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| 4 | Great opener bad closer. Been on so many dates, very little actionOnce you hold their hand everything else is easy. If you're sitting down somewhere, say you want to show them something else, stand up, and put your hand out. You don't even need to look at them just act like they're expected to do it. From there, play with their fingers, get in close, sit down on a bench while still holding their hand. If you're as charming as you said you were, this shouldn't be hard to move to sexual physicality. | /r/seduction | 02/10/16 09:21 PM |
| 1 | [FR] Probably my most successful Tinder line ever. I know it sounds ridiculous, but I've probably gotten a 98% positive response rate from it.Oh I was referring to the "please be fun" opener. I like yours and I'm gonna add it to my openers. | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 08:13 PM |
| 16 | [FR] Probably my most successful Tinder line ever. I know it sounds ridiculous, but I've probably gotten a 98% positive response rate from it.It's too closed ended. It's so easy for a girl to retort with I am fun and not feel the need to defend it. When you have a more open question/opener, it becomes harder to defend so easily | /r/seduction | 26/09/16 09:05 AM |
| 1 | Pick up girlsIsn't she the product we're buying? | /r/seduction | 23/09/16 07:41 AM |
| 5 | Girl just reopened.What do?Go for it. Just don't expect more than you've gotten until she shows you otherwise. | /r/seduction | 19/06/16 11:30 AM |
| 5 | If anyone started with nothing no social skills, no life and is now successful with a gorgeous woman I am Intrested in your story as someone who is only starting to leave that position I would love advice on what I should be doing?I personally only have one piece of advice "self esteem" is the phrase | /r/seduction | 10/06/16 10:49 AM |
| 3 | Should I even be with her?One of my favorite Mark Manson articles. Fuck yes or no | /r/seduction | 04/06/16 07:46 AM |
| 6 | Referring to Mark Manson's "Models," could someone provide an example of being vulnerable?Vulnerability is putting yourself in a position to be rejected and not caring if you are or not. Using that definition I want you to think of some examples. | /r/seduction | 14/04/16 08:04 PM |
| 1 | Anyone live in the Tempe/Phoenix/Scottsdale area?There's a good sized community here. I see a lot of guys spitting game around campus all the time. | /r/seduction | 17/02/16 10:29 PM |
| 1 | Anyone else want to start a new Seddit Locator thread for the new year?No you should make one. This place has been dead for weeks. | /r/seduction | 31/01/16 04:53 AM |
| 1 | Anyone else want to start a new Seddit Locator thread for the new year?Surface | /r/seduction | 30/01/16 11:55 PM |
| 3 | What are some emotional healthy standards to develop when it comes to sex and exclusivity?I think the old example of Brad Pitt is better, but I feel like it can be improved. Suggestions? | /r/seduction | 17/01/16 10:53 PM |
| 4 | would it be considered a disappointment or failure if my first date didn't end with at least a hug?You're not wrong. At the time of me posting this you're at -2, which is really disappointing. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 01:51 AM |
| 5 | would it be considered a disappointment or failure if my first date didn't end with at least a hug?Fuck. Finally someone who gets what this sub is about. | /r/seduction | 16/01/16 01:50 AM |
| 16 | Which attractive qualities in women are very underrated?Only if they can take some sharpness back. | /r/seduction | 12/01/16 11:24 PM |
| 13 | NYE Kino DisasterAww dude that sucks man. I have some cringey beginner kino experiences as well. My NYE disaster was pretty funny. This is sort of a field report so I'm gonna tag it with [FR]. My cousin is a DJ who was hired to do one of the biggest new years eve young adult dances in southern California. He tells me to come out from Arizona to help him with everything and I go. It turns out he needed help moving thousands of pounds of staging, lighting, and speakers. So for a couple days leading up to the dance… | /r/seduction | 03/01/16 01:05 AM |
| 20 | Simple List of Self Improvement and PUA Concepts to Improve Social LifeEveryone should remember this isn't an explanation, it's a cheat sheet. No one expects you to know what any of this means or how to do it correctly if this is your first time here. Keep googling, learning, and practicing. Don't get discouraged because I know everyone can do this. (not implying OP meant it like that; again thanks for the reminders!) | /r/seduction | 28/12/15 12:35 PM |
| 1 | I [24 m] don't know where or how to beginIt's at most Barnes and Noble stores | /r/seduction | 01/12/15 02:45 AM |
| 6 | How do you move forward when you don't have any evenings free?For future reference, the phrase is "strike while the iron is hot." Go out with her on a Saturday. Maybe an ice rink or a museum. Something fun that involves touching. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 11:36 PM |
| 5 | Am I supposed to pay for the girl's Homecoming ticket?Yeah dude pay for the ticket. I thought it was going to be like my school when they're 40 a piece. Also if you don't want to go as friends don't go as friends. Change the frame. | /r/seduction | 20/10/15 11:09 PM |
| 2 | Kino at the moviesWhile the movies are never considered a good option for a first date, there is definitely seduction strategy that can help while you're there. When you sit in the theatre, get rid of the arm rest between you. If she set the date she's obviously into you. People close in clubs without saying anything, just through kino. Your kino game needs to be on point in you want anything to happen. Go through some escalation ladders, see what'll work sitting down. Most of all, have fun. But never ever go to … | /r/seduction | 15/10/15 05:30 AM |
| 2 | One of my favorite sayings about fulfillment and finding the next girl...Why does this need to be a picture? Make it a text post. | /r/seduction | 13/10/15 02:15 AM |
| 8 | Why Avoiding Relationships in Your 20s Might Be the Biggest Mistake You’ll Ever Make"These days" | /r/seduction | 05/10/15 12:40 AM |
| 3 | Unable to forget a girl. Please help!I love that movie and Ryan Gosling really does exhibit some imperative features of a ladies man, but in the third act it stopped having realistic relationships and was just a romcom. Don't believe everything you see in the movies. | /r/seduction | 25/09/15 02:50 AM |
| 36 | Unable to forget a girl. Please help!Find confidence. Don't fantasize about anyone romantically until you and her both understand that you are in a romantic relationship. Every girl poops and someone somewhere is sick of their shit. She's not the one, accept that, move on, and fuck other girls. | /r/seduction | 24/09/15 08:07 PM |
| 1 | Find out if she likes you!No, assume attraction. | /r/seduction | 23/09/15 10:38 PM |
| 1 | Sex Begins with Voice -- communicate your intent the right wayYeah that's what I'm getting too. | /r/seduction | 20/09/15 10:53 AM |
| 16 | If you're an American that went to a college loaded with hot girls, will any environment rival that kind of setting once you get older?I must be doing something wrong because I don't have the same experience at all. I honestly cannot figure out where everyone goes every weekend and where everyone finds all this fun. Edit: But I definitely do realize that the girls are amazing. | /r/seduction | 13/09/15 07:18 AM |
| 1 | Okay to bring girls I'm dating to an ugly apartment?Cleanliness and effort are the key things here. I'm just really echoing what other people have said but you should put effort into how your apartment looks. Girls notice that stuff. If it looks (or smells) like you haven't cleaned it in months a girl will probably try to eject. If it's ugly, that's OK, just try to make it look nice | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 10:02 PM |
| 28 | Silent DateThe art museum is my favorite. The best one near me is free on Wednesdays, so no real monetary investment if it goes sour. The paintings allow for the conversation to never end, a lot of kino, talking about what a piece makes you feel and easy sexualization (ie: "I'm pretty sure this painting is just a colorful vagina."). When paired with ice cream after and freeway driving it's easily my favorite first date. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 07:11 PM |
| 1 | 18, still a virgin, need advice with hitting on/picking up girlsDifferentiate yourself. She deals with spineless, nervous guys like you who have never touched a girl in their life every fucking day. However, if you act like someone who actually does understand what girls respond to then she'll maybe see that your not like all the other guys. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 07:49 AM |
| 1 | 18, still a virgin, need advice with hitting on/picking up girlsJesus. Either do it or don't. Girls don't want to be with some guy who just throws himself around at the first thing that winks at him. Complimenting them shows you're not there just to be the occasional friend. Every other guy is the occasional friend. You're the man she wants to fuck. Men are straightforward with what they want. When you are not straightforward, you act like a woman. If the girl is heterosexual, she won't be into that. Man the hell up. | /r/seduction | 11/09/15 07:10 AM |
| 2 | How to fix resting bitch face and awkward smile?Sometimes I go back to posts 3 or 4 years ago specifically. Some the most insightful things were written back then. Sometimes this place feels like /r9k/. | /r/seduction | 06/09/15 10:14 AM |
| 3 | 21University vs RSDDifferent in what way? I'm curious. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 08:12 PM |
| 2 | Still having trouble stirring conversation.Jesus this video is amazing. Just when you think you've heard it all, you hear it in such a way that gives you a complete paradigm shift. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 09:32 AM |
| 7 | Have you guys ever had a boyfriend approach you?The boyfriend is probably insecure. It probably wouldn't be hard to exploit a relationship where a partner doesn't feel safe in their current position but it's really up to you with how you deal with it. | /r/seduction | 29/08/15 03:21 AM |
| 2 | He says I'm a quandary...What was the context? | /r/seduction | 06/08/15 06:07 AM |
| 4 | Going to Vegas!!!!Positivity and confidence. | /r/seduction | 26/07/15 12:08 PM |
| 5 | I've got a problemTry /r/relationships I don't think this sub is suited for your needs. | /r/seduction | 21/07/15 01:45 AM |
| 2 | This is the most important advice you'll ever read. I call it "The Trick."Well it's not that bad. In this situation, ask her why it's just ok, sorta busting her chops for being a Debbie downer. If her tone fit one could even relate her to Sadness in that new Pixar movie. Then your at the point when you're talking about feelings which is a great way to develop an emotional connection. Badda bing Badda boom. Lead the conversation where you want and maintain your confidence. Throw some kino in there and you're golden. Sorry for grammatical errors; I'm on mobile. | /r/seduction | 16/07/15 11:47 AM |
| 1 | What more you need after full chicken Tandoori !!!!!!!!!!!Well I'm seduced... | /r/seduction | 09/07/15 11:57 AM |
| 3 | cold approach in a smarter wayFailure (read: rejection) shouldn't lower your confidence. While I agree your techniques are effective, you're too great of a person to be worried about failure. | /r/seduction | 11/06/15 08:43 AM |
| 3 | Going to sound weird.. How to make friends. Seduce yourself into a social crowd.But also any tips on how to generally make friends would be great. I feel like seduction is partly learning to avoid friendship and create attraction. How can I reverse this with potential bros? | /r/seduction | 07/06/15 12:27 PM |
| 1 | What are some thing you've said that keeps a girl talking to you?What subjects are women already interested in? | /r/seduction | 29/05/15 09:42 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on first date locationCoffee is the general first date if you're not drinking. And of course there's more to it than just coffee but honestly just use the search bar if you have more questions. | /r/seduction | 05/05/15 01:50 AM |
| 2 | Effective vs. Ineffective ApproachingCan you give some examples on how to make it clear you're attracted to her through you demeanor? Is it just having dominant body language or is it something more? Also, thank you for these posts, they're really great. | /r/seduction | 02/05/15 10:49 AM |
| 3 | No matter how bad it seems, never turn down a party. Be a yes man.Balance in all things. | /r/seduction | 27/04/15 09:04 AM |
| 1 | Differing suggestions in this subThis is really good stuff. | /r/seduction | 18/04/15 02:13 AM |
| 3 | Avoidance weasel - my brain is an assholeDon't rape people. | /r/seduction | 14/04/15 07:53 PM |
| 1 | I think I just fucked up.Always assume attraction. If she isn't into you, what do you lose? | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 11:42 AM |
| 5 | Avoidance weasel - my brain is an assholeYou could try to stop masturbating. I know even after a couple days cold turkey I'm much more open to approaching. | /r/seduction | 12/04/15 11:40 AM |
| 1 | What's the etiquette when standing in line with a girl on a first date?>1000+1015.25 >not having chipoltaway | /r/seduction | 02/04/15 02:40 AM |
| 3 | Meeting women in collegeStart in the sidebar. Once you've read all of it, go over to /r/askseddit and ask your questions. Sorry to be curt, these questions just happen a lot. | /r/seduction | 26/03/15 07:02 AM |
| 1 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subI completely agree. I feel that they discover the sub somehow and think everyone is a magician. A sticky coupled with an attitude that is somewhat similar to /fit/ would help so much. If someone posts an obvious beginner question that really isn't enlightening, they should be directed to the sticky and the post should get deleted. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 07:50 AM |
| 2 | Few things to remember, in order to improve this subIf the mods tagged posts as unhelpful or, contrarily, really well done and even deleted the posts that are blatant advertisements for a PUA blog, I think the sub would improve dramatically. I read almost all of the mod's advice and they honestly know what works and what doesn't. I trust their judgment, I just wish they would use it more often. | /r/seduction | 24/03/15 07:12 AM |
| 25 | Infographic: Where the Singles areThat's a really important point, too. I know in the south west before and after 2008, there was a lot of immigration and emigration respectively. That could skew the numbers. | /r/seduction | 30/01/15 06:57 PM |
| 3 | How do you guys react to girls who are "on the fence" with going on a date with you?Read this. | /r/seduction | 28/01/15 05:56 AM |
| 2 | Last night success storyhttp://www.reddit.com/r/seduction/comments/pbkwv/glossary_of_terms_ag/ | /r/seduction | 26/01/15 03:50 AM |
| 5 | Just finished reading models by mark manson.Honestly worth the ~$11 on amazon. I'm a starving college student, and the book is worth its weight in gold. I've read it a few times in the short time I've had it and it gets better every time. | /r/seduction | 01/01/15 10:46 AM |
| 6 | This subreddit is what I need.Sidebar. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 07:10 AM |
| 9 | Crazy how true this is.Why can't this be a text post? Making it a picture doesn't add anything. | /r/seduction | 27/11/14 03:38 AM |
| 5 | Confidence. What has helped me.(Lowest beginner level)Sorry, I misquoted. Act as if: http://youtu.be/oTFU9c9MrkE Act as if the girl your trying to pick up is already into you. Act as if every girl in the world wants to have sex with you. Act as if you're the greatest thing since sliced bread. By acting like it, people assume you are. Search this subreddit for the same phrase for more detailed posts. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 10:19 PM |
| 1 | Confidence. What has helped me.(Lowest beginner level)"Think as if" is a concept that can go a long way if you really believe. | /r/seduction | 26/11/14 04:47 PM |
| 3 | I can't get a girlfriendHey man look at it as a conversation piece. I assume CI means "cochlear implant," right? Ask a girl if she's ever spoken to a bionic man before. But you really need to get your depression and confidence in check. You will never be very successful until then. If you need to see a therapist then do it. Invest in yourself and find your happier life. Women see that and appreciate it. I've wanted to kill myself before, but I'm really glad I didn't. Therapy is your friend. Don't be afraid of help. | /r/seduction | 22/11/14 09:17 AM |
| 1 | College Advice?I go to ASU, too. Just walk around the MU and approach, approach, approach. You will probably get rejected a little. This is OK; if you're confident, rejection won't get you down and you can reflect on what you can do better. | /r/seduction | 11/11/14 08:48 AM |
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