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| 0 | When you subscribed to the red pill, did you hate women, or were you merely skeptical of them and their motives? [Gynoskepsis vs. misogyny: an important distinction in analysing red pill and manosphere men]I personally was skeptical of women until it suddenly occurred to me that I have agency in choosing to be interested in women who fit RedPill mold. | /r/ExRedPill | 21/05/23 10:01 PM |
| 3 | Question on Manospheric Dating BiasMe and my dad somewhat discussed this at some point, my dad was born in 1953 in the South, so his thoughts over the last 70 years have heavily influenced mine and I've seen some overlapping in my own personal life. Some of it is self hatred amongst Black men, some of it IMO is part of the Black community, some of it is systematic. Like everyone has a part to play regardless of whose the victim and who isn't. I think the self hatred is easy to explain, but in regards to the community, the black c… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 08:53 AM |
| 3 | Does gynocentrism even exist?I think the notion of Gynocentrism in RP is a misunderstanding of consumer culture prominent in the US, which is heavily informed by Gender Essentialisms. Back when cigarettes were misinformed to be healthy, ads oriented towards men essentially pushed a masculine aesthetic, whereas for women, it pushed ideas stereotypically oriented towards the feminine such as suggesting cigarettes could help women lose weight despite being the same product. We live in an era where masculinity and femininity ar… | /r/ExRedPill | 08/05/23 08:03 AM |
| 1 | What do you think of the black pill Chanel Tails?I think Black Pill channels are like the different interpretations of Nihilism, you have positive nihilism (I am free due to lack of purpose.) and negative (my life is meaningless due to lack of purpose.) Black Pill is a very overtly negative way of accepting oneself. One can do the same but also believe that these things will not withhold them from finding their ideal partner. I also think it focuses too much on ugly men not being able to be with 10/10 partners and ignores everything in between… | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:42 PM |
| 2 | The irony of the redpillI must vouch for this, redpilled when I was 18, 22 now and stopped being redpilled two years ago and started working on myself for me and not the ideology. Women aren't flocking to me, and when they do, it's toxic and unhealthy(friend's girlfriend is flirting/touching me inappropriately, my coworkers are mad I don't talk to them when I'm busy.) Of course, I've had awesome women approach me but I'm just not currently interested in dating as I just recently moved to a new city. Setting boundaries … | /r/ExRedPill | 26/04/23 09:35 PM |
| 11 | why so many redpills are atheists?I think this is best reflected in how Andrew Tate perverts Islam and the aspects of Sharia Law that restrict women. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 03:34 AM |
| 7 | why so many redpills are atheists?Couldn't have put it better. I remember this era of YT, you could equate it as a pebble being dropped into water, The Redpill movement being one of the many waves formed. | /r/ExRedPill | 03/03/23 03:33 AM |
| 3 | What is the red pill community's obsession with women with 'daddy issues'Exactly this. Inceldom is self imposed, it's not like being hungry where it's a physical condition. | /r/ExRedPill | 25/02/23 09:09 AM |
| 4 | How do redpillers not realise they're beta's in their own logic?Once again, you keep using logic as a crutch for not actually knowing what you're talking about. Alphas and Betas literally don't exist, and has since been debunked. I'll tell you again, stop trying to teach if you don't have any interest in learning. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 02:33 AM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?Well keep in mind, Red Pill men don't even think women understand their own sexuality, their own feelings, etc. Any answer a woman would give, they'd have some deep "biological" psychoanalysis for what she actually wants. | /r/ExRedPill | 12/02/23 01:07 AM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?REDPILLERS DO NOT CARE ABOUT WOMEN, THE EXPERIENCES OF WOMEN, OR ANYTHING WOMEN OUTSIDE OF SEXUAL INTEREST. You guys have only been replying from the perspective of women, but the question is why do Red Pill guys not seek the perspective of women. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 05:51 PM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?You are strawmaning, because I'm not asserting they're telling men to cheat and you can go look at my reply and see I never stated they did. They are permitting men to cheat. Permit - "give authorization or consent to (someone) to do something." Once again the analogy, if we permit criminals to do crime they're already doing, as cheaters or the cheat prone already cheat, now there aren't consequences. It's the natural proclivity for a criminal to do crime, as is it is the natural proclivity for … | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 05:46 PM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?The point I'm making is that a RP'ers logic is to ask someone who has experience which is why they will watch RP content. Whether it's legitimate or not isn't really in the question because a RP'er is sexually frustrated and is only seeking sex, inherently they don't care about making a connection with a woman. The promise of sex by "keeping her on her toes" and being a "HVM" is more than enough because of image of RP content creators. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 05:02 PM |
| 0 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?We value logic yes, but you're actually not being logical by saying women have a universal attraction, that of which I was referring to. Additionally, you yourself stated that women are attracted to specific traits in men, so you do see the correlation to specific human traits to human attraction. "..We like men who are honest, straight forward and blunt. We like them to br confident in their own particular lifestyle, whether that be a passion for computers or running or w/e." You just described… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 03:26 AM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?That's circular reasoning at the end there, because cheating is inherently a moral dilemma and not related to biology beyond the idea that an organism seeks to reproduce as much as possible. Biology dictates a lot of things daily and yet we go against them, that is the nature of humans because our intelligence is unprecedented among all the species. What I'm addressing that you decide to digress on is the moral implications of saying men can cheat. Biology does not dictate the standard of a mora… | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 03:16 AM |
| 0 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?I feel like you're using logic very pretentiously, you're statement literally cannot be held to scrutiny because universal means it applies to all. People don't go into abusive relationships because the partner is nice, respectful, etc. it's because they've been conditioned to thinking abusive behavior is normal and healthy behavior is perceived as abnormal. There was nothing from my comment that even illicited "Red Pill" besides me giving you push back, you are toxic. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 02:56 AM |
| 3 | Angie Dufresne: Leaving this for Red Pill WomenWhat people are telling you is that essentially, ignorance obfuscates the truth, and ignorant people are unaware of their ignorance; ignorance is not willful and that is why it is bliss. To say simply that someone must be accountable, most people don't even know what they should be accountable for and if you wish to imply as so, be sure your rebuttal holds to scrutiny. | /r/ExRedPill | 11/02/23 12:02 AM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?I don't know what you're referring to by "you guys" I'm not redpill and I've been advocating against redpill by the way I've described it so far. There is no universal attraction for men or women, you as a woman cannot speak for other women the same way men cannot speak for women or other men. Attraction has insane nuance, and cannot be boiled down to universal or binary explanations. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 11:42 PM |
| 14 | What pulls people down to the Red Pill?I mean it's essentially mass emotional validation. It's like how we kind of forget good things that happen to us but remember the bad things because of how emotionally devastating it can be. RedPill can be emotionally validating for so many reasons, and when it's mixed in with practical advice like increasing your income and etc. then things start to blur. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 08:34 PM |
| 7 | For the love of god what is even the appeal of JustPearlyThingsYou hit the nail right on the head. This is literally a Blair White situation, "LOOK A WOMAN IS REVEALING THE TRUTH OF WOMEN". | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 08:25 PM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?RedPill absolutely says men can cheat. Saying a man can cheat is permitting a morally reprehensible behavior, if the laws that be started permitting crime, people already do crime despite the legal implications, now people can get away with it? That's a massive floodgate to let loose. https://youtu.be/XSDNA9OCVfI Andrew Tate on Fresh&Fit stating this. Additionally RedPill promotes cheating by men as significantly more beneficial than not to as you can be with the woman you love and still have se… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 08:21 PM |
| 1 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?Fair enough, and I would agree that most RedPill content creators aren't successful by their own measure. It's not hard to find dirt of a few that reveal they are with a single mother (which is RP blasphemy) or are themselves a legitimate cuckold and not called one in a derogatory manner. However, my rebuttal would be that most Rpillers aren't listening to a bunch of content creators, but a select few like Andrew Tate, Fresh and Fit, The Roommates, and etc. who are by some modicum well off finan… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 07:42 PM |
| 2 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?This is effectively RedPill thinking but just the opposite, you made a broad generalization of women and then proceeded to use anecdotal information as evidence for your arguement. The fact of the matter is the preferences of men nor women can truly be determined, and that one should focus on their own values and find a partner that shares and expresses those values. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 07:34 PM |
| 12 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?Exactly, what I stated, men who are only interested in carnal pleasures are not interested in the individual. By their own measure, they ARE successful. I'm trying to put you in the mindset of how a RedPiller thinks because you asked the question. They aren't interested in a genuine connection with a woman. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 12:28 PM |
| 1 | Now that you left redpill, what do you think was the real reason you were drawn to the ideology? No judgment.I shit you not, my dad tried to kill me and my mom was convinced by her boyfriend at the time to kick me out all during covid/right before lockdown. My friends at the time were moving forward in some modicum in life, and the most recent girl I talked to moved, got a boyfriend, and was still trying to talk to me which made me feel insecure. All in all, I was having an intensely awful year not fully processing some trust issues I developed in my final year of highschool, and now this had fallen on… | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 12:22 PM |
| 20 | why do Red pill men try to pick up women and do it by listening to men instead of women?Solarnova makes a good point and I will second it. To put it simply, every woman is going to answer differently from the last, as women all have different preferences in men. The idea is to ask a man who is successful with women what works for him than asking the source as you'd only be successful with the individual woman. Men who are only seeking carnal pleasure by their own interest are not interested in the individual. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 12:12 PM |
| 1 | What would have changed your mind?This is something I realized escaping red pill, and what I notice in redpilled men. Redpilled men usually don't have any core beliefs they strongly believe as most people don't really exercise their fortitude to stand for something as an individual unless emotionally motivated, this is why they fall into RP to begin with because it's informed to them emotionally. | /r/ExRedPill | 10/02/23 12:05 PM |
| 1 | Why you are most likely into the red pillJust to kind of correct you, I never really described my situation as "a small bad day" or as a "worst of life" flash. The point was that everyone has a choice because it's your trauma. The warning signs for me were there after the situation, and I should've been careful about watching material that made me feel good at the time knowing I was very angry and depressed at the time. Regardless of the extent of their trauma, a lot of men are traumatized in general. They have been forcefully taught a… | /r/ExRedPill | 04/02/23 07:46 AM |
| 5 | I’m not hear you argue here but i have genuine questionsBecause improving yourself mentally, physically, and financially is not exclusive to Red Pill, as well as it doesn't carry any of the baggage Red Pill like the isolation, misogynistic views, as well as misconceptions about financial success and self determinism. On the topic of your friends, you choose to self improve for yourself, not because you're friends are doing something you consider lame, consider your age. You're all in an exploratory time in your life, it's not like they're potheads wi… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 10:08 AM |
| 10 | Why you are most likely into the red pillFor me, Red Pill was what I turned to after an incident I had where my father tried to shoot me. I literally had a Joker moment where one bad day had entirely warped my view of the world and having to fend for myself during the beginning and through COVID-19 year 1 did not reinforce to me that I was cared for or valued. I think a lot of men who turn to Red Pill have not yet developed the required internal growth to ask "Am I the problem?" and consider objectively how their actions might affect o… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 09:47 AM |
| 14 | I’m not hear you argue here but i have genuine questionsPeople mention a lot about the women aspect of red pill, but your social life with men is in shambles too. Consider what it means to be a "High Value" man, inherently other men will have have be lower than you, including your friends. Everything is related to social hierarchy and so you won't really have friends but men who you'll constantly be determining whose the most alpha amongst you. Ex-Redpill of two years, I was always internally competing with my friends thinking they were making poor d… | /r/ExRedPill | 03/02/23 09:19 AM |
| 4 | Why Tinder isn't going to get you a girlfriend: Men are an average of 70% of dating app users in the US and 85% in EuropeThis is one of the best descriptions of it I've ever heard. Another way I've heard it described is that the same woman who would be attracted to you if you were in her circles is the same woman who would swipe left on you on Tinder. Men attribute the whole thing to whatever scapegoat, but online dating is inherently lacking in context. You date for the sake of dating and that's a lot of pressure and a lot of potential time that could be wasted. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 03:42 AM |
| 1 | i have escaped the redpill and black pill communitiesYou got the right idea behind it, your preferred sex being comfortable around you is literally one of the first steps to being a desirable partner. | /r/ExRedPill | 29/01/23 03:38 AM |
| 7 | What is the single most toxic or abusive piece of advice that Red Pill teaches its followers to do to women directly?The categorization of women in general like women are a system that can be understood. In the same breath, women are crazy, irrational, and emotional which I don't got to put two and two together (Something that cannot be understood logically cannot be categorized systematically.) | /r/ExRedPill | 19/01/23 07:02 PM |
| 3 | What turned you away from the red pill?I turned away after realizing how hollow my goals had become because of it, and that it wasn't particularly fulfilling as it appears on the surface. I mainly wanted to survive long enough to see some people suffer, have and make my money, and reconnect with an old crush and over the span of 4 years, the day came when all of those things were fulfilled. I felt awful, because despite my resentment, I was angry at those people because I cared about them and felt betrayed. Their suffering wasn't goi… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | Tell us about the woman who helped you out of the Red Pill perspective. I would love to hear your stories!I met an online friend 4 years ago at the beginning of my descent and we started talking again a year ago. I was already starting to derail from the thinking, but my misogynistic views and distorted understanding of my masculinity and how I needed to be alone were apparent. She would question my views of myself and when I begun to ask those questions without redpill content influencing me as I had stopped watching it, I started asking myself if I really even felt that way or was I really just ex… | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 05:47 PM |
| 2 | redpill is the most feminine and overly emotional groupI was literally about to reply this, part of my journey in leaving Redpill behind was understanding that masculine and feminine does not equate to positive and negative traits. Each and every person displays masculine and feminine traits regardless of their sex, but I see that OP is trying to be demeaning to redpill people, but it doesn't really add discourse as to convince Redpillers to change. | /r/ExRedPill | 15/01/23 05:39 PM |
| 1 | Former red pills can I know what damage is caused by red pill?I had just almost been killed by my dad, my mom's boyfriend at the time had convinced her to kick me out 3 weeks later and whilst she set me up with her friend, I had two months to get an apartment. I was running 3 jobs, between Starbucks, American Eagle, and Doordash just for extra cash to make enough money to get my own apartment. This was during the beginning of lockdown in 2020, and I was mainly introduced by watching Stephiscold, later watching Fresh & Fit, and eventually picking up and mai… | /r/ExRedPill | 09/01/23 06:03 PM |
| 1 | How would you go about de-radicalizing a redpilled man who's now benefiting from said beliefs?I think the missing piece is understanding here. EVERY pill in the debate holds weight, because there is no one way or method to be happy. You may not find comfort in the black pill but someone will. When I was redpilled, I was unhappy I wasn't getting girls and I wasn't rich, and I wasn't respected. When I dropped the whole pill concept all together and decided to be myself but with some of the confidence red pill convinces you to have (being more assertive, but not as gung ho as red pill would… | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 02:02 AM |
| 1 | What percentage of men even want that "High Value Male" lifestyle?For me, ever since I dropped red pill, I still want to make large sums ofmoney but to live the lifestyle I would want to live. At one point it was to attract girls, but I also learned I value really novel stuff like smoking and going to bakeries, and enjoying my little hobbies like cooking. You'll attract women, but not the women who would enjoy what you enjoy or really like you for that matter and vice versa for women attracting men. | /r/PurplePillDebate | 06/05/22 01:52 AM |
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