | "Some women think because they look good, men owe them money"just go for the women that have no standards why bitch on twitter about how beautiful put together women have standards. he’s beyond pathetic. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 13/07/20 11:35 PM |
| 4 | Men hate women so much they hate other men for not hating women.agree with this so hard. i’m very happy that younger women are waking up to how many men really do hate women and how they will bully other men for not doing the same. i have a guy friend who been treated so badly by his male friends for saying basic things like “let’s not refer to women as bitches, they deserve basic respect” he was called simp, pussy, weak, annoying, etc. i do have lot of hope for future generations. i see young guys and girls be more aware and more passionate about eliminatin… | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:32 PM |
| 1 | this is the bare minimum ladies !exactly, let’s please raise the bar for males. taking care of yourself, your kid, and being a supportive partner should be the minimum. i really want to have a family but will never settle for a man who i think isn’t doing enough. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 12/07/20 11:23 AM |
| 29 | Who else thinks that men’s haircut and beard trims are so cheap in order incentivise them to groom?well males aren’t really taught that their looks is the most important thing. nor does our society act like a man not being perfectly groomed means he doesn’t deserve respect. however for women we are expected to be perfectly groomed otherwise we are shamed by people. girls are told to be pretty and how important their looks are. so go figure. of course male grooming is way cheaper and they know women have to groom in order to be respected so their prices are crazy high. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 09/07/20 11:22 AM |
| 1 | I live in Boston and this guy matched with me and messaged me who lives in Maine. He mentioned taking me out for dinner and drinks then mentioned this. I live in the city and don’t drive. Was he really expecting me to somehow meet him halfway?i like you’re response. and he probably tried messaging women in maine but they most likely hated their date with him and ghosted his ass lol | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 05/07/20 11:07 PM |
| 14 | Just a reminder that being a “girly” girl is totally awesome and valid and to shame girls for being feminine is to give in to a patriarchal culture that demonizes femininity because it’s largely associated with womanhood in a world that hates women. We can be feminine for ourselves, as well!i do agree with this! my only issue is it sucks that lots of women label things that aren’t naturally womanly as feminine. example, body hair. only kids have no body hair yet if a woman doesn’t shave her legs she’s labeled as gross or manly. which is not healthy. but as far as feminine clothes, mannerism, or interests we definitely should value them more as a society because they are in fact awesome! | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 04/07/20 08:29 AM |
| 1 | To whomsoever it may concernam i the only one who thinks men should not be allowed any power position job? like 80% of them abuse their power and become evil. so sad that women aren’t as strong as males physically. the fact that there is so much rape porn on reddit is beyond vile. also why do males get paid for porn when a woman does all the work? like all they do is orgasm and beat the woman. anytime i think about it i get so baffled how unfair/fucked up our world is. stay strong women we can slowly make a change we just … | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 11:50 PM |
| 17 | "men who are 'anti porn' because of the negative side effects for men, are not our allies!!!all i see is males complaining how porn is hurting them lmao so many of them truly feel like they are the victim it’s crazy. i absolutely agree that males that are anti porn because it makes their dick not hard during normal sex, since they been used to watching violent porn, are not our allies. | /r/FemaleDatingStrategy | 30/06/20 05:19 AM |
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