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| 159 | A Method of Meditation | Off Topic | l2oland | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 01:07 PM |
| 6 | New to askTRP. | l2oland | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 03:25 AM |
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| 2 | GF recently got cancer. I was planning to end things leading up to this and now don't know how to do so without being the bad guy.Well lets consider if the tables were reversed and you were the one going through treatment and gained a shit ton of weight. Do YOU genuinely think, that she would stay with you? I think we can say the chances are slim (unlike herself) that she would. So for what reason should you stay with her? Obviously, when dumping her be kind and courteous about it. Wish her the best, and let her know that you WILL be parting ways. If you really want, though it's pointless and will only lead to drama. Let h… | /r/askTRP | 20/04/21 01:39 PM |
| 1 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)Bingo. | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 05:04 PM |
| 24 | Newcomer to TRP, broke up with Ex GF after she revealed her past (24M)Once a hoe always a hoe. Why would you want to commit to a hoe? | /r/askTRP | 06/04/21 04:45 PM |
| 18 | What difference did you see when you kicked off porn addiction?The other side is filled with raw potential energy that is waiting to be converted into something else. That something else is up to you. The energy and desire that leads to wanting to fuck is perhaps one of the most potent desires for humans in existence. For me, at least at the height of my addiction with porn, I cared more about busting nuts to pixels than I did eating, spending time with my family, or fucking my (now ex) girlfriend. YES! I did not mistype that. I CARED MORE ABOUT MASTURBATIN… | /r/askTRP | 23/03/21 06:49 AM |
| 5 | Bored with sexIt's like when you eat steak everyday. Normally steak is great; however, when you eat it EVERYDAY it begins to lose the value it once had. It's still great, you're just accustomed to it. Focus on other things, and if you do decide to sleep with someone else, at the very least break up with your current bitch. I've cheated before and I've also been cheated on. Neither feel good, best just to end it before you fuck someone new. | /r/askTRP | 25/01/21 11:00 AM |
| 6 | WitchcraftIf a girl I met tells me she's interested in witchcraft I'd think she's probably bullshitting. However; on the off chance that she's not, it's best not to attract such negativity to you. There's a lot more to this universe than we're aware of, and having run into a negative entity before, I can assure you they're real. (Not going into that story.) Now more than likely she doesn't ACTUALLY practice witchcraft, that type of stuff takes a lot of discipline which average girls tend to lack. With tha… | /r/askTRP | 22/01/21 04:26 PM |
| 10 | What is up with guys in their mid-twenties with no previous sexual experience committing to “experienced” women without playing the field themselves?Two words. Scarcity Mentality. He spent years being treated like a loser, and he internalized that. Clearly his work with TRP was only superficial. He should've dated around a bit to gain experience about female nature. And then if he TRULY wanted to go with a LTR or marriage, he would've been armed with key information on how to maintain said relationship. It's unfortunate, but the best we can do is use this as a reminder to always approach with an abundance mentality and being able to walk awa… | /r/askTRP | 19/01/21 05:17 AM |
| 1 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?If you have a significant amount of money in your accounts you may want to start withdrawing it and hiding the cash. Then start attending AA and/ or gambling addiction support groups for several months. Have the chairperson sign your attendance sheet that you keep for your records. If there's a casino near you withdraw money from their on site atm and keep the receipts. If you get divorced and the judge wants to seize your assets you will have proof that you drank and gambled it all away. You wi… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:40 PM |
| 2 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?Ok Mr. Dark Triad, I see you. | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:38 PM |
| 1 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?Should she help him? Yes. Would she? Well considering women tend to look towards men to be their "rock", I don't think she would. At this point it just seems like OP is being used, and not being respected by his wife. I wouldn't be surprised if they have a dead bedroom. I'm glad your sister is doing well, and while there is a possibility that OP's wife may be depressed, why is it his responsibility to attempt to save her and gamble on something that may or may not be beneficial? 38% percent fail… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 07:37 PM |
| 1 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?Mainly because a lot of marriage counseling is aimed at telling the husband what HE is doing wrong. And if they do focus on the wife then she may just end up deflecting. A lot of women tend to not be very accountable for their actions. Also, statistics show that about 38% of couples that get this form of counseling tend to get divorced within the next 4 years. https://psycnet.apa.org/record/1991-16169-001 So now, why prolong this guy's pain? Stats aside, this guy still seems to be very blue-pill… | /r/askTRP | 13/01/21 01:21 PM |
| 3 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do?There's a reason we associate the word spoiled with rotten food. It's because it's BAD FOR YOU No one wants to be near spoiled shit, so why would you SPOIL your wife? | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 08:49 PM |
| 6 | I (31M) threatened to take my wife’s (29F) weekly stipend away if she doesn’t do more chores or get a job. Now she won’t speak to me. What do I do? The time to be Machiavellian is now. I'm sure you're starting to see how much of a burden this situation is becoming to your wellbeing. So here's what you gotta do. Play along for now, just for a little while. While she's thinking she has won, get the meanest most stringent divorce attorney you can find in your area. Tell him what's going on and ask him if you can get out of this relatively unscathed. If it's possible: THEN DO WHAT HE TELLS YOU TO DO. EXACTLY WHAT HE TELLS YOU. Don't listen to… | /r/askTRP | 12/01/21 08:42 PM |
| 1 | Women know hooking up is a bad deal for them, but they also aren't going to give up chasing hot guys and tingles. 'Ohh whats that Chad? You don't want to sign? Ok, can you just promise instead? No!? Whatever, get it over with.'HA. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 02/01/21 02:18 AM |
| 3 | Not primarily physically attracted to women anymoreYeah, at least for me it happens with experience in whatever i'm doing whether it be grilling, women, art, etc. Experience changes our worldview and once we realize that looks alone doesn't make a person enjoyable to be around, we lose interest and move onto one of the other 3.5 billion women on the planet. Good for you! | /r/askTRP | 11/12/20 03:31 PM |
| 7 | Is TikTok and OnlyFans creating a large future generation of porn starlets?As an underachieving Finance major with a minor in Classical Thot Theory my prediction is that due to the recent influx of Pussy on the web via OnlyFans and TikTok (projected to only grow in the following years) the value of the pussy stock will plummet. This is a matter of supply and demand. As the number of pussies online increases its lack of scarcity will drive its price down leaving only a few popular "content creators" to reap the benefits of a thirsty and lonely populace. Ironically, whil… | /r/askTRP | 10/12/20 05:36 AM |
| 8 | Woman in her late 20s with a history of partying, sex, drugs and alcohol now looking for a stable marriage and to settle down isn’t exactly breaking newsWow, I do not remember that Gwenivere from Merlin. lmao. I really need to read the source material. | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 05/12/20 07:45 PM |
| 7 | Are all girls aged 18 to 30 the fucking same or what?Well, most people are AVERAGE. So when dating you'll find most of them fall near or on the tip of the interesting/intelligence bell curve. The same can be said for most men, hence, the 80/20 rule. Just watch out for red flags, and be selective with whom you get serious with (if you ever decide to). You'll figure out which types of women you like, and what you want. It just takes time and literally sitting down and thinking about what you want. | /r/askTRP | 25/11/20 07:11 AM |
| 1 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderAnytime. And yes, thankfully I’m on the higher functioning side of the spectrum so I’m mostly just pegged as an eccentric person. | /r/seduction | 13/08/20 05:30 AM |
| 1 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderWork on your opener. Find a good one and send it to every girl you match with. It’s way too time consuming to personalize every message. This is what I do and it almost always guarantees a reply. Shy away from anything super simple like “hey beautiful” or overtly sexual unless you’re a 10/10 (which let’s be honest if you were you’d probably not be having this issue). Go for something that tells the girl about themselves. Women from what I’ve gathered love to be told things about themselves. (Gue… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 07:27 AM |
| 1 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderMoney and social status are a catalyst for one to get higher quality women for sure; however, it’s certainly not a necessity to have sex. Personally I’m a 22yr old jobless college student and I still have sex. I’m also a pretty average looking Hispanic guy in a small city in the South. I just have spent a lot of time and energy going from a totally autistic beta teenager to (and not in my words) a “somewhat charming” guy. It takes time and effort, there really are no shortcuts. Luckily for us th… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 07:06 AM |
| 1 | losing virginity to a random girl I found on tinderMy experience with tinder (probably due to my location -- semi-rural NC-- and SMV -- I'm a slightly overweight hispanic male 225-230lbs and 6'0) has been that it tends to attract low-quality women. It's essentially the fast food of getting laid... easy, fast, and definitely not healthy. Remember the 80/20 rule, it applies even more on tinder since it's all about looks. I've not been impressed with a single girl I've slept with on Tinder. All of the quality poon I've been with in my life has been… | /r/seduction | 12/08/20 04:53 AM |
| 8 | Tinder Mistakes You’re Probably MakingLOGISTICS! LOGISTICS! LOGISTICS! If you don't have your own place you should probably focus on getting one; **however**, I don't expect you to forgo pussy during this time. When I didn't have a place to fuck at the wee age of 18yrs old i'd end up fucking either in a car, behind some bushes in a dark park, or a motel. For the car just find an isolated area (store parking lot that's closed, large parking lot with not too many people around, sleepy residential area, use ur head man) and go to town,… | /r/TheRedPill | 24/07/20 07:33 AM |
| 1 | Failure to internalize TRP after 4+ years. Can therapy help?My advice as someone who has known of RP since he was 17 and is now 22. Meditate. Get into a deep state of meditation and then once you’re accessing the deeper aspects of your psyche plant the ideas you want to reinforce there. Meditation also helps with being able to separate yourself from the BP thinking that’s going on and allows you to act in the moment free of thought. (Which is not to say thinking is bad. Thinking is a tool and it has its place; however, the “thinker” makes a terrible mast… | /r/askTRP | 26/05/20 10:58 PM |
| 3 | She felt that her childhood love the day after she hooked up with a Chad. She says that she wished she had met him when she was older because he would be perfect as a husband."Play slut games, win slut prizes" lmao, take my upvote | /r/WhereAreAllTheGoodMen | 11/08/19 08:38 AM |
| 3 | 2nd time this week that I dream about my Oneitis with her bf and I can't sleepLearn to lucid dream/ do dream work and change the outcome of your dreams. Also, fuck other women. | /r/askTRP | 16/07/19 08:16 AM |
| 1 | Where to take girl if you're living at homeGet her to drive you | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 03:41 PM |
| 1 | Where to take girl if you're living at homeWhen I lived at home we would usually sneak into her house once her mom was asleep, or we’d drive to a heavily wooded trail and fuck there. There are also public parking decks you can go to, and if you have the funds you can go to a motel or airbnb. Just be resourceful. | /r/askTRP | 13/06/19 01:04 PM |
| 6 | Girlfriend is not happy with our one sided open relationshipI don't see a reason to budge on your one sided open relationship. You're a man so date on your own terms, not on hers. Like others have said here, you could offer exclusivity once she's close (fuck long distance). I don't really see the benefit to you though. Exclusivity fucks with your sexual strategy. I'd personally just keep spinning plates while she's in your city. | /r/askTRP | 21/03/19 09:42 PM |
| 6 | Women don't actually want their men to "be in touch with their feelings". Men don't show emotion or share their feelings because there is no benefit for them to do so in society or their relationships.Good post, here’s my take on it. A woman asking to see deeper into your feelings is 100% a shit-test. Think about it. A shit-test is basically hypergamy in action. If you fail, hypergamy tells her to find a new guy, and if not, well... it’s still your turn. How does this relate to the feelings question? Women want a man who is in control of his emotions. If this were not the case, then all of the betafied men who are partial to crying/whining in front of their SOs (assuming they even have one) w… | /r/TheRedPill | 14/03/19 02:53 PM |
| 1 | Advice for 24 year old virgin who maxxed out his SMV to get laid?C'mon man, this is simple. If your SMV is maxed out as you say it is (and you've read the sidebar), then literally go out and run daygame on girls until you've spoken to at least 10 girls for your first day (i'd set that as a goal and stop unless you see a girl you really want to talk to). Analyze your failures and learn from them. Repeat until you get laid. It can be anywhere, but i'd recommend a place where there are women you'd actually be interested in meeting. You don't seem like a clubbing… | /r/askTRP | 07/01/19 11:45 AM |
| 1 | Girl told me her friend thinks I'm cute and I didn't know what to doHow so? | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 09:59 AM |
| 2 | Girl told me her friend thinks I'm cute and I didn't know what to doAfter she said her friend thinks you’re cute, I’d go with the “That’s not surprising” | /r/askTRP | 20/07/18 03:14 AM |
| 1 | Virgin Ends It During Foreplay. Continue to See Her?Since you're asking, I'm pretty sure that in the back of your mind you know you have to next her. | /r/askTRP | 02/11/17 07:02 PM |
| 33 | No more blowjobs for me [21/m] from my girlfriend (22/f) after 3 years. Starting to feel resentful.If this was my gf, I would break up with her. It seems like an "asshole" move, but for me, dating is definitely contingent upon sex, and the moment she withholds it, she can walk. | /r/askTRP | 18/09/17 05:08 PM |
| 3 | You guys are fooling yourselves.Excellent post OP. Women, friends, etc. They're all impermanent, so when we try to clutch to them by changing ourselves, lifestyles, hobbies, we're trying to catch air in our hands, and expect it not to escape. It doesn't make sense. | /r/TheRedPill | 26/01/17 04:03 AM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationAttempt the practice for an hour with short breaks (2min) when needed. After, stay in the meditative state for as long as possible. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 07:40 PM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationI like you, and I appreciate your passion for meditation and yoga. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 06:32 PM |
| 2 | A Method of MeditationI recommend Dream Yoga by Andrew Holecek. It's an excellent primer on Tibetan yogas of the night, and western thought on lucid dreaming. When we meditate, we're not just relaxing, we're actually unlearning behaviors that have been whipped into us all of our life. Meditating while dreaming is like day-practice, but on steroids; nevertheless, you spend 1/3 of your life asleep, why not make it productive? | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 09:08 AM |
| 2 | A Method of MeditationYeah, I've actually considered going on a Vipassana retreat. I've been on a "loving and kindness" retreat before and it's really hard to describe how much retreats can influence your practice. I recommend you go, though don't be surprised if you face something you didn't expect to see. You'll let yourself know yourself, and that can be scary for some people. Good luck. | /r/TheRedPill | 24/01/17 07:41 AM |
| 1 | How do I cultivate 'good behavior' from my plates?Foot-in-the-door, my friend. Start off with small favors and gradually work your way up. | /r/askTRP | 24/01/17 04:54 AM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationOk, so you condition yourself until the practice is instinct. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 08:27 PM |
| 3 | A Method of MeditationOkay, so you cut through all the beta bullshit we've been fed. Then you concern yourself with the effectual truth of the matter, this is, behaviors and actions that produce visible effects in the real world. I'm really trying to grasp what you're saying. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 08:00 PM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationWhere did you draw your inspiration for this meditation? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 06:58 PM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationI'm curious as I've never tried Zen before, what can you tell me about their meditative practice? I'll check out that book too. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 06:54 PM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationOf course. I'm from the eastern part of the U.S. PM me and we can exchange information and talk logistics. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 06:51 PM |
| 5 | A Method of MeditationDamn dude, I read the entire comment and really vibed with it. I've been looking for people to meditate with via Skype. PM me, when I attended a retreat I found that group meditation helped me grow far more than solo practice. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 04:49 PM |
| 0 | A Method of MeditationWhat progress have you noticed using the app thus far? | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 04:44 PM |
| 1 | A Method of MeditationI've been practicing for a while now and would love to teach. Shoot me a PM if you want my help. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 04:43 PM |
| 2 | A Method of MeditationI can't say I've done sleep meditation because I'm simply not at that level of experience, but I recommend googling Dream Yoga and Sleep Yoga. It's insane. You also make a great point though, meditation isn't limited to sitting or standing. I practice mindful walking everyday to class. | /r/TheRedPill | 23/01/17 04:38 PM |
| 1 | Would you tell her you don't want to get married?I told my girlfriend straight up that I don't agree with the institution of marriage, so I don't plan on marrying. If she goes crazy over the situation, I'll just break it off. | /r/askTRP | 16/12/16 08:21 PM |
| 1 | Practice letting go of your identityCheck out Sogyal Rinpoche's chapter on impermanence from the Tibetan Book of Living and Dying. He explains the idea of "letting go" masterfully. | /r/TheRedPill | 16/12/16 03:02 AM |
| 1 | Horny? How to better control your desires.From my experience, I've always found that when I get horny, visualizing the woman I want to fuck doing something disgusting quells my libido. | /r/TheRedPill | 09/08/16 06:12 PM |
| 1 | Girl cancelled twice on me in two weeksIf she bailed on you once, automatic next. Think of it this way, if she wants to see you, she will. | /r/askTRP | 12/09/15 03:42 AM |
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