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| 40 | Get out of your head - I met a girl on the train | Field Report | kylomorales | /r/seduction | 08/07/21 10:57 PM |
| 0 | What are your opinions on the thread on AskWomen about cold approaches? | Conversation | kylomorales | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 08:35 AM |
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| 1 | If having hobbies makes you attractive to women, why isn’t attractive if a guy is into video games and Reddit as opposed to more traditional hobbies?Reddit is not a hobby. It is social media. It doesn't require you to spend time getting better and having something you're passionate about. Video games does have those elements and you can say gives you a competitive fix but if you spend all day in your room twiddling your thumbs it's not attractive. That being said there are gamer girls who will like you because they admire the hard work you put in to hit Grand Champion rank in Rocket League - if that's who you find, good for you. But good luc… | /r/seduction | 02/09/22 04:28 PM |
| 2 | How to stay away from logical conversation?That has been my mantra for the last few months as well as trying to always keep in mind that life starts outside your comfort zone. That's where the good shit happens. If you do what you've always done, you'll get what you've always had. These sound so cliche but they're just so true and if you really remember them you can push yourself to grow beyond the fake borders you've mentally structured for yourself. Ask that crush out, approach that cutie, start talking to that group of cool looking so… | /r/seduction | 27/08/22 10:57 PM |
| 2 | How to stay away from logical conversation?You miss 100% of the shots you don't take man. If you never show interest she'll never know you were interested. And if you want something to happen between you, she's gonna have to know you're interested. Push through the fear even if it's just for the practice of it with no intentions. As long as your polite and respectful and you leave her alone when your attention isn't welcome you can't go wrong. The worst that happens is she's not interested and you move on with your life. Big deal. It was… | /r/seduction | 26/08/22 08:47 AM |
| 1 | What are your opinions on the thread on AskWomen about cold approaches?Apologies! Won't happen again | /r/seduction | 23/08/22 03:15 PM |
| 12 | Why do you guys think most men struggle with girls or dating in general?This is true and not true. It's important to treat women as normal humans and then maybe see if there's just a platonic connection or something more BUT as a man you have to know how to flirt and make things man-to-woman or you'll end up as someone who has a huge number of friends who are girls but no girlfriend | /r/seduction | 23/07/22 11:06 AM |
| 8 | Girl the whole night was saying how she wasn’t going to have sex with meNo you didn't man it's not a one size fits all blueprint to sex. Some girls are literally communicating the fact that they don't want to do it with you yet. Ofc I wasn't there so if she was saying "we aren't gonna do it" but every other hint was there then I could be wrong but don't think "I fucked up" bcs next time you might be with a girl who says that and you think "oh that means she does want sex" when in actuality she genuinely doesn't it could get real weird. Like people are saying, keep i… | /r/seduction | 18/07/22 08:37 AM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachNice. I think I need to ditch the mindset that what if she needs to get going or whatever. I know I can read body language cues well enough to know when she wants to convo to end and when she would be happy to keep chatting | /r/seduction | 04/07/22 10:21 AM |
| 1 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachThanks for the explanation man, I'd never heard of this approach to things and will definitely look to consider doing it in future | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 07:55 PM |
| 2 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachShe has to earn giving you her number? I think that's an interesting take and probably gives you the right frame of mind around her qualifying and closing | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:21 AM |
| 2 | Got humbled for the first time in cold approachWhat sorts of topics do you cover in 45 minutes? That seems like a daunting amount of time for a cold approach (I think my cold approaches are probably 10-15 mins tops and then moving on with my day and letting her get on too) | /r/seduction | 21/06/22 11:19 AM |
| 1 | Stats on 50 cold approachesWhat's an example of an indirect to direct open? | /r/seduction | 29/04/22 01:58 PM |
| 1 | Best tinder opener that’s not cringeyThat's a lot for an opener. If you had a great conversation and set up a date and it goes well, I think this a cool unique thing to make for the second date as long as the effort is proportional to the investment you've both made for each other so far (15 seconds is decently short that it's not creepy and over-investing at that stage imo) | /r/seduction | 24/04/22 12:00 PM |
| 5 | First time ever asking a girl out and she said yes!!You may want to give us a bit more detail on the conversation when you asked her out, if she's a pre-established person from your class who's number you have, if you asked her to hang out later she might think you just mean hanging out as normal classmates platonically or doing work together. Happy for you for pushing through your fears, just make sure everyone's on the same page! | /r/seduction | 15/04/22 09:53 AM |
| 1 | What’s your hobby?Origami, bouldering, ethical hacking (currently hobby and hopefully career eventually), digital illustration, F1, Rocket League among others. I tend to go in cycles of being really into one thing and then going to the others and back again. So atm ethical hacking is my main focus and F1 is the thing I follow | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 07:32 PM |
| 4 | approaching two girls and a guy went mehSaid in a cheeky way: "Sorry mate I don't swing that way, I'm actually quite interested in X". If he still gives you shit then say "I tell you what...", write your number down on some paper, leave it on the table, say "up to you. Hopefully I'll see you around" walk away with a smile and good eye contact then if the guy is white knighting and stopping the girl on your behalf then she will probably resent that and give you a chance. If the guy is not stopping the girl, then as long as you opened w… | /r/seduction | 20/03/22 02:23 PM |
| 5 | If you were a man, how would you get a date with a woman?Ah thanks. Yeah I'm from the UK but this sounds like the type of thing that exists here especially in the bigger cities, maybe under another name. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 09:55 AM |
| 0 | If you were a man, how would you get a date with a woman?Does co-ed stand for college education? Is it normal for people outside of the university (and older than 21) to take part in these kinds of leagues? | /r/PurplePillDebate | 20/03/22 08:31 AM |
| 2 | How do I stop girls from assuming I'm just a player?What can you do to make a girl feel safe in opening herself up sexually? In the sense that many are guarded because they don't want to be seen as a slut or easy and you want to frame things that make it easier for them to open up | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:43 PM |
| 4 | How often/much do you guys shave your privates?This sounds great in practice but I've heard terrible stories so be careful and make sure you get one appropriate for dicks or it will burn like a mf | /r/seduction | 09/03/22 05:37 PM |
| 2 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itCause if you were actively trying it's a question of like what if you're some sort of incel lady and why is it that you haven't been able to yet etc. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 10:04 AM |
| 4 | If women actually believed "only insecure" men care about their sexual history, then women wouldn't lie about itIt's only a red flag if you're someone who is actively trying to go out and have sex. If it's a choice (like in your other comment you said you were chaste) them I think it's perfectly acceptable and power to you | /r/PurplePillDebate | 27/02/22 09:58 AM |
| 2 | Cold approach; this always worked for me 85% of the timeWhat's the interaction like following an introduction like this? Guys here will say that immediately calling her beautiful is shallow, the type of thing she hears often and won't feel impressed by, puts you in a frame of neediness/pedestalising. But that's all in theory. I'm intrigued to know your angle after the intro? Do you just take the phone number and leave? If so, do girls flake out a lot after that or are they receptive to your texts (and do you eventually get dates out of that)? Or afte… | /r/seduction | 24/02/22 11:30 PM |
| 3 | Going after college girls at 25?Not necessarily, I know a girl that got into a relationship with a 27yo dude part way through uni (been together for a solid 3-4 years by now i think) | /r/seduction | 22/02/22 11:41 PM |
| 1 | Approaching girls in groups in clubs/loud venues?There is quite a lot of content with this name, were you referring to a book or course? If you have sauce do share pls | /r/seduction | 29/01/22 01:54 PM |
| 10 | If you have sex with a girl but don’t orgasm did you still lose your virginity?They literally insert penis into vagina but then get a third friend to jump on the bed/mattress off to the side so that they can have sex without it counting. Apparently the thrusting is what makes it count so they just insert and "soak" and ahem get off.. on a technicality | /r/seduction | 24/01/22 01:31 PM |
| 3 | Need advice on sex and regretDon't just do it for the sakes of doing it. Especially when you don't find her that desirable. If she finds a that out she'll feel very used and betrayed and honestly it would be kinda messed up. It's perfectly for you to change your mind and say "actually I don't think I want to go through with this". You don't even have to give a reason because that's how consent works. No one will judge you. No one will think less of you. You don't need to accelerate your way to sex it's not the be all and en… | /r/seduction | 23/01/22 11:07 PM |
| 0 | Girl with holding sex?Have you say down to have an honest and frank conversation about sex and what's up with her? There's a lot of possibilities. Sometimes they want to wait because the relationship is special and they feel it's going somewhere long term so they're not rushing. She might be manipulating you. She might have no malicious intention at all. Hell, some girls are into CNC and push it to very morally grey areas (if this is the case you absolutely have to communicate beforehand and have safewords in place).… | /r/seduction | 04/01/22 02:10 PM |
| 1 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"So then it's on us to sense when they aren't in the mood and when they aren't interested in you, to then take the hint and leave them be as opposed to just ruling out cold approaches as a method of meeting people | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 01:34 PM |
| 3 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"A vocal minority | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 01:01 PM |
| 2 | How do you feel about all these women on social media saying "don't approach us, it's creepy"This is it right here. People want human interaction but screens are an easy way out | /r/seduction | 18/12/21 12:59 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.I quite enjoyed reading those, thanks for sharing the stories! Damn those are some expensive shirts but I have some decent shirts and casual clothes. Usually I shop in the sales to get the good stuff and lower prices | /r/seduction | 15/12/21 11:33 AM |
| 2 | Guys who have "closed" or taken home women you met that very day and night, how did you do it?I think this conversation works better in Spanish between people of a different culture. This would definitely go differently among western women | /r/seduction | 14/12/21 11:04 PM |
| 1 | How do I approach a group of girls.Those vids were entertaining but he is also freely admitting that it's cringe and for the camera and in the clips he doesn't seem to be actually getting more than a friendly interaction (as in doesn't seem to be getting actual romantic interest from the girls he's talking to) | /r/seduction | 13/12/21 11:39 AM |
| 4 | How do I approach a group of girls.That's the idea. This dude clearly has read pickup material cause it's quite common for them to say that you should make moves like this so that the girl over qualifies themselves and trying to prove they don't hate you | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:18 PM |
| 9 | How do I approach a group of girls.For real I wanna see an in field video of someone doing this because I am squirming reading this. You can usually say anything with the right tone of voice but somehow this just seems weird | /r/seduction | 12/12/21 02:17 PM |
| 2 | I think my coworker likes me ,what do I doYeah the actual term is cuffing season | /r/seduction | 11/12/21 12:19 PM |
| 1 | [deleted by user]I see this post being linked in the comments of almost every major post on this sub. Be honest, are you just the same guy each time shilling it? | /r/seduction | 10/12/21 02:10 PM |
| 1 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsTyvm | /r/seduction | 02/12/21 10:25 AM |
| 6 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsSorry I'm laughing at "anesthetically" it's like damn those girls asses are so good they numb all my pain during surgery | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 03:56 PM |
| 3 | Let’s talk about Racial Preferences - based on statisticsWould you mind linking whatever article, paper or site you got that from? That's quite interesting and I'd like to read the regional breakdowns and stuff | /r/seduction | 01/12/21 03:45 PM |
| 2 | How can I deal with half-assed texts? are they shit tests?You should post that as its own post. Solid stuff | /r/seduction | 29/11/21 12:14 PM |
| 2 | Type of women you can attractYep there's a whole chapter/section on demographics in Models by Mark Manson | /r/seduction | 21/11/21 01:01 PM |
| 0 | Boys…give me some funny pick up lines/openersI like this one I saw recently: Well you're cute and I'm pretty so I guess we'd be pretty cute together Alternatively she can be pretty and you can be cute. I think it's important that the word "together" comes after pretty cute (rather than "together we'd be pretty cute) cause it sounds smoother and works better | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 11:32 AM |
| 1 | Boys…give me some funny pick up lines/openersr/pickuplines Sort by top | /r/seduction | 04/11/21 11:30 AM |
| 2 | Best way to respond if a woman says no when you ask her out?If a girl had the balls to approach you but it was easy for you to take one look and think nah not my type, how would you feel if she persisted and tried to get you to change your mind? Would it turn you on if a girl you already "hell nah-ed" kept at it or would you think yeesh stop being so needy and leave me alone? | /r/seduction | 18/10/21 05:32 PM |
| 13 | Why do I care about my partner’s sexual past?Both are true. It's okay not to be okay with it but given that you have more history than them and have no insecurities it is a little immature for you to be judging them or having a problem with their histories | /r/seduction | 16/10/21 11:48 AM |
| 1 | I Approached Two Girls at My CampusThis was my mindset going into September/October 1 year ago when I was entering my final year of university. I was sorely hoping that things would be semi back to normal at least but they really weren't in the slightest. There was this girl I actually did manage to meet (a triumph for me) but it didn't get to lead anywhere because we were never on campus at the same time. No I'm finished with uni and hoping to meet new people in the city and stuff at my new job which sucks a lot more than just b… | /r/seduction | 26/08/21 09:26 AM |
| 10 | How to get laid in collegeBe sociable. Join stuff that gives you an easy excuse to talk to people but don't be afraid to just stay conversations with girls and guys at random. Don't be invested in a girl just because she is pretty. Just talk to her like a human being able go in with the expectation that you will walk away and maybe see her around at some point. If things go well you can get her number or contact and go from there. Worst case scenario you made a new friend or acquaintance | /r/seduction | 23/08/21 08:22 AM |
| 1 | Lessons from 15 years of learning seduction: How to be attractive.This is a great post and very well written. I just started reading Models and this gave me a similar vibe. You sound like you know what you're talking about and you're interested in helping people to be better on a fundamental and deep level (not just any old PUA trying to tell me tricks and lines to get with girls). | /r/seduction | 19/08/21 02:51 PM |
| 2 | Get out of your head - I met a girl on the trainThanks anyway xD I'm the OP | /r/seduction | 09/07/21 08:45 AM |
| 1 | **** it, I'm gonna cold approach an obsene amount of girls even with masks.I get what your point is, but how can you seduce a woman without cold approaching and meeting her in the first place? If you never approach women you'll have no one to seduce surely. What's your way of meeting/seducing women? | /r/seduction | 10/05/21 10:24 AM |
| 3 | Why omegle is a great place to practice seduction: lessons I've learned.Could you send it to me too please! Thanks | /r/seduction | 09/05/21 02:31 PM |
| 14 | So I’ve come across this on Instagram so I decided to check up on google trends for such and only record I could find was 100 searches or so all from United States but then I got curious and searched the term “kill men” and while they’re consistently around 70-100 searches worldwideNo no no. On Google trends 100 indicates the maximum amount of searches in a period there has ever been. The graph is scaled proportionally to the time where the most amount of searches happened. E.g. if 1 million searches happened in 2016 and that was the highest, at that time the graph would show 100. And if now, there was 2 million searches, the 2016 part would show 50 and the current part of the graph would show 100. It is not 100 searches. | /r/MensRights | 30/04/21 01:28 PM |
| 16 | Female Perspective On Online DatingI understand what you're saying but if a hot girl only wants to cuddle me I'm so so happy to do that I love emotional connection and value it far more than sexual (I get your point though - I think better way of putting that comparison is "imagine if even the hot looking girls are there but are super boring to talk to" for me this works). Anyway - I get your point, girls are surrounded by quantity of men but no quality but I would counter that and say that men are surrounded by no quantity with … | /r/seduction | 28/04/21 10:04 AM |
| 0 | Some of you are lameDo you even browse this reddit?? Those posts are far less common than self-improvement and sensible conversations | /r/seduction | 27/04/21 01:50 PM |
| 1 | Observation About Dating SitesSince you recently downloaded it you're getting shown the hot girls, eventually (if you're average/unattractive) your ELO will level out and you'll get shown the average/nerdy girls instead | /r/PurplePillDebate | 17/04/21 09:23 AM |
| 1 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverMaybe you should consider therapy it sounds like you have some things you need to work out, hope you are okay man | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 12:38 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverI think you need to find fulfilling things to do in your life so that that isn't the case. Masturbating depletes you of any motivation or energy you might have had. If you store up that energy by abstaining but then don't channel it into something productive then it could of course lead to anxiety instead which we don't want either. Just don't fall into the trap of thinking "I might as well jerk off" | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 12:29 PM |
| 1 | Becoming more physically attractive has made me realize I’m def gonna be single foreverGive up porn if you still regularly masturbate to it and see if that makes any difference | /r/seduction | 21/03/21 11:25 AM |
| 2 | Invited over to a girls house as a first date - do’s and don’ts?Prepare for sec but don't expect or push for it. Go with the flow and see what her vibe is. She might be looking for a fuck in which case you'll be able to tell | /r/seduction | 07/03/21 10:51 AM |
| 18 | Only use texting to set up a date.Is he attractive by any chance? | /r/seduction | 04/03/21 12:40 PM |
| 1 | The Art Of Seduction (Part 1)In this analogy, the cat is the pussy... wait | /r/seduction | 16/02/21 08:40 PM |
| 1 | How To Seduce Women (By Channeling Sexual Energy)Might want to watch Tenet for that part | /r/seduction | 11/02/21 04:22 PM |
| 15 | This entire subreddit seems to be about seducing women, what about seducing men?If a girl is affectionate toward me and touches my arm I'll pretty much marry her. In all seriousness though a lot of the principles are the same in that you should be an interesting and well developed person who can take care of themselves and looking for a man to add to your life rather than "complete" you | /r/seduction | 08/02/21 08:50 AM |
| 1 | If you are having trouble, here is a test to see where you need to improve.Wow this is a great list for self improvement. I think I'm gonna keep this list and make subtasks to tick off in each category so I can quantify or measure how well I'm doing in each one and eventually "be a 10" so to speak | /r/seduction | 06/02/21 07:28 AM |
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