kylebenjaminturner Archive

Upvotes	Title	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
33	Alpha Vs. Beta: The Fight for Control	kylebenjaminturner	/r/seduction	26/12/18 08:15 AM
1	A Practical Guide To Getting The Girl You Want	kylebenjaminturner	/r/seduction	10/01/19 05:22 PM
1	How Much Karma Before I Can Make A Post?	kylebenjaminturner	/r/askTRP	26/12/18 08:30 AM

Upvotes	Comment on	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	Getting into game after a long term relationship You need to reframe. Are you going out to meet new people or be in a deep and living relationship? There are steps to seduction. More importantly there are steps people need to take to enter that area of your life. Don’t rush. Make sure the people you are talking to are people you want to talk to and don’t waste time on people who don’t interest you.	/r/seduction	24/01/19 08:29 PM
–	I can talk to women but it's hard for me to get physical contact Don’t just focus on sexual physical contact. Do you want to be a physical person or only sexually physical? Someone who knows what they want can be physical in all situations. Do not limit yourself to being physical sexually but start to tap girls on the arm while talking, hold hands, hug, etc. When it come time to escalate it will be a natural part of the physicality. Don’t worry about it!	/r/seduction	05/01/19 07:09 PM
2	pay for cinema? Don’t buy it if you’re not in the mood to do it.	/r/seduction	03/01/19 02:18 AM
1	What’s the best way to slide in from a selfie a chicks posts (snapchat story) etc If I give you an answer you are no longer going to be staying your own opinion. Get creative.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 10:51 PM
1	What’s the best way to slide in from a selfie a chicks posts (snapchat story) etc It’s very important to state your own opinion. At the end of the day it doesn’t matter if this girl likes you because there are many other girls out there. To become a man of status you must have values. Write whatever comes to mind, find a way to ask her out - if you don’t feel like it don’t, end of story.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 10:49 PM
1	Whats with the love for NLP in this community? It means that you decide what works for you in your life. If you think that NLP will work it will. If you think that it won't it won't. It has nothing to do with NLP.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 08:15 PM
–	Do everyone a favor and make the first move UPDATE Go based on your own values. Do you want to date a girl who is not open to meeting you during the holidays? If not, she is not qualified to date you. If you don't mind that she is busy, however, then feel free to wait. Do not text her because you want to, text her because you have a reason to. Decide what the reason is before you text her or don't text her at all.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 08:12 PM
5	I've had more sex this year than any other years of my life combined. Still, thoughts of "unworthiness" have not gone away, not even in the slightest... Base your achievement on establishing. Core values rather than external validation. Nothing outside of your own belief system will help you. You must go within and decide what is good about yourself. If you can come to a point where you accept where you are at - you can start making decisions when they arise that will lead to better futures. Nothing will change you, only you will.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 08:02 PM
1	Whats with the love for NLP in this community? It works like this: If you believe NLP will work for you it will. If you believe NLP will not work for you, it won’t. Personally I don’t use NLP because my life is not an accumulation of techniques but a bunch of CORE values. Do you want to use NLP to get something? Do that. Is it necessary? No.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 08:00 PM
2	How do I casually flirt with my girlfriends mom? Hey bro, it' pretty simple. Try qualifying her. This means judging her based on your own values. Don't do anything that is negative but make little fun judgments with flirting undertones. You will soon realize that she will make suggestions towards you as well. Always remember though what the goal is - if you're okay with losing the girl and the mom then do anything you want but if you want to keep them in order make sure to keep them at a safe distance where you can still play the game but not …	/r/seduction	26/12/18 07:47 PM
3	Is there a way out of this mindset? - Struggling to do cold approaches. The solution is in your question. You already know that it would "ruin your night" if you tried to talk to them. You're already assuming that it will "ruin your night" and you're already assuming that you're "trying". Don't worry about anyone but you. When you talk to people talk to them to make yourself feel better. This means that you must use other people to create the experiences you want.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 07:16 PM
1	Got sick before 2nd date with girl which is today If you decide to go are you going for her or for you? This is the real question you need to answer. Who cares what she wants, if you don't get what you want you already defeated the purpose of the date.	/r/seduction	26/12/18 07:12 PM
1	What i've learned from cold approaching over 350 women 48 Laws of Power - great book on manipulation.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/18 06:53 PM
62	The Unknowability of Beta Turd One must have values and boundaries that cannot be crossed as an "alpha". Alphas do not avoid conflict but rather decide which situations to put themselves in. Not every girl will like you, not every boss will treat you well, not every situation needs your leadership. Becoming alpha is about putting yourself in situations where you know you'll win.	/r/TheRedPill	26/12/18 06:51 PM
1	Everything that is key to adapting to the TRP way of life You didn’t say anything about physicality or escalation so I’m just going to disregard the rest of this post. If you were so on your path you wouldn’t talk to anybody. Socializing requires eye contact, physicality, and sensual escalation. Everything you mentioned disregards the idea that you should validate the girl in any way and I disagree. Doing what you said (in the top half at least) will get you no women and I know this from experience. People in general do not care about or care to seek g…	/r/TheRedPill	29/01/18 05:21 AM