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| 1 | What do you guys think about dudes that "fall in love" and get married to the only woman they ever had in their life?Pretty much, I still have bad days, but the worst is over, bigger, better world out there, and I know it. and ironically, I get the whole 12 hours thing, I also work 12 hour shifts, night shifts no less, and my weeks went: Thurs-saturday, work, sleep, work; Get home at 9 am Sunday morning, take her to her volunteer job (40 miles away), sleep in my car until 4/5, get home at 7 or 8, rest. Monday: Do all the errands I couldn't do while working. Tuesday: Leave at 10-11 for her volunteer job again, … | /r/seduction | 06/06/14 01:53 AM |
| 2 | What do you guys think about dudes that "fall in love" and get married to the only woman they ever had in their life?I just wrote a 5000 word story about my experience, but.. yea, this guy has it. You convince yourself that you fucked up the best thing you ever had, or were going to have. Some people don't get over it, some people decide to prove they can do better | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 12:38 PM |
| 10 | What do you guys think about dudes that "fall in love" and get married to the only woman they ever had in their life?OP: IT's simple, Love. kind of a taboo word around here, but when you fall, you fall. That person becomes a extension of yourself, things you wouldn't do for other people you do in heartbeat for them. It's worse when you live together, because even the day to day stuff it.. feels wrong without them. Sure you wonder what's on the other site of the gate, if that cute redhead walking down the street would be a better lay, but the moment you get near them, no matter how much you fight, or how hot th… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 12:35 PM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?... Have you used it more than once? because totally doesn't count if you just nailed it that one time. Then again, finding girls you can throw that line at is like.. a superpower or something. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 11:49 AM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?I-I'm not op though, i'm just some guy who made a long comment. | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 11:40 AM |
| 2 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?Pm'd with that shit, so you can now read mah profile. Not making the mistake publicly posting that shit again. Pft | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 11:23 AM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?Not every guy, just the kind of guy who has studied the game. Believe it or not, "attraction and simplicity" are the point -- It's for lack of a better description, hacking your lizard brain. using those little things evolution had tagged in your cells as "important for a mate" to help feed that attraction; Be direct ("alpha" to the bros), be confident, always be touching (.. this one sounds a bit creepy, but humans associate touching with intimacy and trust, there's a good post on one of the si… | /r/seduction | 05/06/14 01:53 AM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?Yea, my problem lies more in my choices than anything, I have a type, and since online dating lets me get into her head before I even approach, I have the opporunity to be picky about who I message. In my case, said type tends to also have hte "socially awkward" and "Shy as fuck" tags attached, so they kind of go deer-in-headlights on me. When the chemistry is good and we're having a good conversation, I try and move for a meet up between 5-10 mesages in. Long enough for us to ascertain neither … | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:55 PM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?Negging is uh, sort of a asshole-compliment. The original idea was to defeat (and lol terminology) what was called the "Bitch Shield" -- the idea that if an attractive woman is at a bar, she's.. probably been approached 10+ times and is gettng tired of it, so she's just going to essentially shut you down. SORRY WAITING FOR MY BOYFRIEND. or blow you off, a neg is a way of approaching without making it obvious you're hitting on them, sort of lets you start a conversation without beng shut down. (O… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:52 PM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?That's 100% my problem, unless i've got a clear line of conversation to open with.. it fizzles. They'll answer, but they're stingy with continuing the conversation. I.e., "Oh, you like books, well then, the one question that can determine if we can be friends. Gaiman, or Pratchett" "The only correct answer to that is both." "Good, we can be friends :D Read anything good lately. "Yea, x and y, z." "I loved X, <blurb>" "Yea, it was good." All of those are answers, but it's.. not conversation, it's… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:19 PM |
| 1 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?Haha, that's.. trade lingo, I've never met anyone who, in an actual conversation went "Yea, man, I just walked up to this hb8 then negged her right into a DHV spike, straight to an fclose" This subreddit is literally about that initial attraction, or better yet, controlling it. Learning the confidence, swagger, and generally techniques to make you come off at first glance, "Attractive", then keep that attraction going long enough to "close" (get her number) All the lingo is just the psychology b… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 03:13 PM |
| 2 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?I dunno about you, but I had a friend make an OKC accoont, pretended to be female, used one of his exes pictures (with her consent), he had 20 messages within a day, but PUA standards, she's a low HB7. My approach is based off of the fact that Girls are going to have a shitton of messages, from the awkward fedora-tipping types writing them sonnets to amateur PUAs trying to neg and seem alpha (no, forsrs, go over to /r/okcupid, there's at last 5-6 posts a day from girls going LOOK AT THIs DUDE OB… | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 05:38 AM |
| 8 | Online: opening - make it or break it. Best openers?My best luck has been either to just blow a little wit based on something on her profile, or barring that, open with a little self-deprication, segueing right into a conversation opener. "So this is the part where I'm supposed to shoot you a witty quip, or tell you a story to make you want to talk to me.. but honestly? I got nothin'(/it's 3 am and my wit's dry/I'm not going to), so instead, lets talk about what's important (/something we've got in common): <insert interesting thing from profile … | /r/seduction | 04/06/14 01:51 AM |
| 5 | Confidence is important.. I feel awkward posting on Seddit as a newbie myself, but confidence is one of those things I've had before I started studying Game. Key thing to remember is, no matter what it is, social interaction is about selling yourself. Have something you're good at? sell it. Take pride in it. For example, I'm damned good at being awkward and making really dorky jokes, I shit you not, I once had a three hour conversation with a girl about the creation of a squid army, because I mentioned I'd be more ter… | /r/seduction | 03/06/14 01:00 PM |
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