kykoo Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
28	I know now		kykoo	/r/Divorce_Men	25/05/26 07:07 PM
15	Now I know 2	Rant	kykoo	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 07:09 PM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
12	How little people care You did not deserve this. Keep your chin up for your son !	/r/Divorce_Men	26/07/26 11:34 AM
9	I love my wife with my whole heart, but she wants a divorce. If she asked it means she thought about it for a long time and very possibly have another man in mind. I would check with her if she is firm on her choice (no begging) and that no amount of couple therapy would change her mind. If no buckle up and try to negociate your assets without involving lawyers if you can avoid it. Your priorities should be your children and yourself. Her situation, needs and wants are now irrelevant.	/r/Divorce_Men	25/07/26 03:53 PM
2	Once admiration and love is gone it is gone. I agree with you on the innate part of women’s psychology. However even if it plays a crucial role, O still refuse to limit them to that. They are not machines, and education, moral upbringing, and fatherly figures in their lives will play an equally big role in their reactions to marital crisis.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/07/26 08:58 PM
3	Feeling lost and confused Don’t fall into the fallacy of appearances. There’s no winning the divorce. Let her party and have instagram fun. In a year the novelty will wear off, and emptiness will settle. Work on yourself immediately, focus on your job and be there for your children. In a year you’ll be in a way better place mate.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 08:56 PM
9	I knew this would be tough. But to see her immediately with another man… I couldn’t have worded it better. Most women quit when they have their next relationship ready. It’s new, exciting and will ultimately lead to the same failure once the novelty wears off. And failure is not about self-growth, it’s about blaming because feelings.	/r/Divorce_Men	20/07/26 06:42 PM
5	Married for 10 years and confronted four times in the last two months when I found my wife cheating. I don't know. It’s over and you know it. There’s no more trust, how could you start a family with her? Just be glad you don’t have a child yet, it makes divorce far easier.	/r/Divorce_Men	18/07/26 06:26 AM
6	Living with the soon to be ex wife I am going thought the same. Her attitude just spells disrespect. Even if your relationship has ended, while being under the same you should avoid making anything more painful for the other, especially if there are kids involved. Dating can wait until fully separated. She doesn’t care, and she puts herself before her kids. She showed you who she truly is.	/r/Divorce_Men	29/06/26 09:54 AM
2	Now I know 2 Closest relative is 800km / 500 miles. I don’t want to abandon my kids. I’m tied up to this region due to the school registrations…	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 08:01 PM
4	Now I know 2 Words of wisdom mate ! I’ll keep them to my heart. Thanks for giving the wives’ perpective. I clearly failed to make her happy despite my best efforts. I was probably too much a dad and not enough a husband. However that’s still no excuse for how she acted.	/r/Divorce_Men	23/06/26 07:59 PM
2	Crazy (ex)? Wife This	/r/Divorce_Men	22/06/26 02:07 PM
-2	Need a Sounding board Think of the children first, and yourself second. If you acknowledge the divorce is partly your fault, and that your wife will keep the children most of the time, leave her the house at the same rent. At least they’ll keep a familiar environment, which is important at their young age. However your wife is going to redo her life, if you feel hosting her future partner in the house is unacceptable, see a lawyer to put this condition in writing.	/r/Divorce_Men	15/06/26 05:06 AM
5	Any advice will help thank you Are you sure you are the baby’s dad ? The timing is surprising ?	/r/Divorce_Men	14/06/26 05:30 PM
12	Told my wife.. Well now you know she doesn’t care for you. When she will be ready to leave you (enough money saved, got an affair partner, etc) she will tell you this relationship has not worked for years and that you were emotionally distant (ie: protecting yourself due to rejections). When you want to get rid of the dog, you say he has rabies…	/r/Divorce_Men	07/06/26 03:36 PM
7	The struggle You do not think of her. You think of an idealized version of her. She clearly didn’t deserve you.	/r/Divorce_Men	31/05/26 06:59 PM
3	I posted a couple days ago that I could only feel anger, well the sadness has hit and it’s so much worse You’re hurting. And it’s normal. But as you said it your son needs a dad. It’s ok to be sad, it’s not to take the easy way out. You’re better than this. Make plans. Living at your family must allow you to save some cash. Plan how much you need before being comfortable getting your own place. Plan how can you get your career back on tracks. Plan to become more muscular. It will take time, a lot of time, but it will builds up and you’ll feel better progressively. You’re not alone, we all have been…	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 08:10 PM
9	Divorce is coming and I'm not sure what to do. The family cruise is a no go in my opinion. Maybe she can pretend, usually me can’t, especially when sharing a bed in a cabin.	/r/Divorce_Men	30/05/26 11:12 AM
11	Wife having affair while we have 2 young kids. Trying to stay calm and protect 50/50 custody/assets. Advice from people who've been through this? I’m sorry you’re going throught that. It’s a lot to take in and it can be overwhelming at times. I went throught the exact same situation, with kids 7 & 4. Be ready for some gaslighting. Your wife will not accept any responsibility, the divorce will be 100% your fault, because you “neglected her”, “were emotionally distant” or she “felt not supported”. It’s hard, but for the kids and your assets you have to stay calm. Treat her like a petulant teenager, and focus on defending what’s yours. You a…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 07:44 PM
8	Was there ever love? I’m sorry, you don’t deserve this. Focus on your financials and the kids, and drop the Nice Guy mindset. You did what you had to, without expecting anything in return. If she is unable to appreciate that, it shows her character. I am going throught the same phase, and realized women live in the present. Everything you ever did for them can be instantly forgotten if they feel they deserve better. I thought my wife was family minded like me. Well after 11 years I discovered she did not hesitate to…	/r/Divorce_Men	29/05/26 06:08 PM
25	Looking for advice “Felling out of love” is woman speak for “I met someone else”. Ask her if she’s sure nothing can save your marriage, and then get ready to focus all your strength on protecting your child and assets. Do not be aggressive despite the sorrow, speak to her like a business partner. Keep in mind you have to co parent with this woman for 8 years minimum. Be warned that the longer you live under the same roof, the worse is your relationship with your wife going to be. But do not get out of the family h…	/r/Divorce_Men	28/05/26 11:48 AM
1	I know now Thanks. Do your best to safeguard your kids throughout this ordeal !	/r/Divorce_Men	27/05/26 08:12 AM
3	I know now On point. It’s exactly what I felt.	/r/Divorce_Men	26/05/26 05:45 PM