kymosabei Archive

Upvotes	Title	Category	Author	Subreddit	Date (UTC)
2	She wants me to date only her, which she thinks isn't exclusive (Guaranteed over-analyzing about myself and single plate, need insight).		kymosabei	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 02:01 PM

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1	Why is the average girl so boring yet entitled. They literally do no self improvement Men are made, women are born.	/r/askTRP	03/12/20 04:24 PM
4	Should I go monk mode until COVID goes away? covid gives a percentage of people bad long term affects. Mate, the virus has been around for 7 months. That is quite literally an unfounded claim. There's no if and's or but's about it. Don't be silly.	/r/askTRP	15/08/20 05:00 AM
5	The Red Pill is not about team-man, but about you Normal people don't read books about some kind of philosophical framework for living in reality. They just...live in reality. Just to clarify, are you claiming that the men hooking up with women at bars and CEOs are the normal people not reading these books? Empirically that couldn’t be true seeing as most people aren’t CEOs, and the men hooking up with women at bars are the 20%. The people that “live in reality” to me are the same losers that you mentioned earlier, if you’re referring to most p…	/r/TheRedPill	12/12/19 03:00 PM
7	Necessary to cut pretty much all bad dopamine sources? This has been my experience. I truthfully can't do "video games 30 minutes less". 30 minutes always becomes 5 hours. My biggest successes have always been cold turkey--balls to the walls. I've wasted a lot of time doing things that only bring me immediate comfort, satisfaction, and ego. In the moment, it feels great. But to see the clock at the end of the day, with nothing to show for it, is decidedly depressing for me.	/r/askTRP	18/08/19 01:59 AM
5	Put yourself out there (for the nervous/anxious) Thank you for this thought out response--reading it before I went to bed last night had an extremely positive impact on my mentality. I know it's only one post, from one random person on the Internet, for one day, but at the moment my life seems incredibly bleak. This made it a bit brighter. Thank you again, brother.	/r/TheRedPill	05/08/19 04:03 PM
3	Put yourself out there (for the nervous/anxious) Maybe I’m too far gone, but is the only answer to achieving this to “lift”? At thirty, I have reached a point where I’m comfortable with the idea of not being with someone and finding myself, but I believe a lot of who I used to be was based on that.	/r/TheRedPill	04/08/19 10:35 PM
4	Smoking - a red flag you are mistaken for thinking that things which are red flags for women are also red flags for men. Fair enough. Risk taking behaviour in general is a red flag for a woman. A woman of sound mental health should not be taking risks. I think I agree on the whole, but I don't view the mere consumption of alcohol as "risk taking behavior". In a literal sense, I suppose it is, but I think it's inappropriate to look at a woman drinking a single glass of wine and say, "boom, red flag." Maybe you're not…	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/19 03:54 PM
2	Smoking - a red flag How is alcohol itself, without context, a red flag?	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/19 03:17 PM
4	Smoking - a red flag Guess what, this also applies to drinking alcohol. Or eating fast food. Or riding a motorcyle. Or fighting in combat sports. This is exactly what I was thinking. If smoking is a red flag, alcohol would have to be as well. I have a friend who used to smoke regularly, and he's having a successful transition away from that using other forms of nicotine. Nevertheless, he's highly successful. Dresses well, owns his own home, makes his own way. I think we just need to look at behavior in general. If y…	/r/TheRedPill	02/08/19 02:55 PM
8	Giving away 'Alpha' By this point in your life, you should know who YOU as a person are. I see all the time in askTRP some kid taking the advice of some internet stranger instead of making a simple decision on their own. They are becoming the other person, not themselves. "Immaturity is the incapacity to use one's intelligence without the guidance of another." I remember that quote almost every single time I think about asking someone for advice. I thoroughly enjoyed your retort, brother. Keep up the good work.	/r/TheRedPill	01/08/19 06:35 PM
1	How do I have abundance mindset when I don't have abundance? I'm over invested and I know it Bear with me, because even though I've been lurking TRP for probably two years now, I'm still extremely green behind the ears. However, how do they know you are if you have cut all contact with them? Or is it more of a mental thing and you just don't gaf and that shows in your actions? I believe your issue is here. Your first question: how do they know you are if you have cut all contact with them? Does it matter? I think the point of this is that you're supposed to be moving forward, not consid…	/r/askTRP	30/07/19 05:46 PM
1	How do I have abundance mindset when I don't have abundance? I'm over invested and I know it It wasn't purely me just chasing chasing chasing Do orbiters always chase, or do they sometimes wait? I think you and I have a similar problem in that we assume that because we're not actively "chasing" the girl, that we're not orbiting them. However, I believe the act of waiting, or maintaining contact with the girl in any sense, is decidedly still orbiting. Edit: I should say this as well--that doesn't mean you have to lock it up and throw away the key, but essentially what /u/RedPill-BlackLot…	/r/askTRP	29/07/19 05:39 PM
1	Don't be a hater They're going to read your bullshit and think "Cool! I'll keep working hard and saving money and obsessing over my hobbies, and that makes me a real man!" It isn't entirely bullshit, right? It just doesn't apply to the subset of men here you're referring to? Nevertheless, I resonate with this conversation between you two at the moment because I've hit some recent bumps in my life, and the pursuit of sex for me has become almost nonexistent. I'm concerned that because I feel like I have to shape …	/r/TheRedPill	26/07/19 08:49 PM
14	Discretion I am guilty of this, and in recent years, I've made a conscious effort to align myself with shutting the fuck up. It was two fold--low self-esteem coupled with being raised in a feminine environment. This has been a concern for me when and if I have children, especially a son. The low self-esteem was eased by the self-validation gained by gabbing about my conquests; within the feminine environment, I had no models of a man's ability to bridle his emotions. Tackling both of those at my age now, i…	/r/TheRedPill	09/07/19 01:07 PM
2	Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you? I don't believe in only sticking to RedPill, there is other work to be done. But Red Pill gives me confidence that I am on the right path. That's another challenge I have too--essentially deciding on what information is valuable, and what is not. On the surface, when I practice certain ideas and behaviors in RP, or otherwise, I tend to adopt them as "whole truths" until the point of failure. I've only just realized that the probability of ideas containing what I'd consider those whole truths, si…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/19 03:19 PM
2	Nice or Asshole? How healthy are you? How healthy were you? Related to that, is the idea that what we feel internaly about ourselves will shape our reality. Your entire comment is true to me, but this part in particular hits the hardest. One of the biggest issues I've had (and still have to this moment) is how I've constructed my own monolithic negative self-image. It isn't easy to admit, but I've hated myself for a long time; and it's challenging to feel like I'm making progress in the sphere of masculinity, and then realize that there are still so many…	/r/TheRedPill	03/07/19 01:27 PM
1	She wants me to date only her, which she thinks isn't exclusive (Guaranteed over-analyzing about myself and single plate, need insight). What benefits does committing to this girl give you? Other than her being very submissive? I have no idea--it's been two weeks. I don't really think I know shit. Also why did you say you have a problem with spinning plates to begin with? For me it really comes down to being so fucking distracted. I'd like to freely move between women as I please, but I feel like I can't effectively do that until I get my house in order. Everything else in my life has to become more important than getting with wo…	/r/askTRP	26/06/19 02:30 AM
1	She wants me to date only her, which she thinks isn't exclusive (Guaranteed over-analyzing about myself and single plate, need insight). Firstly, You never negotiate with terrorists. You're right. This is exactly what I thought about this morning. Next, Why are you even entertaining the idea? A couple of reasons: I'm ignorant, naive, and uneducated--which is why I'm leaning on asktrp for guidance. I think I'm trying to make an uncomfortable situation comfortable instead of facing it head on. I believe for myself that I can't be trying to actively spin anything while I get my shit together. Wrongly, I'm trying to make that decisio…	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 07:58 PM
2	She wants me to date only her, which she thinks isn't exclusive (Guaranteed over-analyzing about myself and single plate, need insight). Your frame is so weak While I believe your approach to dialogue is fucking garbage, I do believe that you have a point here. If my frame was stronger, then I wouldn't even be concerned with this. I asked to be challenged--thank you for that.	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 05:28 PM
3	She wants me to date only her, which she thinks isn't exclusive (Guaranteed over-analyzing about myself and single plate, need insight). The link? It's a link to the character Cypher from the matrix? In reference to his lust to return to a blue pill state?	/r/askTRP	25/06/19 05:20 PM
1	What is The Red Pill? However if the people taking them are terrorists using them for some terrorist reason then those lessons become terriostice in nature in that instance I'm having a hard time seeing that connection. The persons actions are clearly terroristic in nature, but I'm still not sure that makes the flight lessons themselves terroristic? To me that's like the notion of a "hate crime", right? A crime is a crime, regardless of whatever idea it's predicated on. i.e. Assault is assault. The assault isn't some…	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 03:52 PM
1	What is The Red Pill? ie guns are 'amoral' the people using them coat them in a 'morality'. Okay, but that's a natural mistake, right? We're erroneously associating some kind of emotional idea to a physical object (animism). Also, I can maybe see it from a point of what kind of opportunities the physical object or situation may provide, but that's entirely dependent on the state of society and the environment. i.e. Flight lessons in the early/mid 1900's were not "terroristic in nature".	/r/TheRedPill	15/06/19 03:36 PM
5	What is The Red Pill? The Red Pills motive to understand female nature is hedonistic thus making the entire endevor hedonistic. Kind of like how the 9/11 hijackers motive to take flight lessons on Florida was terroristic thus making their whole flight school experience one aspect of their terror plot. Can I ask how this isn't a fallacy of composition?	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/19 10:26 PM
2	Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO! but using the child’s race as a deciding factor is without a doubt a racist perspective Again, I'm not sure this is true unless we know what those factors are predicated on. It's definitely discrimination, but discrimination itself is not inherently racist/racism (all squares are rectangles, but not all rectangles are squares). Like I asked, is it inherently wrong to prioritize the success of your own race--something that minorities in the United States do all the time? If anything, coming back …	/r/TheRedPill	13/06/19 04:42 PM
9	Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO! I'm not the type of fellow who complains about single mothers and laments generations of beta men raised without father figures while simultaneously never doing jack shit to change or improve the situation. Thank you for saying this--it has in this exact moment, made me realize that I need to step up more to help young men in finding their way. I am product of a single mother, and admittedly I lament about the issues surrounding it all the time. But I need to take more positive action, rather th…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/19 01:02 PM
4	Reflections on a life of plate spinning: Does it inevitably lead to unhappiness and midlife crisis as with Roosh V? In my case, a resounding NO! but making note of race makes you a bigot. I'm curious how this is true? One definition of Bigot: a person who is utterly intolerant of any differing creed, belief, or opinion. Maybe you could call it racist? But he didn't mention anything about a race in particular, or the qualities/positions thereof. Is it inappropriate to recognize race as an important factor to development as a person culturally? Is it inappropriate to value your own race/ethnicity/culture above others? Isn't this exactly wh…	/r/TheRedPill	12/06/19 01:00 PM
1	Think for Yourself I think you should still try and see for yourself. If it's not beneficial to your environment and future, then discontinue. Let me ask you this, If you're referring to the spinning of plates, it isn't as if it doesn't interest me--I've spent a good deal of time around a lot of different women, but it always seems to be a huge distraction for my goals (knowledge gathering, increasing my SMV, etc). On top of that, I have had a shift in perspective on abortion, one that would make me considerably a…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/19 07:16 PM
3	Think for Yourself As a long time lurker, who has consumed a lot of vocal/visual material, yet to consume things such as the Rational Male, thank you for this check. While I strongly agree with the principles of TRP, there are certain aspects of my life in which I don't view certain goals or principles of it in line with my own. One of the most prevalent for me at the moment is the idea of game, plates, etcetera. I recognize all of those principles as valid and true, but the pursuit of women itself is not valuable…	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/19 04:21 PM
1	Think for Yourself So the origins of the core teachings probably came from good faith to help other men The road to hell is paved with good intentions.	/r/TheRedPill	17/05/19 03:09 PM
2	Starting my last semester of college on Monday. Here's my little black book from the last 4 years of fun. Thought y'all would enjoy. (Throwaway account) Yeah, I wasn't actually trying to be specific to their gender. Men and women alike can do this, and I'm sure they have. My point is that it's an aspect of his life that he's choosing to measure. I don't really think it speaks to an incredible amount of his character, perspective, or his intent. It says something, sure. But I don't think he's a cunt by any means.	/r/seduction	22/08/14 09:22 PM
2	Starting my last semester of college on Monday. Here's my little black book from the last 4 years of fun. Thought y'all would enjoy. (Throwaway account) I agree; but we all have to start somewhere, right? Maybe keeping this data will benefit him somehow. Nevertheless, I do see your point, and would contend that if metrics like these are kept, it should be for some kind of self-improvement.	/r/seduction	22/08/14 02:07 PM
36	Starting my last semester of college on Monday. Here's my little black book from the last 4 years of fun. Thought y'all would enjoy. (Throwaway account) I'll probably get hammered for this, but I personally don't believe that keeping note of the people you've slept with is pathetic or degrading. You might be able to claim there's some kind of objectification of women here, but it's just metrics. All columns represent very acceptable points of measurement. And it isn't like you're rating them on how much of a slut they were/are. I don't know, I very well could be wrong. :/	/r/seduction	22/08/14 01:38 PM